your son obviously is not very good for you to all worked up about this. That's why the have a "C" leagues.
This is the funny part of this point. Its the parents who have a son that is the 11th best player on the team. Or the 4th attackman that are the most upset. When you see a kid 16 months older then your son on his 2022 team it piZZes you off. You like the club you like the coaches you like the tournaments but you son will have to sit behind a kid 16 months older then him for the next 6 years. So if you add up all the playing time this older kid stole from your kid over the next 2 years before high school it adds up. I get the play in your grade no matter how old you are the summer before 9th grade. But anytime before that you are a cheat and a punk to play your son down a grade for his age.
