Pretty pathetic that in this sport the coaches, parents and other adults actually teach that kids shouldn't care about team, team performance or being a good teammate and should never care about competing to win. Pretty soon prep school teams will talk about how it is no big deal winning their conference or beating their rivals because it is all about being the team with the most commits. I'd rather have my kid look back someday and say he played on championship teams and made all-american. The fact that you are enough of a loser to post that pretty much tells me you never did anything in a sport because nobody who did would write such a thing.