The problem with anonymous posting is the reader assumes they know who's posting. I've read everything and it is fairly obvious that's what is happening here. There are parents in every thread, posting as if they are only a bystander and even coaches who post compliments to themselves. This thread obviously has very disappointed parents in the experience for their sons. Don't assume you know who is posting. I'm sure we would all be surprised if we knew who really posted some of the comments, the good and the bad!