Selfish people of priviledge so jaded in their thoughts that they are above the concept of fair play. Just asking for an equal playing field! As a parent of a pretty good player that is not a super star it is frustrating knowing that the kids in front of him are hold backs, thus being relegated to a minor role instead of a prominant role. I cannot comprehend how parents of holdbacks feel good about winning games and watching their son's compete against mostly younger competition. On age team mates pushed aside by more mature holdbacks! When I was a kid the best athletes played up, not down! Ultimately, what are you teaching your child and how are you preparing him for the the challenges that lie ahead? For us, the lesson is that life is not fair and get over it! I hope you are happy Mr & Mrs Holdback!