Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Holdbacks are born before sept1 2003


They are not. A holdback is a reclass. It is a kid who repeats a grade -- usually eighth grade -- for non-academic reasons. It is for the purpose of gaining an athletic advantage. A child who holds off beginning kindegarten because he has a late summer birthday is not a holdback. Ask any kindegarten teacher: he or she will tell you that boys are better off waiting if they are a late summer birthday. You might thing: what difference does a couple of months make. Well, it makes a tremendous amount of difference. If you know anything about development or have ever taken an developmental education class, you would know this. Particularly in the modern classroom where kindergarten is what first grade used to be. Students are expected to be reading! This is why pre-first came about in private schools. Kids simply are not ready for the rigor of the curriculum when they are months younger than classmates. It gives parents the prerogative of waiting until the child is ready so that they do not fail from the beginning. If you do not have the option and are not a private school person, you can opt to wait to begin kindergarten in public school if you are a late summer birthday. Do some research about school readiness. Any kindergarten teacher will agree it is advisable. And don't even get me started about a co-ed situation. Boys are typically a full year behind girls in readiness and maturity.


Don't bring logic to this conversation. Those parents knew little Tommy was going to be good at lacrosse when he got to middle school so they signed up to pay an extra $25,000 for him to go to prefirst because they knew he wouldn't be able to compete with kids his own age. HOLDBACK HOLDBACK HOLDBACK


I'm just saying it's a matter of semantics. I don't care if they go age-based. Just don't call a kid a holdback if he held off on kindegarten or did pre-first. It's not right to lump those kids in with kids who repeat eight grade at another school and already playing club lacrosse. Get real.


You might want to get real..The kid re-classed in Eight grade has only two years to get an advantage that others dont get...And he had to play on age until then poor kid smile ... The prefirst ( yes they were held-back) kid in kindergarten gets the advantage the majority of all other children dont get... from his third grade team until High School...Since it is ok for these children to play down in age according to you...Why not let any child play down that wants too??? Forget Birthdays. Let the parents decide ... Why just give children held back an advantage over all others???