I have watched 100s of lacrosse games at these tournaments. There is one big hit a day not game. And it comes from some little kid running full speed into a pile and hitting someone he was not even aiming for. The big poles on D you are so scared of do push the smaller kids to the ground but as for a real hit 1 a day. And most of the biggest kids are so scared to hit anyone because they get flagged before they breath on a smaller kid. Do not worry a dad or mom like you will be yelling to the refs the big kid is playing to rough way before someone gets hurt.