I doesn't really matter whether the kid was held back intentionally for sports, or for some other reason. who cares. the best way to compare two things(obviously these are young people don't get the wrong idea) is on an apples to apples basis. soccer and hockey are spot on and lacrosse should get with the program.

an added benefit is it will be safer to play against girls closer in age than not..

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Who cares how old your opponent is ? once you get to High school you play against girls of all ages for the rest of your playing career. If it's a tournament championship you seek, go buy your kid a trophy and stop complaining


Um because people get on here and pound their chests about how good such and such team is etc. And if you've got a group of 15 year olds playing a group of 14 year olds, one would hope they would be "better". As a separate issue, as early recruiting has gotten younger and younger, it is starting to bleed into the growth years for these girls. Being a year older in 8th and 9th grade makes a huge difference physically. Not so much later on. These Maryland teams don't pass the eye test on that. They are definitely older. As far the rich people, they don't do it for athletic money, they do it to get their kid into a better school through athletics. Sure beats having to get 1600s and 4.0 in all AP classes right?


This is too funny - my daughter plays on one of those top two Maryland teams and the parents on that team pretty well feel the same way. That there is no need to beat our chests when others talk about us enough. Regarding the ages of the girls whether held back or not - that advantage seems to wane after 8th grade. Besides - when a 9th grader is on the varsity squad - I don't think she is concerned about how old that 12th grader is coming up on her 6.


I would definitely agree. You see the biggest physical change from 7 to 8th . By 8/9 most girls have peaked and any advantage is a mute point. When the girls were 4,5 and 6 the advantage was clear and we saw it in both soccer, town and club lax. By 7th grade they were no longer the tallest, fastest and biggest and all of a sudden they just blended in. By 8th grade many of the older kids just got flat out passed by. Its much easier to be a stud in grade school when you have 25lbs and 6-10 inches of height. Those kids were just more aggressive, physical and weren't intimated. It's almost comical now because they still think they can run through 3 girls and go to go and now 9 times out of 10 lose the ball. With all that said, I don't believe any of them were intentionally held back for the athletic advantage.