I think I am being more positive than most of these posts....and what do you know about what I am saying to my kid? I'm telling her to do her best and enjoy playing. What I consider arrogant is when parents whose kid is already in a higher position on a team, has to make it worse by drilling that into everyone else, and cannot find it in themselves to just be encouraging to the whole club. By the way...I'm not looking for my kid to get a medal, (spelled with a D) just for her to be able to have fun in her sport without teammates on a different color team acting superior because of what mommy and daddy has them believing (because I can guarantee, the year your daughter drops down to purple, you'll be finding yourself a new club because of the stigma you're adding). And thank you, we will have fun on purple! Have fun on black stabbing each other in the backs! Chill Out!