"if the captain of the team did this to another player he would be kick off he team and suspended from school"?
Oh lord, are you serious?
Unless it is repeated and on-going bullying, suspending someone for that kind of boyish stupidity is a bit over the top. I've seen worse in nursery school.
yes, you'd be suspended. kids have been suspended for far less in Syosset. Not sure what type of neighborhood kindergarten you went to but ..... well enough said, you wouldn't understand anyway.