Lax parents need to be smarter.
If your kid is being recruited to play for another program you may want to ask why?
Is it that they think my son is good and they need him? OR
Is it that they want to weaken a team they have never been able to beat?
Sad when you think your child is needed on the other team and your son barely plays now. (After being a starter and having a big role on the other team)
Sad when he finally does get in the game he looks pretty mediocre and shows no growth.
Pick wisely. The grass isn't always greener.
Parents have to remember that these big programs that carry a lot of kids do so to make money.