Yes it is a lesson in life, my kid driving home after one game, and Said to me that he is better then some of the kids that Play more then him. I told him your right, but I told him just like at my job Some people are very friendly with the boss/coach. So he gives them more pppporunity. He works hard it's my wife and I that have to suck up more. That is sad, and what people are sick of doing.nr7