Why don't they simply try out for the club they want top play for, thereby saving themselves some angst? Pick one, possibly two for a backup, but I've never understood why parents have their girls hit the circuit and tryout for 3-4 teams.
Because if your daughter gets cut by the team she wanted to play for, and didn't try out for another team, you're in a pickle.
Hard to find a spot after tryouts are over.
Not really! Sorry but enrollment is down at all these clubs and teams are being water down.