Are you joking dad crush or legacy 2020 would destroy your 2021 team. Not only that but some of your kids might not want to play lax anymore when you are peeling them and carrying them off the field. You might compete at 2021 but playing a year up is a different animal at this age puberty has hit and kids don't play nice anymore.
Do you ever read back what you write? Defending your middle school age kid's summer lax team like it's the most important thing in the world. So juvenile and outright asinine. Making up for your own shortcomings through your kid?
