Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
A holdback is defined by anyone who is not age appropriate for the grade they are in. Pre firsts would fit into this category as defined in Webster's


So boys born in August of the same year as someone born in Sept are not allowed to play . Sad, especially if you are a parent and was told by every school in the entire country that the best thing for your child is to wait, or try and make a best decision after a year.
1 month to 12 months age difference is what ALL OF SPORTS has used for ever.
Only now in the Helicopter world of cry baby parents do we try let our kids roll through with no real competitive atmosphere. Even though the younger always will be the older in a matter of a year. Good luck quoting Webster's in High School to your kid if your kid wants to play as an under classmen.

If you are a team in Maryland then you have holdbacks or pre first. Its the way the school systems are set up. Making a decision to hold back your kid now in 6th or 7th grade just for sports is crazy, however decisions that were made in the very beginning are being treated like a crime. Crying because your kid has to play against someone that is a few months or even a year older is sad.


Then why is it so hard for you to play your son up a grade level from 1st grade tell 8th. I get it wants they hit 9 th grade but before your son should be with the same age kids.


for the simple reason he is a 2022 graduate. He has played at his age or higher in every sport he plays, lacrosse is the only sport that he plays that is 2022.


You want an advantage in YOUTH sports. Pretty simple. Just because MIAA schools have brainwashed you and all the rest of the prefirsts that everything is ok and you are in the right grade, doesnt mean the rest of the youth sports world buys into that.
You prefirsts parents just love to moan and groan that we are only a month older or even just a year..And you prefirst parents dont want little prefisrt to be one of the youngest players on field. But you dont mind that your prefist player is the oldest. You want an advantage at Youth sports that other children born on same day and year as your prefirst dont get! Let that same child be one of the youngest, you and your child got yours. Somehow that seems fair to you.