The win mentality was in response to a prior post. Having that mentality in grade 3-8 where kids sit on the bench so a few, including coaches kids that aren't very good can play, is not a good thing. Having volunteered, as you suggest, and seen what goes on inside I can tell you it's toxic. You don't know me but I do appreciate your psychoanalysis as it shows your insecurity. To reiterate, since you didn't understand what you read, the controlling parents have NOT been able to infiltrate the HS game, hence their kids sit on the JV bench, yes the JV bench. So in the HS the cream rises, hence the team is a winning one.