I think the persons post above says stop talking about silly games/tournaments at this age because well, you sound like losers. But of course the know it all parents want to refute the one recruiting comment that was said in jest. The person is making fun of you people.
I'll help you all out. I think the point was to say dumb asses, if your kid hasn't been recruited by now and your not in deep conversations he probably won't be. So to pound your chest about how good your team does, well that's all you have to hold onto and it's sad.
If a 3rd grader wrote this, you are an articulate young person. If a parent wrote this, put the box of Chablis down. Recruiting continues until the 12th grade (and beyond). Just today, a 2017 committed to UVa. Back off. The coaching carousel has picked up speed and recruiting into the junior and senior year will pick up speed with it. Boys, keep working hard and getting better. You will be found.
Just an FYI I know two 2018 D1 commits that don't show up on any list, and two that are making a final decision. Don't forget that these lists are a best efforts.