Ugly but true. It's reality. You will see. Either your little Rabil will be average in a few years or he will hate lacrosse due to you addiction. I've seen it a lot. Personally also. My HS Jr. was top athlete at a youth , I was an addict like most of you are now , now he hates lacrosse. Doesn't play. BTW , a top varsity football player now on LI. Just hates lacrosse. Can easily play at most colleges if he wanted.