If your son has "several teammates heading to top Ivies," you no doubt live in a very highly regarded school district. Not everyone can say the same thing. As such, there are many Catholic Long Islanders who like where they live but choose to spend some money -- not "waste" it -- on a Catholic education. It is a personal choice. And your disparagement of parents who make that choice is as insipid as it is obnoxious. Stick to lacrosse.