if your 2nd, 3rd or 4th daughter is a 2020 you will have a very different opinion then a first timer. By the time you get to your younger girls you realize the young verbal experience was way more important to you then your child (especially if she was your first). When you get to your younger kids you are preaching academics academics and more academics and picking a school that has your child's dream major and is an overall perfect fit. Then if she plays D3 great or if she goes to a big D1 school for engineering she can play club.
Wait for the phone calls because they do come- All we do is practice, I'm tired, I cant go out with my friends, I'm hurt, I'm not getting any minutes, coach controls everything we do, can't I come home? NO! we need the $10k they are giving you and dad doesn't want to be embarrassed at work telling people you quit.
Or maybe you realize by then your kids really aren't that good
