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I know the NCAA Div 1 season is still quite young, but there have been some stunning upsets by mid-majors over two well established ACC teams.

UVA 11 HPU 12 Hofstra (LI's Univ.) 10 UNC 5 Also- Harvard with two one goal wins. Ohio St 9 UMass 16 --- Loyola 9 Hopkins 8

Is this an example of the demise of early recruiting? UVA UNC and JHU are 3 of the most aggressive early recruiters. Are the 8th grade club studs getting beaten by kids that get recruited in 10th, 11th or even 12th grade? Are the late bloomers the ones that ultimately do better once they get to Div 1? I doubt High Pt, Hofstra or Loyola get 9th graders to commit to their progs.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Early recruiting is killing this sport. But people will come on here and think your jealous because your kid is not getting recruiting yet in 9th grade. Late bloomers in many cases catch up. Early bloomers in terms of growth look like studs now because they are men playing with boys. Seen it time and time again an early bloomer bypassing that early matured kid.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Its causing parity which is good.
Kids playing for UVA where mostly recruited in 9th Grade
Kids now playing with high point were recruited in 10th/11th
And the Winner is? Schools like High Point
The LOSERS The schools and coaches of these so called top programs.
They recruit a 9th Grade Hold Back because he's dominating. Now 4 years later, It all evens out, and some kids just pass them by.
Those programs that recruit too early are getting exactly what they deserve
Here is what I said in the 2016 College thread.


In my opinion the early losses by some of these high profile teams is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more parody in the sport than ever before. Too many programs taking kids on the word of a travel team coach before the kid has matured. What dont these guys get(college coaches) its the job of these travel team guys to get kids committed early and as many from their program as possible. The coaches are hedging their bets on these early recruits hoping some are as good as the travel coaches say they are. For the most part the early studs will be good players later on, but I have seen it all too often kids getting the early recognition because they were early to mature and were dominating at an early age get all of the accolades. As time passed many of the unheralded kids now were passing the so called best players. It doesn't happen all the time but it does happen a large percentage of the time. There are many factors to consider like growth, speed, athletic ability, game iq, drive etc. Two thing s I have always heard you cant teach size and speed. with all this training you can only enhance them. You will only be as tall as your meant to be and as fast as your meant to be. Drive determination heart are the uncontrollable factors coaches can not measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure. This is good for the sport and will help it grow.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is from a girls coach, but the message is the same for either gender:


February 24, 2016

Early Recruiting: Seeing It from the Other Side


By Sue Stimmel, Associate Head Lacrosse Coach at Upper Arlington High School

After more than 25 years as a college coach and athlete, I began teaching high school mathematics and coaching high school lacrosse. When recruiting for a Division I collegiate lacrosse program, I thought I understood high school students. After 4 years as a high school teacher/coach, I have concluded I really did not have a clear picture at all!
Photo courtesy of the author.Photo courtesy of the author.
Kids and High Schools Do Not Benefit from Early Recruiting

If you spend time daily with high school freshmen, you would determine quickly that they are clueless about high school, social development, individual identity… even personal hygiene. They want to be independent, yet need an overwhelming amount of guidance and direction. The maturity observed between underclassmen and upperclassmen is stunning. Their bodies change. They begin to have an idea of who they are and who they want to be. Seniors often reflect on decisions/things they did as an underclassman and laugh. The best part of teaching seniors, especially those I also taught as freshmen and sophomores, is the ability to see how they have evolved individually and to be able to have more mature and candid discussions. And even interacting with seniors, I realize how naive they still are. I feel early recruiting is bad because kids need time to grow without developmentally inappropriate external pressures. They are not ready!

In addition to these pressures, early recruiting discourages multi-sport participation, resulting in less well rounded athletes, specialization in one sport, and overuse injuries. Early recruiting also introduces a social dynamic to high school teams that focuses on individual performance. This is a time when kids should be learning to work with others, learning to deal with adversity, and forming lifelong friendships.

Parents Do Not Benefit from Early Recruiting

Communities that offer a wide array of athletic opportunities for young children are good for physical and psychological development. However, specialization at an early age through year round travel teams and camps creates a financial burden. This may also create emotional stress on the parent/child relationship. Even in conversations with parents who have had older children go through the college decision process without athletic involvement, they report feeling much more overwhelmed. They feel pressured to visit multiple colleges to create early interest and to make significant decisions without all the desired information, fearing their window of opportunity may close. The timing of these visits supersede family, academics, and athletic schedules. A well rounded student-athlete needs a balanced academic and social experience in addition to athletics. Early recruiting creates unnecessary pressure at a time when balance is already difficult to achieve.

Colleges Do Not Benefit from Early Recruiting

The IWLCA submitted two recruiting legislative proposals to the NCAA, addressing concerns about early recruiting. Support of this proposed legislation is important for collegiate recruiters. In my opinion, the potential negative effect on the individual athlete, family, and high school far outweighs the perceived benefits of early recruiting. Early recruiting is likely to result in recruited athletes who are not vested in the decision but lack the maturity to navigate subsequent change. With early specialization, I am seeing more and more overuse injuries at the high school level. Because of this students are more likely to arrive on campus with chronic injuries. Others may arrive burned out. College coaches are more likely to miss economically disadvantaged kids, who cannot afford camps, visits, and travel teams. Late bloomers are heavily penalized. College coaches are forced to make decisions without knowing the dynamics of a future team. This creates a false sense of security for both athletes and coaches because significant change in four years is inevitable.

In the past high school athletes played multiple sports for fun. By the time they were looking at colleges, if they excelled at one of their sports they went on to play at the next level. Exceptional athletes received scholarships. However, at some point playing in middle/high school became a means to an end. When I ask high school athletes why they quit a sport, many reply because they do not want to play in college or that they are not good enough to play in college. When did one become a vehicle for the other?

There are so many things that are great about scholastic athletics, but early recruiting is not one of them. It creates external pressures that are subversive to healthy adolescent development. No one wins.

Sue Stimmel is currently a math teacher at Franklin Heights High School and the Associate Head Lacrosse Coach at Upper Arlington High School, the 2013 and 2015 State Champions. She coached collegiately for 21 years, including 15 as the head coach at the Ohio State University.
Originally Posted by America's Game
Here is what I said in the 2016 College thread.


In my opinion the early losses by some of these high profile teams is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more parity in the sport than ever before. Too many programs taking kids on the word of a travel team coach before the kid has matured. What dont these guys get(college coaches) its the job of these travel team guys to get kids committed early and as many from their program as possible. The coaches are hedging their bets on these early recruits hoping some are as good as the travel coaches say they are. For the most part the early studs will be good players later on, but I have seen it all too often kids getting the early recognition because they were early to mature and were dominating at an early age get all of the accolades. As time passed many of the unheralded kids now were passing the so called best players. It doesn't happen all the time but it does happen a large percentage of the time. There are many factors to consider like growth, speed, athletic ability, game iq, drive etc. Two thing s I have always heard you cant teach size and speed. with all this training you can only enhance them. You will only be as tall as your meant to be and as fast as your meant to be. Drive determination heart are the uncontrollable factors coaches can not measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure. This is good for the sport and will help it grow.



this says it all.... Paul Rabil didn't play until 7th grade. Rob Pannel was a late bloomer. I am sure that there are many more examples...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by jackstraw
Originally Posted by America's Game
Here is what I said in the 2016 College thread.


In my opinion the early losses by some of these high profile teams is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more parity in the sport than ever before. Too many programs taking kids on the word of a travel team coach before the kid has matured. What dont these guys get(college coaches) its the job of these travel team guys to get kids committed early and as many from their program as possible. The coaches are hedging their bets on these early recruits hoping some are as good as the travel coaches say they are. For the most part the early studs will be good players later on, but I have seen it all too often kids getting the early recognition because they were early to mature and were dominating at an early age get all of the accolades. As time passed many of the unheralded kids now were passing the so called best players. It doesn't happen all the time but it does happen a large percentage of the time. There are many factors to consider like growth, speed, athletic ability, game iq, drive etc. Two thing s I have always heard you cant teach size and speed. with all this training you can only enhance them. You will only be as tall as your meant to be and as fast as your meant to be. Drive determination heart are the uncontrollable factors coaches can not measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure. This is good for the sport and will help it grow.


your right ..Lax has become a PARODY...but I like to think there is PARITY....

this says it all.... Paul Rabil didn't play until 7th grade. Rob Pannel was a late bloomer. I am sure that there are many more examples...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'm sure a lot of the best players now were the best players back in 4th grade also
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by jackstraw
Originally Posted by America's Game
Here is what I said in the 2016 College thread.


In my opinion the early losses by some of these high profile teams is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more parity in the sport than ever before. Too many programs taking kids on the word of a travel team coach before the kid has matured. What dont these guys get(college coaches) its the job of these travel team guys to get kids committed early and as many from their program as possible. The coaches are hedging their bets on these early recruits hoping some are as good as the travel coaches say they are. For the most part the early studs will be good players later on, but I have seen it all too often kids getting the early recognition because they were early to mature and were dominating at an early age get all of the accolades. As time passed many of the unheralded kids now were passing the so called best players. It doesn't happen all the time but it does happen a large percentage of the time. There are many factors to consider like growth, speed, athletic ability, game iq, drive etc. Two thing s I have always heard you cant teach size and speed. with all this training you can only enhance them. You will only be as tall as your meant to be and as fast as your meant to be. Drive determination heart are the uncontrollable factors coaches can not measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure. This is good for the sport and will help it grow.


your right ..Lax has become a PARODY...but I like to think there is PARITY....

this says it all.... Paul Rabil didn't play until 7th grade. Rob Pannel was a late bloomer. I am sure that there are many more examples...
Thanks for the corrections. I meant parity but sometimes spell check has its own mind. I still believe everyone got the gist of what I was saying.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
everyone on both sides of this debate paints with too broad a brush...some athletes will be late bloomers, some athletes will always be the best-not because they are bigger than the other 7th graders (that is the holdback trap) because they have natural physical abilities that other people don't have.

if a college coach recruits a young kid, why do the others who weren't recruited care? If a college coach doesn't recruit any young kids, why does anyone care?

early recruiting has been going on for years in many sports, lax just seeing it now because the sport has more visibility than ever before.

for the record, both hofstra and loyola recruited and verbally committed 9th graders last year.

the clear advantage will be with the early recruited kid that continues to be the stud. he or she will have more leverage entering 11th grade and be able to get more $ from some other great school...

the rest of the argument or debate is pointless and silly. parents and kids that want to be recruited early-for whatever reason, will chase the dream. parents and kids that don't think it is a wise move, will simply wait. why anyone seems to think it is the downfall of lax is beyond me.

the game is expanding, not shrinking. more d-1 teams...but no professional game so why comment on decisions of others? unless of course you wanted your kid to be recruited and he or she wasn't...




Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
See the tough guy dad who has to say the ones complaining are the kids not getting recruited. No it's many people who love the game and now see the craziness of holdbacks, early recruiting and travel programs making hand over fists. It's not growing the game it's ruining it.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm sure a lot of the best players now were the best players back in 4th grade also


Good players in fourth grade? What truly defines a good player in 4th grade?

It's my opinion that if a player has had good training he can be a standout in 4th grade. This used to be the children of past collegiate players, the younger sibling of a player etc. As time has gone by now everyone is dreaming of their kid playing college ball and as a result kids are being introduced to the game at a very young age. There will be less dominant 4th graders because so many are playing the game. What will eventually happen is the athlete who is a standout athlete who truly loves the game and is playing because they love it and it's not mom or dad's dream will separate themselves from the pack. With so many people now playing the sport is growing and as a result more colleges can field competitive teams.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
everyone on both sides of this debate paints with too broad a brush...some athletes will be late bloomers, some athletes will always be the best-not because they are bigger than the other 7th graders (that is the holdback trap) because they have natural physical abilities that other people don't have.

if a college coach recruits a young kid, why do the others who weren't recruited care? If a college coach doesn't recruit any young kids, why does anyone care?

early recruiting has been going on for years in many sports, lax just seeing it now because the sport has more visibility than ever before.

for the record, both hofstra and loyola recruited and verbally committed 9th graders last year.

the clear advantage will be with the early recruited kid that continues to be the stud. he or she will have more leverage entering 11th grade and be able to get more $ from some other great school...

the rest of the argument or debate is pointless and silly. parents and kids that want to be recruited early-for whatever reason, will chase the dream. parents and kids that don't think it is a wise move, will simply wait. why anyone seems to think it is the downfall of lax is beyond me.

the game is expanding, not shrinking. more d-1 teams...but no professional game so why comment on decisions of others? unless of course you wanted your kid to be recruited and he or she wasn't...



I think you make some very valid points. Athletes are athletes yes but at a very young age athletic ability is truly not reached until puberty. Yes yhere are the kids who just have it, and will always have it. That it factor can not be taught. The athlete who is playing with other players his age that has hit puberty or matured more quickly will of course stand out. I don't think people have an issue with the early recruiting aspects I think that people have an issue with the so-called old guard not doing as well as they normally do because of early recruiting failures. Look at the teams that have been early recruiters Virginia, Hopkins, and Syracuse, they have not done that well for them. These schools will always get interest from the best players but they are taking a risk on taking players in 8th 9th and maybe even 10th grade. When their roster slots are full this leaves room for other teams like High Point and other colleges to get great players that might have not fully matured until 11 or 12 grade and were passed over. Not all great players play for great teams either so they don't go to the best showcases or tournaments. As a result they are not seen maybe until later on in high school. The expansion of the game is great. Makes for really exciting Saturday lacrosse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Not really directly on topic, but Loyola very recently won the national title (2012) before the early recruiting kicked in,so the hounds playing even with and beating JHU should not be a shocker when Hopkins hasn't won it all since 2007.

So it wasn't really working all that great before early recruiting either.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not really directly on topic, but Loyola very recently won the national title (2012) before the early recruiting kicked in,so the hounds playing even with and beating JHU should not be a shocker when Hopkins hasn't won it all since 2007.

So it wasn't really working all that great before early recruiting either.



Early recruiting has been around for a very long time. Most of the top players knew where they were going even back in the day by 11th grade. It's the publicity of early recruiting that's the phenomenon that we are seeing. This is all due to the Internet, social media, and coverage of the game. The 9th and 10th grade recruiting is new, this is changing the game but not really hurting it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It's not about the 9th grade players committing early and the consequences of a 14-15 yo picking a college. It's about mom and dad standing under the club team tent, after having spent thousands of dollars, feeling like their investment paid off. They can puff their chest out and say, "you're just jealous your late bloomer can't go to Hopkins." And why would the club directors counsel them to wait? They can't wait to list it on their website to get more suckers in the pipeline as early as possible. Whole process is whacked.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by jackstraw
I know the NCAA Div 1 season is still quite young, but there have been some stunning upsets by mid-majors over two well established ACC teams.

UVA 11 HPU 12 Hofstra (LI's Univ.) 10 UNC 5 Also- Harvard with two one goal wins. Ohio St 9 UMass 16 --- Loyola 9 Hopkins 8

Is this an example of the demise of early recruiting? UVA UNC and JHU are 3 of the most aggressive early recruiters. Are the 8th grade club studs getting beaten by kids that get recruited in 10th, 11th or even 12th grade? Are the late bloomers the ones that ultimately do better once they get to Div 1? I doubt High Pt, Hofstra or Loyola get 9th graders to commit to their progs.




on the other side of the coin Drexel coach Voelker has been vocal in his refusal to early recruit and it is commendable, but they lost to UVA 14 - 7. making the argument that early recruiting is so bad one would think that with the later recruiting they would do better, I am not for or against early recruiting but you need to look at both sides.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not really directly on topic, but Loyola very recently won the national title (2012) before the early recruiting kicked in,so the hounds playing even with and beating JHU should not be a shocker when Hopkins hasn't won it all since 2007.

So it wasn't really working all that great before early recruiting either.



Early recruiting has been around for a very long time. Most of the top players knew where they were going even back in the day by 11th grade. It's the publicity of early recruiting that's the phenomenon that we are seeing. This is all due to the Internet, social media, and coverage of the game. The 9th and 10th grade recruiting is new, this is changing the game but not really hurting it.


Share a sideline with the parents. Early recruiting is hurting the game because its not a team game anymore. Gotta get mine
Of course Drexel is against early recruiting. Schools like Drexel don't have the pedigree that let's say the Ivys, Hopkins, Duke, and Virginia have so they don't get the pick of the litter. Things is with more players playing and only 12.6 Scholarships there will be enough talented players to go around. Also with the schools that do fill their rosters up early they often overlook very good players in 9th and 10th grade because the haven't reached their potential yet. The thing is some of these early recruits might have reached their max potential in 9th grade and now everyone else is passing them.

As for Loyola they caught lightning in a bottle that season. The stars aligned and they won their title. Won't happen for a while the way they did it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Loyola beating Hopkins is not a major upset. Hopkins should have lost to Navy. Loyola is legit and will be around come May.

Hofstra always comes up with a big regular season win and then disappears come the end of the season. IMO UNC really needs to start looking at their coaching staff, with the talent they stockpile every year its bewildering that they havent made a final four in forever it seems.

Virginia appears to be on a downward slide and one can only wonder if the game is starting to pass Starsia by. They can get any recruit they want for the most part so I dont think early recruiting is their only issue.


Although I am not am early recruiting advocate I think there are different forces at work here as well. I think there is so much talent out there now that parity was inevitable. Coaches have expanded their recruiting to non traditional markets and kids from all over are starting to play and excel at the game.

I think a fascinating study would be to look at a Top 5 lax program and look at their impact players. Look at when they verballed and where they played high school and club lacrosse and see if any patterns emerge.

Having said all that, does anyone here believe that this years final four will be dramatically different than years past? I think come May the same top programs will be at the final four . Looking at the last 5 years, the same teams end up playing on championship weekend so Im really not sure how that proves or disproves the theory that early recruiting is hurting the sport. It will be fascinating to see what happens over the next few years and if any changes are made.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by jackstraw
Originally Posted by America's Game
Here is what I said in the 2016 College thread.


In my opinion the early losses by some of these high profile teams is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more parity in the sport than ever before. Too many programs taking kids on the word of a travel team coach before the kid has matured. What dont these guys get(college coaches) its the job of these travel team guys to get kids committed early and as many from their program as possible. The coaches are hedging their bets on these early recruits hoping some are as good as the travel coaches say they are. For the most part the early studs will be good players later on, but I have seen it all too often kids getting the early recognition because they were early to mature and were dominating at an early age get all of the accolades. As time passed many of the unheralded kids now were passing the so called best players. It doesn't happen all the time but it does happen a large percentage of the time. There are many factors to consider like growth, speed, athletic ability, game iq, drive etc. Two thing s I have always heard you cant teach size and speed. with all this training you can only enhance them. You will only be as tall as your meant to be and as fast as your meant to be. Drive determination heart are the uncontrollable factors coaches can not measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure. This is good for the sport and will help it grow.



this says it all.... Paul Rabil didn't play until 7th grade. Rob Pannel was a late bloomer. I am sure that there are many more examples...


To be fair, Rabil and Pannell are both freaks of nature. Not fair to compare them to regular humans
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by jackstraw
Originally Posted by America's Game
Here is what I said in the 2016 College thread.


In my opinion the early losses by some of these high profile teams is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more parity in the sport than ever before. Too many programs taking kids on the word of a travel team coach before the kid has matured. What dont these guys get(college coaches) its the job of these travel team guys to get kids committed early and as many from their program as possible. The coaches are hedging their bets on these early recruits hoping some are as good as the travel coaches say they are. For the most part the early studs will be good players later on, but I have seen it all too often kids getting the early recognition because they were early to mature and were dominating at an early age get all of the accolades. As time passed many of the unheralded kids now were passing the so called best players. It doesn't happen all the time but it does happen a large percentage of the time. There are many factors to consider like growth, speed, athletic ability, game iq, drive etc. Two thing s I have always heard you cant teach size and speed. with all this training you can only enhance them. You will only be as tall as your meant to be and as fast as your meant to be. Drive determination heart are the uncontrollable factors coaches can not measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure. This is good for the sport and will help it grow.



this says it all.... Paul Rabil didn't play until 7th grade. Rob Pannel was a late bloomer. I am sure that there are many more examples...


To be fair, Rabil and Pannell are both freaks of nature. Not fair to compare them to regular humans


Rabil is a physical specimen, yes. He's not the first one either but he has embraced his stardom better than most and as a result has launched himself into the limelight of a sport that is begging for a superstar. Someone that can put lacrosse on the map.

As for Pannel what makes you call him a freak. He was recruited to play at Quinnipiac decided to PG and went to Cornell. He's basically the Rudy of lacrosse. He's 5 foot nothing weighs a hundred and nothing and is considered one of the best to play the game. He also has grasped the limelight and is a charismatic figure in the lacrosse world.

Another person that is doing great things for lacrosse is The Beast Greg Gurenlion. It's personalities like these we need at the helme of lacrosse to help it grow. There were many before but these are the guys now doing it in the world of social media and blazing a trail.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It's not about the 9th grade players committing early and the consequences of a 14-15 yo picking a college. It's about mom and dad standing under the club team tent, after having spent thousands of dollars, feeling like their investment paid off. They can puff their chest out and say, "you're just jealous your late bloomer can't go to Hopkins." And why would the club directors counsel them to wait? They can't wait to list it on their website to get more suckers in the pipeline as early as possible. Whole process is whacked.



i guess i am missing your point. you are annoyed because some people want to pretend they are better?

isn't that what some people do in all aspects of life? Avoid them and move on...has nothing to do with early recruiting...

example, if boy down the street was committed verbally to Harvard, but told no one, would you or anyone else care?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not really directly on topic, but Loyola very recently won the national title (2012) before the early recruiting kicked in,so the hounds playing even with and beating JHU should not be a shocker when Hopkins hasn't won it all since 2007.

So it wasn't really working all that great before early recruiting either.



Early recruiting has been around for a very long time. Most of the top players knew where they were going even back in the day by 11th grade. It's the publicity of early recruiting that's the phenomenon that we are seeing. This is all due to the Internet, social media, and coverage of the game. The 9th and 10th grade recruiting is new, this is changing the game but not really hurting it.


Share a sideline with the parents. Early recruiting is hurting the game because its not a team game anymore. Gotta get mine


Really, i gotta get mine is the attitude ?

Two boys and one girl-one in college (d-3 at great school) and two in process, one of which is an early commit to d-1 with $. if you are on the team you describe-my advice-leave and find another. we have been lucky i suppose and the kids are there to play and enjoy and have fun. when the fun is gone-move on...

now, if you go to maverick or jake reed, that attitude is to be expected...

good luck

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Pannell is a freak of a lacrosse player, just a rare and special talent and happens to be an exceptional athlete. (oh and Rudy had absolutely no physical gifts or special athletic ability, just the heart of a lion)
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Pannell is a freak of a lacrosse player, just a rare and special talent and happens to be an exceptional athlete. (oh and Rudy had absolutely no physical gifts or special athletic ability, just the heart of a lion)


I wasn't knocking Pannell. I said he is one of the faces of lacrosse and one of the best to play the game. Rudy is my all-time favorite movie. Like you said the character in the movie exemplified heart. Rob is considered one of the best to play but his path to get there wasn't a typical one. Think about it he wasn't wooed and picked up by a Duke or even Cornell right out of school. He did what worked for him. Now if you lined up Perkovic ND, Jones Duke, Rabil and Pannell. Odds are Pannell would be the last guy picked. Yet he tore it up on the lacrosse field. In his own words" I was never the fastest, strongest, biggest, or most dominating figure" "I matured physically from junior to senior year from 5'6 to 5'9 165 to 185" (lacrosse magazine 2012)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Pannell is a freak of a lacrosse player, just a rare and special talent and happens to be an exceptional athlete. (oh and Rudy had absolutely no physical gifts or special athletic ability, just the heart of a lion)


I wasn't knocking Pannell. I said he is one of the faces of lacrosse and one of the best to play the game. Rudy is my all-time favorite movie. Like you said the character in the movie exemplified heart. Rob is considered one of the best to play but his path to get there wasn't a typical one. Think about it here wasn't wooed and picked up by a Duke or even Cornell right out of school. He did what worked for him. Now if you lined up Perkovic ND, Jones Duke, Rabil and Pannell. Odds are Pannell would be the last guy picked. Yet he tore it up on the lacrosse field. In his own words" I was never the fastest, strongest, biggest, or most dominating figure" "I matured physically from junior to senior year from 5'6 to 5'9 165 to 185" (lacrosse magazine 2012)


To take your point further, I have heard many D1 coaches state they hold spots for the late bloomers and kids they may have missed. They may be stockpiling kids early but they arent discounting the late bloomers or kids that went under the radar. The 2017 class has had several kids switch their commitments from mid and lower D1 programs to Top 10 programs and I may be wrong here but I think thats the way it has always been. Although I think early recruiting is an issue, I just think its the fact that their are so many talented kids playing now and the mid and lower level schools are scooping them up and becoming competitive.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Pannell is a freak of a lacrosse player, just a rare and special talent and happens to be an exceptional athlete. (oh and Rudy had absolutely no physical gifts or special athletic ability, just the heart of a lion)


I wasn't knocking Pannell. I said he is one of the faces of lacrosse and one of the best to play the game. Rudy is my all-time favorite movie. Like you said the character in the movie exemplified heart. Rob is considered one of the best to play but his path to get there wasn't a typical one. Think about it he wasn't wooed and picked up by a Duke or even Cornell right out of school. He did what worked for him. Now if you lined up Perkovic ND, Jones Duke, Rabil and Pannell. Odds are Pannell would be the last guy picked. Yet he tore it up on the lacrosse field. In his own words" I was never the fastest, strongest, biggest, or most dominating figure" "I matured physically from junior to senior year from 5'6 to 5'9 165 to 185" (lacrosse magazine 2012)


But, the oldest....
per Ty Xanders--- the 100th 2019 just committed. 100 public commits by Feb of their freshman years! How many have committed but have not made it public yet? Md has like 12 kids already.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
With the exception of the kids from Texas and Florida, most haven't even played a high school game yet.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by jackstraw
per Ty Xanders--- the 100th 2019 just committed. 100 public commits by Feb of their freshman years! How many have committed but have not made it public yet? Md has like 12 kids already.


Duke doesn't want the kids to announce because it might be a little embarrassing especially if you are one of the 20 kids. It's like being in a room of 30 kids and being told you are the one we want and find out that 10 kids were told the same thing...you will have 150 kids commit and half will change by junior year if they can. At this point if Maryland comes and wants you to commit , how can you say yes
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by jackstraw
per Ty Xanders--- the 100th 2019 just committed. 100 public commits by Feb of their freshman years! How many have committed but have not made it public yet? Md has like 12 kids already.


Duke doesn't want the kids to announce because it might be a little embarrassing especially if you are one of the 20 kids. It's like being in a room of 30 kids and being told you are the one we want and find out that 10 kids were told the same thing...you will have 150 kids commit and half will change by junior year if they can. At this point if Maryland comes and wants you to commit , how can you say yes


Danowski will take the best underclassmen all day long. As opposed to being at Hofstra and begging for LI kids to stay. Even his own son headed south.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by jackstraw
per Ty Xanders--- the 100th 2019 just committed. 100 public commits by Feb of their freshman years! How many have committed but have not made it public yet? Md has like 12 kids already.


Duke doesn't want the kids to announce because it might be a little embarrassing especially if you are one of the 20 kids. It's like being in a room of 30 kids and being told you are the one we want and find out that 10 kids were told the same thing...you will have 150 kids commit and half will change by junior year if they can. At this point if Maryland comes and wants you to commit , how can you say yes


According to recruiting rundown website, Maryland has 14 commits from 2019
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by jackstraw
per Ty Xanders--- the 100th 2019 just committed. 100 public commits by Feb of their freshman years! How many have committed but have not made it public yet? Md has like 12 kids already.


Duke doesn't want the kids to announce because it might be a little embarrassing especially if you are one of the 20 kids. It's like being in a room of 30 kids and being told you are the one we want and find out that 10 kids were told the same thing...you will have 150 kids commit and half will change by junior year if they can. At this point if Maryland comes and wants you to commit , how can you say yes


According to recruiting rundown website, Maryland has 14 commits from 2019



To be honest I wouldn't want my son to be one of them. It's just a numbers game to the university obviously.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If I was the parent of one of the 14 I wouldn't be putting the video camera away just yet.

But seriously, to a degree I get early recruiting, but not recruiting an enitre class when they are freshmen. Kids are playing more lacrosse than ever before, are getting more advanced and better coaching at an earlier age so they are more polished than the players of even five years ago.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Early recruiting is hurting this sport. My son is a freshman and being recruited by D1 schools and inside I know there are a few juniors on the HS team that are better , physically and maybe skill too , that have no offers yet. Why ? I spent a lot of money on exposure. This is hurting the HS teams. Kids don't get fair chances because of "hype" from other underclass men. When I was HS in the 80's very rare that a freshman was on varsity. It was seniors and juniors and the younger waited their turn. Now it's a rush to "pull them up".
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by jackstraw
per Ty Xanders--- the 100th 2019 just committed. 100 public commits by Feb of their freshman years! How many have committed but have not made it public yet? Md has like 12 kids already.


Duke doesn't want the kids to announce because it might be a little embarrassing especially if you are one of the 20 kids. It's like being in a room of 30 kids and being told you are the one we want and find out that 10 kids were told the same thing...you will have 150 kids commit and half will change by junior year if they can. At this point if Maryland comes and wants you to commit , how can you say yes



Agree, and is one to spew his "parents are crazy" nonsense. As if that is the reason. Parents are crazy because now colleges are committing 9th graders. College coaches are not committing 9th graders because they were asked to do so by crazy parents.
Danowski will take the best underclassmen all day long. As opposed to being at Hofstra and begging for LI kids to stay. Even his own son headed south.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
They are better right NOW. Do you think your own will be better then them in 2 years ? Thats the question. Coaches would love the NCAA to ban recruiting at such a young age, the NCAA won't do it because they thing enforcement will be a nightmare. The colleges are then put on a position to try and project where a a 14 year old kid will be in 5 years. On the bright side for som of the lesser colleges so to speak, the big dogs being forced to gamble on younger players means more misses and while those misses will fill up rosters by default other colleges can find late bloomers who emerge in Jr or even SR year.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Early recruiting is hurting this sport. My son is a freshman and being recruited by D1 schools and inside I know there are a few juniors on the HS team that are better , physically and maybe skill too , that have no offers yet. Why ? I spent a lot of money on exposure. This is hurting the HS teams. Kids don't get fair chances because of "hype" from other underclass men. When I was HS in the 80's very rare that a freshman was on varsity. It was seniors and juniors and the younger waited their turn. Now it's a rush to "pull them up".
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Who's son headed south?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Who's son headed south?


Danowski's kid went to Duke.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Come on early recruiting stopping, laughable. How many 2020's have been talked about forget 2019's & 2018's. Please!

But reality tells you, you have a better overall view if you wait till rising Jr. Summer. but like all businesses you need to do your homework and know who those kids will be.

Personally I think early recruiting is a joke but I also think limiting recruitment at any age is a bigger joke. Okay you recruited a 7th grader if it work out great if not your an embarrassment. Get rid of the limits and see after a few years how it goes back to recruiting the best players without a frenzy of potentially marginal players. I think it would be

Freshman year 9th grade 20% would be recruited
Sophomore year 10th grade 35% would be recruited
Junior year 11th grade 40% would be recruited
Senior year 12th grade 5% would be recruited.

Would this be so bad. of course everyone will also try to under cut eachother but high risk high reward.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'd be very curious what percentage of these early 2019 recruits are repeats/holdbacks who stood out playing younger competition during 8th grade summer. (It's the grade year when most decide to repeat in the northeast) And then again the majority could be grade/age appropriate, and would lessen the outcry about summer teams stacked with repeaters.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
From what I'm told a good percentage are holdbacks out of the 2019 class. And the rest are just matured early physically. I mean come on West Point has two verbals already. Very surprised at that.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
"freaks of nature" ...take it easy there guy.. this is niche sport. neither of those dudes could make a D3 roster in any of the mainstream sports like football or basketball- sports without all these high priced barriers to entry that lacrosse has. don't get crazy, JJ Watt is a freak of nature.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Never said freaks of nature there sparky. Just said these kids are matured physically. I have seen a lot of those boys. Many look like they are 16 or 17. It helps when you mature physically at this age.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Never said freaks of nature there sparky. Just said these kids are matured physically. I have seen a lot of those boys. Many look like they are 16 or 17. It helps when you mature physically at this age.


I think he was referring to another comment about Rabil and Pannell
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Never said freaks of nature there sparky. Just said these kids are matured physically. I have seen a lot of those boys. Many look like they are 16 or 17. It helps when you mature physically at this age.


I wouldn't say the LI kids look that much more mature. or I think they have more left to do
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"freaks of nature" ...take it easy there guy.. this is niche sport. neither of those dudes could make a D3 roster in any of the mainstream sports like football or basketball- sports without all these high priced barriers to entry that lacrosse has. don't get crazy, JJ Watt is a freak of nature.


Sorry there Johnny Bag O Donuts, I was referring to freaks of nature in the context of them being exceptional lacrosse players. Oh and I completely disagree with you, both Rabil and Pannell could easily play D3 Football or basketball. Rabil especially is an exceptional athlete.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The Long Island kids that have committed are very mature physically. I know them and seen them play many many times.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"freaks of nature" ...take it easy there guy.. this is niche sport. neither of those dudes could make a D3 roster in any of the mainstream sports like football or basketball- sports without all these high priced barriers to entry that lacrosse has. don't get crazy, JJ Watt is a freak of nature.


Sorry there Johnny Bag O Donuts, I was referring to freaks of nature in the context of them being exceptional lacrosse players. Oh and I completely disagree with you, both Rabil and Pannell could easily play D3 Football or basketball. Rabil especially is an exceptional athlete.
Jim Brown was a freak of nature and a lacrosse first athlete..... OK there guy
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"freaks of nature" ...take it easy there guy.. this is niche sport. neither of those dudes could make a D3 roster in any of the mainstream sports like football or basketball- sports without all these high priced barriers to entry that lacrosse has. don't get crazy, JJ Watt is a freak of nature.


Hate to break it to you Johnny Football, the better athletes are on the Lacrosse field in D3. My son plays D3 Lacrosse, the football coach would take him and his friends any day. In fact, one kid had a couple of FCS D1 offers to play Football. Others are D1 Lax transfers. You'd be surprised at the level of Athletes... A Friend of mine's son is playing top 5 D3 lax next year, he had Patriot league level football offers. Chose to play Lax, FB coach at the school is begging him to play Football too. Trust me, no one is asking any of the Football players in D3 to play Lax.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]
Trust me, no one is asking any of the Football players in D3 to play Lax.


I do not know if this is completely true. You are saying there are no D3 football players that played very good lax in HS but choose to play football in college and the college Lax coach has not asked them to play on their team? Hey top level D3 lax is pretty damn good, but I think that is a silly statement. As I know first hand it is not true.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]
Trust me, no one is asking any of the Football players in D3 to play Lax.


I do not know if this is completely true. You are saying there are no D3 football players that played very good lax in HS but choose to play football in college and the college Lax coach has not asked them to play on their team? Hey top level D3 lax is pretty damn good, but I think that is a silly statement. As I know first hand it is not true.


I am not stating that for the entirety of all D3 programs. Only my son's school. It is the only place I can speak about. However, in general, save for a few football skill players I think I may be more right than wrong for D3. D1 definitely not true. If you could get some of those athletes on the Lacrosse field it would change the game. Think of Elliott on attack, Henry on Midfield, and Bosa with a pole... WOW!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The Long Island kids that have committed are very mature physically. I know them and seen them play many many times.


They are developed and mature versus other 14, 15 year olds. That isn't a sustainable advantage. Anyone who has experience with high level college sports knows that except for a few lacrosse coaches. I guess we could suppose that a few college lacrosse coaches really know better, but I'll take the other side of that bet every time.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It is sustainable advantage right now. But let's see 4 yrs from now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The Long Island kids that have committed are very mature physically. I know them and seen them play many many times.


They are developed and mature versus other 14, 15 year olds. That isn't a sustainable advantage. Anyone who has experience with high level college sports knows that except for a few lacrosse coaches. I guess we could suppose that a few college lacrosse coaches really know better, but I'll take the other side of that bet every time.


So are you saying the kids that committed in 9th and 10th grade are only doing so because they are more mature? Skill, ability and overall athleticism have nothing to do with it?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The Long Island kids that have committed are very mature physically. I know them and seen them play many many times.


They are developed and mature versus other 14, 15 year olds. That isn't a sustainable advantage. Anyone who has experience with high level college sports knows that except for a few lacrosse coaches. I guess we could suppose that a few college lacrosse coaches really know better, but I'll take the other side of that bet every time.


So are you saying the kids that committed in 9th and 10th grade are only doing so because they are more mature? Skill, ability and overall athleticism have nothing to do with it?


Might also have something to do with who they play for? just sayin
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The Long Island kids that have committed are very mature physically. I know them and seen them play many many times.


They are developed and mature versus other 14, 15 year olds. That isn't a sustainable advantage. Anyone who has experience with high level college sports knows that except for a few lacrosse coaches. I guess we could suppose that a few college lacrosse coaches really know better, but I'll take the other side of that bet every time.


The comment was the Li kids. I don't think they are overtly any more mature. The early commit are more mature because they are older!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No I'm talking about mature physically. If your 6'1" 180 lbs at 14 don't tell me your not gonna be better then the 5'4" 125 lb kid that just started puberty. I have seen some of those boys and they are done growing. Kids catch up. But you do have an advantage if you went through puberty already.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.


I agree with much of what you say but there are some things that I would like to point out.

Where are all of these late bloomers? If there are so many late bloomers out there then why do high school coaches bring up so many 9th graders? There is talk on another thread about Garden City, Massapeaqua, Syosset etc.. "the prestigious" programs bringing up a bunch of 9th graders. If there are so many late bloomers why the need to bring up the 9th graders. If college coaches can't tell who is going to develop down the road what make you think the HS coaches can? Is it possible that once the HS coach tags the kid as a can't miss (brings him up in 9th grade) the coach will continue to play the kid even if he doesn't pan out? Will the coach be able to admit he was wrong about the kid or will he just keep playing him?

From what I have seen first hand over the past few years Club Directors have very little influence on the college coaches. However, the club you play for has bas become more important. In recent years the top clubs have joined forces and they send their top teams to exclusive tournaments. Head coaches from the majority of Division 1 programs are all over these tournaments all summer and fall paying particular attention to the rising 9th and 10th graders. College coaches will watch a player multiple times before making an offer (they do not make the offer because the club director tells them to).

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.


I agree with much of what you say but there are some things that I would like to point out.

Where are all of these late bloomers? If there are so many late bloomers out there then why do high school coaches bring up so many 9th graders? There is talk on another thread about Garden City, Massapeaqua, Syosset etc.. "the prestigious" programs bringing up a bunch of 9th graders. If there are so many late bloomers why the need to bring up the 9th graders. If college coaches can't tell who is going to develop down the road what make you think the HS coaches can? Is it possible that once the HS coach tags the kid as a can't miss (brings him up in 9th grade) the coach will continue to play the kid even if he doesn't pan out? Will the coach be able to admit he was wrong about the kid or will he just keep playing him?

From what I have seen first hand over the past few years Club Directors have very little influence on the college coaches. However, the club you play for has bas become more important. In recent years the top clubs have joined forces and they send their top teams to exclusive tournaments. Head coaches from the majority of Division 1 programs are all over these tournaments all summer and fall paying particular attention to the rising 9th and 10th graders. College coaches will watch a player multiple times before making an offer (they do not make the offer because the club director tells them to).



How many studs can one town have so that's why some towns bring up freshman. Usually the freshmen brought up are the early to mature/the old for their grade kids. Yes they are skilled and not a knock against them but to be competitive some towns need to bring up freshman. The bringing up of freshman has a lot to do with all these club guys being involved in high school teams. What happened to earning your stripes. Play JV and at least one year then play varsity. It's rush them up, it's mom and dad pulling strings, it's club directors influencing who gets brought up. Not to say there are those not deserving. I played varsity in 9th grade. I didn't ask for it, but was brought up. My parents had no clue they were too busy working. Things have changed so much. Why are parents so involved with what a high school coaches does? I think a lot is being forced. Let the kids develop. Haven't you seen the trend of coaches constantly changing. You will rarely see a coach around for a long time like Manhasset and Farmingdale.

In regards to the club directors not having influence, I think your wrong. If a guy like SL from an established club is calling saying he has a can't miss players in 8th and 9th grade these college coaches are listening. These club coaches are using their relationships they have built in the lacrosse community to advocate for their players. You don't think MC is calling every coach he knows to get his players recruited . Try and call college coaches as a parent they really aren't calling you back. Even an established high school coaches has those relationships. Schools like Chaminade, GC, and Manhasset to name a few. I have seen it first hand and been in the room when those calls are made. Yes the college coach and their staff will watch a player play but having your club or high school coach contact them and letting them know your on the map helps tremendously. Playing for the right club and going to the right tournaments or being selectEd to Philly Showcase, Jake Reed or Maverick because your club Coach has 4 automatic bids helps. The best players don't always get these bids. The players on the right clubs do.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.


I agree with much of what you say but there are some things that I would like to point out.

Where are all of these late bloomers? If there are so many late bloomers out there then why do high school coaches bring up so many 9th graders? There is talk on another thread about Garden City, Massapeaqua, Syosset etc.. "the prestigious" programs bringing up a bunch of 9th graders. If there are so many late bloomers why the need to bring up the 9th graders. If college coaches can't tell who is going to develop down the road what make you think the HS coaches can? Is it possible that once the HS coach tags the kid as a can't miss (brings him up in 9th grade) the coach will continue to play the kid even if he doesn't pan out? Will the coach be able to admit he was wrong about the kid or will he just keep playing him?

From what I have seen first hand over the past few years Club Directors have very little influence on the college coaches. However, the club you play for has bas become more important. In recent years the top clubs have joined forces and they send their top teams to exclusive tournaments. Head coaches from the majority of Division 1 programs are all over these tournaments all summer and fall paying particular attention to the rising 9th and 10th graders. College coaches will watch a player multiple times before making an offer (they do not make the offer because the club director tells them to).

There is much talk about the "late bloomers" and where are they? The "late bloomer" is going to become extinct like the dinoaurs. Why is that? Because there is so much pressure to win at an early age on club teams, all the "early bloomers" are put on the A teams, regardless of their size. And when I say "early bloomer" I'm talking lax skill not physical size. A three foot eight kid who can sling it lefty will make the team all day long over a 4 foot four kid who is still trying to figure out what end of the stick to hold. So the tiny tyke plays with the best players and gets the best coaching. Fast forward to 8th grade and that A travel team is rolling, and some of the tiny tykes have monster stats. The team travels and college coaches start taking note. Now the potential "late bloomers" have been on B and C teams and the truth is, the club, the high school coaches and the college coaches could care less about them. So these players must either be at lesser public or private high schools to play and hopefully finally be coached. Now the top college coaches are falling over themselves to scoop up all the 9th grade (early bloomers) in the hopes that they hit the lottery and that player continues to develop, continues to grow, and continues to get good grades. Very few club coaches say, give me the best athlete and I will make him a great player. They say give me the best third grade lacrosse players and let the high school coach worry down the road. The only hope is that parity continues in the college ranks and the lesser D-1 schools make more informed decisions about more mature kids and start to compete with the early recruiters. But in the meantime, the moral of the story is, the train has left the station and the late bloomers have been left standing on the platform. In this fast paced, accelerated recruiting world, and the rise of the club teams, have your child up and running in second grade or find yourself chasing the early bloomers down the tracks.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.


I agree with much of what you say but there are some things that I would like to point out.

Where are all of these late bloomers? If there are so many late bloomers out there then why do high school coaches bring up so many 9th graders? There is talk on another thread about Garden City, Massapeaqua, Syosset etc.. "the prestigious" programs bringing up a bunch of 9th graders. If there are so many late bloomers why the need to bring up the 9th graders. If college coaches can't tell who is going to develop down the road what make you think the HS coaches can? Is it possible that once the HS coach tags the kid as a can't miss (brings him up in 9th grade) the coach will continue to play the kid even if he doesn't pan out? Will the coach be able to admit he was wrong about the kid or will he just keep playing him?

From what I have seen first hand over the past few years Club Directors have very little influence on the college coaches. However, the club you play for has bas become more important. In recent years the top clubs have joined forces and they send their top teams to exclusive tournaments. Head coaches from the majority of Division 1 programs are all over these tournaments all summer and fall paying particular attention to the rising 9th and 10th graders. College coaches will watch a player multiple times before making an offer (they do not make the offer because the club director tells them to).

There is much talk about the "late bloomers" and where are they? The "late bloomer" is going to become extinct like the dinoaurs. Why is that? Because there is so much pressure to win at an early age on club teams, all the "early bloomers" are put on the A teams, regardless of their size. And when I say "early bloomer" I'm talking lax skill not physical size. A three foot eight kid who can sling it lefty will make the team all day long over a 4 foot four kid who is still trying to figure out what end of the stick to hold. So the tiny tyke plays with the best players and gets the best coaching. Fast forward to 8th grade and that A travel team is rolling, and some of the tiny tykes have monster stats. The team travels and college coaches start taking note. Now the potential "late bloomers" have been on B and C teams and the truth is, the club, the high school coaches and the college coaches could care less about them. So these players must either be at lesser public or private high schools to play and hopefully finally be coached. Now the top college coaches are falling over themselves to scoop up all the 9th grade (early bloomers) in the hopes that they hit the lottery and that player continues to develop, continues to grow, and continues to get good grades. Very few club coaches say, give me the best athlete and I will make him a great player. They say give me the best third grade lacrosse players and let the high school coach worry down the road. The only hope is that parity continues in the college ranks and the lesser D-1 schools make more informed decisions about more mature kids and start to compete with the early recruiters. But in the meantime, the moral of the story is, the train has left the station and the late bloomers have been left standing on the platform. In this fast paced, accelerated recruiting world, and the rise of the club teams, have your child up and running in second grade or find yourself chasing the early bloomers down the tracks.


You write this as if nothing ever changes in life. I could cite you examples as long as my arm of practices in all areas of life that were followed and later reversed. The only way early recruiting continues is if/when those teams that do it become unstoppable. Right now Notre Dame is the #1 team in the country and they actually have a reputatioins for poaching kids later. And you cannot go off 2 weeks of D1 results to proclaim parity or decide what it tells us about the long-term impact of early recruiting. The sample size just isn't big enought yet.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.


I agree with much of what you say but there are some things that I would like to point out.

Where are all of these late bloomers? If there are so many late bloomers out there then why do high school coaches bring up so many 9th graders? There is talk on another thread about Garden City, Massapeaqua, Syosset etc.. "the prestigious" programs bringing up a bunch of 9th graders. If there are so many late bloomers why the need to bring up the 9th graders. If college coaches can't tell who is going to develop down the road what make you think the HS coaches can? Is it possible that once the HS coach tags the kid as a can't miss (brings him up in 9th grade) the coach will continue to play the kid even if he doesn't pan out? Will the coach be able to admit he was wrong about the kid or will he just keep playing him?

From what I have seen first hand over the past few years Club Directors have very little influence on the college coaches. However, the club you play for has bas become more important. In recent years the top clubs have joined forces and they send their top teams to exclusive tournaments. Head coaches from the majority of Division 1 programs are all over these tournaments all summer and fall paying particular attention to the rising 9th and 10th graders. College coaches will watch a player multiple times before making an offer (they do not make the offer because the club director tells them to).

There is much talk about the "late bloomers" and where are they? The "late bloomer" is going to become extinct like the dinoaurs. Why is that? Because there is so much pressure to win at an early age on club teams, all the "early bloomers" are put on the A teams, regardless of their size. And when I say "early bloomer" I'm talking lax skill not physical size. A three foot eight kid who can sling it lefty will make the team all day long over a 4 foot four kid who is still trying to figure out what end of the stick to hold. So the tiny tyke plays with the best players and gets the best coaching. Fast forward to 8th grade and that A travel team is rolling, and some of the tiny tykes have monster stats. The team travels and college coaches start taking note. Now the potential "late bloomers" have been on B and C teams and the truth is, the club, the high school coaches and the college coaches could care less about them. So these players must either be at lesser public or private high schools to play and hopefully finally be coached. Now the top college coaches are falling over themselves to scoop up all the 9th grade (early bloomers) in the hopes that they hit the lottery and that player continues to develop, continues to grow, and continues to get good grades. Very few club coaches say, give me the best athlete and I will make him a great player. They say give me the best third grade lacrosse players and let the high school coach worry down the road. The only hope is that parity continues in the college ranks and the lesser D-1 schools make more informed decisions about more mature kids and start to compete with the early recruiters. But in the meantime, the moral of the story is, the train has left the station and the late bloomers have been left standing on the platform. In this fast paced, accelerated recruiting world, and the rise of the club teams, have your child up and running in second grade or find yourself chasing the early bloomers down the tracks.


You write this as if nothing ever changes in life. I could cite you examples as long as my arm of practices in all areas of life that were followed and later reversed. The only way early recruiting continues is if/when those teams that do it become unstoppable. Right now Notre Dame is the #1 team in the country and they actually have a reputatioins for poaching kids later. And you cannot go off 2 weeks of D1 results to proclaim parity or decide what it tells us about the long-term impact of early recruiting. The sample size just isn't big enought yet.


Not saying above is ideal. Saying it is what is happening. Parents aren't waiting for Notre Dame. They are jumping on Hopkins and Duke and the ripple effect is changing how parents operate regarding 9 year olds. I would much prefer the way it was 25 years ago. You know how many of us that played D-1 lacrosse and were recruited after 11th grade, say we would never play D-1 today? Lots. Do I hope that Notre Dame and Ohio State and others continue to poach players? Absolutely! By the way, my theory on why there are so many 5-9 attackman these days? Because no one is waiting until 11th grade and beyond to see who will actually grow. These little guys are not being discriminated against and are getting really good coaching at early ages, regardless of our their size. Add that to the rule changes and there is no longer a premium on size. The days of saying, oh, that kid is going to get killed out there are over. Not saying that it's bad. Just saying this is how the game has evolved. That diminishes a lot of the potential a "late bloomer" could bring into the equation. So yes, when the sample size expands and we have the benefit of time, we will see how it all shakes out. But I will say, most rational people would say that the recruiting of younger and younger kids is neither good for the game, not for the kids that we care so much about.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You know I think early recruiting is interesting. Do I wish my son was one of those early recruits? Absolutely if he really knew where he wanted to go and what he wanted to do in 9the grade. For some the decision is a no brainer when committing to schools like Duke, Hopkins, and all the other top 20 schools with D1 programs. You would be stupid not to jump at a chance to go to one of these schools if given the opportunity. My son and I are circumventing the treacherous recruiting road as I write this. We came into the travel lacrosse scene a bit late in 7th grade. So many teams had already been established and it was very tough to crack their top teams. We have played for some great teams only to see them cherry picked by other so called AA teams resulting in the team becoming weaker. If the parents just gave the team more time together rather than look for the AA team moniker the team could have competed with any one. We actually gave some AA teams a run in 1 or 2 goal games. The one thing I have learned and seen first hand that you need an advocate for your kid. I know so many quality players that are not committed and others who happened to play for a great team and an established coach get the early commitment. Many of these players were and still are some of the best players because they were a bit more mature and polished. This is because they were very well coached and played on great teams. While in 7th and 8th grade they really stood out physically and even skill wise. As 9th grade has come around many of the kids that were tall for their age or bigger in 6th-8th are now are average in both areas. Some are still bigger, taller and even better but not the full head and 25-30 pounds they had on others and blowing them away skills wise. I am happy my son and I are where we are in the process. I am seeing kids that at one time were so much better than others who were committed in 9th grade to top programs now being passed by. With puberty and a new found drive and work ethic kids are coming into their own mentally and physically and passing the so called can't miss players. I think that at this time my son is in the best possible position for him. Have a few schools he loves in D1 that also have shown interest back. We also have been introduced to a few schools we never would have considered before but are now very intrigued by. In 9th grade he would have never really known what he wants or if he could do it. It's not the end of the world for the parents or player if they aren't committed by 10th grade. I think certain coaches in D1 and club team directors are creating this frenzy. By the recent results many of these teams who have paved the way by committing 8th and 9th graders might be reconsidering listening to the club directors recommendations on can't miss 9th graders. Which I find hysterical to even type. Don't lose faith and stay the course. Good luck to all.


I agree with much of what you say but there are some things that I would like to point out.

Where are all of these late bloomers? If there are so many late bloomers out there then why do high school coaches bring up so many 9th graders? There is talk on another thread about Garden City, Massapeaqua, Syosset etc.. "the prestigious" programs bringing up a bunch of 9th graders. If there are so many late bloomers why the need to bring up the 9th graders. If college coaches can't tell who is going to develop down the road what make you think the HS coaches can? Is it possible that once the HS coach tags the kid as a can't miss (brings him up in 9th grade) the coach will continue to play the kid even if he doesn't pan out? Will the coach be able to admit he was wrong about the kid or will he just keep playing him?

From what I have seen first hand over the past few years Club Directors have very little influence on the college coaches. However, the club you play for has bas become more important. In recent years the top clubs have joined forces and they send their top teams to exclusive tournaments. Head coaches from the majority of Division 1 programs are all over these tournaments all summer and fall paying particular attention to the rising 9th and 10th graders. College coaches will watch a player multiple times before making an offer (they do not make the offer because the club director tells them to).

There is much talk about the "late bloomers" and where are they? The "late bloomer" is going to become extinct like the dinoaurs. Why is that? Because there is so much pressure to win at an early age on club teams, all the "early bloomers" are put on the A teams, regardless of their size. And when I say "early bloomer" I'm talking lax skill not physical size. A three foot eight kid who can sling it lefty will make the team all day long over a 4 foot four kid who is still trying to figure out what end of the stick to hold. So the tiny tyke plays with the best players and gets the best coaching. Fast forward to 8th grade and that A travel team is rolling, and some of the tiny tykes have monster stats. The team travels and college coaches start taking note. Now the potential "late bloomers" have been on B and C teams and the truth is, the club, the high school coaches and the college coaches could care less about them. So these players must either be at lesser public or private high schools to play and hopefully finally be coached. Now the top college coaches are falling over themselves to scoop up all the 9th grade (early bloomers) in the hopes that they hit the lottery and that player continues to develop, continues to grow, and continues to get good grades. Very few club coaches say, give me the best athlete and I will make him a great player. They say give me the best third grade lacrosse players and let the high school coach worry down the road. The only hope is that parity continues in the college ranks and the lesser D-1 schools make more informed decisions about more mature kids and start to compete with the early recruiters. But in the meantime, the moral of the story is, the train has left the station and the late bloomers have been left standing on the platform. In this fast paced, accelerated recruiting world, and the rise of the club teams, have your child up and running in second grade or find yourself chasing the early bloomers down the tracks.


I can only speak for what I have seen. There are players that have committed to some really top notch programs at an early age that in 7th and 8th grade were absolutely the best players on the field. Yes skill wise and even a bit bigger than most in height and stature even some small players also. Now all of the sudden that kid that was on the B because, lets face it a team can really only carry so many players, starts to mature and develop their skills and all of the sudden grows a bit more and on his own puts in the time and effort to get better. They have had great coaching but were a bit immature at a young age. They now are driven and put in the work. They can and will absolutely pass the kid that now stands at 5'8 and fully grown. Now that kid who was overlooked has a chip on their shoulder is 6'1 and has put in countless hours of wall ball and training will pass the early bloomer. Not due to lack of effort but you can only get so much and so far out of a Honda. Quality yes, last a long time yes but know you have a kid thats was a sleeper turning into a Ferrari. I think this is happening now and more evident due to the sheer number of early commits in 9th and 10th grade. Early commits have been around for a long time but it was for the truly exceptional players. This is the same as club ball years ago the club teams were made up of top players even towns that had great history of lacrosse. When lacrosse became about money it has diluted the overall product. Could you imagine if the best players were selected in an unbiased manner from Long Island to make up one team. I dont think there is an area in the country that would even come close to the talent. I could name a combined team from 91, Express, Team Long Island, Jesters, and fl$ that would destroy anyone. The powers that control these teams would never let it happen because it would hurt their bottom line. So you know my own kid wouldn't be on that team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I saw a few late bloomers from Limestone scrimmage UNC. They beat UNC's 1s very thoroughly. I saw a few more late bloomers absolutely wipe out UVA's 1s in another scrimmage. Today some top D3 teams can beat ranked D1 teams. The pushing for the best very young youth players hasn't yielded better college players. I am not just pointing to 2 weeks this spring when I note that. There are many 2016 and 2017 early commits in the DMV who won't see the field in college. Some of them aren't seeing the field at their prep schools. I've heard it all that these certain preps have all the best players, so second line middies there are great. Honestly, if you struggle to stand out junior or senior year of high school, early recruiting is a mistake.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Look, if my 15 year old gets an offer from a great school that is not an Ivy such as UNC, UVA or Mich he will take it and we will figure out whether he wants to keep it when he is 18...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Look, if my 15 year old gets an offer from a great school that is not an Ivy such as UNC, UVA or Mich he will take it and we will figure out whether he wants to keep it when he is 18...


That's the right approach..they won't offer you a dime yet..wake up ..geezz that's dumb
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Go for the academics--all great schools, so who cares what they offer!
Richmond 12 Duke 10 Richmond has only been varsity for 3 years. PARITY and the sudden realization that recruiting 8th graders is not an exact science.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
As irony would have it, we've not seen the fuller effects of ER yet. The HS 2017s were the first class to open the floodgates of 9th grade commits. These 2016s seniors had a few 9th grader commits, and then tons of summer rising soph commits. But what I call ER happened earlier. A lot of HS 2013s committed as rising juniors, then a lot of 2014s and 2015s committed as rising sophs. I would argue we're seeing a PARTIAL effect now with kids who are in college now. This college senior class will be the final chapter of college players who were offered and committed after they played the spring high school season as juniors.

People are free to take their own theories now. The data isn't complete yet, but the partial date in so far does make the point the ER is a poor strategy. Going early to get THE star in the class like Shack Stanwick or Ryan Conrad or Matt Rambo does get your team ONE great player on a given year. Considering Hop, UVA, UMD are all sucking now (and UNC has losses) to start this season before the real conference season starts for them is a REALLY bad sign. The problem now is if you harvest 9th graders and get one star, you're not set you're screwed because you have to field 10.

Also, at some positions like FOGO and goalie which are really important the ER there seems to be the worst. A good number of the top FOGOs and goalies in the college game today were not the Ty Xanders boy band kids from back in the day...you know, back in 9th grade brah!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I wish my team sucked as bad as Hop,Uva and Umd. They will still beat 95% of the other schools. Lets see who's there in the end.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
60% of the time your point is correct 95% of the time.

UVA loses to High Point, Hop loses 3 early and needs a miracle to skate by Navy and Duke loses to Richmond. UNC gets doubled up by Hofstra. I'm not a hater of all those teams and I went to UVA and have been a Hoo fan my whole life. The real insiders and followers of UVA lacrosse have been noting the obvious for a couple years now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty Xander's boy band lmfao. Still the facts that the likes of hop duke umd virginia still get the top rated kids according to that idiot and it is not working out. Let him go to the secondary type of recruiting showcases and see if he finds diamonds in the rough then I will give him some kudos. Those teams shouldn't lose games like this if they have these supposed top kids. Sorry those are facts.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The kids are getting a great education right. That should be the important thing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It not early recruiting that is the problem-it is bad recruiting.
If they make early recruiting illegal it will be a advantage for the power schools. why would parents want early recruiting eliminated?
It would give the advantage to the schools even more than it is now.
The whole system is rigged in favor of the coach.
The big schools will put out feelers for top players under the table it happens all the time in other sports.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
New to this so please pardon my I gnorance but could could someone school me on verbal commitments? I realize they are just that and there's no binding contract but what if a young athlete changes their mind in a year or two? Are they blacklisted? Do schools ever rescind offers and are there stipulations such as GPA, SAT scores?
Last question, are there any good sites or resources that can help someone navigate this process that you can point me to?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
New to this so please pardon my I gnorance but could could someone school me on verbal commitments? I realize they are just that and there's no binding contract but what if a young athlete changes their mind in a year or two? Are they blacklisted? Do schools ever rescind offers and are there stipulations such as GPA, SAT scores?
Last question, are there any good sites or resources that can help someone navigate this process that you can point me to?


Kids can change their minds at any time until the sign a national letter of intent (NLI) in there senior year and you only sign an NLI if you are receiving athletic aid so no NLI for Ivy League, Military Academy's or D3. I kid that de-commits from a verbal usually does so with a new offer of a verbal commit from another school. Generally the verbal is between the coach and the player so some schools de commit if the coaches leave the school but that would probably be the younger players so the new coach can bring in his own recruits but every case is unique. A coach will generally tell the younger players that they must get X GPA and X SAT to be accepted and the verbal is contingent on but not guaranteed with admission. Coaches will generally not break a verbal commitment because they have a reputation to worry about and if they people start saying the have not honored commitments they would have a hard time getting them in the future. I have heard of coaches telling a kid that they have committed to another kid at the same position and tell the kid they will still honor the verbal but the kid might want to look for a different situation.

This is all my opinion from going through it a few times but every school and every case is different.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
New to this so please pardon my I gnorance but could could someone school me on verbal commitments? I realize they are just that and there's no binding contract but what if a young athlete changes their mind in a year or two? Are they blacklisted? Do schools ever rescind offers and are there stipulations such as GPA, SAT scores?
Last question, are there any good sites or resources that can help someone navigate this process that you can point me to?


Kids can change their minds at any time until the sign a national letter of intent (NLI) in there senior year and you only sign an NLI if you are receiving athletic aid so no NLI for Ivy League, Military Academy's or D3. I kid that de-commits from a verbal usually does so with a new offer of a verbal commit from another school. Generally the verbal is between the coach and the player so some schools de commit if the coaches leave the school but that would probably be the younger players so the new coach can bring in his own recruits but every case is unique. A coach will generally tell the younger players that they must get X GPA and X SAT to be accepted and the verbal is contingent on but not guaranteed with admission. Coaches will generally not break a verbal commitment because they have a reputation to worry about and if they people start saying the have not honored commitments they would have a hard time getting them in the future. I have heard of coaches telling a kid that they have committed to another kid at the same position and tell the kid they will still honor the verbal but the kid might want to look for a different situation.

This is all my opinion from going through it a few times but every school and every case is different.


So at what point in the process does athletic aid get discussed? Do these verbals ever come with xxx dollars as part of the offer or is every case different?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
New to this so please pardon my I gnorance but could could someone school me on verbal commitments? I realize they are just that and there's no binding contract but what if a young athlete changes their mind in a year or two? Are they blacklisted? Do schools ever rescind offers and are there stipulations such as GPA, SAT scores?
Last question, are there any good sites or resources that can help someone navigate this process that you can point me to?


Kids can change their minds at any time until the sign a national letter of intent (NLI) in there senior year and you only sign an NLI if you are receiving athletic aid so no NLI for Ivy League, Military Academy's or D3. I kid that de-commits from a verbal usually does so with a new offer of a verbal commit from another school. Generally the verbal is between the coach and the player so some schools de commit if the coaches leave the school but that would probably be the younger players so the new coach can bring in his own recruits but every case is unique. A coach will generally tell the younger players that they must get X GPA and X SAT to be accepted and the verbal is contingent on but not guaranteed with admission. Coaches will generally not break a verbal commitment because they have a reputation to worry about and if they people start saying the have not honored commitments they would have a hard time getting them in the future. I have heard of coaches telling a kid that they have committed to another kid at the same position and tell the kid they will still honor the verbal but the kid might want to look for a different situation.

This is all my opinion from going through it a few times but every school and every case is different.


So at what point in the process does athletic aid get discussed? Do these verbals ever come with xxx dollars as part of the offer or is every case different?


Yes. The verbal agreement will include x percent scholarship. Of course at Ivies it's different. At Ivies there are no athletic scholarships and technically you are committing to the "Admissions Process" at an Ivy. Also, you could have a verbal commitment w a coach with no athletic money. They are offering u a spot, but no dollars.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
New to this so please pardon my I gnorance but could could someone school me on verbal commitments? I realize they are just that and there's no binding contract but what if a young athlete changes their mind in a year or two? Are they blacklisted? Do schools ever rescind offers and are there stipulations such as GPA, SAT scores?
Last question, are there any good sites or resources that can help someone navigate this process that you can point me to?


Kids can change their minds at any time until the sign a national letter of intent (NLI) in there senior year and you only sign an NLI if you are receiving athletic aid so no NLI for Ivy League, Military Academy's or D3. I kid that de-commits from a verbal usually does so with a new offer of a verbal commit from another school. Generally the verbal is between the coach and the player so some schools de commit if the coaches leave the school but that would probably be the younger players so the new coach can bring in his own recruits but every case is unique. A coach will generally tell the younger players that they must get X GPA and X SAT to be accepted and the verbal is contingent on but not guaranteed with admission. Coaches will generally not break a verbal commitment because they have a reputation to worry about and if they people start saying the have not honored commitments they would have a hard time getting them in the future. I have heard of coaches telling a kid that they have committed to another kid at the same position and tell the kid they will still honor the verbal but the kid might want to look for a different situation.

This is all my opinion from going through it a few times but every school and every case is different.


So at what point in the process does athletic aid get discussed? Do these verbals ever come with xxx dollars as part of the offer or is every case different?


Yes. The verbal agreement will include x percent scholarship. Of course at Ivies it's different. At Ivies there are no athletic scholarships and technically you are committing to the "Admissions Process" at an Ivy. Also, you could have a verbal commitment w a coach with no athletic money. They are offering u a spot, but no dollars.
Agree with this. At the time the coach offers a spot, they will give the scholarship dollars if they are offering dollars (if so typically 20-50% of all in cost) and the ACT/SAT minimum requirements, GPA requirement, and at the at the more academically challenging institutions, policy towards AP/Honors expectations.
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Ty Xander's boy band lmfao. Still the facts that the likes of hop duke umd virginia still get the top rated kids according to that idiot and it is not working out. Let him go to the secondary type of recruiting showcases and see if he finds diamonds in the rough then I will give him some kudos. Those teams shouldn't lose games like this if they have these supposed top kids. Sorry those are facts.


Not a fan of Xanders at all, but to be fair these teams losing to some of these lesser known teams is more of sign of parity and the growth of the sport than it is an indictment of early recruiting. More kids are playing the sport than ever and there are plenty of talented athletes out there for the taking by these programs. On the other side of it, Denver and Notre Dame are two of the most notorious early recruiters as well as late poachers and its a good bet that both of those teams will be around come final four weekend. Seems to me Virginia is in trouble and I think that has to do with coaching, Hopkins has a young team and Duke and UNC had a lot of turnover on their rosters. Early season losses are one thing, but lets see who is there in May, Im guessing it will be the usual suspects.
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Parity is the popular word in college lacrosse these days. Early recruiting seems to be a factor.

From an IL article 3/11/16:

"Simultaneously the recruiting timetable has shifted. Virginia, Hopkins, Maryland and North Carolina are the most aggressive early recruiters. Their coaches evaluate eighth and ninth graders, and have been offering to freshmen and sophomores. The strategy is unproven. It's equal to investing in start-ups instead of Fortune 500 companies."

"You know a lot more about a kid who commits before his senior year than a kid who commits before his sophomore year," Flanagan said. "Coaches loaded up on sophomore commits and missed on the kids who were slower to develop."
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty Xander's boy band lmfao. Still the facts that the likes of hop duke umd virginia still get the top rated kids according to that idiot and it is not working out. Let him go to the secondary type of recruiting showcases and see if he finds diamonds in the rough then I will give him some kudos. Those teams shouldn't lose games like this if they have these supposed top kids. Sorry those are facts.


Not a fan of Xanders at all, but to be fair these teams losing to some of these lesser known teams is more of sign of parity and the growth of the sport than it is an indictment of early recruiting. More kids are playing the sport than ever and there are plenty of talented athletes out there for the taking by these programs. On the other side of it, Denver and Notre Dame are two of the most notorious early recruiters as well as late poachers and its a good bet that both of those teams will be around come final four weekend. Seems to me Virginia is in trouble and I think that has to do with coaching, Hopkins has a young team and Duke and UNC had a lot of turnover on their rosters. Early season losses are one thing, but lets see who is there in May, Im guessing it will be the usual suspects.


You actually made the best argument possible against early recruiting. If this game has grown to nationally played, AND there is talent on all corners of the US, AND it is impossible to canvas the US to diligence all of them in a 6-12 month window starting when they are in 8th grade, AND are ignoring the basic undisputable fact that boys have a lot of volatility in their physical, social and academic growth in their early to mid teens YOU'D PLAINLY AND SIMPLY BE OUT OF YOUR MIND TO RECRUIT AND BE DONE WITH IT WITH MIDDLE SCHOOL AND HIGH SCHOOL UNDERCLASSMEN.

If you are making the argument that lacrosse has recently arrived as a real national sport for youth and high school play, then next look at what other more established sports have come to. There are reasons why the more developed sports don't broadly recruit early. Sure there is the outlier example here and there of some 8th grade prodigy in football or basketball or soccer who gets attention of colleges and it makes the news. But not dozens or hundreds. Big time programs in established sports are not making their bets until during or after junior year.

It comes down to gambling. When do you want to bet? When you have no information or when you have the most information?

Ty Xanders is a carnival barker. I find it incredible there are tens of thousands of people on twitter who could care one bit about his act.
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I do agree that early recruiting is a factor, but how big of an impact it is having remains to be seen. When is the last time a team outside the Top 10 made it to final four weekend? The National Championships have been dominated by the programs that early recruit, so until we see a program that doesnt recruit early crack the final four I dont think we can definitively say early recruiting is hurting these programs. I think more than hurting the programs, early recruiting is hurting the kids. These programs are stockpiling kids 15-20 a class with the hope that a few of them actually pan out. The rest are relegated to the bench or practice players. Its up to the parents to make sure their kid is going to a program where he has the best chance to be successful, not one mommy and daddy can brag about at parties.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
New to this so please pardon my I gnorance but could could someone school me on verbal commitments? I realize they are just that and there's no binding contract but what if a young athlete changes their mind in a year or two? Are they blacklisted? Do schools ever rescind offers and are there stipulations such as GPA, SAT scores?
Last question, are there any good sites or resources that can help someone navigate this process that you can point me to?


Kids can change their minds at any time until the sign a national letter of intent (NLI) in there senior year and you only sign an NLI if you are receiving athletic aid so no NLI for Ivy League, Military Academy's or D3. I kid that de-commits from a verbal usually does so with a new offer of a verbal commit from another school. Generally the verbal is between the coach and the player so some schools de commit if the coaches leave the school but that would probably be the younger players so the new coach can bring in his own recruits but every case is unique. A coach will generally tell the younger players that they must get X GPA and X SAT to be accepted and the verbal is contingent on but not guaranteed with admission. Coaches will generally not break a verbal commitment because they have a reputation to worry about and if they people start saying the have not honored commitments they would have a hard time getting them in the future. I have heard of coaches telling a kid that they have committed to another kid at the same position and tell the kid they will still honor the verbal but the kid might want to look for a different situation.

This is all my opinion from going through it a few times but every school and every case is different.


So at what point in the process does athletic aid get discussed? Do these verbals ever come with xxx dollars as part of the offer or is every case different?


Yes. The verbal agreement will include x percent scholarship. Of course at Ivies it's different. At Ivies there are no athletic scholarships and technically you are committing to the "Admissions Process" at an Ivy. Also, you could have a verbal commitment w a coach with no athletic money. They are offering u a spot, but no dollars.
Agree with this. At the time the coach offers a spot, they will give the scholarship dollars if they are offering dollars (if so typically 20-50% of all in cost) and the ACT/SAT minimum requirements, GPA requirement, and at the at the more academically challenging institutions, policy towards AP/Honors expectations.

GREAT ACCURATE INFO ABOVE
Per Ty Xanders

The first 2020 boy will be announcing his commitment on social media this afternoon. Yes, an eighth grader. Let the floodgates open...
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crush kid
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crush kid


how old is he?
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Disgrace that these schools are doing this to the sport.
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unless its your kid right?
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Penn St? The #20 ranked team in lax and a state school? Would have thought him being the 1st ever 8th grade commit, he would have went top 5 school lax/academic school.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Disgrace that these schools are doing this to the sport.


What are the parents thinking ?
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THe kid is good, had to get a full ride in order to verbal to Penn State...Good education, yes...shot at a title in his 4 years, nil.
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he is committing to a HS and College on the same tweet
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he is committing to a HS and College on the same tweet


Called ego not a bad thing nor a good thing..just worried there would be no more spots open. It was filling up fast
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I'm just disappointed he's going to St. Anthony's...
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That is it, if your son is a 2020 and he is not actively talking to a D1 coach he can assume he will not be playing D1 in college. LOL, I am being sarcastic, however, my bet is there are plenty of people out there that really believe that! my kid is a decent player and I can guarantee, he won't be doing anything before 11th grade at the earliest. And no, I don't think it will hurt his chances of playing in college. I actually wholeheartedly believe it will help him. I do wish the young man that committed all the luck in the world and if he and his family feel that it is the right thing to do for him, more power to them!
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crush kid


Any idea what year he is born?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That is it, if your son is a 2020 and he is not actively talking to a D1 coach he can assume he will not be playing D1 in college. LOL, I am being sarcastic, however, my bet is there are plenty of people out there that really believe that! my kid is a decent player and I can guarantee, he won't be doing anything before 11th grade at the earliest. And no, I don't think it will hurt his chances of playing in college. I actually wholeheartedly believe it will help him. I do wish the young man that committed all the luck in the world and if he and his family feel that it is the right thing to do for him, more power to them!



Do you really think this boy said to his parents "I think it's time I commit to a college" . You know where this is coming from. I guess his travel program thought it was a good idea also. He now can skip playing travel save his money and play for the school only. I told my son today and he laughed. Just hard for me to figure this out so I might as well laugh also.. I guess this college coach will be there the next 9
Years. Lol . He must have guaranteed that to the parents. That would sell me. Thanks for the Friday night laughter that lacrosse has become.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he is committing to a HS and College on the same tweet


Called ego not a bad thing nor a good thing..just worried there would be no more spots open. It was filling up fast


The pressure and scrutiny of every bad pass or dropped ball will be unbelievable. I would have advised him to wait a year and the opportunity would have still been there. What position does he play?
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If he's that good , which he is ,assuming it's him , why settle for PSU this early ??
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
THe kid is good, had to get a full ride in order to verbal to Penn State...Good education, yes...shot at a title in his 4 years, nil.


So every team in the country will completely turn over twice between now and his college senior year and you're convinced that PSU has no chance of winning the championship? How can you be so sure?
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As a Parent with 3 Kids that all played college lacrosse, I would say this is disgusting. Parents should be ashamed of themselves. This is NOT GODD, Let him be a kid. Wait, If he's that good it will not matter. As far as PS Coaches go SHAME ON THEM. This Great sport is in a really bad place.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
THe kid is good, had to get a full ride in order to verbal to Penn State...Good education, yes...shot at a title in his 4 years, nil.


So every team in the country will completely turn over twice between now and his college senior year and you're convinced that PSU has no chance of winning the championship? How can you be so sure?


LOL, who cares about winning a championship?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he is committing to a HS and College on the same tweet


Called ego not a bad thing nor a good thing..just worried there would be no more spots open. It was filling up fast


The pressure and scrutiny of every bad pass or dropped ball will be unbelievable. I would have advised him to wait a year and the opportunity would have still been there. What position does he play?


The pressure, the scrutiny, not letting him be a kid....whatever. See, it could be just the opposite. Maybe he will be more relaxed knowing that he doesn't have to worry about the mistakes and can play with abandoned and get even better. Oh, and now he doesn't have to attend Philly Freshman Showcase, Jake Reed, Maverick Showcase and so on and maybe spend his summers and fall being more of a kid than his friends who still need to hit the recruiting circuit. And mom and dad can probably save a ton of money.

Congrats to the boy, the family, PSU and to those of you who want to crap in early recruiting. Win win for everyone.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
As a Parent with 3 Kids that all played college lacrosse, I would say this is disgusting. Parents should be ashamed of themselves. This is NOT GODD, Let him be a kid. Wait, If he's that good it will not matter. As far as PS Coaches go SHAME ON THEM. This Great sport is in a really bad place.


I completely agree that early recruiting is destroying the game. I despise the whole club scene, and wish we could go back to a time when official visits counted, when players decided what school to attend in their senior year.

That said, wouldn't you probably make the same decision if put in their place? Free school for four years, to a college that's very well regarded on the East Coast. And [lacrosse], if he turns out to be a real student, he can always renege and commit to an Ivy.

What's the downside for the player/parents?
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The pattern on early recruiting seems to be that attack especially seem to get recruited first. The irony is that over time it is beginning to show that the late recruiting programs like Yale and Harvard are getting the best defensemen that are shutting down these early prodigy offensive recruits. Look no further than Yale shutting down Maryland's offense and Harvard with Jahelka and Duvnyak shutting down Duke's offense. Defense is where these programs should be recruiting early.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The pattern on early recruiting seems to be that attack especially seem to get recruited first. The irony is that over time it is beginning to show that the late recruiting programs like Yale and Harvard are getting the best defensemen that are shutting down these early prodigy offensive recruits. Look no further than Yale shutting down Maryland's offense and Harvard with Jahelka and Duvnyak shutting down Duke's offense. Defense is where these programs should be recruiting early.


Or: both offensive and defensive players should be recruiting post-puberty, lol.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he is committing to a HS and College on the same tweet


Called ego not a bad thing nor a good thing..just worried there would be no more spots open. It was filling up fast


The pressure and scrutiny of every bad pass or dropped ball will be unbelievable. I would have advised him to wait a year and the opportunity would have still been there. What position does he play?


The pressure, the scrutiny, not letting him be a kid....whatever. See, it could be just the opposite. Maybe he will be more relaxed knowing that he doesn't have to worry about the mistakes and can play with abandoned and get even better. Oh, and now he doesn't have to attend Philly Freshman Showcase, Jake Reed, Maverick Showcase and so on and maybe spend his summers and fall being more of a kid than his friends who still need to hit the recruiting circuit. And mom and dad can probably save a ton of money.

Congrats to the boy, the family, PSU and to those of you who want to crap in early recruiting. Win win for everyone.



Should be shame in University and coach..he and others are using kids as pawns for job security so they can tell the school presidents look I have great kids coming in down the road you can't get rid of me. Banking on 14 year olds maybe 15 is scary
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
That is it, if your son is a 2020 and he is not actively talking to a D1 coach he can assume he will not be playing D1 in college. LOL, I am being sarcastic, however, my bet is there are plenty of people out there that really believe that! my kid is a decent player and I can guarantee, he won't be doing anything before 11th grade at the earliest. And no, I don't think it will hurt his chances of playing in college. I actually wholeheartedly believe it will help him. I do wish the young man that committed all the luck in the world and if he and his family feel that it is the right thing to do for him, more power to them!



Do you really think this boy said to his parents "I think it's time I commit to a college" . You know where this is coming from. I guess his travel program thought it was a good idea also. He now can skip playing travel save his money and play for the school only. I told my son today and he laughed. Just hard for me to figure this out so I might as well laugh also.. I guess this college coach will be there the next 9
Years. Lol . He must have guaranteed that to the parents. That would sell me. Thanks for the Friday night laughter that lacrosse has become.


Jelousy is alive and well, only in this sport never seen anything like it. I love it when these parents go into an explanation of why early recruiting is bad but will spend thousands of dollars on showcases and club lacrosse . The only parents who think it's bad are the ones whose kids will NEVER be recruited. Don't criticize worry about your own.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That is it, if your son is a 2020 and he is not actively talking to a D1 coach he can assume he will not be playing D1 in college. LOL, I am being sarcastic, however, my bet is there are plenty of people out there that really believe that! my kid is a decent player and I can guarantee, he won't be doing anything before 11th grade at the earliest. And no, I don't think it will hurt his chances of playing in college. I actually wholeheartedly believe it will help him. I do wish the young man that committed all the luck in the world and if he and his family feel that it is the right thing to do for him, more power to them!



Do you really think this boy said to his parents "I think it's time I commit to a college" . You know where this is coming from. I guess his travel program thought it was a good idea also. He now can skip playing travel save his money and play for the school only. I told my son today and he laughed. Just hard for me to figure this out so I might as well laugh also.. I guess this college coach will be there the next 9
Years. Lol . He must have guaranteed that to the parents. That would sell me. Thanks for the Friday night laughter that lacrosse has become.


Jelousy is alive and well, only in this sport never seen anything like it. I love it when these parents go into an explanation of why early recruiting is bad but will spend thousands of dollars on showcases and club lacrosse . The only parents who think it's bad are the ones whose kids will NEVER be recruited. Don't criticize worry about your own.


Im sure there are plenty of people whose kids have already been recruited that are critical of early recruiting as well as people that have played, coached, or covered the sport. I think the prevailing opinion is that recruiting 8th graders is wrong, its not about the kid its the process thats broken.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That is it, if your son is a 2020 and he is not actively talking to a D1 coach he can assume he will not be playing D1 in college. LOL, I am being sarcastic, however, my bet is there are plenty of people out there that really believe that! my kid is a decent player and I can guarantee, he won't be doing anything before 11th grade at the earliest. And no, I don't think it will hurt his chances of playing in college. I actually wholeheartedly believe it will help him. I do wish the young man that committed all the luck in the world and if he and his family feel that it is the right thing to do for him, more power to them!



Do you really think this boy said to his parents "I think it's time I commit to a college" . You know where this is coming from. I guess his travel program thought it was a good idea also. He now can skip playing travel save his money and play for the school only. I told my son today and he laughed. Just hard for me to figure this out so I might as well laugh also.. I guess this college coach will be there the next 9
Years. Lol . He must have guaranteed that to the parents. That would sell me. Thanks for the Friday night laughter that lacrosse has become.


Jelousy is alive and well, only in this sport never seen anything like it. I love it when these parents go into an explanation of why early recruiting is bad but will spend thousands of dollars on showcases and club lacrosse . The only parents who think it's bad are the ones whose kids will NEVER be recruited. Don't criticize worry about your own.


Actually you are completely wrong, my kid committed early and was good choice for him but honestly was too early. Say what you want but these early commits are doing so out of fear and nothing else. The fear comes from a couple reasons, 1) there is a fear that all the spots on a school they may want to attend will fill up fast as a result of early recruiting,2) you need to commit while your kid is at the top of their game relative to others in the age group as who knows where they will be in a few years and or maybe if the coach sees my kid play a lot more they may think he is not as good .When a top school makes you a top offer there is no way to go but down in terms of offers.
In terms of reneging on a commitment that was not really a thought for us as when you make a commitment you are giving your word and that should mean something. Always shocks me that coaches are willing to poach players as it just shows you the character of a kid and his parents when they are so willing to jump programs. (i do get it when situations change as in coach changes etc.)
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I agree with the jealous alive and well comment. why would any of you care if some kid gets recruited early? you would not even be on this board if you didn't have a kid playing, so please -look in the mirror before you look out the window.

as far as PSU, it is a great school with a vast alumni network and a top 40 academic school nationally. If that is not good enough for your kid, don't apply there.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with the jealous alive and well comment. why would any of you care if some kid gets recruited early? you would not even be on this board if you didn't have a kid playing, so please -look in the mirror before you look out the window.

as far as PSU, it is a great school with a vast alumni network and a top 40 academic school nationally. If that is not good enough for your kid, don't apply there.



I thought it's the kid and parent showing interest in the school first . Does the school contact them first???????isnt that illegal???? . The college coaches tell the kids to come down and checkout the school in 8 th grade???? Seems wrong on every level. My guess is that Penn State will be investigated again for some wrongful acts or maybe the 8th grader did some illegal act started by the parents or school . This is only going to open up Pandora's box ..Way to ruin it for the good clean kids and families
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For those who commit early, just make sure that the school is a great fit for your son. There is no guarantee that your son will see the field. The players currently on the team were probably recruited , as well as the players that will be after you. Your son may be good enough to be recruited but playing in a game is a different story. How long is the current coaches contract for? He may be gone when your son arrives.
Again, school is for education 1st, then lacrosse. After 4 years of school/lacrosse, it will be time to find a job.
On a side note, 6 out of the 48 players on the current Maryland roster are from Long Island! How many thousands of boys play lacrosse on LI? Just saying!
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Article said he is age appropriate.

Heard he was reclassed.

Anyone know truth. Great for the kid and family just wondering.
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That is it, if your son is a 2020 and he is not actively talking to a D1 coach he can assume he will not be playing D1 in college. LOL, I am being sarcastic, however, my bet is there are plenty of people out there that really believe that! my kid is a decent player and I can guarantee, he won't be doing anything before 11th grade at the earliest. And no, I don't think it will hurt his chances of playing in college. I actually wholeheartedly believe it will help him. I do wish the young man that committed all the luck in the world and if he and his family feel that it is the right thing to do for him, more power to them!



Do you really think this boy said to his parents "I think it's time I commit to a college" . You know where this is coming from. I guess his travel program thought it was a good idea also. He now can skip playing travel save his money and play for the school only. I told my son today and he laughed. Just hard for me to figure this out so I might as well laugh also.. I guess this college coach will be there the next 9
Years. Lol . He must have guaranteed that to the parents. That would sell me. Thanks for the Friday night laughter that lacrosse has become.


Jelousy is alive and well, only in this sport never seen anything like it. I love it when these parents go into an explanation of why early recruiting is bad but will spend thousands of dollars on showcases and club lacrosse . The only parents who think it's bad are the ones whose kids will NEVER be recruited. Don't criticize worry about your own.


Im sure there are plenty of people whose kids have already been recruited that are critical of early recruiting as well as people that have played, coached, or covered the sport. I think the prevailing opinion is that recruiting 8th graders is wrong, its not about the kid its the process thats broken.


To each his own. My concern if it were my son would be if he'd be burnt and fried from the pressure of a grinding 5 years playing against bigger stronger faster 17 and 18 year olds, not to mention the physical toll - would he be grund up and limping onto the campus his freshman year or would he be better for the 5 seasons of of playing kids 3 and 4 years older, not to mention the the physchological grind of staying focused for 5 years and staying hungry. Time will tell if these young kids can handle all that and be the player the colleges expect. That's a lot on a young kid.
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Immediately he will be expected to be better than anybody his grade and on par with any upperclassman. The big question will be how he'll handle long stretches of adversity when the points are difficult to come by while the expectations are only going tto be increasingly unrealistic. He'll either crush the skeptics or the pressure will crush him. I hope it's the former.
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There will always be haters and people hoping he fails - its just the sad state of youth and high school lacrosse. Even the opposing teams and possibly some of his own teammates will have it out for him. That's the part that I hate to see with regards to early recruiting - all the other crap that goes along with it. Anyway, one of the more interesting sidebars to follow will be if he stays loyal to 91 through high school or does he switch over to the Express darkside.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There will always be haters and people hoping he fails - its just the sad state of youth and high school lacrosse. Even the opposing teams and possibly some of his own teammates will have it out for him. That's the part that I hate to see with regards to early recruiting - all the other crap that goes along with it. Anyway, one of the more interesting sidebars to follow will be if he stays loyal to 91 through high school or does he switch over to the Express darkside.


My money is on staying loyal to 91 while he attends St Anthony's
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
We personally know two other boys currently in college who gave verbals in 8th grade, the difference was, the parents kept their mouths closed. Why advertise it?
What is 91 trying to up their income?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
"as far as PSU, it is a great school with a vast alumni network and a top 40 academic school nationally. If that is not good enough for your kid, don't apply there."

Top 40 , I think not. According to who ,Joe Patterno.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Oh, stop with the drama! Kid is great, will stay great, and regardless he will receive big money from a great school, as the big money tends to go to the high profile earlies. Win-win! Great job kid!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Article said he is age appropriate.

Heard he was reclassed.

Anyone know truth. Great for the kid and family just wondering.


Age appropriate- doing it the right way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Oh, stop with the drama! Kid is great, will stay great, and regardless he will receive big money from a great school, as the big money tends to go to the high profile earlies. Win-win! Great job kid!


Is there any family connection to Penn State???. That would help answer a lot of questions????
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Article said he is age appropriate.

Heard he was reclassed.

Anyone know truth. Great for the kid and family just wondering.


Age appropriate- doing it the right way.
Happy for the kid and his family. Tough to turn down. Nonetheless, looking at the bigger picture vs. an individual kid, can't we all agree that with kids committing as an 8th grader or even early freshman year there is something seriously wrong with the sport? If a change is not made by the NCAA (the proposal is on the table for both boys and girls to make 1st day of junior year earliest time to verbal), then that institution lacks all perspective on what is best for the kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Article said he is age appropriate.

Heard he was reclassed.

Anyone know truth. Great for the kid and family just wondering.


Age appropriate- doing it the right way.


So is he 13 going on 14??? Or 14 going on 15?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think early recruiting is a beard for coaches who are not performing. If you can point to all the recruits or classes on the way and note they are highly regarded that can deflect the attention away from a program that isn't winning or is declining. It also attracts some notoriety to the program (not for the better I'd argue, but this is a reality TV crazy world). Dom Starsia has been doing this for a couple years now. If I were a Penn State fan I'd be concerned that Tambroni has not made an impact on the program to be consistent and competitive, and now he's gone out to do this. I'd agree that just one kid is more symbolic than a herd, but if you look at the programs who have used ER as a beacon none have done much. Hop -- needed a miracle turn around late last season just to make the NCAA and then made the FF for first time in a long time. UNC -- they have been a decent regular season team for year and years, but no FFs. UVA -- dumpster fire. UMD has had more success and their coach is going earlier and earlier in the past 18 months, so we will see how that rounds out for the Terps into the future. An argument could also be made that these coaches believe that if they have highly ranked recruiting classes stacked down for 3-4 years it will make them harder to fire...which if you think about it is pretty hysterical.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty Xanders ‏@Ty 12h12 hours ago
Face-off guys: Turn on the NCAA wrestling championships on ESPN. Watch these guys with their footwork and hands. Unreal. @Faceoff_Academy

Ooooohhhh, do I smell 2021s and 2022s and 2023s uncommitted face-off invite only clinics for kids who wrestle or watched wrestling on TV but also play lacrosse to be multi sport athletes combine? How do they pick all star teams at face off events, or do they all get to be all stars?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Does St. Anthony's allow freshman to play varsity? Is this kid ready for their varsity?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Age appropriate??

Hmmmmm...

That sounds like a fancy way of saying he was reclassified.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Age appropriate??

Hmmmmm...

That sounds like a fancy way of saying he was reclassified.



Born 2002- age 13... is that better?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does St. Anthony's allow freshman to play varsity? Is this kid ready for their varsity?


He's evidently ready for Bayshore varsity but not even close to ready for St. A's varsity. This may be a way to shelter him for a few years from the physical pounding he would take by playing varsity for Bayshore.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Age appropriate??

Hmmmmm...

That sounds like a fancy way of saying he was reclassified.



Born 2002- age 13... is that better?



So he is not even one of the older ones for his grade..that's great . Someone who is legit and playing clean with no stories behind him
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.


No, not a hardship case, no not an academic issue (just the opposite as many lax rats are) DOB is 2nd qtr 2002 not a hold back. Wasn't meant to be read that way. He is a dedicated hard worker. Although, I am surprised he is actually playing for the town that DID NOTHING TO HELP HIM progress as a player. Him playing for the town shows a level of maturity that many others may not have exercised.

Tell your kid there are a rare few. Exceptions to the rule. He is an example that if you want something it takes genetics, hard work, mental focus, family commitment and dedicated TRAVEL coaches.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.


No, not a hardship case, no not an academic issue (just the opposite as many lax rats are) DOB is 2nd qtr 2002 not a hold back. Wasn't meant to be read that way. He is a dedicated hard worker. Although, I am surprised he is actually playing for the town that DID NOTHING TO HELP HIM progress as a player. Him playing for the town shows a level of maturity that many others may not have exercised.

Tell your kid there are a rare few. Exceptions to the rule. He is an example that if you want something it takes genetics, hard work, mental focus, family commitment and dedicated TRAVEL coaches.


So you recommend he as an with grader say screw the school district??? At this point he is using them to play more lacrosse isn't he? He could have skipped the test .. He should be thanking them for letting him play up. Bay shore has a kid that's better then Rabil and should be proud. Anything less then that would be considered a disaster .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Wish him well, but my guess is if he is this good that everything he's getting now would be available to him in a year or so. And if Tambroni leaves is the next coach obligated?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.


No, not a hardship case, no not an academic issue (just the opposite as many lax rats are) DOB is 2nd qtr 2002 not a hold back. Wasn't meant to be read that way. He is a dedicated hard worker. Although, I am surprised he is actually playing for the town that DID NOTHING TO HELP HIM progress as a player. Him playing for the town shows a level of maturity that many others may not have exercised.

Tell your kid there are a rare few. Exceptions to the rule. He is an example that if you want something it takes genetics, hard work, mental focus, family commitment and dedicated TRAVEL coaches.


So you recommend he as an 8th grader say screw the school district??? At this point he is using them to play more lacrosse isn't he? He could have skipped the test .. He should be thanking them for letting him play up. Bay shore has a kid that's better then Rabil and should be proud. Anything less then that would be considered a disaster .


He should be thanking them, you cant be serious! That is as laughable as you saying he is using them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Article said he is age appropriate.

Heard he was reclassed.

Anyone know truth. Great for the kid and family just wondering.


Age appropriate- doing it the right way.


So is he 13 going on 14??? Or 14 going on 15?


Kid is 13 won't be 14 for a couple of months does that pretty much clear it up, can't make it much simpler .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It is simple the kid is a stud plain and simple. Enjoy the ride kid!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.


No, not a hardship case, no not an academic issue (just the opposite as many lax rats are) DOB is 2nd qtr 2002 not a hold back. Wasn't meant to be read that way. He is a dedicated hard worker. Although, I am surprised he is actually playing for the town that DID NOTHING TO HELP HIM progress as a player. Him playing for the town shows a level of maturity that many others may not have exercised.

Tell your kid there are a rare few. Exceptions to the rule. He is an example that if you want something it takes genetics, hard work, mental focus, family commitment and dedicated TRAVEL coaches.


So you recommend he as an 8th grader say screw the school district??? At this point he is using them to play more lacrosse isn't he? He could have skipped the test .. He should be thanking them for letting him play up. Bay shore has a kid that's better then Rabil and should be proud. Anything less then that would be considered a disaster .


He should be thanking them, you cant be serious! That is as laughable as you saying he is using them.


Someone said about the town not helping him and he was doing them a favor by playing..which is the biggest joke. No one kid is bigger then any team
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Wish him well, but my guess is if he is this good that everything he's getting now would be available to him in a year or so. And if Tambroni leaves is the next coach obligated?


Either side is not obligated until Fall of his senior year when he signs his NLI. Kids decommitt and coaches void verbals all the time.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.


No, not a hardship case, no not an academic issue (just the opposite as many lax rats are) DOB is 2nd qtr 2002 not a hold back. Wasn't meant to be read that way. He is a dedicated hard worker. Although, I am surprised he is actually playing for the town that DID NOTHING TO HELP HIM progress as a player. Him playing for the town shows a level of maturity that many others may not have exercised.

Tell your kid there are a rare few. Exceptions to the rule. He is an example that if you want something it takes genetics, hard work, mental focus, family commitment and dedicated TRAVEL coaches.


What exactly do you want "the town" to do to help an 8th grader progress as a player that they wouldn't do for everybody else? Exactly what kind of resources does the town have to dedicate to making a single 8th grade player better? Give me a break. You are exactly what's wrong with youth lacrosse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Every situation is different but in this case if you know the player and family this is a great choice. If you knew the kid and what he has done and how he got to where he is, you would be proud of him. He puts the time in and is the hardest working player I know.

As far as friends and teammates being jealous then you don't know him or have never been a true teammate. As far as early recruiting, it is a tricky thing, it should be for special players and people. He is both. Good luck - God Bless!!

Ps... I Still think he'll stay at PSU but play another sport. Return of linebacker U
.


Is he a hardship case . You say if you knew what he had done to get there..sounds like there were issues along the way? Or are you saying he works harder then any other kid out there?..just please don't tell me he was held back before kindergarten or later for educational reasons, if so then this all means nothing. Just trying to explain to my kid why these things happen at his age and the possible reasons behind it.


No, not a hardship case, no not an academic issue (just the opposite as many lax rats are) DOB is 2nd qtr 2002 not a hold back. Wasn't meant to be read that way. He is a dedicated hard worker. Although, I am surprised he is actually playing for the town that DID NOTHING TO HELP HIM progress as a player. Him playing for the town shows a level of maturity that many others may not have exercised.

Tell your kid there are a rare few. Exceptions to the rule. He is an example that if you want something it takes genetics, hard work, mental focus, family commitment and dedicated TRAVEL coaches.


So you recommend he as an 8th grader say screw the school district??? At this point he is using them to play more lacrosse isn't he? He could have skipped the test .. He should be thanking them for letting him play up. Bay shore has a kid that's better then Rabil and should be proud. Anything less then that would be considered a disaster .


He should be thanking them, you cant be serious! That is as laughable as you saying he is using them.


Someone said about the town not helping him and he was doing them a favor by playing..which is the biggest joke. No one kid is bigger then any team


The rule of pulling up a player exists solely because of players like him. Once in a decade, on age freaks who has the size speed and IQ. So don't tell me he should be thanking them for the opportunity to play up. They would be idiots if they didn't. (understand im not calling them idiots)

I don't think anyone, besides you, said him playing would be doing the town a favor. But now that you say it, I pose this question, who benefits more by the kid playing, player or team? Player doesn't need to play, but players play and he is an absolute player. Team on the other hand desperately needed him to get involved.

Thankfully the boy does have the maturity to know, it takes a team to have a season, and doesn't think he is better than the team.. but you and I know the team is much better because the player decided to play.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Lets not kid ourselves about a 13 year old's maturity regarding the strategy of where he plays and who he plays for. He's taking care of things he can control on the field but I'm sure his parents and club coach are calling all of the shots off the field. He'll miss his Bayshore teammates and friends in town for sure.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Lets not kid ourselves about a 13 year old's maturity regarding the strategy of where he plays and who he plays for. He's taking care of things he can control on the field but I'm sure his parents and club coach are calling all of the shots off the field. He'll miss his Bayshore teammates and friends in town for sure.


Most kids at that age are puppets to their parents and coaches . They are not mature enough to make decisions on their own. It's ok..They are still kids
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It is kind of funny that it's Tambroni doing the earlier and earlier recruiting move considering the best player that ever played under him was a kid that barely registered on the D-I recruiting landscape until the kid played his senior season.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.
The jealousy from other parents of a kid committing never ceases to amaze me. Happens on the boys and girls side. Be happy for the kid. It is the system that needs to be changed by the NCAA (boys and girls coaches have submitted proposals) and until that happens or enough data is there to say early recruiting doesn't work, nothing will change.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Moving to St. Anthony's takes care of the problem playing against bigger, stronger, faster. He won't play varsity until a couple of years from now given the system that St. A's operates.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?


West Islip
Ward Melville
Northport
Smithtown East
Smithtown West
Hills East
Hills West
Connetquot
Sachem North

He wouldnt start on any of these teams. Agreed the rest of the league is mediocre but that group right there can be pretty competitive and has been for years. Not pounding my chest at all, just pointing out that Suffolk A is considered an extremely competitive conference and historically those teams give preference to the older more experienced kids and that is a fact.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Speaking of linebacker U...Does he play football? He's a big 8th grader.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?


West Islip
Ward Melville
Northport
Smithtown East
Smithtown West
Hills East
Hills West
Connetquot
Sachem North

He wouldnt start on any of these teams. Agreed the rest of the league is mediocre but that group right there can be pretty competitive and has been for years. Not pounding my chest at all, just pointing out that Suffolk A is considered an extremely competitive conference and historically those teams give preference to the older more experienced kids and that is a fact.


Bay shore only plays 4 games against what you would call top A teams so there will be plenty of games to pad the stats and make it look good
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From what you just said it doesn't sound like your kid is that much of a stud. Do you really want your 12 or 13 year old hanging out with 18 year old kids? Your probably in a small school that does not have a good number of kids to choose from and they are bringing up your son. That's what it sounds like to me. There's a big difference maturity wise in a 13 year old and an 18 year old. I just hope your son doesn't get hurt playing with the bigger kids. If I were you I would let him stay at middle school he can go up next year. Well best of luck to your son. Think about it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?


West Islip
Ward Melville
Northport
Smithtown East
Smithtown West
Hills East
Hills West
Connetquot
Sachem North

He wouldnt start on any of these teams. Agreed the rest of the league is mediocre but that group right there can be pretty competitive and has been for years. Not pounding my chest at all, just pointing out that Suffolk A is considered an extremely competitive conference and historically those teams give preference to the older more experienced kids and that is a fact.


Yes, he would start on most or get plenty of playing time on the teams that you list. Please do not act as though it is unheard of for 9th graders to see a lot of time on those teams. He as good or better than most if not all 9th graders that have come through in the past several years.
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He would start on WI for sure.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?


West Islip
Ward Melville
Northport
Smithtown East
Smithtown West
Hills East
Hills West
Connetquot
Sachem North

He wouldnt start on any of these teams. Agreed the rest of the league is mediocre but that group right there can be pretty competitive and has been for years. Not pounding my chest at all, just pointing out that Suffolk A is considered an extremely competitive conference and historically those teams give preference to the older more experienced kids and that is a fact.


Yes, he would start on most or get plenty of playing time on the teams that you list. Please do not act as though it is unheard of for 9th graders to see a lot of time on those teams. He as good or better than most if not all 9th graders that have come through in the past several years.


Besides the fact he is in 8th grade .. You are talking about Suffolk county not Nassau correct?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
He would start on WI for sure.


Not even close, they have 4 committed 2017 and 2016 attackmen and the head coach always favors the older kids. Try again
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The fact is 2019 and 2020 classes are very strong. A lot of extremely good lacrosse players with outstanding IQ's and stick skills that are better then the older kids. I see it with my high school. The younger kids are better lacrosse players plain and simple.
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Bay Shore had a game against Islip yesterday, howd that go?
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Bay Shore is lucky to have him play with them. His level of play is way above what Bay Shore is producing. As far as leaving school im sure he will know a good amount of kids going to st anthony's.
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Syosset kid played as an 8th grader...worked out pretty well for him as it has him at Hopkins.
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would start on GC so he wouldn't go to Chammy
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OK, so who is next to come off the board at 2020?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The fact is 2019 and 2020 classes are very strong. A lot of extremely good lacrosse players with outstanding IQ's and stick skills that are better then the older kids. I see it with my high school. The younger kids are better lacrosse players plain and simple.


Sorry, you have absolutely no idea what youre talking about. The 2017 and 2018 classes on Long Island are absolutely loaded with excellent lacrosse players. I dont know what high school your speaking of but if the 2019 and 2020 classes are better than the 16's, 17's and 18's, its gonna be a long long year for you.
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i agree. this is from some freshman mom at best. what an idiotic post.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Bay Shore had a game against Islip yesterday, howd that go?


Welcome to the world of pressure and stats, not fun for these high profile early commits, you need a thick skin!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The fact is 2019 and 2020 classes are very strong. A lot of extremely good lacrosse players with outstanding IQ's and stick skills that are better then the older kids. I see it with my high school. The younger kids are better lacrosse players plain and simple.


Sorry, you have absolutely no idea what youre talking about. The 2017 and 2018 classes on Long Island are absolutely loaded with excellent lacrosse players. I dont know what high school your speaking of but if the 2019 and 2020 classes are better than the 16's, 17's and 18's, its gonna be a long long year for you.


to say 2017 and 2016 are not loaded means you haven't followed LI lax for a while. each year has its studs play makers and avg palyers.

I will say there are pockets of 2019 towns and even less 2020. 2021's step it up a knotch again but even at 2019 you never know what you will get in the next few years. Cant compare 2019/2020 to '16 '17
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The fact is 2019 and 2020 classes are very strong. A lot of extremely good lacrosse players with outstanding IQ's and stick skills that are better then the older kids. I see it with my high school. The younger kids are better lacrosse players plain and simple.


Sorry, you have absolutely no idea what youre talking about. The 2017 and 2018 classes on Long Island are absolutely loaded with excellent lacrosse players. I dont know what high school your speaking of but if the 2019 and 2020 classes are better than the 16's, 17's and 18's, its gonna be a long long year for you.


to say 2017 and 2016 are not loaded means you haven't followed LI lax for a while. each year has its studs play makers and avg palyers.

I will say there are pockets of 2019 towns and even less 2020. 2021's step it up a knotch again but even at 2019 you never know what you will get in the next few years. Cant compare 2019/2020 to '16 '17


cmon mom. send your little 2019/2020 towards my 2016 kid so my kid can pound your little tyke. But then you will call for a penalty..and complain about playing against older kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Better stick skills please can they face dodge, bull rush a guy, blow passed a guy , the answer is no. Please shut up and enjoy watching the older boys that are on your sons team.
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Wow big tough guys!! Again fathers who rant on here because they sucked in athletics growing up. Living through your boys!
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probably knocked you on your butt too
Lets face it every year has its strong players and club teams. Many of the best club teams are loaded with talent and as a whole the players look better on the team then they are as individuals. These players get the looks because they happen to play on a club team that has been together for a long time and they have won many tournaments and showcases. Each year has had these particular teams.

Now you take some of these early recruits and you see that they mostly play for strong club teams that have given them exposure. A town team player or a player that doesn't play for one of these elite club will not get this exposure at such an early age. Maybe the club coach has connections and is promoting the kid to college coaches at an early age. Most people will say that "well if a player is so good he would get picked up by one of these elite club teams". That is not the case and if you have been around travel ball you know there are many reasons why some kids are not picked to play on these elite teams. Like not trying out, politics and nepotism and or pay your way onto a team etc. It happens all the time. I have seen it many times when you take the so called elite club team player and put them in an unbiased playing situation they don'ts stand out like they do on their club team because plays aren't drawn up specifically for them or they haven't had the chance to practice or play with the other players at the prospect day or individual showcase like they do with their own teammates. I am not saying that there are not studs and regardless of who they play with or against they will shine but there are not as many as people assume or predict. Many so called great players are a product of a well coached team and they fit well into a system that has been built around them and their teammates.

I have said it before early recruiting has been around for a very very long time they just weren't publicized like it is in this day and age of social media and extended coverage of lacrosse. Most early commits were in 10th and 11th grade but weren't publicized until signing day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Coaches void verbals all the time? I am not trying to be confrontational, I didn't know that. This is the first time I have ever heard anything but the standard line " coaches never void the verbal, even if it is a new coach because its bad for recruiting". I know the kids do it, I didn't know it was happening in reverse as well. This is a little disconcerting as my son is a 2019 and still has two years to go until his NLI - if he even gets there. I understand academic and behavioral issues could lead to a de-commit, but your post makes it sound like it is a little more arbitrary. If anyone else knows about this happening all the time, I would love to be enlightened. Definitely something I would like to know going in.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Coaches void verbals all the time? I am not trying to be confrontational, I didn't know that. This is the first time I have ever heard anything but the standard line " coaches never void the verbal, even if it is a new coach because its bad for recruiting". I know the kids do it, I didn't know it was happening in reverse as well. This is a little disconcerting as my son is a 2019 and still has two years to go until his NLI - if he even gets there. I understand academic and behavioral issues could lead to a de-commit, but your post makes it sound like it is a little more arbitrary. If anyone else knows about this happening all the time, I would love to be enlightened. Definitely something I would like to know going in.


Rarely happens.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.


Ok....so when does it happen ALL THE TIME in Lacrosse?? I only know of one out of the hundreds of kids I'm familiar with. And it was for a good reason, and all the fault of the kid. Can you please cite some examples of your false claims?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.


And FYI, Tampa not a reputable D1 program, should not even be in this conversation,
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.

Ok....so when does it happen ALL THE TIME in Lacrosse?? I only know of one out of the hundreds of kids I'm familiar with. And it was for a good reason, and all the fault of the kid. Can you please cite some examples of your false claims?


I guess reading comprehension is not one of your strengths. It clearly states, as early recruiting increases and becomes more frequent, one can bet over recruiting will occur. And to the other poster, again reading is fundamental. Never said Tampa was D1 did I?

Im around this game more years than I care to divulge. I know what I know.
I guess your not familiar with Penn State circa 2011 recruiting class and verbals.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.

Ok....so when does it happen ALL THE TIME in Lacrosse?? I only know of one out of the hundreds of kids I'm familiar with. And it was for a good reason, and all the fault of the kid. Can you please cite some examples of your false claims?


I guess reading comprehension is not one of your strengths. It clearly states, as early recruiting increases and becomes more frequent, one can bet over recruiting will occur. And to the other poster, again reading is fundamental. Never said Tampa was D1 did I?

Im around this game more years than I care to divulge. I know what I know.
I guess your not familiar with Penn State circa 2011 recruiting class and verbals.


My reading comprehension is fine. You are on speculating. There are barely any examples of D1 lacrosse coaches decommitting kids. If you believe I'm wrong, please provide some examples! If anything, kids switch their commitment to find a better fit. As long as a kid adheres to the verbal agreement, coach would not decommit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It does happen a lot. The first thing Tambroni did when he took the Penn State job was to release all the commits and he told them he may or may not recruit them again. That should serve as notice for any HS underclassman who commits to UVA or another program where the coach is headed out the door. It also happens a lot more than people think when kids decommit here and then commit there. This can be a family just upgrading from a Furman to a UNC but just as often it is a kid who is getting a signal that he's not lined up well anymore to get the earlier promised scholarship and he should consider looking into other options. That is a polite way of saying you can come here and walk on but that may not be in your best interests.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It does happen a lot. The first thing Tambroni did when he took the Penn State job was to release all the commits and he told them he may or may not recruit them again. That should serve as notice for any HS underclassman who commits to UVA or another program where the coach is headed out the door. It also happens a lot more than people think when kids decommit here and then commit there. This can be a family just upgrading from a Furman to a UNC but just as often it is a kid who is getting a signal that he's not lined up well anymore to get the earlier promised scholarship and he should consider looking into other options. That is a polite way of saying you can come here and walk on but that may not be in your best interests.


The Penn State example is not really a good one, because he did not recruit those kids. Yes if you commit early and the coach leaves for whatever reason your verbal is obviously null, unless the new coach wants you. My point still remains that it is extremely rare for a coach to decommit a kid he recruited. Simply does not happen, provided the kid adheres to the specifications of the verbal. I've been through this with two sons and practically every kid in their recruiting cohort is going where they committed. You are correct that some switch their commitment, either because they did not meet Ivy requirements or they got a better offer because their level of play increased dramatically. This I found to be the exception, not the norm.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Happens a lot? What is your definition of a lot? To me a lot would be 8 out of 10 kids...I think your over the top on your call there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My biggest problem with this recent 2020 Verbal, is that now on my son's 2020 summer team, there will be those 2 or 3 parents, who will feel further enabled to loudly encourage their sons from the sidelines to do it 'all', just to showcase. And not sure how this helps to develop middle school players to play a team based game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It does happen a lot. The first thing Tambroni did when he took the Penn State job was to release all the commits and he told them he may or may not recruit them again. That should serve as notice for any HS underclassman who commits to UVA or another program where the coach is headed out the door. It also happens a lot more than people think when kids decommit here and then commit there. This can be a family just upgrading from a Furman to a UNC but just as often it is a kid who is getting a signal that he's not lined up well anymore to get the earlier promised scholarship and he should consider looking into other options. That is a polite way of saying you can come here and walk on but that may not be in your best interests.


The Penn State example is not really a good one, because he did not recruit those kids. Yes if you commit early and the coach leaves for whatever reason your verbal is obviously null, unless the new coach wants you. My point still remains that it is extremely rare for a coach to decommit a kid he recruited. Simply does not happen, provided the kid adheres to the specifications of the verbal. I've been through this with two sons and practically every kid in their recruiting cohort is going where they committed. You are correct that some switch their commitment, either because they did not meet Ivy requirements or they got a better offer because their level of play increased dramatically. This I found to be the exception, not the norm.


The U Delaware coach this past summer fired all of his assistants and voided all of the 2016 verbals and went and recruited all new kids. While this is certainly not the norm, it is a good example of the volatility of this process and how nothing is guaranteed.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.

Ok....so when does it happen ALL THE TIME in Lacrosse?? I only know of one out of the hundreds of kids I'm familiar with. And it was for a good reason, and all the fault of the kid. Can you please cite some examples of your false claims?


I guess reading comprehension is not one of your strengths. It clearly states, as early recruiting increases and becomes more frequent, one can bet over recruiting will occur. And to the other poster, again reading is fundamental. Never said Tampa was D1 did I?

Im around this game more years than I care to divulge. I know what I know.
I guess your not familiar with Penn State circa 2011 recruiting class and verbals.

Or dartmouth
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Happens ALLLLLLLL the time in Football, heck there are even twitter account parodies of specific coaches(ahem Michigan coach, Alabama coach) who are notorious for offering 150 verbals a recruiting cycle for 25-30 roster spots. As for lacrosse specific, look at what is going on at U Tampa. The earlier and more frequent early recruiting gets, you can bet your dollars on it increasing.

Ok....so when does it happen ALL THE TIME in Lacrosse?? I only know of one out of the hundreds of kids I'm familiar with. And it was for a good reason, and all the fault of the kid. Can you please cite some examples of your false claims?


I guess reading comprehension is not one of your strengths. It clearly states, as early recruiting increases and becomes more frequent, one can bet over recruiting will occur. And to the other poster, again reading is fundamental. Never said Tampa was D1 did I?

Im around this game more years than I care to divulge. I know what I know.
I guess your not familiar with Penn State circa 2011 recruiting class and verbals.

Or dartmouth


Ok, what happened at Dartmouth?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I can accept to an extent that coaches are loathe to drop recruits. But weren't they also loathe to join the earlier recruiting trend? Wasn't that something none of them ever did 3 years ago? It is also a given none have never had commits who went from 8th or 9th grade to 11th grade without getting better (or have seen other recruits in the same class pass them by).

Quite honestly, are these really men who are beyond reproach? They went early to compete, and if they needed to dump recruits to compete they'd do this as easily. Dropping a recruit will be a bad thing and something that singles out a coach in a negative way only until the next coach does it too and then a herd of them do it after that. Who is the bad guy then?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.
Even In Bernie Sander's world, if this kid is in the top 1% for both the 2020 & 2019 class, which people on here seem to think, then he would definitely be getting more than 0.3. There would be just a little less shares for the rest.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.


I don't think it ever did, anywhere. Just speculations on such an early valuable commit. Lets not blow that out of proportion, only the family and school will truly know what was offered to them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think de-committing is starting to happen at a more rapid pace as is poaching committed players. There are plenty of stories of kids not getting in to their committed university for a variety of reasons including academics. It would be more interesting to see how many play all four years at college. Many drop out before their junior year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.


I don't think it ever did, anywhere. Just speculations on such an early valuable commit. Lets not blow that out of proportion, only the family and school will truly know what was offered to them.
Yes, I shouldn't have speculated 'full scholarship' and stuck with 'substantial', but let's be honest, if he's truly the #1 recruit in the country for both 2020 & 2019 as some have said on these forums, then anything less than 95% for such an early top rated recruit is not what I would expect. And I'm speaking in general terms, not even this particular player/family. Would go for any Top 5 recruit in any sport.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.


I don't think it ever did, anywhere. Just speculations on such an early valuable commit. Lets not blow that out of proportion, only the family and school will truly know what was offered to them.
Yes, I shouldn't have speculated 'full scholarship' and stuck with 'substantial', but let's be honest, if he's truly the #1 recruit in the country for both 2020 & 2019 as some have said on these forums, then anything less than 95% for such an early top rated recruit is not what I would expect. And I'm speaking in general terms, not even this particular player/family. Would go for any Top 5 recruit in any sport.


Not true, the very best are getting 50-70% of total cost, I know a few that have been considered the best in their positions and this is what they are getting. Some say full ride because they are getting 100% of tuition, which is not really a full ride. I think any kid that gets upwards of 25% of total cost has done really well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.


I don't think it ever did, anywhere. Just speculations on such an early valuable commit. Lets not blow that out of proportion, only the family and school will truly know what was offered to them.
Yes, I shouldn't have speculated 'full scholarship' and stuck with 'substantial', but let's be honest, if he's truly the #1 recruit in the country for both 2020 & 2019 as some have said on these forums, then anything less than 95% for such an early top rated recruit is not what I would expect. And I'm speaking in general terms, not even this particular player/family. Would go for any Top 5 recruit in any sport.


Not true, the very best are getting 50-70% of total cost, I know a few that have been considered the best in their positions and this is what they are getting. Some say full ride because they are getting 100% of tuition, which is not really a full ride. I think any kid that gets upwards of 25% of total cost has done really well.
Agree with this, this has been our experience as well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People are on here questioning why an extremely talented 2020 would early commit, while I'm guessing he got a pretty substantial commitment from PSU.
The one's I don't quite understand are the 15+ 2019s committing to Maryland. (A similar state school to PSU, btw.) So far there are 7 Middies and 3 FO/M. Are they committing just for a chance to try-out? with a good chance of being red-shirted freshman year and possibly the next. I'm guessing 2018 has a similar sized class, which then brings it to how much money is actually available when there are only 12.6 scholarships available per team, with a roster size around 50 the athletic scholarship money can't be much. (I realize there's always academic money)
Again, not sure why some are questioning a full scholarship verbal commitment to PSU and not those who are accepting a rather limited Verbal to Maryland.

As a side note, having gone through this with a baseball son a few years back, what coaches & recruiters always told us "If you could throw a 95mph fastball or hit a 95mph fastball" a school would always be able to 'find' you scholarship money. Unfortunately my son could do neither, and I'm not sure what the lacrosse analogy would be, but even in later years there are slots available, so this whole notion of slots disappearing is not quite true for kids who can really play.


Where did it say that this kid got a "Full Scholarship"? PSU carries 43 players. I know many coaches like to give something to each kid. That equals about 0.3 of a scholarship or around $14K for out of state tuition of $48K.


I don't think it ever did, anywhere. Just speculations on such an early valuable commit. Lets not blow that out of proportion, only the family and school will truly know what was offered to them.
Yes, I shouldn't have speculated 'full scholarship' and stuck with 'substantial', but let's be honest, if he's truly the #1 recruit in the country for both 2020 & 2019 as some have said on these forums, then anything less than 95% for such an early top rated recruit is not what I would expect. And I'm speaking in general terms, not even this particular player/family. Would go for any Top 5 recruit in any sport.


Not true, the very best are getting 50-70% of total cost, I know a few that have been considered the best in their positions and this is what they are getting. Some say full ride because they are getting 100% of tuition, which is not really a full ride. I think any kid that gets upwards of 25% of total cost has done really well.
Agree with this, this has been our experience as well.


The way it was explained to me with my son is that no one gets a full ride, the max you can get is your full tuition covered. Room and board are never covered and unless your dirt poor youre not getting financial aid. Depending on his academics my son has the opportunity to get up to his full tuition covered. From what Ive seen and heard anything more than 25 percent is big
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think de-committing is starting to happen at a more rapid pace as is poaching committed players. There are plenty of stories of kids not getting in to their committed university for a variety of reasons including academics. It would be more interesting to see how many play all four years at college. Many drop out before their junior year


And many are NOT de-committing in the Jr (2017) class. Our son was a very early freshman commit to a top 20 D1 program. he has had a few other D1 programs "lightly" approach him thru a club coaches, but it was NEVER a "rapid pace of poaching". And exact same goes for several of our friends sons in same age. that committed as freshman also.

We read stuff on here 2 years ago that kids like mine would "de-commit" or not be as good as they got older or wouldn't get in due to academics. Well our son KEPT his committed, the coach HASNT been fired, he was approved by admissions an he is nationally ranked player.

So any of you with younger kids committed already, dont believe half the crap you hear or read, dont let these people who's kids are NOT being actively recruited SCARE you. Most are are envious/jealous of you and your son.

Only thing to say to someones son whom commits at ANY age is - CONGRATS.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think de-committing is starting to happen at a more rapid pace as is poaching committed players. There are plenty of stories of kids not getting in to their committed university for a variety of reasons including academics. It would be more interesting to see how many play all four years at college. Many drop out before their junior year


And many are NOT de-committing in the Jr (2017) class. Our son was a very early freshman commit to a top 20 D1 program. he has had a few other D1 programs "lightly" approach him thru a club coaches, but it was NEVER a "rapid pace of poaching". And exact same goes for several of our friends sons in same age. that committed as freshman also.

We read stuff on here 2 years ago that kids like mine would "de-commit" or not be as good as they got older or wouldn't get in due to academics. Well our son KEPT his committed, the coach HASNT been fired, he was approved by admissions an he is nationally ranked player.

So any of you with younger kids committed already, dont believe half the crap you hear or read, dont let these people who's kids are NOT being actively recruited SCARE you. Most are are envious/jealous of you and your son.

Only thing to say to someones son whom commits at ANY age is - CONGRATS.



Exactly the same story over here. You are on Point!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think your nuts but congrats to your kid who has a good head on his shoulders. Be real man not alot of kids are that focused. I have four and only one knew what he wanted to do. They are all athletic and played hs lax. Just because a kid makes a verbal doesn't mean alot in most cases. If you were a kid wouldn't you want to go to duke or ND? Who wouldn't. Maybe two out of ten really know what they want to do. Don't try to encourage people to tell their kid oh that's great. Your leaving out alot of info. You could probably afford it but others may not. That's just for starters. If I have to explain the rest to you then you have problems. What's good for one may not be good for others so put a lid on it. People like you would make other kids feel like crap nd you would enjoy it I'm sure. Think before you speak. Happy easter. Go say a prayer for those less fortunate. Tone it down a bit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Congratulations to all of the young men and women who have been recognized by college coaches and have been recruited and accepted offers. You have been blessed with athletic ability and I am sure that you have worked extremely hard on the field and in the classroom.

To all the jealous bitter haters out there. Give it a rest. Be happy for someone other than you child.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think de-committing is starting to happen at a more rapid pace as is poaching committed players. There are plenty of stories of kids not getting in to their committed university for a variety of reasons including academics. It would be more interesting to see how many play all four years at college. Many drop out before their junior year


And many are NOT de-committing in the Jr (2017) class. Our son was a very early freshman commit to a top 20 D1 program. he has had a few other D1 programs "lightly" approach him thru a club coaches, but it was NEVER a "rapid pace of poaching". And exact same goes for several of our friends sons in same age. that committed as freshman also.

We read stuff on here 2 years ago that kids like mine would "de-commit" or not be as good as they got older or wouldn't get in due to academics. Well our son KEPT his committed, the coach HASNT been fired, he was approved by admissions an he is nationally ranked player.

So any of you with younger kids committed already, dont believe half the crap you hear or read, dont let these people who's kids are NOT being actively recruited SCARE you. Most are are envious/jealous of you and your son.

Only thing to say to someones son whom commits at ANY age is - CONGRATS.



That's the key .You think people are jealous of you the parent..Wake up no one cares about you the father.Its about the kid to a lot of us but obviously your ego is more important than your sons well being..Think about it
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think your nuts but congrats to your kid who has a good head on his shoulders. Be real man not alot of kids are that focused. I have four and only one knew what he wanted to do. They are all athletic and played hs lax. Just because a kid makes a verbal doesn't mean alot in most cases. If you were a kid wouldn't you want to go to duke or ND? Who wouldn't. Maybe two out of ten really know what they want to do. Don't try to encourage people to tell their kid oh that's great. Your leaving out alot of info. You could probably afford it but others may not. That's just for starters. If I have to explain the rest to you then you have problems. What's good for one may not be good for others so put a lid on it. People like you would make other kids feel like crap nd you would enjoy it I'm sure. Think before you speak. Happy easter. Go say a prayer for those less fortunate. Tone it down a bit.


I really don't get when people say that the kids don't know what they want to do. Most of these big schools have great business programs, science programs and liberal arts. You need graduate/secondary schooling in most cases to go on to be a lawyer, dr, teacher, journalist, therapist, etc. You may be able to land a job in business at an entry level spot, but many go for their MBA as well. It's not like these kids are choosing schools that don't have well established programs that will meet the interests and goals of 95% of incoming freshman. Plus, come sophomore year when you declare a major many kids are still undecided and choose a major that they will not end up working in ever.

I personally think if you are offered a sizable chunk off of any decent school, it's a win! I agree with the previous poster as well- only thing to say to an early commit is congratulations.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think de-committing is starting to happen at a more rapid pace as is poaching committed players. There are plenty of stories of kids not getting in to their committed university for a variety of reasons including academics. It would be more interesting to see how many play all four years at college. Many drop out before their junior year


And many are NOT de-committing in the Jr (2017) class. Our son was a very early freshman commit to a top 20 D1 program. he has had a few other D1 programs "lightly" approach him thru a club coaches, but it was NEVER a "rapid pace of poaching". And exact same goes for several of our friends sons in same age. that committed as freshman also.

We read stuff on here 2 years ago that kids like mine would "de-commit" or not be as good as they got older or wouldn't get in due to academics. Well our son KEPT his committed, the coach HASNT been fired, he was approved by admissions an he is nationally ranked player.

So any of you with younger kids committed already, dont believe half the crap you hear or read, dont let these people who's kids are NOT being actively recruited SCARE you. Most are are envious/jealous of you and your son.

Only thing to say to someones son whom commits at ANY age is - CONGRATS.


Agree with most of what youre saying here, I have a committed son as well but our experience has been a little different as he did not commit as early as your son. If a kid such as yours stays the course and is able to get into a rigorous academic school and keeps his commitment he should get all the credit in the world as it is not easy for a kid that age to stay focused and keep his eyes on the prize.

I think where a lot of the negativity and jealousy comes from are these so called "high school lacrosse experts" who are ranking kids in 8th and 9th grade which puts undue pressure and attention on kids who should be focusing on getting better and enjoying high school not worrying about where they are ranked. As I think you know, those rankings are HIGHLY subjective and in the scheme of things mean absolutely nothing. This is not to disparage your son in any way as I am sure he is a fine player but the reality is most of those rankings are self serving and political. The only true measure of a player is their impact on a varsity field not what some so called "expert" thinks because he saw the kid at some showcase or club tournament. Some kids stand out early and everyone knows they will be great players moving forward, as for the rest I think that story is written as they progress. Some will go on to do great things, others will not.

Finally I completely agree with your last statement, any kid who commits to a D1 program in the current competitive climate as it is deserves to be congratulated and celebrated, not criticized as it is a pretty darn impressive accomplishment considering the statistics of how many kids actually get the opportunity to play college lacrosse.
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I don't note this to poke anything negative at families or kids, but the context does beg for a few more details. My son is also a 2017, he did not commit early. He had some opportunities but not ones that were at schools on his very narrow dream list, or they were weaker academic colleges we as parents just blocked off. He is a good enough student and player to go the NECSAC route. Our family does get lightly approached as well about the possibility of being a preferred walk on (a roster spot recruit with no money) by a few now including, to my surprise, one on his very short list from 9th grade.

His very short list in 9th grade had three schools, all of which were fabulous lacrosse programs at good academic colleges, but now his preferences with a blank piece of paper are none of the three.

The 2017 class was the first one where early 9th graders committed in large numbers. But early recruiting was hardly pioneered in his class. There are current college sophs who committed as rising sophs in large numbers. I would argue this trend has reached onto the field and we are getting early data on the early recruiting now.

Hopkins = nailed it with the class that is now sophs, they appear to have found a few freshmen who can play. Their HS early commits in our hotbed area I'd say are some hit and many miss. One Final Four last year after 8 years of no Final Fours.

UNC = kind of a mess. They rode the Sankey / Bitter show (which was last year's college seniors who were from an era before 9th or early 10th grade ER in large #s) with ok results. They are not strong this year and look like a program that will be in build mode for the next 1-2 years. No Final Fours in last decade. I have seen all of the early recruits in our area and most in other areas to UNC and as a whole it is a very underwhelming group. Breschi knows he needs to poach like crazy in the next few years to survive and he is doing it in a big way.

UVA = absolulte dumpster fire to quote Quint Kessenich. Half the kids on the team are considering quitting (my son is very close friends with two first year players and we know one of their families very well). The current players and families seem happy enough with UVA as a school, but there is a pall hanging over the program and it is hard to imagine the coach won't leave after this year. I have seen UVA recruits in our area and around and it has a star or two in each class, but then a lot of mistakes after that.

I think people should suspend belief over "what can't happen" or "what never happened" considering there hasn't been an era like the one starting now where programs can implode fast by recruiting and managing the program poorly for a few years...then it starts to show up.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I don't note this to poke anything negative at families or kids, but the context does beg for a few more details. My son is also a 2017, he did not commit early. He had some opportunities but not ones that were at schools on his very narrow dream list, or they were weaker academic colleges we as parents just blocked off. He is a good enough student and player to go the NECSAC route. Our family does get lightly approached as well about the possibility of being a preferred walk on (a roster spot recruit with no money) by a few now including, to my surprise, one on his very short list from 9th grade.

His very short list in 9th grade had three schools, all of which were fabulous lacrosse programs at good academic colleges, but now his preferences with a blank piece of paper are none of the three.

The 2017 class was the first one where early 9th graders committed in large numbers. But early recruiting was hardly pioneered in his class. There are current college sophs who committed as rising sophs in large numbers. I would argue this trend has reached onto the field and we are getting early data on the early recruiting now.

Hopkins = nailed it with the class that is now sophs, they appear to have found a few freshmen who can play. Their HS early commits in our hotbed area I'd say are some hit and many miss. One Final Four last year after 8 years of no Final Fours.

UNC = kind of a mess. They rode the Sankey / Bitter show (which was last year's college seniors who were from an era before 9th or early 10th grade ER in large #s) with ok results. They are not strong this year and look like a program that will be in build mode for the next 1-2 years. No Final Fours in last decade. I have seen all of the early recruits in our area and most in other areas to UNC and as a whole it is a very underwhelming group. Breschi knows he needs to poach like crazy in the next few years to survive and he is doing it in a big way.

UVA = absolulte dumpster fire to quote Quint Kessenich. Half the kids on the team are considering quitting (my son is very close friends with two first year players and we know one of their families very well). The current players and families seem happy enough with UVA as a school, but there is a pall hanging over the program and it is hard to imagine the coach won't leave after this year. I have seen UVA recruits in our area and around and it has a star or two in each class, but then a lot of mistakes after that.

I think people should suspend belief over "what can't happen" or "what never happened" considering there hasn't been an era like the one starting now where programs can implode fast by recruiting and managing the program poorly for a few years...then it starts to show up.


You make total sense, it all comes down to this: nothing is for sure until they sign the NLI and then it is only guaranteed for a year. If you child "commits" with this in mind, then they won't be totally surprised if something changes. I would say, you ALWAYS need to have a back-up plan. Will early "commitments" work for some kids, yes, will they not work out for others, yes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I don't note this to poke anything negative at families or kids, but the context does beg for a few more details. My son is also a 2017, he did not commit early. He had some opportunities but not ones that were at schools on his very narrow dream list, or they were weaker academic colleges we as parents just blocked off. He is a good enough student and player to go the NECSAC route. Our family does get lightly approached as well about the possibility of being a preferred walk on (a roster spot recruit with no money) by a few now including, to my surprise, one on his very short list from 9th grade.

His very short list in 9th grade had three schools, all of which were fabulous lacrosse programs at good academic colleges, but now his preferences with a blank piece of paper are none of the three.

The 2017 class was the first one where early 9th graders committed in large numbers. But early recruiting was hardly pioneered in his class. There are current college sophs who committed as rising sophs in large numbers. I would argue this trend has reached onto the field and we are getting early data on the early recruiting now.

Hopkins = nailed it with the class that is now sophs, they appear to have found a few freshmen who can play. Their HS early commits in our hotbed area I'd say are some hit and many miss. One Final Four last year after 8 years of no Final Fours.

UNC = kind of a mess. They rode the Sankey / Bitter show (which was last year's college seniors who were from an era before 9th or early 10th grade ER in large #s) with ok results. They are not strong this year and look like a program that will be in build mode for the next 1-2 years. No Final Fours in last decade. I have seen all of the early recruits in our area and most in other areas to UNC and as a whole it is a very underwhelming group. Breschi knows he needs to poach like crazy in the next few years to survive and he is doing it in a big way.

UVA = absolulte dumpster fire to quote Quint Kessenich. Half the kids on the team are considering quitting (my son is very close friends with two first year players and we know one of their families very well). The current players and families seem happy enough with UVA as a school, but there is a pall hanging over the program and it is hard to imagine the coach won't leave after this year. I have seen UVA recruits in our area and around and it has a star or two in each class, but then a lot of mistakes after that.

I think people should suspend belief over "what can't happen" or "what never happened" considering there hasn't been an era like the one starting now where programs can implode fast by recruiting and managing the program poorly for a few years...then it starts to show up.


You make total sense, it all comes down to this: nothing is for sure until they sign the NLI and then it is only guaranteed for a year. If you child "commits" with this in mind, then they won't be totally surprised if something changes. I would say, you ALWAYS need to have a back-up plan. Will early "commitments" work for some kids, yes, will they not work out for others, yes.


I'm not sure if this is true anywhere else, but I have seen the Penn State NLI. It stated in writing that the agreed scholarship amount is guaranteed for all 4 years, and will not be reduced. It can go up based on performance, but not down. Maybe that's a reason that certain schools offers are more attractive than others?
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I believe the B1G conference put that 4 year clause into NLIs in 2014. Not all programs or conferences have the same. That written, one further caution. The money can be guaranteed for 4 years, but the coach can still cut a player. That's happened before at some programs in and beyond the B1G. For example, lots of kids transfer out of Maryland after first year. Tillman constructively exits kids by telling them they are out of the picture and he'll give them a release if they'd like to play somewhere else. That's no different from being cut.
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From Quint Kessenich's piece in Inside Lacrosse magazine today.

"Early recruiting is disgusting: The evaluation and recruitment of eighth- and ninth-graders disgusts me. Penn State recently reached a verbal agreement with an eighth-grader. It's flat out wrong on many levels. Coaches I respect and admire are participating. They must not see the damage they are doing at the high school level to kids and their families. Nobody benefits from this."
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I don't belive the parents on this site. Any kid that gives a verbal so early I guess you can call it good thing. Talk to me when the kid signs a letter then I'll be happy. See most people are true to themselves and of their children. I for one know that my kids can make any travel A team around here. That's with taking the politics out of it and basing it on talent. So what should I do take them to a college that I can't afford or wait that he can't afford. See people this is reality. Most people don't have the big bucks that most of you on this site seem to have. I would never do that too my kids. Why feed them a dream when I know they are above average students and not scholars. You see this is what real people think about when there kid is talking about college. Maybe you should try to have friends that are average as far as income and not as fancy of a car that you have. Don't look down upon others cause carma is a [lacrosse]. People aren't mad that the kid gave a verbal it's more about the parents on this site. You need to get a life and be realistic. You think your kid could go to a 50 or 60k school if you didn't make alot of money. You would not be writing stuff on this site if your position was different. Be thankful you got it like that. The percentage of kids committing to D1 schools is nothing compared to the amount of kids that are playing the sport.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I don't belive the parents on this site. Any kid that gives a verbal so early I guess you can call it good thing. Talk to me when the kid signs a letter then I'll be happy. See most people are true to themselves and of their children. I for one know that my kids can make any travel A team around here. That's with taking the politics out of it and basing it on talent. So what should I do take them to a college that I can't afford or wait that he can't afford. See people this is reality. Most people don't have the big bucks that most of you on this site seem to have. I would never do that too my kids. Why feed them a dream when I know they are above average students and not scholars. You see this is what real people think about when there kid is talking about college. Maybe you should try to have friends that are average as far as income and not as fancy of a car that you have. Don't look down upon others cause carma is a [lacrosse]. People aren't mad that the kid gave a verbal it's more about the parents on this site. You need to get a life and be realistic. You think your kid could go to a 50 or 60k school if you didn't make alot of money. You would not be writing stuff on this site if your position was different. Be thankful you got it like that. The percentage of kids committing to D1 schools is nothing compared to the amount of kids that are playing the sport.
what's carma?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I don't belive the parents on this site. Any kid that gives a verbal so early I guess you can call it good thing. Talk to me when the kid signs a letter then I'll be happy. See most people are true to themselves and of their children. I for one know that my kids can make any travel A team around here. That's with taking the politics out of it and basing it on talent. So what should I do take them to a college that I can't afford or wait that he can't afford. See people this is reality. Most people don't have the big bucks that most of you on this site seem to have. I would never do that too my kids. Why feed them a dream when I know they are above average students and not scholars. You see this is what real people think about when there kid is talking about college. Maybe you should try to have friends that are average as far as income and not as fancy of a car that you have. Don't look down upon others cause carma is a [lacrosse]. People aren't mad that the kid gave a verbal it's more about the parents on this site. You need to get a life and be realistic. You think your kid could go to a 50 or 60k school if you didn't make alot of money. You would not be writing stuff on this site if your position was different. Be thankful you got it like that. The percentage of kids committing to D1 schools is nothing compared to the amount of kids that are playing the sport.


First of all, if finances are an issue for you? You need to look into needs based aid. If you're looking at Ivies and Patriots, and make less than $150,000 a year, you're looking at getting 50% on needs based alone. Bring your income down to $75,000 and you're looking at nearly 100% needs based. Many other schools follow the same program. If money is still an issue, look at SUNY schools. $22-23k a year or less. Further, if your son has decent grades and is an exceptional lacrosse player he may be able to garner upwards of 55% at a $57,000 a year school at a mid-level D1 program.
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Here's another novel thought; if money is tight stop shelling out thousands for travel lacrosse, over priced showcases, off season training, personal coaches, etc. Amazed at how many people cannot get the money out of their pocket fast enough to pay for travel lacrosse but then complain they can't afford college. Everyone makes choices.....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
From Quint Kessenich's piece in Inside Lacrosse magazine today.

"Early recruiting is disgusting: The evaluation and recruitment of eighth- and ninth-graders disgusts me. Penn State recently reached a verbal agreement with an eighth-grader. It's flat out wrong on many levels. Coaches I respect and admire are participating. They must not see the damage they are doing at the high school level to kids and their families. Nobody benefits from this."


Quint is biggest jerk off of all time looks like an elf
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You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Excellent goalie, Hall of Fame definitely. Don't know about 'greatest living'.

Plus, if he thinks early recruiting is disgusting, how can he say in the next line 'coaches I respect'. That respect should be thrown out the window if he truly believes it's disgusting.

It's just as bad as the coaches who say it's wrong but early recruit anyway.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Glad that Hopkins degree is paying off, lol!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I don't belive the parents on this site. Any kid that gives a verbal so early I guess you can call it good thing. Talk to me when the kid signs a letter then I'll be happy. See most people are true to themselves and of their children. I for one know that my kids can make any travel A team around here. That's with taking the politics out of it and basing it on talent. So what should I do take them to a college that I can't afford or wait that he can't afford. See people this is reality. Most people don't have the big bucks that most of you on this site seem to have. I would never do that too my kids. Why feed them a dream when I know they are above average students and not scholars. You see this is what real people think about when there kid is talking about college. Maybe you should try to have friends that are average as far as income and not as fancy of a car that you have. Don't look down upon others cause carma is a [lacrosse]. People aren't mad that the kid gave a verbal it's more about the parents on this site. You need to get a life and be realistic. You think your kid could go to a 50 or 60k school if you didn't make alot of money. You would not be writing stuff on this site if your position was different. Be thankful you got it like that. The percentage of kids committing to D1 schools is nothing compared to the amount of kids that are playing the sport.


Was there a point in this mess somewhere? Drunk posting is usually not a good idea.......
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
From Quint Kessenich's piece in Inside Lacrosse magazine today.

"Early recruiting is disgusting: The evaluation and recruitment of eighth- and ninth-graders disgusts me. Penn State recently reached a verbal agreement with an eighth-grader. It's flat out wrong on many levels. Coaches I respect and admire are participating. They must not see the damage they are doing at the high school level to kids and their families. Nobody benefits from this."


Hes wrong, the money grubbing clubs and useless showcases benefit greatly from this.........
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Just because he had some success on the field doesn't mean he's the all knowing lax god. When he has the opportunity, does he use his time on TV to call these schools out on early recruiting? NO. Does he call for change and an age based system in the youth leagues with all the holdbacks and double holdbacks? NO. How about his girlfriend Carc? He runs the most exclusive Showcase in Lacrosse recruiting. Does he stand up and make the that event age based? NO. That's all you need to know about Quint, he's a coward as is his buddy. Just soaking the game for as much money as they can. Plain and simple.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Just because he had some success on the field doesn't mean he's the all knowing lax god. When he has the opportunity, does he use his time on TV to call these schools out on early recruiting? NO. Does he call for change and an age based system in the youth leagues with all the holdbacks and double holdbacks? NO. How about his girlfriend Carc? He runs the most exclusive Showcase in Lacrosse recruiting. Does he stand up and make the that event age based? NO. That's all you need to know about Quint, he's a coward as is his buddy. Just soaking the game for as much money as they can. Plain and simple.
Ironically, both you guys have a good point....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Just because he had some success on the field doesn't mean he's the all knowing lax god. When he has the opportunity, does he use his time on TV to call these schools out on early recruiting? NO. Does he call for change and an age based system in the youth leagues with all the holdbacks and double holdbacks? NO. How about his girlfriend Carc? He runs the most exclusive Showcase in Lacrosse recruiting. Does he stand up and make the that event age based? NO. That's all you need to know about Quint, he's a coward as is his buddy. Just soaking the game for as much money as they can. Plain and simple.


To be fair I have heard him on gameday blasting the recruiting process and he has always been critical of the club lacrosse circuit. As far as Carc and Showtime, no one in lacrosse runs age based showcases so you cant be too critical of him for that. If your saying he should stand up and be a leader and make it age based, your point is well taken. I think Quint and Carc honestly care about the game. Yes they are both benefiting financially from it, but I think there are other people to point to that need to step up and make the changes necessary.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Sorry, I'm confused now. Does Quint's employer ESPN have a club lacrosse program I'm unaware of? His ESPN paycheck is for covering college lacrosse, but he's one of few guys who has crossed the chasm to be a very successful ESPN reporter and broadcaster in other college sports. He doesn't make a living from lacrosse, and for years ran a goalie camp at Boys' Latin for kids down all the way to age 8. My son did that camp twice and it was fantastic. Based on what it cost and how many coaches were there instructing I doubt Quint cleared much if any money from it.

Quint's job in the booth is not to politic the innards of the game. His job is to cover the game. As a writer for Inside Lacrosse he is covering a wider scope and makes his opinion editorial known. Clearly some don't agree with his views on early recruiting, but is not expressing that view on anonymous chat boards. At some level it might be uncomfortable for Quint to know Petro and others well but also criticize them where he disagrees, but he walks that line and does it. That is not cowardly, it's just a view you don't like hearing.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Just because he had some success on the field doesn't mean he's the all knowing lax god. When he has the opportunity, does he use his time on TV to call these schools out on early recruiting? NO. Does he call for change and an age based system in the youth leagues with all the holdbacks and double holdbacks? NO. How about his girlfriend Carc? He runs the most exclusive Showcase in Lacrosse recruiting. Does he stand up and make the that event age based? NO. That's all you need to know about Quint, he's a coward as is his buddy. Just soaking the game for as much money as they can. Plain and simple.


How do you know what he does and doesnt do!!! Your just assuming you know. What the guy has is years of experience playing at the highest level, years of experience coaching, and years of experience covering lacrosse, and as a matter of fact other college sports for ESPN. What more do you need to receive some credit and respect by all the All American parents on this site. Come on people. What more can the guy do to let coaches know that he hates the early recruiting. He said how he feels and now people are attacking him.

Whats your profession. Arent you just soaking up what you do to make a living because you are good at it. You make no sense
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If anyone is interested Penn State over undefeated #1 Denver 15-10 final. In this current enviornment any given day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I just played the rewind of MSG varsity's All star show where they picked their Metro MVP's for 2015 Carc was saying how he thought HS is much better lax than club HS. How HS is the best way to see how a kid plays. He absolutely downed the notion of Early recruiting to the point that I know may put him in

WHAT? REALLY!

I am sure his tune will change after he sees some of these true young guns play.

Id love to see some of the top 2020 club teams play some of these JV teams tlk about precision and practice till perfection.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Playing on a top club team does get you to the most competitive events against better competition, but in my opinion the better the club team the worse the player development. The top clubs just want the club resume to read success placing kids to colleges, so they rush that early process and then move on. Have you seen a 10th or an 11th grade club lacrosse event in the past year? UGLY. Lots of committed kids who haven't gotten better since 8th grade. Just plain ugly. Top club teams also have the effect of hiding pretty good players and on a top team it gets harder to not mistake them as better players than they are. Filling a narrow role on a club team and playing in only a few games that are better than 15-3 type scores doesn't prepare a kid physically or mentally to play college lacrosse. This is one thing that Quint opined on and he is right.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Playing on a top club team does get you to the most competitive events against better competition, but in my opinion the better the club team the worse the player development. The top clubs just want the club resume to read success placing kids to colleges, so they rush that early process and then move on. Have you seen a 10th or an 11th grade club lacrosse event in the past year? UGLY. Lots of committed kids who haven't gotten better since 8th grade. Just plain ugly. Top club teams also have the effect of hiding pretty good players and on a top team it gets harder to not mistake them as better players than they are. Filling a narrow role on a club team and playing in only a few games that are better than 15-3 type scores doesn't prepare a kid physically or mentally to play college lacrosse. This is one thing that Quint opined on and he is right.


Everything is relative but to me if that is what you see you not watching a top club play. Question, How many top clubs keep it together past summer after soph year? I'd agree on scond tier
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No the kid who was the stud in 8th grade was the early bloomer and looked head and shoulders above everyone else. This is so true in so many cases. Seen it time and time again. And when other kids catch up in regards to growth and puberty it's a different story.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No the kid who was the stud in 8th grade was the early bloomer and looked head and shoulders above everyone else. This is so true in so many cases. Seen it time and time again. And when other kids catch up in regards to growth and puberty it's a different story.


I've had different experieneces. The 8th grade varsity pull-ups I know may have dipped a year (sophomore slumps - it happens) but in my experience are still the top kids in the class . Not to say others in other peoples experience it is different but you say time and time again I don't see time and time again.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I have seen many early bloomers in 8th and 9th grade look incredible because they reached puberty early and became bigger stronger faster and when the other boys caught up they didn't look so good. And a lot of kids surpass them. I think with this early recruiting we will see the parity continue through college lacrosse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No the kid who was the stud in 8th grade was the early bloomer and looked head and shoulders above everyone else. This is so true in so many cases. Seen it time and time again. And when other kids catch up in regards to growth and puberty it's a different story.


I've had different experieneces. The 8th grade varsity pull-ups I know may have dipped a year (sophomore slumps - it happens) but in my experience are still the top kids in the class . Not to say others in other peoples experience it is different but you say time and time again I don't see time and time again.


This wouldn't be a problem if only the handful of 8th grade studs brought up to varsity were the ones being recruited early. The issue here is that every single college commit these days is being recruited/committed early.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Just because he had some success on the field doesn't mean he's the all knowing lax god. When he has the opportunity, does he use his time on TV to call these schools out on early recruiting? NO. Does he call for change and an age based system in the youth leagues with all the holdbacks and double holdbacks? NO. How about his girlfriend Carc? He runs the most exclusive Showcase in Lacrosse recruiting. Does he stand up and make the that event age based? NO. That's all you need to know about Quint, he's a coward as is his buddy. Just soaking the game for as much money as they can. Plain and simple.


How do you know what he does and doesnt do!!! Your just assuming you know. What the guy has is years of experience playing at the highest level, years of experience coaching, and years of experience covering lacrosse, and as a matter of fact other college sports for ESPN. What more do you need to receive some credit and respect by all the All American parents on this site. Come on people. What more can the guy do to let coaches know that he hates the early recruiting. He said how he feels and now people are attacking him.

Whats your profession. Arent you just soaking up what you do to make a living because you are good at it. You make no sense


Obviously, you have some sort of personal connection here. However, I will engage you. So I ask you: Is Lacrosse now just a business? Or is it a sport? To compare it to a regular business is a ridiculous notion. When you make your living off the sport you played, you should, and will be held to a higher standard. You should be a role model for the sport. You should fight for change and use your position to better the game. Can you agree with that?
To your point, these guys reached the highest levels of the sport. With that, comes a responsibility to be a leader. To stand up for what's right. In PC's case, when you line your pockets with the cash of parents of kids who are trying to get recruited, you'd better be squeaky clean. When your camp promotes and allows kids who are two years older than age appropriate players to play down in your event, you my friend are part of the problem. He's feeding the early recruiting machine, plain and simple. When you have the platform (ESPN) and the top camp, you're in a position to help change what's wrong with game. When you instead choose to follow the money, you lose respect with people. You can sugar coat it all you want, but the guy is disingenuous. So what he says, and what does (and profits from) are two very different things. Not sure of where that guy was in 8th or 9th grade, but if he was competing for a spot at SU against kids two years older, like todays 8th and 9th graders have to do at his exclusive camp, there's more than a significant chance he never makes it.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You're right. It isn't like he's the greatest living goalie or own national championships at Hopkins. What does he know.


Just because he had some success on the field doesn't mean he's the all knowing lax god. When he has the opportunity, does he use his time on TV to call these schools out on early recruiting? NO. Does he call for change and an age based system in the youth leagues with all the holdbacks and double holdbacks? NO. How about his girlfriend Carc? He runs the most exclusive Showcase in Lacrosse recruiting. Does he stand up and make the that event age based? NO. That's all you need to know about Quint, he's a coward as is his buddy. Just soaking the game for as much money as they can. Plain and simple.


How do you know what he does and doesnt do!!! Your just assuming you know. What the guy has is years of experience playing at the highest level, years of experience coaching, and years of experience covering lacrosse, and as a matter of fact other college sports for ESPN. What more do you need to receive some credit and respect by all the All American parents on this site. Come on people. What more can the guy do to let coaches know that he hates the early recruiting. He said how he feels and now people are attacking him.

Whats your profession. Arent you just soaking up what you do to make a living because you are good at it. You make no sense


Obviously, you have some sort of personal connection here. However, I will engage you. So I ask you: Is Lacrosse now just a business? Or is it a sport? To compare it to a regular business is a ridiculous notion. When you make your living off the sport you played, you should, and will be held to a higher standard. You should be a role model for the sport. You should fight for change and use your position to better the game. Can you agree with that?
To your point, these guys reached the highest levels of the sport. With that, comes a responsibility to be a leader. To stand up for what's right. In PC's case, when you line your pockets with the cash of parents of kids who are trying to get recruited, you'd better be squeaky clean. When your camp promotes and allows kids who are two years older than age appropriate players to play down in your event, you my friend are part of the problem. He's feeding the early recruiting machine, plain and simple. When you have the platform (ESPN) and the top camp, you're in a position to help change what's wrong with game. When you instead choose to follow the money, you lose respect with people. You can sugar coat it all you want, but the guy is disingenuous. So what he says, and what does (and profits from) are two very different things. Not sure of where that guy was in 8th or 9th grade, but if he was competing for a spot at SU against kids two years older, like todays 8th and 9th graders have to do at his exclusive camp, there's more than a significant chance he never makes it.


No personal connection at all. We are talking about Kessenich voicing his dislike of early recruiting. Kessenich voiced his dislike of it and how his friends who coach that he respects are doing it. What more can he do.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Playing on a top club team does get you to the most competitive events against better competition, but in my opinion the better the club team the worse the player development. The top clubs just want the club resume to read success placing kids to colleges, so they rush that early process and then move on. Have you seen a 10th or an 11th grade club lacrosse event in the past year? UGLY. Lots of committed kids who haven't gotten better since 8th grade. Just plain ugly. Top club teams also have the effect of hiding pretty good players and on a top team it gets harder to not mistake them as better players than they are. Filling a narrow role on a club team and playing in only a few games that are better than 15-3 type scores doesn't prepare a kid physically or mentally to play college lacrosse. This is one thing that Quint opined on and he is right.


Gibberish.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Quint is terrible and shockingly enough not respected by people in the sport. Since he started other sports on ESPN he comes out of left field very often ill informed. Sons coach has a few friends on MLL teams and he is despised there which is why he has been taken away from most MLL action. Guy is a fraud. Now Evan Washburn, Carcaterra or even yesterday Ryan Boyke are true professionals. Quint is not
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Playing on a top club team does get you to the most competitive events against better competition, but in my opinion the better the club team the worse the player development. The top clubs just want the club resume to read success placing kids to colleges, so they rush that early process and then move on. Have you seen a 10th or an 11th grade club lacrosse event in the past year? UGLY. Lots of committed kids who haven't gotten better since 8th grade. Just plain ugly. Top club teams also have the effect of hiding pretty good players and on a top team it gets harder to not mistake them as better players than they are. Filling a narrow role on a club team and playing in only a few games that are better than 15-3 type scores doesn't prepare a kid physically or mentally to play college lacrosse. This is one thing that Quint opined on and he is right.


I'm thinking that you are referring to boys lax. Because of you are referring to girls' lacrosse - you are way off. Is this why your 'chose' not to have your kid(s) play on "top club teams"?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Terrible or not he is all we have to grow the sport right now. Do you really think he wants to ruffle feathers and ask the hard questions and cause problems. He wants to keep this career going. There are so many problems in the sport and you can point fingers all day. Change is slow process. You can look back as far as the Gait brothers and how old they were when they played at Syracuse. Early recruiting was not big in those days. Freshmen were 18 not 19-20. You went to a school after you decided in 11 -12 grade and STAYED THERE. You didnt commit early and then only last a year because you don't like where you are. When you have kids that are 21 yr old freshmen things are going to happen. Last thing and I have played the game for 40+ years at all levels IT IS A BUSINESS
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Quint is terrible and shockingly enough not respected by people in the sport. Since he started other sports on ESPN he comes out of left field very often ill informed. Sons coach has a few friends on MLL teams and he is despised there which is why he has been taken away from most MLL action. Guy is a fraud. Now Evan Washburn, Carcaterra or even yesterday Ryan Boyke are true professionals. Quint is not


I'd never put PC and RB in same category as Washburn. Washburn is the only one of the bunch to truly handle multiple sports, extremely well.

RB is the leader of promoting holdbacks and teaching players and families on how to beat the system, who are you kidding?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Quint is terrible and shockingly enough not respected by people in the sport. Since he started other sports on ESPN he comes out of left field very often ill informed. Sons coach has a few friends on MLL teams and he is despised there which is why he has been taken away from most MLL action. Guy is a fraud. Now Evan Washburn, Carcaterra or even yesterday Ryan Boyke are true professionals. Quint is not


As I stated above, Carcaterra says he's against early recruiting, yet he promotes it and profits from it through his Elite Showcase camp. He further is an active participant and facilitator of the holdback and double holdback scourge as well. Not bashing the guy, just stating the facts. Can't say one thing and profit from the exact opposite.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I totally agree with you. Here's another thought: If these same parents spent their thousands of dollars on math or science extra help, extracurricular courses or summer camps instead of travel lacrosse and clinics, their kids could get a much more valuable academic scholarship, succeed throughout college and then land a high-paying job once school ended. Great math skills can get you very far in life as math builds critical thinking skills necessary for any rewarding career. It's the nerds that make the big bucks, not the athletes. For every successful professional athlete, there are many more successful businessmen in the corporate world. I also don't understand why parents spend so much money on a sport in which there is no chance of earning a living playing it. If your son is a great athlete, steer him towards the sports that pack the stadiums and are on primetime TV. Lacrosse peaks in college and then it fizzles. It's a dead-end sport. I've been to MLL games. D1 (even D2 and D3) college games much more exciting.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I agree, the money probably would be better spent elsewhere . That being said, I have a find who's kid is lights out and LOVES the game, so in some ways, he is stuck so I donut blame hi for going Fla and other places. He refuses to hold his kid back a year though.But unless you kid is lights out money spent on other extra curricular activities , Eagle Scout, etc will help more for getting into schools and getting money off. If you are very good student and your borderline for a certain college they may take you if you play lax, practice squad players always needed and players who bring the team average up. I have seen not so good players helped pt get into a place because they play.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I totally agree with you. Here's another thought: If these same parents spent their thousands of dollars on math or science extra help, extracurricular courses or summer camps instead of travel lacrosse and clinics, their kids could get a much more valuable academic scholarship, succeed throughout college and then land a high-paying job once school ended. Great math skills can get you very far in life as math builds critical thinking skills necessary for any rewarding career. It's the nerds that make the big bucks, not the athletes. For every successful professional athlete, there are many more successful businessmen in the corporate world. I also don't understand why parents spend so much money on a sport in which there is no chance of earning a living playing it. If your son is a great athlete, steer him towards the sports that pack the stadiums and are on primetime TV. Lacrosse peaks in college and then it fizzles. It's a dead-end sport. I've been to MLL games. D1 (even D2 and D3) college games much more exciting.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I totally agree with you. Here's another thought: If these same parents spent their thousands of dollars on math or science extra help, extracurricular courses or summer camps instead of travel lacrosse and clinics, their kids could get a much more valuable academic scholarship, succeed throughout college and then land a high-paying job once school ended. Great math skills can get you very far in life as math builds critical thinking skills necessary for any rewarding career. It's the nerds that make the big bucks, not the athletes. For every successful professional athlete, there are many more successful businessmen in the corporate world. I also don't understand why parents spend so much money on a sport in which there is no chance of earning a living playing it. If your son is a great athlete, steer him towards the sports that pack the stadiums and are on primetime TV. Lacrosse peaks in college and then it fizzles. It's a dead-end sport. I've been to MLL games. D1 (even D2 and D3) college games much more exciting.


I used to agree with what your saying but I'm starting to not believe it anymore. I have a close family friend who's son does extremely well in school. As of right now he is ranked 2nd in his class and has over a 100 weighted average. He is in all honors classes and take multiple ap courses. He also did extremely well on his sat's. He's in some clubs but does not play any sports. He applied to about 10 very good schools including some ivy's. So far he's only got into one school he applied to. There's been at least 5 or 6 that said no or has wait listed him. I know another kid who was a great wrestler in high school and had like a 90 average. He is now a freshman at Harvard. If it wasn't for wrestling he had ZERO chance of going to Harvard.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


Top schools want unique. Some of the schools he applied to had 50,000 applicants for 2,500 spots. Unfortunately smart white men are not that unique. State wrestling champions are. To be fair the wrestler is very intelligent. Although his gpa was in the low 90's he scored very high on the sat's. Couple that with over 200 career wins and a state championship he could of went to any ivy or patriot league school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I totally agree with you. Here's another thought: If these same parents spent their thousands of dollars on math or science extra help, extracurricular courses or summer camps instead of travel lacrosse and clinics, their kids could get a much more valuable academic scholarship, succeed throughout college and then land a high-paying job once school ended. Great math skills can get you very far in life as math builds critical thinking skills necessary for any rewarding career. It's the nerds that make the big bucks, not the athletes. For every successful professional athlete, there are many more successful businessmen in the corporate world. I also don't understand why parents spend so much money on a sport in which there is no chance of earning a living playing it. If your son is a great athlete, steer him towards the sports that pack the stadiums and are on primetime TV. Lacrosse peaks in college and then it fizzles. It's a dead-end sport. I've been to MLL games. D1 (even D2 and D3) college games much more exciting.


I used to agree with what your saying but I'm starting to not believe it anymore. I have a close family friend who's son does extremely well in school. As of right now he is ranked 2nd in his class and has over a 100 weighted average. He is in all honors classes and take multiple ap courses. He also did extremely well on his sat's. He's in some clubs but does not play any sports. He applied to about 10 very good schools including some ivy's. So far he's only got into one school he applied to. There's been at least 5 or 6 that said no or has wait listed him. I know another kid who was a great wrestler in high school and had like a 90 average. He is now a freshman at Harvard. If it wasn't for wrestling he had ZERO chance of going to Harvard.
HE IS A STATE CHAMP or a 1 percenter. the rest of us 99 percenters are better off with tutors
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I totally agree with you. Here's another thought: If these same parents spent their thousands of dollars on math or science extra help, extracurricular courses or summer camps instead of travel lacrosse and clinics, their kids could get a much more valuable academic scholarship, succeed throughout college and then land a high-paying job once school ended. Great math skills can get you very far in life as math builds critical thinking skills necessary for any rewarding career. It's the nerds that make the big bucks, not the athletes. For every successful professional athlete, there are many more successful businessmen in the corporate world. I also don't understand why parents spend so much money on a sport in which there is no chance of earning a living playing it. If your son is a great athlete, steer him towards the sports that pack the stadiums and are on primetime TV. Lacrosse peaks in college and then it fizzles. It's a dead-end sport. I've been to MLL games. D1 (even D2 and D3) college games much more exciting.


I used to agree with what your saying but I'm starting to not believe it anymore. I have a close family friend who's son does extremely well in school. As of right now he is ranked 2nd in his class and has over a 100 weighted average. He is in all honors classes and take multiple ap courses. He also did extremely well on his sat's. He's in some clubs but does not play any sports. He applied to about 10 very good schools including some ivy's. So far he's only got into one school he applied to. There's been at least 5 or 6 that said no or has wait listed him. I know another kid who was a great wrestler in high school and had like a 90 average. He is now a freshman at Harvard. If it wasn't for wrestling he had ZERO chance of going to Harvard.


Ver few kids in the top cohort are getting into top 10 schools without a special, unique standout talent. That actually trumps good grades by a decent margin. The way it goes now, unless you are a minority, and even they are getting turned away like the white boys!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I totally agree with you. Here's another thought: If these same parents spent their thousands of dollars on math or science extra help, extracurricular courses or summer camps instead of travel lacrosse and clinics, their kids could get a much more valuable academic scholarship, succeed throughout college and then land a high-paying job once school ended. Great math skills can get you very far in life as math builds critical thinking skills necessary for any rewarding career. It's the nerds that make the big bucks, not the athletes. For every successful professional athlete, there are many more successful businessmen in the corporate world. I also don't understand why parents spend so much money on a sport in which there is no chance of earning a living playing it. If your son is a great athlete, steer him towards the sports that pack the stadiums and are on primetime TV. Lacrosse peaks in college and then it fizzles. It's a dead-end sport. I've been to MLL games. D1 (even D2 and D3) college games much more exciting.


I used to agree with what your saying but I'm starting to not believe it anymore. I have a close family friend who's son does extremely well in school. As of right now he is ranked 2nd in his class and has over a 100 weighted average. He is in all honors classes and take multiple ap courses. He also did extremely well on his sat's. He's in some clubs but does not play any sports. He applied to about 10 very good schools including some ivy's. So far he's only got into one school he applied to. There's been at least 5 or 6 that said no or has wait listed him. I know another kid who was a great wrestler in high school and had like a 90 average. He is now a freshman at Harvard. If it wasn't for wrestling he had ZERO chance of going to Harvard.


Ver few kids in the top cohort are getting into top 10 schools without a special, unique standout talent. That actually trumps good grades by a decent margin. The way it goes now, unless you are a minority, and even they are getting turned away like the white boys!


It's not necessarily that those in the "top cohort" don't get in to these top tier schools (top schools are made up of these top students), it's just that they have to basically roll the dice when it comes to the admissions process. Good non-URM students have to just throw applications all over the place and see what sticks.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Acceptance to the elite colleges is a daunting task, and there are a variety of reasons that extrodinary grades aren't enough anymore.

First is the ever growing number of applicants without increased numbers of spots. Personally, I blame the common application for this. Think about it, in the old days you had to fill out specific unique applications & write an essay that answered a specific question that the school had on their application, This was a pain in the [lacrosse], and most kids pushed back on the work of doing more than 5 or 6. It was always "one safe, one reach, and 4 probables". Couple that with the fact that the cost of applying to college hasn't really gone up much. In the 70s and early 80's it was about $35-40 bucks per school, now it's $60-80 per app. Most parents are okay with sending out a few extra apps, considering the competition for acceptance, and the kids are now only doing one application so they're on board with more too. Now kids are applying to mid teens, just making getting in that much harder.

Then look at it from the admission offices side. And this is what a good friend was told by the Admission head at Duke three years ago. His son was a high achiever at Duke but his daughter was rejected.....Top grades, volunteer work, extracurriculars and team sports. Just not a star in any.

Anyway, the guy said that every year they get their 18k to 20k applications. From that there are certain things that must be done, and certain things that get the attention of his team. They need to replace all the seniors who make things function. By that he meant sports teams, theater groups, band members, choirs, etc. etc.. This is hundreds of kids, and yes they need to meet academic standards, but if they are elite in their respective discipline then those standards may be lessened.

Then there is the legacy pool. All schools will look at legacies with a slightly different prism. Legacies with a history of financial giving will also be acknowledged, no shock there. Most children of graduates from elite school understand this is a help and will naturally apply to their parents Alma Maters.

The next bucket the dean from Duke mentioned is the VIP kids. These are the sons and daughters of influential folks. For example, kids of senators, CEOs, high profile people (not TMZ people)......you understand. This group might also include kids of foreign officials.

Then throw in the age old desire for these schools to have diversity. They want all 50 states recognized, they want a certain percentage of foreign students.
They want a diversity of ethnicities....duh.

Once they get through filling those slots that must be filled, or accepting the kid that they can't reject for "political reasons", they are left with a very contracted number of open seats. Perhaps as few as 50% of the incoming class.

At Duke, in this particular year they made the decision to cull the heard by eliminating anyone who hadn't achieved something at a National Level. Put another way, they wanted kids who had achieved something that garnered them some sort of national recognition or award. All the applicants that didn't fall into the previous buckets had grades that were good enough, all were top 5% of their HS classes. They were all great kids. Heck they were probably extremely well rounded, but unfortunately they weren't great at anything other than schoolwork.

Seems very unfair, until you think like the guy running a school, and you understand that schoolwork isn't the only thing that matters to a colleges success.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


I don't believe that. Last year a girl in our high school, a public school in a small neighborhood, made it into 4 Ivy League colleges with academics only. Look at the kid from elmont who got into every Ivy League school. Only academics. People want to believe the "you need sports" because they have to make themselves feel better. Maybe your friend didn't get the SAT score he says he did
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


I don't believe that. Last year a girl in our high school, a public school in a small neighborhood, made it into 4 Ivy League colleges with academics only. Look at the kid from elmont who got into every Ivy League school. Only academics. People want to believe the "you need sports" because they have to make themselves feel better. Maybe your friend didn't get the SAT score he says he did


And why do you think the (admittedly very smart and very accomplished) kid from Elmont get into every school to which he applied? Let's not derail the thread here. You don't seem to understand how the college admissions process works.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


I don't believe that. Last year a girl in our high school, a public school in a small neighborhood, made it into 4 Ivy League colleges with academics only. Look at the kid from elmont who got into every Ivy League school. Only academics. People want to believe the "you need sports" because they have to make themselves feel better. Maybe your friend didn't get the SAT score he says he did
The Elmont kid was a highly academic black Nigerian immigrant, who founded a mentoring program that was regionally recognized. It was his ethnicity and his recognized accomplishment that got him into all Ivies, not purely his academics.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


I don't believe that. Last year a girl in our high school, a public school in a small neighborhood, made it into 4 Ivy League colleges with academics only. Look at the kid from elmont who got into every Ivy League school. Only academics. People want to believe the "you need sports" because they have to make themselves feel better. Maybe your friend didn't get the SAT score he says he did
The Elmont kid was a highly academic black Nigerian immigrant, who founded a mentoring program that was regionally recognized. It was his ethnicity and his recognized accomplishment that got him into all Ivies, not purely his academics.


Ughh, I think it was 99% Ethnicity. Do you have any idea how many white kids have much better grades and accomplishments and can't get into one Ivy???? The reverse discrimination is down right disgusting at this point.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Acceptance to the elite colleges is a daunting task, and there are a variety of reasons that extrodinary grades aren't enough anymore.

First is the ever growing number of applicants without increased numbers of spots. Personally, I blame the common application for this. Think about it, in the old days you had to fill out specific unique applications & write an essay that answered a specific question that the school had on their application, This was a pain in the [lacrosse], and most kids pushed back on the work of doing more than 5 or 6. It was always "one safe, one reach, and 4 probables". Couple that with the fact that the cost of applying to college hasn't really gone up much. In the 70s and early 80's it was about $35-40 bucks per school, now it's $60-80 per app. Most parents are okay with sending out a few extra apps, considering the competition for acceptance, and the kids are now only doing one application so they're on board with more too. Now kids are applying to mid teens, just making getting in that much harder.

Then look at it from the admission offices side. And this is what a good friend was told by the Admission head at Duke three years ago. His son was a high achiever at Duke but his daughter was rejected.....Top grades, volunteer work, extracurriculars and team sports. Just not a star in any.

Anyway, the guy said that every year they get their 18k to 20k applications. From that there are certain things that must be done, and certain things that get the attention of his team. They need to replace all the seniors who make things function. By that he meant sports teams, theater groups, band members, choirs, etc. etc.. This is hundreds of kids, and yes they need to meet academic standards, but if they are elite in their respective discipline then those standards may be lessened.

Then there is the legacy pool. All schools will look at legacies with a slightly different prism. Legacies with a history of financial giving will also be acknowledged, no shock there. Most children of graduates from elite school understand this is a help and will naturally apply to their parents Alma Maters.

The next bucket the dean from Duke mentioned is the VIP kids. These are the sons and daughters of influential folks. For example, kids of senators, CEOs, high profile people (not TMZ people)......you understand. This group might also include kids of foreign officials.

Then throw in the age old desire for these schools to have diversity. They want all 50 states recognized, they want a certain percentage of foreign students.
They want a diversity of ethnicities....duh.

Once they get through filling those slots that must be filled, or accepting the kid that they can't reject for "political reasons", they are left with a very contracted number of open seats. Perhaps as few as 50% of the incoming class.

At Duke, in this particular year they made the decision to cull the heard by eliminating anyone who hadn't achieved something at a National Level. Put another way, they wanted kids who had achieved something that garnered them some sort of national recognition or award. All the applicants that didn't fall into the previous buckets had grades that were good enough, all were top 5% of their HS classes. They were all great kids. Heck they were probably extremely well rounded, but unfortunately they weren't great at anything other than schoolwork.

Seems very unfair, until you think like the guy running a school, and you understand that schoolwork isn't the only thing that matters to a colleges success.



As a Duke grad, I had hoped that Duke's "VIP" preferences were a thing of the past, back when they were trying to build an endowment. I would hope that a legacy (and I'd include a sibling in this regard) would be able to get in if they were above the median for academic benchmarks and well-rounded, but what you say is consistent with all the blather about wanting "pointy" students and a "well-rounded student body".

Anyway, back to ER but staying with Duke, what's a bummer is that Duke can only put their thumb on the admissions scale for 7-8 students a year and they fill those spots up before a kid even plays his sophomore season of lacrosse. So if a kid hits his growth spurt at age 15 (which is pretty normal) versus 13-14 (or being a holdback), he might be a stud varsity player and have median or better academics and still have almost no chance to get into his dream school. Well, at least his parents don't have to try to afford $60K a year tuition . . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


I don't believe that. Last year a girl in our high school, a public school in a small neighborhood, made it into 4 Ivy League colleges with academics only. Look at the kid from elmont who got into every Ivy League school. Only academics. People want to believe the "you need sports" because they have to make themselves feel better. Maybe your friend didn't get the SAT score he says he did
The Elmont kid was a highly academic black Nigerian immigrant, who founded a mentoring program that was regionally recognized. It was his ethnicity and his recognized accomplishment that got him into all Ivies, not purely his academics.


Ughh, I think it was 99% Ethnicity. Do you have any idea how many white kids have much better grades and accomplishments and can't get into one Ivy???? The reverse discrimination is down right disgusting at this point.


His race is certainly why he got into all those schools; in this particular case, however, he seems very deserving.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
First LI Female 8th grader committed to BC yesterday.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First LI Female 8th grader committed to BC yesterday.


So the 2020 girls are beating the boys now by 2 to 1 in the class ER if you keeping score at home.

The good news is that if you daughter finishes her freshman year with no offers, she can quickly switch focus to volleyball or field hockey for the D1 opportunity. cry
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First LI Female 8th grader committed to BC yesterday.


so funny how she is already putting BC'24 on her twitter page.. hilarious on some level an eighth grader looking forward to college grad year.. is that weird to anyone else?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First LI Female 8th grader committed to BC yesterday.


so funny how she is already putting BC'24 on her twitter page.. hilarious on some level an eighth grader looking forward to college grad year.. is that weird to anyone else?
I'm waiting for the first '24 / Google Employment '28 Twitter/Instagram page. My 2020 8th grader still hasn't decided which High School he's going to....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm surprised that your friend's son school acceptances are going tougher than expected with that perfect grade average and high SATs. Can his lack of sports be the only reason? Hard to believe but your story about the wrestling kid confirms it. I'm glad to hear it helped him get into Harvard.


I don't believe that. Last year a girl in our high school, a public school in a small neighborhood, made it into 4 Ivy League colleges with academics only. Look at the kid from elmont who got into every Ivy League school. Only academics. People want to believe the "you need sports" because they have to make themselves feel better. Maybe your friend didn't get the SAT score he says he did
The Elmont kid was a highly academic black Nigerian immigrant, who founded a mentoring program that was regionally recognized. It was his ethnicity and his recognized accomplishment that got him into all Ivies, not purely his academics.


Ughh, I think it was 99% Ethnicity. Do you have any idea how many white kids have much better grades and accomplishments and can't get into one Ivy???? The reverse discrimination is down right disgusting at this point.

LOL. You should see how tough it is for Asians to get in.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No not weird at all. This girl worked her tail off obviously to get this offer. Congrats to her and her family.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First LI Female 8th grader committed to BC yesterday.


So the 2020 girls are beating the boys now by 2 to 1 in the class ER if you keeping score at home.

The good news is that if you daughter finishes her freshman year with no offers, she can quickly switch focus to volleyball or field hockey for the D1 opportunity. cry

I've already discussed it with my daughter, she's almost done with her freshman year and has not gotten any offers yet. She has agreed to just admit that she's not going succeed like all those D1 players and will just settle for D3 and play for MIT instead. It's unfortunate when this realization comes about. I have a feeling that the other parents on the club team will no longer talk to us anymore - I'm not looking forward to the summer travel season.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


New Canaan is a bunch of cheaters in lax too bunch of hold back in that area of Ct. but shortly wont that go away. didn't they pass a law about HS sports and ages playing. [lacrosse] go private by jr year so he can still play

Lest not be fooled though, Lax cannot be compared to Football - big money and a business goodluck to this kid
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


New Canaan is a bunch of cheaters in lax too bunch of hold back in that area of Ct. but shortly wont that go away. didn't they pass a law about HS sports and ages playing. [lacrosse] go private by jr year so he can still play

Lest not be fooled though, Lax cannot be compared to Football - big money and a business goodluck to this kid
He's actually going private (Brunswick) to public initially. Point taken about the money in college football, but just don't hear about the early recruits much, at least not here in teh northeast.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No not weird at all. This girl worked her tail off obviously to get this offer. Congrats to her and her family.



She used to have a tail? I think you made that up.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


My 9 year old is 5'4" 90 pounds. And he is in 3rd grade. You better start stretching your son and feeding him protein drinks.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


New Canaan is a bunch of cheaters in lax too bunch of hold back in that area of Ct. but shortly wont that go away. didn't they pass a law about HS sports and ages playing. [lacrosse] go private by jr year so he can still play

Lest not be fooled though, Lax cannot be compared to Football - big money and a business goodluck to this kid
He's actually going private (Brunswick) to public initially. Point taken about the money in college football, but just don't hear about the early recruits much, at least not here in teh northeast.


That's because in football, early recruiting is limited to a handful of exceptional players. The vast majority of players make their final decisions in their senior years.

In lacrosse, you're pretty much out of luck if you're not committed by sophomore year. The system is broken.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


My 9 year old is 5'4" 90 pounds. And he is in 3rd grade. You better start stretching your son and feeding him protein drinks.


Is he the Kyoto University commit for sumo wrestling ?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


My 9 year old is 5'4" 90 pounds. And he is in 3rd grade. You better start stretching your son and feeding him protein drinks.


Is he the Kyoto University commit for sumo wrestling ?

He is ripped!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The game of lacrosse has changed to the point that if a 5'4" 90 pound kid can run and has lacrosse skills he could potentially play. The physical part of the game has been taken out of the game due to player safety and concussions. 25 years ago Spallina could never play his Crush team up a year or two. They would get physically destroyed. I watched opposing teams look at them the wrong way and get penalties. It's only a matter of time before we see a 7th grader verbally commit. It's up to the NCAA to stop this nonsense.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The game of lacrosse has changed to the point that if a 5'4" 90 pound kid can run and has lacrosse skills he could potentially play. The physical part of the game has been taken out of the game due to player safety and concussions. 25 years ago Spallina could never play his Crush team up a year or two. They would get physically destroyed. I watched opposing teams look at them the wrong way and get penalties. It's only a matter of time before we see a 7th grader verbally commit. It's up to the NCAA to stop this nonsense.


It will never happen. The NCAA is a feckless organization. They couldn't care less. As long as they make their money off the basketball tournament, football bowl games and merchandising anything goes. They will never give a program the death penalty again like they did to SMU football back in the 80's, and the colleges know it. They are afraid the colleges will see that they don't need them, so violation enforcement really only comes when the media makes a stink. Read " The System" by Armen Keteyian. It is a great read and shows the nonsense that goes on in college football recruiting and how the NCAA looks the other way. I'm sure basketball is just as bad or worse. If they don't care about the big time sports, they certainly aren't gonna waste time with non-revenue sports like lacrosse.
Any see what Kessenich wrote?
"4 of the 24 McDonalds All American basketball seniors are are undecided. Meanwhile coaches verbal 8th and 9th graders"

I know the bashing will come of Kessenich, but at least he's saying it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


My 9 year old is 5'4" 90 pounds. And he is in 3rd grade. You better start stretching your son and feeding him protein drinks.


Be careful, unless your wife is 6'2" the growth can really slow or even stop. One of my older son's friends was 5'10" 160 lbs in 7th grade. Was the football star in middle school. He's a soph in College now, still 5'10". Just sayin..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well, at least it's not just lacrosse. I see where a Greenwich Ct. 8th grader just committed to Florida State as a QB. Will attend New Canaan HS. And Btw. 8th grader who is 15 years old , 6'1" 170 pounds. (My 8th grader is 13, 5'4 98 lbs) I have to assume before Florida St. would commit, they would have seen him play against similar sized and aged kids?


My 9 year old is 5'4" 90 pounds. And he is in 3rd grade. You better start stretching your son and feeding him protein drinks.


Be careful, unless your wife is 6'2" the growth can really slow or even stop. One of my older son's friends was 5'10" 160 lbs in 7th grade. Was the football star in middle school. He's a soph in College now, still 5'10". Just sayin..


I'm about 6'1 and she is 5'10, so I think he'll be fine. The biggest problem is when he gets aches and growing pains, sometimes it's tough to watch.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Let's see how tough Quint is now Let's see him come out and bash Jimbo Fisher for committing an 8th grader !! He won't and that is why people's le in the lax world think he's a clown. Double standard and are because he's scared ESPN will boot his [lacrosse] off football, he'll be covering rodeo
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Give that a rest. Two things for you to chew on. 1. Over the last 30 years some top D1 football programs have offered kids in 8th grade. I grew up in the same town as Todd Marinovich who was offered in 8th grade and Clausen up the road was offered by USC in 8th grade. Saban has done it twice in the last 8 years. Over decades you can look and there might be a dozen or two total instances like that. I don't know why a football prodigy would be offered but do know a D1 football team has 100 guys and there are 300+ D1 programs, so the notoriety of these prodigies getting offered is quite rare. I'm sure this Connecticut kid is an exceptional one for an 8th grader. So was Todd Marinovich and so was Ken Clausen. 2. Quint isn't being critical of a one-off instance every year or so, he is pointing to something not even close to the same. Lacrosse recruiting is almost entirely concentrated on middle school kids and 9th graders. It is a systemic thing and he is absolutely accurate in his analysis.

Quint is not a hypocrite, a wuss or an idiot because you disagree with him. And he has a lot more credibility than some lacrosse dad in the bleachers like me (and probably like many of you). Early recruiting rewards a few families and kids with recognition and some money to help pay for college. Lacrosse is a 12.6 sport over 45 kids these days, so the instances of the full ride can't be too high a count. I don't know that but common sense does suggest it. Early recruiting is also a bad look for the youth game, for the prep game, for the kids who are made to feel worthless if they are not the special ones when they are 14 (and is a very unhealthy ego inflator for a kid who propped as a special one) and it is a horrible look for the universities. As a graduate of Johns Hopkins with a graduate degree I am appalled.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Give that a rest. Two things for you to chew on. 1. Over the last 30 years some top D1 football programs have offered kids in 8th grade. I grew up in the same town as Todd Marinovich who was offered in 8th grade and Clausen up the road was offered by USC in 8th grade. Saban has done it twice in the last 8 years. Over decades you can look and there might be a dozen or two total instances like that. I don't know why a football prodigy would be offered but do know a D1 football team has 100 guys and there are 300+ D1 programs, so the notoriety of these prodigies getting offered is quite rare. I'm sure this Connecticut kid is an exceptional one for an 8th grader. So was Todd Marinovich and so was Ken Clausen. 2. Quint isn't being critical of a one-off instance every year or so, he is pointing to something not even close to the same. Lacrosse recruiting is almost entirely concentrated on middle school kids and 9th graders. It is a systemic thing and he is absolutely accurate in his analysis.

Quint is not a hypocrite, a wuss or an idiot because you disagree with him. And he has a lot more credibility than some lacrosse dad in the bleachers like me (and probably like many of you). Early recruiting rewards a few families and kids with recognition and some money to help pay for college. Lacrosse is a 12.6 sport over 45 kids these days, so the instances of the full ride can't be too high a count. I don't know that but common sense does suggest it. Early recruiting is also a bad look for the youth game, for the prep game, for the kids who are made to feel worthless if they are not the special ones when they are 14 (and is a very unhealthy ego inflator for a kid who propped as a special one) and it is a horrible look for the universities. As a graduate of Johns Hopkins with a graduate degree I am appalled.


So complain to Petro.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Why bother complaining to Petro? He does his job and apparently can do whatever he wants and the administration is ok with that. As an alum I am not a fan of it is all. I would hope and expect that the admissions people will do their jobs too. 9th graders don't have an academic record worth any reliances. If the grades and scores aren't there and the admissions declines recruits, I won't shed any tears for Petro. This was his choice. His rewards or consequences later depending on how it goes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
They all say they don't want to do it, Petro, Starsia, Tierney, etc. They all still do. Nothing will change. The NCAA will not get involved. Hopefully the 8th grader is a one off, especially for the boys side. Until someone goes deep into the tournament with a team of kids who didn't commit until late, expect more of the 9th grade commits.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The common belief is that the NCAA will do nothing about this
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I have a problem. I like donuts. I eat a lot of donuts. There's a donut shop on the way to work and I just can't stop steering in to crush a half dozen in the morning and another half dozen on my way home. My wife sends me out on weekends to get some for the kids and I always get two boxes by the dozen and demolish one of them like a meth addict in the car, then throw away the box. I work out 3 hours a day but I'm still 135 pounds overweight.

I am asking all of YOU to help ME end this thing that is spinning out of control. Other dads see me get excited talking about donuts, and they just can't help themselves either. It has viraled out and now its getting harder and harder to get the Boston Cremes before they are wiped out at all the shops in my county. Just last week I found myself at the Krispy Kreme at 4am after telling my wife I was taking the dog for an early walk waiting for that light to go on. There were four other dads there with their dogs in the backseats too and we all tried to just look down at our smart phones feigning the embarrassment over being seen like this. It's just embarrassing for a grown man to be sitting outside a Krispy Kreme at 4am waiting for Boston Cremes, but the thing to understand is getting Krispy Kremes is a competitive thing now. Not getting those Boston Kremes is a risk. And they are delicious.

Last night I took the taking the dog for a walk thing all the way in to 2:45am. I was in the clear waiting alone at another Krispy Kreme 7 exits up the I-270 waiting for the light. The police came and asked a few questions. They'd gotten a call about the profile of a dealer in a empty lot on a Friday night. Fairly quickly the situation was diffused when they saw I was a white, bald 350 pound middle age man wearing pajamas with a golden lab named Leroy in the back seat. This is Maryland, and trust me, it's good to be white and bald with a golden lab named Leroy.

This was a night of reckoning. I can't help myself. I do like to talk about helping myself. I like to do tha a lot, and so do the other local donut addicts who joined this early donut hunting war with me. I decided to put the responsibility on you. I mean 'you' as in everyone else but me. I have a petition to ban donuts to send to the FDA. I've also decided to start a GoFundMe page to raise money to build early donut procurement awareness. This isn't really just my problem. It's your problem too. And it's all your fault too. So sign my petition and support the GoFundMe website. I promise I won't continue or use any of those GoFundMe proceeds to buy donuts. Aside from that, there is little I can do about pre-dawn donut runs. I mean, everyone else is doing it. People just don't understand how good donuts are as what is at stake here.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have a problem. I like donuts. I eat a lot of donuts. There's a donut shop on the way to work and I just can't stop steering in to crush a half dozen in the morning and another half dozen on my way home. My wife sends me out on weekends to get some for the kids and I always get two boxes by the dozen and demolish one of them like a meth addict in the car, then throw away the box. I work out 3 hours a day but I'm still 135 pounds overweight.

I am asking all of YOU to help ME end this thing that is spinning out of control. Other dads see me get excited talking about donuts, and they just can't help themselves either. It has viraled out and now its getting harder and harder to get the Boston Cremes before they are wiped out at all the shops in my county. Just last week I found myself at the Krispy Kreme at 4am after telling my wife I was taking the dog for an early walk waiting for that light to go on. There were four other dads there with their dogs in the backseats too and we all tried to just look down at our smart phones feigning the embarrassment over being seen like this. It's just embarrassing for a grown man to be sitting outside a Krispy Kreme at 4am waiting for Boston Cremes, but the thing to understand is getting Krispy Kremes is a competitive thing now. Not getting those Boston Kremes is a risk. And they are delicious.

Last night I took the taking the dog for a walk thing all the way in to 2:45am. I was in the clear waiting alone at another Krispy Kreme 7 exits up the I-270 waiting for the light. The police came and asked a few questions. They'd gotten a call about the profile of a dealer in a empty lot on a Friday night. Fairly quickly the situation was diffused when they saw I was a white, bald 350 pound middle age man wearing pajamas with a golden lab named Leroy in the back seat. This is Maryland, and trust me, it's good to be white and bald with a golden lab named Leroy.

This was a night of reckoning. I can't help myself. I do like to talk about helping myself. I like to do tha a lot, and so do the other local donut addicts who joined this early donut hunting war with me. I decided to put the responsibility on you. I mean 'you' as in everyone else but me. I have a petition to ban donuts to send to the FDA. I've also decided to start a GoFundMe page to raise money to build early donut procurement awareness. This isn't really just my problem. It's your problem too. And it's all your fault too. So sign my petition and support the GoFundMe website. I promise I won't continue or use any of those GoFundMe proceeds to buy donuts. Aside from that, there is little I can do about pre-dawn donut runs. I mean, everyone else is doing it. People just don't understand how good donuts are as what is at stake here.


If you go even earlier, you can get the day old donuts at half price. Just a thought
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
UNC, UVA, Hopkins, Duke. The ACC should get 4 NCAA bids, meaning only one of the list misses, but Hopkins with 6,7 or 8 losses this year and no B1G conference tournament win possible. Three years ago if you looked at where these programs are past the middle of a season and you saw this it would be unthinkable. This is like the housing bubble. The inventory of kids who committed as rising sophs are moving through the college system now. In a couple of years the inventory of 9th and then rising 9th graders starts to move through. Just incredible how the lacrosse public isn't seeing this disaster even though it is happening before our eyes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have a problem. I like donuts. I eat a lot of donuts. There's a donut shop on the way to work and I just can't stop steering in to crush a half dozen in the morning and another half dozen on my way home. My wife sends me out on weekends to get some for the kids and I always get two boxes by the dozen and demolish one of them like a meth addict in the car, then throw away the box. I work out 3 hours a day but I'm still 135 pounds overweight.

I am asking all of YOU to help ME end this thing that is spinning out of control. Other dads see me get excited talking about donuts, and they just can't help themselves either. It has viraled out and now its getting harder and harder to get the Boston Cremes before they are wiped out at all the shops in my county. Just last week I found myself at the Krispy Kreme at 4am after telling my wife I was taking the dog for an early walk waiting for that light to go on. There were four other dads there with their dogs in the backseats too and we all tried to just look down at our smart phones feigning the embarrassment over being seen like this. It's just embarrassing for a grown man to be sitting outside a Krispy Kreme at 4am waiting for Boston Cremes, but the thing to understand is getting Krispy Kremes is a competitive thing now. Not getting those Boston Kremes is a risk. And they are delicious.

Last night I took the taking the dog for a walk thing all the way in to 2:45am. I was in the clear waiting alone at another Krispy Kreme 7 exits up the I-270 waiting for the light. The police came and asked a few questions. They'd gotten a call about the profile of a dealer in a empty lot on a Friday night. Fairly quickly the situation was diffused when they saw I was a white, bald 350 pound middle age man wearing pajamas with a golden lab named Leroy in the back seat. This is Maryland, and trust me, it's good to be white and bald with a golden lab named Leroy.

This was a night of reckoning. I can't help myself. I do like to talk about helping myself. I like to do tha a lot, and so do the other local donut addicts who joined this early donut hunting war with me. I decided to put the responsibility on you. I mean 'you' as in everyone else but me. I have a petition to ban donuts to send to the FDA. I've also decided to start a GoFundMe page to raise money to build early donut procurement awareness. This isn't really just my problem. It's your problem too. And it's all your fault too. So sign my petition and support the GoFundMe website. I promise I won't continue or use any of those GoFundMe proceeds to buy donuts. Aside from that, there is little I can do about pre-dawn donut runs. I mean, everyone else is doing it. People just don't understand how good donuts are as what is at stake here.


Wow, you must be really bored or clinically insanse
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have a problem. I like donuts. I eat a lot of donuts. There's a donut shop on the way to work and I just can't stop steering in to crush a half dozen in the morning and another half dozen on my way home. My wife sends me out on weekends to get some for the kids and I always get two boxes by the dozen and demolish one of them like a meth addict in the car, then throw away the box. I work out 3 hours a day but I'm still 135 pounds overweight.

I am asking all of YOU to help ME end this thing that is spinning out of control. Other dads see me get excited talking about donuts, and they just can't help themselves either. It has viraled out and now its getting harder and harder to get the Boston Cremes before they are wiped out at all the shops in my county. Just last week I found myself at the Krispy Kreme at 4am after telling my wife I was taking the dog for an early walk waiting for that light to go on. There were four other dads there with their dogs in the backseats too and we all tried to just look down at our smart phones feigning the embarrassment over being seen like this. It's just embarrassing for a grown man to be sitting outside a Krispy Kreme at 4am waiting for Boston Cremes, but the thing to understand is getting Krispy Kremes is a competitive thing now. Not getting those Boston Kremes is a risk. And they are delicious.

Last night I took the taking the dog for a walk thing all the way in to 2:45am. I was in the clear waiting alone at another Krispy Kreme 7 exits up the I-270 waiting for the light. The police came and asked a few questions. They'd gotten a call about the profile of a dealer in a empty lot on a Friday night. Fairly quickly the situation was diffused when they saw I was a white, bald 350 pound middle age man wearing pajamas with a golden lab named Leroy in the back seat. This is Maryland, and trust me, it's good to be white and bald with a golden lab named Leroy.

This was a night of reckoning. I can't help myself. I do like to talk about helping myself. I like to do tha a lot, and so do the other local donut addicts who joined this early donut hunting war with me. I decided to put the responsibility on you. I mean 'you' as in everyone else but me. I have a petition to ban donuts to send to the FDA. I've also decided to start a GoFundMe page to raise money to build early donut procurement awareness. This isn't really just my problem. It's your problem too. And it's all your fault too. So sign my petition and support the GoFundMe website. I promise I won't continue or use any of those GoFundMe proceeds to buy donuts. Aside from that, there is little I can do about pre-dawn donut runs. I mean, everyone else is doing it. People just don't understand how good donuts are as what is at stake here.


Wow, you must be really bored or clinically insanse


Gets quite boring in his parent's basement.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC, UVA, Hopkins, Duke. The ACC should get 4 NCAA bids, meaning only one of the list misses, but Hopkins with 6,7 or 8 losses this year and no B1G conference tournament win possible. Three years ago if you looked at where these programs are past the middle of a season and you saw this it would be unthinkable. This is like the housing bubble. The inventory of kids who committed as rising sophs are moving through the college system now. In a couple of years the inventory of 9th and then rising 9th graders starts to move through. Just incredible how the lacrosse public isn't seeing this disaster even though it is happening before our eyes.


Agree somewhat, but then how do you explain Georgetown? They are typically a late recruiter and they are 1-9 this season and they havent been relevant in years. I think when all is said and done the usual suspects will be there come final four weekend. HOP was in the final four last year and Duke has piled up final fours and National Championships. UVA last won in 2012, but I think the game has passed Starsia by a little bit. UNC is a train wreck and I find it amazing that Breschi still has a job. Early recruiting is a factor im sure to a degree but there are other forces at work as well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
When was Georgetown a major program? I think that when you have it all resources and prestige wise to recruit and the results are this poor you do have to look at both recruiting and player development as factors. Duke is highly successful as a program having a bad year. UNC, UVA and Hop there isn't a doubt all have underperformed in the past few years. Hop's late season surge last year bailed them out of missing the NCAA tournament, but due credit they did while also overcoming quite a horrible year off the field. I think if you look at UNC, UVA and Hop over the recent years it is impossible to objectively state they have not slipped. Some is just parity but some is also just these programs not monetizing their great advantages to recruit whomever they want.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Ask Hopkins if Rutgers is relevant
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Princeton is not a disaster. They are not having a good season, but hardly a disaster. Dartmouth and Georgetown have always been weak programs. Drexel - fair point. Marist, Siena and the like aren't middle tier they are the throw ins at the end. Ivies can't go as early as some, but they don't recruit late either. I also noticed you didn't pick on Yale, Brown, Harvard as disasters because they aren't.

The only programs that have gone full early in recent years are UNC, UVA, Hop and MD. Of those 4 you could only argue MD has been a top NCAA program in the past 5 years.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.


Brown recently (a couple of months ago) comitted a 2019 pole from long Island, early recruiting is a case by case basis and like anything else is not one size fits all. There are always exceptions.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


Princeton and Georgetown are lower tier schools? Im sure if either Princeton or Georgetown wanted to get into the early recruiting game there will be plenty of kids lining up to play and go to school there. The Drexel, Marist, Rutgers, and Siena coaches have gone on record in the past as stating they will not recruit early and they dont beliebe in it. Whats dumb is you talking about a #200 ranked 10th grader. It doesnt work that way, and the only people that pay attention to those nonsense rankings are ego maniacal parents like yourself.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.


Drexel, Marist, Siena, Rutgers were all mentioned because all of their coaches have been pretty outspoken about early recruiting and as programs they have a policy about recruiting early. They all have in recent years made tournament appearances with the exception of Rutgers.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster


What an idiot. Please don't ever try and say Princeton is a disaster in anything. A degree from there and you move to the top of every resume pile in the country lacrosse or not. You dadies need to realize that lacrosse ends but a degree from a top 10 school lasts forever. Syracuse isn't even in the same zip code allowing C+ students in these days as long as you pay the $60k tuition
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster


What an idiot. Please don't ever try and say Princeton is a disaster in anything. A degree from there and you move to the top of every resume pile in the country lacrosse or not. You dadies need to realize that lacrosse ends but a degree from a top 10 school lasts forever. Syracuse isn't even in the same zip code allowing C+ students in these days as long as you pay the $60k tuition


Do you have ADHD?? This is a lacrosse forum. You want to talk employment opportunities find another board. Back of the Boardroom is a great site. Check it out. LOL Some people are here either to just argue, try and act smart, or both. Give it a rest.
For the person who doesn't understand that this is a lacrosse board. We are talking lacrosse not academics.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.


Drexel, Marist, Siena, Rutgers were all mentioned because all of their coaches have been pretty outspoken about early recruiting and as programs they have a policy about recruiting early. They all have in recent years made tournament appearances with the exception of Rutgers.


Ok I got it. Do you understand where I was coming from on my post regarding the teams I mentioned and why.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Do coaches still look at and/or contact athletes after they give verbals?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.


Drexel, Marist, Siena, Rutgers were all mentioned because all of their coaches have been pretty outspoken about early recruiting and as programs they have a policy about recruiting early. They all have in recent years made tournament appearances with the exception of Rutgers.


Ok I got it. Do you understand where I was coming from on my post regarding the teams I mentioned and why.


I do understand your points and agree that I am sure there are early verbals on some of those squads that are not working out as planned. I think that the jury is still out about early recruiting and its impact on the present day game. Every team in the final four last year are notorious early recruiters and late poachers as well. I think in the case of UNC and UVA they definitely have coaching issues. In the cases of Brown and Yale, dont kid yourself, they recruit plenty early, they just arent as public about it because of their admissions process. All of the other schools you mention have multiple 2018 verbals which would be considered "early" as compared to the historical way of recruiting in which kids werent locked up until their JR and SR years. Thank you for the civilized and coherent discussion though, its a rarity on this board.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Do coaches still look at and/or contact athletes after they give verbals?


Yes
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster


What an idiot. Please don't ever try and say Princeton is a disaster in anything. A degree from there and you move to the top of every resume pile in the country lacrosse or not. You dadies need to realize that lacrosse ends but a degree from a top 10 school lasts forever. Syracuse isn't even in the same zip code allowing C+ students in these days as long as you pay the $60k tuition


So safe to say, YOU didnt attend Princeton as your reading comprehension skills are severely lacking. We all get it Princeton is a phenomenal academic institution that any kid would be lucky to be able to attend, but as a lacrosse program they have been struggling. Given their rich lacrosse history the current state of affairs can accurately be described as a disaster. Im sure the very proud alumni base there is not happy whatsoever at whats going on with that program.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster


What an idiot. Please don't ever try and say Princeton is a disaster in anything. A degree from there and you move to the top of every resume pile in the country lacrosse or not. You dadies need to realize that lacrosse ends but a degree from a top 10 school lasts forever. Syracuse isn't even in the same zip code allowing C+ students in these days as long as you pay the $60k tuition


So safe to say, YOU didnt attend Princeton as your reading comprehension skills are severely lacking. We all get it Princeton is a phenomenal academic institution that any kid would be lucky to be able to attend, but as a lacrosse program they have been struggling. Given their rich lacrosse history the current state of affairs can accurately be described as a disaster. Im sure the very proud alumni base there is not happy whatsoever at whats going on with that program.



They only had a "rich" history with Tierney. He's gone, along with their hopes for ever achieving anything. SAD!
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.


Drexel, Marist, Siena, Rutgers were all mentioned because all of their coaches have been pretty outspoken about early recruiting and as programs they have a policy about recruiting early. They all have in recent years made tournament appearances with the exception of Rutgers.


Ok I got it. Do you understand where I was coming from on my post regarding the teams I mentioned and why.


I do understand your points and agree that I am sure there are early verbals on some of those squads that are not working out as planned. I think that the jury is still out about early recruiting and its impact on the present day game. Every team in the final four last year are notorious early recruiters and late poachers as well. I think in the case of UNC and UVA they definitely have coaching issues. In the cases of Brown and Yale, dont kid yourself, they recruit plenty early, they just arent as public about it because of their admissions process. All of the other schools you mention have multiple 2018 verbals which would be considered "early" as compared to the historical way of recruiting in which kids werent locked up until their JR and SR years. Thank you for the civilized and coherent discussion though, its a rarity on this board.


Thank you. I try my best. Love this game and all it has to offer the players that play it and those who have played. So people know I became a moderator and involved with this site after myself and my son were attacked on here a number of years ago. This was allowed by a previous moderator who is no longer involved with back of the cage. I always try and protect the kids and do my best to initiate quality topics of discussion.

The Ivys always sign a bit later yes due to the requirements and the admissions process. Yet it seems they are also signing the right players. Remember due to the rigorous requirements they have a much smaller pool to choose from. This makes it that much harder for the Ivy schools. Not all students can meet the GPA, SAT, or ACT score required to attend these schools.

I just feel that too much early recruiting is destroying the game at its foundation, the PAL and Youth levels. Every game is the National Championship. So much pressure is being put on theses kids by over zealous parents and coaches. Its taking the fun out of it for the kids. The club ball is also a nightmare. Its just diluting the caliber of play with all theses clubs out there. We are rating teams as AA, A, B so people don't get their feelings hurt. What happened to town and travel? What happened to the letters A,B, and C. This AA crap is just that, crap. I also think its making it hard for the coaches with parents overstepping their bounds on all levels club and town. With this his win at all cost mentality yet everyone gets a trophy generation there are so many mixed signals being sent out. I think the signing of a 8th grader is crazy. Now this kid has all this pressure on them to perform, also a target on his back. All the while trying just to grow up and be a kid. I am sure his parents have taken this into consideration and its an amazing accomplishment. I just think this type of accomplishment should be reserved for a select few and not the masses like it has become now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I love how some of you know who the top 100 kids in the nation are...if you look at Ty's picks from years ago you see that he had some right I. His rating for top 25 but he certainly missed on a bunch which is to be expected since he does not know all the kids or the diamond in the rough because they don't play on these top teams. Point is don't worry if your kid has not decided yet. If he is good the schools will come to him trust me. My son was one of those kids that Ty had no clue about and was an all American . His job is to try and create interest which he does. Almost like a Perez Hilton type
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
exactly
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


Princeton has done almost nothing since Tierney left. They were able to get top recruits early on due to reputation and the fact they are an Ivy League School. All the other teams you mentioned have never been historically relevant. Dartmouth never a factor. Georgetown only a few years in. Drexel, Marist, Siena, and Rutgers. How in the world do you even mention them. They have never been relevant. Rutgers will eventually become more relevant due to being part of the Big 10. The other factor is coaching. You can have the best players but if coaching stinks so will the record.

Now lets take a look at Hopkins, Duke, Virginia, North Carolina, and Syracuse. They have always been powerhouse programs where youth players dream of playing. They will always get players due to their history. Yet they are not doing as well as they normally do. These schools also tend to sign players earlier than others. Please do not deny this, especially this year. This year every class at these schools has multiple early 9th and 10th grade commits playing. I don't think many of these early commits are panning out as the coaches hoped they would.

Look at Brown and Yale they recruit later in the cycle and they are doing just fine. Even Loyola, Villanova, Lehigh, and Bucknell are doing well winning some big games. These schools tend to recruit late and don't have the student body size of the big programs.


Drexel, Marist, Siena, Rutgers were all mentioned because all of their coaches have been pretty outspoken about early recruiting and as programs they have a policy about recruiting early. They all have in recent years made tournament appearances with the exception of Rutgers.


Ok I got it. Do you understand where I was coming from on my post regarding the teams I mentioned and why.


I do understand your points and agree that I am sure there are early verbals on some of those squads that are not working out as planned. I think that the jury is still out about early recruiting and its impact on the present day game. Every team in the final four last year are notorious early recruiters and late poachers as well. I think in the case of UNC and UVA they definitely have coaching issues. In the cases of Brown and Yale, dont kid yourself, they recruit plenty early, they just arent as public about it because of their admissions process. All of the other schools you mention have multiple 2018 verbals which would be considered "early" as compared to the historical way of recruiting in which kids werent locked up until their JR and SR years. Thank you for the civilized and coherent discussion though, its a rarity on this board.


Thank you. I try my best. Love this game and all it has to offer the players that play it and those who have played. So people know I became a moderator and involved with this site after myself and my son were attacked on here a number of years ago. This was allowed by a previous moderator who is no longer involved with back of the cage. I always try and protect the kids and do my best to initiate quality topics of discussion.

The Ivys always sign a bit later yes due to the requirements and the admissions process. Yet it seems they are also signing the right players. Remember due to the rigorous requirements they have a much smaller pool to choose from. This makes it that much harder for the Ivy schools. Not all students can meet the GPA, SAT, or ACT score required to attend these schools.

I just feel that too much early recruiting is destroying the game at its foundation, the PAL and Youth levels. Every game is the National Championship. So much pressure is being put on theses kids by over zealous parents and coaches. Its taking the fun out of it for the kids. The club ball is also a nightmare. Its just diluting the caliber of play with all theses clubs out there. We are rating teams as AA, A, B so people don't get their feelings hurt. What happened to town and travel? What happened to the letters A,B, and C. This AA crap is just that, crap. I also think its making it hard for the coaches with parents overstepping their bounds on all levels club and town. With this his win at all cost mentality yet everyone gets a trophy generation there are so many mixed signals being sent out. I think the signing of a 8th grader is crazy. Now this kid has all this pressure on them to perform, also a target on his back. All the while trying just to grow up and be a kid. I am sure his parents have taken this into consideration and its an amazing accomplishment. I just think this type of accomplishment should be reserved for a select few and not the masses like it has become now.


New Cannan Ct 8th grader has received 2 offers to play Division 1 football. 1 to Florida State and 1 to Southern Alabama. like it or not its being done. This particular football player happens to be a 15 year old 8th grader, unlike the 13 year old 8th grade laxer. Early recruiting in any sport is not a one size fits all and rather than discount it all together it should be done on a case by case basis.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I love how some of you know who the top 100 kids in the nation are...if you look at Ty's picks from years ago you see that he had some right I. His rating for top 25 but he certainly missed on a bunch which is to be expected since he does not know all the kids or the diamond in the rough because they don't play on these top teams. Point is don't worry if your kid has not decided yet. If he is good the schools will come to him trust me. My son was one of those kids that Ty had no clue about and was an all American . His job is to try and create interest which he does. Almost like a Perez Hilton type


Finally someone telling it like it is
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Princeton situation: how does this impact the peace of mind for a 2017, 2018, 2019 commit kid? New coach could = do over. I have been thinking this as a downside risk for a couple years. How does this go?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton situation: how does this impact the peace of mind for a 2017, 2018, 2019 commit kid? New coach could = do over. I have been thinking this as a downside risk for a couple years. How does this go?


New coach could conceivably come in and void all verbal agreements. Dartmouth coach I believe did that when he came in. Unless your NLI is signed nothing is binding. Doesnt seem that coach is very well liked, not sure he survives much longer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton situation: how does this impact the peace of mind for a 2017, 2018, 2019 commit kid? New coach could = do over. I have been thinking this as a downside risk for a couple years. How does this go?


Very, very negatively. They should be worried, especially since Princeton's relationship with the admissions office has been pretty iffy for the last ten years or so.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton situation: how does this impact the peace of mind for a 2017, 2018, 2019 commit kid? New coach could = do over. I have been thinking this as a downside risk for a couple years. How does this go?


His fate might be sealed since coach threw an elbow at a Brown player as he was running off the field and was caught on video. Doesn't look good.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton situation: how does this impact the peace of mind for a 2017, 2018, 2019 commit kid? New coach could = do over. I have been thinking this as a downside risk for a couple years. How does this go?


New coach could conceivably come in and void all verbal agreements. Dartmouth coach I believe did that when he came in. Unless your NLI is signed nothing is binding. Doesnt seem that coach is very well liked, not sure he survives much longer.
No NLIs at Ivys.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton situation: how does this impact the peace of mind for a 2017, 2018, 2019 commit kid? New coach could = do over. I have been thinking this as a downside risk for a couple years. How does this go?


His fate might be sealed since coach threw an elbow at a Brown player as he was running off the field and was caught on video. Doesn't look good.
this is 100% true. It occurred at the 1:11 point of the game after the face off. Don't know which Coach it was but he definitely threw an elbow to the players chest.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol


You're kidding, right? I'm from MD and should enjoy the home cooking. I have a 2016 son who will play college next year. Ty falls all over himself to pump the tires of kids at our son's IAC school. I find it offensive when he does because I see the bargaining and prodding that goes on. I don't think people get jealous just because their little Johnny isn't getting noticed. What is offensive is kids who can't play do get recognized out of some allegiances to club and prep people. And once a kid commits, it's fawn all over the kid time. Frankly, I've never seen anything so devoid of substance in my life. Which is really saying something considering I'm a venture capitalist who listens to bad ideas 99% of the time in my life.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol


Xanders gets paid to write up certain kids. I know this to be fact. So, its hard to take anything he writes as serious analysis.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol



Xanders gets paid to write up certain kids. I know this to be fact. So, its hard to take anything he writes as serious analysis.

lol "I know this to be fact" you're an idiot
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is taking up more than Ty's 15 mins of fame. He's a lacrosse blogger folks. Of course the club and prep guys will do anything and everything to get some kids pumped. Pounds of salt. Pounds of salt. The season starts so late in New England versus in the mid-Atlantic. Right now most of the IAC and WCAC teams have played more than half their games and the likes of the LI teams Darien and New Canaan have only started. What's next, do CT teams need to start their season in February so that the national rankings don't leave them behind before April 1st? Maybe even that wouldn't matter since the bloggers aren't going to be sitting and watching games in NE 6 weeks a year. The Baltimore and DC teams aren't better, they're just better covered and hyped.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU…lol


No not at all worried about my son, admitted already Dec. 15th, scored big merit $$, to the tune of 6k grand less than a SUNY at a top 10 university. Im just calling it as I see it. Four kids 2 oldest played college ball, younger two opting to club ball, so could really not care one bit what Ty does say or write. However, I will state, no other reason he fanboys over prepubescent boys is to further his own agenda.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
How does Ty make money? I'm sorry these clubs must pay him to show up to certain tournaments.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How does Ty make money? I'm sorry these clubs must pay him to show up to certain tournaments.


Ya' think?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol



Xanders gets paid to write up certain kids. I know this to be fact. So, its hard to take anything he writes as serious analysis.

lol "I know this to be fact" you're an idiot


Ok so if youre so smart, how exactly does this guy make money? Is he independently wealthy and has just decided to spend his days mancrushing on teenage boys? If he isnt getting paid by the clubs, where is the income coming from? Why does he tend to cover certain clubs and schools more than others? Nobody is taking anything away from the kids he writes about, Im sure they are all deserving, but for anyone to take anything he says seriously is laughable.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol


Xanders gets paid to write up certain kids. I know this to be fact. So, its hard to take anything he writes as serious analysis.


He takes payment in the form of Chipotle, gas money or baseball hats
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Who says he's wealthy?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol


You're kidding, right? I'm from MD and should enjoy the home cooking. I have a 2016 son who will play college next year. Ty falls all over himself to pump the tires of kids at our son's IAC school. I find it offensive when he does because I see the bargaining and prodding that goes on. I don't think people get jealous just because their little Johnny isn't getting noticed. What is offensive is kids who can't play do get recognized out of some allegiances to club and prep people. And once a kid commits, it's fawn all over the kid time. Frankly, I've never seen anything so devoid of substance in my life. Which is really saying something considering I'm a venture capitalist who listens to bad ideas 99% of the time in my life.


I am Elmer J Fudd Venture Capitalist, I own a mansion and a yacht and my son plays lax...sure, whatever you say.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol


You're kidding, right? I'm from MD and should enjoy the home cooking. I have a 2016 son who will play college next year. Ty falls all over himself to pump the tires of kids at our son's IAC school. I find it offensive when he does because I see the bargaining and prodding that goes on. I don't think people get jealous just because their little Johnny isn't getting noticed. What is offensive is kids who can't play do get recognized out of some allegiances to club and prep people. And once a kid commits, it's fawn all over the kid time. Frankly, I've never seen anything so devoid of substance in my life. Which is really saying something considering I'm a venture capitalist who listens to bad ideas 99% of the time in my life.


I am Elmer J Fudd Venture Capitalist, I own a mansion and a yacht and my son plays lax...sure, whatever you say.


Hey. Knock it off. I invented fuddgy the whale. So there
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HAHAHA... THATS OUTSTANDING...WHAT A WINDBAG THAT POSTER IS.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty gets all bent out of shape when the early recruiting issue is under fire. Think about it, the guy would be out of a job if it was taken away, so his agenda is his agenda. Push the hype push the early interest in prepubescent boys, gives him more credibility, and more networking to make $$$$ . Which IMO in the end is what it is all about.


people getting upset with Ty 'cause little Johnny isn't getting any love. WA WA WA , the insecurity that is so evident in people would kind of funny if it wasn't so sad, If TY mentioned your kid he would be the lax recruiting GURU...lol


You're kidding, right? I'm from MD and should enjoy the home cooking. I have a 2016 son who will play college next year. Ty falls all over himself to pump the tires of kids at our son's IAC school. I find it offensive when he does because I see the bargaining and prodding that goes on. I don't think people get jealous just because their little Johnny isn't getting noticed. What is offensive is kids who can't play do get recognized out of some allegiances to club and prep people. And once a kid commits, it's fawn all over the kid time. Frankly, I've never seen anything so devoid of substance in my life. Which is really saying something considering I'm a venture capitalist who listens to bad ideas 99% of the time in my life.


I am Elmer J Fudd Venture Capitalist, I own a mansion and a yacht and my son plays lax...sure, whatever you say.


Hey. Knock it off. I invented fuddgy the whale. So there


If that was Elmer J he would have said lawcwosse, not lax, so I don't believe it!
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Anyone involved is obviously paid
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Who says he's wealthy?
Its a sarcastic supposition based on the premise that if he isnt being paid by the clubs to write up kids then hes obviously got his own money and doesnt need to get paid...... try and keep up I know its difficult with no pictures
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If you look at all the events he covers through his travels he writes up the same clubs but different kids each time. So everyone gets a shot. Great marketing.
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Did someone say "sarcastic supposition"... wow it is getting serious in here now.
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Here we have it, the first extreme ER era firing of a coach who is sitting on a three year stack of kids committed. Good luck to all the Princeton commits and families. Time to hope the new coach will share the prior guys's affections. I think this is one of many watershed shakeouts to come in the next year.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here we have it, the first extreme ER era firing of a coach who is sitting on a three year stack of kids committed. Good luck to all the Princeton commits and families. Time to hope the new coach will share the prior guys's affections. I think this is one of many watershed shakeouts to come in the next year.


Bates was not very well liked by the alums and was reported to be constantly at odds with the school administration as well. He gave them a gift wrapped excuse to get rid of him. The press release said they will do a nationwide search for a new head coach at seasons end. Will be very interesting to see if they honor their verbals. Since the Ivies dont do NLI's even the 2016's arent safe. Fascinated to see what happens there.
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The 2016s are tuition deposited by now. What kid is going to duck away from a Princeton education? I think the 2017s and 2018s are burned. They will need to re-audition. The perils of this early process is this consequence. It is almost never the case there is a coaching change without abysmal performance in the program. Same coach with the abysmal record has recruits lined up? Release them. Princeton can poach away.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The 2016s are tuition deposited by now. What kid is going to duck away from a Princeton education? I think the 2017s and 2018s are burned. They will need to re-audition. The perils of this early process is this consequence. It is almost never the case there is a coaching change without abysmal performance in the program. Same coach with the abysmal record has recruits lined up? Release them. Princeton can poach away.


I agree to a point- but I think releasing the committed players shows that Princeton is not true to their word. I would not encourage my kid to commit to a school that seems less honorable than others. On the other hand, it could be great for all those hard working students with the grades in the book, as it is hard to build up grades to get in as a junior and senior and if they do try to poach and find new kids, then the kids that excel in the classroom would have a big advantage. In either case, I hope that the new coach honors the verbals and stands by their word.
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Princeton committed to the kids? Ummm, no. Coach Bates made verbal arrangements with kids to sponsor their applications with the admissions office in September of their senior year. A coach gets a certain number of applications he may sponsor to admissions and submit them. Then admissions decides.

If you believe there is a bargain beyond that, you're mistaken. Princeton has no bargain with any of the kids. The AD has no bargain with any of the kids. At their discretion coaches can wildcat and 'verbally commit kids' to their program early, but there's nothing formal or implied as binding to it. Bates could have verbally arranged with 25 kids from juniors down to freshmen and that has nothing -- absolutely nothing -- to do with the buy in or interest of the university or it's admissions office.
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Your wrong every coach has what they call slots. Able to get a lacrosse player in that would not be able without lacrosse.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Your wrong every coach has what they call slots. Able to get a lacrosse player in that would not be able without lacrosse.


But probably not as many slots as he has the number of kids he has told verbally " with your grades, and with our support, I don't see any reason your acceptance won't be a problem. But I can't emphasize enough that you'll really need to keep your grades up and get the numbers you've been scoring on practice ACTs when it is an official test. I'm looking forward to having you at Princeton, now go work on those grades".

And even the kid who was going to take one of the "slots" still needs the coach to make the case......the new coach may not work as hard as he should trying to sway admissions that the kid can cut the grade if admitted.

My guess is the HS 2016s are fine, all other agreements are open to revision.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Your wrong every coach has what they call slots. Able to get a lacrosse player in that would not be able without lacrosse.


Ivy League Schools do nto have "Slots". Ivy League Schools work off of an AI (academic index). There is a minimum score that must be attained by any one student athlete and there is an average that must be met for the incoming class. If you are not one of their top recruits than you better have a score will above the required average.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Your wrong every coach has what they call slots. Able to get a lacrosse player in that would not be able without lacrosse.


Ivy League Schools do nto have "Slots". Ivy League Schools work off of an AI (academic index). There is a minimum score that must be attained by any one student athlete and there is an average that must be met for the incoming class. If you are not one of their top recruits than you better have a score will above the required average.


Better to be a marginal player with great scores. That helps the coach big time in balancing the roster. At non ivies all the kids on 50 player rosters that are ranked 35-50 help the team GPA, notthe team on the field
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Your wrong every coach has what they call slots. Able to get a lacrosse player in that would not be able without lacrosse.


You're not informed. The coach has slots. The coach can use those slots to sponsor 7-9 candidates a year. If those candidates meet the (very high) standards, they are in. It has the effect of taking kids academically in the strata to be admitted without help, and pulls them out of the lottery of thousands of near perfect applicants competing for few spots.

If a candidate is a lacrosse player, and that lacrosse player would not be a viable candidate for admission without lacrosse -- that player gets declined by admissions. Princeton admissions has declined more than a few committed kids from the Bates era. There are some programs that have latitude. Cornell has latitude. Tierney used to have latitude at Princeton and left when he didn't anymore. Bates didn't have latitude, and where he did it was not very material. We're talking about getting a kid with a 3.7 GPA and a lower AI over a hump when it gets pushed hard. We're not talking about a A/B student with nothing but lacrosse on a college application.
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True true... Ivy league schools work on an "Academic Index" which means that any given applicant has to meet the standards of the institution which can be daunting. What sports does is bring that paperwork to the top of the pile. As the previous poster mentioned there may be 5,000 applications for a college like Princeton or Yale or name your IVY. More get rejected then processed, a coach of an IVY league school puts that kids application at the top of the pile. So if the child makes the academic standards then they will get accepted before thousands of other applications are even looked at. Also teams have to keep an mean score (this is true of most D1 programs but is more rigorous in an IVY league school), so some kids are accepted onto a team to bring up the team average even thought they don't have a chance of breaking a lineup. Finally for an IVY league school since there isn't a "scholarship" everyone is accepted academically once admitted the programs have little control over the kids (unlike a scholarship situation where kids are owned by the coach lock stock and barrel). Trade offs on both sides but for kids who are not going to make a career out of the sport that they are getting accepted for, IVY leagues make most sense.
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so UVA is a failure, Hop too on their ER gambit. Any ER successes?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
so UVA is a failure, Hop too on their ER gambit. Any ER successes?


What do you consider ER? Denver has 6 2019 committed and 13 2018. Duke has 9 2018s. No 2019 but heard they try to keep it on the down low. Even Loyola has 6 2018. Notre Dame has 7 2018s. Syracuse has 15 2018. Then add notorious ERs UVA and MD and you have every school that has played in the final since 2010. The only other school to play in final 4 during that time not mentioned is Cornell - which has 6 2018 commits. UVA and JHU deserve criticism for early recruiting but there's more in play
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
so UVA is a failure, Hop too on their ER gambit. Any ER successes?
sort of to tell on women's side, but if the men's is an indication it doesn't appear like the most aggressive have gotten any particular advantage.
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You can all say what you want but Princeton will honor 90 percent of the previous coaches verbals , you may have a few kids use it as an excuse to opt out . My son plays at a Princeton and when he went thru the recruiting process the AD was slightly involved but was made aware at the end of each parties "commitment" and I was told that the school would honor the agreement weather that particular coach was there or not . Yes there are some academic mile stones that your kid needs to meet but they are significantly lower than the average Princeton student and quite honestly if you struggle to meet those standards you do not belong there.
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It's Princeton people. Take the education and move on. It's an IVY LEAGUE degree and oh by the way a varsity sport add on for good measure. You go to the top of every resume pile. You 100% lacrosse people are NUTS! Play for satan if that's what it takes to set you up for the rest of your life
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
You can all say what you want but Princeton will honor 90 percent of the previous coaches verbals , you may have a few kids use it as an excuse to opt out . My son plays at a Princeton and when he went thru the recruiting process the AD was slightly involved but was made aware at the end of each parties "commitment" and I was told that the school would honor the agreement weather that particular coach was there or not . Yes there are some academic mile stones that your kid needs to meet but they are significantly lower than the average Princeton student and quite honestly if you struggle to meet those standards you do not belong there.


The academic standards are high and they should be non negotiable. I believe the number will be far less than 90%. Coaches have the latitude to administer their programs within constraints. Follow rules, graduate players, win. If the new coach doesn't see the upside or quality he wants in the Princeton commits or is unsure, especially the ones down the ladder in 2018, 2019, he likely will and should release them. There is no commitment from Princeton here. Not the AD and certainly not the admissions office. It is a verbal arrangement between a coach and a family. Of course every kid with a chance to attend Princeton should jump at it. But I think you're overstating the depth of the commitment other principals at Princeton have here. If your son was recruited by Bates, I'd be more than a little worried now.
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Lots of Talk about Princeton. Who is the new coach? Anybody heard any 3rd had rumor
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Lots of Talk about Princeton. Who is the new coach? Anybody heard any 3rd had rumor

I think they named an assit. as acting head coach. They will probably wait until NCAA tournament is done to interview top assistants from a top 15 team or a head coach from a rising program. They may just keep the acting guy.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Lots of Talk about Princeton. Who is the new coach? Anybody heard any 3rd had rumor

I think they named an assit. as acting head coach. They will probably wait until NCAA tournament is done to interview top assistants from a top 15 team or a head coach from a rising program. They may just keep the acting guy.
DeLuca will be
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"I think they named an assit. as acting head coach. They will probably wait until NCAA tournament is done to interview top assistants from a top 15 team or a head coach from a rising program. They may just keep the acting guy."

Thanks, that clarified things...
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I'd expect several more firings and job openings. My question is who are all the new qualified coaches to take these jobs? The assistants who have been the early recruiting bozos? Club guys who have been throwing out lousy / unsightly fundamentals club ball for college placement services? I'm getting really concerned that the college sport will be dominated by only a small few programs run by guys who are actually great coaches, then a huge garbage pile after that.

I've been around this sport for almost all of my 53 years and this was the first year where I went to D3 games and saw teams that could compete with or bear D1 teams. Many of coaches are obviously unable to develop talent. I question now whether or not Starsia and Petro ever did know how or if they just appeared smarter years ago when they could out talent other programs and roll a ball out. These programs are obviously recruiting poorly too. One of the things that struck me watching UVA this year was their body language leaving the field after a game. 45 individuals. And talent wise more than 30 of them didn't belong in that uniform anyways. Hopkins is now a program ever 5-6 kids quit every fall. What kid spends his whole youth chasing this and quits at the end of fall ball? Hopkins has some serious character issues in their program. Petro is a great guy but don't sell me that he recruits well and coaches to the talent. He's gotten a few more stars like the Stanwicks and Tinney,, but then again Starsia has been about as lucky there too over the last several years. It's getting to a point where I don't see how a kid dreams of being a Hoo or a Blue Jay anymore.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'd expect several more firings and job openings. My question is who are all the new qualified coaches to take these jobs? The assistants who have been the early recruiting bozos? Club guys who have been throwing out lousy / unsightly fundamentals club ball for college placement services? I'm getting really concerned that the college sport will be dominated by only a small few programs run by guys who are actually great coaches, then a huge garbage pile after that.

I've been around this sport for almost all of my 53 years and this was the first year where I went to D3 games and saw teams that could compete with or bear D1 teams. Many of coaches are obviously unable to develop talent. I question now whether or not Starsia and Petro ever did know how or if they just appeared smarter years ago when they could out talent other programs and roll a ball out. These programs are obviously recruiting poorly too. One of the things that struck me watching UVA this year was their body language leaving the field after a game. 45 individuals. And talent wise more than 30 of them didn't belong in that uniform anyways. Hopkins is now a program ever 5-6 kids quit every fall. What kid spends his whole youth chasing this and quits at the end of fall ball? Hopkins has some serious character issues in their program. Petro is a great guy but don't sell me that he recruits well and coaches to the talent. He's gotten a few more stars like the Stanwicks and Tinney,, but then again Starsia has been about as lucky there too over the last several years. It's getting to a point where I don't see how a kid dreams of being a Hoo or a Blue Jay anymore.


Wow, really? Do yourself a favor, go to a high school recruiting tournament this summer and stand in the parking lot and take a poll of the kids coming out. I guarantee you 99 out of 100 of them would trade one of their siblings for a shot to play at either UVA or Hopkins. Yes their programs might be down, but they are both historic programs and excellent academic institutions. Hopkins has a tendency to over recruit which explains why kids will quit or transfer but dont fool yourself, its still Hopkins and kids would kill for a shot to play there. UVA is a disaster right now and I firmly believe they need a coaching change. However, to say that kids dont wanna go there is silly, its still UVA.
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this was the first year where I went to D3 games and saw teams that could compete with or bear D1 teams. [/quote]

Top 10 D3 could beat anyone below top 20 D1, definitely hang with 10-20 D1, and probably lose to by 5-7 to top 10 D1. Top level D3 is really really good lacrosse - the coaches can actually coach - not rely on spoiled kids that peaked in 9th grade and were only better than everyone else because they matured first...
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'd expect several more firings and job openings. My question is who are all the new qualified coaches to take these jobs? The assistants who have been the early recruiting bozos? Club guys who have been throwing out lousy / unsightly fundamentals club ball for college placement services? I'm getting really concerned that the college sport will be dominated by only a small few programs run by guys who are actually great coaches, then a huge garbage pile after that.

I've been around this sport for almost all of my 53 years and this was the first year where I went to D3 games and saw teams that could compete with or bear D1 teams. Many of coaches are obviously unable to develop talent. I question now whether or not Starsia and Petro ever did know how or if they just appeared smarter years ago when they could out talent other programs and roll a ball out. These programs are obviously recruiting poorly too. One of the things that struck me watching UVA this year was their body language leaving the field after a game. 45 individuals. And talent wise more than 30 of them didn't belong in that uniform anyways. Hopkins is now a program ever 5-6 kids quit every fall. What kid spends his whole youth chasing this and quits at the end of fall ball? Hopkins has some serious character issues in their program. Petro is a great guy but don't sell me that he recruits well and coaches to the talent. He's gotten a few more stars like the Stanwicks and Tinney,, but then again Starsia has been about as lucky there too over the last several years. It's getting to a point where I don't see how a kid dreams of being a Hoo or a Blue Jay anymore.


Wow, really? Do yourself a favor, go to a high school recruiting tournament this summer and stand in the parking lot and take a poll of the kids coming out. I guarantee you 99 out of 100 of them would trade one of their siblings for a shot to play at either UVA or Hopkins. Yes their programs might be down, but they are both historic programs and excellent academic institutions. Hopkins has a tendency to over recruit which explains why kids will quit or transfer but dont fool yourself, its still Hopkins and kids would kill for a shot to play there. UVA is a disaster right now and I firmly believe they need a coaching change. However, to say that kids dont wanna go there is silly, its still UVA.


I do go to these things with my youngest. Of course all the 14 year olds want to go to the school with the cred, the cool uniforms and play on ESPN. And sure they'd sell a sibling. Their parents would likely sell a kin as well for a sexy commit announcement. I think you are missing the part where 14 year olds become college students later, arrive at these programs and barely hang on for fall ball because the coaches are over recruiting to compensate for the fact that the way they recruit is a disaster. Kids who have these values because they are taught them...look how that turns out. Every UVA and Hop player learned only how to hog it for an individual highlight, didn't care about winning club tournaments and cared more about walking around as a college commit over being a high school player. Hopkins and UVA are the two worst coached, underachieving and culturally cancerous programs in the sport now. Sure they are great schools. I have a degree from one of them. But neither school is a good fit for a lax bro who just wants to stay eligible for four years and play ball. Pretty soon the cool destinations can be Ohio State and Penn State if Hopkins and UVA can stay off TV in games that count in May. If I were the AD at either Hop or UVA, I'd fire both coaches tomorrow morning. Let them sit on the other side of the field at middle school club tournaments coaching some club team.
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First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?


If you can get into Hopkins, then you probably have lots of choices. Is it a prestigious, of course, but we are talking about elite lax players who are ER, are we not? And Baltimore is a handicap.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?


If you can get into Hopkins, then you probably have lots of choices. Is it a prestigious, of course, but we are talking about elite lax players who are ER, are we not? And Baltimore is a handicap.


Hey now. There might be some significant social issues, but Baltimore is a cool city -- rich in history, art, and music. Get beyond the superficial and dig a little. It's a quirky town. An artsy, foodie, cool place. Don't diss my hometown, man! Lots of great people in Baltimore.
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problem with the hop is you only have lax. Add to that the fact (like most kids do at others) you hang with lax players all the time 24-7. Not much else there. Slim choices with the ladies as well. Go to a UVA football game and enjoy the sun and scenery. The sun dresses are hard to look away from. Basketball team is hot right now as well and as a Varsity athlete you get free admission to all. Nice perk
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?


If you can get into Hopkins, then you probably have lots of choices. Is it a prestigious, of course, but we are talking about elite lax players who are ER, are we not? And Baltimore is a handicap.


Hey now. There might be some significant social issues, but Baltimore is a cool city -- rich in history, art, and music. Get beyond the superficial and dig a little. It's a quirky town. An artsy, foodie, cool place. Don't diss my hometown, man! Lots of great people in Baltimore.


Well, the mayor is a moron, the county attorney is a moron and WHEN, not if, the next riot strikes, Baltimore is going to look a lot like Ferguson Missouri. But Hopkins is a GREAT school with a historically great lacrosse program. One I feel will recover nicely. Remember ND won a football NC in 1988, then struggled for years before Chip Kelly came along. Same with Bama, now Miami struggling to compete in football. Cyclical, they'll be back.
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You people are all out of your mind if you think Hopkins or UVA have any trouble getting the recruits they wants. Both of them can draw from the hotbeds as well as out west and Canada. If Petro calls you and your a high school soph or Jr, youre saying no? Not a shot in [lacrosse]. As for Baltimore, yes there are some pretty shady spots but they also have Inner Harbor, Fells Point, Federal Hill, etc. Not sure if you noticed but NYC has some really shady spots as well and last time I looked Hofstra wasnt in the greatest neighborhood either. In regards to UVA, your talking about a beautiful campus, a great academic institution, a pretty sizable and powerful alumni and a storied lacrosse program. So who wouldnt go there and why???? If your talking about deciding between and IVY and UVA you have an argument, otherwise its a no brainer.
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Homewood Field is a dump and so is the JHU campus. I get UVA.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
You people are all out of your mind if you think Hopkins or UVA have any trouble getting the recruits they wants. Both of them can draw from the hotbeds as well as out west and Canada. If Petro calls you and your a high school soph or Jr, youre saying no? Not a shot in [lacrosse]. As for Baltimore, yes there are some pretty shady spots but they also have Inner Harbor, Fells Point, Federal Hill, etc. Not sure if you noticed but NYC has some really shady spots as well and last time I looked Hofstra wasnt in the greatest neighborhood either. In regards to UVA, your talking about a beautiful campus, a great academic institution, a pretty sizable and powerful alumni and a storied lacrosse program. So who wouldnt go there and why???? If your talking about deciding between and IVY and UVA you have an argument, otherwise its a no brainer.


I think you've gotten off track a bit. The discussion is about ER, not about whether or not a 16 year old, two or three time ninth grader will accept an offer. Clearly, the reason these two schools are in the predicament they are, is precisely because they are making offers to 16 yo ninth graders that are accepting those offers. They are not getting the best kids... That is why they can't win. 10 years ago Hop would have beat Rutgers with their 3rd lines. 16 year olds playing against 14 year olds in tournament look like superstars. When the arrive on campus at age 20 they now have to play up. Most will not be able to do it. Remember, if they really were that good, they would have been playing up at 16, not 2 years down. The biggest offenders are all suffering the same fate. UVA, Hop, UNC. Its only going to get worse for them, they have recruited the same type of players in 2016, 2017, 2018 and 2019. It's great for the other programs, and great for D3. Parity is here to stay, and it will only continue.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You people are all out of your mind if you think Hopkins or UVA have any trouble getting the recruits they wants. Both of them can draw from the hotbeds as well as out west and Canada. If Petro calls you and your a high school soph or Jr, youre saying no? Not a shot in [lacrosse]. As for Baltimore, yes there are some pretty shady spots but they also have Inner Harbor, Fells Point, Federal Hill, etc. Not sure if you noticed but NYC has some really shady spots as well and last time I looked Hofstra wasnt in the greatest neighborhood either. In regards to UVA, your talking about a beautiful campus, a great academic institution, a pretty sizable and powerful alumni and a storied lacrosse program. So who wouldnt go there and why???? If your talking about deciding between and IVY and UVA you have an argument, otherwise its a no brainer.


I think you've gotten off track a bit. The discussion is about ER, not about whether or not a 16 year old, two or three time ninth grader will accept an offer. Clearly, the reason these two schools are in the predicament they are, is precisely because they are making offers to 16 yo ninth graders that are accepting those offers. They are not getting the best kids... That is why they can't win. 10 years ago Hop would have beat Rutgers with their 3rd lines. 16 year olds playing against 14 year olds in tournament look like superstars. When the arrive on campus at age 20 they now have to play up. Most will not be able to do it. Remember, if they really were that good, they would have been playing up at 16, not 2 years down. The biggest offenders are all suffering the same fate. UVA, Hop, UNC. Its only going to get worse for them, they have recruited the same type of players in 2016, 2017, 2018 and 2019. It's great for the other programs, and great for D3. Parity is here to stay, and it will only continue.


I disagree with you. ER may be playing a role but it is definitely not the whole story. In the cases of UNC and UVA, both of their rosters are loaded with talent and athletes, so to me it is a coaching problem not a recruiting problem. Breschi missed his chance last year when he had that all world attack. Starsia looks lost and disinterested and I think its filtering down to his players, definitely time for a change at UVA. As for Hop, they did make the final four last year and they had some big wins this season and it remains to be seen what they do in this tourney, they have a tough 1st round matchup with Brown. You did hit the nail on the head with parity, the talent is much more spread out and more athletes are playing the sport which is why your seeing some of the upsets youre seeing. I think parity and good coaching is more on the money than ER.
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If Bill Tierney was the coach at UVA, they would be in the top five. UVA's play has nothing to do with ER or lack of player talent. Hopkins lost two first line mids for the season and still are in the tourney. UNC is in the tourney. These programs are fine and full of great athletes. Not d3 players as hater dad states.

The guy bashing programs and players is only doing it because his son didn't get recruited. Dude, get over it. Hop, UVA and UNC will always be highly respected and desirable places to play. Everyone would go to these three schools in a heartbeat.

There is more talent than ever, and ER has yet to take effect good or bad. Parity is simply more good D1 players and more good D1 coaches getting the most out of their players. This is all a good thing.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
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First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?


If you can get into Hopkins, then you probably have lots of choices. Is it a prestigious, of course, but we are talking about elite lax players who are ER, are we not? And Baltimore is a handicap.


Hey now. There might be some significant social issues, but Baltimore is a cool city -- rich in history, art, and music. Get beyond the superficial and dig a little. It's a quirky town. An artsy, foodie, cool place. Don't diss my hometown, man! Lots of great people in Baltimore.


And they have great riots! Amazing police and great political leaders.

Seriously, Baltimore might be great under the surface, but I think that my 18 year old from the suburbs might find a bunch of lacrosse powers more appealing. Petro is handicapped by the surroundings. So is Yale, if that makes you happy.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
You people are all out of your mind if you think Hopkins or UVA have any trouble getting the recruits they wants. Both of them can draw from the hotbeds as well as out west and Canada. If Petro calls you and your a high school soph or Jr, youre saying no? Not a shot in [lacrosse]. As for Baltimore, yes there are some pretty shady spots but they also have Inner Harbor, Fells Point, Federal Hill, etc. Not sure if you noticed but NYC has some really shady spots as well and last time I looked Hofstra wasnt in the greatest neighborhood either. In regards to UVA, your talking about a beautiful campus, a great academic institution, a pretty sizable and powerful alumni and a storied lacrosse program. So who wouldnt go there and why???? If your talking about deciding between and IVY and UVA you have an argument, otherwise its a no brainer.


Except for bringing Hofstra into this, your pretty spot on and the NYC comparison it too broad and we are surely not talking Wagner or Manhattan. But if you are a lax ER then you have a choice and Hop is lucky they have the aura to overcome the location.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If Petro called - I'd still look elsewhere. Hopkins location, facilities, campus, etc. is a major issue. They are not the only game in town anymore. Sorry - old news.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?


If you can get into Hopkins, then you probably have lots of choices. Is it a prestigious, of course, but we are talking about elite lax players who are ER, are we not? And Baltimore is a handicap.


Hey now. There might be some significant social issues, but Baltimore is a cool city -- rich in history, art, and music. Get beyond the superficial and dig a little. It's a quirky town. An artsy, foodie, cool place. Don't diss my hometown, man! Lots of great people in Baltimore.


And they have great riots! Amazing police and great political leaders.

Seriously, Baltimore might be great under the surface, but I think that my 18 year old from the suburbs might find a bunch of lacrosse powers more appealing. Petro is handicapped by the surroundings. So is Yale, if that makes you happy.


Again, sorry but if youre in any way insinuating that someone actually might think twice about going to Yale because of its location you are absolutely out of your mind. It could be on the surface of the moon and people would gouge each others eyes out to have the opportunity to go there. As for Hop and being in a shady neighborhood, let me ask you, do you think Duke has a problem recruiting? Have you ever seen the area surrounding Duke? Not desirable by any stretch. How about UPenn? There are many schools that are situated in bad neighborhoods, but I really dont think its that big of a factor when kids are deciding where to go to school
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If Petro called - I'd still look elsewhere. Hopkins location, facilities, campus, etc. is a major issue. They are not the only game in town anymore. Sorry - old news.


Congrats, your kid must be something pretty special then. Not many kids have the option of turning down one of the premier academic and lacrosse institutions in the country. Ive been to Hop more than a few times, the facilities and the campus are just fine. I agree the surrounding area is an issue but nothing that would stop me from sending my kid there if he had the chance.
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Hopkins in the 80's and early 90's was it. Now even though they are still great, there are a ton more choices and many of them are very attractive. Schools have evolved. NO knock on the Hop
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Virginia AD pretty much indicated the end for Starsia today. If your son is a UVA early commit you'd better hope the new guy loves you in the morning.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Virginia AD pretty much indicated the end for Starsia today. If your son is a UVA early commit you'd better hope the new guy loves you in the morning.


Although I agree he has to go, I have a hard time believing they will kick him out on his rear. The man has had a great deal of success there and has done wonders for the program. It is time for a change but hopefully they do it the right way.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, I'd like to say the UVA just looks and feels like a college should and all they need to do is get a kid on Campus with his parents and I suspect they sign up (and no, I did not attend but have been there enough). Hopkins? (lovely Baltimore)? Not so much, so Petro has a tougher sell than many others. Going forward, it is going to be even tougher for him, you can bet on that.

But don't bet against seeing the Hop Memorial Day weekend. They are not good enough this year, but stranger things have happened.


Baltimore, the city, might not be as picturesque as UVA, but a degree from Hopkins is prestigious. Some people actually care about the degree, you know?


If you can get into Hopkins, then you probably have lots of choices. Is it a prestigious, of course, but we are talking about elite lax players who are ER, are we not? And Baltimore is a handicap.


Hey now. There might be some significant social issues, but Baltimore is a cool city -- rich in history, art, and music. Get beyond the superficial and dig a little. It's a quirky town. An artsy, foodie, cool place. Don't diss my hometown, man! Lots of great people in Baltimore.


And they have great riots! Amazing police and great political leaders.

Seriously, Baltimore might be great under the surface, but I think that my 18 year old from the suburbs might find a bunch of lacrosse powers more appealing. Petro is handicapped by the surroundings. So is Yale, if that makes you happy.


Again, sorry but if youre in any way insinuating that someone actually might think twice about going to Yale because of its location you are absolutely out of your mind. It could be on the surface of the moon and people would gouge each others eyes out to have the opportunity to go there. As for Hop and being in a shady neighborhood, let me ask you, do you think Duke has a problem recruiting? Have you ever seen the area surrounding Duke? Not desirable by any stretch. How about UPenn? There are many schools that are situated in bad neighborhoods, but I really dont think its that big of a factor when kids are deciding where to go to school


But these kids are the best of the best at the time they are getting recruited, THEY HAVE A CHOICE! New Haven to Cambridge, Baltimore to Charlottesville and so many in between. You can not look at this as if it is the choice between Binghampton and Yale as a lax player. Kids the ER for lax are not deciding a Government major at Harvard vs a pre-med at Yale or Hopkins.

Bottom line is Petro is handicapped by his surroundings, it can not be denied. At UVA, there is no handicap and I would look towards the coaching. Frankly that place is a bonus for the coach, he is the problem there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Early or late recruit
The entire idea of athletics for the over whelming majority is help the get to a school that may have not been able to attend without given sport
A degree from many of the schools listed above will aid them tremendously in the rest of the lives not just the 4-5 yrs they spend at the school
And as far as ER what you think you may want at 15
Many times is completely different from what you want as a 18 yr old senior
Good day all
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
As a former UVA student athlete, here is what I wonder about...George Hugely was a bum and a violent drunk for 4 years in that program. The twins, same thing. Nothing but trouble and more trouble. Back in the day in my team and other teams at UVA the teams and guys took care of each other and their team. If there was a cancer on the team the team members and captains would make sure the coaches knew. Nobody wants it. Starsia knew Huguely and the twins were bad seeds the whole way and he did nothing.

I don't want to hear it that he won this many games and championships. None of that matters when you don't do things the right way and you look away when you have kids committing crimes on your team. 2010 wasn't an isolated incident. It was by far the worst and most horrible think imagined, but it was also the outcome of a pattern which was tolerated for years and was a part of the UVA lacrosse culture for decades. Don't late the door hit you on the [lacrosse] on your way out, coach.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
As a former UVA student athlete, here is what I wonder about...George Hugely was a bum and a violent drunk for 4 years in that program. The twins, same thing. Nothing but trouble and more trouble. Back in the day in my team and other teams at UVA the teams and guys took care of each other and their team. If there was a cancer on the team the team members and captains would make sure the coaches knew. Nobody wants it. Starsia knew Huguely and the twins were bad seeds the whole way and he did nothing.

I don't want to hear it that he won this many games and championships. None of that matters when you don't do things the right way and you look away when you have kids committing crimes on your team. 2010 wasn't an isolated incident. It was by far the worst and most horrible think imagined, but it was also the outcome of a pattern which was tolerated for years and was a part of the UVA lacrosse culture for decades. Don't late the door hit you on the [lacrosse] on your way out, coach.


That's a powerful post. And makes me think a little bit about how he decries ER and then offers a rising 9th grader in early July.

It will be VERY interesting to see whether the new UVA coach is an ER guy or not. As someone whose kid would be in-state, I hope not.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
UVA -- that summary is 100% spot on. The program has had a bad internal reputation for many years. The tired old beer guzzling bro culture goes back to the Ace Adams years. The University and this program would be best served if there is a change and a complete overhaul. Based on Littlepage's comments it looks like change is a given now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
As a former UVA student athlete, here is what I wonder about...George Hugely was a bum and a violent drunk for 4 years in that program. The twins, same thing. Nothing but trouble and more trouble. Back in the day in my team and other teams at UVA the teams and guys took care of each other and their team. If there was a cancer on the team the team members and captains would make sure the coaches knew. Nobody wants it. Starsia knew Huguely and the twins were bad seeds the whole way and he did nothing.

I don't want to hear it that he won this many games and championships. None of that matters when you don't do things the right way and you look away when you have kids committing crimes on your team. 2010 wasn't an isolated incident. It was by far the worst and most horrible think imagined, but it was also the outcome of a pattern which was tolerated for years and was a part of the UVA lacrosse culture for decades. Don't late the door hit you on the [lacrosse] on your way out, coach.


That's a powerful post. And makes me think a little bit about how he decries ER and then offers a rising 9th grader in early July.

It will be VERY interesting to see whether the new UVA coach is an ER guy or not. As someone whose kid would be in-state, I hope not.


Kills me to write this, but Frank Beamer at VaTech always said the first pillar of any great college program is recruiting the state. Your program is always better when you respect that fact that if there are in-state kids you could recruit, you want to always keep a wicked bias toward them. Those are the kids who grew up rooting for the Hoos and would appreciate wearing the jersey and give more of themselves. My UVA teams in another sport always had a few walk-ons from the Quantico base. O'Connor is the baseball coach and he believes in this too. Tough and straight military brats who were tough s.o.b.'s. I went to a UVA lacrosse game this spring and that was obviously a group of 45 individuals. That would never happen if you had glue guys, character guys, guys who only want to be a part of UVA success. Blow that sh$t up and start over. Doesn't mean a thing they are loaded with IL ranked recruits and UA All-Americans. That means nothing. Starsia doesn't get it, he always thought he could out talent everybody with LI and Baltimore kids and look at them now. Next guy needs to be someone who cares about the state. Can't be any other way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
As a former UVA student athlete, here is what I wonder about...George Hugely was a bum and a violent drunk for 4 years in that program. The twins, same thing. Nothing but trouble and more trouble. Back in the day in my team and other teams at UVA the teams and guys took care of each other and their team. If there was a cancer on the team the team members and captains would make sure the coaches knew. Nobody wants it. Starsia knew Huguely and the twins were bad seeds the whole way and he did nothing.

I don't want to hear it that he won this many games and championships. None of that matters when you don't do things the right way and you look away when you have kids committing crimes on your team. 2010 wasn't an isolated incident. It was by far the worst and most horrible think imagined, but it was also the outcome of a pattern which was tolerated for years and was a part of the UVA lacrosse culture for decades. Don't late the door hit you on the [lacrosse] on your way out, coach.


That's a powerful post. And makes me think a little bit about how he decries ER and then offers a rising 9th grader in early July.

It will be VERY interesting to see whether the new UVA coach is an ER guy or not. As someone whose kid would be in-state, I hope not.


Kills me to write this, but Frank Beamer at VaTech always said the first pillar of any great college program is recruiting the state. Your program is always better when you respect that fact that if there are in-state kids you could recruit, you want to always keep a wicked bias toward them. Those are the kids who grew up rooting for the Hoos and would appreciate wearing the jersey and give more of themselves. My UVA teams in another sport always had a few walk-ons from the Quantico base. O'Connor is the baseball coach and he believes in this too. Tough and straight military brats who were tough s.o.b.'s. I went to a UVA lacrosse game this spring and that was obviously a group of 45 individuals. That would never happen if you had glue guys, character guys, guys who only want to be a part of UVA success. Blow that sh$t up and start over. Doesn't mean a thing they are loaded with IL ranked recruits and UA All-Americans. That means nothing. Starsia doesn't get it, he always thought he could out talent everybody with LI and Baltimore kids and look at them now. Next guy needs to be someone who cares about the state. Can't be any other way.


I guess that is why ND is always going to be special, everyone if from there and they have God watching the games.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
That's a dumb thing to write. In any sport if you have talent in your state and can't recruit your state, you will stink. If you have talent in your state and won't recruit it, your dumb and you will stink. I understand that North Carolina high school lacrosse hasn't been huge in the past 10 years, but when there are players good enough to recruit it is a mistake if Breschi ignores the kid. Lots of kids will want to go away for college anyways but everyone notices the validation when the program in the state in the ACC recruits a kid from the state, and more important everyone notices when the program in the state doesn't. Starsia is hated among Virginia high school coaches. They have very long memories and now that Virginia has excellent high school lacrosse talent, the resentment is very high. It's like Pitino saying he wouldn't recruit a Mr. Basketball from Kentucky to UK. He didn't get it. Starsia didn't get it either. If he wants to keep coaching, go coach Hofstra or something like that.
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And look how it went for Towson recruiting all those Maryland public school grinders.

Ty Xanders never ranked character, bi&$es.
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All Binghamton (no p) needed is a fresh h coach. School is behind Athletics while it prides itself on academics.

2020 2019 keep an eye on this one. School can be seen as a place to be if rumors of an Indoor facility comes to fruition.

Talk about keeping it in state. 15 D1 school
Cause
Albany
Stony Brook
Army
Colgate
Cornell

Hofstra
Marist
Siena
Binghamton
Manhattan

Wagner
St John's
Canisius
Hobart

If you don't have an Indoor facility in NY you put yourself behind the 8ball. Tough to compete with those school with mild Temps.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All Binghamton (no p) needed is a fresh h coach. School is behind Athletics while it prides itself on academics.

2020 2019 keep an eye on this one. School can be seen as a place to be if rumors of an Indoor facility comes to fruition.

Talk about keeping it in state. 15 D1 school
Cause
Albany
Stony Brook
Army
Colgate
Cornell

Hofstra
Marist
Siena
Binghamton
Manhattan

Wagner
St John's
Canisius
Hobart

If you don't have an Indoor facility in NY you put yourself behind the 8ball. Tough to compete with those school with mild Temps.


And so many D2 and D3
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Steve Spurrier once said "give me SOBs and I'll beat any group of VIPs"

If you're one of the blue blood programs it's time to toughen up, buttercups.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Steve Spurrier once said "give me SOBs and I'll beat any group of VIPs"

If you're one of the blue blood programs it's time to toughen up, buttercups.


Who would you consider a "blue blood"?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Steve Spurrier once said "give me SOBs and I'll beat any group of VIPs"

If you're one of the blue blood programs it's time to toughen up, buttercups.


At least his convicts had a chance at playing in the NFL. Pro lax is a beer league. Worry about churning out a high character kid and sending him to a school that is a good fit because in 4 years its OVER JOHNNY!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Steve Spurrier once said "give me SOBs and I'll beat any group of VIPs"

If you're one of the blue blood programs it's time to toughen up, buttercups.


At least his convicts had a chance at playing in the NFL. Pro lax is a beer league. Worry about churning out a high character kid and sending him to a school that is a good fit because in 4 years its OVER JOHNNY!


Never mind that, when is the ole ball coach coming to college lacrosse? Can't wait to see that. All kidding aside, lacrosse is no longer the sport it was. The tough kid with a linebacker mentality cannot succeed in today's lacrosse climate. The game has become a finesse sport, more like soccer than hockey. Almost all contact is flagged. Give me a bunch of fast kids with amazing stick skills who play as a team and not as individuals and I'll beat anyone as well. Tough sob's? sorry not in todays game.
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Well, Yale & Brown had more tough character guys than the lax bro schools. I think you're trying to make a correlation which isn't there. Mentally tough is something many college lacrosse coaches seem unable to identify or evaluate.

We're at a point now where each guy on this year's Hopkins and UVA squads should be doing individual highlight videos to an AC/DC song to post on YouTube. It would be pretty sad, but also appropriate.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Steve Spurrier once said "give me SOBs and I'll beat any group of VIPs"

If you're one of the blue blood programs it's time to toughen up, buttercups.


At least his convicts had a chance at playing in the NFL. Pro lax is a beer league. Worry about churning out a high character kid and sending him to a school that is a good fit because in 4 years its OVER JOHNNY!


Never mind that, when is the ole ball coach coming to college lacrosse? Can't wait to see that. All kidding aside, lacrosse is no longer the sport it was. The tough kid with a linebacker mentality cannot succeed in today's lacrosse climate. The game has become a finesse sport, more like soccer than hockey. Almost all contact is flagged. Give me a bunch of fast kids with amazing stick skills who play as a team and not as individuals and I'll beat anyone as well. Tough sob's? sorry
not in todays game.


Agree that they are flagging almost all contact now but disagree about the tough SOB's. Yesterday's Towson Denver game proved it. Denver has fast kids with amazing stick skills. Towson has tough, grinding SOB's. Toughness isn't only about hitting. Towson played tenacious defense and battled their asses off for every ground ball. [lacrosse], I think they only won 2 faceoffs all day. That's my definition of toughness and Towson showed it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Steve Spurrier once said "give me SOBs and I'll beat any group of VIPs"

If you're one of the blue blood programs it's time to toughen up, buttercups.


At least his convicts had a chance at playing in the NFL. Pro lax is a beer league. Worry about churning out a high character kid and sending him to a school that is a good fit because in 4 years its OVER JOHNNY!


Never mind that, when is the ole ball coach coming to college lacrosse? Can't wait to see that. All kidding aside, lacrosse is no longer the sport it was. The tough kid with a linebacker mentality cannot succeed in today's lacrosse climate. The game has become a finesse sport, more like soccer than hockey. Almost all contact is flagged. Give me a bunch of fast kids with amazing stick skills who play as a team and not as individuals and I'll beat anyone as well. Tough sob's? sorry
not in todays game.


Agree that they are flagging almost all contact now but disagree about the tough SOB's. Yesterday's Towson Denver game proved it. Denver has fast kids with amazing stick skills. Towson has tough, grinding SOB's. Toughness isn't only about hitting. Towson played tenacious defense and battled their asses off for every ground ball. [lacrosse], I think they only won 2 faceoffs all day. That's my definition of toughness and Towson showed it.


Steve Spurrier was talking about players who could knock the snot out of someone. Therefore I assume the poster was referring to that. Don't think the original poster was referring to picking up ground balls, but I could be wrong.
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Originally Posted by America's Game
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not really directly on topic, but Loyola very recently won the national title (2012) before the early recruiting kicked in,so the hounds playing even with and beating JHU should not be a shocker when Hopkins hasn't won it all since 2007.

So it wasn't really working all that great before early recruiting either.



Early recruiting has been around for a very long time. Most of the top players knew where they were going even back in the day by 11th grade. It's the publicity of early recruiting that's the phenomenon that we are seeing. This is all due to the Internet, social media, and coverage of the game. The 9th and 10th grade recruiting is new, this is changing the game but not really hurting it.


Agreed. Also the number of talented kids, and the type of athlete that now plays the game, seems to have the greatest impact on parity.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


Alabama just offered an 8th grader a spot on their football team. This will soon extend to all NCAA sports. Its coming, the coaches are playing for big money jobs. They could care less what a bunch of parents on BOTC think. We can complain, or accept that it's coming. Or, if you are that dead set against it, start a movement to get rid of it. Raise the money, hire the lobbyists, change the rules. But I think it's a very dead issue
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Anyone know if the under armour all American underclass team is legit or a money grab?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anyone know if the under armour all American underclass team is legit or a money grab?


Ive heard the tryouts are very well attended by college coaches. Not sure about the tournament but it seems to be pretty legit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


Alabama just offered an 8th grader a spot on their football team. This will soon extend to all NCAA sports. Its coming, the coaches are playing for big money jobs. They could care less what a bunch of parents on BOTC think. We can complain, or accept that it's coming. Or, if you are that dead set against it, start a movement to get rid of it. Raise the money, hire the lobbyists, change the rules. But I think it's a very dead issue


8th graders have gotten football offers for years now; that isn't the problem with lacrosse recruiting. That 8th grader (and the majority of football recruits) still won't have to decide/commit until senior year of college.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


Alabama just offered an 8th grader a spot on their football team. This will soon extend to all NCAA sports. Its coming, the coaches are playing for big money jobs. They could care less what a bunch of parents on BOTC think. We can complain, or accept that it's coming. Or, if you are that dead set against it, start a movement to get rid of it. Raise the money, hire the lobbyists, change the rules. But I think it's a very dead issue


8th graders have gotten football offers for years now; that isn't the problem with lacrosse recruiting. That 8th grader (and the majority of football recruits) still won't have to decide/commit until senior year of college.


You don't HAVE to commit/decide early in lacrosse either. That is the choice of the student and the parent. Don't do it if you don't want to commit. Can't blame the coach for wanting to make his program better and keep his high paying job and supporting HIS family. There are things that are unethical in every business, from Wall Street on down/up, why is coaching any different?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


So is Virginia...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


So is Virginia...


Early recruiting really does seem to be a phenomenon that benefits no one at all, yet it really has destroyed the youth game all over the country.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anyone know if the under armour all American underclass team is legit or a money grab?


Ive heard the tryouts are very well attended by college coaches. Not sure about the tournament but it seems to be pretty legit.


isn't this the first year for the underclassmen?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


So is Virginia...
and JHU?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All quiet on the early recruiting front...UNC and Marryland in final four and they are the earliest of the early...even Brown publically taking 9th graders...
then that must make it ok and validates the early recruiting model, right? Michigan and Ohio State are very early too, no?


So is Virginia...
and JHU?



Most of your early commits are doing so because that is what the parent wants. Most kids don't have a clue in 9th grade of where they want to go or would they rather play football or BB in college.Parents will feel less pressure from the other parents on their club team. My son has been approached and we are looking into the process but it's still early for him. I won't let my ego get in the way of my son. What makes a kid from LI pick Ohio State , Michigan or a Denver at this point. They loved the academic side of the school or how it looks in the fall or they like their football team. just crazy but everyone can make their own choice.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
For our ER, it was a rather tough decision. I mean, what does a 14 year old 9th grader know if that is what he wants? Surely he wants to play in college. A D1 program was preferable to him. He was pretty advanced academically and displayed a rather independent nature early on so we were apprehensive but not nail biting. I think the thing that pushed us as a family over the edge was how fast the recruiting classes were filling up. Had to kind of sh*t or get off of the pot.

We made a deal with him. Chose the most academically rewarding institution that was interested in him and we would support his decision. True; kids are attracted to the big name schools with vibrant media coverage and larger than life college experiences, yet we were happy our kid decided to pursue the academic route and chose a very coveted spot in a great 8 school. That certainly put more pressure on him to want and need to achieve academically, but if the lax carrot is the key to a great school; then why not let him try and meet those requirements?

So.... ER is a challenge on many levels. If a kid gets sucked into the recruiting vortex; it's a parent's responsibility to help him cull out the best program for him that will enable him to pursue his dreams and become successful in life. Else; take lax out of the equation and let them make their way the old fashioned way on merit and grit. We were fortunate that our ER thus far has not been overwhelmed by the process or his decision.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
For our ER, it was a rather tough decision. I mean, what does a 14 year old 9th grader know if that is what he wants? Surely he wants to play in college. A D1 program was preferable to him. He was pretty advanced academically and displayed a rather independent nature early on so we were apprehensive but not nail biting. I think the thing that pushed us as a family over the edge was how fast the recruiting classes were filling up. Had to kind of sh*t or get off of the pot.

We made a deal with him. Chose the most academically rewarding institution that was interested in him and we would support his decision. True; kids are attracted to the big name schools with vibrant media coverage and larger than life college experiences, yet we were happy our kid decided to pursue the academic route and chose a very coveted spot in a great 8 school. That certainly put more pressure on him to want and need to achieve academically, but if the lax carrot is the key to a great school; then why not let him try and meet those requirements?

So.... ER is a challenge on many levels. If a kid gets sucked into the recruiting vortex; it's a parent's responsibility to help him cull out the best program for him that will enable him to pursue his dreams and become successful in life. Else; take lax out of the equation and let them make their way the old fashioned way on merit and grit. We were fortunate that our ER thus far has not been overwhelmed by the process or his decision.



Sounds good. I hope he gets the coveted likely to admit letter.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Trying to tie wins and losses from this season to ER is a tough sell. Parody is here because of the enhanced level of instruction and competitive exposure that is now available to kids from non-traditional areas due to club. ER has been going on for years, even when it supposedly wasn't. It just wasn't tweeted out every time a 9th or 10th grader verballed. They all do it, even Loyola BTW, despite the fact that their freshman attackman was a late recruit (and lets be real, he went to Boys Latin, so its not exactly a Cinderella story). Even if the NCAA makes wholesale changes, coaches will still find a way around it. So even in that scenario, young recruits will worry about "missing the train". The handful of coaches we spoke to all said they were against it but felt that they had to in order to be in the running for the top recruits. Most schools hold back a few spots as a hedge for late bloomers. But instead of discussing it philosophically, lets consider a real world scenario, put yourself in it:
-your 9th grade son/daughter is being recruited by XYZ University (which btw, your kid would probably not be admitted to without the sport)
-your club or school coach contacts you and gives you a number to call and try to speak to the coach.
-Your kid is very excited but you try to temper him/her by telling them to research the school and also realize that coach probably made a dozen calls after that tournament/event.
-your kid calls, speaks to a coach (eventually) several times and sets up a visit
-Your family visits, interviews, tours - the whole thing and tells you on the way home that he/she loves it. its the right fit (you think) and he loves the coaching staff, size of school, program, etc. He/She may even see the field some day!!!
-the school contacts your coach and says they really liked him/her and asks what your kid thought of their program
-you discuss the responsibilities and pressures of early committing to your kid but ultimately you tell him/her that they have to live with the decision.
-they want to commit (you're worried if its right but after all its X University)
-you set up a call/visit with the coach
-the call/visit happens and that's it - its done he/she is now verbally committed to X University class of 202?
So to all of the noble, sanctimonious posters out there I ask you - how would you have handled it?
a) tell your kid they are too young to make that decision and he/she should wait because you know better as their parent (ok, noble approach, but boy would I love to be a fly on the wall to hear that conversation if they loose the spot)
b) tell the coach "no, we have no idea that you will still be at X 3 years from now"
c) tell your kid that its too much to ask a 14/15 year old to stay strong academically, socially, and ethically for so long a period
d) have a heart to heart about how they are now responsible to something bigger than themselves, and need to maintain their academic and athletic strength and integrity because now its not only their mom and dad they will disappoint if they screw up but also the coach/program that had faith in them. But you support and will continue to support their decision and handle the next few years as a "team" to keep them on the right track (which we should be doing anyway of course)

Lets be real here, most will choose D

And before you respond that this is an example of why ER is bad because it puts kids under too much pressure, go back to my earlier comment. They will recruit early regardless of the "regulations". And its better to be on the inside looking out. How come nobody is complaining about all of these D1 "transfers" - what about that? so these kids are transferring because their original choice did not live up to their academic expectations - give me a break.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Yup, "Parody" is here, and the race to ER has turned the sport into a flat out joke.

Please look up 'parity' vs 'parody'
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
ok, well played with the inappropriate use of the terms. I appreciate that you took the time to actually read it, I will give you that. But you never said you would choose any of the above but D, despite this practice being so offensive to you. The overwhelming majority of the kids and parents, if given the choice would select D. And I suspect you would too. Even with your rapier wit. And that's being honest about the topic. And BTW I didn't defend the practice, I simply gave a scenario and asked people to be introspective and realistic. Were you actually in this position and told your kid to wait until 11th grade? Interesting to know the answer
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Forget the early recruiting. What about a situation like Duke has. Listening I am almost positive the announcer said 23 yr old sophmore. That me when he is a senior he will be 25. 25 playing against 18 yr olds.

How does that happen.

Also early recruiting does not guarantee anything. Many factors can make that all go away. Like the coach changing his mind because another kid became available or has finally decided to commit. How about the coach moves on or fired (UVA). All his commits mean nothing. Who ever comes in and takes over can do what ever they want. Grades are not there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
There are a lot of 20 yr old freshman at many top lacrosse schools. Pathetic!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are a lot of 20 yr old freshman at many top lacrosse schools. Pathetic!


That's only a year above normal, most freshmen are 19 by the time the lacrosse season ends.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are a lot of 20 yr old freshman at many top lacrosse schools. Pathetic!


That's only a year above normal, most freshmen are 19 by the time the lacrosse season ends.


"only" huh. Do you find yourself using that term often!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I turned 19 and end of freshman year. A lot of these boys are turning 21 at end of freshman year. That's what I should of said before.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
they said 21 year old sophomore. he's a kid who did a year of prep school , so whats the problem with the age?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
they said 21 year old sophomore. he's a kid who did a year of prep school , so whats the problem with the age?


At least he may have decided when he was 17 which college he wants to go to instead of the 14-15 year old who has no clue except for what Mom and Daddy say. I heard one kid picked Michigan because he was a Harbaugh fan and would love to watch him coach when he gets there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
. I heard one kid picked Michigan because he was a Harbaugh fan and would love to watch him coach when he gets there. [/quote]

Heck, my 17 year old D crossed a school off a list because she didn't like what the people in the area were like in a local Denny's. I have friends who have taken their kids on summer tours spent a ton taking kid around to look at colleges, some kids refused to even get out of the car at some schools. Come on. Picking a school because of the football team is NOT the worst reason, especially if its Michigan.

Not much critical thinking goes into a reason why a kid likes one over the other at 14,15,16 of 17.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
That's a terrible rationale/explanation. PARENTS are responsible for establishing a family culture that makes sure their kids ultimately assess the potential colleges in a thoughtful way (whether as 9th, 10th, 11th graders, etc).

Reading a parent saying its reasonable for a kid to pick a school based on a football coach/team they can watch speaks to why the USA is falling behind ...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That's a terrible rationale/explanation. PARENTS are responsible for establishing a family culture that makes sure their kids ultimately assess the potential colleges in a thoughtful way (whether as 9th, 10th, 11th graders, etc).

Reading a parent saying its reasonable for a kid to pick a school based on a football coach/team they can watch speaks to why the USA is falling behind ...


When the school is Michigan (or Stanford, or Notre Dame, whatever) then it doesn't really matter, does it? If he chose Florida State over Dartmouth "because of the football team" then you might have a point.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I turned 19 and end of freshman year. A lot of these boys are turning 21 at end of freshman year. That's what I should of said before.



There will be more and more of these 20 and 21 year old freshman in college lacrosse .. The club world is grade base now and that along with ER has started an increase in holding your child back.
And with PG schools and Sports Schools, kids will be later and later arriving on campus. Sorta sad for a non money sport of lacrosse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
All you folks complaining about players ages, good thing your kids aren't college hockey players. Not uncommon for college players to be in their mid 20s after having spent a few years playing juniors in Canada. My son had a 23 year old freshman on his hall.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That's a terrible rationale/explanation. PARENTS are responsible for establishing a family culture that makes sure their kids ultimately assess the potential colleges in a thoughtful way (whether as 9th, 10th, 11th graders, etc).

Reading a parent saying its reasonable for a kid to pick a school based on a football coach/team they can watch speaks to why the USA is falling behind ...


Well the then 17 y/o D who did not like the people in the surrounding area is now at an Ivy for grad school, sooooo, I don't think she made a poor choice for undergrad. They attend for a quick 4 years of their lives. If they attend the best academic school they can get into, why shouldn't they go where they will fit in academically and socially? Last I looked, U of M is not a "underperforming" school. Have you ever attended a football game at Notre Dame? Thanks to my irrational/silly 17 year old and her lack of parental input and poor choices, we got to go to several.
A kid has to want to attend a school, love the environment, not just for a spot on a lacrosse team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
ok, well played with the inappropriate use of the terms. I appreciate that you took the time to actually read it, I will give you that. But you never said you would choose any of the above but D, despite this practice being so offensive to you. The overwhelming majority of the kids and parents, if given the choice would select D. And I suspect you would too. Even with your rapier wit. And that's being honest about the topic. And BTW I didn't defend the practice, I simply gave a scenario and asked people to be introspective and realistic. Were you actually in this position and told your kid to wait until 11th grade? Interesting to know the answer


The practice is only offensive to me when it rewards those who holdback their precious athletes.

I consider that group the scum of scum. The few on age kids that are lights out I can understand, they deserve the recognition and ER. The parents that claim to have a son on age, but he comes out of the pool with huge tufts of hair under the arms at a 5th grade summer tourney – I'll leave my thoughts about the parents to myself, but that kid shouldn't be recruited early. The owners of travel organizations that recommend your son come to a practice for the grade beneath so you can see more domination, but he is really testing the waters if you'd be willing to hold your son back and play at his private school – should no longer be on the planet to promote ER. He's the one of many destroying the sport. The few players that are decent but rely on the coattails of their older siblings playing D-I, or are the child of an alum, yeah, ER or first looks are inevitable, but please, leave your politics off the field. Good for you that you have the connection, wish we had it.


I know it's all in the game of ER, that's life, but I'm entitled to my opinions even though ER won't change. I come from a hard working-class family that despises hand outs, cheating the system and nepotism, especially by those who claim not to do it.

I've been introspective and realistic as you requested, but don't need to share more of our background other than – our family is lower middle class, non-ethnic, player is near perfect in the classroom, plays for a top team.

The answer your question:

If we got a call early on, it would have to be from an institution that is just out of reach of my child's academic ability, that also would be able to provide financial aid for a non-ethnic middle class family – because the lax 'book money'is not enough. (The university list has now been severely cut to only a handful of options)

The answer is D, but modified.

d) Take the offer. Have a heart to heart about how there is a responsibility to continue to do his best, including academic and athletic strength and integrity. How it turns out will be a lesson in life, it either works out or it doesn't, and that's okay. But we have the faith it will. We as parents will continue to do our best to guide and support him. Yes, the process will be a team effort by the family. Furthermore, I'd emphasize that it's your brain the gets you somewhere in life. Not playing lacrosse in college is not the end of the world. So, now let's give this our best shot!

I would NEVER mention anything about 'screwing up' and creating 'disappointment' as you suggest. It's always about striving to be the best one can be and that is what helps define character. That's all anyone can ask, and if one knows they did his best, it's easy to live with it should things not work out. After all, there's another few thousand recruits in line right behind him and others possibly transferring in from another program. He'll be forgotten by the coach within 24 hours.

And the facts remain, the chances for recruitment are close to zero (especially when you're not a 21 year old freshman coming out of private school with wealthy parents willing to donate to the school)

Looks like we're going to a state school and playing somewhere else as a graduate student! wink
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can anyone comment on Roster Size. It looks like many of these early recruiting programs are going to drastically increase their rosters. Schools that were in the 46 range may be going to 53-54. What are the implications of this. Are they going to be cutting kids? Or do they have a planned attrition.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The collegiate lacrosse rosters are growing because the typical lacrosse kid is from a upper middle class family and is a better than average student - and will probably never see the field. Full tuition paying parents and good student - good combination for the school! Most importantly the parents can claim little Johnny is playing D1 lacrosse, and it justifies their holdback manuever and private schooling!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The collegiate lacrosse rosters are growing because the typical lacrosse kid is from a upper middle class family and is a better than average student - and will probably never see the field. Full tuition paying parents and good student - good combination for the school! Most importantly the parents can claim little Johnny is playing D1 lacrosse, and it justifies their holdback manuever and private schooling!

If UNC offered your son early would you take the offer knowing the size of the roster. I would say 99 out of 100 would . UNC can pretty much pick any kid they want.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If my kid could play at UNC I would wait for an offer from a better academic school. Paper classes for for their athletes. No thanks.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If my kid could play at UNC I would wait for an offer from a better academic school. Paper classes for for their athletes. No thanks.


bingo
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Sure. Early commit to UNC or wait for an Ivy? No brainier...

Harvard > UNC
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure. Early commit to UNC or wait for an Ivy? No brainier...

Harvard > UNC


or get the best of both and commit early to IVY if it presents itself
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


#16...nothing to brag about. I wonder how many UNC lax bro's go (qualify) there after undergrad?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
plenty of UNC lax players running around wall street -
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
Penn
UC Berkley
MIT
Cornell

You know what those are? Top 10 business schools in US
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
UNC is an outstanding school in every way. I do need to take small exception with those who consider working on wall street the badge of success. perhaps it used to be, but the business has changed dramatically and the lax bros. cannot just wave in someone from their alma mater or former teammate. use the same skill set that made you a good student and lax player and apply it to other venues for happiness and success.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure. Early commit to UNC or wait for an Ivy? No brainier...

Harvard > UNC


Not every lax player is qualified to go to an Ivy League school, in fact most kids don't academically qualify. UNC provides a top notch education along with one of if not the best lacrosse experiences in the nation. I'm sure if the number one team in the nation knocked on your door and was interested in your son you would listen. UNC also has one of the best coaches in the business, I would want him mentoring my son.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure. Early commit to UNC or wait for an Ivy? No brainier...

Harvard > UNC


Not every lax player is qualified to go to an Ivy League school, in fact most kids don't academically qualify. UNC provides a top notch education along with one of if not the best lacrosse experiences in the nation. I'm sure if the number one team in the nation knocked on your door and was interested in your son you would listen. UNC also has one of the best coaches in the business, I would want him mentoring my son.


Not sure if I'd listen.

They are in the middle of an NCAA investigation for fake classes (mostly for athletes) that spanned at least three decades. Professors deciding if they even want to stay. Millions going into risk management and protecting it's image as opposed to going into the classrooms.

Top notch. Who are you kidding? Or is a different UNC?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If UNC is clamoring for my kid that means he can play for virtually every D1 program. I'd listen but I certainly wouldn't jump on it. Too many programs out there that a far superior academically.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The unfortunate thing about the cheating scandal is it involved the men's and women's basketball and the football teams. It is an excellent university and there wasn't anything in the investigation focused on lacrosse and many other non revenue sports. Full disclosure: I'm a UVA guy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
Penn
UC Berkley
MIT
Cornell

You know what those are? Top 10 business schools in US


Wrong order (just splitting hairs)......I do not see UNC there....why not?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
Penn
UC Berkley
MIT
Cornell

You know what those are? Top 10 business schools in US


Wrong order (just splitting hairs)......I do not see UNC there....why not?


I imagine he was referring to undergrad business schools. The above list is clearly grad (professional) schools, though Cornell seems to have snuck its way on the list, lol.

UNC would likely make any undergrad business school top 10 ranking.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
Penn
UC Berkley
MIT
Cornell

You know what those are? Top 10 business schools in US


Wrong order (just splitting hairs)......I do not see UNC there....why not?


Right order. And they aren't there. That's the point!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
MIT Sloan
UC Berkley
UPenn Wharton
Cornell Dyson

Above Are the only ones on that list that actually have undergrad business schools.
Actually many of the best undergrad business programs are at state universities such as Virginia-McIntire, UNC-Kenan-Flagler, Michigan-Ross There are no Undergrad business programs at
Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
They are top for an MBA, not for undergrad.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
Penn
UC Berkley
MIT
Cornell

You know what those are? Top 10 business schools in US


Wrong order (just splitting hairs)......I do not see UNC there....why not?


Wish my son could get a great education and play for a top D1 school like UNC. Anyone who says different is jealous, most of the people who comment on here don't have to worry about early recruiting because only the very best get recruited early and are offered scholarship money. UNC has one of the top business schools in the country currently ranked 16th by Forbes along with many other top ranked programs, it's all what your son or daughter makes of it. Congrats to the Team 91 program on having the first two recruits of the 2020 class. Michigan and Penn State are also great schools and I'm sure your sons will make the most of the opportunity.
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Guys, you're down the wrong road. First, there are about 20 top bschools and there are many rankings that juggle the list for top 10 or top 15. Keenan at UNC is one. Fuqua at Duke and Darden at UVA are others. Anderson at UCLA...

More important these are graduate schools of business. Your little lax bro won't be getting an MBA during four years of college. Going to a good undergrad college like UNC -- and doing well there -- is a gateway to things like business school.

Got it? Good. Stop splitting nostril hairs. And try the veal.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC has one if the top 10 business schools in North America, it's all what a kid makes of the opportunity.


Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
Penn
UC Berkley
MIT
Cornell

You know what those are? Top 10 business schools in US


Wrong order (just splitting hairs)......I do not see UNC there....why not?


Right order. And they aren't there. That's the point!


yet another search challenged all knowing individual

drop the shovel and learn to do a little research

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Harvard University
Boston, MA

$61,225 per year (full-time) 1,872
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Stanford University
Stanford, CA

$64,050 per year (full-time) 824
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University of Chicago (Booth)
Chicago, IL

$63,980 per year (full-time) 1,180
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University of Pennsylvania (Wharton)
Philadelphia, PA

$64,920 per year (full-time) 1,715
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Massachusetts Institute of Technology (Sloan)
Cambridge, MA

$65,446 per year (full-time) 806
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Northwestern University (Kellogg)
Evanston, IL

$64,059 per year (full-time) 1,272
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University of California—​Berkeley (Haas)
Berkeley, CA

$53,907 per year (in-state, full-time); $55,968 per year (out-of-state, full-time) 502
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Dartmouth College (Tuck)
Hanover, NH

$64,200 per year (full-time) 563
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Yale University
New Haven, CT

$61,500 per year (full-time) 668
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Columbia University
New [lacrosse], NY

$65,988 per year (full-time) 1,287
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Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
MIT Sloan
UC Berkley
UPenn Wharton
Cornell Dyson

Above Are the only ones on that list that actually have undergrad business schools.
Actually many of the best undergrad business programs are at state universities such as Virginia-McIntire, UNC-Kenan-Flagler, Michigan-Ross There are no Undergrad business programs at
Stanford
Harvard
Northwestern
Columbia
Dartmouth
Chicago
They are top for an MBA, not for undergrad.



Best Undergraduate Business Programs Rankings

The undergraduate business program rankings were based solely on peer assessment surveys. To appear on these surveys, undergraduate business programs must be accredited by the Association to Advance Collegiate Schools of Business.

University of Pennsylvania Campus with Jon M. Huntsman Hall, Looking East
Tuition and fees: $49,536 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 9,746
Setting: urban
#1
University of Pennsylvania
Philadelphia, PA

Founded by Benjamin Franklin, the University of Pennsylvania is a private institution in the University City neighborhood of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Students can study in one of four schools that grant undergraduate degrees: Arts and Sciences, Nursing, Engineering and Applied Sciences, and Wharton.

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The Great Dome at MIT
Tuition and fees: $46,704 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 4,512
Setting: urban
#2
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Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Cambridge, MA

Though the Massachusetts Institute of Technology may be best known for its math, science and engineering education, this private research university also offers architecture, humanities, management and social science programs. The school is located in Cambridge, Massachusetts, just across the Charles River from downtown Boston.

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UC Berkeley campus landmark, Sather Tower
In-state tuition and fees: $13,432 (2015-16)
Out-of-state tuition and fees: $38,140 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 27,126
Setting: city
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University of California--Berkeley
Berkeley, CA

The University of California—Berkeley overlooks the San Francisco Bay in Berkeley, Calif. Students at this public school have more than 700 organizations to get involved in, including more than 55 fraternity and sorority chapters.

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Michigan Union at Sunrise
In-state tuition and fees: $14,336 (2014-15)
Out-of-state tuition and fees: $43,377 (2014-15)
Enrollment: 28,395
Setting: city
#4
University of Michigan--Ann Arbor
Ann Arbor, MI

A public institution, University of Michigan--Ann Arbor was founded in 1817. University of Michigan--Ann Arbor offers a Greek system, where 25 percent of the student body is involved in a sorority and 17 percent is involved in a fraternity.

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Tuition and fees: $46,170 (2014-15)
Enrollment: 24,985
Setting: urban
#5
New [lacrosse] University
New [lacrosse], NY

New [lacrosse] University has a total undergraduate enrollment of 24,985, with a gender distribution of 43.3 percent male students and 56.7 percent female students. At this school, 44 percent of the students live in college-owned, -operated, or -affiliated housing and 56 percent of students live off campus.

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Rotunda and Lawn
In-state tuition and fees: $14,526 (2015-16)
Out-of-state tuition and fees: $43,822 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 16,483
Setting: suburban
#6
University of Virginia
Charlottesville, VA

Founded in 1819, University of Virginia is a public institution. University of Virginia follows a semester-based academic calendar and its admissions are considered most selective.

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Carnegie Mellon University
Tuition and fees: $50,410 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 6,309
Setting: urban
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Carnegie Mellon University
Pittsburgh, PA

Carnegie Mellon University, a private institution in Pittsburgh, Pa., is the country’s only school founded by industrialist and philanthropist Andrew Carnegie. The school specializes in academic areas including engineering, business, computer science, and fine arts.

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In-state tuition and fees: $8,562 (2015-16)
Out-of-state tuition and fees: $33,644 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 18,350
Setting: suburban
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University of North Carolina--Chapel Hill
Chapel Hill, NC

University of North Carolina--Chapel Hill was established in 1789 as a public institution. University of North Carolina--Chapel Hill follows a semester-based academic calendar and its admissions are considered most selective.

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UT Austin is the flagship school of the University of Texas System, which includes nine academic universities and six health institutions.
In-state tuition and fees: $9,830 (2015-16)
Out-of-state tuition and fees: $34,836 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 39,523
Setting: urban
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University of Texas--Austin
Austin, TX

A public institution, University of Texas--Austin was founded in 1883. University of Texas--Austin offers a Greek system, where 17 percent of the student body is involved in a sorority and 15 percent is involved in a fraternity.

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Tuition and fees: $49,116 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 14,453
Setting: rural
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Cornell University
Ithaca, NY

Cornell University, a private school in Ithaca, New [lacrosse], has 14 colleges and schools. Each admits its own students, though every graduate receives a degree from Cornell University. The university has more than 1,000 student organizations on campus.

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In-state tuition and fees: $10,388 (2015-16)
Out-of-state tuition and fees: $33,741 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 36,419
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Indiana University--Bloomington
Bloomington, IN

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Tuition and fees: $47,929 (2015-16)
Enrollment: 8,448
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University of Notre Dame
Notre Dame, IN

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Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Anybody know when the under armour all American underclass team will be announced?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anybody know when the under armour all American underclass team will be announced?

Another political bit of BS as legitimate as TX and his rankings. And before you say little Johnny wasn't ranked or wasn't an UA all American; too late. He is and was but the selection process is bereft of anything coherent or believable. Kids make it that shouldn't and kids don't that should have. My kid was marginal at best and made it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anybody know when the under armour all American underclass team will be announced?

Another political bit of BS as legitimate as TX and his rankings. And before you say little Johnny wasn't ranked or wasn't an UA all American; too late. He is and was but the selection process is bereft of anything coherent or believable. Kids make it that shouldn't and kids don't that should have. My kid was marginal at best and made it.


These teams are picked before it starts, a complete joke and everyone knows it. Only exception is if a kid goes there and is completely and utterly lights out and clearly a better player than his peers, which we all know is a very rare occurrence.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Money grab sham
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Money grab sham


Someone's kid didn't make the first cut I guess
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Been down this road before. Watch your wallet folks...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Money grab sham


Someone's kid didn't make the first cut I guess


Oh please. This is the worst money grab and baked cupcake event in the sport. These teams are determined before anyone arrives in the parking lot. It's a $200 t shirt. The last year I went Jake Stover was passed over as a rising senior for a couple of goalies not nearly his level on their best day. This event is an absolute joke straight down to the 'independent evaluators' who also happen to be the prominent club and prep people.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Money grab sham


Someone's kid didn't make the first cut I guess


Oh please. This is the worst money grab and baked cupcake event in the sport. These teams are determined before anyone arrives in the parking lot. It's a $200 t shirt. The last year I went Jake Stover was passed over as a rising senior for a couple of goalies not nearly his level on their best day. This event is an absolute joke straight down to the 'independent evaluators' who also happen to be the prominent club and prep people.


Guess what? College coaches know it too!! had more than one talk about it during visits. However, that being said it is a great event for the uncommitted kid looking for some exposure.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Coaches do show up for this simply as a way to do an efficient check in on current committed kids. They know the selection process is a joke. That is baked in.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Does anyone else see another huge conflict of interest that the Corrigan family runs this? Their own club team, their own tournaments and events franchise and a brother who is an ACC head coach? Gee, I wonder why they broke down the barrier for PGs to play in the senior game last year. Might that have had anything to do with that kid being a Notre Dame commit? River of sleaze coming out of Baltimore.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Is the selection process for Jake Reed, Black Card and Showtime also not fraught with politics? C'mon, there is politics in all of it. Look at the younger Baltimore UA team. 7 clubs and 10 schools are represented. That is pretty varied. Still, the best way to get evaluated is by playing with your team(s) in games and tournaments and individually at prospect days. Those are the two places where your dollar goes the farthest.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So...apparently Corrigan is the new UVA coach. What a cluster$&@& potentially for the kids committed to UVA, and possible ND as well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So...apparently Corrigan is the new UVA coach. What a cluster$&@& potentially for the kids committed to UVA, and possible ND as well.

If he isn't bringing his D coordinator from ND with him, many of us former UVA players will not be expecting much if this rumor is true. Hopefully whoever they hire will bring in more gritty Long Island players. Recruiting the country club/hold back kids that are offered spots in 9th grade obviously hasn't worked.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So...apparently Corrigan is the new UVA coach. What a cluster$&@& potentially for the kids committed to UVA, and possible ND as well.

If he isn't bringing his D coordinator from ND with him, many of us former UVA players will not be expecting much if this rumor is true. Hopefully whoever they hire will bring in more gritty Long Island players. Recruiting the country club/hold back kids that are offered spots in 9th grade obviously hasn't worked.


Sure, you played there. Who cares, are you a big booster footing the bill? If not, then I think you get no say in this.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does anyone else see another huge conflict of interest that the Corrigan family runs this? Their own club team, their own tournaments and events franchise and a brother who is an ACC head coach? Gee, I wonder why they broke down the barrier for PGs to play in the senior game last year. Might that have had anything to do with that kid being a Notre Dame commit? River of sleaze coming out of Baltimore.


I hate to blow a hole in your theory ....but Kevin Corrigan and Booker Corrigan are not brothers. Check for yourself
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
17 year olds on the 2019-20 Under Armour South roster? Makes no sense
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does anyone else see another huge conflict of interest that the Corrigan family runs this? Their own club team, their own tournaments and events franchise and a brother who is an ACC head coach? Gee, I wonder why they broke down the barrier for PGs to play in the senior game last year. Might that have had anything to do with that kid being a Notre Dame commit? River of sleaze coming out of Baltimore.


I hate to blow a hole in your theory ....but Kevin Corrigan and Booker Corrigan are not brothers. Check for yourself


No, they are cousins. The other Corrigan who owns CSE is Kevin's brother.

You're welcome.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
17 year olds on the 2019-20 Under Armour South roster? Makes no sense


In Maryland most private school 9th graders are 16. Does not shock me at all to read rising sophs are 17. Our 2018 son just got his drivers license this last week. He is the only kid who wasn't licensed in 9th grade on his school team, and most of those kids have been licensed more than 1 year. One benefit is you can stop driving your kid to summer tournaments a year or two earlier.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
17 year olds on the 2019-20 Under Armour South roster? Makes no sense

theres a kid on the UA South command team who is in the 2019 graduating class( freshman in high school) who is turning 17 this year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Does it mean anything to be invited to a prospect day? My son was at an event where a D1 coach from a school was teaching. My son played well in a scrimmage where this coach was on the field and two days later I get an email thanking us for our interest in his school ( we never reached out by the way) and inviting my guy to their prospect camp. This is my oldest kid so not sure if this is meaningful. Email also wasn't personalized and didnt mention my son by name.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Its all about the money
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
He is interested in your money - don't bother
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does it mean anything to be invited to a prospect day? My son was at an event where a D1 coach from a school was teaching. My son played well in a scrimmage where this coach was on the field and two days later I get an email thanking us for our interest in his school ( we never reached out by the way) and inviting my guy to their prospect camp. This is my oldest kid so not sure if this is meaningful. Email also wasn't personalized and didnt mention my son by name.


Have your Son's club or HS Coach call the college coach to find out what kind of interest there is... If you don't feel comfortable with either Coach making that call, call yourself. I've done it. If they're interested they will tell you so. You can then let the Coach know your son is interested. At which point the prospect day will be much more meaningful.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My 2018 is still 16..... wow, Am I doing something wrong?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My 2018 is still 15 ....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does it mean anything to be invited to a prospect day? My son was at an event where a D1 coach from a school was teaching. My son played well in a scrimmage where this coach was on the field and two days later I get an email thanking us for our interest in his school ( we never reached out by the way) and inviting my guy to their prospect camp. This is my oldest kid so not sure if this is meaningful. Email also wasn't personalized and didnt mention my son by name.


Been there. Trust me, you would have heard by now indirectly if that they were interested. There is not as much mystery to the process as you would think. Where there is genuine interest you will know. The only prospect days that I found worthwhile were for D3 schools. The D1 prospect days are just to provide the assistant coaches with additional income. They are not recruiting opportunities unless the coach has specifically reached out to your club or high school coach directly and specifically about your son.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My 2018 is still 16..... wow, Am I doing something wrong?
my 2017 is 17 and was committed at 14!!! Yikes!!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
He is two months younger than my kid who is off to college this September. Yikes
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
17 year olds on the 2019-20 Under Armour South roster? Makes no sense


In Maryland most private school 9th graders are 16. Does not shock me at all to read rising sophs are 17. Our 2018 son just got his drivers license this last week. He is the only kid who wasn't licensed in 9th grade on his school team, and most of those kids have been licensed more than 1 year. One benefit is you can stop driving your kid to summer tournaments a year or two earlier.


Your son go to BL? Most MD private school kids are not 16 during freshman year. A lot of the summer bdays would turn 16 before sophomore year especially if the started in private elementary. BTW the UA South roster is Fla, Ga etc kids
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Reclassing your kid for sports is beyond lame
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
17 year olds on the 2019-20 Under Armour South roster? Makes no sense


In Maryland most private school 9th graders are 16. Does not shock me at all to read rising sophs are 17. Our 2018 son just got his drivers license this last week. He is the only kid who wasn't licensed in 9th grade on his school team, and most of those kids have been licensed more than 1 year. One benefit is you can stop driving your kid to summer tournaments a year or two earlier.


Your son go to BL? Most MD private school kids are not 16 during freshman year. A lot of the summer bdays would turn 16 before sophomore year especially if the started in private elementary. BTW the UA South roster is Fla, Ga etc kids


Are you serious? Like these kids are on age? My rising Jr (committed) is still 16. Won't be 17 for nearly 6 months. He's considered old for his grade. You MD guys are a joke. Same with those over rated 20 yo college freshman Inter AC punks too. Nearly all of your kids play down. Imagine if you guys had to play on age? Talk about being exposed...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Reclassing your kid for sports is beyond lame


If I cant get a BIG GULP in NYC, there should also be a law that if you hold your kid back for sports child welfare should take your kid from you because you clearly are unfit and don't have your priorities straight. 1, It's WRONG, 2, its LACROSSE (not a pro sport... it's a beer money league)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
17 year olds on the 2019-20 Under Armour South roster? Makes no sense


In Maryland most private school 9th graders are 16. Does not shock me at all to read rising sophs are 17. Our 2018 son just got his drivers license this last week. He is the only kid who wasn't licensed in 9th grade on his school team, and most of those kids have been licensed more than 1 year. One benefit is you can stop driving your kid to summer tournaments a year or two earlier.


Your son go to BL? Most MD private school kids are not 16 during freshman year. A lot of the summer bdays would turn 16 before sophomore year especially if the started in private elementary. BTW the UA South roster is Fla, Ga etc kids


Are you serious? Like these kids are on age? My rising Jr (committed) is still 16. Won't be 17 for nearly 6 months. He's considered old for his grade. You MD guys are a joke. Same with those over rated 20 yo college freshman Inter AC punks too. Nearly all of your kids play down. Imagine if you guys had to play on age? Talk about being exposed...


Hey sport. My rising junior is still 15. Not defending the hold back practice just correcting the poster claiming the majority of MD 9th graders are 16. That is a patently false statement. The original post commented on 17 yr old 2019 on UA south roster. UA south is not MD. It's Fla, Ga etc.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hey sport. My rising junior is still 15. Not defending the hold back practice just correcting the poster claiming the majority of MD 9th graders are 16. That is a patently false statement. The original post commented on 17 yr old 2019 on UA south roster. UA south is not MD. It's Fla, Ga etc.

Ok let me clarify, clearly the majority of your top kids are holdbacks playing down. That "Sport", is a fact. The majority of the starting kids on your top three travel teams in 2017, 2018 and 2019, are beyond a shadow of a doubt, playing down. Not sure why? I can only assume that they could not compete with the best at the same age from the rest of the country.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Baltimore private schools and Baltimore based clubs are full to the brim with holdbacks. Comical
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hey sport. My rising junior is still 15. Not defending the hold back practice just correcting the poster claiming the majority of MD 9th graders are 16. That is a patently false statement. The original post commented on 17 yr old 2019 on UA south roster. UA south is not MD. It's Fla, Ga etc.

Ok let me clarify, clearly the majority of your top kids are holdbacks playing down. That "Sport", is a fact. The majority of the starting kids on your top three travel teams in 2017, 2018 and 2019, are beyond a shadow of a doubt, playing down. Not sure why? I can only assume that they could not compete with the best at the same age from the rest of the country.


I think Ryan McClernan always has a few and loud examples of on age kids on teams 8th grade and up. The term I wrote was most. My DC area son is on age. He's one of only 3 on age kids in his class on his high school team out of 11. I would call this widespread. Anyone who says that holdbacks aren't an epidemic in Baltimore and in the DC area are absolutely misinformed or they are just lying.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Any one have any real life experience with D3 recruiting? Particularly, NESCAC schools? Timeline, strength of coach support for admission, etc. Any information would be helpful.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
two types of recruits D3. one type is the legitimate recruit who is contacted frequently and coach follows players summer games. invites for meeting and campus visit.
The other kind is the type who contacts school , goes to visit and decides to apply to school and then declares himself committed.

Either kind may be on the team. the actual recruits have their application walked thru admissions, and have a roster spot at least for freshman year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
In Baltimore, about 50% of the lacrosse kids (boys) go to private schools. If they start in first grade, about half of the class will have been recommended for a "pre-first" year and when they enter the first grade they are a year older. When children transfer from a public school into a private school, many of them are recommended to repeat their current grade to prepare for a "more rigorous" academic culture. When teams went to graduation years at younger ages a few years back, parents were given the choice of play with your friends from school in your class or play with "older" kids from school. Most parents choose to encourage their kids to play with their class mates, a few do not. Most coaches encourage to play where ever comfortable, a few do not. On most 7 & 8 grade teams, kids are generally on age mixed with a few kids or so being older. However, programs that compete for national attention, Crabs being a good example, most of the kids are NOT on age. Also, as summer approaches, many teams who were on age, add players from other communities, counties or states to bolster their rosters that are not on age. Once kids get to 9 grade, all bets are off. Every kid that can qualify for grad year team, regardless of age, plays grad year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think July 1 after junior year is the date offers begin to be extended to rising high school seniors. Coaches have a lot of pull with admissions. Academic achievement is a must. Google "NESCAC Lax recruiting bands" for specifics about academic requirements.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hey sport. My rising junior is still 15. Not defending the hold back practice just correcting the poster claiming the majority of MD 9th graders are 16. That is a patently false statement. The original post commented on 17 yr old 2019 on UA south roster. UA south is not MD. It's Fla, Ga etc.

Ok let me clarify, clearly the majority of your top kids are holdbacks playing down. That "Sport", is a fact. The majority of the starting kids on your top three travel teams in 2017, 2018 and 2019, are beyond a shadow of a doubt, playing down. Not sure why? I can only assume that they could not compete with the best at the same age from the rest of the country.


Hey sparky, Take a look at the UA Balt Highlight div 2017-2018. Out of 22 there are 3 boys born before the 9/1 cutoffs for their respective grades. I'm guessing that all of those boys are starters on their club teams. My point is it's not the majority or most. It's some. And most of those are born within a few months of the cutoff. There some teams, schools and clubs that promote hold backs and would have a majority (ie 2020 Crabs), but most teams in baltimore will have a handful (less than 5) that were held back early on. My kids are not held back and have spring and summer birthdays. I agree that it crazy to reclass for sports and youth should be age based. But to exaggerate to prove your point cheapens your argument. NY is at a distinct age disadvantage because of your school cut-off. However it was the long island clubs that started the grade based teams. To what end I'm not sure. But all club teams and local tournaments in baltimore were u13, u15 (including crabs and other NYPLL teams) until about 2013-14 when the club scene picked-up. Gradually most clubs changed to grade as most tournaments were grade as were the NY teams that kicked our butts. I know your teams weren't older but it opened the door for all this.

Also check out the birthdays of some of the other UA regions - sout, west etc. Might surprise you that this "epidemic" is not contained to MD
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hey sport. My rising junior is still 15. Not defending the hold back practice just correcting the poster claiming the majority of MD 9th graders are 16. That is a patently false statement. The original post commented on 17 yr old 2019 on UA south roster. UA south is not MD. It's Fla, Ga etc.

Ok let me clarify, clearly the majority of your top kids are holdbacks playing down. That "Sport", is a fact. The majority of the starting kids on your top three travel teams in 2017, 2018 and 2019, are beyond a shadow of a doubt, playing down. Not sure why? I can only assume that they could not compete with the best at the same age from the rest of the country.


I think Ryan McClernan always has a few and loud examples of on age kids on teams 8th grade and up. The term I wrote was most. My DC area son is on age. He's one of only 3 on age kids in his class on his high school team out of 11. I would call this widespread. Anyone who says that holdbacks aren't an epidemic in Baltimore and in the DC area are absolutely misinformed or they are just lying.


Finally, an honest assessment of the DMV lacrosse teams. For years people from MD, Pa and Mass have been trying to say that their teams "catch up" to the highly skilled teams from LI, i.e. the Turtles, Extreme and now Crush. Nothing could be further from the truth, they don't get any better, they just get 1 to 2 years older, come rising freshman and sophomore time.
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My son plays on an elite 2020 team in the DMV. He is on age. The holdback situation is beyond silly. It his shocking that parents think holding their kid back for sports makes sense.
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unless they end up at somewhere like Brown or Duke for example
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Any one have any real life experience with D3 recruiting? Particularly, NESCAC schools? Timeline, strength of coach support for admission, etc. Any information would be helpful.
Sort of second hand info, gleaned from some families who have been through it at NESCACs. My understanding is that coaches typically can get 2, maybe 3, kids in with what most NESCACs call "tip ins", kids close academically but need the help to get over the bar.
I do know you need be careful because with only a limited number of tips, and a bunch of spots to fill, coaches have been known to give the impression that admission is highly likely, given 'so-and-so's' application and qualifications, I know more than one kid who got the Don't Worry talk, only to never get in.
Best way to get around the coaches limited constraints is to try and find a path to an influential alum who can help. Say your not the coaches future AA, and he's going to use his tips on others, but he'd love to have you on team if you can get in. Try and find the alum who can help. I'm certain how Amherst has filled a few slots with kids who weren't going to get in without the added support.
If you are going to go that route though, make sure you don't burn the guy and then decide Dartmouth is coming back!
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Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
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Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster


What an idiot. Please don't ever try and say Princeton is a disaster in anything. A degree from there and you move to the top of every resume pile in the country lacrosse or not. You dadies need to realize that lacrosse ends but a degree from a top 10 school lasts forever. Syracuse isn't even in the same zip code allowing C+ students in these days as long as you pay the $60k tuition


Nit wit. their coach elbowed an opposing player. one of the worst shows of sportsmanship since Woody Hayes. yes even a snippy little elite liberal institution gets real low marks for this kind of stuff.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hey sport. My rising junior is still 15. Not defending the hold back practice just correcting the poster claiming the majority of MD 9th graders are 16. That is a patently false statement. The original post commented on 17 yr old 2019 on UA south roster. UA south is not MD. It's Fla, Ga etc.

Ok let me clarify, clearly the majority of your top kids are holdbacks playing down. That "Sport", is a fact. The majority of the starting kids on your top three travel teams in 2017, 2018 and 2019, are beyond a shadow of a doubt, playing down. Not sure why? I can only assume that they could not compete with the best at the same age from the rest of the country.


Hey sparky, Take a look at the UA Balt Highlight div 2017-2018. Out of 22 there are 3 boys born before the 9/1 cutoffs for their respective grades. I'm guessing that all of those boys are starters on their club teams. My point is it's not the majority or most. It's some. And most of those are born within a few months of the cutoff. There some teams, schools and clubs that promote hold backs and would have a majority (ie 2020 Crabs), but most teams in baltimore will have a handful (less than 5) that were held back early on. My kids are not held back and have spring and summer birthdays. I agree that it crazy to reclass for sports and youth should be age based. But to exaggerate to prove your point cheapens your argument. NY is at a distinct age disadvantage because of your school cut-off. However it was the long island clubs that started the grade based teams. To what end I'm not sure. But all club teams and local tournaments in baltimore were u13, u15 (including crabs and other NYPLL teams) until about 2013-14 when the club scene picked-up. Gradually most clubs changed to grade as most tournaments were grade as were the NY teams that kicked our butts. I know your teams weren't older but it opened the door for all this.

Also check out the birthdays of some of the other UA regions - sout, west etc. Might surprise you that this "epidemic" is not contained to MD


A greater part of the southern Cali explosion promotes the holdback as well. Anyone hungry enough for a cheeseburger will tell you that!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
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Yeah , getting a college diploma from Princeton , what a disaster. So much better with a degree from Syracuse
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Princeton: disaster. You guys truly have lost retrospect.
Dartmouth: disaster
Georgetown: disaster
Drexel: not relevant
Marist: not relevant
Siena: not relevant
Rutgers: not relevant

All of these schools tend to recruit late and this is just a partial list, the MID to bottom half of D1 all recruit late.


They recruit late because no 9th or 10th grade superstar is going to commit to them early. You think they are late recruiters by choice? Stop it with your child like logic. They are lower tier schools that will wait till later in the process because the top 100 kids are off the board before they blink. They are going to take a flyer on the #200 ranked 10th grader? So dumb.


As for Princeton were talking about lacrosse here not academics, lacrosse wise they are a disaster


What an idiot. Please don't ever try and say Princeton is a disaster in anything. A degree from there and you move to the top of every resume pile in the country lacrosse or not. You dadies need to realize that lacrosse ends but a degree from a top 10 school lasts forever. Syracuse isn't even in the same zip code allowing C+ students in these days as long as you pay the $60k tuition


Nit wit. their coach elbowed an opposing player. one of the worst shows of sportsmanship since Woody Hayes. yes even a snippy little elite liberal institution gets real low marks for this kind of stuff.


I would have called it a disaster if they didn't get rid of him, but they did. Its always been said, it is not how hard you fall but how you get up.
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Another 2020 commits, Looney's FL FOGO to UNC.
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Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....
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Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.


It ain't the kids ... it's the parents. There is no reason a 5th or 6th grader should even know it's going on unless the parents and transferring their own misplaced anxieties on their kids ... which we know they are.
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Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....

Maybe he fits better academically at UNC? You are right, to each his own. Why comment then? Too many times parents have a tough time assessing their kids abilities in athletics and academics. Personally I always want my kids to be challenged, but u can't be unrealistic!
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Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.
If you're one who doesn't think ER is ruining the youth sport, all you had to do is spend half a day around the 2020 & 2019 games at Adrenaline this weekend. Between delusional parents, coach screaming at player after game that he could never recommend him, to a recent 2019 D1 commit taking off his equipment at 4 minute mark because coach didn't put him back in fast enough, one kid even looking up at the scaffold to let them know that was his 5th goal....and I was only there for an hour ....I'd love to say college programs will get what they deserve, but with 55 man rosters I'm sure they'll be able to weed out their mistakes
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.


It ain't the kids ... it's the parents. There is no reason a 5th or 6th grader should even know it's going on unless the parents and transferring their own misplaced anxieties on their kids ... which we know they are.


Hate to break it to you pal, but Al Gore invented a thing called the internet. Some kids even access it from time to time. There is Twitter and Ty Xanders and all the other nonsense. I agree many parents are crazy. However, if you think kids aren't on their phones reading these blogs and tweets about the latest early commits then you are living under a rock.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.
If you're one who doesn't think ER is ruining the youth sport, all you had to do is spend half a day around the 2020 & 2019 games at Adrenaline this weekend. Between delusional parents, coach screaming at player after game that he could never recommend him, to a recent 2019 D1 commit taking off his equipment at 4 minute mark because coach didn't put him back in fast enough, one kid even looking up at the scaffold to let them know that was his 5th goal....and I was only there for an hour ....I'd love to say college programs will get what they deserve, but with 55 man rosters I'm sure they'll be able to weed out their mistakes


That is just so sad and pathetic to read. We've really failed these kids. It is KILLING the youth sport.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.
If you're one who doesn't think ER is ruining the youth sport, all you had to do is spend half a day around the 2020 & 2019 games at Adrenaline this weekend. Between delusional parents, coach screaming at player after game that he could never recommend him, to a recent 2019 D1 commit taking off his equipment at 4 minute mark because coach didn't put him back in fast enough, one kid even looking up at the scaffold to let them know that was his 5th goal....and I was only there for an hour ....I'd love to say college programs will get what they deserve, but with 55 man rosters I'm sure they'll be able to weed out their mistakes


That is just so sad and pathetic to read. We've really failed these kids. It is KILLING the youth sport.



Please tell me it wasn't any team from LI doing this?
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Not to pick on LI in the least, but this string of horrible behavior has viraled out to all ends. It used to be just the LI and Maryland parents who were too hopped up, but now the crazy has reached the Colorado and Texas and everywhere else. It is truly sad how wrecked this youth sport is. My 2020 kid likely won't play college unless it is club, Fine by me. What isn't fine by me is another year or two of this summer and fall club stuff will be so unbearable that kids like him will decide they just don't enjoy it much. There is no way but down in terms of youth lacrosse participation unless this changes.
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Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.
If you're one who doesn't think ER is ruining the youth sport, all you had to do is spend half a day around the 2020 & 2019 games at Adrenaline this weekend. Between delusional parents, coach screaming at player after game that he could never recommend him, to a recent 2019 D1 commit taking off his equipment at 4 minute mark because coach didn't put him back in fast enough, one kid even looking up at the scaffold to let them know that was his 5th goal....and I was only there for an hour ....I'd love to say college programs will get what they deserve, but with 55 man rosters I'm sure they'll be able to weed out their mistakes


That is just so sad and pathetic to read. We've really failed these kids. It is KILLING the youth sport.



Please tell me it wasn't any team from LI doing this?
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Amazing how fast everyone adapts to the new normal. A couple years ago it leaked a kid committed to Hopkins before 9th grade even started. Last summer it was a kid on the middle of the summer before 9th grade. Now it is kids right on the last day of middle school. Is this like Duke telling their recruits to stay non public until they finish 9th grade "because Duke doesn't recruit 9th graders"? I privately wonder if kids are now being offered in the middle of 8th grade after fall ball and the coaches just think keeping a lid on it -- for now -- keeps it from looking more sleazy and more extreme.

This is absolutely destroying the youth sport. 5th and 6th graders now have anxieties over being noticed in middle school or it will be too late.
If you're one who doesn't think ER is ruining the youth sport, all you had to do is spend half a day around the 2020 & 2019 games at Adrenaline this weekend. Between delusional parents, coach screaming at player after game that he could never recommend him, to a recent 2019 D1 commit taking off his equipment at 4 minute mark because coach didn't put him back in fast enough, one kid even looking up at the scaffold to let them know that was his 5th goal....and I was only there for an hour ....I'd love to say college programs will get what they deserve, but with 55 man rosters I'm sure they'll be able to weed out their mistakes


That is just so sad and pathetic to read. We've really failed these kids. It is KILLING the youth sport.



Please tell me it wasn't any team from LI doing this?
Ironically no, if you don't include crush for leaving in D1 PSU commit even with a 15-0 lead against PT, but that is minor and that coach is known for that. It was a PT and a Leading Edge player, and a Laxachussets coach. But honestly it all starts with us parents. My favorite on our team was when a mother and father, standing right on the sideline while most of us were in the bleachers, screaming at a player to "look up, look up" and pass while he's getting swarmed by 3 players, "pass to 21", 21 being their middie son of course , who by the way took at least 15 shots, scoring only once, while on at least 4 occasions didn't even wait for X back-up. Don't get me wrong there are plenty of parents out there teaching and yelling at their sons to play the team game right, but there are enough delusional ones that are having a negative effect on the youth game.
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My favorite was the FLID parent from LI Express at last years U15 Nationals yelling at the ref about a kid from 3d doing one handed checks. Problem was the kid has one arm, and when it was pointed out to said FLID that the kid had one arm, he still persisted in yelling about it for the duration of the game. Dbag of the summer award hands down...
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My favorite was the FLID parent from LI Express at last years U15 Nationals yelling at the ref about a kid from 3d doing one handed checks. Problem was the kid has one arm, and when it was pointed out to said FLID that the kid had one arm, he still persisted in yelling about it for the duration of the game. Dbag of the summer award hands down...


What is FLID?
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My favorite was the FLID parent from LI Express at last years U15 Nationals yelling at the ref about a kid from 3d doing one handed checks. Problem was the kid has one arm, and when it was pointed out to said FLID that the kid had one arm, he still persisted in yelling about it for the duration of the game. Dbag of the summer award hands down...


What is FLID?


It's what upstate red neck hicks call Long Islanders. "F**K Long Island D**K" They use that term because they are a little slow from repeatedly banging their heads on the door frame when they have to go outside to use the out house.
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FLID means F**K*** Long Island D**Bag..get it right...
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Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.
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you are wrong its the first translation
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FLID means F**K*** Long Island D**Bag..get it right...
Ok FUD
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


UNC is a better school than you make think. Regarding sports, I tend to think you should look at the 25% composite SAT score. Any motivated student can do well, in most academic environments, but I think one should think twice before going somewhere where your scores would put you in the bottom quartile (not saying not a good idea, just that worth considering the counterpoints). UVA's 25% composite is 1250, UNC's is 1200, Duke's is 1360 and Yale's is 1410.

That said, I think it's great if a kid wants to use lax to get into the Ivies. It's an incredible experience. Of course, so would be 4 years in sunny Chapel Hill. And if a kid is smart enough to prosper at a school like Yale, he can get PBK at UNC and it's hard for me to think that he wouldn't have just as many opportunities in life.
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My favorite was the FLID parent from LI Express at last years U15 Nationals yelling at the ref about a kid from 3d doing one handed checks. Problem was the kid has one arm, and when it was pointed out to said FLID that the kid had one arm, he still persisted in yelling about it for the duration of the game. Dbag of the summer award hands down...


My god. My son went to that tournament and played LIE and 3D and told me about the 3D player. That's a [lacrosse] of a story. Insane. FLID, that's a good one. Almost as good as FIGJAM, which is pertinent this weekend.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
My favorite was the FLID parent from LI Express at last years U15 Nationals yelling at the ref about a kid from 3d doing one handed checks. Problem was the kid has one arm, and when it was pointed out to said FLID that the kid had one arm, he still persisted in yelling about it for the duration of the game. Dbag of the summer award hands down...


My god. My son went to that tournament and played LIE and 3D and told me about the 3D player. That's a [lacrosse] of a story. Insane. FLID, that's a good one. Almost as good as FIGJAM, which is pertinent this weekend.


I'll bite, what does FIGJAM stand for?
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It will be interesting to see what Lars does with some UVA commits. It will also be interesting to see what next Brown coach does with the commits.

Here we go...
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What D1 program is the hardest to get recruited by?
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What D1 program is the hardest to get recruited by?


The one your son's grades are just a hair below the minimum accepted level... It's different for every kid. BTW if he's the number 1 recruit nationally, that changes everything! Point is, athletic standing and grades form a combination that can and will be very different for each kid, at the same school!
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Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


I fall on the other side of this argument , I think it really depends on what your kid wants to do. If you are doing business/finance then going Ivy makes sense to me ,other than that not really. Difficult to justify 250000 in debt compared to 60000 or less. If you are a good enough student to do well at an Ivy you will most likely excel at a UNC or similar and if you plan on going to grad school then go Ivy then. I went to an Ivy med school and more students than not were non ivy undergrads.If you qualify for financial aide an Ivy education is a home run but many kids from Long Island will get essentially none.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


I fall on the other side of this argument , I think it really depends on what your kid wants to do. If you are doing business/finance then going Ivy makes sense to me ,other than that not really. Difficult to justify 250000 in debt compared to 60000 or less. If you are a good enough student to do well at an Ivy you will most likely excel at a UNC or similar and if you plan on going to grad school then go Ivy then. I went to an Ivy med school and more students than not were non ivy undergrads.If you qualify for financial aide an Ivy education is a home run but many kids from Long Island will get essentially none.


Princeton, North Carolina, Navy, Stony Brook, Towson, UMass.... To each his/her own. Every situation is different. The important thing is that each kid makes the most of their opportunities. Good luck to all and enjoy the ride.
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I'm down at Jake Reed Camp and I have to agree, the sport has been bastardized. Seems like every tournament is a showcase now and kids play like they are at a showcase all the time. What does that mean? Middies don't want to play defense because it might tire them out. Very little passing as everyone wants to go 1v1 to the goal. Unselfish play is simply none existent. Long poles carry the ball too long and shoot too often because they think they need to do something flashy to be seen. When was the last time you saw a feeding attackman? I overheard kids bickering at Crabfeast because "you never F'in pass me the ball".

If I'm coaching at the college level, I want kids who will contribute to my team. That's how you win, as a team. Do coaches actually look for team players? I played mid level D1 late '90-'94, we were a very good team and played team ball. That was fun and rewarding. I don't see kids having much fun and they are only in 9th grade. Its really a sad state of affairs.
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pretty good analysis. all of that behavior is ingrained on the car ride to and from these "showcases". why this sport has become so ugly is hard to figure out.
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I agree with all the above. We have taught our son to play unselfish and as a team player; the reward is little as other players ball hog or take a shot most every time they have the ball...usually a bad shot. I think the "team play" concept is driven by the coach. He may say he wants "team play" but unless he follows through on it selfish play will continue to happen. It is ruining our love of the sport.
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poor goalies, that's a painfull weekend.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with all the above. We have taught our son to play unselfish and as a team player; the reward is little as other players ball hog or take a shot most every time they have the ball...usually a bad shot. I think the "team play" concept is driven by the coach. He may say he wants "team play" but unless he follows through on it selfish play will continue to happen. It is ruining our love of the sport.


Goalies bear the brunt of the pressure in these showcases. Very little team defense because poles have never played with each other plus some try and focus on throwing the home run check and get beat. Above usually results in quite a few hands free shots which are hardest to save.

Seems the best events for coaches to truly evaluate are the high level team events; Platinum Cup, HHH, Crabfeast, etc.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with all the above. We have taught our son to play unselfish and as a team player; the reward is little as other players ball hog or take a shot most every time they have the ball...usually a bad shot. I think the "team play" concept is driven by the coach. He may say he wants "team play" but unless he follows through on it selfish play will continue to happen. It is ruining our love of the sport.


Goalies bear the brunt of the pressure in these showcases. Very little team defense because poles have never played with each other plus some try and focus on throwing the home run check and get beat. Above usually results in quite a few hands free shots which are hardest to save.

Seems the best events for coaches to truly evaluate are the high level team events; Platinum Cup, HHH, Crabfeast, etc.


After watching this crap last weekend the coaches are better off getting a hold of full game footage from High School games to evaluate these kids to see who will play team ball. These "Showcases" blow.
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Last issue, the 2020 is all playing over at Cantiague Park on 3 contiguous beautiful fields. College coaches are only just beginning to think of this grad year. Yes, it is the beginning of the recruiting cycle group but please understand that Rising Freshman should be building video clips and developing their interest in schools and compete hard. However, the amount of college programs recruiting Rising Freshman is limited.

THEN WHY CHARGE THEM THE SAME AMOUNT OF MONEY? WARNING IF THE EVENT HAS THE 2020'S AT ANOTHER VENUE, THERE WILL NOT BE MANY COACHES THERE. MONEY GRAB
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My favorite was the FLID parent from LI Express at last years U15 Nationals yelling at the ref about a kid from 3d doing one handed checks. Problem was the kid has one arm, and when it was pointed out to said FLID that the kid had one arm, he still persisted in yelling about it for the duration of the game. Dbag of the summer award hands down...


My god. My son went to that tournament and played LIE and 3D and told me about the 3D player. That's a [lacrosse] of a story. Insane. FLID, that's a good one. Almost as good as FIGJAM, which is pertinent this weekend.


I'll bite, what does FIGJAM stand for?


F**k I'm Good Just Ask Me. See Phil M.
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crickets
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Heard at a HS game this past season, this was screamed out by HS coach at one kid, "this is the result of GDamn travel lacrosse, your shot percentage is 8%, this is NOT a showcase, play team ball or your out."

100% in agreement, college coaches should demand FULL HS game films, this is what you will get when you recruit these kids.

3/4 of sons team gave up playing because of showcase behavior from certain kids.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Heard at a HS game this past season, this was screamed out by HS coach at one kid, "this is the result of GDamn travel lacrosse, your shot percentage is 8%, this is NOT a showcase, play team ball or your out."

100% in agreement, college coaches should demand FULL HS game films, this is what you will get when you recruit these kids.

3/4 of sons team gave up playing because of showcase behavior from certain kids.


Fault of the parents, sitting on the sidelines screaming "SHOOT" when their son is 30 yards away. Ridiculous. No knowledge of the game.
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I find it pretty amusing. I'd love to get one of these video schemers to just put out a motionless camera and audio toward the parental unit sidelines to capture some of this and boil it down to a short film of the lunatic fringes.
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Does anyone have any experience of knowledge of the Fab Frosh showcase in CT held end of July?
Thanks
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does anyone have any experience of knowledge of the Fab Frosh showcase in CT held end of July?
Thanks


My son did it 2 years ago, pretty well run, decent amount of coaches. Not a bad one day deal and not too far. Talent level was good and the games were run by prep school and high school coaches. IMO not a make or break event but a solid add on to your summer schedule.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Last issue, the 2020 is all playing over at Cantiague Park on 3 contiguous beautiful fields. College coaches are only just beginning to think of this grad year. Yes, it is the beginning of the recruiting cycle group but please understand that Rising Freshman should be building video clips and developing their interest in schools and compete hard. However, the amount of college programs recruiting Rising Freshman is limited.

THEN WHY CHARGE THEM THE SAME AMOUNT OF MONEY? WARNING IF THE EVENT HAS THE 2020'S AT ANOTHER VENUE, THERE WILL NOT BE MANY COACHES THERE. MONEY GRAB

This is true. Crabfeast was flung all over the Baltimore area so coaches might be able to hit 2 locations in one day with any meaningful evaluation. Certainly with winners brackets being in one location and loser brackets in another the coaches gravitate to the winners bracket location. Big 4 HHH tourney was all one location so coaches can spend the entire day moving around the fields. 'Naptown Challenge has 2020's all at Kent Island High School (ie across Chesapeake Bay Bridge). Great teasm to watch, but how many coaches will skip 2019's and 2018's to watch 2020's for a day?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.


An example of said leftist mov't can be found on just about every campus in the USA and have been for decades. Your claims re IVY are absurd and without substantiation. What then, is your agenda?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.


An example of said leftist mov't can be found on just about every campus in the USA and have been for decades. Your claims re IVY are absurd and without substantiation. What then, is your agenda?


WRONG. 96% percent of all professors at Cornell support and donate to the left. Fact! Same school has interviews of students who've faced retribution from professors in terms of lower grades for right leaning positions. Fact. Center/right positions on any and all subjects are met with censorship and the cries of racism across all Ivies. Do a little research, you just might become a bit enlightened. My agenda is simple, freedom of expression, freedom of speech and the free and open exchange of ideas. Something the "Ivies" use to embrace. Unfortunately, those ideals are only reserved for the left on your precious ivy campus.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.


well, small dissertation on this topic would be fruitless, thus we should consider the following:

Professors (especially in fields where this is relevant, like social science and humanities) are overwhelmingly leftist, and a non-trivial number are very left-wing (~18% of social scientists identify as Marxists).
Some departments focus on research which exclusively deals with leftist thought (gender studies, much of sociology, much of African American studies/critical race theory, much of English literature).
Speakers, rallies, and protests on campus are pretty much exclusively left-wing.
When there are speakers, rallies, or protests on campus which have a right-wing bent, there is a non-trivial chance that they will either be interrupted and drowned out by protesters or shut down by the administration.
The culture of universities is overwhelmingly leftist. Defending non-leftist views will not make you popular: it will probably alienate quite a few people.
Now I want to qualify these remarks:
First, event though professors tend toward leftism, this usually makes no difference at all in how their classes are conducted.
While some departments are functionally left-wing think tanks, there's nothing wrong with that: who cares if sociologists publish a lot of studies on the racism of the death penalty or something along those lines? The real problem is that the ideological homogeneity of these and other departments has made them resistant to hiring non-conformists (in this case, conservatives). One of the reason why leftism is dominating the academy is because leftism has deliberately excluding rightism from entering.
There's no problem with left-wing speakers on campus. However, these are the only views that students will ever be exposed to in the course of attending university. Right wing speakers and events face tremendous opposition from both students and faculty which makes it almost impossible for them to actually hold events on campus.
Take the Milo Yiannopolis incident at DePaul (I'm not a fan of Milo, but consider the incident): DePaul administration tried its hardest to justify disinviting the speaker from campus, then demanded a two-thousand-dollar fee for security for the event (this is apparently not ordinarily demanded for a speaker, and they asked only at the last minute), then they insisted that the College Republicans read a humiliating letter discussing the university's commitment to diversity and non-endorsement of their views before Milo be allowed to speak. When protesters showed up and interrupted the event and (possibly) assaulted the speaker, security did not remove them, because they were told by university administrators to not intervene. After the event, the president of DePaul released a letter about the incident, in which he stated that although it was unfortunate that the College Republicans' event was disrupted, Milo's views were in tension with the values of the university: it hardly seems appropriate to take time to criticize the speaker whose forum was illegally and forcefully shut down, and it's definitely not something the university would have done for a similarly controversial leftist.
There's no problem with college students being left-wing. Each new generation tends to be more liberal than the last, and there are good things to say about this. However, campus politics is often overly emotional, and simple political disagreements are used to justify excessive outrage, personal hatred, and harassment: this almost always takes the form of leftists hating and harassing non-leftist students (or students of a left-wing cause harassing students who are critical of that cause). Invoking trigger warnings, offense-taking, virtue-signaling, and extensive apologies for privilege are ways to 'get ahead' in the eyes of one's fellow students: the more offended or apologetic a student is, the better his or her social standing, and, since offense-taking requires an accused offense-giver (whose standing suffers as a result), this means that social status is intensely competitive. It means that student relationships become fundamentally antagonistic.
The problem isn't that universities are left-wing. Leftism is only incidental to the problem on campus: there have been times in history when similar problems have taken a right-wing form (I am thinking of the Prussian/German university system from the late-19th century to the early-20th century). But universities today are ideologically homogeneous, and the administration officially sanctions the repression of certain points of view.

It is not just the IVY's but all of the traditionally liberal universities that will have similar environments with each their own gauntlet of social issues to be navigated

A student with his own mindset will take from his or her school experience that which will offer them the most. That the campuses have become a liberal world will not deter most from their goals.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.


An example of said leftist mov't can be found on just about every campus in the USA and have been for decades. Your claims re IVY are absurd and without substantiation. What then, is your agenda?


WRONG. 96% percent of all professors at Cornell support and donate to the left. Fact! Same school has interviews of students who've faced retribution from professors in terms of lower grades for right leaning positions. Fact. Center/right positions on any and all subjects are met with censorship and the cries of racism across all Ivies. Do a little research, you just might become a bit enlightened. My agenda is simple, freedom of expression, freedom of speech and the free and open exchange of ideas. Something the "Ivies" use to embrace. Unfortunately, those ideals are only reserved for the left on your precious ivy campus.


Pretty broad sword your wielding there... (does it come with a Trump MAGA hat?) I take it your child or yourself did not make it into the IVY school of your choice?
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why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.


An example of said leftist mov't can be found on just about every campus in the USA and have been for decades. Your claims re IVY are absurd and without substantiation. What then, is your agenda?


WRONG. 96% percent of all professors at Cornell support and donate to the left. Fact! Same school has interviews of students who've faced retribution from professors in terms of lower grades for right leaning positions. Fact. Center/right positions on any and all subjects are met with censorship and the cries of racism across all Ivies. Do a little research, you just might become a bit enlightened. My agenda is simple, freedom of expression, freedom of speech and the free and open exchange of ideas. Something the "Ivies" use to embrace. Unfortunately, those ideals are only reserved for the left on your precious ivy campus.


Pretty broad sword your wielding there... (does it come with a Trump MAGA hat?) I take it your child or yourself did not make it into the IVY school of your choice?


I played at one of HYP and the guy complaining about shitlibs is right on the money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?
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As Dangerfield said in "Back to School", the answer is.......4
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is good - no surprise. I don't get committing to a school like UNC when he could have gone anywhere (ND, Duke, Ivy, etc.). To each his own ....


This is where guidance by a parent is imperative. This kid is good enough to commit yet picks the school that just happens to be current D1 champs. No one can say how much more he will develop in the next couple of years. Depending on his academic status and projected future potential in the class room; its a parents responsibility to guide the student athlete to the best fit possible. Perhaps in this case; UNC was a good choice if the parameters where all weighed in.

Our early commit was just as good in the classroom as on the field and we thought a shot at IVY was in his best interest as long as he stayed the course wrt both aspects.

We sat as a family and looked at all the pros and cons of each school and what he liked about them and if it fit into what he thought might be a place where he could pursue numerous academic options. He chose IVY and we stressed that at any moment if he thought it was too much pressure; that he could change course. So far so good...one year away from his goal now and more happy with his choice than when he made it.


Perhaps a good choice for your son. However, have you really looked into what's happening at "IVY" schools lately? Are you aware of the extreme radical leftist environment that exists at many of these schools? Are you aware that the freedom of ideas and self expression are only available to those that follow along with the leftist agenda? Are you aware that if your son does not support this agenda within his course work he will be held accountable with poor grades? Are you further aware that the support of any idea other than those approved by the radical left are met with extreme social backlash? Most certainly you are unaware.


An example of said leftist mov't can be found on just about every campus in the USA and have been for decades. Your claims re IVY are absurd and without substantiation. What then, is your agenda?


WRONG. 96% percent of all professors at Cornell support and donate to the left. Fact! Same school has interviews of students who've faced retribution from professors in terms of lower grades for right leaning positions. Fact. Center/right positions on any and all subjects are met with censorship and the cries of racism across all Ivies. Do a little research, you just might become a bit enlightened. My agenda is simple, freedom of expression, freedom of speech and the free and open exchange of ideas. Something the "Ivies" use to embrace. Unfortunately, those ideals are only reserved for the left on your precious ivy campus.


Pretty broad sword your wielding there... (does it come with a Trump MAGA hat?) I take it your child or yourself did not make it into the IVY school of your choice?


Rather predictable response, come on, surely you can do better than that? Right out of the leftist play book. When you can't argue the facts, personally attack the one with the facts. Try sticking to the point, perhaps you have some meaningful bits of information to counter my facts? Prove me wrong?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?


Uhh... Might be time to head back to school, the point is, only one side of any point has become acceptable to discuss at your IVY school. The very discussion of the conservative point of view has now become "offensive". As an alumni, perhaps you should wake up and demand change. Demand the free and open exchange of ideas.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?


Uhh... Might be time to head back to school, the point is, only one side of any point has become acceptable to discuss at your IVY school. The very discussion of the conservative point of view has now become "offensive". As an alumni, perhaps you should wake up and demand change. Demand the free and open exchange of ideas.


This whole conservation is a micro-aggression and wants me to seek out my safe space.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?


Uhh... Might be time to head back to school, the point is, only one side of any point has become acceptable to discuss at your IVY school. The very discussion of the conservative point of view has now become "offensive". As an alumni, perhaps you should wake up and demand change. Demand the free and open exchange of ideas.


Clearly you did not have the mental capacity or focus to endure my lengthy discussion above, which actually supported and expanded upon your misguided and narrow assessment of the leftist positions of University today. Its closure comment was meant for your close minded, aggressive position and statements. I went to school for 18 years. perhaps you need a sabbatical yourself. Your myopic position bores me and is quite predictable, thus I will excuse myself from this and my hopes of a fulfilling discussion with you as well.
#nevertrump
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?


Uhh... Might be time to head back to school, the point is, only one side of any point has become acceptable to discuss at your IVY school. The very discussion of the conservative point of view has now become "offensive". As an alumni, perhaps you should wake up and demand change. Demand the free and open exchange of ideas.


Clearly you did not have the mental capacity or focus to endure my lengthy discussion above, which actually supported and expanded upon your misguided and narrow assessment of the leftist positions of University today. Its closure comment was meant for your close minded, aggressive position and statements. I went to school for 18 years. perhaps you need a sabbatical yourself. Your myopic position bores me and is quite predictable, thus I will excuse myself from this and my hopes of a fulfilling discussion with you as well.
#nevertrump


Dude your lengthy dissertation was filled with facts as you see them. I call BS on that, you make the facts and numbers up and we have to accept it? Nope, too boring for me.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?


Uhh... Might be time to head back to school, the point is, only one side of any point has become acceptable to discuss at your IVY school. The very discussion of the conservative point of view has now become "offensive". As an alumni, perhaps you should wake up and demand change. Demand the free and open exchange of ideas.


Clearly you did not have the mental capacity or focus to endure my lengthy discussion above, which actually supported and expanded upon your misguided and narrow assessment of the leftist positions of University today. Its closure comment was meant for your close minded, aggressive position and statements. I went to school for 18 years. perhaps you need a sabbatical yourself. Your myopic position bores me and is quite predictable, thus I will excuse myself from this and my hopes of a fulfilling discussion with you as well.
#nevertrump


Dude your lengthy dissertation was filled with facts as you see them. I call BS on that, you make the facts and numbers up and we have to accept it? Nope, too boring for me.


only one stat noted (18%...). the "dissertation" was obviously too cerebral for you. Of course its too boring for you.
As is oft repeated on this "forum"; put down the red cup, step back from the roach coach gourmet lunch and immerse yourself in some quality research and higher learning prior to making inane statements.

out.

#nevertrump
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Yeah Harvard, Princeton and Yale have always been noted as bastions of liberalism. Your a moron
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Don't u mean you're an moron?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Obviously not an English major I assume
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Proves that Education doesn't make you smart just Educated.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah Harvard, Princeton and Yale have always been noted as bastions of liberalism. Your a moron


Not always, but for the last 50-60 years- absolutely !
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Proves that Education doesn't make you smart just Educated.


Such an ignorant statement simply cannot qualify for a meaningful comment. In the future; please try not to tax your diminished neural capacity with such learned matters and refrain from interjecting nonsensical drivel.

#nevertrump
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
enjoying the give and take of these mutually respectful people who clearly respect each others opinion. I would never send my child to Yale because it is way to conservative for him, and only Princeton if he didn't get into Brown and had to settle for the less liberal Tigers. Having said that Harvard is too liberal even for him. I kid has to have a limit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why do you attack someone who cites statistics and delivered a well developed observation? to follow your logic a person who who may be critical of IVYs is only a bitter and rejected person who couldn't get in? , your high handed dismissal of that prior poster with a Trump reference is actually a prime example of what he or she was concerned within the post.


because he has an agenda with ivy's and does not discuss the entirety of the issue which is endemic to most universities at this point. (see my above short discourse explaining this whilst not condemning any one type of conference or league of schools). by the way; I am a conservative who can discuss both sides of a topic in a coherent and meaningful manner. that is what one can gain while attending an IVY.

and your meaningful retort is...?


Uhh... Might be time to head back to school, the point is, only one side of any point has become acceptable to discuss at your IVY school. The very discussion of the conservative point of view has now become "offensive". As an alumni, perhaps you should wake up and demand change. Demand the free and open exchange of ideas.


Clearly you did not have the mental capacity or focus to endure my lengthy discussion above, which actually supported and expanded upon your misguided and narrow assessment of the leftist positions of University today. Its closure comment was meant for your close minded, aggressive position and statements. I went to school for 18 years. perhaps you need a sabbatical yourself. Your myopic position bores me and is quite predictable, thus I will excuse myself from this and my hopes of a fulfilling discussion with you as well.
#nevertrump


Dude your lengthy dissertation was filled with facts as you see them. I call BS on that, you make the facts and numbers up and we have to accept it? Nope, too boring for me.


only one stat noted (18%...). the "dissertation" was obviously too cerebral for you. Of course its too boring for you.
As is oft repeated on this "forum"; put down the red cup, step back from the roach coach gourmet lunch and immerse yourself in some quality research and higher learning prior to making inane statements.

out.

#nevertrump



ZZZZZZZ....arrogant [lacrosse], do you work on the Bernoulli equation when you have a catch with your egghead son? Wait, you don't have a catch, you might get hurt.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Proves that Education doesn't make you smart just Educated.


Such an ignorant statement simply cannot qualify for a meaningful comment. In the future; please try not to tax your diminished neural capacity with such learned matters and refrain from interjecting nonsensical drivel.

#nevertrump


#neverlyingHillary
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can anyone help me out. Are lsm's recruited and if so is it a position that college coaches are willing to give a size able scholarship for. Ty
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
definitely. they usually get full rides.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No sizeable scholarships for lacrosse!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
usually the best athlete on the field, could be a converted close defender or middie.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Thank you. Any insight into the position and how it should be played or what college coaches are looking for at showcases regarding lsm's is appreciated.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
can't be a serious question. why wouldn't you or your LSM ask his h.s. coach , or club coach? you are asking here what college coaches look for at LSM?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Thank you. Any insight into the position and how it should be played or what college coaches are looking for at showcases regarding lsm's is appreciated.


Run like the wind all day, uses his stick like a surgeon, hits like a small truck. Still needs to be able to be an offensive threat. Look for video of Kyle Hartzel on youtube for the pro version prototype. Short stick local pro version is DiNapoli. Fun fact is that Brian Spallina was an LSM All American at Hofstra. Different game back then, but just shows you that the guy has to have a very high level motor.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
so you don't know how it should be played but want to know what college coaches look for ?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
it was a fraudulent question anyway. another faker playing the naďve card.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.


Roster sizes of 50! You will be lucky to get a .3 scholarship to a $55k school

Full rides my [lacrosse], put down the kool aid your kid like most others will be playing at D3 SUNY school
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Thank you. Any insight into the position and how it should be played or what college coaches are looking for at showcases regarding lsm's is appreciated.


Run like the wind all day, uses his stick like a surgeon, hits like a small truck. Still needs to be able to be an offensive threat. Look for video of Kyle Hartzel on youtube for the pro version prototype. Short stick local pro version is DiNapoli. Fun fact is that Brian Spallina was an LSM All American at Hofstra. Different game back then, but just shows you that the guy has to have a very high level motor.


Missed one key attribute. Vacuum cleaner on ground balls.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
if you are serious with these LSM questions google this "Speak Softly & Carry a Big Stick LSM"
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.


Roster sizes of 50! You will be lucky to get a .3 scholarship to a $55k school

Full rides my [lacrosse], put down the kool aid your kid like most others will be playing at D3 SUNY school


There are full tuition scholarships and there are kids that go to school for free based on their family's financial situation. Its rare but some kids do get what amounts to a full ride. Probably 1 or 2 kids per team. I would say the average scholarship is between $5000-$10000.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.


Roster sizes of 50! You will be lucky to get a .3 scholarship to a $55k school

Full rides my [lacrosse], put down the kool aid your kid like most others will be playing at D3 SUNY school


There are full tuition scholarships and there are kids that go to school for free based on their family's financial situation. Its rare but some kids do get what amounts to a full ride. Probably 1 or 2 kids per team. I would say the average scholarship is between $5000-$10000.


You can count on one hand kids that play travel lacrosse from LI who will go to college for free based on need. Lacrosse is a rich mans game
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
long island is only rich people?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hold on, let me get my valet to type response back to you..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
once i finish this game of polo I am getting a massage and a pedicure then i will respond to your ridiculous post, ok lovey?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.


Roster sizes of 50! You will be lucky to get a .3 scholarship to a $55k school

Full rides my [lacrosse], put down the kool aid your kid like most others will be playing at D3 SUNY school


There are full tuition scholarships and there are kids that go to school for free based on their family's financial situation. Its rare but some kids do get what amounts to a full ride. Probably 1 or 2 kids per team. I would say the average scholarship is between $5000-$10000.


You can count on one hand kids that play travel lacrosse from LI who will go to college for free based on need. Lacrosse is a rich mans game


There are plenty of kids on Long Island from families that earn less than $150k/year (the rough cutoff for substantial aid at most Ivies). Not every D1 player comes from Manhasset or Garden City.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
shhh, don't tell that to GC and Manhasset windbags...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
shhh, don't tell that to GC and Manhasset windbags...


loser
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.


Roster sizes of 50! You will be lucky to get a .3 scholarship to a $55k school

Full rides my [lacrosse], put down the kool aid your kid like most others will be playing at D3 SUNY school


There are full tuition scholarships and there are kids that go to school for free based on their family's financial situation. Its rare but some kids do get what amounts to a full ride. Probably 1 or 2 kids per team. I would say the average scholarship is between $5000-$10000.


You can count on one hand kids that play travel lacrosse from LI who will go to college for free based on need. Lacrosse is a rich mans game


There are plenty of kids on Long Island from families that earn less than $150k/year (the rough cutoff for substantial aid at most Ivies). Not every D1 player comes from Manhasset or Garden City.


$150? maybe for the ivies but for all other schools its about half of that. Ask anyone you share a sideline with who has kids that went through the FAFSA process except for a staford load most get nothing. They do academic money so tell your kid to study study study!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
shhh, don't tell that to GC and Manhasset windbags...


Too late, but thanks!

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My friends' son has three offers on the table. One is to a top ten team but for VERY little money and good school, one is for a much lower level D1 team, more money better school, third is for an academy.

Now, balance education with cost with lacrosse experience.....How the heck is a 15 year old kid supposed to make this decision? I played D1, he did not so he is looking to me for some guidance. I have none.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My friends' son has three offers on the table. One is to a top ten team but for VERY little money and good school, one is for a much lower level D1 team, more money better school, third is for an academy.

Now, balance education with cost with lacrosse experience.....How the heck is a 15 year old kid supposed to make this decision? I played D1, he did not so he is looking to me for some guidance. I have none.


We went through the same thing except not an academy and he was the ripe old age of 16

1) top academics, OK lacrosse, no money
2) ok academic, good lacrosse, very good money
3) very good academic, very good lacrosse, OK money

at the end of the day my son chose what felt right to him (#3) - although probably a person should opt for the highest rated academics a lot goes into the decision and unfortunately money is a large part of the decision - he was thrilled with his choice.

good luck to you and your son on this difficult decision - could be a lot worse and that would be if he had no choices.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no full scholarships. You are chasing a unicorn. If the kid can play - he can play. If he can't - he can't. You can't tailor his play for a showcase.


Roster sizes of 50! You will be lucky to get a .3 scholarship to a $55k school

Full rides my [lacrosse], put down the kool aid your kid like most others will be playing at D3 SUNY school


There are full tuition scholarships and there are kids that go to school for free based on their family's financial situation. Its rare but some kids do get what amounts to a full ride. Probably 1 or 2 kids per team. I would say the average scholarship is between $5000-$10000.


You can count on one hand kids that play travel lacrosse from LI who will go to college for free based on need. Lacrosse is a rich mans game


There are plenty of kids on Long Island from families that earn less than $150k/year (the rough cutoff for substantial aid at most Ivies). Not every D1 player comes from Manhasset or Garden City.


$150? maybe for the ivies but for all other schools its about half of that. Ask anyone you share a sideline with who has kids that went through the FAFSA process except for a staford load most get nothing. They do academic money so tell your kid to study study study!


He is not referring to the Fafsa, you have to be dirt poor to get any money from the government. What he is referring to is the schools need based financial aid system. They base your tuition on your ability to pay, the theory being that if the kid can get into the school then he should have to opportunity to go there regardless of money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
is that the kid from li express fogo? if so his dad is an ex seal runs morgan Stanley equities? Ball
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


I'd imagine that he still needs to go through the formal process but I'm sure he'll have lots of help "navigating" it. Congrats to him.

Ha, navigating...that was good!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


I'd imagine that he still needs to go through the formal process but I'm sure he'll have lots of help "navigating" it. Congrats to him.

Ha, navigating...that was good!


And having NAPS as an option makes the process very easy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


I'd imagine that he still needs to go through the formal process but I'm sure he'll have lots of help "navigating" it. Congrats to him.

Ha, navigating...that was good!


he should be on a.....steady course...(ouch) smile
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!


He's from Long Island and will be starting at Chaminade in the spring.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


I'd imagine that he still needs to go through the formal process but I'm sure he'll have lots of help "navigating" it. Congrats to him.

Ha, navigating...that was good!


he should be on a.....steady course...(ouch) smile


I heard that the kid is very...even keeled...Ba Dum Tss
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Dad is former SEAL jackass!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


I'd imagine that he still needs to go through the formal process but I'm sure he'll have lots of help "navigating" it. Congrats to him.

Ha, navigating...that was good!


he should be on a.....steady course...(ouch) smile


I heard that the kid is very...even keeled...Ba Dum Tss


well that should make for very....smooth sailing...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hope the new rule does go into effect for 2017.

So just a few years ago the “early recruiting” train started down the tracks. I wanted to take a look at the success of it. I was actually shocked about what it looks like. I would expect others have looked at this also.
The class of 2014 first 12 commits as sophomores, 10 of 12 offensive players (1 LSM, 1 G)
Virginia - 6
Hopkins – 2
UNC -2
Maryland – 1
Towson – 1

2 Players are no longer playing D1 – 1 MCLA one looks to be out of lax. Neither the Goalie nor the LSM have any starts in the past 2 years.

Other than 1 offensive player who panned out (over 100 pts) the remaining 7 are see limited playing time with a combined total of 28 pts in 2 years across 7 of the first 12 commits for 2014.

2016 Stats Leaders –
1. Committed as a Jr
2. Cant see when committed, was 181 on laxpower list
3. Committed as a Soph/but changed as a Sr
4. Committed as a Jr
5. Committed as a Sr
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


I'd imagine that he still needs to go through the formal process but I'm sure he'll have lots of help "navigating" it. Congrats to him.

Ha, navigating...that was good!


he should be on a.....steady course...(ouch) smile


I heard that the kid is very...even keeled...Ba Dum Tss


well that should make for very....smooth sailing...


Maybe he'll be team captain!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
shhh, don't tell that to GC and Manhasset windbags...


Too late, but thanks!



No problem Elmont guy, thanks we do just fine without you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dad is former SEAL jackass!


And I'm homeless, does that make my kid less worthy and entitled? Please stop!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!


He's from Long Island and will be starting at Chaminade in the spring.


Ooops, meant to say "in the fall."
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!


He's from Long Island and will be starting at Chaminade in the spring.


Ooops, meant to say "in the fall."

And starting Freshman... Starting Chaminade as you put it was open ended. More like Freshman
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hope the new rule does go into effect for 2017.

So just a few years ago the “early recruiting” train started down the tracks. I wanted to take a look at the success of it. I was actually shocked about what it looks like. I would expect others have looked at this also.
The class of 2014 first 12 commits as sophomores, 10 of 12 offensive players (1 LSM, 1 G)
Virginia - 6
Hopkins – 2
UNC -2
Maryland – 1
Towson – 1

2 Players are no longer playing D1 – 1 MCLA one looks to be out of lax. Neither the Goalie nor the LSM have any starts in the past 2 years.

Other than 1 offensive player who panned out (over 100 pts) the remaining 7 are see limited playing time with a combined total of 28 pts in 2 years across 7 of the first 12 commits for 2014.

2016 Stats Leaders –
1. Committed as a Jr
2. Cant see when committed, was 181 on laxpower list
3. Committed as a Soph/but changed as a Sr
4. Committed as a Jr
5. Committed as a Sr

Very interesting if incomplete information. It will be more instructive to look back at player outcomes as the 2016 HS class moves through college, say in calendar years 2019 and 2020. In my mind, 2016 was the first really early year, where freshman were recruited (which has now sadly progressed to 8th graders).
Hoping new rule proposal gets adopted and is actually effective. Will ease pressure on very immature kids and reduce benefits of reclassing
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Pretty embarrassing to see a service academy going down this road.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!


He's from Long Island and will be starting at Chaminade in the spring.


Ooops, meant to say "in the fall."

And starting Freshman... Starting Chaminade as you put it was open ended. More like Freshman


-- he will be attending chaminade as a freshman this fall --
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I highly doubt there is any truth to that. You have to have the academics to get in
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I thought all Chaminade freshmen played JV? Of course the parents and club guys might be able to pressure otherwise so as not to "embarrass" and early commit. This parent and club coach move has been wrecking high school lacrosse in the DMV for a few years now. Bad for the game and puts kids on te field for political reasons instead of having them earn it. Surprised if this is happening in LI too.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I thought all Chaminade freshmen played JV? Of course the parents and club guys might be able to pressure otherwise so as not to "embarrass" and early commit. This parent and club coach move has been wrecking high school lacrosse in the DMV for a few years now. Bad for the game and puts kids on te field for political reasons instead of having them earn it. Surprised if this is happening in LI too.


He will be playing on one of the freshman/JV teams. I mispoke earlier.
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At st ants and chaminade all of the frosh play on the jv teams. This has served them well. Plenty of commits too play on jv every year. I doubt this will change.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I thought all Chaminade freshmen played JV? Of course the parents and club guys might be able to pressure otherwise so as not to "embarrass" and early commit. This parent and club coach move has been wrecking high school lacrosse in the DMV for a few years now. Bad for the game and puts kids on te field for political reasons instead of having them earn it. Surprised if this is happening in LI too.


He will be playing on one of the freshman/JV teams. I mispoke earlier.


If he survives tryouts
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
At st ants and chaminade all of the frosh play on the jv teams. This has served them well. Plenty of commits too play on jv every year. I doubt this will change.


Incoming Crush attackman will play varsity at St. A. They need him!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I thought all Chaminade freshmen played JV? Of course the parents and club guys might be able to pressure otherwise so as not to "embarrass" and early commit. This parent and club coach move has been wrecking high school lacrosse in the DMV for a few years now. Bad for the game and puts kids on te field for political reasons instead of having them earn it. Surprised if this is happening in LI too.


He will be playing on one of the freshman/JV teams. I mispoke earlier.


If he survives tryouts


True, though the odds of a good player like this (one who is committed/hyped) falling through the cracks on tryout day are slim.
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Good to know. Maryland and DC the parents and club guys go nuclear over this stupid thing to have their kid on varsity in 9th grade, deserving or not. Half the coaches in the IAC quit and said 'see ha' this year. It's gotten pathetic.
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There are no froshs and sophs needed. Parents think their kids are great. Will get rocked on varsity any of these players. St ants and chammy play very weak teams, where some of these players stat padded on public school teams.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no froshs and sophs needed. Parents think their kids are great. Will get rocked on varsity any of these players. St ants and chammy play very weak teams, where some of these players stat padded on public school teams.


"Very few weak teams"
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no froshs and sophs needed. Parents think their kids are great. Will get rocked on varsity any of these players. St ants and chammy play very weak teams, where some of these players stat padded on public school teams.


I don't think SA played a weak sched according to this

Schedule/Scores
Ratings Detail
Report Scores & Edit/Add Games
Date Opponent Conference PR Top 10 Score COR
03/24 at Fordham Prep (14-8) NY NY AAA-AA 95.6 3 W 13 – 3 0.018
04/02 GREENWICH HS (11-8) CT L 97.1 W 15 – 6 0.018
04/05 at Chaminade (11-7) NY LI AAA-AA 97.2 2 W 5 – 4 0.023
04/07 IONA PREP (12-9) NY NY AAA-AA 95.0 4 W 8 – 3 0.013
04/08 at Episcopal Academy (7-13) PA IAC 94.2 W 8 – 7 0.015
04/16 vs Niskayuna # (16-3) NY A Sec 2 98.6 W 20 – 9 0.025
04/19 at Kellenberg Memorial (10-11) NY LI AAA-AA 93.7 7 W 12 – 5 0.013
04/21 ST JOHN BAPTIST (10-9) NY LI AAA-AA 94.1 6 W 16 – 4 0.013
04/23 at Delbarton (22-2) NJ Grp-A 99.6 L 5 – 7 -0.025
04/28 SYOSSET (16-3) NY A Sec 8 99.1 W 7 – 6 0.025
04/30 YORKTOWN (16-7) NY B Sec 1 99.1 W 9 – 6 0.023
05/05 at Darien (23-0) CT L 99.9 L 7 – 8 -0.025
05/06 at St Dominic (9-7) NY LI AAA-AA 94.1 5 W 11 – 7 0.015
05/10 CHAMINADE (11-7) NY LI AAA-AA 97.2 2 W 4 – 3 0.020
05/14 at New Canaan (19-4) CT M 98.4 W 8 – 3 0.025
05/18 vs Chaminade # (11-7) NY LI AAA-AA 97.2 2 W 18 – 5 0.020
# Neutral Si
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
There are no froshs and sophs needed. Parents think their kids are great. Will get rocked on varsity any of these players. St ants and chammy play very weak teams, where some of these players stat padded on public school teams.


yes that weak schedule sure turned out bad for SA nationally

1st
No Team ST Record Points Place

1 McDonogh MD 18- 1- 0 728 14
2 Darien CT 23- 0- 0 727 10
3 Victor NY 22- 0- 0 693 3
4 Gonzaga DC 19- 2- 0 672
5 Bullis MD 21- 2- 0 636
6 St Anthony's NY 14- 2- 0 494
7 Delbarton NJ 22- 2- 0 481
8 Cold Spring Harbor NY 18- 1- 0 472
9 Deerfield MA 15- 1- 0 469
10 Ward Melville NY 18- 4- 0 444
11 Culver Academy Prep IN 20- 3- 0 427 1
12 Haverford School PA 20- 5- 0 419
13 Hill Academy ON 11- 0- 0 345 3
14 Jamesville-DeWitt NY 21- 2- 0 317
15 St Stephen/St Agnes VA 21- 4- 0 304
16 Boys' Latin MD 14- 4- 0 245
17 Malvern Prep PA 18- 5- 0 225
18 Smithtown East NY 14- 3- 0 198
19 Shoreham-Wading River NY 18- 3- 0 148
20 Bridgewater-Raritan NJ 19- 1- 0 146
21 Belmont Hill MA 14- 1- 0 126
22 Brunswick School CT 15- 3- 0 101
23 New Hampton NH 15- 0- 0 98
24 Regis Jesuit CO 17- 2- 0 97
25 Monte Vista/Danville CA 22- 1- 0 96
26 New Canaan CT 19- 4- 0 92
27 Connetquot NY 16- 3- 0 91
28 Taft School CT 15- 3- 0 83
29 Bayport-Blue Point NY 16- 1- 0 63
30 Syosset NY 16- 3- 0 59
31 Calvert Hall MD 14- 5- 0 58
32 Saint Ignatius Prep CA 16- 4- 0 50
33 Lincoln-Sudbury MA 19- 2- 0 48
34 Landon MD 17- 4- 0 44
35 Upper Arlington OH 20- 3- 0 39
36 Bishop Guertin NH 20- 1- 0 36
37 Brother Rice MI 21- 2- 0 33
38 West Islip NY 14- 3- 0 32
39 Poway CA 18- 3- 0 26
40 Yorktown NY 16- 7- 0 23
41 IMG National FL 12- 1- 0 20
42 LaSalle Academy RI 18- 0- 0 18
43 Torrey Pines CA 19- 3- 0 13
43 Ridgefield CT 16- 5- 0 13
45 Comsewogue NY 13- 4- 0 12
46 Pingry NJ 17- 4- 0 11
47 Lambert GA 21- 0- 0 10
47 Smithtown West NY 12- 6- 0 10
47 Cincinnati St Xavier OH 19- 3- 0 10
50 Upper Dublin PA 21- 3- 0 9


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Very tough schedule and team. Look at the rank. No freshmen on that team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!


Take a look at the NY Highlight Under armour roster, plenty of early birthdays on that list. Its not just MD and Canada that do it......
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Ty Ty Xanders just tweeted that a 2020 committed to the Naval Academy. How does an 8th grader commit to an Academy? It's not as if getting an apt an academy is THAT easy. What am I missing?


2020's really aren't "8th graders" any longer and recruiting for the best of the best 2020's is in full swing like it or not. The U S Naval academy is a great place . Personally I think its a great thing. And the old argument how does a 14 year old know what they want to do just dosen't fly, because the answer is they usually don't, but in reality there are more than plenty of college sophomores, juniors and grads that really don't know either.


The real answer is that he probably isn't 14! Especially if he is from Maryland or Mass. There is a hold back epidemic. Go look at the ages of the kids from the under Armour compared to the NY kids. It is a year across the board. Good luck to these coaches who think that the best kids who are a year or two older in 9th and 10th grade, are still going to be the best kids when they get to college. Half these kids didn't hit puberty yet. This might be the best thing for the non traditional power house teams. There will be a lot more kids fall through the cracks and a lot more disappointed coaches in the ACC and Big 10!


Take a look at the NY Highlight Under armour roster, plenty of early birthdays on that list. Its not just MD and Canada that do it......
. not on the command though and that is early recruiting!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Basically its ACC and Big Ten teams that are playing the pre-high school commitment game. Although Duke and UVA don't appear to be doing it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Basically its ACC and Big Ten teams that are playing the pre-high school commitment game. Although Duke and UVA don't appear to be doing it.


clearly you are misinformed. I know of 4 early commits on each of those teams personally
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I call BS. Duke is def not just sitting quietly on a 2020 early commit waiting for the right time to let the player announce.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I call BS. Duke is def not just sitting quietly on a 2020 early commit waiting for the right time to let the player announce.


You are wrong - they don't want to be part of the early recruiting but they already have their guys. The promises have been made - be quiet until next summer and the spot is yours. Believe it - this is the 3rd year it has happened.

Look at their recruiting board - every one of the kids is in the top 75 in the country. Do you think those kids are turning down other offers in the hope that Duke calls them in the summer? Nope - they already know they have a spot at Duke...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I call BS. Duke is def not just sitting quietly on a 2020 early commit waiting for the right time to let the player announce.


You are wrong - they don't want to be part of the early recruiting but they already have their guys. The promises have been made - be quiet until next summer and the spot is yours. Believe it - this is the 3rd year it has happened.

Look at their recruiting board - every one of the kids is in the top 75 in the country. Do you think those kids are turning down other offers in the hope that Duke calls them in the summer? Nope - they already know they have a spot at Duke...


Duke is right alongside the earliest recruiting programs. To be candid, I think it is sleazy of Dino & Co to do this but also lie about it to deny doing it. There isn't such a thing as a tight lipped club owner or parent that doesn't mention it around.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You are wrong... There was not one Duke assistant on any sideliine anywhere all summer long "We are still piecing together our 19's we are aware of many of the talented 20's but we are still focusing on the other age groups this moment.
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I find it hard to believe Duke has "their guys" and no one has heard anything about it . Either way it is primarily the ACC and Big Ten Schools that are driving the process.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The greatest predictor of lacrosse success and early commitments are birth dates. Loved to watch the dads when their third grader was a phenom and dominating the PAL. They were so proud. Only to find out 8 years later that Junior was a full 9-11 months older than everyone else. On top of the fact that some town programs had kids playing up due to low roster numbers, so he was running over kids a year and a half to two years younger. Junior was the next Mikey Powell or Nicky Polanco. The travel coaches chose maturity over ability and lobbied his parents to join their "A" team. He got better coaching, better tournaments and better opportunities to play with better players. So for all you dads believing you must have magical sperm imparting those superhuman genes on your offspring, think again. You either got lucky, planned the conception masterfully, red shirted your kindergartner, or had him reclassed. Congrats. In this new age of less physical play, out of control club teams and college coaches fighting over 9th graders, you hit the jackpot.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You are wrong... There was not one Duke assistant on any sideliine anywhere all summer long "We are still piecing together our 19's we are aware of many of the talented 20's but we are still focusing on the other age groups this moment.


Better story than fact. Duke relies on their alum network of club coaches and do have assistant coaches attending events.

A couple years ago they swore off that they simply don't speak with or evaluate 9th graders. Blatant lie. One of my son's close friends committed in November of 9th grade year. It wasn't announced -- at Duke's request -- until he finished his 9th grade academic year. It would be better for Dino & Co's program and reputation if they were forthright about what they do. Dom Starsia did the same thing for years. Oh he loathed having 9th graders showing up at his door, he just couldn't bring himself to do that...until he did the very next day after saying that to some lacrosse journalist. The endurance of time works against people who lie.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
They are all on the sidelines. The same ones that are writing the rules are recruiting. They are watching 2020-including Duke and the Ivys-boys and girls. Saw it first hand at Mid Atlantic in early in June.

Some of these coaches need to look in the mirror-Can the pass the mirror test????
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
FACT, duke asst or someone representing duke has been at a showcase this summer for '20's. Fact duke head coach has inquired to club director about a certain '20 prospect i know of who has already committed to psu.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
With all the reclasses, they will soon be recruiting 6th graders with full beards.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
FACT, duke asst or someone representing duke has been at a showcase this summer for '20's. Fact duke head coach has inquired to club director about a certain '20 prospect i know of who has already committed to psu.


He'd be foolish if he didn't. Who hasnt
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I guess someone just finished reading The Outliers
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The greatest predictor of lacrosse success and early commitments are birth dates. Loved to watch the dads when their third grader was a phenom and dominating the PAL. They were so proud. Only to find out 8 years later that Junior was a full 9-11 months older than everyone else. On top of the fact that some town programs had kids playing up due to low roster numbers, so he was running over kids a year and a half to two years younger. Junior was the next Mikey Powell or Nicky Polanco. The travel coaches chose maturity over ability and lobbied his parents to join their "A" team. He got better coaching, better tournaments and better opportunities to play with better players. So for all you dads believing you must have magical sperm imparting those superhuman genes on your offspring, think again. You either got lucky, planned the conception masterfully, red shirted your kindergartner, or had him reclassed. Congrats. In this new age of less physical play, out of control club teams and college coaches fighting over 9th graders, you hit the jackpot.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
FACT, duke asst or someone representing duke has been at a showcase this summer for '20's. Fact duke head coach has inquired to club director about a certain '20 prospect i know of who has already committed to psu.
If you are being factual you have to provide facts, what you are doing is spreading rumors. Base your FACT with details or it is not a FACT!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Encouraging to know at least one person on here knows what books are LOL

Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess someone just finished reading The Outliers
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The greatest predictor of lacrosse success and early commitments are birth dates. Loved to watch the dads when their third grader was a phenom and dominating the PAL. They were so proud. Only to find out 8 years later that Junior was a full 9-11 months older than everyone else. On top of the fact that some town programs had kids playing up due to low roster numbers, so he was running over kids a year and a half to two years younger. Junior was the next Mikey Powell or Nicky Polanco. The travel coaches chose maturity over ability and lobbied his parents to join their "A" team. He got better coaching, better tournaments and better opportunities to play with better players. So for all you dads believing you must have magical sperm imparting those superhuman genes on your offspring, think again. You either got lucky, planned the conception masterfully, red shirted your kindergartner, or had him reclassed. Congrats. In this new age of less physical play, out of control club teams and college coaches fighting over 9th graders, you hit the jackpot.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You'd think lacrosse IQ is something they award for repeating a grade these days.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Another one who thinks there is a statistically significant difference in talent level across a full year's worth of players. Take probability 101.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.
let me guess your son is a ..........2020
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


There is far less parity in the 2020 class. There is one team that never loses. 2019 has 6 to 8 teams that consistently play one another to one or two goal outcomes. It must get old entering a 2020 tournament only to discover that 91 is entered.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


There is far less parity in the 2020 class. There is one team that never loses. 2019 has 6 to 8 teams that consistently play one another to one or two goal outcomes. It must get old entering a 2020 tournament only to discover that 91 is entered.


You do realize there is lacrosse outside of LI- right? Have you seen some of the 2020 kids in MD, NJ, PA, CA, TX ??? Lots of talented 2020s.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


Are u kidding me ? 2020 is a weak year. Just because a few got committed already doesn't mean anything. Honestly , a few aren't deserving yet. They haven't even grown. It snowballed after the first one who definatly is deserving. 2019 actually is a very strong year. I have one in both years and the difference is very noticeable.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


There is far less parity in the 2020 class. There is one team that never loses. 2019 has 6 to 8 teams that consistently play one another to one or two goal outcomes. It must get old entering a 2020 tournament only to discover that 91 is entered.


You do realize there is lacrosse outside of LI- right? Have you seen some of the 2020 kids in MD, NJ, PA, CA, TX ??? Lots of talented 2020s.


There is??? Well maybe, but it isnt Real Lacrosse! smile
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You have no idea what you are talking about. Outside of 91 the next top 10 2020 teams can beat most 2019 squads. Maryland is loaded with talent at 2020. As is PA and NJ.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


There is far less parity in the 2020 class. There is one team that never loses. 2019 has 6 to 8 teams that consistently play one another to one or two goal outcomes. It must get old entering a 2020 tournament only to discover that 91 is entered.


You do realize there is lacrosse outside of LI- right? Have you seen some of the 2020 kids in MD, NJ, PA, CA, TX ??? Lots of talented 2020s.


There is??? Well maybe, but it isnt Real Lacrosse! smile
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
[quote=Anonymous]You have no idea what you are talking about. Outside of 91 the next top 10 2020 teams can beat most 2019 squads.

Name an established program where the 2020 team can beat the 2019 team. I live in MD so I will answer a few for you. Not Madlax, FCA, Crabs. I would bet heavily on the 2019s from LXC, 90+1, Express/N, Dukes/HHH, etc. handily beating their 2020s.

At 2020, has any other team besides 90+1, Looneys or Crabs ever won a compettive tournament?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Do you have any facts to back up top 10 2020s beating 2019s? Are we talking about boys teams?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can anybody give me an update on the 2028's? Any superstars? LOL
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
you people all need your heads examined, please go get a life
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


Are u kidding me ? 2020 is a weak year. Just because a few got committed already doesn't mean anything. Honestly , a few aren't deserving yet. They haven't even grown. It snowballed after the first one who definatly is deserving. 2019 actually is a very strong year. I have one in both years and the difference is very noticeable.


My oldest was HS class of 2012 and my youngest is a 2022. I have to say I have seen club lacrosse REGRESS as a whole every year down the sequence. LI, Maryland, Philly and other doesn't matter. Every next class passing through has been worse because club lacrosse has destroyed player development. Kids are stick skilled because of more year round practice, but basic fundamentals...where to be, what angles to play, how to position, etc...are much worse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anybody give me an update on the 2028's? Any superstars? LOL


I can..It will be the best class since the 2026's. 2027 is a disaster according to people in the know!. No speed and and most wouldn't know a 1-4-1 from a 1-3-2.

Ty Xanders has a big profile up on the 2028's. Man they are going to be good. Several have decided to not do nap time and hit the wall!! He has given a shout out on a couple of FOGO's too.

Dont tell anyone but UNC and Hopkins have already recruited two of the stud 2028 middies. They are keeping it hush hush. Both middies can shoot with either hand while drinking out of a sippy cup!

Expecting more 2028 commitments to be announced soon!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019 Class will be lightly recruited schools will load up with 2020's because of its strength.


Okay, when your son is in HS you will know. Every year says the same
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anybody give me an update on the 2028's? Any superstars? LOL


I can..It will be the best class since the 2026's. 2027 is a disaster according to people in the know!. No speed and and most wouldn't know a 1-4-1 from a 1-3-2.

Ty Xanders has a big profile up on the 2028's. Man they are going to be good. Several have decided to not do nap time and hit the wall!! He has given a shout out on a couple of FOGO's too.

Dont tell anyone but UNC and Hopkins have already recruited two of the stud 2028 middies. They are keeping it hush hush. Both middies can shoot with either hand while drinking out of a sippy cup!

Expecting more 2028 commitments to be announced soon!


Big secret, don't tell anyone. The two stud middies are really 2027s. HAHAHA
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
printed in the Baltimore Sun this morning a couple days ago... A proposal to rein in recruiting practices in college lacrosse – where players as young as rising high school freshmen commit to Division I programs – has crossed a major hurdle toward being ratified.

Last month the NCAA Division I Council recommended legislation to prohibit contact with potential athletes before Sept. 1 of their junior year in high school. If approved by the NCAA Division I Board of Directors in April 2017, the laws could be enacted as early as Aug. 1, 2017.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
printed in the Baltimore Sun this morning a couple days ago... A proposal to rein in recruiting practices in college lacrosse – where players as young as rising high school freshmen commit to Division I programs – has crossed a major hurdle toward being ratified.

Last month the NCAA Division I Council recommended legislation to prohibit contact with potential athletes before Sept. 1 of their junior year in high school. If approved by the NCAA Division I Board of Directors in April 2017, the laws could be enacted as early as Aug. 1, 2017.


This will not happen, as college sports do not revolve around lacrosse, a sport that nobody cares about except players and their families! And of course the money grabbers!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anybody give me an update on the 2028's? Any superstars? LOL


I can..It will be the best class since the 2026's. 2027 is a disaster according to people in the know!. No speed and and most wouldn't know a 1-4-1 from a 1-3-2.

Ty Xanders has a big profile up on the 2028's. Man they are going to be good. Several have decided to not do nap time and hit the wall!! He has given a shout out on a couple of FOGO's too.

Dont tell anyone but UNC and Hopkins have already recruited two of the stud 2028 middies. They are keeping it hush hush. Both middies can shoot with either hand while drinking out of a sippy cup!

Expecting more 2028 commitments to be announced soon!


Big secret, don't tell anyone. The two stud middies are really 2027s. HAHAHA


but those two have Sept birthdays and "could" be 2028 and are still younger than some 0n Crabs
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
so ridiculous...saying one class is strong and one is weak...get a grip. I guarantee you there will be the same amount of kids committed to D1 programs when all is said and done of 20's and 19's...and ditto for 18's and 21's.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What do you consider much money?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What do you consider much money?


Depends on school, big 10 schools like PSU and OSU will give the most and guarantee it for 4 years. The best kids, and I mean lights out are getting about 50% of total cost, about 20k or so a year. Schools like Maryland, UNC, Syracuse, Duke will not offer big money to young kids. One of the top attackman I know personally got 25% as an early recruit to UNC He eventually got more because he stayed great and asked for more so there is always money. Some claim they got "full ride" . That statement usually does not include room and board (15k+) . This may be possible if you are a really great player going to a top 20vs top 10 school. Also some coaches play creative financing combining athletic with academic money to make the said%. This is smoke and mirrors. A true lacrosse scholarship is Strictly athletic money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


What we did in this situation was ask our son what his first choice was, call the coach, tell him we are ready to commit and ask what the scholarship will be. If you're happy with the offer, great. If not ask for more or say we need to think about it, then call the other schools and say the same. Good luck!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!


This site would be such a fabulous tool for experience sharing and idea exchange if the filter included removing inane posts like this moron. Any chance of making that happen?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!

Wow, I thought this was a lacrosse community. I am pretty sure they can figure out what idiots (please see above post) respond with dumb advice. That has to be some household you run over there, poor kid. Hey good luck to the original poster, let us know how it works out. Not all of us have the handbook to lacrosse scholarships like Mr. Happy above.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!


Well Miss Cleo is dead, so this is the next best place for advice.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!


Well Miss Cleo is dead, so this is the next best place for advice.


lol
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


What we did in this situation was ask our son what his first choice was, call the coach, tell him we are ready to commit and ask what the scholarship will be. If you're happy with the offer, great. If not ask for more or say we need to think about it, then call the other schools and say the same. Good luck!


Be careful playing off one program vs another... Remember, there are 20 kids in line vying for a spot for every major program. If you jerk a college coach around they will drop you in 2 seconds. Usually when things don't go well it is the parent getting in the way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
ask your son if he gets hurt day one and has to spend the next 4 years somewhere and not play lacrosse where would that be. there is your answer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!


I THOUGHT THAT THIS WAS VERY FUNNY. LIGHTEN UP FRANCINE. YOUR DILEMMA SEEMS TO BE A BIT FICTIONAL ANYWAY
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


What we did in this situation was ask our son what his first choice was, call the coach, tell him we are ready to commit and ask what the scholarship will be. If you're happy with the offer, great. If not ask for more or say we need to think about it, then call the other schools and say the same. Good luck!


Be careful playing off one program vs another... Remember, there are 20 kids in line vying for a spot for every major program. If you jerk a college coach around they will drop you in 2 seconds. Usually when things don't go well it is the parent getting in the way.


My advice did not involve jerking anyone around. It's about getting the best possible package for the boy. It's how our family approached it, and everything worked out great.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


What we did in this situation was ask our son what his first choice was, call the coach, tell him we are ready to commit and ask what the scholarship will be. If you're happy with the offer, great. If not ask for more or say we need to think about it, then call the other schools and say the same. Good luck!


Be careful playing off one program vs another... Remember, there are 20 kids in line vying for a spot for every major program. If you jerk a college coach around they will drop you in 2 seconds. Usually when things don't go well it is the parent getting in the way.


My advice did not involve jerking anyone around. It's about getting the best possible package for the boy. It's how our family approached it, and everything worked out great.



That and they are all friends and some how know what is an isn't out there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is a 2019 with three schools waiting for other school(s) to make an offer before they do. What the heck do I do?


First thing you should do is come on this site and solicit advice from strangers (mostly idiots) about your sons future. The rest should all fall in to place after that!


I THOUGHT THAT THIS WAS VERY FUNNY. LIGHTEN UP FRANCINE. YOUR DILEMMA SEEMS TO BE A BIT FICTIONAL ANYWAY

Now your funny too!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
if schools are seriously considering your son, then they will definitely talk numbers with you. It seems he is on a long list of potentials and they are waiting for you to come back to them to say we are interested. not much money to spread-out and if they get you early, then you will get minimal money, but you will get the ability to brag that your son is verbally committed.
I know a lot of kids who went thru this and waited until their sophomore year and now they are getting the actual offers with $$ amounts offered to them
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
if schools are seriously considering your son, then they will definitely talk numbers with you. It seems he is on a long list of potentials and they are waiting for you to come back to them to say we are interested. not much money to spread-out and if they get you early, then you will get minimal money, but you will get the ability to brag that your son is verbally committed.
I know a lot of kids who went thru this and waited until their sophomore year and now they are getting the actual offers with $$ amounts offered to them


Absolutely 100 percent wrong .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No the school would not back out it had to be the student athlete or family. Everyone has their reasons so please respect what they do. You may not agree but it is what it is
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No full scholarships. Didn't happen. And look at schools that switched from. It's no brainier ! Kid got better offer. Don't blame the kid. Blame the system. Coaches know it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No full scholarships. Didn't happen. And look at schools that switched from. It's no brainier ! Kid got better offer. Don't blame the kid. Blame the system. Coaches know it.



So in reality they sign verbals to have other schools go after them .. This way it looks like they are in high demand. If your parents are in marketing it will help to sell the hype that isn't really there.. So a school like Duke goes up to the kid and says here is more money I want you..the student says show me the money I don't care where I am going . I may not like the school but I like what they are offering. The bottom line is Verbals mean nothing at all. Duke is like any other school and will poach at anytime. There are less ethics at the higher schools and this obviously points that out. Can't wait for someone to defend them and what happened. Believe me the players and families are not innocent either. No one has their hands clean. sad sad sad state of affairs
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No full scholarships. Didn't happen. And look at schools that switched from. It's no brainier ! Kid got better offer. Don't blame the kid. Blame the system. Coaches know it.



So in reality they sign verbals to have other schools go after them .. This way it looks like they are in high demand. If your parents are in marketing it will help to sell the hype that isn't really there.. So a school like Duke goes up to the kid and says here is more money I want you..the student says show me the money I don't care where I am going . I may not like the school but I like what they are offering. The bottom line is Verbals mean nothing at all. Duke is like any other school and will poach at anytime. There are less ethics at the higher schools and this obviously points that out. Can't wait for someone to defend them and what happened. Believe me the players and families are not innocent either. No one has their hands clean. sad sad sad state of affairs


Nothing to do with ethics. People are free to make decisions within the rules.The top kids will have the top offers and the most Zopportunity period. All this other stuff is just noice stemming from jelous and frantic parents.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No full scholarships. Didn't happen. And look at schools that switched from. It's no brainier ! Kid got better offer. Don't blame the kid. Blame the system. Coaches know it.



So in reality they sign verbals to have other schools go after them .. This way it looks like they are in high demand. If your parents are in marketing it will help to sell the hype that isn't really there.. So a school like Duke goes up to the kid and says here is more money I want you..the student says show me the money I don't care where I am going . I may not like the school but I like what they are offering. The bottom line is Verbals mean nothing at all. Duke is like any other school and will poach at anytime. There are less ethics at the higher schools and this obviously points that out. Can't wait for someone to defend them and what happened. Believe me the players and families are not innocent either. No one has their hands clean. sad sad sad state of affairs


Nothing to do with ethics. People are free to make decisions within the rules.The top kids will have the top offers and the most Zopportunity period. All this other stuff is just noice stemming from jelous and frantic parents.


Or those waiting for the best schools (Ivies) who are not committing kids yet, You are a fool thinking your 25% to a mediocre school is something to brag about. After graduation, your kid will be asking mine for a job!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No full scholarships. Didn't happen. And look at schools that switched from. It's no brainier ! Kid got better offer. Don't blame the kid. Blame the system. Coaches know it.



So in reality they sign verbals to have other schools go after them .. This way it looks like they are in high demand. If your parents are in marketing it will help to sell the hype that isn't really there.. So a school like Duke goes up to the kid and says here is more money I want you..the student says show me the money I don't care where I am going . I may not like the school but I like what they are offering. The bottom line is Verbals mean nothing at all. Duke is like any other school and will poach at anytime. There are less ethics at the higher schools and this obviously points that out. Can't wait for someone to defend them and what happened. Believe me the players and families are not innocent either. No one has their hands clean. sad sad sad state of affairs


Nothing to do with ethics. People are free to make decisions within the rules.The top kids will have the top offers and the most Zopportunity period. All this other stuff is just noice stemming from jelous and frantic parents.


Or those waiting for the best schools (Ivies) who are not committing kids yet, You are a fool thinking your 25% to a mediocre school is something to brag about. After graduation, your kid will be asking mine for a job!


Nothing to do with ethics . Sure it does.You may not like it then why give a verbal. Trust me parents know what they are teaching their kids. Do you think kids say I'm switching schools and the parents just say ok. They are the ones behind it.Schools such as Duke are very guilty themselves. I would like to know what Duke has to say about this . They can't deny that they were initiating contact after the verbal was given. People needs to be called out or at least explain how these things happen. It stinks when people do this to my old school
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can someone explain to me please . If you sign a verbal, the athlete should not be contacted by another school and vise versa? Otherwise what does a verbal mean? Is it just for the kid to say he is going to a school and actually means absolutely nothing???
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can someone explain to me please . If you sign a verbal, the athlete should not be contacted by another school and vise versa? Otherwise what does a verbal mean? Is it just for the kid to say he is going to a school and actually means absolutely nothing???


You don't "sign" a verbal. A verbal is exactly what it is. A "verbal agreement", a.k.a. a "handshake agreement". There is nothing binding or official about it in the eyes of the NCAA or the admissions departments at schools. It is a non-binding verbal agreement between coach and player/family. Nothing becomes formal until the NLI (National Letter of Intent) is signed in November (or April in the case of a spring signing) of senior year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Verbal means exactly that...Nothing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can someone explain to me please . If you sign a verbal, the athlete should not be contacted by another school and vise versa? Otherwise what does a verbal mean? Is it just for the kid to say he is going to a school and actually means absolutely nothing???


You don't "sign" a verbal. Think about that. And means nothing. Schools still contact the players. Kids still contact the schools.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
"It means nothing". Really?? . Spoken like parents who's son is not even remotely on anyone's radar as the heavy early recruiting season comes to an end. Recognized and rewarded for all the time, effort and money dedicated by both the player and their family over the years is certainly not nothing. Beyond the limited dollars towards a great education because so few verbals are broken by the school it means.. work ethic, commitment, purpose, leadership, dedication, community, spirit, accountability etc etc If and only if you and your family get invited to "the process" and spend and entire day with the coaches and academic advisors, will you appreciate the magnitude of the opportunity. I Promise you there is not one family who has received a "verbal" over the years who thinks it's "nothing"
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
then why are there so many kids from 2019 that were given specific $$ amounts


I heard all of those early 2019 received full scholarships.one even verbally switched teams already, talk about abusing the system for what it is. Totally disrespected one university.Who verbally switches in 3-4 months.not the kid. maybe the school pulled out after seeing him play over the summer and let him look like he did it to make it look good.


No full scholarships. Didn't happen. And look at schools that switched from. It's no brainier ! Kid got better offer. Don't blame the kid. Blame the system. Coaches know it.



So in reality they sign verbals to have other schools go after them .. This way it looks like they are in high demand. If your parents are in marketing it will help to sell the hype that isn't really there.. So a school like Duke goes up to the kid and says here is more money I want you..the student says show me the money I don't care where I am going . I may not like the school but I like what they are offering. The bottom line is Verbals mean nothing at all. Duke is like any other school and will poach at anytime. There are less ethics at the higher schools and this obviously points that out. Can't wait for someone to defend them and what happened. Believe me the players and families are not innocent either. No one has their hands clean. sad sad sad state of affairs


Nothing to do with ethics. People are free to make decisions within the rules.The top kids will have the top offers and the most Zopportunity period. All this other stuff is just noice stemming from jelous and frantic parents.


Or those waiting for the best schools (Ivies) who are not committing kids yet, You are a fool thinking your 25% to a mediocre school is something to brag about. After graduation, your kid will be asking mine for a job!


Nice post you pompous a**. Not every kid has the grades to get into an IVY and not every kid has ACC size or talent. This whole process is about finding the right fit for your kid academically and athletically. If a kid gets a big offer from a "mediocre" school, that affords him the opportunity to use his four years to do very well in school, graduate with little or no debt and get himself into a better grad school, plus play 4 years of D1 lax. Oh and not to mention that in todays day and age going to an IVY doesnt guarantee you some amazing job like it used to, so dont start counting your kids six figure salary just yet.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"It means nothing". Really?? . Spoken like parents who's son is not even remotely on anyone's radar as the heavy early recruiting season comes to an end. Recognized and rewarded for all the time, effort and money dedicated by both the player and their family over the years is certainly not nothing. Beyond the limited dollars towards a great education because so few verbals are broken by the school it means.. work ethic, commitment, purpose, leadership, dedication, community, spirit, accountability etc etc If and only if you and your family get invited to "the process" and spend and entire day with the coaches and academic advisors, will you appreciate the magnitude of the opportunity. I Promise you there is not one family who has received a "verbal" over the years who thinks it's "nothing"


As someone who was a college athlete and as a parent of one son who just completed 4 years as a college athlete at an Ivy, I find your post very offensive.

All that dedication, hard work and commitment...through 8th or 9th grade? Seriously?

Let me drop a little perspective on you. 90%+ of non revenue college athletics is mental resolve. The stands at most games aren't full. Training and travel schedules are demanding and really cut into a kid's academic and social life. To show you are remotely prepared for that and deserve a shot I think kids show show some endurance in their high school years. Grow mentally and physically through your junior year, show a good academic record, show how you can juggle something other than lacrosse...summer jobs, music or arts endeavors, student newspaper...something. I know this ship has sailed for lacrosse. I can say these coaches recruiting 14, 15 year olds will be burned more often than rewarded, but that will take some more time.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"It means nothing". Really?? . Spoken like parents who's son is not even remotely on anyone's radar as the heavy early recruiting season comes to an end. Recognized and rewarded for all the time, effort and money dedicated by both the player and their family over the years is certainly not nothing. Beyond the limited dollars towards a great education because so few verbals are broken by the school it means.. work ethic, commitment, purpose, leadership, dedication, community, spirit, accountability etc etc If and only if you and your family get invited to "the process" and spend and entire day with the coaches and academic advisors, will you appreciate the magnitude of the opportunity. I Promise you there is not one family who has received a "verbal" over the years who thinks it's "nothing"


I thought they were joining the Boy Scouts . I think the point here is that verbals are broken left and right. The kids do it for their ego and the parents for their bigger ego. 99% of the kids don't have a clue at this point unless they are a holdback for a few years. Just not good when you switch within 3 months in schools . You mock the system by panicking a few months ago. Have confidence from the beginning and your kid will be fine. Panicking might have ruined it for a bunch of other kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"It means nothing". Really?? . Spoken like parents who's son is not even remotely on anyone's radar as the heavy early recruiting season comes to an end. Recognized and rewarded for all the time, effort and money dedicated by both the player and their family over the years is certainly not nothing. Beyond the limited dollars towards a great education because so few verbals are broken by the school it means.. work ethic, commitment, purpose, leadership, dedication, community, spirit, accountability etc etc If and only if you and your family get invited to "the process" and spend and entire day with the coaches and academic advisors, will you appreciate the magnitude of the opportunity. I Promise you there is not one family who has received a "verbal" over the years who thinks it's "nothing"


Means nothing , meaning not binding. If your kid can get in to Harvard and play , you still sending to NJIT because he said he was before he went in to HS?? No. And Duke will take best Fogo in country even if they have 4 others committed at that position. That's reality. And chance of coach being there 5 years later ? Who knows. Lot of movement this year. That seems to give all parties an out. Don't blame the kids, blame the coaches. They have created this recruiting issue!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hey Moron. Maybe you and your son should go back to college so that you can better comprehend perspective. Should we not celebrate my daughters award winning essays and straight A's in 5th grade because she is only 10 yr's old? It's all relative but that's obvious for most people. Now you can go back to spewing your negative energy to everyone you come in contact with today. Feel bad for your family.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hey Moron. Maybe you and your son should go back to college so that you can better comprehend perspective. Should we not celebrate my daughters award winning essays and straight A's in 5th grade because she is only 10 yr's old? It's all relative but that's obvious for most people. Now you can go back to spewing your negative energy to everyone you come in contact with today. Feel bad for your family.

Computer geek.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
But rarely do lacrosse programs rescind a verbal.. If that were not the case then I would agree a verbal would literally mean nothing i.e. Jim Harbaugh..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Re: upcoming NCAA Early Recruiting vote for lacrosse
I find it vile that the IWLCA and IMCLA proposals want to limit phone and written contact between coaches and potential recruits, BUT it will still be ok to make contact at camps and clinics.
This is the classic "pay to play" scenario. Attend camp at XYZ University for $1000 and you MIGHT be invited to sit down with the coach afterwards. If you don't attend the camp, then you have to sit and wait until 9/1 junior year to talk to the coach directly. All the while, your club coach will have the ability to talk to coaches on your behalf, making them absolutely vital to the process (and thus able to charge exorbitant fees for their services).
Everyone "makes out" in this scenario but the players and their families.
If the college coaches truly want to limit all early recruiting, then they need to dump ALL of the loopholes, INCLUDING the ones that put money in their pockets. THEN we could all take them seriously.
Let's not forget, it was the college coaches themselves that started this whole early recruiting insanity.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is how the assistant make their money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
They might not rescind, but if they don't want you anymore they will make it very clear. You can still come here, but you will never see the field.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
He did say "magnitude of the opportunity" not magnitude of the "accomplishment". Huge difference as these kids now have something like you described to work towards. Congrats to all the family's who have recieved verbals. We are hoping to be included in that group soon. Exciting times.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think for me when my son verballed it meant several things:

1. It was a validation of all my sons hard work and effort throughout the years, not to mention the time and sacrifices he made along the way

2. It was nice to have a D1 coach, a professional at his craft tell my son that he was a very good player and a kid who the coach would love to have in his program, it wasnt Ty Xanders or some irrelevant blogger saying it.

3. I think for my son it was a huge sigh of relief that the pressure he was feeling was off and he could just go out and play and enjoy himself. For me obviously it was a huge relief knowing that my son has a spot and is going to have a great opportunity to do some pretty amazing things once he gets to school.

Those are just my thoughts, I understand that at this point until he signs his NLI it is just a verbal agreement and either side can decided that its not the right fit, although for the most part college coaches will honor their verbals. For my son at this point he is completely happy with his decision and unless a significantly better offer comes along he will be staying put. IMHO the only reasons to decommit and verbal to a different school would be a significant upgrade in the academic standing of the school, or for some kids they decide they would rather play D3 and not deal with the pressures of D1. Just my two cents and my experience with this process so far.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
After our $50k club lax investment, my kid will be getting $5k to to a college that she couldn't normally get in to and isn't prepared to attend so she will be taking basket weaving as a major. She will then commit 6+ hours a day to the team where she will be #30 on the roster. She will quit by her Junior year to enjoy her last 2 college years and take advantage of internships and other things she had been missing out on. These are the stories that no one ever talks about.

Don't push, let the process play out maybe Club and D3 is a better fit for your daughter on the field and academically. Except for the top handful of kids most of our girls and very good but not great... need to embrace that
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hey Moron. Maybe you and your son should go back to college so that you can better comprehend perspective. Should we not celebrate my daughters award winning essays and straight A's in 5th grade because she is only 10 yr's old? It's all relative but that's obvious for most people. Now you can go back to spewing your negative energy to everyone you come in contact with today. Feel bad for your family.

Computer geek.


And the nerd wants to go out with any heldback Lax Bro.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
After our $50k club lax investment, my kid will be getting $5k to to a college that she couldn't normally get in to and isn't prepared to attend so she will be taking basket weaving as a major. She will then commit 6+ hours a day to the team where she will be #30 on the roster. She will quit by her Junior year to enjoy her last 2 college years and take advantage of internships and other things she had been missing out on. These are the stories that no one ever talks about.

Don't push, let the process play out maybe Club and D3 is a better fit for your daughter on the field and academically. Except for the top handful of kids most of our girls and very good but not great... need to embrace that


Please dont burst mine and thousands others like me Bubble!
I am intent on spending thousands upon thousands to somehow get my child that sacred verbal to a D1 school and the Holy Grail of a Ty Xanders shout out!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think for me when my son verballed it meant several things:

1. It was a validation of all my sons hard work and effort throughout the years, not to mention the time and sacrifices he made along the way

2. It was nice to have a D1 coach, a professional at his craft tell my son that he was a very good player and a kid who the coach would love to have in his program, it wasnt Ty Xanders or some irrelevant blogger saying it.

3. I think for my son it was a huge sigh of relief that the pressure he was feeling was off and he could just go out and play and enjoy himself. For me obviously it was a huge relief knowing that my son has a spot and is going to have a great opportunity to do some pretty amazing things once he gets to school.

Those are just my thoughts, I understand that at this point until he signs his NLI it is just a verbal agreement and either side can decided that its not the right fit, although for the most part college coaches will honor their verbals. For my son at this point he is completely happy with his decision and unless a significantly better offer comes along he will be staying put. IMHO the only reasons to decommit and verbal to a different school would be a significant upgrade in the academic standing of the school, or for some kids they decide they would rather play D3 and not deal with the pressures of D1. Just my two cents and my experience with this process so far.


Validation is no reason to commit. Find right academic school that you would want to go to if there was no lacrosse. No money past college. This single end game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Are you at a school taking the major you want if you never played lacrosse again? We have friends looking at $60,000 liberal arts D3 schools that no one has heard of because a coach showed some interest, GIVE ME A BREAK!

Some parents will bankrupt themselves just to say their kid played in college. Need to get a grip, its not about you
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I don't know about any of you but our verbal school is a grandslam all the way around. lacrosse or not!!! Everyone assumes that these early commits are settling. And for others I can't imagine one can go wrong with any of them. MD, NAVY, HOPKINS, UNC, MICHIGAN, PENN ST, OHIO STATE . These early recruiters are all great all around colleges. No lacrosse . No problem Enjoy your weekend haters.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
[quote=Anonymous]I don't know about any of you but our verbal school is a grandslam all the way around. lacrosse or not!!! Everyone assumes that these early commits are settling. And for others I can't imagine one can go wrong with any of them. MD, NAVY, HOPKINS, UNC, MICHIGAN, PENN ST, OHIO STATE . These early recruiters are all great all around colleges. No lacrosse . No problem Enjoy your weekend haters. [/

I agree ..the kids are most likely not getting much money for lacrosse if any. Hopefully some academic. At least 2/3 of the kids won't be playing lacrosse by junior year. As long as the parents can pay for the schooling the rest will be fine. the kids are picking these schools for the education, the most they are getting academically is 25% . Don't let anyone tell you differently. They are fortunate their parents can afford it
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I don't know about any of you but our verbal school is a grandslam all the way around. lacrosse or not!!! Everyone assumes that these early commits are settling. And for others I can't imagine one can go wrong with any of them. MD, NAVY, HOPKINS, UNC, MICHIGAN, PENN ST, OHIO STATE . These early recruiters are all great all around colleges. No lacrosse . No problem Enjoy your weekend haters. [/

I agree ..the kids are most likely not getting much money for lacrosse if any. Hopefully some academic. At least 2/3 of the kids won't be playing lacrosse by junior year. As long as the parents can pay for the schooling the rest will be fine. the kids are picking these schools for the education, the most they are getting academically is 25% . Don't let anyone tell you differently. They are fortunate their parents can afford it


penn st, ohio st, maryland will take anyone who applies.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I don't know about any of you but our verbal school is a grandslam all the way around. lacrosse or not!!! Everyone assumes that these early commits are settling. And for others I can't imagine one can go wrong with any of them. MD, NAVY, HOPKINS, UNC, MICHIGAN, PENN ST, OHIO STATE . These early recruiters are all great all around colleges. No lacrosse . No problem Enjoy your weekend haters. [/

I agree ..the kids are most likely not getting much money for lacrosse if any. Hopefully some academic. At least 2/3 of the kids won't be playing lacrosse by junior year. As long as the parents can pay for the schooling the rest will be fine. the kids are picking these schools for the education, the most they are getting academically is 25% . Don't let anyone tell you differently. They are fortunate their parents can afford it


penn st, ohio st, maryland will take anyone who applies.


But as far as the college experience it is the big time!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
[quote=Anonymous]Re: upcoming NCAA Early Recruiting vote for lacrosse
I find it vile that the IWLCA and IMCLA proposals want to limit phone and written contact between coaches and potential recruits, BUT it will still be ok to make contact at camps and clinics.
This is the classic "pay to play" scenario. Attend camp at XYZ University for $1000 and you MIGHT be invited to sit down with the coach afterwards. If you don't attend the camp, then you have to sit and wait until 9/1 junior year to talk to the coach directly. All the while, your club coach will have the ability to talk to coaches on your behalf, making them absolutely vital to the process (and thus able to charge exorbitant fees for their services).
Everyone "makes out" in this scenario but the players and their families.
If the college coaches truly want to limit all early recruiting, then they need to dump ALL of the loopholes, INCLUDING the ones that put money in their pockets. THEN we could all take them seriously.
Let's not forget, it was the college coaches themselves that started this whole early recruiting insanity.
[/quote

POST OF THE YEAR!!
Spot on my cynical friend.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I don't know about any of you but our verbal school is a grandslam all the way around. lacrosse or not!!! Everyone assumes that these early commits are settling. And for others I can't imagine one can go wrong with any of them. MD, NAVY, HOPKINS, UNC, MICHIGAN, PENN ST, OHIO STATE . These early recruiters are all great all around colleges. No lacrosse . No problem Enjoy your weekend haters. [/

I agree ..the kids are most likely not getting much money for lacrosse if any. Hopefully some academic. At least 2/3 of the kids won't be playing lacrosse by junior year. As long as the parents can pay for the schooling the rest will be fine. the kids are picking these schools for the education, the most they are getting academically is 25% . Don't let anyone tell you differently. They are fortunate their parents can afford it


penn st, ohio st, maryland will take anyone who applies.


But as far as the college experience it is the big time!


You need to have a 93-95 avg to get into any of those schools paying full price. For that price you get the ultimate college experience. Being an athlete is a big bonus!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think for me when my son verballed it meant several things:

1. It was a validation of all my sons hard work and effort throughout the years, not to mention the time and sacrifices he made along the way

2. It was nice to have a D1 coach, a professional at his craft tell my son that he was a very good player and a kid who the coach would love to have in his program, it wasnt Ty Xanders or some irrelevant blogger saying it.

3. I think for my son it was a huge sigh of relief that the pressure he was feeling was off and he could just go out and play and enjoy himself. For me obviously it was a huge relief knowing that my son has a spot and is going to have a great opportunity to do some pretty amazing things once he gets to school.

Those are just my thoughts, I understand that at this point until he signs his NLI it is just a verbal agreement and either side can decided that its not the right fit, although for the most part college coaches will honor their verbals. For my son at this point he is completely happy with his decision and unless a significantly better offer comes along he will be staying put. IMHO the only reasons to decommit and verbal to a different school would be a significant upgrade in the academic standing of the school, or for some kids they decide they would rather play D3 and not deal with the pressures of D1. Just my two cents and my experience with this process so far.


Validation is no reason to commit. Find right academic school that you would want to go to if there was no lacrosse. No money past college. This single end game.


never said validation was the reason he committed, I said its how we felt about it afterwards.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think for me when my son verballed it meant several things:

1. It was a validation of all my sons hard work and effort throughout the years, not to mention the time and sacrifices he made along the way

2. It was nice to have a D1 coach, a professional at his craft tell my son that he was a very good player and a kid who the coach would love to have in his program, it wasnt Ty Xanders or some irrelevant blogger saying it.

3. I think for my son it was a huge sigh of relief that the pressure he was feeling was off and he could just go out and play and enjoy himself. For me obviously it was a huge relief knowing that my son has a spot and is going to have a great opportunity to do some pretty amazing things once he gets to school.

Those are just my thoughts, I understand that at this point until he signs his NLI it is just a verbal agreement and either side can decided that its not the right fit, although for the most part college coaches will honor their verbals. For my son at this point he is completely happy with his decision and unless a significantly better offer comes along he will be staying put. IMHO the only reasons to decommit and verbal to a different school would be a significant upgrade in the academic standing of the school, or for some kids they decide they would rather play D3 and not deal with the pressures of D1. Just my two cents and my experience with this process so far.


Validation is no reason to commit. Find right academic school that you would want to go to if there was no lacrosse. No money past college. This single end game.


never said validation was the reason he committed, I said its how we felt about it afterwards.


It was number 1 on your numerical list! Lol
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.



A lot I think is pressure from other parents and kids on same team..Once one goes they all try to go. Parents have egos the size of watermelons. Bigger then the kids in most cases. I am sure a majority of the kids that commit to our academy's will switch out. 14-15 year old boys are deciding they want to serve our country after schooling. A little young to make that call unless family is already in. I think it is being used to get offers from other schools
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]Re: upcoming NCAA Early Recruiting vote for lacrosse
I find it vile that the IWLCA and IMCLA proposals want to limit phone and written contact between coaches and potential recruits, BUT it will still be ok to make contact at camps and clinics.
This is the classic "pay to play" scenario. Attend camp at XYZ University for $1000 and you MIGHT be invited to sit down with the coach afterwards. If you don't attend the camp, then you have to sit and wait until 9/1 junior year to talk to the coach directly. All the while, your club coach will have the ability to talk to coaches on your behalf, making them absolutely vital to the process (and thus able to charge exorbitant fees for their services).
Everyone "makes out" in this scenario but the players and their families.
If the college coaches truly want to limit all early recruiting, then they need to dump ALL of the loopholes, INCLUDING the ones that put money in their pockets. THEN we could all take them seriously.
Let's not forget, it was the college coaches themselves that started this whole early recruiting insanity.
[/quote

POST OF THE YEAR!!
Spot on my cynical friend.


US Lacrosse is gutless, Clubs rule the day in conjunction with college coaches. The whole process has been and remains pay to play BS!!!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!


So you aren't playing "big time" lacrosse you shouldn't bother? Kids playing D 3 need a reality check? Arrogant , ignorant statements. There are hundreds of great colleges and good fits for everyone.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I don't know about any of you but our verbal school is a grandslam all the way around. lacrosse or not!!! Everyone assumes that these early commits are settling. And for others I can't imagine one can go wrong with any of them. MD, NAVY, HOPKINS, UNC, MICHIGAN, PENN ST, OHIO STATE . These early recruiters are all great all around colleges. No lacrosse . No problem Enjoy your weekend haters. [/

I agree ..the kids are most likely not getting much money for lacrosse if any. Hopefully some academic. At least 2/3 of the kids won't be playing lacrosse by junior year. As long as the parents can pay for the schooling the rest will be fine. the kids are picking these schools for the education, the most they are getting academically is 25% . Don't let anyone tell you differently. They are fortunate their parents can afford it


Once again I think parents like to tell themselves lies to make themselves feel better especially about money. I can tell you generally speaking there may not be much money, however for the top recruits in each class money is more than readily available. It's not a one size fits all with any of this stuff.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!


So you aren't playing "big time" lacrosse you shouldn't bother? Kids playing D 3 need a reality check? Arrogant , ignorant statements. There are hundreds of great colleges and good fits for everyone.


Maybe its you who need the reality check dad. Rather then send your kid to a $60k school that no one has heard of so they play. Its not about you. Maybe your kid is better suited to go to Hopkins academically and just play on the club team. That's ok you know
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!


So you aren't playing "big time" lacrosse you shouldn't bother? Kids playing D 3 need a reality check? Arrogant , ignorant statements. There are hundreds of great colleges and good fits for everyone.


Maybe its you who need the reality check dad. Rather then send your kid to a $60k school that no one has heard of so they play. Its not about you. Maybe your kid is better suited to go to Hopkins academically and just play on the club team. That's ok you know


Absolutely. And so is playing at a small liberal arts college that is a good academic match for my kid. And 30k or 60k won't make the decision for him. Luckily we have planned for college and were not banking on athletic scholarships. It's the experience and the education. Not validating daddy for spending 50k on travel lacrosse or wearing the sweatshirt to Hopkins. Would you rather your son be the 55th player on Hopkins or play and get a great education at CT College ? You don't have to choose play lacrosse or great education. Tons of great schools at D 3 level.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!


So you aren't playing "big time" lacrosse you shouldn't bother? Kids playing D 3 need a reality check? Arrogant , ignorant statements. There are hundreds of great colleges and good fits for everyone.


Maybe its you who need the reality check dad. Rather then send your kid to a $60k school that no one has heard of so they play. Its not about you. Maybe your kid is better suited to go to Hopkins academically and just play on the club team. That's ok you know


Absolutely. And so is playing at a small liberal arts college that is a good academic match for my kid. And 30k or 60k won't make the decision for him. Luckily we have planned for college and were not banking on athletic scholarships. It's the experience and the education. Not validating daddy for spending 50k on travel lacrosse or wearing the sweatshirt to Hopkins. Would you rather your son be the 55th player on Hopkins or play and get a great education at CT College ? You don't have to choose play lacrosse or great education. Tons of great schools at D 3 level.


Not sure I would agree that $60k doesn't matter. If the $60k school gets doesn't get you in the door with companies because of zero name recognition you might want to re-think that.

Lacrosse ends. Pick the major and the school that gives you the best chance long-term. As we have all seen ANYONE can be a summer or school lacrosse coach!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!


So you aren't playing "big time" lacrosse you shouldn't bother? Kids playing D 3 need a reality check? Arrogant , ignorant statements. There are hundreds of great colleges and good fits for everyone.


Maybe its you who need the reality check dad. Rather then send your kid to a $60k school that no one has heard of so they play. Its not about you. Maybe your kid is better suited to go to Hopkins academically and just play on the club team. That's ok you know


Absolutely. And so is playing at a small liberal arts college that is a good academic match for my kid. And 30k or 60k won't make the decision for him. Luckily we have planned for college and were not banking on athletic scholarships. It's the experience and the education. Not validating daddy for spending 50k on travel lacrosse or wearing the sweatshirt to Hopkins. Would you rather your son be the 55th player on Hopkins or play and get a great education at CT College ? You don't have to choose play lacrosse or great education. Tons of great schools at D 3 level.


Not sure I would agree that $60k doesn't matter. If the $60k school gets doesn't get you in the door with companies because of zero name recognition you might want to re-think that.

Lacrosse ends. Pick the major and the school that gives you the best chance long-term. As we have all seen ANYONE can be a summer or school lacrosse coach!


There are many great academic institutions in D3. Look at the NESCAC schools like Tufts,Amhearst,Williams etc. Every school in the conference is elite academically. It is widely considered the strongest D3 conference lacrosse wise. Just like the Ivies these schools have strong alumni associations and huge endowments. They will find substantial money for your kid if they want them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Shhh, its the quiet period!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Validation for spending $30k on club teams. Lacrosse has become a game of musical chairs, grabbing an early one for fear of being out of the game. No one seems to care if that chair is the most comfortable or if it fits at all. The "validation" for parents coupled with college coaches trying to get a competitive edge on their rivals has forced our children to make huge decisions way before they ever should.
exactly lots of parents are looking at schools smaller then their current HS that no one has heard of with crazy expensive price tags just so their kids can play.

If you are playing big time lacrosse god bless but most need a reality check!


So you aren't playing "big time" lacrosse you shouldn't bother? Kids playing D 3 need a reality check? Arrogant , ignorant statements. There are hundreds of great colleges and good fits for everyone.


Maybe its you who need the reality check dad. Rather then send your kid to a $60k school that no one has heard of so they play. Its not about you. Maybe your kid is better suited to go to Hopkins academically and just play on the club team. That's ok you know


Absolutely. And so is playing at a small liberal arts college that is a good academic match for my kid. And 30k or 60k won't make the decision for him. Luckily we have planned for college and were not banking on athletic scholarships. It's the experience and the education. Not validating daddy for spending 50k on travel lacrosse or wearing the sweatshirt to Hopkins. Would you rather your son be the 55th player on Hopkins or play and get a great education at CT College ? You don't have to choose play lacrosse or great education. Tons of great schools at D 3 level.


Not sure I would agree that $60k doesn't matter. If the $60k school gets doesn't get you in the door with companies because of zero name recognition you might want to re-think that.

Lacrosse ends. Pick the major and the school that gives you the best chance long-term. As we have all seen ANYONE can be a summer or school lacrosse coach!


You are saying CT college isn't worth it? Do a little Hw!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ct college is a very good school. no one views them as a very competitive lax program
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ct college is a very good school. no one views them as a very competitive lax program


That's the whole point. You shouldn't be putting a bigger emphasis on lacrosse over education. If my son had the choice to go to a school like Ct college or an academically middle of the road but strong D1 lax school, he would be going to The better academic D3 option as long as we could afford it. A very small group of players get to choose schools that have superior academics and lax. The rest of us have to prioritize between academics, potential financial aid and then think about lacrosse and other factors that shape a decision. If anyone is letting their kid chose a school based on lacrosse they are doing them a disservice.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
parents aren't always as bright as the kid.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ct college is a very good school. no one views them as a very competitive lax program


That's the whole point. You shouldn't be putting a bigger emphasis on lacrosse over education. If my son had the choice to go to a school like Ct college or an academically middle of the road but strong D1 lax school, he would be going to The better academic D3 option as long as we could afford it. A very small group of players get to choose schools that have superior academics and lax. The rest of us have to prioritize between academics, potential financial aid and then think about lacrosse and other factors that shape a decision. If anyone is letting their kid chose a school based on lacrosse they are doing them a disservice.


Good luck trying to convince the meat heads on hear that you should turn down D1 if D3 is better fit your kid.

The meat heads just want to say their kid plays D1 even if he is #40 on the roster and they practice 6 hours a day leaving no time for school or socializing
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
(Connecticut College is not a "very" good school by any measure -- other NESCAC schools, such as Williams and Amherst, are.)

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Sorry for asking a dumb question but what is the difference between "quiet period" and "dead period" in the recruiting calendar?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
(Connecticut College is not a "very" good school by any measure -- other NESCAC schools, such as Williams and Amherst, are.)

Do yourself a favor and look up some of Conn colleges alumni. They are just as impressive as the others. Don't make the mistake of looking at the Internet rankings on sites like us news or Princeton review. Like everything else a lot of that press is bought. Peel back the onion and see what schools offer and who's contributing. Alumni contacts, location and internship opportunities can be just as important, or more than academic ranking. Those schools are certainly excellent, but there are many others just as good, or maybe better if its the right fit for your kid.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
no schools is worth 60k a year. Sorry. You wind up sitting behind a desk working for someone else bragging how much you make as your life just wastes by except for those 2 weeks of vacation. No thanks.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early


I believe you are a bit misinformed regarding Duke not recruiting early. Coach D is notorious for talking out of both sides of his mouth. On a Saturday he was talking at a lecture saying he does not recruit early and on Sunday he was committing 3 rising 9th graders and asked them to not say anything until end of Freshman year. FACT!!!!
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How do you know its a FACT? You must provide more than just posting on BOTC to claim FACT in big capital letters. So please include some references.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early


I believe you are a bit misinformed regarding Duke not recruiting early. Coach D is notorious for talking out of both sides of his mouth. On a Saturday he was talking at a lecture saying he does not recruit early and on Sunday he was committing 3 rising 9th graders and asked them to not say anything until end of Freshman year. FACT!!!!



And then. He is the first to sucker a kid to switch schools after a few months..The top schools are not one to throw stones . Sad watching kids switch schools so fast. I hope the parents didn't buy the sweatshirts fro the schools already. Lol
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Awesome. Those 3 must be pretty special players. Holdbacks no doubt. Lol sorry couldn't help myself
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early


I believe you are a bit misinformed regarding Duke not recruiting early. Coach D is notorious for talking out of both sides of his mouth. On a Saturday he was talking at a lecture saying he does not recruit early and on Sunday he was committing 3 rising 9th graders and asked them to not say anything until end of Freshman year. FACT!!!!



And then. He is the first to sucker a kid to switch schools after a few months..The top schools are not one to throw stones . Sad watching kids switch schools so fast. I hope the parents didn't buy the sweatshirts fro the schools already. Lol


Not too hard to "sucker" a kid from Rutgers to Notre Dame.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early


That kid was actually committed to Fairfield first, so he decommitted from 2 different schools. Obviously its a no brainer to commit to Notre Dame but it does show you how ER is affecting the game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early


Notre Dame yes. Duke is very early!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the over under on how many seconds it took for the Rutgers commit to say "Yes" to ND when they called to poach ... 1 second? I take the under. Plucked 3 previous commits in the 2017 class. Only a few schools can pull that off.. hence the reasons Duke and ND don't feel the need to recruit as early


under what rock do you live, both Duke and ND have been been in the early recruitment process
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Age Groups
A & B Levels For All Divisions

Birth year based
Pee Wee (05/04)
Bantam (03/02)
[lacrosse] (01/00)
HS Elite (99/98) This is from the website of USBOXLA which hold their championships this weekend in San Jose. All age based. While the two year gap wouldn't be needed because the Field Game on the East Coast has critical mass using age base for example Jan 1 2000-Dec 31 2000 would be easier than these slippery dates that US Lacrosse is attempting to do. Using Sept 1 opens up the way for interpretation. Please Lacrosse do like Hockey does! Why does USBOXLA do this probably because it is run by Canadian Matt Brown who is an AC at the Univ of Denver
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How do you know its a FACT? You must provide more than just posting on BOTC to claim FACT in big capital letters. So please include some references.


My son plays with 2 of the 3 players who committed to Duke very early.
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Duke is starting a new trend. They recruit very early and if they find better along the way they convince kids to attend prep school. And it gets a little crazier when a kid transfers in from another school. Now prep and redshirt year. But they sell Duke education and a chance at a ring.
As far as poaching goes. Look at the schools who are really early Fairfield, St Joes, Rutgers, Manhattan D1's like that have to to even get a shot at some of those kids and then when the Dukes , ND finally get around to seeing them play or trying to finalize recruiting classes they make the offer and what kid in his right mind would not think about it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can anyone provide first hand feedback regarding the amounts being offered by D1 coaches to early recruits? Thanks
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Most coaches know, they have to be around state money to get a good recruit.rule of thumb,
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Another question. If a school reaches out proactively (vs you contacting them first) and asks you to fill out a recruiting questionnaire how should you feel about their interest level in your kid?
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In state offers range from 5-10% up to 25% Out of state would be 25-50% which would be considered huge money. If you are getting 25% or more in State you are doing well. Also depends on when they grab you. If you are young and are getting anything you are way ahead of the game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Duke is starting a new trend. They recruit very early and if they find better along the way they convince kids to attend prep school. And it gets a little crazier when a kid transfers in from another school. Now prep and redshirt year. But they sell Duke education and a chance at a ring.
As far as poaching goes. Look at the schools who are really early Fairfield, St Joes, Rutgers, Manhattan D1's like that have to to even get a shot at some of those kids and then when the Dukes , ND finally get around to seeing them play or trying to finalize recruiting classes they make the offer and what kid in his right mind would not think about it.


You have no idea what you're talking about. Joe's has less 2017's than Duke or ND, and only 5 2018's, Manhattan has less. Get your facts straight.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I am talking about a private school that cost around $57,000, with athletic and academic money the cost to us was around $25,000 a year.which is close to a state school cost with room and board,
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The day a coach tells my kid to do a PG year is the day I look elsewhere.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anyone provide first hand feedback regarding the amounts being offered by D1 coaches to early recruits? Thanks


The biggest offers I have heard is a 50 percent athletic scholarship. In my sons case he was offered the 50 percent athletic and the opportunity to get the other 50 percent depending on his academics. I have never heard of a school picking up room and board so I dont think there is any such thing as a "full ride", I think its better referred to as "full tuition".
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anyone provide first hand feedback regarding the amounts being offered by D1 coaches to early recruits? Thanks


The biggest offers I have heard is a 50 percent athletic scholarship. In my sons case he was offered the 50 percent athletic and the opportunity to get the other 50 percent depending on his academics. I have never heard of a school picking up room and board so I dont think there is any such thing as a "full ride", I think its better referred to as "full tuition".


Absolutely 100 percent not true.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The day a coach tells my kid to do a PG year is the day I look elsewhere.


Yeah Im sure if the Duke, Notre Dame or one of the Ivy coaches asked you would definitely look elsewhere. Silly statement, actually doing a PG year for some kids is the right thing. Sometimes coaches dont have any money left for that year but they really want the kid, sometimes the kid is just not ready. There are some great Prep schools in the New England area that are great academically as well as athletically and can be a great experience for a kid. Most of them will provide substantial financial aid to those that need it as well. Dont rule anything out, you never know what can or will happen.
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they cannot combine athletic money with academic money.
you probably misunderstood. I suggest you call the school and ask the general question.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anyone provide first hand feedback regarding the amounts being offered by D1 coaches to early recruits? Thanks


The biggest offers I have heard is a 50 percent athletic scholarship. In my sons case he was offered the 50 percent athletic and the opportunity to get the other 50 percent depending on his academics. I have never heard of a school picking up room and board so I dont think there is any such thing as a "full ride", I think its better referred to as "full tuition".


That is true for the most part, there will always be exceptions of course. Coaches offer athletic money, any other money is not part of the lacrosse scholarship. I believe it would be rare to get more than 50% unless you are a 5 star recruit. 25% would be considered good.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anyone provide first hand feedback regarding the amounts being offered by D1 coaches to early recruits? Thanks


The biggest offers I have heard is a 50 percent athletic scholarship. In my sons case he was offered the 50 percent athletic and the opportunity to get the other 50 percent depending on his academics. I have never heard of a school picking up room and board so I dont think there is any such thing as a "full ride", I think its better referred to as "full tuition".


Absolutely 100 percent not true.


Ok what part? This was just my experience, maybe others have had different experiences, that why he asked. If your going to post your smart [lacrosse] remark, how about elaborating so people know what youre referring to. I personally have never heard of a kid getting full tuition and room and board, but that might be school specific. Please enlighten us........
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Thanks for the scholarship money feedback. My son has had two offers in the $10k-15k range for schools charging $40k+ for tuition. But, the total cost is $60k+ so $10-15k is a drop in the bucket.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Can anyone provide first hand feedback regarding the amounts being offered by D1 coaches to early recruits? Thanks


The biggest offers I have heard is a 50 percent athletic scholarship. In my sons case he was offered the 50 percent athletic and the opportunity to get the other 50 percent depending on his academics. I have never heard of a school picking up room and board so I dont think there is any such thing as a "full ride", I think its better referred to as "full tuition".


Absolutely 100 percent not true.


Ok what part? This was just my experience, maybe others have had different experiences, that why he asked. If your going to post your smart [lacrosse] remark, how about elaborating so people know what youre referring to. I personally have never heard of a kid getting full tuition and room and board, but that might be school specific. Please enlighten us........


I love how people come on here and spew nonsense about how they know x y or z to be true, and "it never happens" . Is a "full ride" common ? obviously not, does it happen for the kids at the very top of the their respective recruiting classes I'm telling you it absolutely does. Whether you choose to believe it or not is obviously up to you. Every kid, every school, is different.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The day a coach tells my kid to do a PG year is the day I look elsewhere.


If your kid has a 99 average and 2,300 SAT's, and also happens to be in the top 5 at Left Attack in his class on LI, then you probably should. If not, you had better listen to and consider all offers. Especially, when the school offers to PAY for the PG year. Yeah, pay for it.
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Every kid that goes to Naval Acadamy or West Point go on full rides, room and board included. Some additional work after college is required but overall an excellent choice.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
they cannot combine athletic money with academic money.
you probably misunderstood. I suggest you call the school and ask the general question.


Why are you saying that? My son received an offer with combined academic and athletic? His SAT scores and transcript were required, obviously if his grades drop things change.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Duke does recruit in 9th grade. Coach D just asks you to wait until the summer going into 10th although his speech is anti recruiting early. I believe he wishes he didn't have to recruit so early, but it's unfortunately part of the game now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You can receive athletic and academic money from many schools, but not from all. I believe the patriot league is athletic, academic or need base, but you can't double dip. Georgetown is the same-you can't combine scholarships. My son was offered 40% from a state school so it can be more than 25%. The US academies are great academic institutions for free, but you owe years back. The ivies are a percentage of family income and can be as low as the price of a state school depending on family income and if you have more than 1 child in college. Good luck in your process.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Academies is 5yrs after you graduate. How many boys know at 14 or 15 they want a life in the military. And your college experience is so much different. Your not going to the local bar on a Thursday night to bang back a few. Or partying in your dorm.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
steer clear of saying anything about any student that chooses an academy. Its safe to say that their choice has very little to do about lacrosse and everything to do with their service and character.

Those kids truly get it. Its a little ridiculus to even mention lacrosse as part of the decision process.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Academies is 5yrs after you graduate. How many boys know at 14 or 15 they want a life in the military. And your college experience is so much different. Your not going to the local bar on a Thursday night to bang back a few. Or partying in your dorm.


And people like you are whats wrong with this country. Those that choose the academies should be applauded for their positive contributions in the military and outside the military. Sleeping late and drinking in your dorm is whats wrong with the culture many students decide on in college.
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Thats why you have your kid talk to kids that are there now or graduated so they know what they are up against before saying yes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
steer clear of saying anything about any student that chooses an academy. Its safe to say that their choice has very little to do about lacrosse and everything to do with their service and character.

Those kids truly get it. Its a little ridiculus to even mention lacrosse as part of the decision process.


Although I completely agree that kids that choose the service academies are doing this country a great service and should be commended for their decision, I think saying that lacrosse has little to do with their decision is a tad naive and quite silly. Obviously these kids have been playing lacrosse their whole lives and want to play at the next level so obviously lacrosse played a part in the decision making process. Honestly, what do you think most of these kids would do if they were told they would not be able to play lacrosse but were permitted to still attend the academy? I think youd be surprised by their answers.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
steer clear of saying anything about any student that chooses an academy. Its safe to say that their choice has very little to do about lacrosse and everything to do with their service and character.

Those kids truly get it. Its a little ridiculus to even mention lacrosse as part of the decision process.


Although I completely agree that kids that choose the service academies are doing this country a great service and should be commended for their decision, I think saying that lacrosse has little to do with their decision is a tad naive and quite silly. Obviously these kids have been playing lacrosse their whole lives and want to play at the next level so obviously lacrosse played a part in the decision making process. Honestly, what do you think most of these kids would do if they were told they would not be able to play lacrosse but were permitted to still attend the academy? I think youd be surprised by their answers.


NONSENSE with the grades they obviously have to get in to the academies there is about 500 other D1-D3 schools the could play for if lacrosse was the driving factor. Stop talking mr trump! Say thank you to these great kids and move on
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
steer clear of saying anything about any student that chooses an academy. Its safe to say that their choice has very little to do about lacrosse and everything to do with their service and character.

Those kids truly get it. Its a little ridiculus to even mention lacrosse as part of the decision process.


Although I completely agree that kids that choose the service academies are doing this country a great service and should be commended for their decision, I think saying that lacrosse has little to do with their decision is a tad naive and quite silly. Obviously these kids have been playing lacrosse their whole lives and want to play at the next level so obviously lacrosse played a part in the decision making process. Honestly, what do you think most of these kids would do if they were told they would not be able to play lacrosse but were permitted to still attend the academy? I think youd be surprised by their answers.


NONSENSE with the grades they obviously have to get in to the academies there is about 500 other D1-D3 schools the could play for if lacrosse was the driving factor. Stop talking mr trump! Say thank you to these great kids and move on


Mom & Dad might have something to do with the decision....ZERO cost has to be a consideration.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I didnt say it was the driving factor, I said it obviously played a part in the decision making process. Reading comprehension not a strong point there Hillary? I also cleary stated in my post that any kid that chooses to go to a service academy should be commended, so relax yourself. Also I think It would be interesting to see the percentage of kids that verbal to a service academy that actually graduate and go on to serve.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Academies is 5yrs after you graduate. How many boys know at 14 or 15 they want a life in the military. And your college experience is so much different. Your not going to the local bar on a Thursday night to bang back a few. Or partying in your dorm.


Kiss your kid when he leaves for college and hope he does right thing.

Shake the hands of the academy kids and thank them for allowing your kid to do the right thing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No parent would want to make the decision for their kid to go to a academy school based on no tuition. Totally has to be The his or hers call. Now did I have a nice cigar about the cost, yes I did.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I didnt say it was the driving factor, I said it obviously played a part in the decision making process. Reading comprehension not a strong point there Hillary? I also cleary stated in my post that any kid that chooses to go to a service academy should be commended, so relax yourself. Also I think It would be interesting to see the percentage of kids that verbal to a service academy that actually graduate and go on to serve.


Folks, I went to an Academy, and it was part of my/my parents dream as I entered HS. Honestly, it was a bit of the little boy who wanted to be GI Joe and my parents brainwashing me as all good parents do.

But back then if you don't go into HS with an idea that you want that kind of life, you don't end up properly prepared with the right extra curricular activities (not all sports) and class work.

It is very tough to just decide one day when you are 17 that you are going to do it, you have to start thinking about it very early. I knew about the commitment but had no idea that it was tuition free until I was probably a Sophomore heading into Junior year and honestly was happy that it relieved a burden on my working class parents.

Now, I know that a lax player can just walk into it because the Coach will help, but I don't think that people realize how early you still have to buy into the program if you want one of the Academies as a real option.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
IMHO - too many young men are lacrosse players going to college and not college students playing lacrosse - I firmly believe (and I know a bunch of them) that these great young men are service academy students that also play lacrosse and not the other way around. I would have loved my son or daughter to have gone that route but they didn't. I have so much respect for these student soldier athletes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Takes a special kid to know/want to join the service academy as a Senior let alone as an early recruit. It goes without saying that it's a completely different college and arguably overall life experience compared to attending a non service academy university. I commend and thank all of the young men and women who have made a similar decision. God Bless America!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Well said.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I don't think I am crazy saying at least 60% of the kids and their parents are hoping that other college coaches do some poaching so they can get offers from other schools. By committing to these schools the parents and kids hope that the other schools think they must be good and should have interest in them. Besides the coaches abusing the system the kids and parents are doing the same. The worse scenario for some of these parents is that the other schools don't go after them and they might be stuck where they are or give up lacrosse all together. Unless you have family in the military I find it hard to believe 14-15 year olds know they want to serve in the Arm forces.. Let's see how many stay with their schools. I'm willing to bet I am right.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Go check out the girls HS thread - 50% of all LI lacrosse girls playing in college DON'T play by their senior year. So when you are picking a school you better be going for the right reasons and not just because some 20 something year old coach at a $60,000 D3 school that no one has ever heard of asked your kid to play.

Parents need to grow up and push their kids to schools that fit them academically and socially and if lacrosse fits great but be aware that most are going to stop playing once we all stop pushing them. 5-6 hours a day all year to sit on the bench with 40 other kids isn't fun
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You people amaze me, kids switch schools, quit lacrosse at all schools, military most likely same % of any other school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


or get cut - happens a lot
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Go check out the girls HS thread - 50% of all LI lacrosse girls playing in college DON'T play by their senior year. So when you are picking a school you better be going for the right reasons and not just because some 20 something year old coach at a $60,000 D3 school that no one has ever heard of asked your kid to play.

Parents need to grow up and push their kids to schools that fit them academically and socially and if lacrosse fits great but be aware that most are going to stop playing once we all stop pushing them. 5-6 hours a day all year to sit on the bench with 40 other kids isn't fun


once lacrosse is out of the equation you can always transfer to the better fit, many many college kids transfer that have never picked up a lacrosse stick - if you are a HS lacrosse player and want to play at the next level of course lacrosse will be a big part of your decision but not a big deal if you decide after a year or two to stop playing you can now stay or transfer
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


or get cut - happens a lot


Kids get cut at regular programs all the time. When your kid quits at a regular school its so he can drink more beer or work on an internship. When kids stop playing at a military academy its because their internship consists of driving tanks, ships and planes and learning all the systems needed to keep us safe, they don't get cut. Please stop talking about these academy kids. there are hundreds of other colleges to talk about. The kids are better and less selfless than 99.9 percent of kids (mine included).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Go check out the girls HS thread - 50% of all LI lacrosse girls playing in college DON'T play by their senior year. So when you are picking a school you better be going for the right reasons and not just because some 20 something year old coach at a $60,000 D3 school that no one has ever heard of asked your kid to play.

Parents need to grow up and push their kids to schools that fit them academically and socially and if lacrosse fits great but be aware that most are going to stop playing once we all stop pushing them. 5-6 hours a day all year to sit on the bench with 40 other kids isn't fun


once lacrosse is out of the equation you can always transfer to the better fit, many many college kids transfer that have never picked up a lacrosse stick - if you are a HS lacrosse player and want to play at the next level of course lacrosse will be a big part of your decision but not a big deal if you decide after a year or two to stop playing you can now stay or transfer


I disagree. If you need to transfer out of your lacrosse school once you stop playing then you were never at the right school for the right reason. You parents really need a reality check
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


or get cut - happens a lot


Kids get cut at regular programs all the time. When your kid quits at a regular school its so he can drink more beer or work on an internship. When kids stop playing at a military academy its because their internship consists of driving tanks, ships and planes and learning all the systems needed to keep us safe, they don't get cut. Please stop talking about these academy kids. there are hundreds of other colleges to talk about. The kids are better and less selfless than 99.9 percent of kids (mine included).


Can we please stop fellating SA students/grads, or at least take a break for a while? The whole thing is rather painful, especially for those of us who attended an academy. Take it down a notch.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What are you talking about with SA kids?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


I had a few minutes so I decided to look this up.
Navy 15 seniors 11 Freshman
Army 9 Seniors 15 Freshman
Air Force 7 Seniors 19 Freshman

I guess it depends on the Academy
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What are you talking about with SA kids?


The creepy worship of service academy students.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Many go to prep first year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


I had a few minutes so I decided to look this up.
Navy 15 seniors 11 Freshman
Army 9 Seniors 15 Freshman
Air Force 7 Seniors 19 Freshman

I guess it depends on the Academy


if navy has 15 seniors but only had 11 when they were freshman are you saying they sat out freshman year? Navy does not take transfers right?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'm new to this thread and this website and am also not that familiar with lacrosse. I was at a swim meet last night and a parent mentioned that a sophmore in their high school had already committed to play lax at Notre Dame. Is that technically possible?

I know that in the swimming world, students can't be contacted until August 1st after their junior year and I know some very outstanding students for whom this was true. One went to Georgetown, one to Emory and another to John Hopkins.

Do different sports have different recruitment timetables? I can't believe an 'about to be' junior had a legally binding committment to play at Notre Dame.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm new to this thread and this website and am also not that familiar with lacrosse. I was at a swim meet last night and a parent mentioned that a sophmore in their high school had already committed to play lax at Notre Dame. Is that technically possible?

I know that in the swimming world, students can't be contacted until August 1st after their junior year and I know some very outstanding students for whom this was true. One went to Georgetown, one to Emory and another to John Hopkins.

Do different sports have different recruitment timetables? I can't believe an 'about to be' junior had a legally binding committment to play at Notre Dame.


Go to TY Xanders website and look at his commitment center players..the list starts at 2020 to 2016.. Over 25 Kids have committed going before starting 9th grade. Lacrosse likes their commitments young!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -

But what actually happens? A 9th grader visits a D1 school and the 9th grader's parents and the college coach sign some kind of document ? Does the kid get some kind of written offer from the school ?
Thanks.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous

But what actually happens? A 9th grader visits a D1 school and the 9th grader's parents and the college coach sign some kind of document ? Does the kid get some kind of written offer from the school ?
Thanks.


no all verbal. not binding on either side. It's like going steady in middle school. I like you, you like me, maybe we'll get married someday
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


or get cut - happens a lot


Kids get cut at regular programs all the time. When your kid quits at a regular school its so he can drink more beer or work on an internship. When kids stop playing at a military academy its because their internship consists of driving tanks, ships and planes and learning all the systems needed to keep us safe, they don't get cut. Please stop talking about these academy kids. there are hundreds of other colleges to talk about. The kids are better and less selfless than 99.9 percent of kids (mine included).


I am a big fan of all the academy teams and kids but you are wrong, they do get cut
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But what actually happens? A 9th grader visits a D1 school and the 9th grader's parents and the college coach sign some kind of document ? Does the kid get some kind of written offer from the school ?
Thanks.


no all verbal. not binding on either side. It's like going steady in middle school. I like you, you like me, maybe we'll get married someday


Says the dad who's kid has no interest, you know the kid with no prom date. A verbal is a very serious commitment favoring the kid. The vast majority are honored by both sides
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous

But what actually happens? A 9th grader visits a D1 school and the 9th grader's parents and the college coach sign some kind of document ? Does the kid get some kind of written offer from the school ?
Thanks.


no all verbal. not binding on either side. It's like going steady in middle school. I like you, you like me, maybe we'll get married someday


Says the dad who's kid has no interest, you know the kid with no prom date. A verbal is a very serious commitment favoring the kid. The vast majority are honored by both sides



I think a few years ago you could say that but now it's more parents and kids abusing the system for themselves. It looks good and creates interest from other schools. To be very honest I have seen kids commit that quite frankly are no where near the top of their class. Not even close . No I am not jealous because I have completed the process. I realize they are just trying to stir the pot to get other teams to want them. They may be scrambling in the end because they are not going to get other coaches to bite . My sons future coach feels the same way. maybe he is smarter then the rest or he is missing the boat but I agree with him.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous

But what actually happens? A 9th grader visits a D1 school and the 9th grader's parents and the college coach sign some kind of document ? Does the kid get some kind of written offer from the school ?
Thanks.


no all verbal. not binding on either side. It's like going steady in middle school. I like you, you like me, maybe we'll get married someday


Says the dad who's kid has no interest, you know the kid with no prom date. A verbal is a very serious commitment favoring the kid. The vast majority are honored by both sides


Actually my kid is 4. No offers yet but it's early
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous

But what actually happens? A 9th grader visits a D1 school and the 9th grader's parents and the college coach sign some kind of document ? Does the kid get some kind of written offer from the school ?
Thanks.


no all verbal. not binding on either side. It's like going steady in middle school. I like you, you like me, maybe we'll get married someday


Says the dad who's kid has no interest, you know the kid with no prom date. A verbal is a very serious commitment favoring the kid. The vast majority are honored by both sides



I think a few years ago you could say that but now it's more parents and kids abusing the system for themselves. It looks good and creates interest from other schools. To be very honest I have seen kids commit that quite frankly are no where near the top of their class. Not even close . No I am not jealous because I have completed the process. I realize they are just trying to stir the pot to get other teams to want them. They may be scrambling in the end because they are not going to get other coaches to bite . My sons future coach feels the same way. maybe he is smarter then the rest or he is missing the boat but I agree with him.


Ok. So I heard about this HS sophomore who allegedly got a commitment with Notre Dame. Apparently he's 6'6". You would assume the coach has checked out his grades? Does the conversation go: "Ok. If you keep your HS GPA above 85 then I'll get you admitted but no promises on any $$" ?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


I had a few minutes so I decided to look this up.
Navy 15 seniors 11 Freshman
Army 9 Seniors 15 Freshman
Air Force 7 Seniors 19 Freshman

I guess it depends on the Academy


if navy has 15 seniors but only had 11 when they were freshman are you saying they sat out freshman year? Navy does not take transfers right?

No, it means that on this years team there are 15 Seniors and 11 Freshman.
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The problem is that the prize was once $$ that parents and players accepted has now the prize been lowered to accepting a verbal commitment. The college coaches are ecstatic. You get to put on social media how your star 9th grader is "committed" while the coaches are hysterically laughing that they didn't have to really offer you much. Back in the day, they fought over juniors and seniors and had to put their money where their mouths were. They had a good idea of your grades, a better idea of your growth, and they were jockeying over two grades of students in three or four hotbeds of lacrosse. Now there are many more kids nationally playing lacrosse. The college coaches don't have to travel to your high school games anymore and watch you play varsity. They can go to 3-4 tournaments walk from field to field and pick the best 9th and 10th graders (many of whom are probably a year older than most in their grade anyway- but that's another story,) The whole system stinks and won't be changed until some ACC team has their first verbal commitment from some 6-2 7th grader.
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Why even have verbal commitments? Who cares what age. Make it binding with signing. This may make both sides think twice.
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Verbals are non binding, check out how many girls recently de committed from Hofstra. And remember, students have to meet NCAA GPA requirements or risk becoming academically ineligible and not get in
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So much for quiet period when a coach blabs on twitter
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Why even have verbal commitments? Who cares what age. Make it binding with signing. This may make both sides think twice.


NCAA recruiting rules only apply to HIGH SCHOOL students. A rising 9th is NOT a HS student until he walks in the door freshman year. No recruiting rules apply. Is the picture becoming clearer now? These rules were written when Coaches were recruiting young men in HS. Not children that two years ago were playing with GI Joe's and drawing on their driveways with chalk. I don't blame any family for trying to take advantage of the best opportunity for their child, but the wheels now are clearly off the bus.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


or get cut - happens a lot


Kids get cut at regular programs all the time. When your kid quits at a regular school its so he can drink more beer or work on an internship. When kids stop playing at a military academy its because their internship consists of driving tanks, ships and planes and learning all the systems needed to keep us safe, they don't get cut. Please stop talking about these academy kids. there are hundreds of other colleges to talk about. The kids are better and less selfless than 99.9 percent of kids (mine included).


Certain academies actually have begun fairly sizable cuts. Take a look at the recruit list for the academies, one has many more recruits per year than they plan on dressing. Cuts are a fact of life at Academies.
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When does the recruiting Dead Period begin and what does that restrict? I thought it was Monday? But I was told its meaningless if you've made visits.
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You cannot make face to face visits. Calls are ok and commitments can be made.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
When does the recruiting Dead Period begin and what does that restrict? I thought it was Monday? But I was told its meaningless if you've made visits.


The dead period stsrts tomorrow. It basically restricts on site college visits and any in person contact. Email and phone calls are still permitted.
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All also have full JV squads, so a recruited kid may still be playing, but just not on Varsity squads.
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Army has no JV squad , varsity or bust.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Army has no JV squad , varsity or bust.


But they do have Army Prep. Which is for those kids they recruit late, need to boost academics or develope more athletically. It is essentially a PG program, that is free and non-binding. Kids transfer out all the time.
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Well I don't know now, but I do know with 100% certainty, Army had a JV team, and not the prep program. Personally know a kid that played ARMY and was on JV squad AFTER doing his post grad MAPS. I also attended several JV games, and no it was not the prep school. I would give exact years but to protect privacy, but was less than 6 years ago.
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No JV team at Army
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Then when you see on the schedule of the JUCO teams "ARMY B' who are they playing ???
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I don't think the academies cut recruits! It's more so a case of kids washing out in the first two years when they realize the military is not for them or they are struggling academically. They over recruit because 20% of the recruits leave within the first two years.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you look at military academy rosters, as they go from freshman to seniors numbers dramatically decrease. Usually you have less then 12 seniors on the team. So many kids quit.


or get cut - happens a lot


Kids get cut at regular programs all the time. When your kid quits at a regular school its so he can drink more beer or work on an internship. When kids stop playing at a military academy its because their internship consists of driving tanks, ships and planes and learning all the systems needed to keep us safe, they don't get cut. Please stop talking about these academy kids. there are hundreds of other colleges to talk about. The kids are better and less selfless than 99.9 percent of kids (mine included).


Certain academies actually have begun fairly sizable cuts. Take a look at the recruit list for the academies, one has many more recruits per year than they plan on dressing. Cuts are a fact of life at Academies.


Military Academies are Military first, then academics, then athletics. Some get cut, some leave to focus on academics and many leave due to military responsibility...When a young man chooses an academy, he is seeking more than a trip to the final four...
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Army B is the prep school for USMA. It is the equivalent of a Juco. Same requirements as USMA. If you don't meet academics you can go there for a year. USMAPS.
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What is up with the high % of committed 2020 kids who are either a club coach son or a son of dad who is a buddy of a club coach....and likely more coming. wth is going on with this crazy sport. So messed up in so many ways....Other D1 sports (football, basketball, baseball, etc) must look at lax and shake their heads and laugh.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is up with the high % of committed 2020 kids who are either a club coach son or a son of dad who is a buddy of a club coach....and likely more coming. wth is going on with this crazy sport. So messed up in so many ways....Other D1 sports (football, basketball, baseball, etc) must look at lax and shake their heads and laugh.

Colleges are throwing 12 darts per year and only need to get 4 or 5 on the dart board to be successful.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is up with the high % of committed 2020 kids who are either a club coach son or a son of dad who is a buddy of a club coach....and likely more coming. wth is going on with this crazy sport. So messed up in so many ways....Other D1 sports (football, basketball, baseball, etc) must look at lax and shake their heads and laugh.


I know one who is al best an average player, he isn't even one of the top players on his club. I seriously don't get it, and I can guarentee if my job rested on who I was recruiting, I would do way more research and I wouldn't be signing kids that I have only seen play once or twice. (And playing against weak opponents). I will be shocked if this kid ever sees time at his HS much less EVER steps on a college field. Time will tell
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So idiot the sports you listed that you say laugh are 100 percent full scholarship sports(not baseball)please be educated before you post. Also how many times so hear on weekend TV her mom was XXX, her dad was XXX.... let's call it 50 percent. Read GRIT...a great book.
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So idiot the sports you listed that you say laugh are 100 percent full scholarship sports(not baseball)please be educated before you post. Also how many times so hear on weekend TV her mom was XXX, her dad was XXX.... let's call it 50 percent. Read GRIT...a great book.


sp you are assuming that because their dad is a coach that they were some type of lacrosse genius? I know plenty of coaches who just coach so they can make sure their kid is the "star". Again, time will tell. I am sure that some of these early commits will have great careers, but I am just a certain that come of them will never see the field.
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Everyone of these 2020 commits is legit. How can a parent come on here and act like they know more than a D1 coach. I'm sure most of seen these kids play more than 1-2 times. That statement alone makes you look foolish. Go back to screaming from the sidelines because your son or daughter really isn't that good. Most of these kids committed have been to 3-4 individual show case events beside their team events. And unbeknownst to you have multiple schools interested in them.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is up with the high % of committed 2020 kids who are either a club coach son or a son of dad who is a buddy of a club coach....and likely more coming. wth is going on with this crazy sport. So messed up in so many ways....Other D1 sports (football, basketball, baseball, etc) must look at lax and shake their heads and laugh.


I know one who is al best an average player, he isn't even one of the top players on his club. I seriously don't get it, and I can guarentee if my job rested on who I was recruiting, I would do way more research and I wouldn't be signing kids that I have only seen play once or twice. (And playing against weak opponents). I will be shocked if this kid ever sees time at his HS much less EVER steps on a college field. Time will tell


They ought to run these kids thru combines to test their overall athleticism and not to mention their grit. I bet most cant run a sub 5.0 40 yd dash and bench more than 95 lbs. Most would probably puke or pass out if truly athletically tested. But somehow they are considered elite D1 recruits?? Seems Silly.
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A lot of these commits are 1 and 2 years older than the kids they play against. Will be interesting to see how they fair against upperclassman in HS who may also be held back 1 or 2 years. Gig is up - welcome to the real world.
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The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.


So then why hold your kids back??
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.
You're funny!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
So idiot the sports you listed that you say laugh are 100 percent full scholarship sports(not baseball)please be educated before you post. Also how many times so hear on weekend TV her mom was XXX, her dad was XXX.... let's call it 50 percent. Read GRIT...a great book.


Some punctuation would go along way here!! Had to read it 5 times to kinda understand!/;,?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.
This statement is spot on if we're talking about high school kids, (and not 8th & 9th graders playing summer middle school grade level). And these 'older early commits' should hopefully be playing Varsity level, because up here in Westchester, there is a lot of bad JV lacrosse being played. At the prep school level it is a different story of course, where a school like Brunswick Ct. can field Fresh - Varsity highly competitive teams.
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The whole system is a joke. Unfortunately, there is no getting the toothpaste back in the tube.
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I have seen a lot of these early commits from MD. The one thing they virtually all have in common (with some rare exceptions) is that they are big holdbacks who have spent most of their time playing against much smaller kids. I'd like to see their first exposure to some double holdback Sr. laying the smack down on the supposed wonder kid who has verbaled to UNC, Hopkins, MD, etc. Won't be pretty...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.
This statement is spot on if we're talking about high school kids, (and not 8th & 9th graders playing summer middle school grade level). And these 'older early commits' should hopefully be playing Varsity level, because up here in Westchester, there is a lot of bad JV lacrosse being played. At the prep school level it is a different story of course, where a school like Brunswick Ct. can field Fresh - Varsity highly competitive teams.


The Prep school world is a completely different animal. The Prep school world is filled with holdbacks and reclasses. It is conceivable in the prep school lax world that a 15 year old freshman makes varsity and will suit up against 18 and 19 year old seniors.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.


So then why hold your kids back??


The system can be fixed very easily by making club teams and tournaments age based instead of grade based. Its no secret that there are certain teams that play their teams down a grade to appear dominant. Going age based would eliminate all that and all the crying by Long Island parents. Again, on a versity team, there are kids ranging from 14-18 depending on the program, and the younger kids learn to compete at that level which makes them better.

As far as the holdbacks, people hold their kids back for many reasons. Some hold their kids back in kindergarten because they dont feel their child is ready. Some folks reclass their kids because they are late birthdays and have fallen behind academically and athletically. I would agree with anyone that holding back your kid for strictly athletic purposes is asinine, but Im sure it goes on all the time.

Concentrate on your kid and what is best for him or her and youll be fine. All the crying and whining about other kids isnt going to change anything and it detracts from what your doing and instills a sense of being a victim in your kid. If a kid is good in the classroom, is a good player, works hard and keeps his nose clean, he/she will be just fine and find a spot that fits him/her.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The whole system is a joke. Unfortunately, there is no getting the toothpaste back in the tube.



You're right, but why give up...help create a new dispenser.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.
This statement is spot on if we're talking about high school kids, (and not 8th & 9th graders playing summer middle school grade level). And these 'older early commits' should hopefully be playing Varsity level, because up here in Westchester, there is a lot of bad JV lacrosse being played. At the prep school level it is a different story of course, where a school like Brunswick Ct. can field Fresh - Varsity highly competitive teams.


The Prep school world is a completely different animal. The Prep school world is filled with holdbacks and reclasses. It is conceivable in the prep school lax world that a 15 year old freshman makes varsity and will suit up against 18 and 19 year old seniors.


Except by the time Lacrosse season comes along these Freshman will already be 16 if they are not now.
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Currently 35 2020 commits and counting ..some heldback a some on age. Look at the list of 2017 commits to the 70 D1 schools and it totals close to 700 players... 700.!! Who the fk cares about holdbacks.. As above poster points out all those rising freshman committed or not are now jokeying for a varsity spot on their high school team against 14-19 yr olds!.. "If your kid good in the classroom, is a good player, and works hard and keeps his nose clean, he/she will be just fine and find a spot that fits him/her."
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.
This statement is spot on if we're talking about high school kids, (and not 8th & 9th graders playing summer middle school grade level). And these 'older early commits' should hopefully be playing Varsity level, because up here in Westchester, there is a lot of bad JV lacrosse being played. At the prep school level it is a different story of course, where a school like Brunswick Ct. can field Fresh - Varsity highly competitive teams.


The Prep school world is a completely different animal. The Prep school world is filled with holdbacks and reclasses. It is conceivable in the prep school lax world that a 15 year old freshman makes varsity and will suit up against 18 and 19 year old seniors.


Except by the time Lacrosse season comes along these Freshman will already be 16 if they are not now.


If you're really good it doesn't matter except for cheap shots. My son is 16 yo rising Jr. Played in committed games against 19 and 20 yo rising college freshman. Broke one kids ankles on a dodge and the older kid crossed checked him in back. No big deal. He got right up and laughed at him. He says to him "is that the best you got a 20 years old?" Classic. IMHO this re-class thing is going to start to produce some real bad misses on these recruits. Most of these kids are going to get their asses handed to them when they actually have to play on age or up in college.
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Are coaches concerned about older recruits idling, not progressing, by playing down against younger competition? It can't be the preferred method of developing players
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Out of the 35 what percent are reclassed? Don't know all the kids but didn't seem like many.
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So you decry "all the whining by the LI parents", yet in the same post, you state that it is asinine to reclassify or hold back kids strictly for athletics. Sure, there are numerous reasons why parents hold back their kids from kindergarten which have nothing to do with athletics - but lets be intellectually honest here; we are on a lacrosse blog on an early recruiting thread. the people we LI parents are "whining" about are parents who reclassify or hold back their kids with the strategy that when the younger kids are just hitting puberty, their little Johnny has an obvious physical advantage over the kids he is competing against - with the hopes that he will get on coaches' radar and commit early. That's the plain truth and in my opinion is a stones-throw away from cheating. Sure they will play against older kids in HS, but most D1 early recruiting is not done at Varsity HS games (on LI) primarily because most of those kids already have their commitments in place (not to mention the seasons conflict) . And coaches know the freshman is going against a senior and really don't expect domination against an 18 year old - just grit and determination, and the ability to be athletic and hold one's own. Maybe the source of that whining is also frustration - frustration with driving on the NJTPKE for 6 hours down to watch a group of kids who have worked their assess off lose to what would otherwise be an inferior team because some kid with a 5 o'clock shadow who never comes off the field, is running over kids with 2 hairs under their arms. Just make sure little Johnny knows the physical advantage eventually diminishes to zero by college. And mommy and daddy cant pull a "reclassification" when he is going on a job interview.
This is about a physical advantage for early recruiting - plain and simple - don't put it on the LI parents.


Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The constant whining about kids being older is really getting stale already. The fact is when they get to high school they are all playing against older and younger kids, and they either sink or swim, its that simple.


So then why hold your kids back??


The system can be fixed very easily by making club teams and tournaments age based instead of grade based. Its no secret that there are certain teams that play their teams down a grade to appear dominant. Going age based would eliminate all that and all the crying by Long Island parents. Again, on a versity team, there are kids ranging from 14-18 depending on the program, and the younger kids learn to compete at that level which makes them better.

As far as the holdbacks, people hold their kids back for many reasons. Some hold their kids back in kindergarten because they dont feel their child is ready. Some folks reclass their kids because they are late birthdays and have fallen behind academically and athletically. I would agree with anyone that holding back your kid for strictly athletic purposes is asinine, but Im sure it goes on all the time.

Concentrate on your kid and what is best for him or her and youll be fine. All the crying and whining about other kids isnt going to change anything and it detracts from what your doing and instills a sense of being a victim in your kid. If a kid is good in the classroom, is a good player, works hard and keeps his nose clean, he/she will be just fine and find a spot that fits him/her.
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Why are these holdback attacks aimed at LI parents? I've been involved with club lacrosse for 8 years and MD and MA seem to have the most kids playing down. Frankly, we haven't really experienced a large number of LI kids playing down an age group. The most audacious offenders have been the Canadian clubs like Edge who register entire teams down attempting to standout. Lame all around.

I'm a Westchester/Western CT coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Why are these holdback attacks aimed at LI parents? I've been involved with club lacrosse for 8 years and MD and MA seem to have the most kids playing down. Frankly, we haven't really experienced a large number of LI kids playing down an age group. The most audacious offenders have been the Canadian clubs like Edge who register entire teams down attempting to standout. Lame all around.

I'm a Westchester/Western CT coach.


Well, Edge's strategy didn't work for the 2017 Team that played in the finals of the NLF Tournament in Stony Brook about a month ago... The LI Express 2017 Committed Team took them apart, despite Edge's overly aggressive play.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Why are these holdback attacks aimed at LI parents? I've been involved with club lacrosse for 8 years and MD and MA seem to have the most kids playing down. Frankly, we haven't really experienced a large number of LI kids playing down an age group. The most audacious offenders have been the Canadian clubs like Edge who register entire teams down attempting to standout. Lame all around.

I'm a Westchester/Western CT coach.


Hey West/Ct coach trust me, you guys have them also, remember Ny has a Dec 1st in most spot cut off.
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Well, Edge's strategy didn't work for the 2017 Team that played in the finals of the NLF Tournament in Stony Brook about a month ago... The LI Express 2017 Committed Team took them apart, despite Edge's overly aggressive play. [/quote]

I'm a LI dad. Have played Edge 2017 many times over the years. That was not their 'A' team. Their top group at it's peak, summer 14-15 were a top team in the class. They were all born in 1998.

Their top 2017's are all committed and no longer playing due to Jr.A or Jr.B box lacrosse, the World U19 tournament or travel/cost.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous


Well, Edge's strategy didn't work for the 2017 Team that played in the finals of the NLF Tournament in Stony Brook about a month ago... The LI Express 2017 Committed Team took them apart, despite Edge's overly aggressive play.


I'm a LI dad. Have played Edge 2017 many times over the years. That was not their 'A' team. Their top group at it's peak, summer 14-15 were a top team in the class. They were all born in 1998.

Their top 2017's are all committed and no longer playing due to Jr.A or Jr.B box lacrosse, the World U19 tournament or travel/cost. [/quote]

Not getting ur point...The Edge Team that showed up got thrashed in the finals... How many Edge 2017s As as you say made the Canda U19 Team?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous


Well, Edge's strategy didn't work for the 2017 Team that played in the finals of the NLF Tournament in Stony Brook about a month ago... The LI Express 2017 Committed Team took them apart, despite Edge's overly aggressive play.


I'm a LI dad. Have played Edge 2017 many times over the years. That was not their 'A' team. Their top group at it's peak, summer 14-15 were a top team in the class. They were all born in 1998.

Their top 2017's are all committed and no longer playing due to Jr.A or Jr.B box lacrosse, the World U19 tournament or travel/cost.


Not getting ur point...The Edge Team that showed up got thrashed in the finals... How many Edge 2017s As as you say made the Canda U19 Team? [/quote]

Genius, what he is saying is the the Edge team that got dismantled by the LI committed kids isn't their top players. What is so hard to understand?
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How does every thread always turn into a insulting jab or a pissing contest
How about a little decorum on the forum
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Well, Edge's strategy didn't work for the 2017 Team that played in the finals of the NLF Tournament in Stony Brook about a month ago... The LI Express 2017 Committed Team took them apart, despite Edge's overly aggressive play.


I'm a LI dad. Have played Edge 2017 many times over the years. That was not their 'A' team. Their top group at it's peak, summer 14-15 were a top team in the class. They were all born in 1998.

Their top 2017's are all committed and no longer playing due to Jr.A or Jr.B box lacrosse, the World U19 tournament or travel/cost.


Not getting ur point...The Edge Team that showed up got thrashed in the finals... How many Edge 2017s As as you say made the Canda U19 Team?


Genius, what he is saying is the the Edge team that got dismantled by the LI committed kids isn't their top players. What is so hard to understand? [/quote]

That's like saying that Kansas City won the World Series because they weren't playing the 1986 Mets.. Two teams played.. Edge lost. Btw US U19 beat Canada twice in the U19 tournament... Where were those 2017 Edge kids ?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous

I'm a LI dad. Have played Edge 2017 many times over the years.



Really???? now LI has their dad's playing against HS kids? holdbacks no longer an issue i Guess
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I have been following the early recruiting conversation for a while now and it appears to be a whole lot of sour grapes. For the record my child is born in May 2004 and is about to enter 7th grade, so he is on the young side. If there are holdbacks, he will be playing against kids MUCH older. To that I say -- c'est la vei. If he is good enough he will get recruited. If the college coaches take the time to look at his age one day down the road if recruited they will hopefully see he held his own or out performed against kids up to 2 years older. If not then it wouldn't matter anyway bc when he is in college, if he continued to play he would be playing against men and not boys anyway. Additionally, if there are approximately 70+ D1 teams with 45 kids per team then we are talking over 3000 potential spots. I am pretty sure that all of the recruits are not reclassified or holbacks thus ALOT of spots for the others. One final note, I do think it is pathetic if you hold back for sports wherein you hope to get a 20% (maybe more or less) scholarship when the reality of this is that you should only be hoping your kids get a great education and prepares for life AFTER lacrosse. I also do think you are doing your kid a disservice by having him "excel" against younger kids. Your child will know he is beating up on kids potentially 2 years younger and that is the only reason he excels. Just my two cents. Everyone may now return to their daily rants about holdbacks.
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Well said
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have been following the early recruiting conversation for a while now and it appears to be a whole lot of sour grapes. For the record my child is born in May 2004 and is about to enter 7th grade, so he is on the young side. If there are holdbacks, he will be playing against kids MUCH older. To that I say -- c'est la vei. If he is good enough he will get recruited. If the college coaches take the time to look at his age one day down the road if recruited they will hopefully see he held his own or out performed against kids up to 2 years older. If not then it wouldn't matter anyway bc when he is in college, if he continued to play he would be playing against men and not boys anyway. Additionally, if there are approximately 70+ D1 teams with 45 kids per team then we are talking over 3000 potential spots. I am pretty sure that all of the recruits are not reclassified or holbacks thus ALOT of spots for the others. One final note, I do think it is pathetic if you hold back for sports wherein you hope to get a 20% (maybe more or less) scholarship when the reality of this is that you should only be hoping your kids get a great education and prepares for life AFTER lacrosse. I also do think you are doing your kid a disservice by having him "excel" against younger kids. Your child will know he is beating up on kids potentially 2 years younger and that is the only reason he excels. Just my two cents. Everyone may now return to their daily rants about holdbacks.


I think your view will change when your son is recruited. Saying there are 3,000 spots really is not the reality. How about narrowing it down to 900 kids per recruiting class. Then realize there are only 20-30 teams that meet your kids academics requirements and majors.220-350 spots now, oh and your son plays attack and now theres 60-90 spots for your son....not 3,000.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have been following the early recruiting conversation for a while now and it appears to be a whole lot of sour grapes. For the record my child is born in May 2004 and is about to enter 7th grade, so he is on the young side. If there are holdbacks, he will be playing against kids MUCH older. To that I say -- c'est la vei. If he is good enough he will get recruited. If the college coaches take the time to look at his age one day down the road if recruited they will hopefully see he held his own or out performed against kids up to 2 years older. If not then it wouldn't matter anyway bc when he is in college, if he continued to play he would be playing against men and not boys anyway. Additionally, if there are approximately 70+ D1 teams with 45 kids per team then we are talking over 3000 potential spots. I am pretty sure that all of the recruits are not reclassified or holbacks thus ALOT of spots for the others. One final note, I do think it is pathetic if you hold back for sports wherein you hope to get a 20% (maybe more or less) scholarship when the reality of this is that you should only be hoping your kids get a great education and prepares for life AFTER lacrosse. I also do think you are doing your kid a disservice by having him "excel" against younger kids. Your child will know he is beating up on kids potentially 2 years younger and that is the only reason he excels. Just my two cents. Everyone may now return to their daily rants about holdbacks.


I think your view will change when your son is recruited. Saying there are 3,000 spots really is not the reality. How about narrowing it down to 900 kids per recruiting class. Then realize there are only 20-30 teams that meet your kids academics requirements and majors.220-350 spots now, oh and your son plays attack and now theres 60-90 spots for your son....not 3,000.


This is very true! Going through this now and finding an academic match that pairs well athletically can be a little tricky and also true for D3 schools. My sons know their academics come first and they will not settle, just to play a sport. More money in academics anyway, so grades matter.

As for spots available, those numbers are a good representation of reality and its even harder for a fogo or goalie. If your dream school commits a kid from your year, you might as well find a new dream school.

I have found it interesting and sad for many to see really talented kids not get recruited because of grades. Before my son started the recruiting process I heard that grades were a big factor, but knowing a few kids that couldn't get committed because of grades was eye opening. It's definitely worth staying on top of your kid's academics. If two kids are of equal talent, higher GPA may be a deciding factor.
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Good story about early recruiting in football - http://thelab.bleacherreport.com/the-forgotten-prodigy/
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Good story about early recruiting in football - http://thelab.bleacherreport.com/the-forgotten-prodigy/


Sounds totally crazy, this takes "crazy dad" to a whole new level. He didn't start a club team for his Grandson, he started 2 schools. Feel sorry for that kid, he obviously has been very invested in his "life" as a quarterback, it sounds like he doesn't have much else. Very sad...
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Very sad
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sounds like a lot of guys I know in the lacrosse world.
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Also pretty sad that lacrosse parents have so unanimously read over Malcolm Gladwell's "Outliers" as a bible for holding kids back the grade. Seems like very few of them read the rest of the book very carefully. One chapter talked about the low stakes / high consequences "tournament" kids enter to be street drug dealers. Most drug dealers live with their parents, and very few ever see riches at the top of the tournament results.

Lacrosse isn't as odious as drug dealing, but the principle isn't too far off. The best of what's around in this sport is a partial scholarship to a good college. And that is pretty rare to accomplish...it is also a very small fractional reward for such a life imbalance all the way through childhood. I'd love to see more kids playing club and high school lacrosse because they are enjoying it. The rewards at the end are a pretty low stakes game anyways. Parents and kids should know that.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Also pretty sad that lacrosse parents have so unanimously read over Malcolm Gladwell's "Outliers" as a bible for holding kids back the grade. Seems like very few of them read the rest of the book very carefully. One chapter talked about the low stakes / high consequences "tournament" kids enter to be street drug dealers. Most drug dealers live with their parents, and very few ever see riches at the top of the tournament results.

Lacrosse isn't as odious as drug dealing, but the principle isn't too far off. The best of what's around in this sport is a partial scholarship to a good college. And that is pretty rare to accomplish...it is also a very small fractional reward for such a life imbalance all the way through childhood. I'd love to see more kids playing club and high school lacrosse because they are enjoying it. The rewards at the end are a pretty low stakes game anyways. Parents and kids should know that.


Why is there an assumption that there is a life "imbalance"? As compared to what? Many goodlacrosse players are very well-rounded kids.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous


it is also a very small fractional reward for such a life imbalance all the way through childhood.


This sentences sums it up so perfectly. Sports clubs, tournaments, coaches, and parents have turned kids' lives upside down and around chasing a scholarship and sometimes now even that- just a chance to play at a school. These kids lives have become unbalanced and there is sure to be consequences in the end. It almost makes me think of children tv/movie stars... what happens when it's over or does not pan out? Will it be worth the craziness these kids have been put through?
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Have another Labor Day cocktail buddy... Complete gibberish..
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous


it is also a very small fractional reward for such a life imbalance all the way through childhood.


This sentences sums it up so perfectly. Sports clubs, tournaments, coaches, and parents have turned kids' lives upside down and around chasing a scholarship and sometimes now even that- just a chance to play at a school. These kids lives have become unbalanced and there is sure to be consequences in the end. It almost makes me think of children tv/movie stars... what happens when it's over or does not pan out? Will it be worth the craziness these kids have been put through?
so sick of all you jealous people. Then shut up and guide your kid in another direction, Don;t want or need your advice.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous


it is also a very small fractional reward for such a life imbalance all the way through childhood.


This sentences sums it up so perfectly. Sports clubs, tournaments, coaches, and parents have turned kids' lives upside down and around chasing a scholarship and sometimes now even that- just a chance to play at a school. These kids lives have become unbalanced and there is sure to be consequences in the end. It almost makes me think of children tv/movie stars... what happens when it's over or does not pan out? Will it be worth the craziness these kids have been put through?
so sick of all you jealous people. Then shut up and guide your kid in another direction, Don;t want or need your advice.


Whether you like it or not he or she is right. The sad reality is going to be ugly for a lot of kids in the very near future.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous


it is also a very small fractional reward for such a life imbalance all the way through childhood.


This sentences sums it up so perfectly. Sports clubs, tournaments, coaches, and parents have turned kids' lives upside down and around chasing a scholarship and sometimes now even that- just a chance to play at a school. These kids lives have become unbalanced and there is sure to be consequences in the end. It almost makes me think of children tv/movie stars... what happens when it's over or does not pan out? Will it be worth the craziness these kids have been put through?
so sick of all you jealous people. Then shut up and guide your kid in another direction, Don;t want or need your advice.


Very similar to some of the "articles" on how the kids reacted to those over involved parents. I get the crazies are out there but no child ever wrote these aritlcles or papers on how mom or dad ruined their life by pushing them to do my best on and off the field. What, by being brutally honest at times, that hey you want to play you have to work harder, what youre giving isnt enough effort.

You want to have fun okay great but you can do that without me paying thousands of dollars. You wanted to try out and be on a top team well sweetie or buddy boy you constantly need to prove yourself and get better.

You want to be on a HS team amd play, then you need to work at it, you want to play college you need to work at it and sacrifice. It's not easy and it doesn't just happen. In fact it may never happen.

But at the end of the day, the buck stops here and no-one can tell me what to do with or for my kid.

Just as i cant stop him from having fun when he wants to and it is appropriate.
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I dont know what any of you people are talking about. My son is a completely well adjusted, happy teenager who loves to play lacrosse and is extremely proud of the fact he committed to play college lacrosse and that he got a good sum of money to do it. His hard work and sacrifice paid off and it something he can be proud of the rest of his life. I dont where the "life imbalance" comes in. Furthermore there are lot worse things that he could be doing on summer weekends than playing lacrosse and hanging with his teammates. I understand not every kid will commit and get a scholarship but for the most part whether its D1, D2 or D3 the sport has room for most kids who would like to play at the next level.
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A bunch of underachieving parents who embrace the " participation trophy" millennial era.. f that. My kid has been team captain on 3 diff sports, class president, straight A and committed and ready to compete for a spot on his varsity team. Go back to pampering your little jonnys. No place for it in my world. Signed parent of a "maybe held back and maybe not because anybody who matters doesn't give a rats arse".
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
A bunch of underachieving parents who embrace the " participation trophy" millennial era.. f that. My kid has been team captain on 3 diff sports, class president, straight A and committed and ready to compete for a spot on his varsity team. Go back to pampering your little jonnys. No place for it in my world. Signed parent of a "maybe held back and maybe not because anybody who matters doesn't give a rats arse".



Yeah sure....
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If you hold your kid back for a sport that ends after college except for a beer money league then the nanny state should take your kid away from you.

And if your lifelong dream is to send your kid to college where he will spend 6 hours a day on lacrosse while taking a major that the coach picks I wish you well.

Our path is academics and a pick of the major first and if lacrosse helps or fits then all the better.

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And I'm sure he's your best friend. Get a life of your own.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you hold your kid back for a sport that ends after college except for a beer money league then the nanny state should take your kid away from you.

And if your lifelong dream is to send your kid to college where he will spend 6 hours a day on lacrosse while taking a major that the coach picks I wish you well.

Our path is academics and a pick of the major first and if lacrosse helps or fits then all the better.



Amen
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Well said. Not all dads have their heads on straight. Too bad for their son.
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Once again. The dad who has zero comeback for the kids who are commiting to top academic schools including the Ivy leagues. . You guys are morons. Do you think we as parents don't realize the same end game as you. It's all about academics and the alumni network that comes along with the university and the sport. Difference is we have already used Lacrosse to get into a top school and unless your son has a 4.4 weighted GPA and 1350+ he won't be sitting next to players who have selected top universities. Good news there is still time to plan all your vacation time this fall and next summer around the showcases chasing the dream we have already realized.
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Gotta be Crabs, Looney's or FCA parent - no one else would write such a thing...
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Dream ? Succes or emotional stability? One mans blessing is another's poison. Let's wait for the end game . Which kids will lead happy life's. Time will tell.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Once again. The dad who has zero comeback for the kids who are commiting to top academic schools including the Ivy leagues. . You guys are morons. Do you think we as parents don't realize the same end game as you. It's all about academics and the alumni network that comes along with the university and the sport. Difference is we have already used Lacrosse to get into a top school and unless your son has a 4.4 weighted GPA and 1350+ he won't be sitting next to players who have selected top universities. Good news there is still time to plan all your vacation time this fall and next summer around the showcases chasing the dream we have already realized.



wow. you are the best. when you say "we", did you get in to the school too?
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How many athletes were thrown out of Harvard for cheating a few years ago?
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What is the percentage of lacrosse players on drugs We know it is a reality. Over 50% probably. No longer a culture of lets go get a beer.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Once again. The dad who has zero comeback for the kids who are commiting to top academic schools including the Ivy leagues. . You guys are morons. Do you think we as parents don't realize the same end game as you. It's all about academics and the alumni network that comes along with the university and the sport. Difference is we have already used Lacrosse to get into a top school and unless your son has a 4.4 weighted GPA and 1350+ he won't be sitting next to players who have selected top universities. Good news there is still time to plan all your vacation time this fall and next summer around the showcases chasing the dream we have already realized.


This may be the most accurate post regarding this early recruiting quagmire. When both the player and parents realize that this sport can be used as a stepping stone to a great academic institution(read IVY's and the like); then the common goal is understood and the steps needed to achieve this goal can be mapped out. The fact that there are limited spots at these elite schools does prompt one to consider entering into the early recruitment process if the player is uniquely qualified. Clearly this is not a choice easily made and is not for every student athlete. For those that display the appropriate level of maturity and a sense of academic direction; the parent can help them make the best choice. It should be made well aware to the athlete that his choices may change as he gets older or his interests in the sport or academics may also change and that this is OK. Pressure is the last thing a kid in this position needs. Once the decision is made to early commit; it behooves the parent to keep the player "between the lines" as indicated. If the process of playing towards this goal is not fun or too much self imposed pressure is detected; then a reassessment of the choice should be considered.

No one said it would be easy. but it can be very interesting and fulfilling.
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Exactly your dream. Living through your son because you shoulda woulda coulda type of guy. Probably never saw an athletic field.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Once again. The dad who has zero comeback for the kids who are commiting to top academic schools including the Ivy leagues. . You guys are morons. Do you think we as parents don't realize the same end game as you. It's all about academics and the alumni network that comes along with the university and the sport. Difference is we have already used Lacrosse to get into a top school and unless your son has a 4.4 weighted GPA and 1350+ he won't be sitting next to players who have selected top universities. Good news there is still time to plan all your vacation time this fall and next summer around the showcases chasing the dream we have already realized.


Please stop. You make it sound like every kid that plays travel lacrosse is actually a good player. We all know that if any of write a check our kids can find a team. You also make t sound like most kids go to IVY and top Lax schools which isn't the case. There is no doubt that some players are gifted with brains and lax ability but most everyone else are just good players and good students but those parents keep talking like their kid is going to play at Yale. Give me a break. Most good kids with be playing a D3 Suny schedule
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The responses to what I also believe was a very accurate post are comical. Now early commits are drug users and cheaters... Lololllolololololooloo. You simple minded clowns continually entertain the rest of us..
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go look at the girls threads. teams with 80% of the roster in a major no one has ever heard of. Coaches push these kids into majors they can manipulate so they can play lacrosse 30 or more hours a week. engineers, architects and medicine majors they are not
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the percentage of lacrosse players on drugs We know it is a reality. Over 50% probably. No longer a culture of lets go get a beer.


UVA goalie got caught with coke in Ocean City MD this summer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the percentage of lacrosse players on drugs We know it is a reality. Over 50% probably. No longer a culture of lets go get a beer.


UVA goalie got caught with coke in Ocean City MD this summer.

Did he commit in 8th grade?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is the percentage of lacrosse players on drugs We know it is a reality. Over 50% probably. No longer a culture of lets go get a beer.


UVA goalie got caught with coke in Ocean City MD this summer.


Yea. Game has changed. We just drank beer in the 80s. No coke, weed, shrooms, ecstasy, acid. But the guys from the 70s - complete degenerates.
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What is status of NCAA and early recruiting. Are they voting anytime soon on the proposal to start recruiting JR year??
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No criticism. Just a reality of the culture . A lot of experts , athletes and parents have talked about all the negative effects from all the stress that kids have to deal with in this hyper conpetitive culture. . Robbing a person of there childhood has no negative effects ?
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So the UVA goalie got caught with drugs. By your own admission of these horrible young men you need to get YOUR kid out of this poisonous environment of wanton drugs and lacrosse. You only have a 50-50 chance of saving your young prince. Get him out of lacrosse and into ballet asap!! Good luck
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is status of NCAA and early recruiting. Are they voting anytime soon on the proposal to start recruiting JR year??


Will never happen. It is not a rule for one sport. Other sports like football and basketball will never support. And those sports make colleges money!!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
go look at the girls threads. teams with 80% of the roster in a major no one has ever heard of. Coaches push these kids into majors they can manipulate so they can play lacrosse 30 or more hours a week. engineers, architects and medicine majors they are not


keep spreading the Vanderbilt nonsense over hear I see? The major referred to there is the largest (2000 students) and one of the "best" areas of study at Vandy. Some parents are clearly jealous of of other people's daughters. Why deal with facts when you can just sling arrows. Why are so many lax parents such losers? Yeah Vanderbilt's a terrible school, right?
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The question has always been what's more impactful a basic degree from a great school or a great major at a weaker school.

I just don't think kids should have to change a major for a school to be interested. If you want to be an engineer, don't let anyone talk you out of it
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[quote=Anonymous]The question has always been what's more impactful a basic degree from a great school or a great major at a weaker school.

I just don't think kids should have to change a major for a school to be interested. If you want to be an engineer, don't let anyone talk you out of it[/quote

Totally agree. And yet it is the vast minority of all kids that want to be engineers or Dr's or architects. Not just lax players. So attributing the choice of a major to the manipulation of the coach (not saying it doesn't happen, just not at the rate stated here) is often misplaced. And there seems to be no acknowledgement that some great lax schools have kids taking engineering and pre-med etc.
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Studs usually get their pick of the major. Lots of lower roster kids are coaxed into communications one of the easiest and lowest return on investment degrees
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
go look at the girls threads. teams with 80% of the roster in a major no one has ever heard of. Coaches push these kids into majors they can manipulate so they can play lacrosse 30 or more hours a week. engineers, architects and medicine majors they are not


They are in D3!!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
go look at the girls threads. teams with 80% of the roster in a major no one has ever heard of. Coaches push these kids into majors they can manipulate so they can play lacrosse 30 or more hours a week. engineers, architects and medicine majors they are not


They are in D3!!


They are in D1 too!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
go look at the girls threads. teams with 80% of the roster in a major no one has ever heard of. Coaches push these kids into majors they can manipulate so they can play lacrosse 30 or more hours a week. engineers, architects and medicine majors they are not


They are in D3!!


They are in D1 too!


My daughter is an engineering major at SB. After reading this I asked her if there are any other engineering majors and she said there are three other women as well. The other majors I do not know but makes for an interesting conversation. Are kids going to play lacrosse or go to college and how many provide both.
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UNC, the national woman champs where kids off the street must have an average SAT score of 1300 (re: college board) and here are is the teams majors-

12 excercise science, 11 undeclared, 10 communications, 1, history, 1 psych, 1 sociology, 1 geography, 1 economics, 1 nursing

Great degree from a great school but it looks like they are there to major in lacrosse and win a national championship which they did.

Anyone that thinks lots of schools don't steer recruits to certain majors is fooling themselves. Thos degrees above look like community college, not UNC kids!
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you are beyond an a-hole. dismissing those sort of degrees.



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the professions that absolutely depend on a specific degree would of course include engineering, accounting (CPA), and obviously medicine.
if you contend that business degree is essential...you are over emphasizing that. look at virtually any aspect of business including wall street. majority of the entry level jobs have no college prep for real job. you leverage connections and relationships to attain a shot. perhaps a person who can write is more qualified for certain business jobs, international studies well rounded in world knowledge and so forth. these are also usefull tools in the business world.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are beyond an a-hole. dismissing those sort of degrees.





Sounds like you have your head in the sand. I think the argument is what's better longterm a basic degree from a great school or a stronger more specialized degree from a lesser school. I would say as long as the PLAYER picks his or her major then its great. If you were going for communications at either a community college or UNC then you hit the jackpot at UNC however if you wanted to be an engineer and got talked into a different major just so you could play well that can be argued. You cant argue that the teams majors are reflective of the overall UNC population the team majors are skewed but maybe that's just a coincidence !
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I played at Cornell and you were highly advised of the challenges to playing a D1 sport and pursuing an Engineering degree. There were 3 Engineers 0 Architechts on the team...
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It is well known that at Duke and UNC; players are guided away from classes that require labs in addition to classroom. This in itself will take many out of the possibility of science based majors

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are beyond an a-hole. dismissing those sort of degrees.





Sounds like you have your head in the sand. I think the argument is what's better longterm a basic degree from a great school or a stronger more specialized degree from a lesser school. I would say as long as the PLAYER picks his or her major then its great. If you were going for communications at either a community college or UNC then you hit the jackpot at UNC however if you wanted to be an engineer and got talked into a different major just so you could play well that can be argued. You cant argue that the teams majors are reflective of the overall UNC population the team majors are skewed but maybe that's just a coincidence !
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played at Cornell and you were highly advised of the challenges to playing a D1 sport and pursuing an Engineering degree. There were 3 Engineers 0 Architechts on the team...


THANK YOU, that's all we were saying embrace that this happens because it does. PS GREAT SCHOOL, congrats
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played at Cornell and you were highly advised of the challenges to playing a D1 sport and pursuing an Engineering degree. There were 3 Engineers 0 Architechts on the team...

The majority of the lacrosse players at Cornell are admitted through the Agriculture school.
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The make up of the team when i played generally reflected the makeup of the university as a whole in terms of per capita representation of the various colleges at Cornell (there are seven colleges with their own admissions) with the exception of Architecture. I was encouraged to apply early to the ag school but I wanted Arts. Coach didn't seem as comfortable with that--perhaps based on admission leeway granted--but I was accepted to Arts. Great experience there. Name helps on resume with first job and at parties, but ultimately you take out of college what you put into it--any college.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played at Cornell and you were highly advised of the challenges to playing a D1 sport and pursuing an Engineering degree. There were 3 Engineers 0 Architechts on the team...

The majority of the lacrosse players at Cornell are admitted through the Agriculture school.


As per college board, the biggest major at Cornell is Engineering for the general population
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC, the national woman champs where kids off the street must have an average SAT score of 1300 (re: college board) and here are is the teams majors-

12 excercise science, 11 undeclared, 10 communications, 1, history, 1 psych, 1 sociology, 1 geography, 1 economics, 1 nursing

Great degree from a great school but it looks like they are there to major in lacrosse and win a national championship which they did.

Anyone that thinks lots of schools don't steer recruits to certain majors is fooling themselves. Thos degrees above look like community college, not UNC kids!


So WHAT?? That is their choice! Not everyone wants to be a Dr., Lawyer etc.. Worry about what your kid is doing. The kids at UNC and kids like that will be just fine. They have all worked hard and know what it takes to be successful. Don't be surprised if your ultra smart kid with no social skills ends up working for one of those kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played at Cornell and you were highly advised of the challenges to playing a D1 sport and pursuing an Engineering degree. There were 3 Engineers 0 Architechts on the team...


Many schools restrict majors (nursing for one) but that's just because of the conflicts with labs, they just don't have the time to do both. I was told this first hand at a few schools we visited.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
UNC, the national woman champs where kids off the street must have an average SAT score of 1300 (re: college board) and here are is the teams majors-

12 excercise science, 11 undeclared, 10 communications, 1, history, 1 psych, 1 sociology, 1 geography, 1 economics, 1 nursing

Great degree from a great school but it looks like they are there to major in lacrosse and win a national championship which they did.

Anyone that thinks lots of schools don't steer recruits to certain majors is fooling themselves. Thos degrees above look like community college, not UNC kids!


So WHAT?? That is their choice! Not everyone wants to be a Dr., Lawyer etc.. Worry about what your kid is doing. The kids at UNC and kids like that will be just fine. They have all worked hard and know what it takes to be successful. Don't be surprised if your ultra smart kid with no social skills ends up working for one of those kids.


Again the point is lost - for 1st time parents just be aware that many schools and coaches politely steer kids into certain programs and away from others. Not saying that is a bad thing but it is a fact and does happen. Be prepared
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Has anyone heard if the initiative to delay commits until 11th grade has been approved or is dead or when it would take effect?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Has anyone heard if the initiative to delay commits until 11th grade has been approved or is dead or when it would take effect?


At this time Tentative for August 2017.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Has anyone heard if the initiative to delay commits until 11th grade has been approved or is dead or when it would take effect?


At this time Tentative for August 2017.


so next 11 months will be nuts with people trying to get in early under the old rules?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
there is no agreement in place
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Has anyone heard if the initiative to delay commits until 11th grade has been approved or is dead or when it would take effect?


At this time Tentative for August 2017.


It's not tentative because it has not been accepted, nor will it. No way other NCAA sports will agree to that.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Has anyone heard if the initiative to delay commits until 11th grade has been approved or is dead or when it would take effect?


At this time Tentative for August 2017.


It's not tentative because it has not been accepted, nor will it. No way other NCAA sports will agree to that.
The other sports don't have to agree to it. However, agree from what I have heard from some of the coaches involved in the initiative, it is doubtful that it will pass.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The topic will be voted on April 1st 2017. If passes it will begin Aug 1st 2017.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The topic will be voted on April 1st 2017. If passes it will begin Aug 1st 2017.


It would be an enforcement nightmare. And why would the NCAA want to deal with that?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The topic will be voted on April 1st 2017. If passes it will begin Aug 1st 2017.


It would be an enforcement nightmare. And why would the NCAA want to deal with that?


Because signing 12 years is beyond insane
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The topic will be voted on April 1st 2017. If passes it will begin Aug 1st 2017.


It would be an enforcement nightmare. And why would the NCAA want to deal with that?


Because signing 12 years is beyond insane


nobody signs anything. These are verbal agreements that aren't binding on either party.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The topic will be voted on April 1st 2017. If passes it will begin Aug 1st 2017.


It would be an enforcement nightmare. And why would the NCAA want to deal with that?


Because signing 12 years is beyond insane


nobody signs anything. These are verbal agreements that aren't binding on either party.


Even if there was a contract, kid < 18 signs it's not enforceable. So the only ones impacted if this does go thru would be all those 19 year old sophomores in Maryland.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Verbals always stand otherwise coaches wouldn't be trusted
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Verbals always stand otherwise coaches wouldn't be trusted


Yup. The power is all w the kids and their families. So don't worry about it being too young or whatever. If you think it is for your kid, just wait. It's all ok.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


I wouldn't pay anywhere near those amounts. Ask a local highschool kid and he'll be happy to do it for $20/hr session. My son works with a current d1 player during the summer and a senior that is committed to a d1 school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


I wouldn't pay anywhere near those amounts. Ask a local highschool kid and he'll be happy to do it for $20/hr session. My son works with a current d1 player during the summer and a senior that is committed to a d1 school.


The better HS kids are getting at least 40, and they're booked! You get what you pay for!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80

You actually referred to your kid as elite?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


I wouldn't pay anywhere near those amounts. Ask a local highschool kid and he'll be happy to do it for $20/hr session. My son works with a current d1 player during the summer and a senior that is committed to a d1 school.


The better HS kids are getting at least 40, and they're booked! You get what you pay for!


Surely you're joking. OP, don't get caught up in the hustle. A fool and his money are easily parted.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


I wouldn't pay anywhere near those amounts. Ask a local highschool kid and he'll be happy to do it for $20/hr session. My son works with a current d1 player during the summer and a senior that is committed to a d1 school.


The better HS kids are getting at least 40, and they're booked! You get what you pay for!


Surely you're joking. OP, don't get caught up in the hustle. A fool and his money are easily parted.


I'd pay $80 to a D1/Pro before MC of Express who has the audacity to charge $100!

But the trained high school junior or senior for less than $50 is probably a better bet.

Best of all – watch a few videos of the pros online together, then work with your son in the backyard! Just make it fun quality time.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
There was a guy in PA that use to charge $120/HR and have 8 kids at the session. Shaking my head now. One group would leave and another would be coming in. And he never went and hour and 5 minutes, used the last 5 minutes to fetch balls. He's not out in California probably doing the same.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
GET AN SAT TUTOR, now that is money well spent! We've been there, trust me nobody cares about lacrosse except their club directors and mom and dad!!!! Higher SAT scores brings in tons of cash
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Send your kid to camp. If he wants it enough he will play every day on the bounce back. Unless he's a foo keep your $$
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80

You actually referred to your kid as elite?


2x All American, yes elite. And worked damn hard to get there! Has plenty to offer and worth what he charges!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80

You actually referred to your kid as elite?


2x All American, yes elite. And worked damn hard to get there! Has plenty to offer and worth what he charges!


So you are saying your son was an all American as a HS sophomore and junior ??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80

You actually referred to your kid as elite?


2x All American, yes elite. And worked damn hard to get there! Has plenty to offer and worth what he charges!


So you are saying your son was an all American as a HS sophomore and junior ??


No, as a Jr. And Sr. He's in college now. Why are you so argumentative? I'm just giving some realistic input. This is the amount of money he and a few of his friends who are great players get for private training. And FYI, this is the amount we paid when he was younger.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80

You actually referred to your kid as elite?


2x All American, yes elite. And worked damn hard to get there! Has plenty to offer and worth what he charges!


So you are saying your son was an all American as a HS sophomore and junior ??


No, as a Jr. And Sr. He's in college now. Why are you so argumentative? I'm just giving some realistic input. This is the amount of money he and a few of his friends who are great players get for private training. And FYI, this is the amount we paid when he was younger.

Because you are an arrogant tool.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Just saw where IWCLA is changing field locations for Presidents cup in LarryMiller. The 2019 staying at Disney and Open teams going half way to Tampa on Friday night. So let me get this right the same leaders/authors against early recruiting(the board of IWCLA) are changing the schedule so they don't have to drive on Friday night. And let's not forgot they change the recruiting schedule so they could recruit Friday-this is to be a dead period. Oh yes I forgot to the poor kids in Open and 2017 division-don't commit early-this type of action suggest something very different.

An we are to expect are kids to learn from these coaches? Actions are much louder than your words. IWCLA is a joke. No wonder why NCAA has yet pass your proposals.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
GET AN SAT TUTOR, now that is money well spent! We've been there, trust me nobody cares about lacrosse except their club directors and mom and dad!!!! Higher SAT scores brings in tons of cash
This is probably the most intelligent suggestion I've seen on this site. (And ironically have also heard similar from college coaches when it came to the amount of scholarship money they could get for a player)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
GET AN SAT TUTOR, now that is money well spent! We've been there, trust me nobody cares about lacrosse except their club directors and mom and dad!!!! Higher SAT scores brings in tons of cash
This is probably the most intelligent suggestion I've seen on this site. (And ironically have also heard similar from college coaches when it came to the amount of scholarship money they could get for a player)


$100 to get the grades up or $75 an hour to throw a ball around or better yet off a wall LOL. Unfortuntly the vast majority will choose the personal training
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Keep in mind that no matter who you hire to provide lessons, you had better be very, very good to start off if the college level is your goal. Otherwise , its really money better spent on SAT tutors. if the student/player is ,say, 9-10 yrs old and still just learning technique you can hire a h.s. experienced kid to teach or work on basics. And....hit the wall!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Any trainer that is honest with you will tell you they are stealing money. They will also tell you they love pairs so they don't have to do as much work because the kids can work together. When they don't pair up I see the trainers in my town watching kids throw a ball off a wall. But I guess if a D1 player watches your kid play catch its worth it! What a joke! Get a tutor
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
In my town the assistant varsity coach used to give private lessons to middle schoolers ,then coached them on town travel team....but then that blew up, but not before the culture of the h.s. team was damaged badly
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Any experienced/knowledgeable college player is between $60-$80 an hour.
Top tier D1, MLL or Coach are usually $100 an hour.
D1 coaches are $200 an hour.

As one post stated make sure you do an individual lesson so your kid gets as many touches as possible. A good Coach will finish the lesson no matter how long it goes over the 1 hour without charging you any additional money.

Lastly, MC has told us numerous times grades, grades, grades is most important so spending money on tutoring is a fantastic idea.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Goalie and Fogo trainers are getting 50 an hour for large group setting. You are better off organizing a smaller group with an experienced HS senior or college player. Some of these guys are walking away with thousands a session for selling a dream and blowing a whistle!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
[quote=Anonymous]Any experienced/knowledgeable college player is between $60-$80 an hour.
Top tier D1, MLL or Coach are usually $100 an hour.
D1 coaches are $200 an hour.

As one post stated make sure you do an individual lesson so your kid gets as many touches as possible. A good Coach will finish the lesson no matter how long it goes over the 1 hour without charging you any additional money.

Lastly, MC has told us numerous times grades, grades, grades is most important so spending money on tutoring is a fantastic idea. [/quote


Why would a college coach do anything but give lessons . They could make over 150k cash. A year not bad. Get real . No one is paying that much unless you really are stupid or money means nothing and you make over 1 mill a year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Trainers are stealing money and the idiots keep paying. Lots of people go to work with fancy clothes for $20-$25 an hour yet my college age kid fleeces PAL kids with limited talent $75 and hour to throw off the back wall of our schools gym

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
quite a kid you are raising there.
you must be proud. not everyone has the backing from dad to take advantage of people.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
200/hour times 40 hour work week = 8,000.00 per week x 52 weeks =$416,000.00 mostly cash non-taxable income.... lol Hope you guys aren't paying that much w/o some accountability on the coaches part.... Hey I have some anti aging cream it will take 20 years off!! It just costs $500.00 per jar and you need a 6 jar minimum!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Yes, if a kid can't handle a 1 hour lesson, he's NOT in shape. As far as the fees: You do realize some people train kids to make money? Why would they charge $100 for one kid, and free for the other? Oh, because YOU want it for half price? I think I get it. So, 2 kids still $100. How about 3 or 4 still $100? Maybe a whole team? All for $100? Next time you hire a baby sitter, invite the neighbors kids too. In fact, invite all the kids on the block. Maybe you could get the girl's baby sitting fee down to 50 cents a kid per hour.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
200/hour times 40 hour work week = 8,000.00 per week x 52 weeks =$416,000.00 mostly cash non-taxable income.... lol Hope you guys aren't paying that much w/o some accountability on the coaches part.... Hey I have some anti aging cream it will take 20 years off!! It just costs $500.00 per jar and you need a 6 jar minimum!!!


flawed logic but I assume you wrote this in jest, generally an hour lesson takes an hour and a half to two hours between driving to the field, set up, wait for kid to show up, lessons always run long, collect stuff, BS with parent and tell them how great the kid is progressing and driving home. so now your 40 hour work week is only generating 20 billable hours and who can live on $200,000 these days.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
quite a kid you are raising there.
you must be proud. not everyone has the backing from dad to take advantage of people.


My kid is cheap vs the other posts on here. And what the [lacrosse] do you think the lax directors do to you? You gladly pay them and all the other snake oil they sell
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Any experienced/knowledgeable college player is between $60-$80 an hour.
Top tier D1, MLL or Coach are usually $100 an hour.
D1 coaches are $200 an hour.

As one post stated make sure you do an individual lesson so your kid gets as many touches as possible. A good Coach will finish the lesson no matter how long it goes over the 1 hour without charging you any additional money.

Lastly, MC has told us numerous times grades, grades, grades is most important so spending money on tutoring is a fantastic idea.


I have friends still in the MLL who would be pretty terrible at teaching kids, and friends who played D3 once upon a time who'd actually give them your money's worth.

Paying a premium to a coach/trainer based solely on pedigree is the height of stupidity.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Yes, if a kid can't handle a 1 hour lesson, he's NOT in shape. As far as the fees: You do realize some people train kids to make money? Why would they charge $100 for one kid, and free for the other? Oh, because YOU want it for half price? I think I get it. So, 2 kids still $100. How about 3 or 4 still $100? Maybe a whole team? All for $100? Next time you hire a baby sitter, invite the neighbors kids too. In fact, invite all the kids on the block. Maybe you could get the girl's baby sitting fee down to 50 cents a kid per hour.


Relax there Francis, its throwing a ball around and sometimes bouncing it off a wall. A nurse and a nypd officer make about $40 an hour. See the insanity in paying someone to play catch with your kid for $100 an hour? You can do it but don't ever try and justify it. Parents are nuts and most trainers are robbing
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Yes, if a kid can't handle a 1 hour lesson, he's NOT in shape. As far as the fees: You do realize some people train kids to make money? Why would they charge $100 for one kid, and free for the other? Oh, because YOU want it for half price? I think I get it. So, 2 kids still $100. How about 3 or 4 still $100? Maybe a whole team? All for $100? Next time you hire a baby sitter, invite the neighbors kids too. In fact, invite all the kids on the block. Maybe you could get the girl's baby sitting fee down to 50 cents a kid per hour.


Relax there Francis, its throwing a ball around and sometimes bouncing it off a wall. A nurse and a nypd officer make about $40 an hour. See the insanity in paying someone to play catch with your kid for $100 an hour? You can do it but don't ever try and justify it. Parents are nuts and most trainers are robbing


Nothing to justify. You spend your money the way you want. I'll do the same. Clearly you have a problem with people earning what a market will bare. If you don't want to pay for a trainer or private lessons, don't. By the way, a cop works for 20 years, retires, and then gets paid for another 40 or 50 more years to do a whole lot of nothing, along with health benefits for life. Turns that $40 an hour into about $500 an hour in deferred income. Pretty good gig, I'd say. Oh, the 80's movie reference is really lame.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Yes, if a kid can't handle a 1 hour lesson, he's NOT in shape. As far as the fees: You do realize some people train kids to make money? Why would they charge $100 for one kid, and free for the other? Oh, because YOU want it for half price? I think I get it. So, 2 kids still $100. How about 3 or 4 still $100? Maybe a whole team? All for $100? Next time you hire a baby sitter, invite the neighbors kids too. In fact, invite all the kids on the block. Maybe you could get the girl's baby sitting fee down to 50 cents a kid per hour.


Relax there Francis, its throwing a ball around and sometimes bouncing it off a wall. A nurse and a nypd officer make about $40 an hour. See the insanity in paying someone to play catch with your kid for $100 an hour? You can do it but don't ever try and justify it. Parents are nuts and most trainers are robbing


Nothing to justify. You spend your money the way you want. I'll do the same. Clearly you have a problem with people earning what a market will bare. If you don't want to pay for a trainer or private lessons, don't. By the way, a cop works for 20 years, retires, and then gets paid for another 40 or 50 more years to do a whole lot of nothing, along with health benefits for life. Turns that $40 an hour into about $500 an hour in deferred income. Pretty good gig, I'd say. Oh, the 80's movie reference is really lame.


So now police officers make 20k a week in pension or 1 mill a year . Great gig. No one should be paying $100 an hour for lessons. That's common sense for most . More important is to take what you learned at lessons and charge half to the next person teaching the same thing. Let's not make it rocket science here. Look at YouTube it's the same drills there. Hate to burst your bubble . I will post the links when I get the chance.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...




I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Yes, if a kid can't handle a 1 hour lesson, he's NOT in shape. As far as the fees: You do realize some people train kids to make money? Why would they charge $100 for one kid, and free for the other? Oh, because YOU want it for half price? I think I get it. So, 2 kids still $100. How about 3 or 4 still $100? Maybe a whole team? All for $100? Next time you hire a baby sitter, invite the neighbors kids too. In fact, invite all the kids on the block. Maybe you could get the girl's baby sitting fee down to 50 cents a kid per hour.


Relax there Francis, its throwing a ball around and sometimes bouncing it off a wall. A nurse and a nypd officer make about $40 an hour. See the insanity in paying someone to play catch with your kid for $100 an hour? You can do it but don't ever try and justify it. Parents are nuts and most trainers are robbing


Nothing to justify. You spend your money the way you want. I'll do the same. Clearly you have a problem with people earning what a market will bare. If you don't want to pay for a trainer or private lessons, don't. By the way, a cop works for 20 years, retires, and then gets paid for another 40 or 50 more years to do a whole lot of nothing, along with health benefits for life. Turns that $40 an hour into about $500 an hour in deferred income. Pretty good gig, I'd say. Oh, the 80's movie reference is really lame.


So now police officers make 20k a week in pension or 1 mill a year . Great gig. No one should be paying $100 an hour for lessons. That's common sense for most . More important is to take what you learned at lessons and charge half to the next person teaching the same thing. Let's not make it rocket science here. Look at YouTube it's the same drills there. Hate to burst your bubble . I will post the links when I get the chance.



Not too many college kids are going to turn down $50 an hour I'm sure . Whether it's one kid or two I would hate to tell you. My son has been giving lessons the last two years and can't believe that some of these parents are throwing money at him to help their kid. Is he good with the kids yes but no one is that good.. Usually hard work helps more
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
There was always a college player home for the summer in my town that would take 3 or 4 high school boys and work with them. $20-$25 each for the hour. Money well spent. If they learned one thing over the summer it was worth it, a new check, positioning etc. I've spent thousands on travel teams that were a complete waste of time. The tourneys may have been fun but I can't say my son was a better lax player for having played on them. Speed and agility and individualized training was the difference. Playing D1 in college now. Hopefully his scholarship will be renewed every year so I can break even and recoup all the travel team costs over the years. BTW one of the college coaches that lives locally would run college level practices for the high school boys that were dedicated. 1x per week $15 per player. Ask around no need to break the bank.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.
They can absolutely not beat any D1 teams, not even close. People say this to make themselves feel good about playing D3. We saw Tufts play live and they looked like a really good high school team.
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they would smoke Dartmouth for starters
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.
They can absolutely not beat any D1 teams, not even close. People say this to make themselves feel good about playing D3. We saw Tufts play live and they looked like a really good high school team.


The bottom tier of D1 lax programs definitely overlap with the top DII and DIII programs. No, Tufts et al can't compete with Duke et al - instead of being pedantic, try reading between the lines!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


Salisbury would have a tough time against a weak D1 program, don't kid yourself thinking they can beat most D1 schools,. they can't even come close.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
they would smoke Dartmouth for starters


And the Dartmouth kids will smoke them in life.

#priorities
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
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Originally Posted By: Anonymous
Your best bet is to get a college player who can maybe give lessons to your son and one other to cut the cost and there is only so. Much one can do without getting tired


Cut the cost? The ole two for one deal? Most guys charge by the kid. Good luck with that. Additionally, if your kid is recruiting age, and gets tired in a 1 hour lesson, he might not be the kind of athlete college coaches are looking for...

I think that is a great idea and then can push each other as well


Now you are telling me your son has more endurance then my kid..give me a break...if you are paying $50 for 1 the price for two for the same hour won't be $100..It will be much less .Its called common sense . So if he had 10 kids he is charging $1000 an hour. Don't be the fool , most good coaches or kids giving lessons will work with you ..No one is in that big of demand unless they have a sucker like you willing to pay


Yes, if a kid can't handle a 1 hour lesson, he's NOT in shape. As far as the fees: You do realize some people train kids to make money? Why would they charge $100 for one kid, and free for the other? Oh, because YOU want it for half price? I think I get it. So, 2 kids still $100. How about 3 or 4 still $100? Maybe a whole team? All for $100? Next time you hire a baby sitter, invite the neighbors kids too. In fact, invite all the kids on the block. Maybe you could get the girl's baby sitting fee down to 50 cents a kid per hour.


Relax there Francis, its throwing a ball around and sometimes bouncing it off a wall. A nurse and a nypd officer make about $40 an hour. See the insanity in paying someone to play catch with your kid for $100 an hour? You can do it but don't ever try and justify it. Parents are nuts and most trainers are robbing


Nothing to justify. You spend your money the way you want. I'll do the same. Clearly you have a problem with people earning what a market will bare. If you don't want to pay for a trainer or private lessons, don't. By the way, a cop works for 20 years, retires, and then gets paid for another 40 or 50 more years to do a whole lot of nothing, along with health benefits for life. Turns that $40 an hour into about $500 an hour in deferred income. Pretty good gig, I'd say. Oh, the 80's movie reference is really lame.


So now police officers make 20k a week in pension or 1 mill a year . Great gig. No one should be paying $100 an hour for lessons. That's common sense for most . More important is to take what you learned at lessons and charge half to the next person teaching the same thing. Let's not make it rocket science here. Look at YouTube it's the same drills there. Hate to burst your bubble . I will post the links when I get the chance.


Dummy, do the math. Cop works 20 years retires at 40. Lives to 90. 50 years of pension and benefits. Worth about $150,000 a year, some $200k a year. $7.5 to $10 million pay out over those 50 years. Not quite $500 an hour, but a handsome payout nonetheless.
Again, if you don't want to pay for lessons, don't. You're not bursting any bubbles Champ. $100 bucks once a week is not a lot of money for many, many people. One in College already playing at a great school and another already committed since 10th grade. Yes I paid for tutors, ACT prep, private lessons and strength training. Would do it all again in a heartbeat. I enjoy investing in my kids. When money was tight, I did without so they had what they needed. Oh, and if they were into music I would've paid for the best voice lessons or the best music coach I could find. That's how I roll, all in for me and mine. You? Not so much I guess. Last thing cheapo, don't have your kid get involved with Hockey. Freind's son is on a top U-18 team. $15,000 a year just for the team... No he's not rich, just all in!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So Salisbury, Tufts, RIT, Limestone couldn't beat a NJIT, Umass-Lowell, Cleveland State or even a Wagner ? You are not very informed my friend.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yes I paid for tutors, ACT prep, private lessons and strength training. Would do it all again in a heartbeat. I enjoy investing in my kids. When money was tight, I did without so they had what they needed. Oh, and if they were into music I would've paid for the best voice lessons or the best music coach I could find. That's how I roll, all in for me and mine.


^ This is all you needed to say. Agree 100%
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I want to see you two chuckleheads in wife-beater tees meet in the parking lot..that's worth 100 beans right there..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
this is a really uninfrormed comment. where do you get such a stupid idea?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So I guess my younger child can get ready for the "all in" guys kid to be his summer coach in a few years after he finishes his illustrious playing career.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I guess my younger child can get ready for the "all in" guys kid to be his summer coach in a few years after he finishes his illustrious playing career.


they wont be available to coach. after graduating from great schools with outstanding work ethics, they will be starting their careers full time instead of sitting on dad and mom's couch wishing dad and mom had done more for them. don't worry; you can drink beers together and contemplate "woulda, shoulda, coulda". then you can try and answer when he asks why weren't you all in for me, dad?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Salisbury, Tufts, RIT, Limestone couldn't beat a NJIT, Umass-Lowell, Cleveland State or even a Wagner ? You are not very informed my friend.


No matter how you say it, how you put it, Salisbury, Tufts, RIT and Limestone are still D3, the minor league of college men's lacrosse. Like it or not, that's what it is and will forever be.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Salisbury, Tufts, RIT, Limestone couldn't beat a NJIT, Umass-Lowell, Cleveland State or even a Wagner ? You are not very informed my friend.


No matter how you say it, how you put it, Salisbury, Tufts, RIT and Limestone are still D3, the minor league of college men's lacrosse. Like it or not, that's what it is and will forever be.


Who cares?

I'd rather have my kid play at Williams than Denver, Amherst than Maryland. Wouldn't you?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You have NO IDEA what you're talking about! Did you ever think some kids go D3 because of the academics these schools supply. For some, it's not all about lacrosse like you moron.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
total jaggoff. theres no way that's serious, minor league.....my [lacrosse]
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Limestone is D2. Got news for you- all of college lacrosse is minor league as you say. What does a Hopkins-Maryland game draw ? 9,000 in great weather. D3 football St.John's College-St.Thomas in Minnesota out draws that every year. Other than a few big D1 schools who play in football stadiums, majority play on the equivalent of high school fields with fewer fans than my kid's HS team draws. Even the MLL ain't " major league" despite what their name states. Oh, and Tufts still beats UMass-Lowell.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I guess my younger child can get ready for the "all in" guys kid to be his summer coach in a few years after he finishes his illustrious playing career.


No chance tool time, no chance.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
not to stir the pot but i know a bunch of kids who went to stony brook, maryland, syracuse and another kid who went to stevens. the only one who left college with a meaningful JOB after graduation was the stevens kid. Choose wisely, lacrosse only pays the bills for a few.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
total jaggoff. theres no way that's serious, minor league.....my [lacrosse]


Hey d bag, are you trying to tell us that your [lacrosse] is minor league? Go no further, you have all of us convinced. Just like D3 is right there with you, minor league.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You have NO IDEA what you're talking about! Did you ever think some kids go D3 because of the academics these schools supply. For some, it's not all about lacrosse like you moron.


Well peckerhead, you need to pay better attention. We were discussing the level of play and which division is stronger in lacrosse. Academics is another topic completely but you need to stop trying to mix them together.
If you want to mix them, I would rather see a kid go to an Ivy that maybe has a weaker lax program than to go to Salisbury University, which has a weak academic standing but a strong lax D3 program. Not that complicated when you pay attention.
So see, I do have AN IDEA what I am talking about.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think many of you are angry because you already know deep down that your kid does not have what it takes to be great at lacrosse. For all of us who know otherwise, we also know that training by a passionate and accomplished player, whether HS or college, will greatly enhance our sons ambitions to be great. It is money well spent. I am not well off, but I tried to scrape the money together to have my son trained. It really paid off, and I truly believe it was an integral part of his success. Now he trains, and is giving his knowledge and enthusiasm to the next wave! You people need to stop crying, you sound pathetic!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Any of you morons that think a top D3 like Tufts, Amherst, RIT, Salisbury, etc cant hang with mid to lower D1 programs youve obviously never seen them play. Furthermore a degree from one of those schools is like gold, as compared to a degree from one of these mediocre lax schools. Get a clue, there is no life after 4 years of college lacrosse no matter what division you play, its all about academics and setting your kid up for the real world. I cannot believe how stupid some of you are........Id be ecstatic to say my kid got into one of those top D3 schools
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So Salisbury, Tufts, RIT, Limestone couldn't beat a NJIT, Umass-Lowell, Cleveland State or even a Wagner ? You are not very informed my friend.


No matter how you say it, how you put it, Salisbury, Tufts, RIT and Limestone are still D3, the minor league of college men's lacrosse. Like it or not, that's what it is and will forever be.


Who cares?

I'd rather have my kid play at Williams than Denver, Amherst than Maryland. Wouldn't you?


1000 percent agree
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Save your money on individual training. Much easier to make your son great by holding him back a year or two in school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Save your money on individual training. Much easier to make your son great by holding him back a year or two in school.


And HGH. Some Adderall can't hurt either.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.

I went to Salisbury and played for Berkman, and I made over 1 million dollars last year. The point being is that I played the game I love, and then found a career I love becaused I followed passion. I have friends who went IVY, Virginia, NC, and don't even make enough to buy a home for their family. The ones who suffered were their parents who wasted their money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Whoa, now we have salary stating on BOTC! What's next junk size? Get a life folks, Bama playing the Rebels.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.

I went to Salisbury and played for Berkman, and I made over 1 million dollars last year. The point being is that I played the game I love, and then found a career I love becaused I followed passion. I have friends who went IVY, Virginia, NC, and don't even make enough to buy a home for their family. The ones who suffered were their parents who wasted their money.


Never realized that Grindr paid so well. Congrats!

Stop tooting your horn.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.

I went to Salisbury and played for Berkman, and I made over 1 million dollars last year. The point being is that I played the game I love, and then found a career I love becaused I followed passion. I have friends who went IVY, Virginia, NC, and don't even make enough to buy a home for their family. The ones who suffered were their parents who wasted their money.


Tool. Guess what? There are guys that didn't go to college who make millions. You missed the point. If I'm paging through a stack of resumes of kids right out of college I'm interviewing the ones that went to Brown, Virginia, UNC. The Salisbury one is going in the garbage. Where you went to college is no guarantee of success. But it sure is going to help if you went to a better one.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.

I went to Salisbury and played for Berkman, and I made over 1 million dollars last year. The point being is that I played the game I love, and then found a career I love becaused I followed passion. I have friends who went IVY, Virginia, NC, and don't even make enough to buy a home for their family. The ones who suffered were their parents who wasted their money.


Tool. Guess what? There are guys that didn't go to college who make millions. You missed the point. If I'm paging through a stack of resumes of kids right out of college I'm interviewing the ones that went to Brown, Virginia, UNC. The Salisbury one is going in the garbage. Where you went to college is no guarantee of success. But it sure is going to help if you went to a better one.


I take it you went to Virginia or UNC? Although good schools, they are certainly not tops! Let's talk Harvard, Priceton, UPenn. I think that's what you meant. The way your talking UNC and Virgina hit the circular file as well
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.

I went to Salisbury and played for Berkman, and I made over 1 million dollars last year. The point being is that I played the game I love, and then found a career I love becaused I followed passion. I have friends who went IVY, Virginia, NC, and don't even make enough to buy a home for their family. The ones who suffered were their parents who wasted their money.


Tool. Guess what? There are guys that didn't go to college who make millions. You missed the point. If I'm paging through a stack of resumes of kids right out of college I'm interviewing the ones that went to Brown, Virginia, UNC. The Salisbury one is going in the garbage. Where you went to college is no guarantee of success. But it sure is going to help if you went to a better one.


News flash******* nobody is going to apply for a job with you who went to Brown.
You missed the other posts point.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
make sure its a D1 player minimum. D2 or D3 kids don't know how to play.

Tufts, Salisbury, etc can beat most of the D1 schools, those boys can play!! They go to college for academics, not full time gym classes.


If you think going to Salisbury is for strong academics, you are way off the mark. That school is very week in the academic area. Probably the weakest Md. state school in the Md. University system.

I went to Salisbury and played for Berkman, and I made over 1 million dollars last year. The point being is that I played the game I love, and then found a career I love becaused I followed passion. I have friends who went IVY, Virginia, NC, and don't even make enough to buy a home for their family. The ones who suffered were their parents who wasted their money.


Tool. Guess what? There are guys that didn't go to college who make millions. You missed the point. If I'm paging through a stack of resumes of kids right out of college I'm interviewing the ones that went to Brown, Virginia, UNC. The Salisbury one is going in the garbage. Where you went to college is no guarantee of success. But it sure is going to help if you went to a better one.


I take it you went to Virginia or UNC? Although good schools, they are certainly not tops! Let's talk Harvard, Priceton, UPenn. I think that's what you meant. The way your talking UNC and Virgina hit the circular file as well


(LOL at this Penn guy.)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


No way, don't waste time on them. Most will be homeless or in prison by 30 anyway.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


No way, don't waste time on them. Most will be homeless or in prison by 30 anyway.


Says the beer guzzling dad with a blue tarp on his roof and is behind on his mortgage payments but his kid plays travel lacrosse. The dad that doesn't know any of his kids grades or teachers but he does know his kid won 5 ground balls and had two goals in his last lax game. Must be a long island thing
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You are putting Fairfield in same sentence with Mercey and SUNY. Ridiculous
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
why not? if you want to imply that Fairfield admission standard is tough like it used to be you are nuts. they essentially go by zip code . that's the only number that matters now. far different than yrs ago....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You are putting Fairfield in same sentence with Mercey and SUNY. Ridiculous


Obviously someone hasn't visited colleges recently. Tip #1- always look for a school that is adding new fields, new dorms, and improving every year. Tip #2- go visit when school is IN SESSION, this allows both parent and prospect to get a better feel of the campus and other students. Talk to a few team members out of ear shot from the coach, ask questions and don't ever walk away saying "I should have asked". There are some great D2 hidden jewels out there, look at them!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


No way, don't waste time on them. Most will be homeless or in prison by 30 anyway.



Says the beer guzzling dad with a blue tarp on his roof and is behind on his mortgage payments but his kid plays travel lacrosse. The dad that doesn't know any of his kids grades or teachers but he does know his kid won 5 ground balls and had two goals in his last lax game. Must be a long island thing


Lmao. And I'm from LI
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Fairfield, Providence, Loyola, St. Joe's.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


No way, don't waste time on them. Most will be homeless or in prison by 30 anyway.


Says the beer guzzling dad with a blue tarp on his roof and is behind on his mortgage payments but his kid plays travel lacrosse. The dad that doesn't know any of his kids grades or teachers but he does know his kid won 5 ground balls and had two goals in his last lax game. Must be a long island thing


Lighten up zippy. It was a joke. You're too serious. That's why nobody likes you.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
why not? if you want to imply that Fairfield admission standard is tough like it used to be you are nuts. they essentially go by zip code . that's the only number that matters now. far different than yrs ago....


You're a boob. The only numbers that matter is percentage of graduating seniors being employed or attending grad school. Many good schools have made it difficult to attend due to tuition, room and board etc. it's not just Fairfield. My son had some excellent D3 offers from top academic schools. We had to pass on them because they were need based only financial aid. Only families who could afford the tuition or were living close to the poverty line could attend. Most of the middle class would not be able to afford it. Especially if you have multiple kids.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


No way, don't waste time on them. Most will be homeless or in prison by 30 anyway.


Says the beer guzzling dad with a blue tarp on his roof and is behind on his mortgage payments but his kid plays travel lacrosse. The dad that doesn't know any of his kids grades or teachers but he does know his kid won 5 ground balls and had two goals in his last lax game. Must be a long island thing


I resent that! I do know that my son made a A in PE , rest of grades are meaningless. And it was 6 ground balls for your information!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


It's more like 80%-90%, but I think your general point stands.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


It's more like 80%-90%, but I think your general point stands.


Undergraduate enrollment at the Ivies is less than 100k combined, Harvard's acceptance rate is 5.9%, I think the OP is correct.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
for 98% of most kids the ivies aren't realistic, so why so much talk on here like the kids are all world players or ivy league caliber.

lets talk about the 98% that go to the Fairfields, Mercys and the SUNY's That's way more realistic for almost everyone on here


It's more like 80%-90%, but I think your general point stands.


Undergraduate enrollment at the Ivies is less than 100k combined, Harvard's acceptance rate is 5.9%, I think the OP is correct.


I mean more that you have to have an SAT of at least ~1300ish (around the 85th percentile) in order to be recruited to the Ivies in a sport like lacrosse. Harvard's overall acceptance rate has zero bearing on recruited athletes.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why not? if you want to imply that Fairfield admission standard is tough like it used to be you are nuts. they essentially go by zip code . that's the only number that matters now. far different than yrs ago....


You're a boob. The only numbers that matter is percentage of graduating seniors being employed or attending grad school. Many good schools have made it difficult to attend due to tuition, room and board etc. it's not just Fairfield. My son had some excellent D3 offers from top academic schools. We had to pass on them because they were need based only financial aid. Only families who could afford the tuition or were living close to the poverty line could attend. Most of the middle class would not be able to afford it. Especially if you have multiple kids.


That just not true. Top Nescac schools will find money for high caliber players. How do you think they are so good???
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
why not? if you want to imply that Fairfield admission standard is tough like it used to be you are nuts. they essentially go by zip code . that's the only number that matters now. far different than yrs ago....


You're a boob. The only numbers that matter is percentage of graduating seniors being employed or attending grad school. Many good schools have made it difficult to attend due to tuition, room and board etc. it's not just Fairfield. My son had some excellent D3 offers from top academic schools. We had to pass on them because they were need based only financial aid. Only families who could afford the tuition or were living close to the poverty line could attend. Most of the middle class would not be able to afford it. Especially if you have multiple kids.


That just not true. Top Nescac schools will find money for high caliber players. How do you think they are so good???


Some but not all.
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It cost my nephew 25k to go to a NESCAC school. They do find money for you. They found " need based " money. My brother makes 250k his wife about 125k. According to every chart and forms I've seen they don't fit the criteria. He was a very good not great high school player and had a good not great college career. Those schools are all very good. Some would argue that it's also the best conference in Division 3.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
You are putting Fairfield in same sentence with Mercey and SUNY. Ridiculous


SUNY Binghamton, absolutely.
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Nephew plays lacrosse at Mercy. Chose it over Post. Handsome new school that offered very generous package, athletes all very close knit. Incredible business, PA and speech therapy program. Niece is not an athlete but planning on attending next year. Both guaranteed internships in the city over the summer.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You are putting Fairfield in same sentence with Mercey and SUNY. Ridiculous


SUNY Binghamton, absolutely.


Binghamton grads are always welcome at my firm. They work hard, are very fast learners and don't need a lot of hand holding. Our success rate with Bing U grads is very high. Why? I'm really not certain but that's been our experience.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You are putting Fairfield in same sentence with Mercey and SUNY. Ridiculous


SUNY Binghamton, absolutely.


Binghamton grads are always welcome at my firm. They work hard, are very fast learners and don't need a lot of hand holding. Our success rate with Bing U grads is very high. Why? I'm really not certain but that's been our experience.


Bing and SB are very unique SUNY schools that have lacrosse. I am not sure id compare them to Fairfield or Mercy.

Now if you are talking more local schools what about Sacred Heart Manhattan Adelphi or St Joes at D3
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
You are putting Fairfield in same sentence with Mercey and SUNY. Ridiculous


You're right, Stony Brook is a much better school. Harder to get into, tanked higher, and a better price. Better lax as well.
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SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse
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50 K??? Where the heck do you play? Not even remotely close. 2k a year for about 4 years. Maybe one more year of travel. Sounds like you got beat bad by a smart travel director.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
50 K??? Where the heck do you play? Not even remotely close. 2k a year for about 4 years. Maybe one more year of travel. Sounds like you got beat bad by a smart travel director.


We were closer to 10 years playing than 4. Any with all the extras including privates, clinics, camps, leagues plus the travel costs its a lot more than 2k a year
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Is the Philly Freshman Showcase worth attending or is it a money grab?
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i bet 5k a year easy if you are all in
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IT is well worth it
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
IT is well worth it
is $50k worth it if your son plays D3 with no money? That's over 2 years of tuition at a SUNY
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Go view the list of companies who employ the "ND young Alumni" and its very apparent that it's worth it for certain family's. Parents have to be honest with themselves and realistic about their child's ablitlity and potential.
Setting that aside, I would rather watch my kids "compete" with, and against other tatented players all over the country then vacation in Hawaii, go to the Super Bowl etc.. .it is what I enjoy most. So either way it's a simple decision,

God bless the families in Haiti... help make a difference, pick up the phone and donate today..
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.
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Just make sure the kids pick schools that will offer them the opportunity to get a great education and the rest should be secondary.

division 1,2 or 3 it shouldn't matter. The size, location and degrees the schools offer should be what is important
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.
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FYI 32 of 48 2020 Commits are NOT from NLF teams.
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I agree that you take out of your college education what you put into it. That being said, I agree with the above statement 100% and I'd wager that as well.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap
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its no Chaminade, but the Harvard kids are pretty well regarded
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
its no Chaminade, but the Harvard kids are pretty well regarded



fantastic
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap


No.

It's because a significant amount of both native smarts and conscientiousness (very similar to "work ethic") are required in order for a student to gain admittance to Harvard, even for a recruited athlete with lower academic standards.
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Harvard is very difficult to get into, but it is even harder to do poorly there. The undergraduate grading system is VERY soft. It is a great grad school to be sure, but in terms of undergraduate, almost any strong liberal arts college is more rigorous.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap


No.

It's because a significant amount of both native smarts and conscientiousness (very similar to "work ethic") are required in order for a student to gain admittance to Harvard, even for a recruited athlete with lower academic standards.


Ivies, like most research universities do not really give too much of a darn about undergrads. Large classes, largely taught by graduate students, with minimal office hours/facetime with the professor. Now, graduate school is a different story, but undergrad...meh...hard NOT to get an A average at Harvard.

Excerpt from Business Journal's hardest schools to fail out of:

Though it consistently sits atop US News and World Report's College Ranking List, Harvard College, the undergraduate school at Harvard University, is as known for its rampant grade inflation as it is for its prestige.

A record 91% of Harvard undergraduate students graduated summa, magna, or [lacrosse] laude. And USA Today reported that eight out of every 10 Harvard students graduate with honors, with nearly half receiving A's in their courses.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap


No.

It's because a significant amount of both native smarts and conscientiousness (very similar to "work ethic") are required in order for a student to gain admittance to Harvard, even for a recruited athlete with lower academic standards.


Ivies, like most research universities do not really give too much of a darn about undergrads. Large classes, largely taught by graduate students, with minimal office hours/facetime with the professor. Now, graduate school is a different story, but undergrad...meh...hard NOT to get an A average at Harvard.

Excerpt from Business Journal's hardest schools to fail out of:

Though it consistently sits atop US News and World Report's College Ranking List, Harvard College, the undergraduate school at Harvard University, is as known for its rampant grade inflation as it is for its prestige.

A record 91% of Harvard undergraduate students graduated summa, magna, or [lacrosse] laude. And USA Today reported that eight out of every 10 Harvard students graduate with honors, with nearly half receiving A's in their courses.


I would go with a SUNY Grad over an IVY Grad any day of the week.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap


No.

It's because a significant amount of both native smarts and conscientiousness (very similar to "work ethic") are required in order for a student to gain admittance to Harvard, even for a recruited athlete with lower academic standards.


Ivies, like most research universities do not really give too much of a darn about undergrads. Large classes, largely taught by graduate students, with minimal office hours/facetime with the professor. Now, graduate school is a different story, but undergrad...meh...hard NOT to get an A average at Harvard.

Excerpt from Business Journal's hardest schools to fail out of:

Though it consistently sits atop US News and World Report's College Ranking List, Harvard College, the undergraduate school at Harvard University, is as known for its rampant grade inflation as it is for its prestige.

A record 91% of Harvard undergraduate students graduated summa, magna, or [lacrosse] laude. And USA Today reported that eight out of every 10 Harvard students graduate with honors, with nearly half receiving A's in their courses.


None of that negates my earlier post, though.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap


Plattsburgh IS the Harvard of the North Country. But at 25% of the cost.
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I was not part of the earlier discussion. I was just chiming in. Ivies are great for grad school, no question about it. Unlimited research budgets, some of the best professionals in the country to work alongside with, and of course, yes, very prestigious names.

However, for undgrad, you can do MUCH, MUCH better for your kid than the ivies, and no, I am not talking about Maryland, Flordia, or Syracuse.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
SUNY D3's Plattsburgh, Farmingdale, Oneonta, Cortland Buffalo, New Paltz Oswego Geneseo

Where LI kids go to play after spending $50k on travel lacrosse


All very good schools. From my experience, you get out of your education what you put into it. One of my closest friends is a Plattsburgh grad and lax alumni and very successful Wall Street vet. He got a great education, loved playing lacrosse there and parents didn't mortgage the house to pay for it. Some friends from much more prestigious university's are far less successful. Work ethic can take you very far on the field and in your career.


Anecdotal evidence is nice. The odds are not in favor of your argument tho. I will bet on the outcome of 50 Harvard lax grads over the outcome of 50 Plattsburgh lax grads. And i will also bet that on average the 50 harvard lax grads have better work ethics than the 50 Plattsburgh grads.


Better work ethic because theygo to Harvard?? Because are smarter or have more money they work harder? That one is a leap


No.

It's because a significant amount of both native smarts and conscientiousness (very similar to "work ethic") are required in order for a student to gain admittance to Harvard, even for a recruited athlete with lower academic standards.


Ivies, like most research universities do not really give too much of a darn about undergrads. Large classes, largely taught by graduate students, with minimal office hours/facetime with the professor. Now, graduate school is a different story, but undergrad...meh...hard NOT to get an A average at Harvard.

Excerpt from Business Journal's hardest schools to fail out of:

Though it consistently sits atop US News and World Report's College Ranking List, Harvard College, the undergraduate school at Harvard University, is as known for its rampant grade inflation as it is for its prestige.

A record 91% of Harvard undergraduate students graduated summa, magna, or [lacrosse] laude. And USA Today reported that eight out of every 10 Harvard students graduate with honors, with nearly half receiving A's in their courses.


True ... but also just about everyone there is ridiculously bright and hard-working. The workload would absolutely overwhelm many kids.
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I have personal experience with Harvard. Those admitted have very high GPAs and very high SATs. They are incredibly bright. On the other hand, the workload is generally not particularly challenging and one can easily skate by and there is very little academic accountability. Don't want to go to class? You do not have to for the most part. And the large classes, like most large universities, are taught by GA's and have multiple choice exams.

This is not Williams nor is it Swarthmore nor Washington and Lee (insert any number of GREAT liberal arts colleges here) and it sure is not a service academy where the demands are around the clock and they will happily give you a C or D or F. You are paying for prestige as an undergrad.

Now, graduate school? That is an entirely different matter.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have personal experience with Harvard. Those admitted have very high GPAs and very high SATs. They are incredibly bright. On the other hand, the workload is generally not particularly challenging and one can easily skate by and there is very little academic accountability. Don't want to go to class? You do not have to for the most part. And the large classes, like most large universities, are taught by GA's and have multiple choice exams.

This is not Williams nor is it Swarthmore nor Washington and Lee (insert any number of GREAT liberal arts colleges here) and it sure is not a service academy where the demands are around the clock and they will happily give you a C or D or F. You are paying for prestige as an undergrad.

Now, graduate school? That is an entirely different matter.


I have personal experience with Williams and who are you kidding? I skipped classes constantly and did just fine thank you very much.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have personal experience with Harvard. Those admitted have very high GPAs and very high SATs. They are incredibly bright. On the other hand, the workload is generally not particularly challenging and one can easily skate by and there is very little academic accountability. Don't want to go to class? You do not have to for the most part. And the large classes, like most large universities, are taught by GA's and have multiple choice exams.

This is not Williams nor is it Swarthmore nor Washington and Lee (insert any number of GREAT liberal arts colleges here) and it sure is not a service academy where the demands are around the clock and they will happily give you a C or D or F. You are paying for prestige as an undergrad.

Now, graduate school? That is an entirely different matter.


I have personal experience with Williams and who are you kidding? I skipped classes constantly and did just fine thank you very much.


Yeah.

Right.
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Anyone have any personal experience with Georgian Court? Has anyone been offered $$ and if so at what % and how is the school? Prefer to hear from those who know rather than guess please, thanks
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have personal experience with Harvard. Those admitted have very high GPAs and very high SATs. They are incredibly bright. On the other hand, the workload is generally not particularly challenging and one can easily skate by and there is very little academic accountability. Don't want to go to class? You do not have to for the most part. And the large classes, like most large universities, are taught by GA's and have multiple choice exams.

This is not Williams nor is it Swarthmore nor Washington and Lee (insert any number of GREAT liberal arts colleges here) and it sure is not a service academy where the demands are around the clock and they will happily give you a C or D or F. You are paying for prestige as an undergrad.

Now, graduate school? That is an entirely different matter.


I have personal experience with Williams and who are you kidding? I skipped classes constantly and did just fine thank you very much.


Yeah.

Right.


Why yeah right?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anyone have any personal experience with Georgian Court? Has anyone been offered $$ and if so at what % and how is the school? Prefer to hear from those who know rather than guess please, thanks


I think it is only there 2nd year with a team, so probably not.
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Isn't it safe to say you can find ways to skate through at every school?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Isn't it safe to say you can find ways to skate through at every school?


No. I assure you there is no skating through at the service academies. Not even close.

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if you can easily skate thru Harvard and do well, yourbgrades from Harvard would make it easier to be accepted into their grad school wouldn't it? or does the grad school reject their own undergrads because its easier?
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Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.
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[quote=Anonymous]Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.

Interesting. My son is an early commit (2020) to top 5 program. We were very direct in asking the following questions: 1.) we are here at your invitation, where are we on your priority list by position? 2.) Is this a scholarship athlete in your opinion? 3.) Answer to #2 being yes, what is the money?
Coaches appreciate the no BS approach. Nobody really has time for a dance of fools......
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why can't others share their experience in a civil way as this person did?
always the caveat of "my kid was a stud , could have committed in 9th grade" etc.
nice to see a factual and useful post. H.C. isn't the only program with such restraints by the way.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.

Interesting. My son is an early commit (2020) to top 5 program. We were very direct in asking the following questions: 1.) we are here at your invitation, where are we on your priority list by position? 2.) Is this a scholarship athlete in your opinion? 3.) Answer to #2 being yes, what is the money?
Coaches appreciate the no BS approach. Nobody really has time for a dance of fools......


I was very direct, I received vague answers.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Agree. Thank you for sharing the info! Much appreciated!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.


Patriot League (for the most part) does not offer scholarships. I think Bucknell has 1 that they divide up. The HC scholarships are new. They didn't exist 3 years ago...
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how about Nova? I hear they are stingy
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.


I think HC has only 2 scholarships, not 3.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.


Patriot League (for the most part) does not offer scholarships. I think Bucknell has 1 that they divide up. The HC scholarships are new. They didn't exist 3 years ago...

Best deal in the Patriot League is NAVY. Free rides for everyone! You just need that Senator from Idaho's appointment.....
Yes, the Navy is a free ride, BUT (1) you need to be interviewed and nominated to go to the academy (Annapolis), and (2) you will need to serve 4 years as an officer in the Navy.

The other option is NROTC with the same obligations, but you go to a college or university that has a NROTC chapter which most schools do.

The best part is after your 4 year obligation should you choose to leave the Navy your chances of getting a good paying job with a nice title are way above average. Being a former naval officer, or any military officer opens doors everywhere.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Larry Miller
Yes, the Navy is a free ride, BUT (1) you need to be interviewed and nominated to go to the academy (Annapolis), and (2) you will need to serve 4 years as an officer in the Navy.

The other option is NROTC with the same obligations, but you go to a college or university that has a NROTC chapter which most schools do.

The best part is after your 4 year obligation should you choose to leave the Navy your chances of getting a good paying job with a nice title are way above average. Being a former naval officer, or any military officer opens doors everywhere.


Patriot League does offer scholarships. You need to be direct with the coach and if they are serious they will offer your player with the % of a full scholarship that they can give. Patriot League teams are not fully funded so it is not close to the 12.6 scholarships of the fully funded D1 programs.
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5 year commitment post graduation from Academy. NROTC is very very difficult to get into these days. Top 10% of your graduating class. Also, the Navy Officer programs have limited acceptance to certain majors, notably in engineering. If you are a History, English, Business grad, chances are slim.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.


I think HC has only 2 scholarships, not 3.


Start making the rounds. Lots of schools don't use their full complement of scholarships because nobody cares about the sport except us parents
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Holy Cross offered my son a roster spot, no money. How can they build a power program, investing $100mm++ on facilities and still only have three scholarships total? Didn't really have the best experience in the recruiting process. I like straight forward answers to my questions, liked to keep things vague. No thanks. Sharing my experience.


I think HC has only 2 scholarships, not 3.


Start making the rounds. Lots of schools don't use their full complement of scholarships because nobody cares about the sport except us parents


Stop Name Brand shopping. There are schools out there that have far better lacrosse teams than HC that will give big money to talented, smart kids. North of 50% is possible. Do your homework, you'd be surprised at how good some schools are with getting grads jobs. Look at that kind of info instead of some silly magazines fictitious made up ranking.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Name the schools that will give big money that compete academically with any team in the Patriot league. I'm curious....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Name the schools that will give big money that compete academically with any team in the Patriot league. I'm curious....


Not a comprehensive list but UVA, UNC, Duke,Notre Dame.Alot more just too many to list.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Name the schools that will give big money that compete academically with any team in the Patriot league. I'm curious....


Not a comprehensive list but UVA, UNC, Duke,Notre Dame.Alot more just too many to list.
When you look at the rosters of UVA, Duke, Hopkins, ND, et al. you can count the number of public school kids on one hand for each school. So its either Prep or Private School, or one needs to do the cost & time of a PG year I guess. The other issue with 'big money' is it's coming on the academic side, with 45 man rosters and only 12 scholarships per year, that's not a lot of athletic money to go around. Plus for many of these schools the 'athletic scholarship' is on a year to year basis. In general, Big Ten schools give out 4 year athletic scholarships many in the ACC do not.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]Name the schools that will give big money that compete academically with any team in the Patriot league. I'm curious....


Not a comprehensive list but UVA, UNC, Duke,Notre Dame.Alot more just too many to list.
When you look at the rosters of UVA, Duke, Hopkins, ND, et al. you can count the number of public school kids on one hand for each school. So its either Prep or Private School, or one needs to do the cost & time of a PG year I guess. The other issue with 'big money' is it's coming on the academic side, with 45 man rosters and only 12 scholarships per year, that's not a lot of athletic money to go around. Plus for many of these schools the 'athletic scholarship' is on a year to year basis. In general, Big Ten schools give out 4 year athletic scholarships many in the ACC do not.

I guess your talking to the wrong people in the ACC. Money us there for the top kids
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I always find it interesting that when a meaningful/useful discussion actually happens on these boards (rare) it always gets sidetracked by somebody with a smart [lacrosse] response like - "I guess your talking to the wrong people in the ACC. Money us there for the top kids"

So - Mr. in the know - please share with the masses who we should be talking to other than the head coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Name the schools that will give big money that compete academically with any team in the Patriot league. I'm curious....


Reading comprehension? It's not all about "academic ranking". How successful is the D1 school in placing grads in their field of study? You'd be surprised. Good Luck to your son.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You dodged the question - what schools give BIG MONEY that are academically on par with Patriot League schools? Any school that is "ranked" high has a robust alumni network and placement program. It's a given. Non issue.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The other issue with 'big money' is it's coming on the academic side, with 45 man rosters and only 12 scholarships per year, that's not a lot of athletic money to go around.


If I recall correctly the maximum number of athletic scholarships for D1 lacrosse is 12.6 scholarships PER TEAM. Not per year. In other words there is just 3.15 rides per year if the program splits it among the four classes equally.

My advice, don't get into lacrosse for the money. That only works out for a very precious few.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The other issue with 'big money' is it's coming on the academic side, with 45 man rosters and only 12 scholarships per year, that's not a lot of athletic money to go around.


If I recall correctly the maximum number of athletic scholarships for D1 lacrosse is 12.6 scholarships PER TEAM. Not per year. In other words there is just 3.15 rides per year if the program splits it among the four classes equally.

My advice, don't get into lacrosse for the money. That only works out for a very precious few.
You are absolutely correct. Which is why most schools, not all, renew/give athletic scholarships on a year to year basis. (The academic money is usually a 4 year promise) Again, the Big Ten seem to give out 4 year athletic scholarships more so than others, but then they are 'stuck' with their early recruiting mistakes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Notre Dame and Stanford are ranked high academically. (higher than any Patriot League school) and give big money.. FACT..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The other issue with 'big money' is it's coming on the academic side, with 45 man rosters and only 12 scholarships per year, that's not a lot of athletic money to go around.


If I recall correctly the maximum number of athletic scholarships for D1 lacrosse is 12.6 scholarships PER TEAM. Not per year. In other words there is just 3.15 rides per year if the program splits it among the four classes equally.

My advice, don't get into lacrosse for the money. That only works out for a very precious few.
You are absolutely correct. Which is why most schools, not all, renew/give athletic scholarships on a year to year basis. (The academic money is usually a 4 year promise) Again, the Big Ten seem to give out 4 year athletic scholarships more so than others, but then they are 'stuck' with their early recruiting mistakes.


Bingo, IE, there is NO school giving out big money for lacrosse - they have no say in the matter since the NCAA sets that low mark.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You dodged the question - what schools give BIG MONEY that are academically on par with Patriot League schools? Any school that is "ranked" high has a robust alumni network and placement program. It's a given. Non issue.


Seems like you already "have" all the answers. You're a brand name guy. Good luck to your son and the $140K in debt he'll come out of your precious Patriot school with. Between that and his English degree, I'm sure it will go well. But you knew that already.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The other issue with 'big money' is it's coming on the academic side, with 45 man rosters and only 12 scholarships per year, that's not a lot of athletic money to go around.


If I recall correctly the maximum number of athletic scholarships for D1 lacrosse is 12.6 scholarships PER TEAM. Not per year. In other words there is just 3.15 rides per year if the program splits it among the four classes equally.

My advice, don't get into lacrosse for the money. That only works out for a very precious few.
You are absolutely correct. Which is why most schools, not all, renew/give athletic scholarships on a year to year basis. (The academic money is usually a 4 year promise) Again, the Big Ten seem to give out 4 year athletic scholarships more so than others, but then they are 'stuck' with their early recruiting mistakes.


Bingo, IE, there is NO school giving out big money for lacrosse - they have no say in the matter since the NCAA sets that low mark.
in the eyes of the NCAA; lacrosse, baseball et al. are equivalency sports, and only Football & Basketball are so called head count (of course they bring in the $$ to the NCAA) sports. I've seen this with baseball; if you don't continue to show potential, or there's a HS recruit better than you at your position, coaches (who are paid to win) will not renew the athletic scholarship part. So where I give the Patriot dad a little leeway is, these are all great schools if after Freshman year the lacrosse isn't panning out and yet you still have decent academic scholarship money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Had a question and wasnt sure which thread to post. Was thinking about getting a few private lessons for my son. Been referred to a former d1 and mll player. Was curious to hear what is the going rate? Is it 80 or more like 60? Just curious what people have heard. No garbage remarks back please just some helpful insight. Thx for any advice.


My son gets 50 as an elite HS senior. I've heard some of the college guys getting 80


One thing not mentioned is that the hourly rate is just for face-to-face time. The coach should be emailing notes and thoughts to the parents which would take more time. Plus travel time in the car. If it is truly 1 on 1 training for an hour, it probably took a true 2 hours for the person conducting the training. If the person is coming to your house in your back-yard you can see the value in convenience.

FWIW in Rochester, NY I pay $50 a session with Joe Walters boot camp for my son in his indoor training facility with four other players. The money is worth it because of how excited it has made my son to want to go out and practice on his own. If this sport was football, imagine how much it would cost for a 5 man boot-camp with Odell Beckham? way more than $50 an hour.

Let's look at it from the other side. Yes, Joe makes great money in his boot camps, but kind of sad that he has to do the camps to make real money. So if I now know that only the top performers make top money, and they have to do training to supplement, then why am I trying to take away my son's childhood to chase a dream where the only pay-off is a partial scholarship, and 27k a year as a pro?

Sorry, getting off topic... but I think the one-on-one coaching is most valuable if your son/daughter has a vested interested in making the coach proud/happy with them. Basically, I am paying not only for the training, but also for the intrinsic motivation it is providing. If you aren't getting motivation from the coaching then the value is much lower.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
find a wall. spend an hour every day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
spirit in the stick
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
spirit in the stick


All about a lacrosse legend from Uniondale
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Forbes ranks Fairfield and Lafayette over Binghamton for an overall experience. I like all the schools Fairfield is close enough that is far enough, Binghamton is a distance.

Any positive feedback on any
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You dodged the question - what schools give BIG MONEY that are academically on par with Patriot League schools? Any school that is "ranked" high has a robust alumni network and placement program. It's a given. Non issue.


Seems like you already "have" all the answers. You're a brand name guy. Good luck to your son and the $140K in debt he'll come out of your precious Patriot school with. Between that and his English degree, I'm sure it will go well. But you knew that already.

I'm not the person that you are replying to, and he does sound arrogant. However, you are completely ignorant if you think that having an English degree from a top school will make someone's life "not go well".
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So... this post is in direct contrast to those who said its a piece of 12.6 spread among the entire squad (or most of it). it also is in contrast to the post which said that the scholarship is renewable each year at coach's discretion.
is it an NCAA rule or can each school do its own thing?....yea didn't think so...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Most schools aren't fully funded with all the available scholarships. Then most rosters are 30 on the girls and 40+ on the boys. Money doesn't go that far. Do well in the classroom and you will be SET!!!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


Which tourney at Farmingdale?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend
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What's with the D 3 kids doing photo ops etc. on the same day that the D1 players sign letters of intent?
Totally different . D3 commits are really simply announcing that they submitted an application. There is no letter of intent there.
Mommies get to wear a corsage and play a silly game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What's with the D 3 kids doing photo ops etc. on the same day that the D1 players sign letters of intent?
Totally different . D3 commits are really simply announcing that they submitted an application. There is no letter of intent there.
Mommies get to wear a corsage and play a silly game.


Pretty much. But so what?

Ivy players don't sign an NLI either, but there's nothing wrong with advertising the fact that a player's attending a certain school (though it should really wait until after the admission process is over).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
NLI is signed for money deals only. The rest are pix ops and a celebration of years of driving all over the place for tourneys and showcases. Enjoy it. Don't knock it. It's great, and well deserved and earned.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend


Sorry Looney dad, there not
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If you are on a NLF team and uncommitted, how much pressure are you under to attend their uncommitted showcase tomorrow?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you are on a NLF team and uncommitted, how much pressure are you under to attend their uncommitted showcase tomorrow?


We skipped it due to the exorbitant cost.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend


Sorry Looney dad, there not

Are you a parent and still do not know the proper uses of there, they're and their? It is they're not, not there you moron.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Fat Crab and NLF moneymaking scheme trying to compete with Philly Freshman Showcase is a pipe dream. I have been to a lot of these events with my older boys and I have never seen the amount of coaches on sidelines like there were the past two years in Philly. The showcase is first rate and the tourney has a lot of good teams. Note the number of NLF players listed for PFS - if their event is so damn good - they would be there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend


Sorry Looney dad, there not

Are you a parent and still do not know the proper uses of there, they're and their? It is they're not, not there you moron.


Spoke Top 5 D1 coach this week and they will have reps at NHLS, LI and philly.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend


Sorry Looney dad, there not

Are you a parent and still do not know the proper uses of there, they're and their? It is they're not, not there you moron.


Another meet head farther who spent two much time on the wall and not enough time with the books. Do you no you're kids GPA or just his lacrosse stats?
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That's pretty funny!
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meat
know
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What's with the D 3 kids doing photo ops etc. on the same day that the D1 players sign letters of intent?
Totally different . D3 commits are really simply announcing that they submitted an application. There is no letter of intent there.
Mommies get to wear a corsage and play a silly game.


Why do you care. You sound like a tool. The D2 D3 kids work just as hard as the D1 kids. If your kid is going D1 congrats but don't look down on the other kids. Makes you seem small, ignorant and arrogant. And yes, I have a kid who plays D3 and a kid who played D1. this is my third time around and I have seen plenty of kids leave D1 to go to a D3 program or stop playing all together, so don't get to high on your horse. By the way D3 does sign a letter of intent that is signed by the student athlete. It is a non binding athletic signing form that is given after the student is admitted not after they submit an application. This intentionally puts the emphasis on academics at the D3 level. Get your facts straight before you start insulting people.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend


Sorry Looney dad, there not

Are you a parent and still do not know the proper uses of there, they're and their? It is they're not, not there you moron.


Another meet head farther who spent two much time on the wall and not enough time with the books. Do you no you're kids GPA or just his lacrosse stats?


Another meet head farther who spent two much time on the wall and not enough time with the books. Do you no you're kids GPA or just his lacrosse stats? KNOW
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Let's see how many selections/commitments get solidified on LI this weekend at Farmingdale. Every coach will be there (or represented) from the entire civilized lax world.


For boys all the top programs are in philly this weekend


Sorry Looney dad, there not

Are you a parent and still do not know the proper uses of there, they're and their? It is they're not, not there you moron.


Another meet head farther who spent two much time on the wall and not enough time with the books. Do you no you're kids GPA or just his lacrosse stats?


Another meet head farther who spent two much time on the wall and not enough time with the books. Do you no you're kids GPA or just his lacrosse stats? KNOW


if those are the only mistakes you found, you must also be a meet head lacrosse dad lol
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you are on a NLF team and uncommitted, how much pressure are you under to attend their uncommitted showcase tomorrow?


It was invite only - not open to any nlf player in order to keep it manageable. Perhaps some pressure for those invited so as not to pass on their program identifying them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Fat Crab and NLF moneymaking scheme trying to compete with Philly Freshman Showcase is a pipe dream. I have been to a lot of these events with my older boys and I have never seen the amount of coaches on sidelines like there were the past two years in Philly. The showcase is first rate and the tourney has a lot of good teams. Note the number of NLF players listed for PFS - if their event is so damn good - they would be there.


Look at the rosters- both are higher level players and both are going to be a good venues for the boys attending. Jake Reed Nike is also this weekend so many team showcases are without some of their best players who are attending these three individual events - also gives those kids remaining with their teams an opportunity.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc


with 30 players maybe 1 kid gets 50%
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc


with 30 players maybe 1 kid gets 50%


All those schools give money. I know kids going to Hopkins Duke and UVA that are considered top recruits, all getting a bunch of athletic $$
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc


with 30 players maybe 1 kid gets 50%
30 Players? most of the teams mentioned are carrying 40-45.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc


with 30 players maybe 1 kid gets 50%
30 Players? most of the teams mentioned are carrying 40-45.
I'm sorry Imis-read that, you were talking about women's teams.....although on a totally different note, because of Title IX, NCAA allows 12 athletic scholarships per lax team, while there are 20 per women's rowing team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc


My son has committed to a top 20 school and is receiving a 1/3 overall athletic scholarship and may receive academic as well if he can keep his grades up. He received two other serious offers of about 1/4 overall and an academy (can't compare). Based on what other teammates have been promised, 1/4 is a strong number, so we are very happy with 1/3.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
And before there jerkoffs jump on, let me say congratulations!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How about you answer the question. It's because you don't know the answer and are blowing smoke.

Not sure on the boys side but on the girls side there are plenty of schools as good or better that are willing to give descent money ( 50 percent or more of cost of attendance) and it's guaranteed for 4 years


You're referring to need-based and/or academic money here, correct?


No athletic money , Duke , Stanford, BC, UVA , UNC, USC , Hopkins , Vandy, etc


My son has committed to a top 20 school and is receiving a 1/3 overall athletic scholarship and may receive academic as well if he can keep his grades up. He received two other serious offers of about 1/4 overall and an academy (can't compare). Based on what other teammates have been promised, 1/4 is a strong number, so we are very happy with 1/3.
Congratulations! That is awesome news.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So I have a son who is in 8th grade, and will be playing JV this spring. He plays on a solid A team, not AA like Blaze, Black Ice, or Express. I was told that he should start emailing coaches where he will be playing this spring. He picked Duke, Syracuse and Notre Dame. Of course that is what a 13 year old would pick. I'm new to this, what advice would you give a kid to look at other schools. I only played club ball in college, and didn't go through any of this. My feeling is to look at good business schools that have lax, but of course he has his hopes set pretty high.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
And before there jerkoffs jump on, let me say congratulations!


Thanks, he worked hard. I didn't post it to brag, I posted to share facts, not conjecture and second hand. This forum should be used to help educate and thereby empower parents and players. I'm more than willing to share more info if anyone has any questions. Good luck to all.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
First, let him email whoever he wants, but make sure he knows something about the school. The coaches wont take him seriously if all he writes is " I want to play lacrosse" Tell him to get a little information, then he can email away. there is no harm going big. Just have him look at other programs as well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, let him email whoever he wants, but make sure he knows something about the school. The coaches wont take him seriously if all he writes is " I want to play lacrosse" Tell him to get a little information, then he can email away. there is no harm going big. Just have him look at other programs as well.
Cool, thanks. I gave him a list of all of the D 1 and the top D2 schools to think about. I told him to write down why he wants to go to those schools. Just want him looking at other options without discouraging him.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I have a son who is in 8th grade, and will be playing JV this spring. He plays on a solid A team, not AA like Blaze, Black Ice, or Express. I was told that he should start emailing coaches where he will be playing this spring. He picked Duke, Syracuse and Notre Dame. Of course that is what a 13 year old would pick. I'm new to this, what advice would you give a kid to look at other schools. I only played club ball in college, and didn't go through any of this. My feeling is to look at good business schools that have lax, but of course he has his hopes set pretty high.


My son was in a similar spot. He went to 3 prospect days, for the schools and coaches he liked, summer going into & fall of 9th. By doing this it showed him what to expect from the coaches style and what prospect days were like. Also gives him/you a great opportunity to see the campus.

He also sent a few notes to schools he was interested in, as you state I had a requirement the schools also have a good business school just in case his favored major would not be his lasting major. His concentration of schools are more Academic that Athletic.

Fast forward a few years, no offers but a few conversations. The first thing they ask are how are the grades, are you maintaining. It is all centered around grades grades grades. They are not afraid to say grades are the most important factor.

They also understand some school have letter grades some have number grades. So If you can achieve a 93.5 and you maintain your skills many other schools may come calling for you. Funny how that happens after Brine Freshmen Philly Blue Chip (whether 225 or trip to Florida for jake r.) and various tournaments. Some say doing recruiting days for some of the bigger clubs are a waste, I dont think they are, this could be another way of getting your name out.

I think what helps more is to get/fill out the schools questionnaires. Find out where the coach will be what camps and clinics will they give/attend. Go to those events and then write the coach or recruiting Dir/Coach a note. Have your Club Director help you find out who he knows, always include your HS varsity coach even if your only on JV.

Good luck it is a long road and there is no real wrong answer, what works for one may not for another. i would say dont settle or jump to the first opportunity.

Oh very important, on your first note be sure to send a good high quality Video.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
First, let him email whoever he wants, but make sure he knows something about the school. The coaches wont take him seriously if all he writes is " I want to play lacrosse" Tell him to get a little information, then he can email away. there is no harm going big. Just have him look at other programs as well.


This is good advice - if you (may) want business, for example, say something like "I am planning on major in business and I am very interested in your XYZ school of business.

Doesnt sound like much, but coaches read all of these to build their data bases (read: solicit for prospect days where they earn $$). Differentiation helps
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Good read from FORBES - scholarship numbers cited for swimming are very similar to women's lacrosse.

"A Warning for Parents who Think a Sports Scholarship Actually Covers College Costs"

http://www.forbes.com/sites/bobcook...ually-covers-college-costs/#7254fd8334ec
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
it is a good read. believe it or not it will not prevent the bullsh1ters from talking and posting nonsense.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Didn't the kid lead all of Long Island in scoring last season? Looks like he did just fine in the "Big Boy League".
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?


West Islip
Ward Melville
Northport
Smithtown East
Smithtown West
Hills East
Hills West
Connetquot
Sachem North

He wouldnt start on any of these teams. Agreed the rest of the league is mediocre but that group right there can be pretty competitive and has been for years. Not pounding my chest at all, just pointing out that Suffolk A is considered an extremely competitive conference and historically those teams give preference to the older more experienced kids and that is a fact.


Really? get a clue.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Suffolk A is widely considered one of the best lacrosse conferences in the country. Not going to name them all but he wouldnt start on at least 6 teams in Suffolk A if not more. Im sure [lacrosse] be fine and it will be a great learning experience for him. Best of luck to him either way.


You might consider it one of the best HS lacrosse conferences in the country but that should tell you all you need to know about HS Lacrosse. The reality is that Suffolk A is usually a two or thee team league. I would say the 8th grade kid would start or see significant playing time on all but one or two teams, maybe three. You say six, I doubt that but even if true, there are 24 teams in the league the fact that he would Start on 18 - 22 of them is sad. Most if not all of the teams will be running a fair amount of 9th and 10th graders. So please stop pounding your chest about how competitive the league is. The facts say otherwise. The top few teams are good every year and thats about it. If it were as competitive as you like to believe we would see different teams winning the championship each year. How many teams in the league will be starting three upperclassmen studs on attack this year? It would not be a stretch to say this kid could start on just about any team in the league. Who has the top attack unit ?? Smithtown East? Connetquot? Sachem North? West Islip?


West Islip
Ward Melville
Northport
Smithtown East
Smithtown West
Hills East
Hills West
Connetquot
Sachem North

He wouldnt start on any of these teams. Agreed the rest of the league is mediocre but that group right there can be pretty competitive and has been for years. Not pounding my chest at all, just pointing out that Suffolk A is considered an extremely competitive conference and historically those teams give preference to the older more experienced kids and that is a fact.


Really? get a clue.


I agree. There are a few teams in Suffolk B that could compete with that list on any given day. There are 5 or 6 that could easily beat the remaining A league teams not mentioned on any given day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Didn't the kid lead all of Long Island in scoring last season? Looks like he did just fine in the "Big Boy League".


yes he certainly did, the jealousy continues to amaze, this kid is now at St Anthony's and as a 9th grader this year will be one of the very few freshman ever to play varsity at this school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
it is a good read. believe it or not it will not prevent the bullsh1ters from talking and posting nonsense.


It is nonsense if you are a top rated player. My son would be at a state school if he didn't get the big$$$
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Lane Kiffin is just the latest coach to pull a verbal scholarship offer hiding behind a coaching change. This year in college football and basketball a record number of scholarships are not being honored. The two issues everyone is citing is change in coaching and that the players were recruited at too early of an age and things have changed.

Will lacrosse be next? If the big do it there should be concern that that the minor sports will follow.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Lax already pulls offers. They just increase the academic requirment if they no longer want the player. This has been happening for a while already. They will also have the kid continue to attend prospect days for an eval if play has dropped or a player has not developed.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Didn't the kid lead all of Long Island in scoring last season? Looks like he did just fine in the "Big Boy League".


yes he certainly did, the jealousy continues to amaze, this kid is now at St Anthony's and as a 9th grader this year will be one of the very few freshman ever to play varsity at this school.


Is he definitely going to play varsity?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Didn't the kid lead all of Long Island in scoring last season? Looks like he did just fine in the "Big Boy League".


yes he certainly did, the jealousy continues to amaze, this kid is now at St Anthony's and as a 9th grader this year will be one of the very few freshman ever to play varsity at this school.


Is he definitely going to play varsity?


Yes, as he should!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
100% true
He is a stud against his age group but playing in Suffolk A is a big boys league and he will be somewhat of a 'marked man'.
If nothing else, deciding on his college future at this juncture has made him the poster boy for early recruiting and his progress will be watched closely.
I hope for his sake he continues to enjoy the game and continues to mature emotionally and physically.
As far as Tambo is concerned, he should hide his head in shame.
Linebacker U...that's funny.


"Suffolk A big boy league" ?? C'mon man get a grip. Most likely he will be playing against several 9th and 10th graders because just about all of the teams have them playing Varsity, the league will be full of them. What teams in that league would he not start on? Most of the teams in the league will not be very strong at all. He will do just fine. Best of luck to him.


Didn't the kid lead all of Long Island in scoring last season? Looks like he did just fine in the "Big Boy League".


yes he certainly did, the jealousy continues to amaze, this kid is now at St Anthony's and as a 9th grader this year will be one of the very few freshman ever to play varsity at this school.


Is he definitely going to play varsity?


To me, Ill take it a step further, could be the next lax kid to play in the NFL.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Just remember that a majority of the points were put up against the weaker teams they played..Yes he is good but please don't make him out to be the king of lacrosse . No kid should carry that burden. If he plays Varsity he will crush it against the weaker teams and pay a price against the better ones.. You make it like he carries his travel team. He helps them but isn't the only player.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You are wrong on just about every count... the kid DOES carry his travel team, tore it up in the "vaunted" Suffolk conference one and will have a great season. Guessing your son is a soph or jr. lefty attackman at St. A's...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Yea ok. Please. Players earn their way on. Certainly not because some person on BOTC thinks they should
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If that's the case he should concentrate on football now. Let me repeat parents: there is no future financially playing lacrosse!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that's the case he should concentrate on football now. Let me repeat parents: there is no future financially playing lacrosse!


There certainly is if being a recruited athlete gets you into a better school than you'd normally get into without lacrosse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Just remember that a majority of the points were put up against the weaker teams they played..Yes he is good but please don't make him out to be the king of lacrosse . No kid should carry that burden. If he plays Varsity he will crush it against the weaker teams and pay a price against the better ones.. You make it like he carries his travel team. He helps them but isn't the only player.


At the time the kid was a young 13 year old 8th grader playing varsity lax in Suffolk County 1 against 16, 17, 18 year olds, and in regular season led ALL of Long Island in points, so much for the hold back theory, and people on here crying when there kid plays a kid who is a year older, kid has nothing to prove to anyone, people always focus on the negative when they get that pang of jealousy and afraid there kid not measuring up.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Just remember that a majority of the points were put up against the weaker teams they played..Yes he is good but please don't make him out to be the king of lacrosse . No kid should carry that burden. If he plays Varsity he will crush it against the weaker teams and pay a price against the better ones.. You make it like he carries his travel team. He helps them but isn't the only player.


May I ask what price? Some big Jr or Sr defenseman gonna pancake the kid? Okay, I'm sure he'll hop up and score on the inevitable man down. So it's a win in the end.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Just remember that a majority of the points were put up against the weaker teams they played..Yes he is good but please don't make him out to be the king of lacrosse . No kid should carry that burden. If he plays Varsity he will crush it against the weaker teams and pay a price against the better ones.. You make it like he carries his travel team. He helps them but isn't the only player.


Make no mistake, THIS 9th grader can play with any varsity team. He already has the skill set and size to compete at the varsity level. That is not going to change. The better question is what is his upside for college. His speed will have to improve and he will have to continue to grow for him to be dominant. You are right about one thing, he is a kid and no one needs to put expectations on him because he was better than everyone else at an early age. Hopefully he continues to work hard and achieve his goals. God bless him! I hope he does. He is off to a great start!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Just remember that a majority of the points were put up against the weaker teams they played..Yes he is good but please don't make him out to be the king of lacrosse . No kid should carry that burden. If he plays Varsity he will crush it against the weaker teams and pay a price against the better ones.. You make it like he carries his travel team. He helps them but isn't the only player.


Make no mistake, THIS 9th grader can play with any varsity team. He already has the skill set and size to compete at the varsity level. That is not going to change. The better question is what is his upside for college. His speed will have to improve and he will have to continue to grow for him to be dominant. You are right about one thing, he is a kid and no one needs to put expectations on him because he was better than everyone else at an early age. Hopefully he continues to work hard and achieve his goals. God bless him! I hope he does. He is off to a great start!


Why does he have to grow? He is already as tall or taller than most college attackmen
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ok Dad
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
lets fill a few more pages with this horse crap beween the daddy and his pal.
get a room.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If that kid doesn't play on the Varsity the whole coaching staff should be slapped and then fired!


Just remember that a majority of the points were put up against the weaker teams they played..Yes he is good but please don't make him out to be the king of lacrosse . No kid should carry that burden. If he plays Varsity he will crush it against the weaker teams and pay a price against the better ones.. You make it like he carries his travel team. He helps them but isn't the only player.


Make no mistake, THIS 9th grader can play with any varsity team. He already has the skill set and size to compete at the varsity level. That is not going to change. The better question is what is his upside for college. His speed will have to improve and he will have to continue to grow for him to be dominant. You are right about one thing, he is a kid and no one needs to put expectations on him because he was better than everyone else at an early age. Hopefully he continues to work hard and achieve his goals. God bless him! I hope he does. He is off to a great start!


Why does he have to grow? He is already as tall or taller than most college attackmen


He needs to grow To be dominant. I don't think at his size and speed combination that it will give him any distinct advantage at the collegiate level. If he gets bigger and/or quicker he will be an absolute beast. I am definitely not his dad or coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here


Ok relative....nobody cares
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here

He is, but he isn't bigger than Most D 1 defensemen. Therefore he still needs to grow to be as physically dominant as he is against his peers now. Bottom line is he was an early puberty kid, sometimes they don't develop as much as you think as they go up levels. I am not uninformed and I think the kid is a fantastic player.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Wow, this is a lot of banter on who is probably one of the top Attackmen LI will see play the game of Lacrosse. You say he is not big enough you say he is not fast enough, you say he only dominates against his peers, I guess you havent been watching.

Kid has always played up, I found it surprising he didnt play in 7th grade. But kudos on the parents for not pushing that. Again those that dont know will say i am pushing it but those that know him know he always played up when he could.

Please before anyone comments, have you watch him play? When, recently? If not recently you're in for a treat you will enjoy it, bring the young ones they can learn. You will find yourself saying "how in the heck did he do that". If you cant watch him ask those that play with/against him.

Yes teams will key on him and he will get the brunt of the physicality, but again have you seen him, he is bigger than most men and is still 14. You say he isnt bigger than most D1 poles. I'd say define most, is that closer to 51% or 99%? If 50% is half, most is surely larger than that and i dont think 70% of D1 poles are larger than he is (and he is 14 and growing)?

Yes he played on a great youth travel team. A team that many have a love hate relationship with, (i get it) but dont judge him on that, because you think is was just a youth team. What that team did and what it allowed him to do was great. That cast of characters helped hone one of his best attributes. He was afforded the opportunity to not have to be the go to player and learned that it was a team game. He plays with the utmost lax IQ and is as impressive of a distributor as he is scorer.

So go ahead key on him, but it is a team sport and he plays an amazing team game. Whether on the ride, a Pick, a Decoy or a points maker!

By the way, ever see the kid face off?

I know i probably put a bigger target on his back by this, and I am sorry, but wasnt there a big one there already. I am just sick of people saying he isnt this or he isnt that. Just sit back and enjoy, lets see what he can do.

Good luck to you Kid. (although i hope you never read this)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Wow, this is a lot of banter on who is probably one of the top Attackmen LI will see play the game of Lacrosse. You say he is not big enough you say he is not fast enough, you say he only dominates against his peers, I guess you havent been watching.

Kid has always played up, I found it surprising he didnt play in 7th grade. But kudos on the parents for not pushing that. Again those that dont know will say i am pushing it but those that know him know he always played up when he could.

Please before anyone comments, have you watch him play? When, recently? If not recently you're in for a treat you will enjoy it, bring the young ones they can learn. You will find yourself saying "how in the heck did he do that". If you cant watch him ask those that play with/against him.

Yes teams will key on him and he will get the brunt of the physicality, but again have you seen him, he is bigger than most men and is still 14. You say he isnt bigger than most D1 poles. I'd say define most, is that closer to 51% or 99%? If 50% is half, most is surely larger than that and i dont think 70% of D1 poles are larger than he is (and he is 14 and growing)?

Yes he played on a great youth travel team. A team that many have a love hate relationship with, (i get it) but dont judge him on that, because you think is was just a youth team. What that team did and what it allowed him to do was great. That cast of characters helped hone one of his best attributes. He was afforded the opportunity to not have to be the go to player and learned that it was a team game. He plays with the utmost lax IQ and is as impressive of a distributor as he is scorer.

So go ahead key on him, but it is a team sport and he plays an amazing team game. Whether on the ride, a Pick, a Decoy or a points maker!

By the way, ever see the kid face off?

I know i probably put a bigger target on his back by this, and I am sorry, but wasnt there a big one there already. I am just sick of people saying he isnt this or he isnt that. Just sit back and enjoy, lets see what he can do.

Good luck to you Kid. (although i hope you never read this)


OK uncle Jack.. nobody cares
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Well I can say that there is NO way I'm bringing my family to watch someone else's kid play lacrosse. There are a lot of other things I could do, like watching paint dry.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
no one cares...what a pile of self serving garbage that was.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Wow, this is a lot of banter on who is probably one of the top Attackmen LI will see play the game of Lacrosse. You say he is not big enough you say he is not fast enough, you say he only dominates against his peers, I guess you havent been watching.

Kid has always played up, I found it surprising he didnt play in 7th grade. But kudos on the parents for not pushing that. Again those that dont know will say i am pushing it but those that know him know he always played up when he could.

Please before anyone comments, have you watch him play? When, recently? If not recently you're in for a treat you will enjoy it, bring the young ones they can learn. You will find yourself saying "how in the heck did he do that". If you cant watch him ask those that play with/against him.

Yes teams will key on him and he will get the brunt of the physicality, but again have you seen him, he is bigger than most men and is still 14. You say he isnt bigger than most D1 poles. I'd say define most, is that closer to 51% or 99%? If 50% is half, most is surely larger than that and i dont think 70% of D1 poles are larger than he is (and he is 14 and growing)?

Yes he played on a great youth travel team. A team that many have a love hate relationship with, (i get it) but dont judge him on that, because you think is was just a youth team. What that team did and what it allowed him to do was great. That cast of characters helped hone one of his best attributes. He was afforded the opportunity to not have to be the go to player and learned that it was a team game. He plays with the utmost lax IQ and is as impressive of a distributor as he is scorer.

So go ahead key on him, but it is a team sport and he plays an amazing team game. Whether on the ride, a Pick, a Decoy or a points maker!

By the way, ever see the kid face off?

I know i probably put a bigger target on his back by this, and I am sorry, but wasnt there a big one there already. I am just sick of people saying he isnt this or he isnt that. Just sit back and enjoy, lets see what he can do.

Good luck to you Kid. (although i hope you never read this)



Seriously , it's still a fringe sport , hopefully he gets an education because no matter how good you think he is he will need to get a job eventually.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here

He is, but he isn't bigger than Most D 1 defensemen. Therefore he still needs to grow to be as physically dominant as he is against his peers now. Bottom line is he was an early puberty kid, sometimes they don't develop as much as you think as they go up levels. I am not uninformed and I think the kid is a fantastic player.


You say he hit puberty early?! That isn't puberty but genetics. People always seem to get those two confused. He was always bigger than most of his peers, puberty had nothing to do with that.

Ever see his face without his helmet on? That is not the face of a pubescent man-child. Just the opposite. Kid works tirelessly to get the body and results he gets, hard work and genetics. Just wait for that magical puberty piece to kick in.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
He is going to play major league lacrosse. Rookies get $8k, many get 15K and the stars get 20-25 if they can manipulate their real jobs (if they have one) to be able to travel and practice.

The best players who win the lottery turn into HS coaches making $6,000 and are summer club directors they are making wall street type money
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The average D1 defenseman / LSM is just over 6' and 191 lbs.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here

He is, but he isn't bigger than Most D 1 defensemen. Therefore he still needs to grow to be as physically dominant as he is against his peers now. Bottom line is he was an early puberty kid, sometimes they don't develop as much as you think as they go up levels. I am not uninformed and I think the kid is a fantastic player.


You say he hit puberty early?! That isn't puberty but genetics. People always seem to get those two confused. He was always bigger than most of his peers, puberty had nothing to do with that.

Ever see his face without his helmet on? That is not the face of a pubescent man-child. Just the opposite. Kid works tirelessly to get the body and results he gets, hard work and genetics. Just wait for that magical puberty piece to kick in.




thanks aunt June.........nobody cares
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The average D1 defenseman / LSM is just over 6' and 191 lbs.


Are you serious? That's the average middie in D3
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here

He is, but he isn't bigger than Most D 1 defensemen. Therefore he still needs to grow to be as physically dominant as he is against his peers now. Bottom line is he was an early puberty kid, sometimes they don't develop as much as you think as they go up levels. I am not uninformed and I think the kid is a fantastic player.


You say he hit puberty early?! That isn't puberty but genetics. People always seem to get those two confused. He was always bigger than most of his peers, puberty had nothing to do with that.

Ever see his face without his helmet on? That is not the face of a pubescent man-child. Just the opposite. Kid works tirelessly to get the body and results he gets, hard work and genetics. Just wait for that magical puberty piece to kick in.




You sir are an idiot, first I find it strange that you would know what stage of puberty anyone is at, actually creepy. Second if he is prepubescent as you say then all the work in the gym to get the "body" (again creepy) sounds chemically manipulated (again creepy) and I have no idea who this kid is.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The average D1 defenseman / LSM is just over 6' and 191 lbs.


Are you serious? That's the average middie in D3


I was bored... Stony Brook D and LSM - average 6'1 189.5 lbs. If you take away the LSM's the average drops.

I would say 6'1" 190 is pretty close to the average across D1.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
he's bigger than most of the defensemen he plays against as well-now-as a Freshman.I am not from Bay Shore, 89+2, or Saint Guido but have a '20 and have seen him through the years... no homerism here, just stating the facts to some uninformed moron posting on here

He is, but he isn't bigger than Most D 1 defensemen. Therefore he still needs to grow to be as physically dominant as he is against his peers now. Bottom line is he was an early puberty kid, sometimes they don't develop as much as you think as they go up levels. I am not uninformed and I think the kid is a fantastic player.


You say he hit puberty early?! That isn't puberty but genetics. People always seem to get those two confused. He was always bigger than most of his peers, puberty had nothing to do with that.

Ever see his face without his helmet on? That is not the face of a pubescent man-child. Just the opposite. Kid works tirelessly to get the body and results he gets, hard work and genetics. Just wait for that magical puberty piece to kick in.




This is hysterical. I almost spit up my coffee. People reach puberty at different ages. Their genetics are what they are. In sports it usually benefits those who hit it early. I will use my son as an example. In 8th grade he was average height and size. His teammate was 4 to 5 inches taller than him. He was a bit faster a bit stronger and a bit better but because he hit puberty earlier than my son. Fast forward till 10th grade my son is now 6'2 180 and about 4 to 5 inches taller than his teammate. Both have similar work ethics yet due to my son hitting puberty he is stronger and bigger and faster which in turn has resulted in him being looked at by a number of D1 programs. Genetics never changed same mom and dad just got that little boost of testosterone from puberty. Yet what people do forget is if the player is athletically gifted and has the work ethic they will excel regardless. It just will depend on when they get recruited.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The average D1 defenseman / LSM is just over 6' and 191 lbs.


Are you serious? That's the average middie in D3


I was bored... Stony Brook D and LSM - average 6'1 189.5 lbs. If you take away the LSM's the average drops.

I would say 6'1" 190 is pretty close to the average across D1.


Pls get a life
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The average D1 defenseman / LSM is just over 6' and 191 lbs.


Are you serious? That's the average middie in D3


I was bored... Stony Brook D and LSM - average 6'1 189.5 lbs. If you take away the LSM's the average drops.

I would say 6'1" 190 is pretty close to the average across D1.


Pls get a life


Thanks for a little research. But we don't want facts to get in the way of our positions. We need alternative facts.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
All you dads should relax, its a freakin game. Nobody cares how many goals your kid scores or what he weighs. Tell me what his teachers names are and what he got on his last math test and then I will be impressed. Put the beer down, quit thumping your chest and help him pick a school and a major that will set him up for the rest of his life.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Exactly right. This is a club sport. Never be any money in it and therefore the best athletes will be in football, basketball and baseball. Check the ego and have fun with it..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All you dads should relax, its a freakin game. Nobody cares how many goals your kid scores or what he weighs. Tell me what his teachers names are and what he got on his last math test and then I will be impressed. Put the beer down, quit thumping your chest and help him pick a school and a major that will set him up for the rest of his life.


So you reason to be reading and posting is?

Better start getting on back of the chalkboard.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All you dads should relax, its a freakin game. Nobody cares how many goals your kid scores or what he weighs. Tell me what his teachers names are and what he got on his last math test and then I will be impressed. Put the beer down, quit thumping your chest and help him pick a school and a major that will set him up for the rest of his life.


Game?? Are u serious?? This is lacrosse!! My child will be D1 player without a doubt! I havent spent tens of thousands on him to end up D3 ?? I never got a chance and am I living the Dream thru him ... Not sure how he feels, but that is his problem..not mine!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I wonder when lacrosse goes the next step. h.s. hoops now has "schools" exclusively for blue chip players. Set up in obscure places such as Maine or wherever and they have only a small population of students...all basketball kids.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All you dads should relax, its a freakin game. Nobody cares how many goals your kid scores or what he weighs. Tell me what his teachers names are and what he got on his last math test and then I will be impressed. Put the beer down, quit thumping your chest and help him pick a school and a major that will set him up for the rest of his life.


So you reason to be reading and posting is?

Better start getting on back of the chalkboard.


You should have your wife respond for you caveman. Keep living through your kid.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
most of the "basketball schools" have students who could never matriculate in regular HS...so unless Lax starts being played by kids who have no use for HS classes, don't expect that to happen
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I wonder when lacrosse goes the next step. h.s. hoops now has "schools" exclusively for blue chip players. Set up in obscure places such as Maine or wherever and they have only a small population of students...all basketball kids.

IMG in Florida, sports academy that costs $$. But your kid can get $6,000 to play D-1. Craziness!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
In a sense, it has already arrived. The Hill Academy in Canada is an example.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I have to say I played D1 in the 90's and I really hope my son doesn't go that route. D2 d3 it doesn't matter. Have a life in college. Enjoy the experience. What are you going to graduate and play pro lax for 10-12k a year. No future.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Someone is gonna make a ton of money.
lots of idle cash to be thrown at the dreamers.
if parents will pay 5-6 thousand a summer for a club team A,B, or C. its almost the next thing that will become even popular in lacrosse.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Once you get past the top 5 D1 schools, does it really matter? I agree with your point. My guy has been playing since 4th grade and is not a Junior. We did the big travel organizations for the first few years, and we got tired of throwing away all the money. He is on the "radar" for some D1 schools and has 2 offers from D3 and I think will go D3 in the end. A great education, the chance to compete and play and a college experience. That is the way to go!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I agree with your D2/D3 argument especially for my 2nd going through. First kid we probably paid over $50,000 for summer travel. Then he went to a $54,000 school with a roster of 35 and got $8,100 per year so we still paid $45,900. He played lax 24/7 or about 5 hours a day and didn't get too much playing time. We were lucky at least he was able to take the major he wanted.

My next still plays but we are stressing the academics and hope he goes D3 or plays college club. We hope our 2nd has a more balanced college experience socially, academically and lax wise. I hope this helps someone who is new to the process
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with your D2/D3 argument especially for my 2nd going through. First kid we probably paid over $50,000 for summer travel. Then he went to a $54,000 school with a roster of 35 and got $8,100 per year so we still paid $45,900. He played lax 24/7 or about 5 hours a day and didn't get too much playing time. We were lucky at least he was able to take the major he wanted.

My next still plays but we are stressing the academics and hope he goes D3 or plays college club. We hope our 2nd has a more balanced college experience socially, academically and lax wise. I hope this helps someone who is new to the process


Yeah. Unless you're lucky enough to get into an Ivy (these schools have amazing need-based aid and fairly strict rules about off-season practice and allowed hours per week), D3 can be a fantastic option, especially the NESCAC schools.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is not directed at the author of this post but just being said in general to the string of posts re money and travel costs and scholarships in general. Is it possible, and call me crazy here, that you as the parent throw money at the game because your kids love it. They love the camaraderie of playing with friends, they love the competition, the love to be the best they can be at something (and even if that includes just being an average player on a high school team or travel program), they love the overnights with friends at hotels and the life long friends they will make. I could go on. Everyone makes this about Division 1 scholarships or beign recruited or going "pro". I will tell you, I competed in Division 1 in another sport (with a little bit of scholarship money but definitely no where near what my parents spent on my years of athletic participation), and at my wedding 3/4 of my friends were from my high school and college team. I didn't go pro or make money in my sport but some of the my best memories from high school and college were with my teammates. To this day we share stories and get together for drinks and BS about about the good, the bad and the at times UGLY times we had as athletes. Again, call me crazy but everyone on this list always comes back to the 8-10k one will make professionally or the 20% scholarship. That talk is just silly, for me the money is well spent and the day my son wants to quit because he doesn't love it (as long as it is not mid-season bc I wont let him quit on his friends, coaches or teammates) then he quits. Cei la vie. One final note, if my son plays up until his senior year and it doesn't get him one nickel in scholarship money but helps him get into a college he may have not been able to get into -- again worth all the money! And if he then stops playing, joins a frat or the drama club, all will be good. I will just hope that he has the memories of playing travel sports because they can be GREAT!

Sorry for the long post but I just the priorities on this forum are out of wack sometimes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is not directed at the author of this post but just being said in general to the string of posts re money and travel costs and scholarships in general. Is it possible, and call me crazy here, that you as the parent throw money at the game because your kids love it. They love the camaraderie of playing with friends, they love the competition, the love to be the best they can be at something (and even if that includes just being an average player on a high school team or travel program), they love the overnights with friends at hotels and the life long friends they will make. I could go on. Everyone makes this about Division 1 scholarships or beign recruited or going "pro". I will tell you, I competed in Division 1 in another sport (with a little bit of scholarship money but definitely no where near what my parents spent on my years of athletic participation), and at my wedding 3/4 of my friends were from my high school and college team. I didn't go pro or make money in my sport but some of the my best memories from high school and college were with my teammates. To this day we share stories and get together for drinks and BS about about the good, the bad and the at times UGLY times we had as athletes. Again, call me crazy but everyone on this list always comes back to the 8-10k one will make professionally or the 20% scholarship. That talk is just silly, for me the money is well spent and the day my son wants to quit because he doesn't love it (as long as it is not mid-season bc I wont let him quit on his friends, coaches or teammates) then he quits. Cei la vie. One final note, if my son plays up until his senior year and it doesn't get him one nickel in scholarship money but helps him get into a college he may have not been able to get into -- again worth all the money! And if he then stops playing, joins a frat or the drama club, all will be good. I will just hope that he has the memories of playing travel sports because they can be GREAT!

Sorry for the long post but I just the priorities on this forum are out of wack sometimes.


Couldn't agree more but today is different from when we played in college. Its a fulltime job therefore I am a proponent of D3 or club for my 2nd. Still playing, still the go to player, on the field as a freshman, still with the team but they actually still have a life. To each there own I guess but we lived modern day D1 lax and if you aren't a top stud, I would argue against it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is not directed at the author of this post but just being said in general to the string of posts re money and travel costs and scholarships in general. Is it possible, and call me crazy here, that you as the parent throw money at the game because your kids love it. They love the camaraderie of playing with friends, they love the competition, the love to be the best they can be at something (and even if that includes just being an average player on a high school team or travel program), they love the overnights with friends at hotels and the life long friends they will make. I could go on. Everyone makes this about Division 1 scholarships or beign recruited or going "pro". I will tell you, I competed in Division 1 in another sport (with a little bit of scholarship money but definitely no where near what my parents spent on my years of athletic participation), and at my wedding 3/4 of my friends were from my high school and college team. I didn't go pro or make money in my sport but some of the my best memories from high school and college were with my teammates. To this day we share stories and get together for drinks and BS about about the good, the bad and the at times UGLY times we had as athletes. Again, call me crazy but everyone on this list always comes back to the 8-10k one will make professionally or the 20% scholarship. That talk is just silly, for me the money is well spent and the day my son wants to quit because he doesn't love it (as long as it is not mid-season bc I wont let him quit on his friends, coaches or teammates) then he quits. Cei la vie. One final note, if my son plays up until his senior year and it doesn't get him one nickel in scholarship money but helps him get into a college he may have not been able to get into -- again worth all the money! And if he then stops playing, joins a frat or the drama club, all will be good. I will just hope that he has the memories of playing travel sports because they can be GREAT!

Sorry for the long post but I just the priorities on this forum are out of wack sometimes.


That's a great post friend.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Perfectly said! It is about everything you had mentioned! Way to keep it in perspective.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Impressive post. Well thought out. Kudos! And agree with everything and wish the rest of the site had the same intellectual ability.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Yes HC has only 2 scholarships. Admissions Not particularly difficult...
So, where is the value prop for your student athlete??

...better off playing Tuffs, Gettysburg, Swarthmore, for same money, better reputation, or a Furman, Highpoint, Richmond, for D1 money and warmer climate ...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Does it vary school by school of what the school offer up financially? Everyone says stay away from D3 because there is no $$, but ultimately, it seems like it is just the difference between the support being called a scholarship in D1 vs. being called a grant. My son got offered a spot with a top 20 D3 which to me is pretty impressive in that there are over 150 D3 schools. In talking to admission, the grant money offered to athletes on the team was in he range of $18-20K. That is a good chunk of change on top of financial aid and merit money, coupled with the chance to compete and play, enjoy college, get an education and perhaps with a championship.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
HC?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Top D3 schools could play the middle D1 teams tough especially on the girls side. If your kid isn't Michael Jordan, don't believe the D1 hype. D2 and D3 gets you on the field quiker with a better school life lax balance
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does it vary school by school of what the school offer up financially? Everyone says stay away from D3 because there is no $$, but ultimately, it seems like it is just the difference between the support being called a scholarship in D1 vs. being called a grant. My son got offered a spot with a top 20 D3 which to me is pretty impressive in that there are over 150 D3 schools. In talking to admission, the grant money offered to athletes on the team was in he range of $18-20K. That is a good chunk of change on top of financial aid and merit money, coupled with the chance to compete and play, enjoy college, get an education and perhaps with a championship.


Other than SUNY, it's a great way to go!! I plan on doing that for my son, and maybe my wife will let me get my mid life crisis dream car with the money savings!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Top D3 schools could play the middle D1 teams tough especially on the girls side. If your kid isn't Michael Jordan, don't believe the D1 hype. D2 and D3 gets you on the field quiker with a better school life lax balance


The best D3 schools could certainly run with middle / lower tier D1 schools, no doubt. But once you get past the top ~10 the dropoff is pretty significant, especially in terms of team depth (e.g. only having one real midfield line, etc.).

Many even mid-range D3 schools would lose to strong high school teams.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
no school can offer grant money for a particular sport in D3 same eligibility as anyone else at the school. coaches have no input as to money allocated to students or potential students.
but you knew that.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
In a sense, it has already arrived. The Hill Academy in Canada is an example.

Here is an informative article about The Hill Academy from si.com:
http://www.si.com/edge/2016/05/04/the-hill-academy-lacrosse-canada-high-school-brodie-merrill

The school isn't just for Canadians as there are at least a half dozen Americans attending. The cost is also half of what IMG charges.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Those rosters of 50 kids play very few on game day. 5 hours a day, coach controls your major and you ride the pine. That's a reality for lots of kids in college. That's why there is so much talent in D2 and D3.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does it vary school by school of what the school offer up financially? Everyone says stay away from D3 because there is no $$, but ultimately, it seems like it is just the difference between the support being called a scholarship in D1 vs. being called a grant. My son got offered a spot with a top 20 D3 which to me is pretty impressive in that there are over 150 D3 schools. In talking to admission, the grant money offered to athletes on the team was in he range of $18-20K. That is a good chunk of change on top of financial aid and merit money, coupled with the chance to compete and play, enjoy college, get an education and perhaps with a championship.


Other than SUNY, it's a great way to go!! I plan on doing that for my son, and maybe my wife will let me get my mid life crisis dream car with the money savings!


SUNY schools can be the absolute best value net net. I wish my oldest would have attended Albany or Binghamton over a mid Atlantic school costing $60k+. The scholarship was only a dent in the overall cost. Hindsight.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Does it vary school by school of what the school offer up financially? Everyone says stay away from D3 because there is no $$, but ultimately, it seems like it is just the difference between the support being called a scholarship in D1 vs. being called a grant. My son got offered a spot with a top 20 D3 which to me is pretty impressive in that there are over 150 D3 schools. In talking to admission, the grant money offered to athletes on the team was in he range of $18-20K. That is a good chunk of change on top of financial aid and merit money, coupled with the chance to compete and play, enjoy college, get an education and perhaps with a championship.


Other than SUNY, it's a great way to go!! I plan on doing that for my son, and maybe my wife will let me get my mid life crisis dream car with the money savings!


SUNY schools can be the absolute best value net net. I wish my oldest would have attended Albany or Binghamton over a mid Atlantic school costing $60k+. The scholarship was only a dent in the overall cost. Hindsight.


Kids have to get accepted first - SUNYs aren't the gimmies they used to be. And it will only get tougher if NY goes through with the free tuition plan for lower income families.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Receiving $5,000 athletic to go to a mid level D1 school that costs $46,000. Winner, winner, chicken dinner!!! The kids should be lining up to play for the Coast Guard Academy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Anyone know if Maritime or Kings Point have good programs?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anyone know if Maritime or Kings Point have good programs?


They're both mid-level D3 lacrosse programs, but fantastic schools for anyone interested in the maritime field.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anyone know if Maritime or Kings Point have good programs?


Another idiot. If you go to a service academy like kings point you are going for something much more noble than lax.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.
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It also depends on your major... If your son wants to become a teacher, SUNY best value, but if business major, still worth going Ivy, given the opportunity... (And having a big financial firm pay for your MBA)...
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Agreed. Kid might not want the 5 year commitment post grad, but debt free, and job waiting!!
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Anyone know if Maritime or Kings Point have good programs?


Another idiot. If you go to a service academy like kings point you are going for something much more noble than lax.

It was a simple question dumb [lacrosse]. My older brother went to Maritime for a different sport
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!
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A top 10 nationally ranked high school team could beat lower ranked D3 schools. I'm not even sure what your objection to this notion would be, as there is a wide disparity between top D3 teams and lower.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.


Thanks Dr. Spock, explain how it's not logical, what empirical evidence do you have to disprove my theory? have you conducted a study? Have you seen them scrimmage? What facts have you mu pointy eared friend, to state my argument has no logic? Logic would indicate that a group of MEN could beat a group of BOYS every day.
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yeah of course.. and Aqua Man can beat up Spider Man. easily.. wth are you in 3rd grade. who cares anyway??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
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yeah of course.. and Aqua Man can beat up Spider Man. easily.. wth are you in 3rd grade. who cares anyway??


Um, the poster who said HS teams could beat D3 teams cares I think?!?
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yeah of course.. and Aqua Man can beat up Spider Man. easily.. wth are you in 3rd grade. who cares anyway??


Yea but.......superman can beat up aquaman. But aren't they all on the same team........I think its called the TRUMP team.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.


Thanks Dr. Spock, explain how it's not logical, what empirical evidence do you have to disprove my theory? have you conducted a study? Have you seen them scrimmage? What facts have you mu pointy eared friend, to state my argument has no logic? Logic would indicate that a group of MEN could beat a group of BOYS every day.


We would all be speaking German right now, my friend, if your argument held any water.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.


Thanks Dr. Spock, explain how it's not logical, what empirical evidence do you have to disprove my theory? have you conducted a study? Have you seen them scrimmage? What facts have you mu pointy eared friend, to state my argument has no logic? Logic would indicate that a group of MEN could beat a group of BOYS every day.


Go to the beach and let me know how your men are doing against the boys in the open division.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


They could, and would. In many cases the games wouldn't even be close. Have you ever watched a D3 game? Do you live in a lacrosse hotbed, one with "powerhouse" schools?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.


They probably beat the MIAA champ, just not the Long Island Champs.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.


They probably beat the MIAA champ, just not the Long Island Champs.


A different argument, but another great example to the original point, agreed on that part!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are really out of your mind. where do you get that about 1 middie ,line? many mid range would lose to strong high school teams? really? where do you get that concept? you really are a windbag.



I guess you never played lacrosse in college? Did you even play in high school?


Mid level D3 still have solid 2 mid lines and 3rd that can play utility. A top 10 or 15 high school could compete or beat mid level and down, which really isn't a criticism.


You obviously NEVER played lacrosse in college if you believe that. Based on that statement all the BOTC hold back haters are now proven to be blow hards, because a bunch of HS kids can beat college players!


Your argument is not logical. The 200th ranked D3 school isn't beating the MIAA champs any given year.


They probably beat the MIAA champ, just not the Long Island Champs.


Ha, I think this is something that we (on this board at least) can all get behind. Making fun of wimpy Baltimore players will never get old for me.

But seriously: deep, strong Long Island teams (think Ward Melville, Chaminade, St. Anthony's, etc.) really would beat up on even mid-level D3 schools. Against weaker D3 teams, they'd have to play the bench. Watching a Chaminade vs. St. Anthony's game or the Class A Long Island Championship game is more akin to watching a D1 game than a D3 one, at least in terms of player skill and overall game speed.

I'm pretty sure anyone with sons who've played at both levels will agree with me here.
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That's asinine! Now class A HS players are beating D-1 schools. You guys are clueless. None f you have EVER played this sport. None of you, you're clowns.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
That's asinine! Now class A HS players are beating D-1 schools. You guys are clueless. None f you have EVER played this sport. None of you, you're clowns.


Nobody claimed that.

But the best team from Suffolk A in any particular year would would trounce many lower level D3 teams.
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Yeah, I was with you at lower level D3, but the wild hard turn to D1 threw the argument to unrealistic. No, just no. Kind of like saying the teams you list are better than top Baltimore teams. No again.
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They probably beat the MIAA champ, just not the Long Island Champs. [/quote]

Ha, I think this is something that we (on this board at least) can all get behind. Making fun of wimpy Baltimore players will never get old for me.

But seriously: deep, strong Long Island teams (think Ward Melville, Chaminade, St. Anthony's, etc.) really would beat up on even mid-level D3 schools. Against weaker D3 teams, they'd have to play the bench. Watching a Chaminade vs. St. Anthony's game or the Class A Long Island Championship game is more akin to watching a D1 game than a D3 one, at least in terms of player skill and overall game speed.

I'm pretty sure anyone with sons who've played at both levels will agree with me here. [/quote]

Nope.
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Today was national signing day, you know the day in which real athletes that o she your kid to the end of the bench sign for a FULL scholarship and the chance of going pro and making a living off of going pro.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah, I was with you at lower level D3, but the wild hard turn to D1 threw the argument to unrealistic. No, just no. Kind of like saying the teams you list are better than top Baltimore teams. No again.


I never claimed that any high school would beat a D1 team. I did say that high level high school lacrosse looks more like D1 lacrosse than it does like low-level D3. I stand by that.

And as to your second point, I guess we'll find out later this year: St. Anthony's is playing Boys' Latin and Chaminade is playing McDonogh.
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..and Alabama would beat Cleveland Browns, right? apples and oranges.
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no they wouldnt, but Clemson would.
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What is a mid level D111 team? Roanoke? Denison? St. Lawrence? Hamilton? So, you people believe that a team made up of mostly 19, 20 and 21 year old men that play lacrosse at a Varsity level would lose to lets say, Garden City or Cold Spring Harbor? Really? College athletes have MUCH better training then any HS except for maybe IMG or The Hill. Men vs Boys in a contact sport? So funny. You people are out of your collective minds.

BTW, Vegas thought that if Ala played the Browns, then Cleveland would be 21 pt favorites.

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top players from top teams rarely get p.t. at next level ( even the PG guys) be it D1,2 or 3 until a couple of years in if they hang in there. some even get cut . we all know of kids from top programs getting cut .
college is a collection players from lots of different programs including the usual best names in h.s. look at some D3 rosters
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So the posters who claim that HS would beat D3 are not BOTC "Holdback" conspiracy theorists right? Because 90% of the posts on here are the same hold back nonsense. Based on the fact that a HS team could beat a college team, hold backs don't matter.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah, I was with you at lower level D3, but the wild hard turn to D1 threw the argument to unrealistic. No, just no. Kind of like saying the teams you list are better than top Baltimore teams. No again.


I never claimed that any high school would beat a D1 team. I did say that high level high school lacrosse looks more like D1 lacrosse than it does like low-level D3. I stand by that.

And as to your second point, I guess we'll find out later this year: St. Anthony's is playing Boys' Latin and Chaminade is playing McDonogh.


Where can we find the schedule for the High School St Anthony's? Thanks
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
So the posters who claim that HS would beat D3 are not BOTC "Holdback" conspiracy theorists right? Because 90% of the posts on here are the same hold back nonsense. Based on the fact that a HS team could beat a college team, hold backs don't matter.


The holdback coversations are most prevalent on the pre-HS forums . . . just saying . . .
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Don't discount D3 if they are ranked in the top 20. Those men spend 4 hrs a day on lacrosse. Not to mention these are some of the best academic schools around. Some choose to go this route because of the the school and not only for lacrosse. That's called maturity.
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so only top 20 D 3 are worthy of playing a good h.s. team?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Don't discount D3 if they are ranked in the top 20. Those men spend 4 hrs a day on lacrosse. Not to mention these are some of the best academic schools around. Some choose to go this route because of the the school and not only for lacrosse. That's called maturity.


Greater than that even, some in really strong divisions. Top 50 or thereabouts you find very strong ball. I think parents whose kids have really good HS teams probably getting ahead of themselves a bit with this discussion. Below top 100 or so, sure a great nationally ranked HS could beat, but that's not a shot at D3 ball, which is great great opportunity for any collegiate lax player. You are right, so many great academic opportunities at these schools as well.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is a mid level D111 team? Roanoke? Denison? St. Lawrence? Hamilton? So, you people believe that a team made up of mostly 19, 20 and 21 year old men that play lacrosse at a Varsity level would lose to lets say, Garden City or Cold Spring Harbor? Really? College athletes have MUCH better training then any HS except for maybe IMG or The Hill. Men vs Boys in a contact sport? So funny. You people are out of your collective minds.

BTW, Vegas thought that if Ala played the Browns, then Cleveland would be 21 pt favorites.

Below top 100 range. Lacrosse is a skill sport. The best 17-19 year olds can beat average 20-23 year olds. There is only so much lax shape you can reach, skill and fundamentals equate to goals and stops. We can all agree an athlete on a nationally ranked HS team is no longer a boy when it comes to field presence.



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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is a mid level D111 team? Roanoke? Denison? St. Lawrence? Hamilton? So, you people believe that a team made up of mostly 19, 20 and 21 year old men that play lacrosse at a Varsity level would lose to lets say, Garden City or Cold Spring Harbor? Really? College athletes have MUCH better training then any HS except for maybe IMG or The Hill. Men vs Boys in a contact sport? So funny. You people are out of your collective minds.

BTW, Vegas thought that if Ala played the Browns, then Cleveland would be 21 pt favorites.

Below top 100 range. Lacrosse is a skill sport. The best 17-19 year olds can beat average 20-23 year olds. There is only so much lax shape you can reach, skill and fundamentals equate to goals and stops. We can all agree an athlete on a nationally ranked HS team is no longer a boy when it comes to field presence.

Again, only a person who NEVER played college athletics would ever believe this nonsense. Cortland would destroy EVERY HS team by 20, maybe 40. Their third string would beat them by 15-20 at least.

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Are there any new D-1 programs that are set to start in the next 3 years?
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hopefully Dartmouth gets a D 1 team at some point.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Don't discount D3 if they are ranked in the top 20. Those men spend 4 hrs a day on lacrosse. Not to mention these are some of the best academic schools around. Some choose to go this route because of the the school and not only for lacrosse. That's called maturity.


Greater than that even, some in really strong divisions. Top 50 or thereabouts you find very strong ball. I think parents whose kids have really good HS teams probably getting ahead of themselves a bit with this discussion. Below top 100 or so, sure a great nationally ranked HS could beat, but that's not a shot at D3 ball, which is great great opportunity for any collegiate lax player. You are right, so many great academic opportunities at these schools as well.


This is all I was saying. I never claimed that any high school was going to beat Tufts. But there are many, many D3 programs, most of them schools that none of us have ever heard of. There are more than 200 D3 programs across the US -- have any of you guys watched the 100th ranked team play the 150th?

And I'm not a doe-eyed first time high school parent either. And none of this should be read as a knock on D3 schools.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are there any new D-1 programs that are set to start in the next 3 years?


Utah is a huge possibility, probably D1 by 2019. Dartmouth does play D1 lacrosse in response to a comment above
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are there any new D-1 programs that are set to start in the next 3 years?

Clemson
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What is a mid level D111 team? Roanoke? Denison? St. Lawrence? Hamilton? So, you people believe that a team made up of mostly 19, 20 and 21 year old men that play lacrosse at a Varsity level would lose to lets say, Garden City or Cold Spring Harbor? Really? College athletes have MUCH better training then any HS except for maybe IMG or The Hill. Men vs Boys in a contact sport? So funny. You people are out of your collective minds.

BTW, Vegas thought that if Ala played the Browns, then Cleveland would be 21 pt favorites.

Below top 100 range. Lacrosse is a skill sport. The best 17-19 year olds can beat average 20-23 year olds. There is only so much lax shape you can reach, skill and fundamentals equate to goals and stops. We can all agree an athlete on a nationally ranked HS team is no longer a boy when it comes to field presence.

Again, only a person who NEVER played college athletics would ever believe this nonsense. Cortland would destroy EVERY HS team by 20, maybe 40. Their third string would beat them by 15-20 at least.



Cortland finished in top 20 last year, so I think you are arguing with yourself. Cortland would crush a HS team, correct. Simply stated, I think what most are trying to say, is that a D3 team ranked like 100th or below would likely struggle against a nationally ranked top 10 HS team on any given year. The fact that anyone would object to this theory is surprising, as it is a very strong argument. We are talking about kids about to go play at top level of every division the next year, playing against kids that never played at that level, nor never will. What is so confusing?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
hopefully Dartmouth gets a D 1 team at some point.


post of the week right here folks
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When I said don't discount the top 20 D3 teams I was not referring to them beating a HS team. That shouldn't even be an argument. Once you leave HS you usually don't look back. My son says the college experience is so much better. I was just stating that alot of you think that it's all about D1. It's not. I have kids on both and let me tell you. They both work equally hard.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are there any new D-1 programs that are set to start in the next 3 years?

Clemson


That would be something.
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No one is objecting to the theory but a lot of your logic is flawed. therefore specious. look at the top programs freshman and sophomores in the mix at many high schools. how many high school teams at the higher level play all seniors? the age range is more like 15-18 and a few maybe 19 yrs. old for high school players. about to go to next level to "play" the following year? very few play freshman or even soph year.
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How about a school like Geneseo, check the roster, several All County players from Nassau County. Where does Geneseo rank? How about Potsdam?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
No one is objecting to the theory but a lot of your logic is flawed. therefore specious. look at the top programs freshman and sophomores in the mix at many high schools. how many high school teams at the higher level play all seniors? the age range is more like 15-18 and a few maybe 19 yrs. old for high school players. about to go to next level to "play" the following year? very few play freshman or even soph year.


More like 16-19, and on average 12-14 seniors, few Freshman contributing on top 10 nationally ranked HS teams. Playing means practicing everyday. Yes they will be playing and most at that level are in games by Spring their first college year, not saying starting, but these are the best of the best. Again, we are taking top 10 HS's in the nation, not just the best one that comes to mind in your area.
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I think schools like Stanford, OREGON, Texas, VANDY may consider
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Oregon USB a huge one, especially for Nike who wants some skin in the game from their "pilot school" like UA with Maryland or STX with Johns Hopkins
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It's pretty surprising that ever ACC school does not have a lacrosse team. So many schools that could have good programs right out of the box - Wake, BC, VT, NC State...
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I would love that. Clemson is,an awesome school. You think men or womenns?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah, I was with you at lower level D3, but the wild hard turn to D1 threw the argument to unrealistic. No, just no. Kind of like saying the teams you list are better than top Baltimore teams. No again.


I never claimed that any high school would beat a D1 team. I did say that high level high school lacrosse looks more like D1 lacrosse than it does like low-level D3. I stand by that.

And as to your second point, I guess we'll find out later this year: St. Anthony's is playing Boys' Latin and Chaminade is playing McDonogh.


Where can we find the schedule for the High School St Anthony's? Thanks


Try here when it gets closer to the season:
http://scores.newsday.com/sports/highschool/index.php?season=SP
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yeah, I was with you at lower level D3, but the wild hard turn to D1 threw the argument to unrealistic. No, just no. Kind of like saying the teams you list are better than top Baltimore teams. No again.


I never claimed that any high school would beat a D1 team. I did say that high level high school lacrosse looks more like D1 lacrosse than it does like low-level D3. I stand by that.

And as to your second point, I guess we'll find out later this year: St. Anthony's is playing Boys' Latin and Chaminade is playing McDonogh.


Where can we find the schedule for the High School St Anthony's? Thanks


Not updated for 2017 yet, but should be here:
http://www.stanthonyshs.org/athletics/teams/boys-lacrosse/
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Lax Power / Boys / State / NY /Catholic
2017 Season is posted
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Just found this: http://www.jrminutemenlax.net/news_article/show/60286?referrer_id=50632
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Originally Posted by Anonymous


Great article..How many kids went on to play 4 years of college ball..based on the usual rate I would say 30% transfereed and 20% went on to play for 4 years..sad but most kids are burnt after HS because they keep getting pushed by their parents and are just fried by the time they get to college..Kids please play at minimum 2 sports in HS so you don't get burnt out..If your an athlete you can play more then one sport and enjoy HS. Don't let your parents run your life. I know from experience it happened to me. NOT BITTER .Just have some regrets that I can't get those years back.
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8th and 9th graders that verbal are the ones who transfer the most because their parents help push the initial choice. Then when they get to college sometimes 5 years later, their ability level might not be what it once was and they find themselves on the bench for the first time in their lives and they don't like it so they transfer and start a new.

11th graders that commit have the most success (even if they don't get then most money). Almost fully mature. KNow what they want to go to school for and its easier to judge their ability to kids currently on the college team
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
8th and 9th graders that verbal are the ones who transfer the most because their parents help push the initial choice. Then when they get to college sometimes 5 years later, their ability level might not be what it once was and they find themselves on the bench for the first time in their lives and they don't like it so they transfer and start a new.

11th graders that commit have the most success (even if they don't get then most money). Almost fully mature. KNow what they want to go to school for and its easier to judge their ability to kids currently on the college team
Evidence please? While I agree that perfect world choosing later is better for a kid for the reasons outlined and I hope the NCAA changes the rule, I know plenty of kids who have committed freshman or sophomore year and are very happy where they are.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
8th and 9th graders that verbal are the ones who transfer the most because their parents help push the initial choice. Then when they get to college sometimes 5 years later, their ability level might not be what it once was and they find themselves on the bench for the first time in their lives and they don't like it so they transfer and start a new.

11th graders that commit have the most success (even if they don't get then most money). Almost fully mature. KNow what they want to go to school for and its easier to judge their ability to kids currently on the college team
Evidence please? While I agree that perfect world choosing later is better for a kid for the reasons outlined and I hope the NCAA changes the rule, I know plenty of kids who have committed freshman or sophomore year and are very happy where they are.



I understand your point, but a kid who commits to Duke or Hopkins is doing so at that age because of what they do in lacrosse it has nothing to do with the education part. They don't know what to major in . It's like being told you can play for the Patriots . You are going there because you where their hat. No idea if it's a good fit ..only dad knows. Think about it How does a kid transfer schools before he finishes 9th grade? Dad tells him to not the kid. Why commit to the first school.It doesn't make any sense
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No one is objecting to the theory but a lot of your logic is flawed. therefore specious. look at the top programs freshman and sophomores in the mix at many high schools. how many high school teams at the higher level play all seniors? the age range is more like 15-18 and a few maybe 19 yrs. old for high school players. about to go to next level to "play" the following year? very few play freshman or even soph year.


More like 16-19, and on average 12-14 seniors, few Freshman contributing on top 10 nationally ranked HS teams. Playing means practicing everyday. Yes they will be playing and most at that level are in games by Spring their first college year, not saying starting, but these are the best of the best. Again, we are taking top 10 HS's in the nation, not just the best one that comes to mind in your area.


If you think the any HS team, even the ones loaded with 20 year old seniors would have a shot against a top 100 D3 team, you are out of your mind.
Son plays on a top 35 D3 team. Conference championship team and NCAA tournament team. These are men. 5 of the starters on his team are either D1 transfers, or kids that passed on D1. You have no idea how big, strong and fast these guys are. Would blow the doors off any HS team.
Oh BTW, D1 snob, I'd put money on the top 20 D3 programs beating the bottom 20 D1 programs on any given day!!! Some might even beat the bottom 30 or 40...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
8th and 9th graders that verbal are the ones who transfer the most because their parents help push the initial choice. Then when they get to college sometimes 5 years later, their ability level might not be what it once was and they find themselves on the bench for the first time in their lives and they don't like it so they transfer and start a new.

11th graders that commit have the most success (even if they don't get then most money). Almost fully mature. KNow what they want to go to school for and its easier to judge their ability to kids currently on the college team
Evidence please? While I agree that perfect world choosing later is better for a kid for the reasons outlined and I hope the NCAA changes the rule, I know plenty of kids who have committed freshman or sophomore year and are very happy where they are.



I understand your point, but a kid who commits to Duke or Hopkins is doing so at that age because of what they do in lacrosse it has nothing to do with the education part. They don't know what to major in . It's like being told you can play for the Patriots . You are going there because you where their hat. No idea if it's a good fit ..only dad knows. Think about it How does a kid transfer schools before he finishes 9th grade? Dad tells him to not the kid. Why commit to the first school.It doesn't make any sense


The sense part lies in the opportunity to gain admission to an elite level school that might be unattainable purely on academics. When these teenagers play 2 or 3 sports, can you reasonably expect them to get 1450 on the boards and have a 4.2 gap??? Very difficult to say ''thanks but I'm gonna sit this out a while and take my chances later.. does it work out in every case?? Probably not. But life is like that right?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Take the school, not the lax. Who cares about a sport with no future past NCAA. If you can get a Duke or ND education because of lax jump on it. So what if you sat on the bench. Put the team picture up in your office when that Duke education gets you a great job and lie to everyone who sees it and tell them how great you were. Game the system folks, don't let the system game you!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Take the school, not the lax. Who cares about a sport with no future past NCAA. If you can get a Duke or ND education because of lax jump on it. So what if you sat on the bench. Put the team picture up in your office when that Duke education gets you a great job and lie to everyone who sees it and tell them how great you were. Game the system folks, don't let the system game you!



So even if the school is. Not a fit for you, go there for 4 years anyway. Makes no sense.I assume every kid that graduates from these schools becomes a CEO. What does the kid do when he fails out.. Blame it on the University? . There are two sides to every story and you are telling the parents side and not the kid. Let them make the choice and not the parents who. Not saying all cases but definitely some. A kid may like the North east but have been told to go down to Carolina .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hate to be your son, go to a school and sit on the bench, if you are good enough to make one of those rosters, then you should be able to find a school with good education and play,
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Guys, please, if you have the chance to go to Duke go. You're right the school should be a great fit, but my point is lacrosse is not the be all end all. Would you rather graduate from Syracuse because you could play or Duke and not? Don't take everything on BOTC so literal. My point is lacrosse is not the end, it's the beginning. That's all. Enjoy the game, Go Pats! Hope Brady gets another if Eli can't
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Guys, please, if you have the chance to go to Duke go. You're right the school should be a great fit, but my point is lacrosse is not the be all end all. Would you rather graduate from Syracuse because you could play or Duke and not? Don't take everything on BOTC so literal. My point is lacrosse is not the end, it's the beginning. That's all. Enjoy the game, Go Pats! Hope Brady gets another if Eli can't



Go Ivy League before you go Duke ...That would make the most sense . Go where your kid thinks he would fit in education wise not where Mom or Dad think he should fit it. Let the kid be happy and don't force him. . Go falcons . At least their are some LI ties there:)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Patriots have the lax connection! Hogan
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Use lax to get into your son's academic reach schools as #1 priority.
Coaches come and go, programs are up and down.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
1st of all - there is ONLY the SLIGHTEST chance that anyone on this forum, has a son with both the grades and athleticism, to have the choice between IVY and Duke...

...more realistic choice choice is between Tampa, and Cortland.
It is super competitive!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ok, mr Cortland - not 1 of their players even resemble the same athletes being recruited by ACC and IVY - this is not football (so the college physical maturity won't make up the difference)

Watch Chaminade/Anthony's this year... And you will immediately realize you are watching a much higher level lacrosse than Cortland...
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If anything, women's ... Big schools like Clemson, Miami and FL State, are happy to have (good club programs)... Lacrosse is way too expensive , since title 9 requires an additional 12.6 scholarships to women's sports

...Richmond was an exception by recently adding lacrosse, but dropping soccer.

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Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Guys, please, if you have the chance to go to Duke go. You're right the school should be a great fit, but my point is lacrosse is not the be all end all. Would you rather graduate from Syracuse because you could play or Duke and not? Don't take everything on BOTC so literal. My point is lacrosse is not the end, it's the beginning. That's all. Enjoy the game, Go Pats! Hope Brady gets another if Eli can't



Go Ivy League before you go Duke ...That would make the most sense . Go where your kid thinks he would fit in education wise not where Mom or Dad think he should fit it. Let the kid be happy and don't force him. . Go falcons . At least their are some LI ties there:)


There are plenty of D III schools with equal or better academic pedigrees AND with lacrosse programs that rival D I programs outside the very top group.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hah, good luck with that new ride!
Both posts make a ton of sense. My guys has multiple offers at his position, one with a mid range D1 and the others with top tier D3 and we are gearing more towards the D3 schools. He will get to play, have a life and really focus on his education which is what it is about. One of his coaches played and won a D3 championship. It doesn't matter what it says on the trophy except championship and i think that makes the most sense. To many dad's on here living through their kids are forgetting that.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hah, good luck with that new ride!
Both posts make a ton of sense. My guys has multiple offers at his position, one with a mid range D1 and the others with top tier D3 and we are gearing more towards the D3 schools. He will get to play, have a life and really focus on his education which is what it is about. One of his coaches played and won a D3 championship. It doesn't matter what it says on the trophy except championship and i think that makes the most sense. To many dad's on here living through their kids are forgetting that.


if your kid isn't a top 1 percenter, D3 could offer lots of playing time and a great school, lax, social balance. Still playing, still lots of friends and still lax (just not 6 hours a day of it)!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
even at the D3 level you need to earn P.T. and it may take a couple of years to get there.
don't assume anything.
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Great Post, and Advice about 2 sport athletes in HS (as long as you can)!!
Avoid Mental fatigue and inevitable burn out.
Early Recruiting puts way too much pressure on 14-16 year old kids
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about


...So you take a HS stocked w highest level D1 lax Athletes, vs your Average D3 Lacrosse team (Sorry if I offended using Cortland as specific), and, you think college maturity makes up he difference?? thats like saying; HS McDonalds All American Basket team wouldn't beat (insert D3- Hoops team)... (not the brown vs Alabama analogy)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
St. Anthony's and Chaminade over Cortlans, says the guy who doesn't know how to buckle up a helmet, because he NEVER wore one. What a dopey comment.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
...early recruiting, does provide D3 with opportunities to recruit high potential late bloomers... but these D1 coaches are finding superior athletes from all over the country...

as opposed to Mr Cortland, walking on 25 years ago, to help fill a lacrosse roster.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
what an idiot. McDonalds all Americans are an all star team . what, do you think your h.s. team is some sort of national all star collection? how's that Chaminade kool aid taste?
Any NESCAC team would handle those two teams. even last place like Ct. college.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I played at Cornell. I'm not defending Cortland specifically, but any top 20 D3 team would beat any high school team. I'm sure at the bottom of the ladder a D3 team would lose to the top High School teams though. The spread from the elite hoop player to the average is much wider than the spread from the elite lax player to the mediocre when it comes to lacrosse.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
the very bottom of D3 is worse than club lacrosse .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about


...So you take a HS stocked w highest level D1 lax Athletes, vs your Average D3 Lacrosse team (Sorry if I offended using Cortland as specific), and, you think college maturity makes up he difference?? thats like saying; HS McDonalds All American Basket team wouldn't beat (insert D3- Hoops team)... (not the brown vs Alabama analogy)


It is exactly the Browns v Alabama analogy. THe size physical maturity and experience means ALOT. first there are many DIII players that either wer mid range DI that opted for a more balanced college experience, as well as DI players who transferred to DIII programs so the talent gap btween your DI recruit laden HS team and the DIII team isn't as big as your think. Second The physical size and conditioning of the DIII athletes vs the HS team is not even close. I would put an Average DIII program against the UA HS Sr. Team and still pick the DIII team
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It was only a scrimmage but...The Hill Academy beat Vermont a week and a half ago:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10156052122159852&set=o.360766160613820&type=3

How does that fit into the top HS vs. College debate?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about


...So you take a HS stocked w highest level D1 lax Athletes, vs your Average D3 Lacrosse team (Sorry if I offended using Cortland as specific), and, you think college maturity makes up he difference?? thats like saying; HS McDonalds All American Basket team wouldn't beat (insert D3- Hoops team)... (not the brown vs Alabama analogy)


It is exactly the Browns v Alabama analogy. THe size physical maturity and experience means ALOT. first there are many DIII players that either wer mid range DI that opted for a more balanced college experience, as well as DI players who transferred to DIII programs so the talent gap btween your DI recruit laden HS team and the DIII team isn't as big as your think. Second The physical size and conditioning of the DIII athletes vs the HS team is not even close. I would put an Average DIII program against the UA HS Sr. Team and still pick the DIII team


Hill "Holdback" Acadamy? That is basically a D1college team. Varsity players are 20 years old!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It was only a scrimmage but...The Hill Academy beat Vermont a week and a half ago:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10156052122159852&set=o.360766160613820&type=3

How does that fit into the top HS vs. College debate?


Not a good one. Top D1 College Freshman playing against Vermont.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
what an idiot. McDonalds all Americans are an all star team . what, do you think your h.s. team is some sort of national all star collection? how's that Chaminade kool aid taste?
Any NESCAC team would handle those two teams. even last place like Ct. college.


Nobody claimed a high school team would beat a NESCAC. NESCAC is top-to-bottom the strongest conference in D3. Last year's last place team (Colby) still ended up in the top 50 nationwide according to LP.

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ok, mr Cortland - not 1 of their players even resemble the same athletes being recruited by ACC and IVY - this is not football (so the college physical maturity won't make up the difference)

Watch Chaminade/Anthony's this year... And you will immediately realize you are watching a much higher level lacrosse than Cortland...


If you knew anything about lacrosse (or played in high school or college) you wouldn't have named Cortland as a team that any high school team could beat.

But Chaminade in a good year (or Ward Melville, or Boys' Latin, or any other traditionally strong high school program) would almost certainly beat most D3 teams outside of the top ~100 or so (there are more than 200 D3 lacrosse programs).

(I'm the one who introduced the "high school vs. D3" topic.)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Here's how to get the answer to this idiotic debate, ask your sons high school coach which college team he think they would beat. I double dog dare you! He will laugh in your face and walk away shaking his head. On a side note, a Tiger can totally beat a Lion, but a Liger will totally beat both of them. Pretty sure my brothers and I had this conversation when we were in 2nd grade.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Everyone looking at the bottom of the heap. I like to look at the top of the heap which I think would have the top D2 schools ranked around #40-50 in D1 and the top D3 schools ranked about 70. The bottom of D1 on the girls side plays terrible lax
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
top D3 probably better than top D2.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about


...So you take a HS stocked w highest level D1 lax Athletes, vs your Average D3 Lacrosse team (Sorry if I offended using Cortland as specific), and, you think college maturity makes up he difference?? thats like saying; HS McDonalds All American Basket team wouldn't beat (insert D3- Hoops team)... (not the brown vs Alabama analogy)


It is exactly the Browns v Alabama analogy. THe size physical maturity and experience means ALOT. first there are many DIII players that either wer mid range DI that opted for a more balanced college experience, as well as DI players who transferred to DIII programs so the talent gap btween your DI recruit laden HS team and the DIII team isn't as big as your think. Second The physical size and conditioning of the DIII athletes vs the HS team is not even close. I would put an Average DIII program against the UA HS Sr. Team and still pick the DIII team


Hill "Holdback" Acadamy? That is basically a D1college team. Varsity players are 20 years old!
hill academy hold backs are born in 1998 meaning they turn 19 this year. There are no 20 year olds in that program some people just have such a hard time with Math.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It was only a scrimmage but...The Hill Academy beat Vermont a week and a half ago:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10156052122159852&set=o.360766160613820&type=3

How does that fit into the top HS vs. College debate?


Not a good one. Top D1 College Freshman playing against Vermont.


The comparison might be more appropriate than you think. Here's some additional information about The Hill Academy Varsity team...
One player is 19 and the rest are 18 or 17.
Their list of commitments to top programs probably pales in comparison to Chaminade and St. Anthony's. Here's a rough list of Hill commits:
Bellarmine-2
Denver-2
Ohio State-2
Robert Morris-2
Syracuse-2
Villanova-2
One each to Penn, Quinnipiac, High Point, Sacred Heart, Marquette, Cornell, Michigan
One each to D2 Lynn and Tampa
The rest of the roster is currently uncommitted.

They are a legitimate high school aged team, especially in comparison to the boarding schools. It is an example of what a team can accomplish with dedicated student-athletes and professional coaching.

I've posted this before but here is a good overview courtesy of si.com:
http://www.si.com/edge/2016/05/04/the-hill-academy-lacrosse-canada-high-school-brodie-merrill
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Uh, scrimmage, nuff said
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The Hill Academy is a D1 program disguised as a HS. After reading that article, which was very informative, so thanks, that team is insane.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about


...So you take a HS stocked w highest level D1 lax Athletes, vs your Average D3 Lacrosse team (Sorry if I offended using Cortland as specific), and, you think college maturity makes up he difference?? thats like saying; HS McDonalds All American Basket team wouldn't beat (insert D3- Hoops team)... (not the brown vs Alabama analogy)


It is exactly the Browns v Alabama analogy. THe size physical maturity and experience means ALOT. first there are many DIII players that either wer mid range DI that opted for a more balanced college experience, as well as DI players who transferred to DIII programs so the talent gap btween your DI recruit laden HS team and the DIII team isn't as big as your think. Second The physical size and conditioning of the DIII athletes vs the HS team is not even close. I would put an Average DIII program against the UA HS Sr. Team and still pick the DIII team


Hill "Holdback" Acadamy? That is basically a D1college team. Varsity players are 20 years old!
hill academy hold backs are born in 1998 meaning they turn 19 this year. There are no 20 year olds in that program some people just have such a hard time with Math.


OK, so they should be college Freshman, with maybe a couple sophomores sprinkled in. Sorry but they can't be taken seriously, when cheating like that!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'm going w the Liger
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It was only a scrimmage but...The Hill Academy beat Vermont a week and a half ago:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10156052122159852&set=o.360766160613820&type=3

How does that fit into the top HS vs. College debate?


Not a good one. Top D1 College Freshman playing against Vermont.


The comparison might be more appropriate than you think. Here's some additional information about The Hill Academy Varsity team...
One player is 19 and the rest are 18 or 17.
Their list of commitments to top programs probably pales in comparison to Chaminade and St. Anthony's. Here's a rough list of Hill commits:
Bellarmine-2
Denver-2
Ohio State-2
Robert Morris-2
Syracuse-2
Villanova-2
One each to Penn, Quinnipiac, High Point, Sacred Heart, Marquette, Cornell, Michigan
One each to D2 Lynn and Tampa
The rest of the roster is currently uncommitted.

They are a legitimate high school aged team, especially in comparison to the boarding schools. It is an example of what a team can accomplish with dedicated student-athletes and professional coaching.

I've posted this before but here is a good overview courtesy of si.com:
http://www.si.com/edge/2016/05/04/the-hill-academy-lacrosse-canada-high-school-brodie-merrill


Holdback cheaters are what they are. College age team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The main Difference between D1 player and D3 player is not the size,
It is the speed and athleticism at their given size...
So it is very plausible that an average D3 team would have their hands full, competing against a Chaminade or St Anthony's Roster stocked with Top D1 talent...
Save your meathead insults, if you happen to disagree... "Just sayin"
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The main Difference between D1 player and D3 player is not the size,
It is the speed and athleticism at their given size...
So it is very plausible that an average D3 team would have their hands full, competing against a Chaminade or St Anthony's Roster stocked with Top D1 talent...
Save your meathead insults, if you happen to disagree... "Just sayin"


Okay, can't help it, but does your son play at Chammy or St. A's?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It was only a scrimmage but...The Hill Academy beat Vermont a week and a half ago:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10156052122159852&set=o.360766160613820&type=3

How does that fit into the top HS vs. College debate?


Not a good one. Top D1 College Freshman playing against Vermont.


The comparison might be more appropriate than you think. Here's some additional information about The Hill Academy Varsity team...
One player is 19 and the rest are 18 or 17.
Their list of commitments to top programs probably pales in comparison to Chaminade and St. Anthony's. Here's a rough list of Hill commits:
Bellarmine-2
Denver-2
Ohio State-2
Robert Morris-2
Syracuse-2
Villanova-2
One each to Penn, Quinnipiac, High Point, Sacred Heart, Marquette, Cornell, Michigan
One each to D2 Lynn and Tampa
The rest of the roster is currently uncommitted.

They are a legitimate high school aged team, especially in comparison to the boarding schools. It is an example of what a team can accomplish with dedicated student-athletes and professional coaching.

I've posted this before but here is a good overview courtesy of si.com:
http://www.si.com/edge/2016/05/04/the-hill-academy-lacrosse-canada-high-school-brodie-merrill


Holdback cheaters are what they are. College age team.

This statement is one of pure ignorance. Hill Academy is a Prep School. They are not out there competing against your son's public school so I'm not sure how they are 'cheating' ? If they show up on grade based summer travel teams that's the unfortunate problem with only lacrosse, not other sports. There are many reasons the top D1 programs rosters are heavily skewed towards Prep School kids, and I'm pretty sure 'cheating' is not one of them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tampa over Cortland...layup. That being said..Cortland would dismantle insert any hs name here... you clearly did not play in college and have NO idea what you are talking about


...So you take a HS stocked w highest level D1 lax Athletes, vs your Average D3 Lacrosse team (Sorry if I offended using Cortland as specific), and, you think college maturity makes up he difference?? thats like saying; HS McDonalds All American Basket team wouldn't beat (insert D3- Hoops team)... (not the brown vs Alabama analogy)


It is exactly the Browns v Alabama analogy. THe size physical maturity and experience means ALOT. first there are many DIII players that either wer mid range DI that opted for a more balanced college experience, as well as DI players who transferred to DIII programs so the talent gap btween your DI recruit laden HS team and the DIII team isn't as big as your think. Second The physical size and conditioning of the DIII athletes vs the HS team is not even close. I would put an Average DIII program against the UA HS Sr. Team and still pick the DIII team


Hill "Holdback" Acadamy? That is basically a D1college team. Varsity players are 20 years old!
hill academy hold backs are born in 1998 meaning they turn 19 this year. There are no 20 year olds in that program some people just have such a hard time with Math.


OK, so they should be college Freshman, with maybe a couple sophomores sprinkled in. Sorry but they can't be taken seriously, when cheating like that!
No can you read no sophomores "sprinkled in" kids are 1998 and 1999 born. They beat U of Vermont in a scrimmage this year. Vermont has 1995's "sprinkled in their lineup". Vermont are 2-0 in D1 to start the year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The main Difference between D1 player and D3 player is not the size,
It is the speed and athleticism at their given size...
So it is very plausible that an average D3 team would have their hands full, competing against a Chaminade or St Anthony's Roster stocked with Top D1 talent...
Save your meathead insults, if you happen to disagree... "Just sayin"

I Disagree, from Meathead.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The main Difference between D1 player and D3 player is not the size,
It is the speed and athleticism at their given size...
So it is very plausible that an average D3 team would have their hands full, competing against a Chaminade or St Anthony's Roster stocked with Top D1 talent...
Save your meathead insults, if you happen to disagree... "Just sayin"


Okay, can't help it, but does your son play at Chammy or St. A's?


Chaminade and St. Anthony's were mentioned just because they're probably the deepest (not necessarily the best) teams on Long Island. You can really substitute in any traditional top program here.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The best 8th grade teams could beat lesser-skilled varsity hs teams.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The main Difference between D1 player and D3 player is not the size,
It is the speed and athleticism at their given size...
So it is very plausible that an average D3 team would have their hands full, competing against a Chaminade or St Anthony's Roster stocked with Top D1 talent...
Save your meathead insults, if you happen to disagree... "Just sayin"


Okay, can't help it, but does your son play at Chammy or St. A's?


Wow, you're good! ...was it that obvious?? cause I didn't want to come across as bias...
smile
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The best 8th grade teams could beat lesser-skilled varsity hs teams.


Please tell me that was meant to be sarcastic!! You're dealing with men against boys in this scenario. No way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The best 8th grade teams could beat lesser-skilled varsity hs teams.


Please tell me that was meant to be sarcastic!! You're dealing with men against boys in this scenario. No way.


I would say that good freshman teams could beat many varsity teams, but I don't know of any 8th grade teams that are organized enough to really have a shot. Especially when many schools move their strong 8th graders up to JV (and in some cases, even varsity).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
what an idiot. McDonalds all Americans are an all star team . what, do you think your h.s. team is some sort of national all star collection? how's that Chaminade kool aid taste?
Any NESCAC team would handle those two teams. even last place like Ct. college.


Why Is it so painful for you (above) to concede?
YES, Chaminade lax is a virtual LI All star team... Similarly as St Anthony's football team, or LUHI basketball are virtual All Star Teams...
Now... Look at tufts or Amherst schedule from last year, and see how many blow outs they dealt out to their not so good D3 competition... Still impossible to envision IVY and ACC bound players competing w average or below D3 programs??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
what an idiot. McDonalds all Americans are an all star team . what, do you think your h.s. team is some sort of national all star collection? how's that Chaminade kool aid taste?
Any NESCAC team would handle those two teams. even last place like Ct. college.


Why Is it so painful for you (above) to concede?
YES, Chaminade lax is a virtual LI All star team... Similarly as St Anthony's football team, or LUHI basketball are virtual All Star Teams...
Now... Look at tufts or Amherst schedule from last year, and see how many blow outs they dealt out to their not so good D3 competition... Still impossible to envision IVY and ACC bound players competing w average or below D3 programs??


So you predict an undefeated season for your son's team (Chaminade) this year?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
virtual L.I all-star team? you are beyond reason.
where do you mommies get this tripe? I know from each other I've heard that b.s. in the stands.
Chaminade no doubt has some truly great players every year, absolutely, but just because you are on the team with some tremendous players doesn't make you (or your kid) the same.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The best 8th grade teams could beat lesser-skilled varsity hs teams.


Please tell me that was meant to be sarcastic!! You're dealing with men against boys in this scenario. No way.


I would say that good freshman teams could beat many varsity teams, but I don't know of any 8th grade teams that are organized enough to really have a shot. Especially when many schools move their strong 8th graders up to JV (and in some cases, even varsity).


Looneys, Crush, Crabs 2020 teams from last year would have beaten many rural hs lacrosse programs, outside of hotbeds, of course. Firstly, they would win every almost every faceoff. From there it would just be about ball movement, taking advantage of bad sliding, and overwhelming advantage in transition.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
what an idiot. McDonalds all Americans are an all star team . what, do you think your h.s. team is some sort of national all star collection? how's that Chaminade kool aid taste?
Any NESCAC team would handle those two teams. even last place like Ct. college.


Why Is it so painful for you (above) to concede?
YES, Chaminade lax is a virtual LI All star team... Similarly as St Anthony's football team, or LUHI basketball are virtual All Star Teams...
Now... Look at tufts or Amherst schedule from last year, and see how many blow outs they dealt out to their not so good D3 competition... Still impossible to envision IVY and ACC bound players competing w average or below D3 programs??


So you predict an undefeated season for your son's team (Chaminade) this year?

YES, WE ARE THE BEST, AND ALL ELSE SUCK!! WE ARE THE SCHOOL OF BOYS. GIRLS SUCK.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
what an idiot. McDonalds all Americans are an all star team . what, do you think your h.s. team is some sort of national all star collection? how's that Chaminade kool aid taste?
Any NESCAC team would handle those two teams. even last place like Ct. college.


Why Is it so painful for you (above) to concede?
YES, Chaminade lax is a virtual LI All star team... Similarly as St Anthony's football team, or LUHI basketball are virtual All Star Teams...
Now... Look at tufts or Amherst schedule from last year, and see how many blow outs they dealt out to their not so good D3 competition... Still impossible to envision IVY and ACC bound players competing w average or below D3 programs??


So you predict an undefeated season for your son's team (Chaminade) this year?

YES, WE ARE THE BEST, AND ALL ELSE SUCK!! WE ARE THE SCHOOL OF BOYS. GIRLS SUCK.


And....the hook has been dropped
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I love adults who write like 6 year olds. When discussing gorillas and [lacrosse] as you call them, look in the mirror. Pretty sure the guy you were talking to about the nose tackle was you looking at your reflection!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I don't think gorillas would meet enrollment or player's union requirements to play football.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I don't think gorillas would meet enrollment or player's union requirements to play football.



I heard a 2021 gorilla just committed to U of Maryland.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The best 8th grade teams could beat lesser-skilled varsity hs teams.


Please tell me that was meant to be sarcastic!! You're dealing with men against boys in this scenario. No way.


I would say that good freshman teams could beat many varsity teams, but I don't know of any 8th grade teams that are organized enough to really have a shot. Especially when many schools move their strong 8th graders up to JV (and in some cases, even varsity).


Looneys, Crush, Crabs 2020 teams from last year would have beaten many rural hs lacrosse programs, outside of hotbeds, of course. Firstly, they would win every almost every faceoff. From there it would just be about ball movement, taking advantage of bad sliding, and overwhelming advantage in transition.


Double digit wins in most cases too...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
hahahahahaha
so stupid its funny..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
hahahahahaha
so stupid its funny..


The gorilla, or the best 2020 team crushing the worst HS varsity team that you could think of?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Moronic adults who speak about [lacrosse]. Very nice, hope all your children have all their capabilities and you don't have to deal with a child with a development disability.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Moronic adults who speak about [lacrosse]. Very nice, hope all your children have all their capabilities and you don't have to deal with a child with a development disability.


Yeah, I can't stand that either. You would hope lacrosse people, much less all people, could do better
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Chaminade no doubt has some truly great players every year, absolutely, but just because you are on the team with some tremendous players doesn't make you (or your kid) the same.
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Chaminade has tremendous talent this year - but the coaching is atrocious. If they win it is because of the kids - NOT the coaches. They are AWEFUL!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
if they win its because of the rosie O'Donnell moms
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Harambe would've been a D1 All American at nose tackle.

And, I'm glad we can all find something that we think is crazy, makes us laugh or elicits emotion on BOC...no matter how it is spelled.
or if you are from Syosset or Gc or play for channy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The best 8th grade teams could beat lesser-skilled varsity hs teams.


Please tell me that was meant to be sarcastic!! You're dealing with men against boys in this scenario. No way.


I would say that good freshman teams could beat many varsity teams, but I don't know of any 8th grade teams that are organized enough to really have a shot. Especially when many schools move their strong 8th graders up to JV (and in some cases, even varsity).


Looneys, Crush, Crabs 2020 teams from last year would have beaten many rural hs lacrosse programs, outside of hotbeds, of course. Firstly, they would win every almost every faceoff. From there it would just be about ball movement, taking advantage of bad sliding, and overwhelming advantage in transition.


Double digit wins in most cases too...
Team Ontario U 15 boys you turned 15 in 2016 which was a team made up of best players from EDGE Hardcor and EVOLE beat a University team in an exhibition game easily so those top 2020 programs 89+2 Looney's could beat a weak D3 program.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Dartmouth situation is worth looking at if you are exploring the early commit stuff. coaches change, kids who were good h.s. players can cut after 2 yrs.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth situation is worth looking at if you are exploring the early commit stuff. coaches change, kids who were good h.s. players can cut after 2 yrs.

Dartmouth is revamping their program. Athletic dept wanted to improve culture, and hired new coach 2 years ago.
Although, Dartmouth honored previous coach's commitments, the recently cut players were not meeting new Coach's expectations...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I love adults who write like 6 year olds. When discussing gorillas and [lacrosse] as you call them, look in the mirror. Pretty sure the guy you were talking to about the nose tackle was you looking at your reflection!


Advice to "writer" critic above: proof read your own grammar first
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Dartmouth is doing everything possible to change the culture and build a winning program... guessing the prior coach's recruits were not meeting the new coach's requirements
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Still what you may call a cautionary tale
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I love adults who write like 6 year olds. When discussing gorillas and [lacrosse] as you call them, look in the mirror. Pretty sure the guy you were talking to about the nose tackle was you looking at your reflection!


Advice to "writer" critic above: proof read your own grammar first

Okay, next time I discuss [lacrosse] I'll be sure to check my grammar, because that's the important part, not the mocking of the disabled. Dude, get a grip, you're worried about my grammar when I defend the disadvantaged?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I love adults who write like 6 year olds. When discussing gorillas and [lacrosse] as you call them, look in the mirror. Pretty sure the guy you were talking to about the nose tackle was you looking at your reflection!



Advice to "writer" critic above: proof read your own grammar first

Okay, next time I discuss [lacrosse] I'll be sure to check my grammar, because that's the important part, not the mocking of the disabled. Dude, get a grip, you're worried about my grammar when I defend the disadvantaged?


Unveil yourself... "Defender of the disadvantaged" ...your noble act, is worthy of public praise.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I "love" these hypotheticals. Reminds when I goaded a football guy telling him a gorilla would make the perfect nose tackle. just train it to go forward when the ball moves and get it. and whoever is holding it. Moron actually engaged this conversation and said "no, you'd just trap block it..." Full [lacrosse]. I think he was from GC or Syo 91 dad...


I love adults who write like 6 year olds. When discussing gorillas and [lacrosse] as you call them, look in the mirror. Pretty sure the guy you were talking to about the nose tackle was you looking at your reflection!



Advice to "writer" critic above: proof read your own grammar first

Okay, next time I discuss [lacrosse] I'll be sure to check my grammar, because that's the important part, not the mocking of the disabled. Dude, get a grip, you're worried about my grammar when I defend the disadvantaged?


Unveil yourself... "Defender of the disadvantaged" ...your noble act, is worthy of public praise. [/quote

You are truly a moron.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Mr. defender. You made the stretch to my "mocking of the disabled" which couldn't be further from the truth. Perhaps I left too much room for that to be misinterpreted and I'll own that, but I was simply quoting a line from Tropic Thunder. And, if I remember correctly no one from the liberal media made it an issue and chastised the movie writers for the quip. It seems you are the one digging to highlight that. I offer my apologies. Now, back to the gorilla discussion... And please, don't follow up with some animal rights rant...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
OK folks enough with the mentally challenged over sized chimpanzees, what does any of this have to do with Early Recruiting in lacrosse again?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Mr. defender. You made the stretch to my "mocking of the disabled" which couldn't be further from the truth. Perhaps I left too much room for that to be misinterpreted and I'll own that, but I was simply quoting a line from Tropic Thunder. And, if I remember correctly no one from the liberal media made it an issue and chastised the movie writers for the quip. It seems you are the one digging to highlight that. I offer my apologies. Now, back to the gorilla discussion... And please, don't follow up with some animal rights rant...


Far from Mr. Defender, look a little deeper.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Mr. defender. You made the stretch to my "mocking of the disabled" which couldn't be further from the truth. Perhaps I left too much room for that to be misinterpreted and I'll own that, but I was simply quoting a line from Tropic Thunder. And, if I remember correctly no one from the liberal media made it an issue and chastised the movie writers for the quip. It seems you are the one digging to highlight that. I offer my apologies. Now, back to the gorilla discussion... And please, don't follow up with some animal rights rant...



Are you trying to defend something you said by claiming you are "quoting tropic thunder"??

That has to be a first.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
God, some of you people are so frustrated and angry...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Now you're mocking GOD!!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
God, some of you people are so frustrated and angry...



Truer words never spoken
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Mr. defender. You made the stretch to my "mocking of the disabled" which couldn't be further from the truth. Perhaps I left too much room for that to be misinterpreted and I'll own that, but I was simply quoting a line from Tropic Thunder. And, if I remember correctly no one from the liberal media made it an issue and chastised the movie writers for the quip. It seems you are the one digging to highlight that. I offer my apologies. Now, back to the gorilla discussion... And please, don't follow up with some animal rights rant...


Still what you may call a cautionary tale...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
a tale of Fire and Ice
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Getting back on topic;
Re:Early Recruiting. Please remind your boys that everything will work out the way it's supposed to... Lots of unnecessary pressure, tends to take away the enjoyment of this unnaturally early process
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hasn't taken his first SAT, finished his 1st year of HS had a girlfriend or have a clue about what he wants to do for a career but some coach tells a 14 year old to his face that he is really good and they would love to have him play and it all makes sense. The system is broken and these kids aren't ready.

All my kid wants to do is play, even if its on the moon and he has to take basket weaving as a major
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Getting back on topic;
Re:Early Recruiting. Please remind your boys that everything will work out the way it's supposed to... Lots of unnecessary pressure, tends to take away the enjoyment of this unnaturally early process


yes, but also remind the boys they need to work for what the earn nothing is giving.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I asked my kid where he wanted to play. He spouted out Syracuse, Duke, Notre Dame without a hesitation. He probably knows nothing about any of these schools, their coaches or their systems. It is crazy to think that he could make a decision like this before he has even left middle school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I asked my kid where he wanted to play. He spouted out Syracuse, Duke, Notre Dame without a hesitation. He probably knows nothing about any of these schools, their coaches or their systems. It is crazy to think that he could make a decision like this before he has even left middle school.


Sometimes it isnt any different for a Jr or Sr. Sometimes that student always knew where they wanted to go.

Although I agree the system maybe broken, dont discount the value of the early recruiting for the student (and parent). There is a reason for everything and just because you may not agree with what another parent does with their child's future, it doesnt make you right.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


hey buddy, if the opportunity is given to your child for a school you deem worthy, you would not advise your child to take it. horse crap, you will, and you still have time to change it, the power is still in your hands (if you are one of the "few" who have committed early).

Yes it is a bit more serious, but i find it crazy when people say why did you (or so-n-so) pick this school or that school, but then another student (a sr.) who goes to that same school they are praising their accomplishments and like WOW THATS GREAT, CONGRATS... you'll love it, this is what you worked hard for!!! but that early committ gets, "Like, why did you choose that school"? SMH

Many of these schools which have the early recruiting #'s are great institutions, that many non athlete's would die to go to. Sure there maybe a few better schools they could have chosen, but maybe the parents or they themselves knew why wait for a chance at harvard or yale, When I have UVA, ND, service academy, a patriot League school now.

If an athlete prove themselves worthy for Harvard or Yale by Sr. year I am sure a place will can be made for them. You do have the power don't forget it.





Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Evidence that the system needs correcting?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Let's face it, the only governing body that can fix it would be the NCAA and they're only concerned with the money sports, football and basketball. Early recruiting and the grade based system that lacrosse uses is ruining the game at the 6th-10th grade levels. It's not going to change.
And honestly I don't know who is more naive as an 8/9th grade recruit, the parent or the player? And are they actually talking to current players at some of these D1 schools. Best comment I heard from a current Syracuse player is that 3rd and 4th string goalies are nothing but cannon fodder during their Syracuse careers. I realize that a goalie is a limited position, but it goes to knowing 'what you're signing up for'.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Evidence that the system needs correcting?


The existence of the ridiculous club system is all the evidence you need. The game has ceased to be fun for plenty of 6th/7th/8th graders.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
35 hours a week and a roster of 50. Sign me up sounds like fun!! Be patient, it all works out. I'm sure that $5k offer isn't going to break you on a $50,0000 school if you need a little more time to decide
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Early recruiting is going on just as much in Baseball, which has similar NCAA scholarship parameters, but it just feels so much different, and slightly more negative with lacrosse because of it's grade based system. Right or wrong, the perception is the early recruited 16 year old Freshman/Sophomore club player is playing down in lacrosse, but is playing against 17/18 year old's in baseball......
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If the sports not fun for your kid, why is he playing?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I just don't understand why any of the negative posters care about the people that chose to commit early.

I have two playing-one committed early and is happy playing at D-1 level (although, at the time 10th grade was early) and one not good enough to be considered still in HS.

younger one loves the game and will play as long as he can whether someone calls or not. Most colleges have club programs that are both fun and competitive without the 30 hour work week associated with D-1.

I say, to each his own-for those who commit in 9th grade, good for them, i hope it works out, for those that choose to wait-or those that never get asked-good luck to you as well.

the people saying the game has been ruined-i say just the opposite. the game is being played every spring weekend and every summer weekend by thousands of kids...ten years ago, unless you were on LI or in MD, it was simply not the case.

so just take a step back and let your kid have fun. when it is no longer fun, try a different sport. The level of competition in soccer or baseball or football or basketball is no different when it comes to club teams selling the dream...some kids get recruited, some don't. not your job or my job to critique the parenting skills of others...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.


Of course some of you jealous people out there couldn't bring yourselves to think that maybe Mom and Dad know their son better than anyone else... Some us know our kids capabilities and limitations on the field and in the classroom. We're not asleep at the switch!!! There are kids that work real hard and barely break 90 in regular classes. Others are lucky enough to be able to cruise through AP classes. That being said, picking a school early that is the right fit in the parents eyes might seem like an odd choice to some on the outside. I can tell you from our experience, that was definitely the case. However, we're confident we found a good match for our son, he's excited about the opportunity. Moral of the story: You worry about yours if and when the time comes, and we'll worry about ours.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.


Of course some of you jealous people out there couldn't bring yourselves to think that maybe Mom and Dad know their son better than anyone else... Some us know our kids capabilities and limitations on the field and in the classroom. We're not asleep at the switch!!! There are kids that work real hard and barely break 90 in regular classes. Others are lucky enough to be able to cruise through AP classes. That being said, picking a school early that is the right fit in the parents eyes might seem like an odd choice to some on the outside. I can tell you from our experience, that was definitely the case. However, we're confident we found a good match for our son, he's excited about the opportunity. Moral of the story: You worry about yours if and when the time comes, and we'll worry about ours.


All of what you typed does not mean that early recruiting is good. The NCAA should pass the proposal being considered and no school should be able to speak to a student athlete until they hit their first day of their Jr year - all sports, no exceptions and the whole thing goes away.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.


Of course some of you jealous people out there couldn't bring yourselves to think that maybe Mom and Dad know their son better than anyone else... Some us know our kids capabilities and limitations on the field and in the classroom. We're not asleep at the switch!!! There are kids that work real hard and barely break 90 in regular classes. Others are lucky enough to be able to cruise through AP classes. That being said, picking a school early that is the right fit in the parents eyes might seem like an odd choice to some on the outside. I can tell you from our experience, that was definitely the case. However, we're confident we found a good match for our son, he's excited about the opportunity. Moral of the story: You worry about yours if and when the time comes, and we'll worry about ours.


The reality is that most kids in 8th or 9th grade "like" a particular school based upon:

1) name recognition
2) uniform colors
3) company that sponsors the athletic gear


They don't give much thought to the school being a good fit based upon other more important factors. If anyone thinks this they are fooling themselves.

What's the harm in letting kids be kids for a little longer and have a level playing field for recruiting that starts Sept 1 of their junior year. If anything this will help late bloomers or those going through puberty a little later. Oh, and the kid might be a bit more mature emotionally.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just don't understand why any of the negative posters care about the people that chose to commit early.

I have two playing-one committed early and is happy playing at D-1 level (although, at the time 10th grade was early) and one not good enough to be considered still in HS.

younger one loves the game and will play as long as he can whether someone calls or not. Most colleges have club programs that are both fun and competitive without the 30 hour work week associated with D-1.

I say, to each his own-for those who commit in 9th grade, good for them, i hope it works out, for those that choose to wait-or those that never get asked-good luck to you as well.

the people saying the game has been ruined-i say just the opposite. the game is being played every spring weekend and every summer weekend by thousands of kids...ten years ago, unless you were on LI or in MD, it was simply not the case.

so just take a step back and let your kid have fun. when it is no longer fun, try a different sport. The level of competition in soccer or baseball or football or basketball is no different when it comes to club teams selling the dream...some kids get recruited, some don't. not your job or my job to critique the parenting skills of others...


I agree with you, and I'm pretty sure that most other people do, too. Too many people think it's their place to tell other people what to do.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.


Of course some of you jealous people out there couldn't bring yourselves to think that maybe Mom and Dad know their son better than anyone else... Some us know our kids capabilities and limitations on the field and in the classroom. We're not asleep at the switch!!! There are kids that work real hard and barely break 90 in regular classes. Others are lucky enough to be able to cruise through AP classes. That being said, picking a school early that is the right fit in the parents eyes might seem like an odd choice to some on the outside. I can tell you from our experience, that was definitely the case. However, we're confident we found a good match for our son, he's excited about the opportunity. Moral of the story: You worry about yours if and when the time comes, and we'll worry about ours.


All of what you typed does not mean that early recruiting is good. The NCAA should pass the proposal being considered and no school should be able to speak to a student athlete until they hit their first day of their Jr year - all sports, no exceptions and the whole thing goes away.


simpleton, clubs will only get more powerful this way, they will be more of a conduit to the player.

I personally like the new camp format some Leagues (acc & ivy) have done giving the player and coach a chance to see a kid early.

The thing that stinks about the whole lacrosse thing is the grind that the summer has turned into (rather the 10 months out of the year) for those youth players.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.


Of course some of you jealous people out there couldn't bring yourselves to think that maybe Mom and Dad know their son better than anyone else... Some us know our kids capabilities and limitations on the field and in the classroom. We're not asleep at the switch!!! There are kids that work real hard and barely break 90 in regular classes. Others are lucky enough to be able to cruise through AP classes. That being said, picking a school early that is the right fit in the parents eyes might seem like an odd choice to some on the outside. I can tell you from our experience, that was definitely the case. However, we're confident we found a good match for our son, he's excited about the opportunity. Moral of the story: You worry about yours if and when the time comes, and we'll worry about ours.


The reality is that most kids in 8th or 9th grade "like" a particular school based upon:

1) name recognition
2) uniform colors
3) company that sponsors the athletic gear


They don't give much thought to the school being a good fit based upon other more important factors. If anyone thinks this they are fooling themselves.

What's the harm in letting kids be kids for a little longer and have a level playing field for recruiting that starts Sept 1 of their junior year. If anything this will help late bloomers or those going through puberty a little later. Oh, and the kid might be a bit more mature emotionally.


Agree. No harm at all. Unfortunately, that's not how recruiting works at the moment. Nor has it worked that way for a few years. I'd like to see it be a little later. I also think it should all be age based, including showcases and recruiting tournaments. This would help the kids, as well as the schools to see what they are really getting. I can also tell you that a lot less changes then you would think with these kids emotionally, mentally or from a maturity level. From 9th to 11th grade. Your kid is pretty much your kid. In fact, when puberty and physical development do take hold, sometimes behavior and decisions get a bit more risky and fearless. That damn testosterone makes us men do some strange things. Look around at some of your friends and their decisions as adults... Think about that one for a while.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Well, there is the financial benefit as well. Securing a spot at a good school. Knowing what you have to do to get into the school that the young man committed to. So, yes I agree it's crazy, but if Duke came calling, I'm not saying no.


Of course some of you jealous people out there couldn't bring yourselves to think that maybe Mom and Dad know their son better than anyone else... Some us know our kids capabilities and limitations on the field and in the classroom. We're not asleep at the switch!!! There are kids that work real hard and barely break 90 in regular classes. Others are lucky enough to be able to cruise through AP classes. That being said, picking a school early that is the right fit in the parents eyes might seem like an odd choice to some on the outside. I can tell you from our experience, that was definitely the case. However, we're confident we found a good match for our son, he's excited about the opportunity. Moral of the story: You worry about yours if and when the time comes, and we'll worry about ours.


All of what you typed does not mean that early recruiting is good. The NCAA should pass the proposal being considered and no school should be able to speak to a student athlete until they hit their first day of their Jr year - all sports, no exceptions and the whole thing goes away.


Sorry.... disagree. The NCAA is a useless agency that is more interested in making money and keeping their jobs than "protecting" athletes. Less govt not more. Coaches have their own best interest to find the best players. If they don't find good players the coaches last long. Good players are just that....good players and coaches will try to find them. I don't see how, when another player commits, has anything to do with your son/daughter. There is a school for every player. Do your homework and find a school that fits your son/daughter scholastic and athletic requirements. Heck half will quit after 2 years and many will never see the field.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous


The reality is that most kids in 8th or 9th grade "like" a particular school based upon:

1) name recognition
2) uniform colors
3) company that sponsors the athletic gear


They don't give much thought to the school being a good fit based upon other more important factors. If anyone thinks this they are fooling themselves.

What's the harm in letting kids be kids for a little longer and have a level playing field for recruiting that starts Sept 1 of their junior year. If anything this will help late bloomers or those going through puberty a little later. Oh, and the kid might be a bit more mature emotionally.



My daughter verbally committed as a freshman and considered a lot more than the three things you mentioned. She focused on schools that were a good fit academically, with campuses and surrounding areas that appealed to her - schools she would like to attend even without lacrosse. She considered coaching philosophy and team culture. We gave her a lot of guidance along the way, but ultimately the final decision of when to commit, and where, was up to her. I have to think a lot of other parents are helping their kids to consider more than just name recognition and uniform color.

We are comfortable with the early commitment, but wish the recruiting process was not starting so early. There are too many club coaches and parents pushing younger and younger kids into the process like it's a race. Sure, a great player can choose to wait until junior year and still be recruited, but there is some risk in missing out on opportunities and scholarship money by doing that.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Just something to consider...if the age of recruiting was changed until Sept 1 junior year, every school would have camps and clinics that falll. Say goodbye to fall sports for kids during junior year. Also junior year is esp challenging academically. My child got their looks summer before 10th. It was a lot of time to go visit the schools and coaches. Be careful what u ou wish for.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Kids are better prepared have taken an SAT and know what type of college student they are going to be by 11th grade. they might also have a clue on what they want to study. So they can pick a school that has what they want as opposed to kids flipping through the catalog after verbaling and saying geeze that major sounds good.

Parents are making the choices for 8th graders. 11th and 12th graders are making more of the choices themselves
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Stop!!! Blanket statements about kids is just nonsense. Who is anyone to tell a parent when their kid should decide on where to go to college. Stop with your over academic analysis. Commit if you want in 8th grade or 12th grade, whatever suits your kid and family. The only people who get uptight about early commits are those who aren't early commits. Better advice is to take your ego out of the mix and let the process play out naturally.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous

Parents are making the choices for 8th graders. 11th and 12th graders are making more of the choices themselves


couldn't agree more and the parents who argue the most to keep the process the same are the parents that like making the decisions and living through their kids!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous

Parents are making the choices for 8th graders. 11th and 12th graders are making more of the choices themselves


couldn't agree more and the parents who argue the most to keep the process the same are the parents that like making the decisions and living through their kids!


Stop being jealous. Your kid will play where he belongs. The process will dictate that to you. I assure you, he's not being missed. He'll find a spot. If he's that good he'll PG and UNC will pay for it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous

Parents are making the choices for 8th graders. 11th and 12th graders are making more of the choices themselves


couldn't agree more and the parents who argue the most to keep the process the same are the parents that like making the decisions and living through their kids!


Not Really....stop trying to make yourself feel better, your little prodigy will make it don't worry mommy and daddy
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The number of de-commits are high... So, it becomes a game for coaches...
Be aware!
The recruiting stratgy with some programs are to hedge risk of early talent projection, by overcommitting -example; 7 Attackman, knowing if 3 players work out by graduation... Great... Meanwhile, the other 4 player have to restart the whole process...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I think anyone who's had a child commit early will read this post and laugh. My son committed to a great school and visited numerous schools, including some ivies. Guess what? He disliked them! And guess what? So did we! Both my wife and I graduated from Top 20 schools. Guess what? They're over-rated and expensive!! There are so many other factors that make a school a perfect fit for a player. And no one's rushing, but when a coach is putting a nice offer in front of you, and your son (not you, or your wife) loves the school, you go for it. Oh, and if my son decides it's not the right choice (doubtful), and chooses another school for WHATEVER REASON, excellent. He's set now and will be set later. So, unless you've walk this walk, no one cares.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The number of de-commits are high... So, it becomes a game for coaches...
Be aware!
The recruiting stratgy with some programs are to hedge risk of early talent projection, by overcommitting -example; 7 Attackman, knowing if 3 players work out by graduation... Great... Meanwhile, the other 4 player have to restart the whole process...


What are you talking about? What D1 program in what grade year has 7 attack commits? None. The number of de-commits is mostly, if not almost exclusively on the student side. Better deal, better school, better fit, etc... How many schools are de-committing kids? Not many, and if they do it's because of grades or off field issues. Get your facts straight.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I think anyone who's had a child commit early will read this post and laugh. My son committed to a great school and visited numerous schools, including some ivies. Guess what? He disliked them! And guess what? So did we! Both my wife and I graduated from Top 20 schools. Guess what? They're over-rated and expensive!! There are so many other factors that make a school a perfect fit for a player. And no one's rushing, but when a coach is putting a nice offer in front of you, and your son (not you, or your wife) loves the school, you go for it. Oh, and if my son decides it's not the right choice (doubtful), and chooses another school for WHATEVER REASON, excellent. He's set now and will be set later. So, unless you've walk this walk, no one cares.


Might be the best, most honest post on choosing a college ever on BOTC.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


You think so? Check the schools in 2018. See how many options all those patient players have. You are ignorant on the recruiting process and jealous of others success. Most schools are just about full. Before you state the obvious, many recruits for schools are NOT listed on lax power. Commit numbers are far higher. Now for that one late bloomer, kid that comes out of nowhere and makes UA team, that kid will have options. That is a rare occurrence... Good luck with your strategy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I hate the process but it is an arms race. That's why so many people verbal early afraid that the money will be gone. Its like musical chairs don't get caught when the music stops without an offer. Pushes some people into bad decisions. That's why the transfer rate is so high. Wait and see attitude leads to walk on and maybe money in year 2
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


You think so? Check the schools in 2018. See how many options all those patient players have. You are ignorant on the recruiting process and jealous of others success. Most schools are just about full. Before you state the obvious, many recruits for schools are NOT listed on lax power. Commit numbers are far higher. Now for that one late bloomer, kid that comes out of nowhere and makes UA team, that kid will have options. That is a rare occurrence... Good luck with your strategy.


Hardly Jealous. I am speaking from 1st hand experience... And most grateful to receive this timely advice from a college, while my son was a rising junior, (peek of frustrated with the ER process)...
PLEASE encourage your kids to stay positive, calm, and confident.
If your son is getting early attention, keep the conversation going... If your son has gifted athleticism, don't settle early... In most cases, these coaches are offering very little (other than peace of mind). Do Not Settle or Sell yourselves short.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I hate the process but it is an arms race. That's why so many people verbal early afraid that the money will be gone. Its like musical chairs don't get caught when the music stops without an offer. Pushes some people into bad decisions. That's why the transfer rate is so high. Wait and see attitude leads to walk on and maybe money in year 2


...some money goes early (usually to FOGO or super speedy middy). But keep in mind, 12.6 scholarships per team, so anything more than a 1/4 consider bonus...
academic money and financial aid are available to whom ever qualifies, no matter how late in the process...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just don't understand why any of the negative posters care about the people that chose to commit early.

I have two playing-one committed early and is happy playing at D-1 level (although, at the time 10th grade was early) and one not good enough to be considered still in HS.

younger one loves the game and will play as long as he can whether someone calls or not. Most colleges have club programs that are both fun and competitive without the 30 hour work week associated with D-1.

I say, to each his own-for those who commit in 9th grade, good for them, i hope it works out, for those that choose to wait-or those that never get asked-good luck to you as well.

the people saying the game has been ruined-i say just the opposite. the game is being played every spring weekend and every summer weekend by thousands of kids...ten years ago, unless you were on LI or in MD, it was simply not the case.

so just take a step back and let your kid have fun. when it is no longer fun, try a different sport. The level of competition in soccer or baseball or football or basketball is no different when it comes to club teams selling the dream...some kids get recruited, some don't. not your job or my job to critique the parenting skills of others...


I agree with you, and I'm pretty sure that most other people do, too. Too many people think it's their place to tell other people what to do.


And why shouldn't people feel that way? Doesn't the village get their say? :-)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.


Uhmmm. How will your rising 10th grader have her full license this summer?? So she's a 16 year old 9th grader?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.


Uhmmm. How will your rising 10th grader have her full license this summer?? So she's a 16 year old 9th grader?


Maryland has different driving rules than NY
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
That's great, what a joke
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.


Uhmmm. How will your rising 10th grader have her full license this summer?? So she's a 16 year old 9th grader?


Maryland has different driving rules than NY


How old is she - 22?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
my dd will be turning 15 in 10th grade.
The hold backs are ridiculous! 16 in 9th?!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.


Uhmmm. How will your rising 10th grader have her full license this summer?? So she's a 16 year old 9th grader?


Maryland has different driving rules than NY


You have to be 16 1/2 to drive in Maryland. My son is 16 1/2, and he's in 11th grade here in NY.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.


Uhmmm. How will your rising 10th grader have her full license this summer?? So she's a 16 year old 9th grader?


Maryland has different driving rules than NY


You have to be 16 1/2 to drive in Maryland. My son is 16 1/2, and he's in 11th grade here in NY.


Ok, we'll be able to sleep now, thanks
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This system needs to be fixed, there is NO way any 8th, 9th or even 10th grader knows what they want in college. I know lots of people will jump on here and say "my kid knows, and always wanted to go to ____". And, maybe that is true, but I really don't think they have ANY idea what they are actually signing up for. I don't get it, the kids/parents have all of the power, if people started saying "I'm not ready" this crazy process would slow down. IMO if you haven't had some AP courses, taken your SATs and played a year or two of varsity, you cannot realistically make a decision on a college. I just don't get it. But I am assuming, when you see 8th and 9th graders "committing" it is so the can brag about it, not because it is actually a decision that they feel good about.


Actually - that is where you are a little off in your assumptions. My 9th grade daughter knows exactly what she wants to do and is very mature for her grade. She has already taken her PSAT's and will be signed up for her SAT's next fall. If we can find time to schedule in some sort of SAT prep class this spring along with drivers-ed, we should be good to go. Right now she's mulling over several offers from various schools and should be decided soon. Fortunately - most of the schools are within easy driving distance from Baltimore, so she can take herself to their camps this summer.


Uhmmm. How will your rising 10th grader have her full license this summer?? So she's a 16 year old 9th grader?


Maryland has different driving rules than NY


You have to be 16 1/2 to drive in Maryland. My son is 16 1/2, and he's in 11th grade here in NY.


Ok, we'll be able to sleep now, thanks


Hilarious the amount of holdbacks there are in MD.. HILARIOUS!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I think anyone who's had a child commit early will read this post and laugh. My son committed to a great school and visited numerous schools, including some ivies. Guess what? He disliked them! And guess what? So did we! Both my wife and I graduated from Top 20 schools. Guess what? They're over-rated and expensive!! There are so many other factors that make a school a perfect fit for a player. And no one's rushing, but when a coach is putting a nice offer in front of you, and your son (not you, or your wife) loves the school, you go for it. Oh, and if my son decides it's not the right choice (doubtful), and chooses another school for WHATEVER REASON, excellent. He's set now and will be set later. So, unless you've walk this walk, no one cares.


Mmm... If you and wifey graduated from a "top 20 schools" (as claimed)... I agree! Judging from your, screaming of insecurity, post... your education was an awful waste of money, and completely, over-rated... Good thing little Johnny inherited your judgement.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The number of de-commits are high... So, it becomes a game for coaches...
Be aware!
The recruiting stratgy with some programs are to hedge risk of early talent projection, by overcommitting -example; 7 Attackman, knowing if 3 players work out by graduation... Great... Meanwhile, the other 4 player have to restart the whole process...


What are you talking about? What D1 program in what grade year has 7 attack commits? None. The number of de-commits is mostly, if not almost exclusively on the student side. Better deal, better school, better fit, etc... How many schools are de-committing kids? Not many, and if they do it's because of grades or off field issues. Get your facts straight.


...like in any profession, you will find some coaches are more transparent and up front than others. If you don't grasp that concept, you are naive.
if your EC son, is an early peaker (and no hiding that fact)... Gaining admissions to a reach school will still prove a great choice, if lax is not in the equation after freshman year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I think anyone who's had a child commit early will read this post and laugh. My son committed to a great school and visited numerous schools, including some ivies. Guess what? He disliked them! And guess what? So did we! Both my wife and I graduated from Top 20 schools. Guess what? They're over-rated and expensive!! There are so many other factors that make a school a perfect fit for a player. And no one's rushing, but when a coach is putting a nice offer in front of you, and your son (not you, or your wife) loves the school, you go for it. Oh, and if my son decides it's not the right choice (doubtful), and chooses another school for WHATEVER REASON, excellent. He's set now and will be set later. So, unless you've walk this walk, no one cares.


Might be the best, most honest post on choosing a college ever on BOTC.


Ha! Ever?? Nice try ...says the guy who wrote it
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I love the parents that push their kids to those shiny brand name "academic admissions reach" schools as opposed to picking schools where they can succeed and thrive. Recently, I've seen too many transfers from those academic reach schools. The way we've always approached it for all our kids was to put a list together of schools they are interested in. Then let them decide within that list. We can go brand name shopping later when looking for a grad school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I love the parents that push their kids to those shiny brand name "academic admissions reach" schools as opposed to picking schools where they can succeed and thrive. Recently, I've seen too many transfers from those academic reach schools. The way we've always approached it for all our kids was to put a list together of schools they are interested in. Then let them decide within that list. We can go brand name shopping later when looking for a grad school.
you are the best parent known to man genius.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I think anyone who's had a child commit early will read this post and laugh. My son committed to a great school and visited numerous schools, including some ivies. Guess what? He disliked them! And guess what? So did we! Both my wife and I graduated from Top 20 schools. Guess what? They're over-rated and expensive!! There are so many other factors that make a school a perfect fit for a player. And no one's rushing, but when a coach is putting a nice offer in front of you, and your son (not you, or your wife) loves the school, you go for it. Oh, and if my son decides it's not the right choice (doubtful), and chooses another school for WHATEVER REASON, excellent. He's set now and will be set later. So, unless you've walk this walk, no one cares.


Might be the best, most honest post on choosing a college ever on BOTC.


Ha! Ever?? Nice try ...says the guy who wrote it


Nope, sorry tool, just being honest. You're just all pissed off because the original poster blew up your thoughts on picking a school, with straight talk and reality... The truth cuts deep.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I think anyone who's had a child commit early will read this post and laugh. My son committed to a great school and visited numerous schools, including some ivies. Guess what? He disliked them! And guess what? So did we! Both my wife and I graduated from Top 20 schools. Guess what? They're over-rated and expensive!! There are so many other factors that make a school a perfect fit for a player. And no one's rushing, but when a coach is putting a nice offer in front of you, and your son (not you, or your wife) loves the school, you go for it. Oh, and if my son decides it's not the right choice (doubtful), and chooses another school for WHATEVER REASON, excellent. He's set now and will be set later. So, unless you've walk this walk, no one cares.


Might be the best, most honest post on choosing a college ever on BOTC.


Ha! Ever?? Nice try ...says the guy who wrote it


Nope, sorry tool, just being honest. You're just all pissed off because the original poster blew up your thoughts on picking a school, with straight talk and reality... The truth cuts deep.



Great post. We've walked the walk. Daughter recruited by and visited 8 schools. None of them really was "the one" but a couple were really close. She received her first offer from one of the schools that was not in her top two and the next day received an offer from one of her top two. She accepted. After her fall semester at her school she knew she didn't want to be there anymore. Not the fault of the school, team or daughter. It just wasn't a good fit for her, but she didn't know until she actually lived at the school for some time. It was a D1 school, but we/she were never really locked into D1, it just worked out that way. Now she's playing juco and having a great time and will probably transfer to a 4 year school, but now with a better idea of what she's looking for.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I love the parents that push their kids to those shiny brand name "academic admissions reach" schools as opposed to picking schools where they can succeed and thrive. Recently, I've seen too many transfers from those academic reach schools. The way we've always approached it for all our kids was to put a list together of schools they are interested in. Then let them decide within that list. We can go brand name shopping later when looking for a grad school.


So you think your academically challenged kid who picked a low level undergrad so they can thrive will now be ready for one of those reach graduate programs after 4 ( maybe 6 in this case) years at nonsense university , now that sounds like a solid plan .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
People need to also remember what it means to go to that "reach" school if you are not playing lacrosse. Don't ever under estimate the value of academic support. It varies from school to school, but at some places it is really significant. Of course they dont do the work for you; your kid still needs to study and work hard. However, it is one thing to go to Notre Dame or an Ivy with academic support and quite another to have to go it alone. If you get to your "reach" and then (1) get cut in the Fall; (2) get hurt: (3) decide you hate the coach; (4) arent playing , etc. you may find yourself suddenly separated from the team and everything that goes with it. So my two cents is by all means reach for the best school.....just make sure your kid could still survive if all the academic support went away.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People need to also remember what it means to go to that "reach" school if you are not playing lacrosse. Don't ever under estimate the value of academic support. It varies from school to school, but at some places it is really significant. Of course they dont do the work for you; your kid still needs to study and work hard. However, it is one thing to go to Notre Dame or an Ivy with academic support and quite another to have to go it alone. If you get to your "reach" and then (1) get cut in the Fall; (2) get hurt: (3) decide you hate the coach; (4) arent playing , etc. you may find yourself suddenly separated from the team and everything that goes with it. So my two cents is by all means reach for the best school.....just make sure your kid could still survive if all the academic support went away.


Booze and weed work for all of those situations at all schools
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can you go more into detail re academic support ?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I love the parents that push their kids to those shiny brand name "academic admissions reach" schools as opposed to picking schools where they can succeed and thrive. Recently, I've seen too many transfers from those academic reach schools. The way we've always approached it for all our kids was to put a list together of schools they are interested in. Then let them decide within that list. We can go brand name shopping later when looking for a grad school.


So you think your academically challenged kid who picked a low level undergrad so they can thrive will now be ready for one of those reach graduate programs after 4 ( maybe 6 in this case) years at nonsense university , now that sounds like a solid plan .


Reads to me like the poster was writing just the opposite of what you are writing. Check his post again. The way I read it you are disagreeing with what you agree with.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People need to also remember what it means to go to that "reach" school if you are not playing lacrosse. Don't ever under estimate the value of academic support. It varies from school to school, but at some places it is really significant. Of course they dont do the work for you; your kid still needs to study and work hard. However, it is one thing to go to Notre Dame or an Ivy with academic support and quite another to have to go it alone. If you get to your "reach" and then (1) get cut in the Fall; (2) get hurt: (3) decide you hate the coach; (4) arent playing , etc. you may find yourself suddenly separated from the team and everything that goes with it. So my two cents is by all means reach for the best school.....just make sure your kid could still survive if all the academic support went away.


People also need to remember that most of the people on this site are jealous little trolls.
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2021 YJ to Maryland. https://mobile.twitter.com/LIYELLOWJACKETS/status/834305657977323520?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
hey mommy....good for your daughter
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People need to also remember what it means to go to that "reach" school if you are not playing lacrosse. Don't ever under estimate the value of academic support. It varies from school to school, but at some places it is really significant. Of course they dont do the work for you; your kid still needs to study and work hard. However, it is one thing to go to Notre Dame or an Ivy with academic support and quite another to have to go it alone. If you get to your "reach" and then (1) get cut in the Fall; (2) get hurt: (3) decide you hate the coach; (4) arent playing , etc. you may find yourself suddenly separated from the team and everything that goes with it. So my two cents is by all means reach for the best school.....just make sure your kid could still survive if all the academic support went away.


People also need to remember that most of the people on this site are jealous little trolls.


Or chest thumping meatheads who like to talk down to anyone that does not seem to be meeting their standards. Hilarious.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
hey mommy....good for your daughter


It's actually old news - I guess mommy does not want us to forget.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The amount of lies on this board about ER is ridiculous. I've had both my sons commit to top schools as a sophomore and freshman. Nobody is taking their scholarship away. Their classes weren't over committed and nobody got dropped by graduation. Do I think kids should commit that early , no. But kids will go where there talent takes them regardless of ER. Whining and lying about the current process does nothing except make you look small and jealous.


Jack straw- your posts are not helpful, and almost always defensive or antagonistic.
TREND - early committed HS players are deciding to decommit as JR or SR years.
Biggest Factor- Kids often cave to the pressure, (directly or indirectly) from parents or peers, to be done with the process. Why else would kids rush to commit to colleges offering little money, and to colleges that are not an academic admissions reach?

(Other than the obvious IVY, Duke, and ND type choices) - the best advice is to stay patient, and weigh all your options later. If you are a good athlete, and good student - you will have plenty of options.


I love the parents that push their kids to those shiny brand name "academic admissions reach" schools as opposed to picking schools where they can succeed and thrive. Recently, I've seen too many transfers from those academic reach schools. The way we've always approached it for all our kids was to put a list together of schools they are interested in. Then let them decide within that list. We can go brand name shopping later when looking for a grad school.


So you think your academically challenged kid who picked a low level undergrad so they can thrive will now be ready for one of those reach graduate programs after 4 ( maybe 6 in this case) years at nonsense university , now that sounds like a solid plan .


Reads to me like the poster was writing just the opposite of what you are writing. Check his post again. The way I read it you are disagreeing with what you agree with.


It sounds like that poster may have some first hand experience with the 6 year plan at a nonsense university since he's recalling it so fondly.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
People need to also remember what it means to go to that "reach" school if you are not playing lacrosse. Don't ever under estimate the value of academic support. It varies from school to school, but at some places it is really significant. Of course they dont do the work for you; your kid still needs to study and work hard. However, it is one thing to go to Notre Dame or an Ivy with academic support and quite another to have to go it alone. If you get to your "reach" and then (1) get cut in the Fall; (2) get hurt: (3) decide you hate the coach; (4) arent playing , etc. you may find yourself suddenly separated from the team and everything that goes with it. So my two cents is by all means reach for the best school.....just make sure your kid could still survive if all the academic support went away.


People also need to remember that most of the people on this site are jealous little trolls.


Or chest thumping meatheads who like to talk down to anyone that does not seem to be meeting their standards. Hilarious.


Agree. The point is well taken. Lax bros need to be able to do the work without a personal tutor.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
...everything always works out for the best in the end.
Now that you and daughter been thru it, do you have any recommendations on what you should know about the school, and/or yourself Before making the decision?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Key phrase to sum up is Good FIT (as an individual) ...when you are realistic with your kid's academic/athletic strengths and weaknesses, it helps you find that situation where your kid will be challenged, and ultimately thrive.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
8th grade YJ commits to Yale. Have these college coaches lost their minds?or are they all hurrying to wrap up the youngest talent before their own proposal goes into effect?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
How does this happen with 2021 or even the mystery MD 2022s - are the clubs approaching the colleges, or are the parents reaching out ? Are these kids being seen at camps ? It goes against standard convention ...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Thought it was Maryland?

Personally, their proposal should NOT be approved for current commit classes. Start with 2022s. Otherwise, you have committed kids who CANNOT speak with their coaches. NOT GOOD. . .I want my child to be able to continue cultivating a relationship with his/her coach. Naysayers, please bugger off. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Per Ty Xanders--earliest ever commit 8th grade (2021) to a B12 school. I guess he said this kid committed 1 month earlier than anyone in the past. He won't say who or which school yet. So sneaky.
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Its Hopkins of course.... Petro is a shameless. Although if he plays for Crabs, FCA, Looneys he is probably 16 anyway.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Its Ohio Sate
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Its Hopkins of course.... Petro is a shameless. Although if he plays for Crabs, FCA, Looneys he is probably 16 anyway.
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16 years old, Crabs definitely, FCA or Looney's highly unlikely. You should know your facts before opening your mouth. Not cool starting crap.
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ok Fonzie... not cool.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
ok Fonzie... not cool.

Oh, ok Mr. Cunningham whatever you say. Guess you are connected with Crabs. Or maybe I should say ok Mr Crabdaddy, the crab man himself.
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Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Originally Posted by Anonymous
ok Fonzie... not cool.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Its Hopkins of course.... Petro is a shameless. Although if he plays for Crabs, FCA, Looneys he is probably 16 anyway.


No way this is a true age 8th grader. Club and school once announced will tell u right away! Still must have some very good ability if recruited??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Kid is on age.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kid is on age.


Yes, on age for Maryland. So 16.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My son is friends with him, just turned 14
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
He must have loser parents to be forcing college decisions at age 14.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
He must have loser parents to be forcing college decisions at age 14.


Forcing????? You're the loser, feel sorry for your son, he must hate you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If the kid is THAT good - why on earth would he commit to OSU at 14? You would think a parent would step in and provide some guidance....

Where is he from?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My son is friends with him, just turned 14


Ok since you know so much...what Club does he play for??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Resolute out of Ohio
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Well Ty Xanders listed 1 2021 to watch from Ohio ( Resolute ) at the NLF last month...my crime dog skills are on point.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well Ty Xanders listed 1 2021 to watch from Ohio ( Resolute ) at the NLF last month...my crime dog skills are on point.



Right, that kid is an awesome player. Great running back also. But he did not just turn 14. Should be a 2020. Not even close to being a legit 2021.
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Is Crush mad that they can't claim the earliest commit anymore?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is Crush mad that they can't claim the earliest commit anymore?
why, would they be? Dont they still have the youngest?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Nope
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Well Ty Xanders listed 1 2021 to watch from Ohio ( Resolute ) at the NLF last month...my crime dog skills are on point.



Right, that kid is an awesome player. Great running back also. But he did not just turn 14. Should be a 2020. Not even close to being a legit 2021. This is not the kid

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If the kid is THAT good - why on earth would he commit to OSU at 14? You would think a parent would step in and provide some guidance....

Where is he from?
Pennsylvania
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Not Ohio kid and not OSU but good thinking ______ PA kid
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not Ohio kid and not OSU but good thinking ______ PA kid


If he's from PA he should be going to Penn State.
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Only last Friday the CAD was trying hard to get through 1.3060 on the back of an eye opening CPI number and after witnessing some stealth like USD buying the currency has had a pretty severe identity crisis this week. It may go back as far as February 21 when positioning reports surprisingly revealed that the market at least in the case of futures was substantially long CAD, despite the fact that the determining factors for the CAD have done very little the currency has lost nearly 2.5% since Friday’s CAD strong point. What is even more surprising is the fact that the CAD has lost ground on most if not all pertinent crosses.
We are not sure it is going to get much better as we get the BOC rate announcement today and that may give the authorities another opportunity to give the CAD another kick in the head. Beyond that we have CAD GDP (expectations decent so a good print no surprise) and then the next big event the CAD employment report March 10th which after several months of good numbers is at risk of being bad.
Couple this with the fact that a “border tax” is still being bandied about and this will continue to send the CAD lower. The fact is we have traded a tight 1.30-1.36 range since last September and it may be time to take a visit back to the top end at 1.3600.

copied this from another thread (explains why programs like PSU or OSU commit early)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Only last Friday the CAD was trying hard to get through 1.3060 on the back of an eye opening CPI number and after witnessing some stealth like USD buying the currency has had a pretty severe identity crisis this week. It may go back as far as February 21 when positioning reports surprisingly revealed that the market at least in the case of futures was substantially long CAD, despite the fact that the determining factors for the CAD have done very little the currency has lost nearly 2.5% since Friday’s CAD strong point. What is even more surprising is the fact that the CAD has lost ground on most if not all pertinent crosses.
We are not sure it is going to get much better as we get the BOC rate announcement today and that may give the authorities another opportunity to give the CAD another kick in the head. Beyond that we have CAD GDP (expectations decent so a good print no surprise) and then the next big event the CAD employment report March 10th which after several months of good numbers is at risk of being bad.
Couple this with the fact that a “border tax” is still being bandied about and this will continue to send the CAD lower. The fact is we have traded a tight 1.30-1.36 range since last September and it may be time to take a visit back to the top end at 1.3600.

copied this from another thread (explains why programs like PSU or OSU commit early)


Wow, I am thoroughly confused. I thought I knew a thing or two about lacrosse, but all this talk about CAD and CPI leaves me realizing I know nothing about the sport.
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sorry cut and paste didn't work that time
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
sorry cut and paste didn't work that time


Yeah, figured as much, just trying to post a little levity.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Why isn't the club claiming this commit
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
He must have loser parents to be forcing college decisions at age 14.


"Decisions" - is this binding for either side? If no, nothing has been decided.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The poster established that the parents "forced" the child to attend a certain institution. Who told you the youngster was "forced" ? Is this your overzealous and jealous imagination running wild? Making unfounded assumptions? Remember what Felix told Oscar about assuming things!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think they said the kid is from Pa
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!


LOL, that's the greatest typo ever. . .you meant deutschiest like "most German," right? Good luck to this kid and to any kid talented enough to play for a school like OSU. The earliness might take one's breath away, but in a year, you all will be complaining about the next early commit (and begrudgingly acknowledging that maybe, just maybe, last year's earliest might be the real deal). Or you'll be complaining that the new NCAA rules forbidding contact are not having the intended effect of "making things right" because now the clubs have even MORE power. Because if it's not one thing around here, it's another. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What are the odds that the NCAA rules against early recruiting and adopts the US Lacrosse proposal that limits contact until Jr year? I think it's 50/50. I, for one, like limiting coaches contact. I realize that the club coaches will probably still talk to college coaches. So, your club director would become the go between until Jr year. But, wouldn't limiting contact until Jr year make more sense? In the non-athletic world, kids don't visit college until their Jr. year.

It is up to the NCAA to make the call. I know they don't want to have the responsibility of enforcement. Lacrosse is not a revenue baring sport.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!


Definitely not Jealous of Ohio State, I advised my son not to return the requested call. Mind boggling that any decent LI kid should want to go there, maybe if it the kid was a senior and had no other interest, that's about it. Not a good program.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!


Definitely not Jealous of Ohio State, I advised my son not to return the requested call. Mind boggling that any decent LI kid should want to go there, maybe if it the kid was a senior and had no other interest, that's about it. Not a good program.


You are so full of sh*t
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!


Definitely not Jealous of Ohio State, I advised my son not to return the requested call. Mind boggling that any decent LI kid should want to go there, maybe if it the kid was a senior and had no other interest, that's about it. Not a good program.


You are so full of sh*t



So if you had a choice between OSU, Villanova, Penn state, Loyola, Georgetown, Syracuse, Maryland, NC, would you chose OSU??? Exactly!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!


Definitely not Jealous of Ohio State, I advised my son not to return the requested call. Mind boggling that any decent LI kid should want to go there, maybe if it the kid was a senior and had no other interest, that's about it. Not a good program.


You are so full of sh*t



So if you had a choice between OSU, Villanova, Penn state, Loyola, Georgetown, Syracuse, Maryland, NC, would you chose OSU??? Exactly!!


My son is committed to one of those schools, not OSU, but OSU was one of the options (several and others offered). The difference was offer. And I didn't call you out above. I would choose any of these schools. They are all great. What idiot wouldn't?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It is the Resolute kid and his summer/fall coach is Nick Myers. This one is simple and does make sense.


Myers is the deucheist coach out there. He's a nasty [lacrosse]. Seems nice on the visit then it changes real quick when you get there. Oh, and the team sucks! Who would want to send their kid to Crappy Ohio where you can't even see them play games without flying when there are soooo many better choices!


Jealously is not a good trait!


Definitely not Jealous of Ohio State, I advised my son not to return the requested call. Mind boggling that any decent LI kid should want to go there, maybe if it the kid was a senior and had no other interest, that's about it. Not a good program.


You are so full of sh*t



So if you had a choice between OSU, Villanova, Penn state, Loyola, Georgetown, Syracuse, Maryland, NC, would you chose OSU??? Exactly!!


Excepting Georgetown, none of the above schools are "very strong" academically (they're all still good, relatively well-regarded schools). OSU with money would be a better choice than any of the others at full price.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Everyone on here writes about FIT. Maybe OSU is the perfect fit for this young man. Just because they rejected your son is no reason to blast the school. Curious as to where you matriculated from?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Its Maryland
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ohio State is too far, and a lower program. Coach [lacrosse] Myers is a redneck who recruits Canadians who are rejected from Syracuse and Denver. Good luck in the Gutter
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can someone hire Acme Detective agency and lets get to the bottom of this mystery!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Several of those schools rank higher than OSU like PSU, Nova,MD,Gtown, and NC (check US News) . A friend of my sons is there and hates the coach and says he'll probably transfer. The Parents didn't realize it would be so difficult to see their son play as well. I could see if it was a school like Duke or ND that has a good lax program , OSU just isn't a good choice provided you have other options. My son is at one of the other schools mentioned and we get to see him play every week, and they also have a chance to get to the top.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ohio State is too far, and a lower program. Coach [lacrosse] Myers is a redneck who recruits Canadians who are rejected from Syracuse and Denver. Good luck in the Gutter



Spot On!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Please OSU is a great school. Didn't Myers lead the u-19 USA team to a historic come from behind win last July. I would be honoured if my son was asked to play there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Please OSU is a great school. Didn't Myers lead the u-19 USA team to a historic come from behind win last July. I would be honoured if my son was asked to play there.


But would you choose that program if you had choices? Not if Lax helps decide.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Please OSU is a great school. Didn't Myers lead the u-19 USA team to a historic come from behind win last July. I would be honoured if my son was asked to play there.


Too bad he can't lead his own team to anything.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The person ripping OSU sounds like a jealous reject from the school. Lots of third party references and non factual statements that can't be verified by him. OSU is a good school, with a great reputation and tons of tradition and alumni connections.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The person ripping OSU sounds like a jealous reject from the school. Lots of third party references and non factual statements that can't be verified by him. OSU is a good school, with a great reputation and tons of tradition and alumni connections.
for a state school with 60K students in Columbus its a pretty darn good school
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Please OSU is a great school. Didn't Myers lead the u-19 USA team to a historic come from behind win last July. I would be honoured if my son was asked to play there.


They should have never been down in the first place.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The person ripping OSU sounds like a jealous reject from the school. Lots of third party references and non factual statements that can't be verified by him. OSU is a good school, with a great reputation and tons of tradition and alumni connections.
for a state school with 60K students in Columbus its a pretty darn good school


Why settle? that was a backhanded compliment...kid is committing in 8th grade...no way should that be your 1st choice.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The person ripping OSU sounds like a jealous reject from the school. Lots of third party references and non factual statements that can't be verified by him. OSU is a good school, with a great reputation and tons of tradition and alumni connections.
for a state school with 60K students in Columbus its a pretty darn good school


Why settle? that was a backhanded compliment...kid is committing in 8th grade...no way should that be your 1st choice.


What if you know that your kid is of relatively average intelligence, and might really thrive at a school like OSU? What if they promised you a significant amount of money?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The person ripping OSU sounds like a jealous reject from the school. Lots of third party references and non factual statements that can't be verified by him. OSU is a good school, with a great reputation and tons of tradition and alumni connections.
for a state school with 60K students in Columbus its a pretty darn good school


Why settle? that was a backhanded compliment...kid is committing in 8th grade...no way should that be your 1st choice.


Where is your kid committed to? U of NW?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The person ripping OSU sounds like a jealous reject from the school. Lots of third party references and non factual statements that can't be verified by him. OSU is a good school, with a great reputation and tons of tradition and alumni connections.
for a state school with 60K students in Columbus its a pretty darn good school


Why settle? that was a backhanded compliment...kid is committing in 8th grade...no way should that be your 1st choice.


Where is your kid committed to? U of NW?


ND
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Your probably a Wall Street tool. Ohio state is a great school especially if your not trying to work at Goldman Sachs. Or maybe the parents don't want to spend 75k a year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It's a OSU parent who keeps trying to justify the early commit to a mediocre school that is too far away. Please stop! You would have been better off at Hoftstra or SB
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
But isn't the kid from western Pa? Maybe that's where he wants to be. Stop spreading shade. I can tell you the OSU campus itself is much better then the Harvard of Hempstead or Stoned Brook. B1G is up an coming. Theres more media exposure on BTN then Newsday. Hofstra athletics haven't had any "Pride" since they became the Pride.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Your probably a Wall Street tool. Ohio state is a great school especially if your not trying to work at Goldman Sachs. Or maybe the parents don't want to spend 75k a year


Wait, who wouldn't want to work at Goldman Sachs? Make a bunch of money and then take a sunset job as part of the Trump Administration... That's the American Dream!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Is it really important to go to a top academic school? We've all been duped into buying (really buying) into that philosophy. Not sure about you but most of the really successful guys I know didn't go to IVY, Duke, UNC, NESCAC, Virginia etc. They didn't. Many didn't even go to school. Our entire society has boughten into this idea that in order to have success you first need to go to college and even you want even more success it has to be to a top college. Its really BS. You can site the examples of the Princeton grad who got handed a job. So what. For everyone of those there is a Kevin Plank story. He went to Maryland. A school lax people bash as a non academic school. What has your college experience done for you?? A bunch of great memories and great stories for me. Ivy grads going into teaching? I coached two twins back in the day and one went to Hopkins and one to Princeton. Great kids. Bother are teachers at a private school. And they love it. I"m not knocking teaching. The point is you, your character, your drive, your passion, your ambition, your balls are going to make you. Not that high academic institution. Truly an extension of high school with less rules. Go Be. Go Do. Have fun. Play lacrosse at the best lacrosse school you can or go play for the best academic school you can. Either way it will all work out if you work.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is it really important to go to a top academic school? We've all been duped into buying (really buying) into that philosophy. Not sure about you but most of the really successful guys I know didn't go to IVY, Duke, UNC, NESCAC, Virginia etc. They didn't. Many didn't even go to school. Our entire society has boughten into this idea that in order to have success you first need to go to college and even you want even more success it has to be to a top college. Its really BS. You can site the examples of the Princeton grad who got handed a job. So what. For everyone of those there is a Kevin Plank story. He went to Maryland. A school lax people bash as a non academic school. What has your college experience done for you?? A bunch of great memories and great stories for me. Ivy grads going into teaching? I coached two twins back in the day and one went to Hopkins and one to Princeton. Great kids. Bother are teachers at a private school. And they love it. I"m not knocking teaching. The point is you, your character, your drive, your passion, your ambition, your balls are going to make you. Not that high academic institution. Truly an extension of high school with less rules. Go Be. Go Do. Have fun. Play lacrosse at the best lacrosse school you can or go play for the best academic school you can. Either way it will all work out if you work.


My college experience taught me that "boughten" is not a word.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.



Everyone already knows but nobody is spilling the beans all the kids at school are talking about it
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
We all know successful people who didn't go to college or went to some middle of the road school or community college. That has nothing to do with it. What is good or works for one person may not work for another.
Listen, I agree with you, be the best you can be, have fun and make the most of every day, no matter where you are....100%. I disagree about going to a school because it has the best lacrosse program.....there is no pot of gold at the end ...MLL is not the NFL, and it does not always work out. In some cases you go, get pushed into a major you are not interested in as you can't do the major you want based on the lax schedule and you graduate with either a non marketable degree or in a field you have no interest in and end up working at lacrosse unlimited selling gear to snot-nose kids.
The bottom line is you need to find a school where your kid will be the most successful - academically, socially and if playing lacrosse, athletically. Problem with this whole early commit BS is that most of these kids have no idea what they want to do or how well they will do in a particular school - because they are only in 8th or 9th grade!! And their parents are no help. Most (not all) will push these kids as they are more interested in bragging to their co-workings at their crappy job than what is best for their kid long term. It's about knowing your kid...his interests and what he needs to be successful.
If your kid is in the top percentile of his HS class and you know he will succeed at an IVY or baby IVY, and you have the bucks to send him...then great, let him go. Graduating from an Ivy doesn't automatically guarantee success. But your earning potential and chances for future success is much greater than if you graduated from a Maryland, Penn State or some other big box brand. That is not an opinion....those are facts based on post graduate statistics. (BTW the Kevin Plank type stories are far and few between, and there are not one of those for every IVY grad who gets handed a job) That is also a fact!
A friends son is playing at an IVY. He has a few teammates and other friends at school that come from successful families. One is the CEO of a major company, a couple are MDs at investment banks and one is a partner of a huge law firm. The network you will create and the alumni network, plus the alumni who were lacrosse players and like to hire lacrosse players gives you a major advantage. And with competition being what it is today...having an edge helps!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is it really important to go to a top academic school? We've all been duped into buying (really buying) into that philosophy. Not sure about you but most of the really successful guys I know didn't go to IVY, Duke, UNC, NESCAC, Virginia etc. They didn't. Many didn't even go to school. Our entire society has boughten into this idea that in order to have success you first need to go to college and even you want even more success it has to be to a top college. Its really BS. You can site the examples of the Princeton grad who got handed a job. So what. For everyone of those there is a Kevin Plank story. He went to Maryland. A school lax people bash as a non academic school. What has your college experience done for you?? A bunch of great memories and great stories for me. Ivy grads going into teaching? I coached two twins back in the day and one went to Hopkins and one to Princeton. Great kids. Bother are teachers at a private school. And they love it. I"m not knocking teaching. The point is you, your character, your drive, your passion, your ambition, your balls are going to make you. Not that high academic institution. Truly an extension of high school with less rules. Go Be. Go Do. Have fun. Play lacrosse at the best lacrosse school you can or go play for the best academic school you can. Either way it will all work out if you work.


My college experience taught me that "boughten" is not a word. Ha you are right (or your if you need another one) not sure if it was typo or just came out of my mind like that. However, I will wake up tomorrow whenever I want because I do not punch a clock. Make sure you set your alarm but please do not wake me.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.

Rising Sons kid
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.

Rising Sons kid


Holdback or Double Holdback? Sorry, it is Philly.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Sure sounds like your knocking teachers. I for one am thrilled when my child is fortunate to have a teacher who was educated at the IVY level where the teacher was surrounded with the best and brightest students, professors and yes best and brightest athletes. Some of us do value a top notch education. That is not to deminish the value of other schools--such as UMD which by the way has a highly competitive entrance into engineering, journalism and business schools and really the university as a whole.

Most important is the right fit for the student athlete!!! Puzzling how someone on the recruiting thread is putting down the IVY's. I know boys playing lax at these Institutions and they worked their [lacrosse] off to get there and work equally hard to juggle lax and studies. Again look for right fit for your child and don't pit down others to make yourself feel better!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.

Rising Sons kid


Holdback or Double Holdback? Sorry, it is Philly.
1/2003 Good try
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure sounds like your knocking teachers. I for one am thrilled when my child is fortunate to have a teacher who was educated at the IVY level where the teacher was surrounded with the best and brightest students, professors and yes best and brightest athletes. Some of us do value a top notch education. That is not to deminish the value of other schools--such as UMD which by the way has a highly competitive entrance into engineering, journalism and business schools and really the university as a whole.

Most important is the right fit for the student athlete!!! Puzzling how someone on the recruiting thread is putting down the IVY's. I know boys playing lax at these Institutions and they worked their [lacrosse] off to get there and work equally hard to juggle lax and studies. Again look for right fit for your child and don't pit down others to make yourself feel better!!!
Why dont you tell us how being really smart and educated by really smart people makes you a good teacher?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Not really sure what club can claim this boy, he was at RS, then went to Igloo, left Igloo and then went to some team in MD. Not sure where he is now
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Do you work for the said athlete? You sure keep a close watch on where he is or who he is playing for.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.

Rising Sons kid


Holdback or Double Holdback? Sorry, it is Philly.
1/2003 Good try

1/2003 - great for him Kudos! Good luck dont absorb the hate keep working!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure sounds like your knocking teachers. I for one am thrilled when my child is fortunate to have a teacher who was educated at the IVY level where the teacher was surrounded with the best and brightest students, professors and yes best and brightest athletes. Some of us do value a top notch education. That is not to deminish the value of other schools--such as UMD which by the way has a highly competitive entrance into engineering, journalism and business schools and really the university as a whole.

Most important is the right fit for the student athlete!!! Puzzling how someone on the recruiting thread is putting down the IVY's. I know boys playing lax at these Institutions and they worked their [lacrosse] off to get there and work equally hard to juggle lax and studies. Again look for right fit for your child and don't pit down others to make yourself feel better!!!
Why dont you tell us how being really smart and educated by really smart people makes you a good teacher?

Pretty easy to understand that such a teacher would at least be better than average.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Funny how far off topic this thread has become. Would have thought someone would have figured out who this player is that is the first EC for 2021s.

Rising Sons kid


Holdback or Double Holdback? Sorry, it is Philly.
1/2003 Good try

1/2003 - great for him Kudos! Good luck dont absorb the hate keep working!


Sorry Triple Holdback!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is it really important to go to a top academic school? We've all been duped into buying (really buying) into that philosophy. Not sure about you but most of the really successful guys I know didn't go to IVY, Duke, UNC, NESCAC, Virginia etc. They didn't. Many didn't even go to school. Our entire society has boughten into this idea that in order to have success you first need to go to college and even you want even more success it has to be to a top college. Its really BS. You can site the examples of the Princeton grad who got handed a job. So what. For everyone of those there is a Kevin Plank story. He went to Maryland. A school lax people bash as a non academic school. What has your college experience done for you?? A bunch of great memories and great stories for me. Ivy grads going into teaching? I coached two twins back in the day and one went to Hopkins and one to Princeton. Great kids. Bother are teachers at a private school. And they love it. I"m not knocking teaching. The point is you, your character, your drive, your passion, your ambition, your balls are going to make you. Not that high academic institution. Truly an extension of high school with less rules. Go Be. Go Do. Have fun. Play lacrosse at the best lacrosse school you can or go play for the best academic school you can. Either way it will all work out if you work.


My college experience taught me that "boughten" is not a word. Ha you are right (or your if you need another one) not sure if it was typo or just came out of my mind like that. However, I will wake up tomorrow whenever I want because I do not punch a clock. Make sure you set your alarm but please do not wake me.


So the implication is that you have no job, as you have nothing to wake up to except BOTC postings with misspellings. Whatever floats your boat friend, I don't care. To devalue the importance of education in today's climate is foolish at best. Just because you were apparently born into money doesn't mean every kid can follow your plan. Most people need an education from the best institution they can possible get into. the values you posted, character, drive, passion and balls also have a place, but most need that piece of paper to get a foot in the right door. So by all means, wake up whenever you want, check on your trust fund and post away, but please don't use that as a blueprint for success for others. Thanks, and have a great day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty has who it is...Its official! earliest recruit ever!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
http://www.uslaxmagazine.com/fuel/us-lacrosse/from-the-ceo-early-recruitings-erosive-effect
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.


I'd say that the fact that it will go before the NCAA for consideration pretty much counters all of your outright dismissal of the idea - while there are clearly those that are on the extreme end of the either side, there are plenty in the middle that are weighing the pros and cons (and BTW, not being able to enforce such a policy is not a "pro"). Add in that there are plenty of notable figures deeply involved in the sport at levels that exceed the average parent and their friends et al, and it is apparent that many consider it a problem worth dealing with.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they
are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.


While I agree with a lot of what you said if you don't see something wrong with a 12- 13 year old committing 9 years of their future to a life in the military than you are just refusing to look at both sides . Great school and honorable thing to pursue but can a kid really have any idea what that committment is .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.


I'd say that the fact that it will go before the NCAA for consideration pretty much counters all of your outright dismissal of the idea - while there are clearly those that are on the extreme end of the either side, there are plenty in the middle that are weighing the pros and cons (and BTW, not being able to enforce such a policy is not a "pro"). Add in that there are plenty of notable figures deeply involved in the sport at levels that exceed the average parent and their friends et al, and it is apparent that many consider it a problem worth dealing with.


I'd put it passing at medium to low. The NCAA has no intentions of actively policing a non-revenue generating sport beyond what is already in place. And agreed, inability to enforce is not a "pro," but if you're going to say "no contact at all" until junior year, then you have to go the full monty: no calls, no visits, no camps (the poster above is wrong, camps are allowed), no scouting at tournaments, nothing (except your club coach being the liaison because that's not contact!). I don't think that's unreasonable. Isn't that what happened pre-club? Otherwise, you are now creating a system in which club lacrosse becomes the liaison between coaches and players at tournaments and camps and Xander's twitter feed is miraculously blowing up the first three weeks of junior year. . .and the players and coaches have had one, maybe two conversations before they're bumping up against the NLI signing day. Of course, you could do away with club, but they how would coaches know who to scout? And who would take our money???
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they
are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.


While I agree with a lot of what you said if you don't see something wrong with a 12- 13 year old committing 9 years of their future to a life in the military than you are just refusing to look at both sides . Great school and honorable thing to pursue but can a kid really have any idea what that committment is .


Is this passes, you'll be able to get married (14) in NY before you can verbally commit to play lacrosse (16-17). Maybe the coaches can get that changed too so the NCAA can enforce that? JK, of course, and your point is taken, but there can be a big difference between a 12 year old and a 15 year old. Some fifteen year olds are more responsible and mature than the posters on this site! And, as noted, don't we live with enough regulations and people telling us not to make seriously ridiculous "first world problem" decisions like where our kids play lacrosse?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.


Before you start calling people dopes you may want to have a clue about what you are saying. Academically the academies are not exactly MIT and the physical exam is not very difficult especially for an athlete. Start preparing the minute you get to HS just shows what a clown you are. The reason a 12 year old can't make that decision is because their life experiences and the way their brains work are not adequate enough to make that decision.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they
are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.


While I agree with a lot of what you said if you don't see something wrong with a 12- 13 year old committing 9 years of their future to a life in the military than you are just refusing to look at both sides . Great school and honorable thing to pursue but can a kid really have any idea what that committment is .

My son is going to one of the Academies and he has known he wanted to do that since he was 6 or 7 years old. Fact is most of the kids that attend the Academies have wanted to do that since they were in Elementary School. It takes a special commitment that shows at a real young age.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What a crock. 6 or 7 year olds? They are choosing to attend service academy?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
While intentions are good, I'm not seeing this passing as it is near impossible to enforce. What if a kid has a brother or sister that plays for a school (Junior, go stand over there)? What if a kid is visiting a school and runs into the coach (Sorry, kid, you're ineligible and I'm gonna be sanctioned)? How can a coach run a camp with kids who haven't entered their junior year (uh, they can't. . .good bye assistant coaches!!!)? If a coach isn't returning your call, it's for a reason and for a reason that may change down the road...no amount of rules is ever going to level the playing field. Look at the list of kids who have committed in the 19s and 20s. Have you seen these "kids?" They are not going to get worse, they
are going to try harder, they are not going to get smaller, they are going to hit the gym and challenge themselves to be the best. Educationally, they are going to some of the best schools in the country. I don't know one kid who is lacrosse only, in fact, this has freed up our son's time to play other sports because we're NOT going to every single event, esp. in the fall. I don't know one kid (or parent) who hasn't enjoyed the entire process from start to finish, including their commitment. The "no contact at all" crowd either aren't aware of how this works, or are being blinded by perceived injustices they've endured ("injustices" that may correct themselves down the road), all so that "someone will remember the children." Will kids change commitments? Sure. . .but it will be for reasons that you and I really don't need to care, worry and fret about, i.e. mind your own business. The kids are alright, and are doing pretty darn well for themselves. . .let's keep the nanny-ism to a minimum, please.


While I agree with a lot of what you said if you don't see something wrong with a 12- 13 year old committing 9 years of their future to a life in the military than you are just refusing to look at both sides . Great school and honorable thing to pursue but can a kid really have any idea what that committment is .

My son is going to one of the Academies and he has known he wanted to do that since he was 6 or 7 years old. Fact is most of the kids that attend the Academies have wanted to do that since they were in Elementary School. It takes a special commitment that shows at a real young age.

Can you sound any more pompous...get over yourself and stop living through you son
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Pretty sure a 6 or 7 year old would not focus his or her life on a service academy . You sir are a windbag.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My son likes Legos , drawing, cartoons, toy trains, He is 7. He has no idea what an academy is.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
up to age 12 my son wanted an academy! No I am not so sure. it goes both ways
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I can easily envision a kid being enthralled with an academy at a young age, especially if they attended an Army-Navy football game, or even another game at West Point or Annapolis. As an adult, I still am amazed and caught up in the whole thing at West Point when I go. The kid may not know exactly why they are enamored by the academies, or maybe it's for the 'wrong' reasons, but that doesn't mean they can't aspire to go there from a fairly young age.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a crock. 6 or 7 year olds? They are choosing to attend service academy?



Many kids do want to go to some military academy or join some service branch at a young age. What boy wouldn't want to carry a giant gun, drive a tank , fly a plane, etc when young.
Most do grow out of it. But some dont like my neighbor who went to West Point. Wanted to be a soldier since around First grade.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is it really important to go to a top academic school? We've all been duped into buying (really buying) into that philosophy. Not sure about you but most of the really successful guys I know didn't go to IVY, Duke, UNC, NESCAC, Virginia etc. They didn't. Many didn't even go to school. Our entire society has boughten into this idea that in order to have success you first need to go to college and even you want even more success it has to be to a top college. Its really BS. You can site the examples of the Princeton grad who got handed a job. So what. For everyone of those there is a Kevin Plank story. He went to Maryland. A school lax people bash as a non academic school. What has your college experience done for you?? A bunch of great memories and great stories for me. Ivy grads going into teaching? I coached two twins back in the day and one went to Hopkins and one to Princeton. Great kids. Bother are teachers at a private school. And they love it. I"m not knocking teaching. The point is you, your character, your drive, your passion, your ambition, your balls are going to make you. Not that high academic institution. Truly an extension of high school with less rules. Go Be. Go Do. Have fun. Play lacrosse at the best lacrosse school you can or go play for the best academic school you can. Either way it will all work out if you work.

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is it really important to go to a top academic school? We've all been duped into buying (really buying) into that philosophy. Not sure about you but most of the really successful guys I know didn't go to IVY, Duke, UNC, NESCAC, Virginia etc. They didn't. Many didn't even go to school. Our entire society has boughten into this idea that in order to have success you first need to go to college and even you want even more success it has to be to a top college. Its really BS. You can site the examples of the Princeton grad who got handed a job. So what. For everyone of those there is a Kevin Plank story. He went to Maryland. A school lax people bash as a non academic school. What has your college experience done for you?? A bunch of great memories and great stories for me. Ivy grads going into teaching? I coached two twins back in the day and one went to Hopkins and one to Princeton. Great kids. Bother are teachers at a private school. And they love it. I"m not knocking teaching. The point is you, your character, your drive, your passion, your ambition, your balls are going to make you. Not that high academic institution. Truly an extension of high school with less rules. Go Be. Go Do. Have fun. Play lacrosse at the best lacrosse school you can or go play for the best academic school you can. Either way it will all work out if you work.


Wow! ...you are in desperate need of Business writing course.
Sounds like you are struggling to convince yourself, of this incoherent rant...:l
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.


Before you start calling people dopes you may want to have a clue about what you are saying. Academically the academies are not exactly MIT and the physical exam is not very difficult especially for an athlete. Start preparing the minute you get to HS just shows what a clown you are. The reason a 12 year old can't make that decision is because their life experiences and the way their brains work are not adequate enough to make that decision.



Maybe your kid has been [lacrosse] in his development by you. Probably just another overprotected wimp and he has you to blame.

Be careful because he will grow to hate you and your low expectations.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.


Before you start calling people dopes you may want to have a clue
about what you are saying. Academically the academies are not exactly MIT and the physical exam is not very difficult especially for an athlete. Start preparing the minute you get to HS just shows what a clown you are. The reason a 12 year old can't make that decision is because their life experiences and the way their brains work are not adequate enough to make that decision.



Maybe your kid has been [lacrosse] in his development by you. Probably just another overprotected wimp and he has you to blame.

Be careful because he will grow to hate you and your low expectations.


The funny thing is obviously you would know something about being [lacrosse]. Seems the poster you are saying has low expectations for their kid actually thinks the academies are "not exactly " teaching for the stars .That said if you do not see that any 12-13 year old committing 9 years of their life to something as anything other than ridiculous tells me you are truly a moron . How about a 6 year old .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.


Before you start calling people dopes you may want to have a clue
about what you are saying. Academically the academies are not exactly MIT and the physical exam is not very difficult especially for an athlete. Start preparing the minute you get to HS just shows what a clown you are. The reason a 12 year old can't make that decision is because their life experiences and the way their brains work are not adequate enough to make that decision.



Maybe your kid has been [lacrosse] in his development by you. Probably just another overprotected wimp and he has you to blame.

Be careful because he will grow to hate you and your low expectations.


The funny thing is obviously you would know something about being [lacrosse]. Seems the poster you are saying has low expectations for their kid actually thinks the academies are "not exactly " teaching for the stars .That said if you do not see that any 12-13 year old committing 9 years of their life to something as anything other than ridiculous tells me you are truly a moron . How about a 6 year old .



Something tells me your kid is drifting through his youth with no goals or vision for their future. You probably held the kid back and are planning his PG year, just to make sure he is ready. Sounds like he is a monster! HeHeHe, probably a limp, soft pansy like you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.


Before you start calling people dopes you may want to have a clue
about what you are saying. Academically the academies are not exactly MIT and the physical exam is not very difficult especially for an athlete. Start preparing the minute you get to HS just shows what a clown you are. The reason a 12 year old can't make that decision is because their life experiences and the way their brains work are not adequate enough to make that decision.



Maybe your kid has been [lacrosse] in his development by you. Probably just another overprotected wimp and he has you to blame.

Be careful because he will grow to hate you and your low expectations.


The funny thing is obviously you would know something about being [lacrosse]. Seems the poster you are saying has low expectations for their kid actually thinks the academies are "not exactly " teaching for the stars .That said if you do not see that any 12-13 year old committing 9 years of their life to something as anything other than ridiculous tells me you are truly a moron . How about a 6 year old .



Something tells me your kid is drifting through his youth with no goals or vision for their future. You probably held the kid back and are planning his PG year, just to make sure he is ready. Sounds like he is a monster! HeHeHe, probably a limp, soft pansy like you.


Okay now go back and beat your kid into submission and tell them exactly what they are going to do with their lives. You are the type who beats his kid telling yourself it will make them tougher when in actuality your poor kids just become beaten down shells .Good luck with that approach loser.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you want to go Academy (you dope), then you need to start preparing physically and acedemically from the minute you get to HS, lacrosse or not. That decision doesn't just fall out of the sky and hit a kid in the head.

So why can't they make their decision as they see fit? It's just a dumb argument.


Before you start calling people dopes you may want to have a clue
about what you are saying. Academically the academies are not exactly MIT and the physical exam is not very difficult especially for an athlete. Start preparing the minute you get to HS just shows what a clown you are. The reason a 12 year old can't make that decision is because their life experiences and the way their brains work are not adequate enough to make that decision.



Maybe your kid has been [lacrosse] in his development by you. Probably just another overprotected wimp and he has you to blame.

Be careful because he will grow to hate you and your low expectations.


The funny thing is obviously you would know something about being [lacrosse]. Seems the poster you are saying has low expectations for their kid actually thinks the academies are "not exactly " teaching for the stars .That said if you do not see that any 12-13 year old committing 9 years of their life to something as anything other than ridiculous tells me you are truly a moron . How about a 6 year old .


The four years of education can't be considered part of the commitment - if these are boys that are going to play college lacrosse one place or another, they are going to go to school somewhere for at least four years, so it's only an additional 5 years of commitment.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -


"The four years of education can't be considered part of the commitment - if these are boys that are going to play college lacrosse one place or another, they are going to go to school somewhere for at least four years, so it's only an additional 5 years of commitment."

The commitment is much greater than what you think . First off after 2 years you cannot transfer out so it's not like going to school somewhere. Second after your 5 years of service you are required to do many years in the reserves .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I thought the big vote to end (or not) early recruiting happened April first. Anyone know what happened?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
do you really think it happened and not all over the internet and word of mouth...April 15th pal
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous


"The four years of education can't be considered part of the commitment - if these are boys that are going to play college lacrosse one place or another, they are going to go to school somewhere for at least four years, so it's only an additional 5 years of commitment."

The commitment is much greater than what you think . First off after 2 years you cannot transfer out so it's not like going to school somewhere. Second after your 5 years of service you are required to do many years in the reserves .


It is a 5 year active duty commitment after graduation.
It's actually 3 years in the reserves, but you can do IRR. Individual Ready Reserve. You don't have to do anything. You might get recalled if they really need you, which is very rare. Everyone who ever enlisted or went to school has a IRR component to their commitment.
And after 18 months you have to designate what you will be doing in the service (any Academy), so basically you are committed after 18 months (half way through your sophomore year), not after 2 years.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I thought the big vote to end (or not) early recruiting happened April first. Anyone know what happened?


It's coming up in mid-April:
"Now the NCAA DI Council will vote on Proposal No. 2016-26 when it meets April 13-14 in Indianapolis, and its passage could make lacrosse the pilot of a new anti-early recruiting movement. The landmark measure would ban all recruiting contact, including phone calls, between college coaches and lacrosse players until Sept. 1 of their junior year of high school."

Source: US Lax Magazine
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous


"The four years of education can't be considered part of the commitment - if these are boys that are going to play college lacrosse one place or another, they are going to go to school somewhere for at least four years, so it's only an additional 5 years of commitment."

The commitment is much greater than what you think . First off after 2 years you cannot transfer out so it's not like going to school somewhere. Second after your 5 years of service you are required to do many years in the reserves .


I know the details, probably better than you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous


"The four years of education can't be considered part of the commitment - if these are boys that are going to play college lacrosse one place or another, they are going to go to school somewhere for at least four years, so it's only an additional 5 years of commitment."

The commitment is much greater than what you think . First off after 2 years you cannot transfer out so it's not like going to school somewhere. Second after your 5 years of service you are required to do many years in the reserves .


Wrong
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home



Hallelujah! But doesn't say when it goes into effect.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home



Good news..See how this plays out. Espcially in regard to grade based no age limit leagues...and the current rush of kids being reclassed/heldback etc..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
http://www.iwlca.org/news_article/show/781497?referrer_id=2547057
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home


So I guess this means that college coaches will have to actually do some recruiting again. Not just wait around for a "stud" 9th grader to contact them and/or attend a few summer tournaments just watching the 8th/9th graders. Let's hope this puts some sanity back into the process. Anyone else see any potential changes, ramifications, or unintended consequences??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home




Finally!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home


Careful what you wish for. Get ready to have club coaches being the middlemen and basically speaking for our kids. And if you don't play for an elite AA team. . .well, good luck with that. Nothing changes, just driven underground. Regulations like this, which, I add, are LACROSSE ONLY, are going to make things a lot worse. But "it's about time!," right? SMH. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home


So I guess this means that college coaches will have to actually do some recruiting again. Not just wait around for a "stud" 9th grader to contact them and/or attend a few summer tournaments just watching the 8th/9th graders. Let's hope this puts some sanity back into the process. Anyone else see any potential changes, ramifications, or unintended consequences??


Nothing will change. Like another poster said, coaches will now rely on club coaches to tell them who to recruit, then will fill in holes once September 1st rolls around for their junior year. Early recruiting began when clubs began. . .you can't negate ER without removing clubs. And if you don't belong to a club that has coaches' ears, think the biggies, like 9d1, crabs, lie, edge, sweet lax, etc., you're basically a filler guy come September 1st. There will also be the "late bloomer" of course, but these rules won't fixed the "injustice" of that player not getting recruited. The NCAA has just removed players/parents from the process, and placed control firmly in the hands of club directors. Congrats!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NCAA has approved a new rule on Friday that prohibits D1 lacrosse coaches from contacting potential recruits until 9/1 of their junior year. Its about time!

read here:
http://www.syracuse.com/orangelacro...g_to_new_ncaa_rul.html#incart_river_home


Careful what you wish for. Get ready to have club coaches being the middlemen and basically speaking for our kids. And if you don't play for an elite AA team. . .well, good luck with that. Nothing changes, just driven underground. Regulations like this, which, I add, are LACROSSE ONLY, are going to make things a lot worse. But "it's about time!," right? SMH. . .


Club dues will be going up starting this September. For those wondering when this will start affecting you - after the next set of tryouts and when you have to write the checks out.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Wait didn't they say no third parties anymore? That eliminates the club coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!


He has a verbal dude. That isn't truly committed under any definition and is now even more precarious under these new rules. Good luck to your son, but you Dad might want to pump the brakes a little and realze the ground is shifting beneath you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Club coaches were already the middlemen. Nothing changed there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!



Mine too. 2020. Coaches say they want this, but they don't, as my son's future coach said. With this, there's chaos for the 19-22 class. NCAA f'ed this one up big time. Start with the '22s.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This will be good for lacrosse as time goes by. Dont know why everyone thinks Club coaches will be so important. Maybe High School coaches will become important again. Maybe some combo or may..just maybe..it might matter how the child plays in 9th and 10th grade instead of 8th and 9th.
Supposed Superstar Club players in 9th and 10 grade may not look so good against HS athletics that play multi sports (instead of the thousands for year round club) or players that arent on " Elite" club teams. Might make the College coach make sure the super star is really a superstar.. .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Wait didn't they say no third parties anymore? That eliminates the club coach.


Nothing about third parties. Sorry, but you just put the club team directors into the driver's seat.This is what happens with regulations that have multiple loopholes. But the 6+ foot on age freshman starting on Varsity? Why, my kid can beat him (not).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!



Mine too. 2020. Coaches say they want this, but they don't, as my son's future coach said. With this, there's chaos for the 19-22 class. NCAA f'ed this one up big time. Start with the '22s.



Why?? Start now.. The better players will continue to get better and should still be the ones recruited later...if not..Then the College coach will be lucky he didnt recruit him..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
More Showcases- More Power to Travel Clubs- More years in the travel lacrosse world all equals More $$$$$$. This will be great for Lax clubs and great for the kids. Let the kids just concentrate on school and Lax. And as for the ridiculous amount of verbal commits: Go be 14.. Plenty of time for stressing about college later.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Clubs much less important. HIGH SCHOOL COACHES ARE MORE IMPORTANT. . SHOWCASE EVENTS WILL CHARGE BIGGER DOLLARS WITH CLUBS HAVING LESS CONTROL
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Clubs much less important. HIGH SCHOOL COACHES ARE MORE IMPORTANT. . SHOWCASE EVENTS WILL CHARGE BIGGER DOLLARS WITH CLUBS HAVING LESS CONTROL

Wrong
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
More Showcases- More Power to Travel Clubs- More years in the travel lacrosse world all equals More $$$$$$. This will be great for Lax clubs and great for the kids. Let the kids just concentrate on school and Lax. And as for the ridiculous amount of verbal commits: Go be 14.. Plenty of time for stressing about college later.


Big win for the clubs. Now have you for freshman and sophomore year too unless you're at a big lax powerhouse
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Clubs much less important. HIGH SCHOOL COACHES ARE MORE IMPORTANT. . SHOWCASE EVENTS WILL CHARGE BIGGER DOLLARS WITH CLUBS HAVING LESS CONTROL


Correct
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!


He has a verbal dude. That isn't truly committed under any definition and is now even more precarious under these new rules. Good luck to your son, but you Dad might want to pump the brakes a little and realze the ground is shifting beneath you.

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!


He has a verbal dude. That isn't truly committed under any definition and is now even more precarious under these new rules. Good luck to your son, but you Dad might want to pump the brakes a little and realze the ground is shifting beneath you.



Actually, nothing will change for my son. We already spoke to his college coach and my sons verbal is solid. We will communicate through the club coach. No big deal
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Glad mine is committed already. Best decision he will make for his future!


He has a verbal dude. That isn't truly committed under any definition and is now even more precarious under these new rules. Good luck to your son, but you Dad might want to pump the brakes a little and realze the ground is shifting beneath you.


The only thing it changes with a verbal is if the head coach who you made the verbal with is let go or leaves the school as you may have to wait some to speak with the new head coach. Most if not all of the early commits have spoken to the coaches about what happens if these new regulations were to get passed and so far everyone that I have spoken with said the coaches have stated they will honor the committment just like prior to the regulations .Stop being jeolous because some kid has an early committment .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I don't see clubs becoming less important. They will still be a part of the process.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If you think you son's verbal is set in stone because a college coach says it is you are being naive. What would you expect him to say? Grades, injuries, playing progression, off field activities etc. will all come into play when the coach makes the final decision of who he chooses for his team. It's his career on the line. All you have is a handshake and an imaginary contract. This rule change just gave every coach that has verbaled a 2020 the opportunity to walk away if your kid if he looks at him the wrong way without looking like the bad guy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you think you son's verbal is set in stone because a college coach says it is you are being naive. What would you expect him to say? Grades, injuries, playing progression, off field activities etc. will all come into play when the coach makes the final decision of who he chooses for his team. It's his career on the line. All you have is a handshake and an imaginary contract. This rule change just gave every coach that has verbaled a 2020 the opportunity to walk away if your kid if he looks at him the wrong way without looking like the bad guy.


And with top recruits in any given class who have an early verbal, and remain ahead of the pack, coaches will be that much more frantic to keep them .It will definitely work both ways , for those type of kids September 1 of Junior year expect ALOT of calls .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you think you son's verbal is set in stone because a college coach says it is you are being naive. What would you expect him to say? Grades, injuries, playing progression, off field activities etc. will all come into play when the coach makes the final decision of who he chooses for his team. It's his career on the line. All you have is a handshake and an imaginary contract. This rule change just gave every coach that has verbaled a 2020 the opportunity to walk away if your kid if he looks at him the wrong way without looking like the bad guy.



Says the dad whose son has had no interest. Your comments show your lack of knowledge and desperation.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
what does this mean for the clubs with college coaches as their directors? any rules there?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If you think you son's verbal is set in stone because a college coach says it is you are being naive. What would you expect him to say? Grades, injuries, playing progression, off field activities etc. will all come into play when the coach makes the final decision of who he chooses for his team. It's his career on the line. All you have is a handshake and an imaginary contract. This rule change just gave every coach that has verbaled a 2020 the opportunity to walk away if your kid if he looks at him the wrong way without looking like the bad guy.



Says the dad whose son has had no interest. Your comments show your lack of knowledge and desperation.



Thats exactly right . I love how people come on here and make statements they wish or want desperately to believe to be the truth . Desperate being the operative word .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Says the dad who has two kids playing college lacrosse and 1 with a national championship ring.

Let me guess - you are a parent that has reclassed your kid once or twice. Your lax bro son probably attends an MIAA school and thinks he is the next Paul Rabil. Crabs, Loonies, FCA?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Sure seems like all the parents of kids that they thought would go early are getting very angry about this. Are you afraid that little Johnny who was the best in 7th and 8th grade might not be in 11th(when puberty evens everything it). If you're so confident, this doesn't mean anything.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is exactly what makes this sport a joke, compared to the others. First of all, when anyone speaks of their child's "commitment," or " scholarship," in lacrosse, try and ask them EXACTLY what the deal is. Good luck. Besides the stuttering "ahh, ummm..." you will find out, if they are being honest, that most, of course not all, of these offers are for no more than 50% of tuition, the same deal a good student would get for academics. The parents in this sport have this elitist attitude, and it permeates the sidelines in both boys and girls lacrosse. The reality is that if they ever made a real push into the inner city, and the sport became popular there, half of the "committed" players would be watching from the stands.
My point is not to knock the sport, but to provide a reality check, and some perspective. This decision on early recruiting is 100% long overdue, and the NCAA should monitor aggressively. Let your children remain so. If they are the cream of the crop, they will still find a spot waiting for them in college. Concern yourselves as parents on raising respectful, honest, and educated kids. My children have enjoyed playing lacrosse in college, and I hope yours does, as well. There is a spot for everyone, and it must be the right fit. I wish you all the best.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Will we see college coaches lining the sidelines of 2020 tournaments this summer? Or will they focus more on 2019 and 2018's? Would have to assume they will be pretty much non-existent for the 2021's...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Not about money anymore.

Go to a good high school, get a great education, play for a high school coach who has your best interest at heart and all else will take care of itself if it is meant to be.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You people are such a bunch of jealous losers . The reason people don't tell you their child's scholarship offers is because it's non of your business and the college coaches don't want you discussing it. It's so obvious you hope these college coaches will not honor their verbal commitments so your kid can get a spot on the team it's makes you look pathetic . 99 percent of college verbal commitments are honored .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Excellent post!

There are many types of commitments and vary from player to player and school to school.
#1 Academic and Athletic $$
#2 Academic $$
#3 Athletic $$
#4 Committed but no $$

Each deal is different ( so don't ask) and being committed does not mean a full ride!

My son (2021) will go to college for an education and if he is fortunate to get any type of $$ playing LAX at a school, it a bonus.
After college, he gets a job!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No, it's because the scholarship is only a partial deal, and most people will not be that impressed. I see nobody here rooting against a kid, or hoping an offer is not honored. What I see, are parents acting as if there child cured cancer, all because of a partial break on tuition, which they could've probably attained by applying themselves to their schoolwork. Why do you think so many scholarships and commitments are made in this sport? Do you honestly think that somehow your child is this superior athlete? Or more likely, because the colleges are not losing money, getting half their tuition from students, who join what turns out to be a sorority or fraternity, with a lacrosse stick in your hands.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My question now becomes, why would I send my 2020 to any college camps (days) prior to summer after her sophomore year? Unless a coach tells the club that she needs to be there, these money grab camps will not see us. I think its a good thing, but are the coaches ready for this money to dry up.

And please save me the learn and get better excuse, it's total BS. These college camps are designed to review and select players, period.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So what are rising 9th and 10th graders to do this summer? Keep hitting showcases and prospect days or is that now a waste?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This does hurt the kids who reclassified and hit puberty early. It is a good thing either was because kids should not be making life decisions so early. Also Interesting to see if coaches are more likely to to back out of a verbal commits because there is no need to worry about reputations since going forward there will be no more handshake deals. My bet is most coaches will honor the deals already in place. Time will tell.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is exactly what makes this sport a joke, compared to the others. First of all, when anyone speaks of their child's "commitment," or " scholarship," in lacrosse, try and ask them EXACTLY what the deal is. Good luck. Besides the stuttering "ahh, ummm..." you will find out, if they are being honest, that most, of course not all, of these offers are for no more than 50% of tuition, the same deal a good student would get for academics. The parents in this sport have this elitist attitude, and it permeates the sidelines in both boys and girls lacrosse. The reality is that if they ever made a real push into the inner city, and the sport became popular there, half of the "committed" players would be watching from the stands.
My point is not to knock the sport, but to provide a reality check, and some perspective. This decision on early recruiting is 100% long overdue, and the NCAA should monitor aggressively. Let your children remain so. If they are the cream of the crop, they will still find a spot waiting for them in college. Concern yourselves as parents on raising respectful, honest, and educated kids. My children have enjoyed playing lacrosse in college, and I hope yours does, as well. There is a spot for everyone, and it must be the right fit. I wish you all the best.


Hey...White 5-8 kids need some sport to excel at. Enough of your negativity.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
2021 parents must be in a tizzy over this one.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Mtg son is a 2021 and I'm ecstatic! Maybe it'll cut down on the reclassing of kids. There's a BIG difference between 13-14 year olds and 15-16 year olds both physically and mentally.
The top tier schools won't have to speculate as much and early bloomers. won't get the majority of the offers from them.
Plus it's way too early for kids to make such important decisions. They get a couple more years of playing strictly for fun.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Is the new NCAA rule effective immediately?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2021 parents must be in a tizzy over this one.

no we are not
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2021 parents must be in a tizzy over this one.


I'm a 2021 parent and I'm ecstatic! Maybe it will help, who knows.

But we're realistic in the fact that loopholes were probably found on this proposal months ago. It may not change a thing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So what are rising 9th and 10th graders to do this summer? Keep hitting showcases and prospect days or is that now a waste?


For rising sophomores it still is an important recruiting summer , but this will give coaches more opportunity to see a prospect multiple times and give them more time to make a decision..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No, it's because the scholarship is only a partial deal, and most people will not be that impressed. I see nobody here rooting against a kid, or hoping an offer is not honored. What I see, are parents acting as if there child cured cancer, all because of a partial break on tuition, which they could've probably attained by applying themselves to their schoolwork. Why do you think so many scholarships and commitments are made in this sport? Do you honestly think that somehow your child is this superior athlete? Or more likely, because the colleges are not losing money, getting half their tuition from students, who join what turns out to be a sorority or fraternity, with a lacrosse stick in your hands.


Another pathetic loser
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is the new NCAA rule effective immediately?



YES, thank goodness! I just saw a tweet from IL Women that showed an email they received today. Effective yesterday. Awesome news!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is the new NCAA rule effective immediately?



YES, thank goodness! I just saw a tweet from IL Women that showed an email they received today. Effective yesterday. Awesome news!


Then why am I still hearing about verbals to 9th graders?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If you watch The IL lacrosse interview with the coaches, they are not that excited about this and are already interested in loopholes. The commitments will now come the second party through club coaches. This does not benefit the kids, only the clubs. Just dumb all around.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Our club said they can't even talk to college coaches, I thought the clubs still could?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
A good thing? In the grand scheme of things yes, and the way it should have been all along. A very raw deal for any 2021, 2020, 2019 who was already in discussions with colleges and close to a commitment.

I also think this is, in some small measure, retaliation by the coaches for the increasingly large number of kids jumping ship in Sr. year, with a much smaller window to make a decision, a lot less time to shop around.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Do you believe everyyou are told?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is the new NCAA rule effective immediately?



YES, thank goodness! I just saw a tweet from IL Women that showed an email they received today. Effective yesterday. Awesome news!


Then why am I still hearing about verbals to 9th graders?


Effective after 4/26. No, not awesome. Club coaches are going to reap the benefits. There should be ZERO regulations. NCAA is 100% wrong. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Would you really want some parent club coach who is just as new to the process as you are speaking to college coaches on your child's behalf while you an your child wonder what's being said?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Would you really want some parent club coach who is just as new to the process as you are speaking to college coaches on your child's behalf while you an your child wonder what's being said?
YES
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Would you really want some parent club coach who is just as new to the process as you are speaking to college coaches on your child's behalf while you an your child wonder what's being said?

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Would you really want some parent club coach who is just as new to the process as you are speaking to college coaches on your child's behalf while you an your child wonder what's being said?

No, and did you ever think for a minute that the college coaches really don't want to recruit 8th/9th and 10th graders? You know the coaches voted to pass this, right? Let the kids be kids and they can worry about what college they are going to when they are a little more equipt to make that decision. Have your son/daughter hit the books, enjoy the sports they play and everything else will take care of itself!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not about money anymore.

Go to a good high school, get a great education, play for a high school coach who has your best interest at heart and all else will take care of itself if it is meant to be.



So true. The days of the slimy Club directors treating these kids like a piece of meat for marketing reasons are over. I hope the NCAA plays hard ball with these used car salesmen and their time in the sun is over.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I dont think the college coaches passed this because they'd rather talk to club coaches than the kids themselves. So if you think it will be business as usual I think that is incorrect.

They passed this initiative because they are tired of running around the country looking at 8th and 9th graders who may or may not pan out. It is expensive for the programs and totally unpredictable. However, it had been a nuclear arms race where everyone felt like they needed to do it to keep up. Even the Syracuse coach who led the charge and was so against early recruiting was out there committing rising 9th graders. At the end of the day, they are making this change because it is in their best interest. It simplifies their lives and takes some of the guess work out of recruiting. Much easier to look at a junior and make a judgment than it is to look at a hot shot 8th grader and do the same. Now these guys are also heavily invested on the showcase and camp side so it will be interesting to see how that market is affected by this. Also will name brand showcase events like Jake Reed, Showtime, Philly Freshman Showcase, etc. become less relevant for the younger kids if you can't be recruited until Junior year??? I would think Fall and Summer of sophomore year will now be a huge window to be noticed. Will be a lot of pressure to be on the best team at the best events to be seen during the critical window.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Well said.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Is this "regulation" applied to all NCAA sports ? If not , why just LAX?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is this "regulation" applied to all NCAA sports ? If not , why just LAX?


This is the only sport where they go hard after eighth graders. In basketball you may see a few and I mean few that sign early. Kids with LeBron James type skills, other than his type of skills most kids do not sign until their Junior or Senior year..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I agree that in the long run this proposal is great.

HOWEVER the 2020 ( girls) got the raw end of this. There are many 2020's already with verbals and some in talks with the coaches. What happens to the girls that were about to get an offer?
This should have started with the 2021's.

Also, does anyone know if a college coach CAN talk to a kid at their camp? If they can that puts a spin on this.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I believe lacrosse is the only sport that is not classified by age
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree that in the long run this proposal is great.

HOWEVER the 2020 ( girls) got the raw end of this. There are many 2020's already with verbals and some in talks with the coaches. What happens to the girls that were about to get an offer?
This should have started with the 2021's.

Also, does anyone know if a college coach CAN talk to a kid at their camp? If they can that puts a spin on this.


Should have started with the 2022 age group. There are many 2021s already deep into the process and have sunk money into prospect and ID camps like Nike120 and Under Armor150 just to name a few.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not about money anymore.

Go to a good high school, get a great education, play for a high school coach who has your best interest at heart and all else will take care of itself if it is meant to be.



So true. The days of the slimy Club directors treating these kids like a piece of meat for marketing reasons are over. I hope the NCAA plays hard ball with these used car salesmen and their time in the sun is over.


You couldn't be more wrong. This will be a windfall for clubs. You now need play and pay through soph year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Is this "regulation" applied to all NCAA sports ? If not , why just LAX?


This is the only sport where they go hard after eighth graders. In basketball you may see a few and I mean few that sign early. Kids with LeBron James type skills, other than his type of skills most kids do not sign until their Junior or Senior year..



Going Hard may be over stated. In reality you see a few eight graders verbal, combine boys and girls and you are still in single digits. For both men's and women's D1,2,3 you have a round figure of 600 teams with 10 spots for each incoming age group. Picking up less than 10 players early in 8th grade for over 6000 roster spots is not exactly going hard. It is actually 00 .167%. One player for every 600 eventually recruited to play in college. But we all hear about every early commit as it is promoted, but to put actual numbers on it shows a different story.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree that in the long run this proposal is great.

HOWEVER the 2020 ( girls) got the raw end of this. There are many 2020's already with verbals and some in talks with the coaches. What happens to the girls that were about to get an offer?
This should have started with the 2021's.

Also, does anyone know if a college coach CAN talk to a kid at their camp? If they can that puts a spin on this.


Should have started with the 2022 age group. There are many 2021s already deep into the process and have sunk money into prospect and ID camps like Nike120 and Under Armor150 just to name a few.

Will there be a rush to pull out of these events for 2020-21's by parents. The UA 150 is only 2020-21 will it even be held?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What about the events that advertise college coaches will be in attendance? Are these coaches still obligated to show up ?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not about money anymore.

Go to a good high school, get a great education, play for a high school coach who has your best interest at heart and all else will take care of itself if it is meant to be.



So true. The days of the slimy Club directors treating these kids like a piece of meat for marketing reasons are over. I hope the NCAA plays hard ball with these used car salesmen and their time in the sun is over.


You couldn't be more wrong. This will be a windfall for clubs. You now need play and pay through soph year



Exactly! The club guys will be telling kids and parents all kinds of tales about how this school and that school are really interested. You need to be seen the summer between 10th and 11th. They want to watch you play a few more times. They will be calling on Sept 1 at 12:00.01 am to give you an offer. Only problem is, now the kids and the parents have absolutely no way of verifying and interest whatsoever. All the power goes right into the club Coaches hand. Yeah and for all you town types, the HS Coaches will now really have you and your kid by the short hairs. You know, especially the coaches that think they are a better judges of talent than D1 Coaches. Glad mine are done. I feel sorry for these kids and parents. Whole new set of garbage to deal with. At least the old way parents could control the process a little. That's now all in Club or HS Coaches hands, not good. Only good thing, the holdback thing should ebb a bit. No reason to reclass in 8th grade now. However, I suspect many a private and public school kid will be transferring and repeating 10th grade.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My daughter is a 2021. She's thinking about skipping all events until next summer. I'm checking now to see if I can get money back on the deposits I've paid. I don't see the point of dropping the $$$ this year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree that in the long run this proposal is great.

HOWEVER the 2020 ( girls) got the raw end of this. There are many 2020's already with verbals and some in talks with the coaches. What happens to the girls that were about to get an offer?
This should have started with the 2021's.

Also, does anyone know if a college coach CAN talk to a kid at their camp? If they can that puts a spin on this.


Should have started with the 2022 age group. There are many 2021s already deep into the process and have sunk money into prospect and ID camps like Nike120 and Under Armor150 just to name a few.

Will there be a rush to pull out of these events for 2020-21's by parents. The UA 150 is only 2020-21 will it even be held?


The irony is they usually only let you out for a verbal commitment.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Has anyone actually seen the text of the rule? I can't imagine that it prohibits the coaches from running camps and getting to know players that way given how important that income is the the coaches.

If so, my hope is that the clubs start focusing more on player development and the recruiting will revolve more around sending more around the coach run showcases like lacrosse masters and less on the showcases and tournaments.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
And as if on cue, Ty tweets out a 21 commit. Things aren't changing kids. Thing are staying exactly the same. The passed over parents of the upperclass kids should be proud! They put us in this situation by whining and complaining about the "injustice" of early recruiting. Now everything will be driven underground and controlled by the club coaches. Well played, passed over parents, well played. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Here is a link to the text of the apparently wholly approved proposal...

https://web3.ncaa.org/lsdbi/search/proposalView?id=100172

RECRUITING -- OFF-CAMPUS CONTACTS, TELEPHONE CALLS AND UNOFFICIAL VISITS -- SEPTEMBER 1 OF JUNIOR YEAR -- LACROSSE

Status: Ready for Vote

Intent: In lacrosse, to specify that: (1) off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school and that contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence; (2) telephone calls may not be received from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school; and (3) an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.

A. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.1.1, as follows:

13.1.1.1 Time Period for Off-Campus Contacts -- General Rule. Off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before July 1 following the completion of his or her junior year in high school (July 7 after the junior year in high school in women's ice hockey and July 15 after the junior year in high school in women's gymnastics), or the opening day of classes of his or her senior year in high school (as designated by the high school), whichever is earlier. U.S. service academy exceptions to this provision are set forth in Bylaw 13.16.1. [D]

[13.1.1.1.1 unchanged.]

13.1.1.1.2 Exception -- Women's Basketball and Lacrosse. In women's basketball and lacrosse, off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. Contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence. [D]

[13.1.1.1.3 unchanged.]

B. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.3, as follows:

13.1.3 Telephone Calls.

[13.1.3.1 unchanged.]

13.1.3.2 Additional Restrictions.

[13.1.3.2.1 unchanged.]

13.1.3.2.2 Telephone Calls Initiated by Prospective Student-Athlete at His or Her Expense -- Sports Other Than Lacrosse. Institutional In sports other than lacrosse, institutional staff members may receive telephone calls placed by a prospective student-athlete at the prospective student-athlete's own expense at any time, including before September 1 at the beginning of the prospective student-athlete's junior year in high school.

13.1.3.2.2.1 Telephone Calls From a Prospective Student-Athlete -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, institutional staff members may not receive telephone calls from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. [D]

[13.1.3.3 through 13.1.3.7 unchanged.]

C. Bylaws: Amend 13.7, as follows:

13.7 Unofficial (Nonpaid) Visit.

13.7.1 Number Permitted. A prospective student-athlete may visit a member institution's campus at his or her own expense an unlimited number of times. A prospective student-athlete may make unofficial visits before his or her senior year in high school.

[13.7.1.1 and 13.7.1.2 unchanged.]

13.7.1.3 Exception -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement (e.g., contact with athletics department staff, athletics-specific tour, complimentary admissions) shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.

[13.7.2 and 13.7.3 unchanged.]

Source: NCAA Division I Council (Student-Athlete Experience Committee)

Effective Date: August 1, 2017

Proposal Category: Amendment

Topical Area: Recruiting

Rationale: This proposal is intended to simplify the legislation by making September 1 of a prospective student-athlete's junior year the starting date for all communications and contacts. Without a restriction on the receipt of telephone calls, the other recruiting restrictions fall short of curtailing early recruiting. Currently, an institution's coach may ask a club coach to have the prospective student-athlete contact him or her. This proposal will simplify the application of recruiting communication legislation and address the issue of early recruiting. Currently there is no initial date for unofficial visits with athletics department involvement to begin.

Estimated Budget Impact: None.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I read that the NCAA will release the interpretations of the rules early next week.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This part of the ruling makes me think that the summer camp operations for a lot of colleges will come to an end - It's hard to run a camp without athletics department staff coming in contact with kids. Many of the camps are run by mostly by the student athletes looking to make a little summer cash, so possibly they could run them, but the coach and assistant coaches could only work with the high school juniors.

"13.7.1.3 Exception -- Lacrosse.
In lacrosse, an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement (e.g., contact with athletics department staff, athletics-specific tour, complimentary admissions) shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school."
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think Ty Xanders, 3D and any other credible reviewers of high school talent just got a lot more important for coaches that need to know who they should have on their radar when the kids reach their junior year. It will be very hard for the college coaches to see the kids in person before their junior year without possibly being in a compromising position.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think Ty Xanders, 3D and any other credible reviewers of high school talent just got a lot more important for coaches that need to know who they should have on their radar when the kids reach their junior year. It will be very hard for the college coaches to see the kids in person before their junior year without possibly being in a compromising position.



Absolutely. With the exception of Ivy league, COACHES DID NOT WANT THIS and never expected this to pass. I just saw a 2021 committed....LOL in the face of the NCAA. Club coaches have become the new gate keepers. Less regulation, not more. People are insane to think this will help. US Lacrosse has done a terrible disservice to us. . .not planning on re-joining. Do the same.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
And as if on cue, Ty tweets out a 21 commit. Things aren't changing kids. Thing are staying exactly the same. The passed over parents of the upperclass kids should be proud! They put us in this situation by whining and complaining about the "injustice" of early recruiting. Now everything will be driven underground and controlled by the club coaches. Well played, passed over parents, well played. . .


I wonder who paid him to tweet that...NLF?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty Xander's is a hack. He never played the game in college, didn't go to Alabama, is in the pocket of Fat Crab and is mocked by every single college coach I have ever met. No coach is looking for his guidance at to which kids to recruit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The start date is really confusing to me. Isn't it 8/1? Apparently, the proposal was voted on without discussion and the proposed legislation's language (taken directly from the NCAA website https://web3.ncaa.org/lsdbi/search/proposalView?id=100172 ) clearly states that its effective date is to be August 1, 2017. Where is everyone getting their information?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree that in the long run this proposal is great.

HOWEVER the 2020 ( girls) got the raw end of this. There are many 2020's already with verbals and some in talks with the coaches. What happens to the girls that were about to get an offer?
This should have started with the 2021's.

Also, does anyone know if a college coach CAN talk to a kid at their camp? If they can that puts a spin on this.


Should have started with the 2022 age group. There are many 2021s already deep into the process and have sunk money into prospect and ID camps like Nike120 and Under Armor150 just to name a few.


So glad I havent signed up for the prospect camps and college camps this summer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.



Spot on
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here is a link to the text of the apparently wholly approved proposal...

https://web3.ncaa.org/lsdbi/search/proposalView?id=100172

RECRUITING -- OFF-CAMPUS CONTACTS, TELEPHONE CALLS AND UNOFFICIAL VISITS -- SEPTEMBER 1 OF JUNIOR YEAR -- LACROSSE

Status: Ready for Vote

Intent: In lacrosse, to specify that: (1) off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school and that contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence; (2) telephone calls may not be received from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school; and (3) an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.

A. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.1.1, as follows:

13.1.1.1 Time Period for Off-Campus Contacts -- General Rule. Off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before July 1 following the completion of his or her junior year in high school (July 7 after the junior year in high school in women's ice hockey and July 15 after the junior year in high school in women's gymnastics), or the opening day of classes of his or her senior year in high school (as designated by the high school), whichever is earlier. U.S. service academy exceptions to this provision are set forth in Bylaw 13.16.1. [D]

[13.1.1.1.1 unchanged.]

13.1.1.1.2 Exception -- Women's Basketball and Lacrosse. In women's basketball and lacrosse, off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. Contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence. [D]

[13.1.1.1.3 unchanged.]

B. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.3, as follows:

13.1.3 Telephone Calls.

[13.1.3.1 unchanged.]

13.1.3.2 Additional Restrictions.

[13.1.3.2.1 unchanged.]

13.1.3.2.2 Telephone Calls Initiated by Prospective Student-Athlete at His or Her Expense -- Sports Other Than Lacrosse. Institutional In sports other than lacrosse, institutional staff members may receive telephone calls placed by a prospective student-athlete at the prospective student-athlete's own expense at any time, including before September 1 at the beginning of the prospective student-athlete's junior year in high school.

13.1.3.2.2.1 Telephone Calls From a Prospective Student-Athlete -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, institutional staff members may not receive telephone calls from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. [D]

[13.1.3.3 through 13.1.3.7 unchanged.]

C. Bylaws: Amend 13.7, as follows:

13.7 Unofficial (Nonpaid) Visit.

13.7.1 Number Permitted. A prospective student-athlete may visit a member institution's campus at his or her own expense an unlimited number of times. A prospective student-athlete may make unofficial visits before his or her senior year in high school.

[13.7.1.1 and 13.7.1.2 unchanged.]

13.7.1.3 Exception -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement (e.g., contact with athletics department staff, athletics-specific tour, complimentary admissions) shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.

[13.7.2 and 13.7.3 unchanged.]

Source: NCAA Division I Council (Student-Athlete Experience Committee)

Effective Date: August 1, 2017

Proposal Category: Amendment

Topical Area: Recruiting

Rationale: This proposal is intended to simplify the legislation by making September 1 of a prospective student-athlete's junior year the starting date for all communications and contacts. Without a restriction on the receipt of telephone calls, the other recruiting restrictions fall short of curtailing early recruiting. Currently, an institution's coach may ask a club coach to have the prospective student-athlete contact him or her. This proposal will simplify the application of recruiting communication legislation and address the issue of early recruiting. Currently there is no initial date for unofficial visits with athletics department involvement to begin.

Estimated Budget Impact: None.

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Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The start date is really confusing to me. Isn't it 8/1? Apparently, the proposal was voted on without discussion and the proposed legislation's language (taken directly from the NCAA website https://web3.ncaa.org/lsdbi/search/proposalView?id=100172 ) clearly states that its effective date is to be August 1, 2017. Where is everyone getting their information?


You're right. The coaches in several articles said it was effective immediately to avoid "chaos" this summer. Clearly, the legislation says August 1, 2017. US Lacrosse is so eager to have this passed they probably never read the legislation. Regardless, best to get on one of the top teams because now it's all about the club director. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Okay so it's status quo until August 1. In theory there should be a flurry of verbal commitments before that time then.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'm trying to sort this out. From what I can tell:

1. the rules go into effect immediately

2. coaches can still attend tournaments and recruiting events (eg, Nike Elite 120) but can't have contact with athletes or their parents (unless the athletes is already a senior)

3. there are different rules for "institutional camps" (ie, sports camps run by the coaches on or near campus that follow very specific NCAA rules). I'm not sure whether the new rules prohibit them because I can't find anything that definitively calls attendance at such a camp as an "unofficial visit". I know the definition of unofficial visit is very broad, but I also see that institutional camps are treated differently. Most coaches need the camps for extra income. Did the NCAA just take away that income? Seems unlikely.

Anyone know for sure?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No, NCAA clarified that it is effective IMMEDIATELY
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So coaches who wanted this legislation to avoid early commits are going to go on an early commit frenzy?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.



Spot on


Agree completely. on the girls side look at the committed list for the 20's lots of people settled for schools just to be ahead of the ruling. That's what I call picking a school for the wrong reasons but you know us crazy lax parents.........
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Seems to me for 2020s and 2021s the key is to:

1) Make sure you are on a good club team that can access college coaches
2) Make clear to the Club coach the schools you kid is interested in attending
3) Send summer tournament schedule/grades/test scores to college coaches
4) Attend the prospect days at the schools your child is interested in

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Can schools still do prospect days? If so when can they?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No, NCAA clarified that it is effective IMMEDIATELY


The NCAA has not released anything officially.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
yeah it says right in the "legislation" August 1st. nothing in it says "immediately"


likely to go completely unenforced anyway. these coaches are doing some window dressing thats all. duke coach saying "now they wont be so beholden to the clubs, so they can go on family vacations..." what a joke..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.



Spot on


Agree completely. on the girls side look at the committed list for the 20's lots of people settled for schools just to be ahead of the ruling. That's what I call picking a school for the wrong reasons but you know us crazy lax parents.........


I'd love to know what 2020 kids you think "settled"?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.



Spot on


Agree completely. on the girls side look at the committed list for the 20's lots of people settled for schools just to be ahead of the ruling. That's what I call picking a school for the wrong reasons but you know us crazy lax parents.........


I'd love to know what 2020 kids you think "settled"?


Yes, who settled? We didnt see any commits posted yesterday
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.



Spot on


Agree completely. on the girls side look at the committed list for the 20's lots of people settled for schools just to be ahead of the ruling. That's what I call picking a school for the wrong reasons but you know us crazy lax parents.........


I'd love to know what 2020 kids you think "settled"?



Any girl that commited to a bottom D1 team like Hofstra, St. Joe's, Lasalle, East Carolina.... etc.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Seems to me that clubs will become less important in the recruiting process, putting the HS coach in a more important role in the recruiting process. If a college coach can't actively recruit prior to 9/1 of Junior year, what use is an 8th grade club coach/director?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.


You can do all of that when 9/1 of his Jr year starts - exactly as it should be. Until then, just let him be a typical HS kid play and enjoy the game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.


You can do all of that when 9/1 of his Jr year starts - exactly as it should be. Until then, just let him be a typical HS kid play and enjoy the game.

Completely agree. I am sick to my stomach with the dirtbag owners of some of these clubs.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
As a parent of a 2018 that committed as a sophomore. The U11, U13 and U15 were the most enjoyable for the kids and parents alike. Kids playing, competing and trying to win the tournament. Too much emphasis on recruiting in this sport at the youth ages. The HS age recruiting tournaments / showcases are excessive money grabs! No championship games! Too much emphasis on showing well and not playing well as a team. I say this as a firm believer that winning is not everything, but if they are keeping score it would be great to have the games mean something with a championship game to hopefully compete for. It will be great to see the kids play again for each other and not for the college coaches.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What a bunch of moaners... Maybe this will actually let kids enjoy their youth lacrosse experience and start serious training harder in High School.Will we need so many "elite" leagues and teams at 3-8 grades now?? . Why?? what is rush at 3rd grade??4th grade?? like we are now.

Everyone thinks on today's terms, which are only in place the last few years...It might revert back to terms of 10 years ago when your HS years were more important than today's HS years.. Today its your youth years of 7th and 8th that are so important to ER.

This will be a good thing in long term for kids and their parents..maybe not for Clubs, Holdback parents, etc..but for majority it will be good. Kids can be kids while young and serious players can be serious players when it HS.



Spot on


Agree completely. on the girls side look at the committed list for the 20's lots of people settled for schools just to be ahead of the ruling. That's what I call picking a school for the wrong reasons but you know us crazy lax parents.........


I'd love to know what 2020 kids you think "settled"?



Any girl that commited to a bottom D1 team like Hofstra, St. Joe's, Lasalle, East Carolina.... etc.


The kids that hit the books first and the wall second have better college choices. I wouldn't say Hofstra is settling academically it's still probably a B+ school but with a huge price tag. There are many early commits at schools where all you need is a HS diploma and your application fee
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.


You can do all of that when 9/1 of his Jr year starts - exactly as it should be. Until then, just let him be a typical HS kid play and enjoy the game.


Except that the recruiting isnt going to stop. All the coaches that stood in front of a microphone or camera and said how they were all for this....will be using every loop hole and back door to continue making contact through club coaches. Offers will still be made and commitments will still happen, they just wont be made public. And like the parent above stated, you will now have to do this without the benefit of legitimate contact / tours etc..It is going to make recruiting an even dirtier / dark practice.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.


You can do all of that when 9/1 of his Jr year starts - exactly as it should be. Until then, just let him be a typical HS kid play and enjoy the game.


Except that the recruiting isnt going to stop. All the coaches that stood in front of a microphone or camera and said how they were all for this....will be using every loop hole and back door to continue making contact through club coaches. Offers will still be made and commitments will still happen, they just wont be made public. And like the parent above stated, you will now have to do this without the benefit of legitimate contact / tours etc..It is going to make recruiting an even dirtier / dark practice.


Stop with the drama, ypu can still go check out the school on your own and check into the academics without talking to the coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.


You can do all of that when 9/1 of his Jr year starts - exactly as it should be. Until then, just let him be a typical HS kid play and enjoy the game.




Except that the recruiting isnt going to stop. All the coaches that stood in front of a microphone or camera and said how they were all for this....will be using every loop hole and back door to continue making contact through club coaches. Offers will still be made and commitments will still happen, they just wont be made public. And like the parent above stated, you will now have to do this without the benefit of legitimate contact / tours etc..It is going to make recruiting an even dirtier / dark practice.


Agreed. "Early Recruiting" really was not a "dark" dirty place to begin with. If you look at the numbers, it impacted a very small percentage of kids who actually play the sport. I agree with this post in that now the environment has been created to make it a real behind the scenes backroom process. I guess it's just wait and see.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So I need a club director to tell me a school is interested in my son. I can't speak to the coach, my son can't speak to the coach, see the athletic facilities with the staff, discuss opportunities, finances, philosophies, majors, meet the players, see a practice. After all of this that we can't do, my son will then commit to the school. Sounds like a solid plan for his future. Come on folks lets be realistic. I know you have a product to sell, but you'll have to do better than that.


You can do all of that when 9/1 of his Jr year starts - exactly as it should be. Until then, just let him be a typical HS kid play and enjoy the game.


Except that the recruiting isnt going to stop. All the coaches that stood in front of a microphone or camera and said how they were all for this....will be using every loop hole and back door to continue making contact through club coaches. Offers will still be made and commitments will still happen, they just wont be made public. And like the parent above stated, you will now have to do this without the benefit of legitimate contact / tours etc..It is going to make recruiting an even dirtier / dark practice.


I disagree. Verbal commitments are for kids and parents to brag about their kids. They serve absoluely no other purpose. What good would it be if they can't tell people that they are committed??? From a coaching perspective, this makes their job easier so, no, I seriously doubt they would try to find any loopholes. Now they don't have to take a crap shoot on a kid who hasn't even played JV yet and can wait till they've matured as a player/student/ person.

This is the very best thing because it takes a ton of pressure off of the boys and girls, and to a lesser extent, the parents who are living vicariously through them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So the theory is your kid commits, he can't tell anyone, the coach can't tell anyone, his club director can't tell other coaches who secretly meet in a back alley, he can't talk to the coach, he can't visit the school and a few years later, they finally meet having kept this deep dark secret.. Interesting?? C'mon now, lets get real folks!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It was effective immediately last week. Your kid will have to wait to verbal. It's not the end of the world.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
As a parent of a 2018 that committed as a sophomore. The U11, U13 and U15 were the most enjoyable for the kids and parents alike. Kids playing, competing and trying to win the tournament. Too much emphasis on recruiting in this sport at the youth ages. The HS age recruiting tournaments / showcases are excessive money grabs! No championship games! Too much emphasis on showing well and not playing well as a team. I say this as a firm believer that winning is not everything, but if they are keeping score it would be great to have the games mean something with a championship game to hopefully compete for. It will be great to see the kids play again for each other and not for the college coaches.


Where was your son competing in UX age groups since almnost nowhere in the mid-Atlantic and/or NE follows any age based system(s) (although they should!)??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It will be interesting to see just how much self control these college coaches have. It is human nature to find loopholes in order to gain a competitive advantage. Once a few do it others will follow. Coaches will continue to make early verbal offers but now it may just be to the very best kids. Maybe they will fill out 1/3 or 1/2 of a class before the junior year deadline. I'm guessing college coaches will still encourage players via their travel coach to attend camps and clinics on their campus because once there they can speak with the kids and their parents. Kids and parents will continue to accept early offers if the opportunity and money makes sense - regardless of whether or not they can share it publicly. Why would they wait and risk injury etc if it is the right situation and a generous offer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It will be interesting to see just how much self control these college coaches have. It is human nature to find loopholes in order to gain a competitive advantage. Once a few do it others will follow. Coaches will continue to make early verbal offers but now it may just be to the very best kids. Maybe they will fill out 1/3 or 1/2 of a class before the junior year deadline. I'm guessing college coaches will still encourage players via their travel coach to attend camps and clinics on their campus because once there they can speak with the kids and their parents. Kids and parents will continue to accept early offers if the opportunity and money makes sense - regardless of whether or not they can share it publicly. Why would they wait and risk injury etc if it is the right situation and a generous offer.


the coaches wanted this so I'm not sure why they would do back door deals that in essence could lead to severe NCAA penalties. For a non income sport the university would certainly fire the coach and staff. Football is worth millions as well as basketball so I get it, but a non funded sport? Doesn't make sense.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
But wait - You mean I spent 45k so my phenom could repeat 8th in order to look like a total stud and now he can't get a verbal commitment til he is old enough for a school to actually properly evaluate him? But...but..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
It will be interesting to see just how much self control these college coaches have. It is human nature to find loopholes in order to gain a competitive advantage. Once a few do it others will follow. Coaches will continue to make early verbal offers but now it may just be to the very best kids. Maybe they will fill out 1/3 or 1/2 of a class before the junior year deadline. I'm guessing college coaches will still encourage players via their travel coach to attend camps and clinics on their campus because once there they can speak with the kids and their parents. Kids and parents will continue to accept early offers if the opportunity and money makes sense - regardless of whether or not they can share it publicly. Why would they wait and risk injury etc if it is the right situation and a generous offer.


If it is 'off the books' so to speak, it is non-binding, and an injury, etc basically makes it so the agreement never existed anyway - you have not mitigated any risk by accepting an early 'offer'.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
because its illegal to verbal early now that's why
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The craziest of parents made sure their kid finalized their verbal before the rule change. Now those crazies can hold court all by themselves on the sidelines for 2-3 years as part of an exclusive club. Verbal news will go dark for current 8th and 9th graders for 2 or 3 years so all the talk will be about their kid just the way they wanted it.

The one loophole on the rule is club coaches can still talk to coaches so that keeps the BS money train flowing to these thieves in the middle now more than ever. Maybe now more kids stick with the sport
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Express just sent an informative email about this.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
September of Jr year is 17 months from now for 2020s. It's not that long to wait.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Express just sent an informative email about this.


Can you share what they said?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If your kids verbal was not completed before Friday's ruling you will have to wait till 9/1 of junior year. It was effective immediately after the vote.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Hi, my name is Danie Caro, and I am the IWLCA Director of Communications. The NCAA text posted earlier is for the initial "proposal," which is not what was actually adopted. The original proposal was amended to change the effective date to "IMMEDIATE," and that is what was adopted by the Division I Council. Here is how the adopted legislation appears in the NCAA LSDBi:

Division I Proposal - 2017-1
RECRUITING -- OFF-CAMPUS CONTACTS, TELEPHONE CALLS AND UNOFFICIAL VISITS -- SEPTEMBER 1 OF JUNIOR YEAR -- LACROSSE
Status: Adopted Final
Intent: In lacrosse, to specify that: (1) off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school and that contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence; (2) telephone calls may not be received from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school; and (3) an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
A. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.1.1, as follows:
13.1.1.1 Time Period for Off-Campus Contacts -- General Rule. Off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before July 1following the completion of his or her junior year in high school (July 7 after the junior year in high school in women's ice hockey and July 15 after the junior year in high school in women's gymnastics), or the opening day of classes of his or her senior year in high school (as designated by the high school), whichever is earlier. U.S. service academy exceptions to this provision are set forth in Bylaw 13.16.1. [D]
[13.1.1.1.1 unchanged.]
13.1.1.1.2 Exception -- Women's Basketball and Lacrosse. In women's basketball and lacrosse, off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. Contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence. [D]
[13.1.1.1.3 unchanged.]
B. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.3, as follows:
13.1.3 Telephone Calls.
[13.1.3.1 unchanged.]
13.1.3.2 Additional Restrictions.
[13.1.3.2.1 unchanged.]
13.1.3.2.2 Telephone Calls Initiated by Prospective Student-Athlete at His or Her Expense -- Sports Other Than Lacrosse. Institutional In sports other than lacrosse, institutional staff members may receive telephone calls placed by a prospective student-athlete at the prospective student-athlete's own expense at any time, including before September 1 at the beginning of the prospective student-athlete's junior year in high school.
13.1.3.2.2.1 Telephone Calls From a Prospective Student-Athlete -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, institutional staff members may not receive telephone calls from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
[13.1.3.3 through 13.1.3.7 unchanged.]
C. Bylaws: Amend 13.7, as follows:
13.7 Unofficial (Nonpaid) Visit.
13.7.1 Number Permitted. A prospective student-athlete may visit a member institution's campus at his or her own expense an unlimited number of times. A prospective student-athlete may make unofficial visits before his or her senior year in high school.
[13.7.1.1 through 13.7.1.2 unchanged.]
13.7.1.3 Exception -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement (e.g., contact with athletics department staff, athletics-specific tour, complimentary admission) shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
[13.7.2 through 13.7.3 unchanged.]
Source: NCAA Division I Council (Student-Athlete Experience Committee)
Effective Date: Immediate
Proposal Category: Amendment
Topical Area: Recruiting
Rationale: This proposal is intended to simplify the legislation by making September 1 of a prospective student-athlete's junior year the starting date for all communications and contacts. Without a restriction on the receipt of telephone calls, the other recruiting restrictions fall short of curtailing early recruiting. Currently, an institution's coach may ask a club coach to have the prospective student-athlete contact him or her. This proposal will simplify the application of recruiting communication legislation and address the issue of early recruiting. Currently there is no initial date for unofficial visits with athletics department involvement to begin. This proposal is being recommended as noncontroversial legislation, inasmuch as broader consultation and debate are unlikely to improve the proposal in any substantial way, significant disagreement or alternative points of view will not be generated and there does not appear to be a significant impact on existing or proposed legislation.
Estimated Budget Impact: None.
Impact on Student-Athlete's Time (Academic and/or Athletics): None.
History
Apr 14, 2017:
Adopted Final
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The start date is really confusing to me. Isn't it 8/1? Apparently, the proposal was voted on without discussion and the proposed legislation's language (taken directly from the NCAA website https://web3.ncaa.org/lsdbi/search/proposalView?id=100172 ) clearly states that its effective date is to be August 1, 2017. Where is everyone getting their information?


It does seem to state August 1st as an effective date.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Any ideas on if this will change the summer circuit of camps, showcases, tournaments, etc.? Can kids still talk to coaches during on-campus camps or has the NCAA rule changed this also?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The craziest of parents made sure their kid finalized their verbal before the rule change. Now those crazies can hold court all by themselves on the sidelines for 2-3 years as part of an exclusive club. Verbal news will go dark for current 8th and 9th graders for 2 or 3 years so all the talk will be about their kid just the way they wanted it.

The one loophole on the rule is club coaches can still talk to coaches so that keeps the BS money train flowing to these thieves in the middle now more than ever. Maybe now more kids stick with the sport
You can still verbal through the club coach as the intermediary. Doesn't seem much has changed?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It is a long time if you already established a good relationship and rapport with college coaches. We are all for no verbals before 11th grade but the unofficial visits and maintaining consistent contact to let the coach and the kid get comfortable with one another before the actual commitment were important. Now there will be rapid fire series of visits in September of 11th grade- the most important academic year for kids without as much potential for learning about the schools. As usual, a few over eager parents who wanted to brag about their kids and let them rush into committing for bragging rights and coaches who could not do the right thing, spoiled it for all the others.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
He is a 2018 - the switch to grade base occurred when he was a 9th or 10th grader. Just beyond the previous U11, U13, U15 based league & club play.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Express just sent an informative email about this.


Can you share what they said?


Tuition is going up!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hi, my name is Danie Caro, and I am the IWLCA Director of Communications. The NCAA text posted earlier is for the initial "proposal," which is not what was actually adopted. The original proposal was amended to change the effective date to "IMMEDIATE," and that is what was adopted by the Division I Council. Here is how the adopted legislation appears in the NCAA LSDBi:

Division I Proposal - 2017-1
RECRUITING -- OFF-CAMPUS CONTACTS, TELEPHONE CALLS AND UNOFFICIAL VISITS -- SEPTEMBER 1 OF JUNIOR YEAR -- LACROSSE
Status: Adopted Final
Intent: In lacrosse, to specify that: (1) off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school and that contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence; (2) telephone calls may not be received from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school; and (3) an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
A. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.1.1, as follows:
13.1.1.1 Time Period for Off-Campus Contacts -- General Rule. Off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before July 1following the completion of his or her junior year in high school (July 7 after the junior year in high school in women's ice hockey and July 15 after the junior year in high school in women's gymnastics), or the opening day of classes of his or her senior year in high school (as designated by the high school), whichever is earlier. U.S. service academy exceptions to this provision are set forth in Bylaw 13.16.1. [D]
[13.1.1.1.1 unchanged.]
13.1.1.1.2 Exception -- Women's Basketball and Lacrosse. In women's basketball and lacrosse, off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. Contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence. [D]
[13.1.1.1.3 unchanged.]
B. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.3, as follows:
13.1.3 Telephone Calls.
[13.1.3.1 unchanged.]
13.1.3.2 Additional Restrictions.
[13.1.3.2.1 unchanged.]
13.1.3.2.2 Telephone Calls Initiated by Prospective Student-Athlete at His or Her Expense -- Sports Other Than Lacrosse. Institutional In sports other than lacrosse, institutional staff members may receive telephone calls placed by a prospective student-athlete at the prospective student-athlete's own expense at any time, including before September 1 at the beginning of the prospective student-athlete's junior year in high school.
13.1.3.2.2.1 Telephone Calls From a Prospective Student-Athlete -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, institutional staff members may not receive telephone calls from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
[13.1.3.3 through 13.1.3.7 unchanged.]
C. Bylaws: Amend 13.7, as follows:
13.7 Unofficial (Nonpaid) Visit.
13.7.1 Number Permitted. A prospective student-athlete may visit a member institution's campus at his or her own expense an unlimited number of times. A prospective student-athlete may make unofficial visits before his or her senior year in high school.
[13.7.1.1 through 13.7.1.2 unchanged.]
13.7.1.3 Exception -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement (e.g., contact with athletics department staff, athletics-specific tour, complimentary admission) shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
[13.7.2 through 13.7.3 unchanged.]
Source: NCAA Division I Council (Student-Athlete Experience Committee)
Effective Date: Immediate
Proposal Category: Amendment
Topical Area: Recruiting
Rationale: This proposal is intended to simplify the legislation by making September 1 of a prospective student-athlete's junior year the starting date for all communications and contacts. Without a restriction on the receipt of telephone calls, the other recruiting restrictions fall short of curtailing early recruiting. Currently, an institution's coach may ask a club coach to have the prospective student-athlete contact him or her. This proposal will simplify the application of recruiting communication legislation and address the issue of early recruiting. Currently there is no initial date for unofficial visits with athletics department involvement to begin. This proposal is being recommended as noncontroversial legislation, inasmuch as broader consultation and debate are unlikely to improve the proposal in any substantial way, significant disagreement or alternative points of view will not be generated and there does not appear to be a significant impact on existing or proposed legislation.
Estimated Budget Impact: None.
Impact on Student-Athlete's Time (Academic and/or Athletics): None.
History
Apr 14, 2017:
Adopted Final



What about emails? There is nothing mentioned about email contact just telephone calls
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The craziest of parents made sure their kid finalized their verbal before the rule change. Now those crazies can hold court all by themselves on the sidelines for 2-3 years as part of an exclusive club. Verbal news will go dark for current 8th and 9th graders for 2 or 3 years so all the talk will be about their kid just the way they wanted it.

The one loophole on the rule is club coaches can still talk to coaches so that keeps the BS money train flowing to these thieves in the middle now more than ever. Maybe now more kids stick with the sport
You can still verbal through the club coach as the intermediary. Doesn't seem much has changed?



Do you actually think ANYONE is going to have their kid commit without talking to the coaches, or visiting campus? There is zero reason not to wait until your Junior year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Hi, my name is Danie Caro, and I am the IWLCA Director of Communications. The NCAA text posted earlier is for the initial "proposal," which is not what was actually adopted. The original proposal was amended to change the effective date to "IMMEDIATE," and that is what was adopted by the Division I Council. Here is how the adopted legislation appears in the NCAA LSDBi:

Division I Proposal - 2017-1
RECRUITING -- OFF-CAMPUS CONTACTS, TELEPHONE CALLS AND UNOFFICIAL VISITS -- SEPTEMBER 1 OF JUNIOR YEAR -- LACROSSE
Status: Adopted Final
Intent: In lacrosse, to specify that: (1) off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school and that contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence; (2) telephone calls may not be received from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school; and (3) an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
A. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.1.1, as follows:
13.1.1.1 Time Period for Off-Campus Contacts -- General Rule. Off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before July 1following the completion of his or her junior year in high school (July 7 after the junior year in high school in women's ice hockey and July 15 after the junior year in high school in women's gymnastics), or the opening day of classes of his or her senior year in high school (as designated by the high school), whichever is earlier. U.S. service academy exceptions to this provision are set forth in Bylaw 13.16.1. [D]
[13.1.1.1.1 unchanged.]
13.1.1.1.2 Exception -- Women's Basketball and Lacrosse. In women's basketball and lacrosse, off-campus recruiting contacts shall not be made with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school. Contacts that occur during a prospective student-athlete's junior year may occur only at the prospective student-athlete's educational institution or residence. [D]
[13.1.1.1.3 unchanged.]
B. Bylaws: Amend 13.1.3, as follows:
13.1.3 Telephone Calls.
[13.1.3.1 unchanged.]
13.1.3.2 Additional Restrictions.
[13.1.3.2.1 unchanged.]
13.1.3.2.2 Telephone Calls Initiated by Prospective Student-Athlete at His or Her Expense -- Sports Other Than Lacrosse. Institutional In sports other than lacrosse, institutional staff members may receive telephone calls placed by a prospective student-athlete at the prospective student-athlete's own expense at any time, including before September 1 at the beginning of the prospective student-athlete's junior year in high school.
13.1.3.2.2.1 Telephone Calls From a Prospective Student-Athlete -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, institutional staff members may not receive telephone calls from an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
[13.1.3.3 through 13.1.3.7 unchanged.]
C. Bylaws: Amend 13.7, as follows:
13.7 Unofficial (Nonpaid) Visit.
13.7.1 Number Permitted. A prospective student-athlete may visit a member institution's campus at his or her own expense an unlimited number of times. A prospective student-athlete may make unofficial visits before his or her senior year in high school.
[13.7.1.1 through 13.7.1.2 unchanged.]
13.7.1.3 Exception -- Lacrosse. In lacrosse, an unofficial visit with athletics department involvement (e.g., contact with athletics department staff, athletics-specific tour, complimentary admission) shall not occur with an individual (or his or her relatives or legal guardians) before September 1 at the beginning of his or her junior year in high school.
[13.7.2 through 13.7.3 unchanged.]
Source: NCAA Division I Council (Student-Athlete Experience Committee)
Effective Date: Immediate
Proposal Category: Amendment
Topical Area: Recruiting
Rationale: This proposal is intended to simplify the legislation by making September 1 of a prospective student-athlete's junior year the starting date for all communications and contacts. Without a restriction on the receipt of telephone calls, the other recruiting restrictions fall short of curtailing early recruiting. Currently, an institution's coach may ask a club coach to have the prospective student-athlete contact him or her. This proposal will simplify the application of recruiting communication legislation and address the issue of early recruiting. Currently there is no initial date for unofficial visits with athletics department involvement to begin. This proposal is being recommended as noncontroversial legislation, inasmuch as broader consultation and debate are unlikely to improve the proposal in any substantial way, significant disagreement or alternative points of view will not be generated and there does not appear to be a significant impact on existing or proposed legislation.
Estimated Budget Impact: None.
Impact on Student-Athlete's Time (Academic and/or Athletics): None.
History
Apr 14, 2017:
Adopted Final



What about emails? There is nothing mentioned about email contact just telephone calls


It states communications and contacts, email is a form of communication.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
It still seems as if kids can email the coaches, the coaches can then respond to the club coaches and the club coaches can forward emails to recruit?

What happens to all the "prospect days" camps and clinics? Can they communicate at those events that are on campus?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This may be dumb question - do the new rules effect d2 & d3 school recruiting? or MCLA? or just d1.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The craziest of parents made sure their kid finalized their verbal before the rule change. Now those crazies can hold court all by themselves on the sidelines for 2-3 years as part of an exclusive club. Verbal news will go dark for current 8th and 9th graders for 2 or 3 years so all the talk will be about their kid just the way they wanted it.

The one loophole on the rule is club coaches can still talk to coaches so that keeps the BS money train flowing to these thieves in the middle now more than ever. Maybe now more kids stick with the sport
You can still verbal through the club coach as the intermediary. Doesn't seem much has changed?


Means the YJ recruiting service charge just went up CaChing!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The craziest of parents made sure their kid finalized their verbal before the rule change. Now those crazies can hold court all by themselves on the sidelines for 2-3 years as part of an exclusive club. Verbal news will go dark for current 8th and 9th graders for 2 or 3 years so all the talk will be about their kid just the way they wanted it.

The one loophole on the rule is club coaches can still talk to coaches so that keeps the BS money train flowing to these thieves in the middle now more than ever. Maybe now more kids stick with the sport
You can still verbal through the club coach as the intermediary. Doesn't seem much has changed?


Who verbals without actually meeting or speaking with someone?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If the intent of this is to "let kids be kids" and enjoy middle school and early high school lacrosse without the pressure of recruiting then there should be no contact, either direct or indirect, until September 1st of junior year. That would mean college coaches cannot contact the student or anyone else on their behalf (i.e. club or HS coaches) until they are a junior. I think the goal of ending early recruiting is a good one. However, if the coaches can go around it by just dealing with middle men, then this whole thing is form over substance and really a joke.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.



It already happened, the coaches voted unanimously to get rid of early recruiting, unfortunately now those kids wait until junior year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.


It would have been more convincing that the rule change was in the best interest of the kids if they actually had thought about the ramifications to 2020s and 2019 and made it effective for years 2021 and later as the 2020s are going into 10th grade in a few months and a good number of the higher level players are already committed and others in serious talks. The 2019s are in an awkward position but will self correct in 4 months. The least they could have done is kept with the original 8/1 published date so the kids in serious talks already could have closed the loop with coaches they already have a relationship with and had reassurance and direction for action plans over the next 16 months. If they wanted to rush and commit than so be it. Seemed very dirty to publish one date and let everyone plan for that and then switch it to immediately- proof that it was simply for the benefit of club directors and those colleges that were not able to compete with early recruiting.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
2019's could have been close to making decisions as well...

Thoughts on college coaches attendance at summer tournaments?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
We received an email from a coach that stated that they cannot even speak to the club director, per the regulation. I only see parents, relatives and legal guardians. Is this in fact true, can they not speak to the club directors either?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
We received an email from a coach that stated that they cannot even speak to the club director, per the regulation. I only see parents, relatives and legal guardians. Is this in fact true, can they not speak to the club directors either?


Unfortunately not the case.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019's could have been close to making decisions as well...

Thoughts on college coaches attendance at summer tournaments?

I really thought we'd have more time. My daughter is a 2020 and she had some opportunities but still wanted to visit two more schools, and we kind of thought we'd have until August 1, as we told a couple of teams that she would make a decision in the summer because she just turned 14. They were OK with that. In a way it does take the pressure off, but it would have been nice if they maybe gave the 2020 and 2021s time to finish what they started. In the end I have no doubts it will work out fine for my daughter.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.


It would have been more convincing that the rule change was in the best interest of the kids if they actually had thought about the ramifications to 2020s and 2019 and made it effective for years 2021 and later as the 2020s are going into 10th grade in a few months and a good number of the higher level players are already committed and others in serious talks. The 2019s are in an awkward position but will self correct in 4 months. The least they could have done is kept with the original 8/1 published date so the kids in serious talks already could have closed the loop with coaches they already have a relationship with and had reassurance and direction for action plans over the next 16 months. If they wanted to rush and commit than so be it. Seemed very dirty to publish one date and let everyone plan for that and then switch it to immediately- proof that it was simply for the benefit of club directors and those colleges that were not able to compete with early recruiting.


That is exactly my point. Your daughter can be on a team with 4 or more 2020's already committed, was in the talks and visits stage and now have to wait 17 more months? That was very dirty to switch the date. Some ivy's were waiting for end of freshmen year report cards.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I would imagine the rule doesn't state anything about club directors, because the authors assume that nobody in their right mind would allow their child's future to be discussed by a 3rd party with no contact whatsoever. Just a thought.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.


It would have been more convincing that the rule change was in the best interest of the kids if they actually had thought about the ramifications to 2020s and 2019 and made it effective for years 2021 and later as the 2020s are going into 10th grade in a few months and a good number of the higher level players are already committed and others in serious talks. The 2019s are in an awkward position but will self correct in 4 months. The least they could have done is kept with the original 8/1 published date so the kids in serious talks already could have closed the loop with coaches they already have a relationship with and had reassurance and direction for action plans over the next 16 months. If they wanted to rush and commit than so be it. Seemed very dirty to publish one date and let everyone plan for that and then switch it to immediately- proof that it was simply for the benefit of club directors and those colleges that were not able to compete with early recruiting.


That is exactly my point. Your daughter can be on a team with 4 or more 2020's already committed, was in the talks and visits stage and now have to wait 17 more months? That was very dirty to switch the date. Some ivy's were waiting for end of freshmen year report cards.

I agree, as a parent of a 2020 girl who had narrowed her schools down to 3 hoping to see 2 more before she decided. Would have been fair to wait a few months before closing it down for 17 months. The cat was out of the bag for that grade, they could have phased it in without putting an immediate stop. I guess they have their reasons. And yes most club teams have a handful of committed 2020, and even some high school teams have as much.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
anyone have any insight into how these new recruiting guidelines will impact clubs that have college coaches as coaches or directors? Does that interaction count as 'official contact'?

Does this make it more crucial for college coaches to become more involved with the clubs? Obviously, the coaches can't talk verbals & commitments, etc....but would give them a lot more visibility and time to evaluate the boys prior to their Junior year

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.


It would have been more convincing that the rule change was in the best interest of the kids if they actually had thought about the ramifications to 2020s and 2019 and made it effective for years 2021 and later as the 2020s are going into 10th grade in a few months and a good number of the higher level players are already committed and others in serious talks. The 2019s are in an awkward position but will self correct in 4 months. The least they could have done is kept with the original 8/1 published date so the kids in serious talks already could have closed the loop with coaches they already have a relationship with and had reassurance and direction for action plans over the next 16 months. If they wanted to rush and commit than so be it. Seemed very dirty to publish one date and let everyone plan for that and then switch it to immediately- proof that it was simply for the benefit of club directors and those colleges that were not able to compete with early recruiting.


That is exactly my point. Your daughter can be on a team with 4 or more 2020's already committed, was in the talks and visits stage and now have to wait 17 more months? That was very dirty to switch the date. Some ivy's were waiting for end of freshmen year report cards.


Wouldn't that be doing the opposite of what the rules are intended to do. The college coaches are supposed to support the idea that recruiting has moved way to early and it is creating an overly competitive atmosphere for these young players but " lets not do the right thing until I finish off with the 2021 class". If you have seen and talked with coaches you can still verbally commit or wait its up to you and your child.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019's could have been close to making decisions as well...

Thoughts on college coaches attendance at summer tournaments?


The NCAA rules regarding evaluations have not changed. Division I coaches may still evaluate prospects in tournament play before September 1 of the junior year. The only difference is that they can no longer engage in recruiting contact and communications until the junior year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.



The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.



Was wondering how this applies to kids already committed with verbals. Since they have already had these recruiting conversations, are there any exceptions? Should the kids call the coach prior to the 26th and then agree on a plan to send grades, updates etc.?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2019's could have been close to making decisions as well...

Thoughts on college coaches attendance at summer tournaments?

I really thought we'd have more time. My daughter is a 2020 and she had some opportunities but still wanted to visit two more schools, and we kind of thought we'd have until August 1, as we told a couple of teams that she would make a decision in the summer because she just turned 14. They were OK with that. In a way it does take the pressure off, but it would have been nice if they maybe gave the 2020 and 2021s time to finish what they started. In the end I have no doubts it will work out fine for my daughter.


thats the point, they are giving you the time. if you were good now you should think you would be good then. What are you worried your child wont be as good anymore.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What about evaluations at camps or clinics where multiple coaches will be in attendance? Is this still allowed?

Also, are prospective recruits allowed to still email coaches their schedules and highlight films? How can they enforce if they are not?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I agree with that, however some 2020's were in talks with coaches already, had visits etc.
They are in limbo now waiting to see what happens.


It would have been more convincing that the rule change was in the best interest of the kids if they actually had thought about the ramifications to 2020s and 2019 and made it effective for years 2021 and later as the 2020s are going into 10th grade in a few months and a good number of the higher level players are already committed and others in serious talks. The 2019s are in an awkward position but will self correct in 4 months. The least they could have done is kept with the original 8/1 published date so the kids in serious talks already could have closed the loop with coaches they already have a relationship with and had reassurance and direction for action plans over the next 16 months. If they wanted to rush and commit than so be it. Seemed very dirty to publish one date and let everyone plan for that and then switch it to immediately- proof that it was simply for the benefit of club directors and those colleges that were not able to compete with early recruiting.


That is exactly my point. Your daughter can be on a team with 4 or more 2020's already committed, was in the talks and visits stage and now have to wait 17 more months? That was very dirty to switch the date. Some ivy's were waiting for end of freshmen year report cards.


Not "dirty" at all, there is no reason to rush. If the college is still interested on 9/1 of their Junior year then they just pick right up where they left off. If not, then it wasn't a good fit anyway. There is plenty of time to find a school that is right for you
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


We truly appreciate you posting this information. Our club just keeps saying they're working on it and will give us information when they have it.
Our opinion is this should be starting with the class of 2021. It isn't right to stop 2020's for 17 months when so many 20's are already committed. This also adds further expenses to the families as they now have to do multiple camps at other schools because they won't know if the school they were in talks with will make an offer in 17 months.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
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Was wondering how this applies to kids already committed with verbals. Since they have already had these recruiting conversations, are there any exceptions? Should the kids call the coach prior to the 26th and then agree on a plan to send grades, updates etc.?[/quote]from what it sounds like initially it was thought to be the 26th, but it appears this went into effect immediately according to an earlier post
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.



<world's smallest violin . . .>
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.




Where to start . . .?

". . . 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed . . . " The ruling doesn't nullify any existing commitments, so, "no"!

"Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months - certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences . . ." Obviously with the NCAA establishing 9/1 of Jr Year as the threshold, they disagree with that assessment, and that was as much a basis for the implementation of this rule as any. So, "no", again!

". . . the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty . . . " Really - the word you have come up with is "dirty"?

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.


I guess we are all venting here, but I agree. My 2020 daughter was being smart about the process, narrowing down her choices to 3 schools she's visited and met coaches, and telling them she was going to wait until the end of freshman year. The coaches were Ok with that (and please don't say if she was good enough the schools would have made better offers). For her it came down to seeing schools, she enjoyed the "unofficial" visits with coaches. It's still very possible she goes to one of those 3, but it feels like she has to start all over again and that's the part that isn't fair to these kids. It just seems they could have given a couple of months and promised to not make new contacts, but continue discussing with girls they had previously conversed with.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
As so many are quick to point out on BOTC, life isn't always fair. That's it, the song is over, if you don't have a seat you're out of the game until the next song starts.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.



<world's smallest violin . . .>


Hey violin whiner , do you have any older kid who had to get into college the "regular" way? Do you know how HARD that is and how stressful junior is? Plus senior year waiting to hear from your dream school?
My 9th grader already knows what major she wants to study and what type of school. A 15/16 year old can make this decision. The 8th graders NO. To pull the rug out form under the 2020's who were close to verbals or would be after this summer and fall circuit is ridiculous.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
That's why many settled quickly before the change. Everyone knew if they gave kids until 8/1 everyone would verbal and that defeats the purpose. The sane ones can work on their grades and realize there is much more money in academics and they might actually have a major the want to pursue by jr year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.



<world's smallest violin . . .>


Says the dad who hopes the change will help his child "catch up". Yawn. All the above are legitimate concerns/issues and the change should have been implemented beginning with 2021s - the kids NOT already in high school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
My 9th grader already knows what major she wants to study and what type of school. A 15/16 year old can make this decision. The 8th graders NO. To pull the rug out form under the 2020's who were close to verbals or would be after this summer and fall circuit is ridiculous.


Guess what? Three of my kids knew what they wanted to major in too, one of them for years, before entering college. Then things changed. Don't bank on a 15yo sticking with a decision.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Question????? What about all the college coaches that are now coaching with club teams. Are they recruiting??? College Coaches whose kids that play on club teams. Conversations with parents/kids on sidelines OK???

This was a dumb, un-American rule that is supposed to be enforced by a corrupt NCAA. Lets see which teams get hurt by some NCAA sanction??? My guess....not any of the biggest early recruiting schools whose coaches talked out of both sides of their mouth.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question????? What about all the college coaches that are now coaching with club teams. Are they recruiting??? College Coaches whose kids that play on club teams. Conversations with parents/kids on sidelines OK???

This was a dumb, un-American rule that is supposed to be enforced by a corrupt NCAA. Lets see which teams get hurt by some NCAA sanction??? My guess....not any of the biggest early recruiting schools whose coaches talked out of both sides of their mouth.



Un-American? Really? It's lacrosse, not the degradation of the free world. Put it in perspective please. You knew this was coming, did you do anything? Consult a lawyer? File a class action lawsuit with all the others? Any attempt to use the American system to block what you call un-American, or just world class whining on BOTC?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


9th grade. Mature for his age. Big. Great Grades. That describes 99% of the commits for the 2020 class. That's about 100 kids out of what? Several thousand kids? Guess what. . .everyone has a spot. The Ivies and Duke/ND said, ENOUGH OF THIS, and made this happen. Why do you think Big Ten is so big this year? ER. It's called parity. But can't let that happen (except Hops. . .we'll do anything for Hops). US Lacrosse just won. . . not your kid.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


This is completely wrong. Your 2020 verbal committment means nothing to the NCAA . Same rules apply to all 2020 kids .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That's why many settled quickly before the change. Everyone knew if they gave kids until 8/1 everyone would verbal and that defeats the purpose. The sane ones can work on their grades and realize there is much more money in academics and they might actually have a major the want to pursue by jr year

Only the serious contenders would have committed who were already in conversations. Even the April 26th date would have been enough for those kids. They were wrong to just implement immediately. And despite what you may believe, some kids are a lot more mature and have known what they want to do for years - they are being penalized because someone else may not. That is for parents to guide and help in the decision and 16 and 10 th grade is mature enough for many. NCAA succumbed to the pressure exerted by those schools who could not compete with the ER schools.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


9th grade. Mature for his age. Big. Great Grades. That describes 99% of the commits for the 2020 class. That's about 100 kids out of what? Several thousand kids? Guess what. . .everyone has a spot. The Ivies and Duke/ND said, ENOUGH OF THIS, and made this happen. Why do you think Big Ten is so big this year? ER. It's called parity. But can't let that happen (except Hops. . .we'll do anything for Hops). US Lacrosse just won. . . not your kid.


Yet US Lacrosse is not willing to step in and do anything meaningful to help with issues in youth lacrosse. Was sick of seeing their "PR" on the evils of early recruiting. Very transparent and not that they care, but no more of our $$.

As to 15-16 year olds kids knowing what they want...yes, many do. Perhaps not yours but quite a few do and the schools that most committed to had plenty of majors should they change their minds.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


1. Early commits are not luck. They are clearly some of the best players of that age group.
2. If it is not good for your child, then don't let them commit but you should not be legislating or determining if mine or anyone else's kids commit.
3. Have not heard anyone here say 8th grade is a good idea- the discussion is primarily about the 2020 players who are already involved in unofficial visits and coach discussions and will be 16 and in tenth grade in 4 months and should be allowed to choose what is best for them. The rule should have been 2021 and younger to allow for things to settle down and not catch one year mid way.
4. The game has nothing to do with it. It works just fine for other sports and parity is achieved through free enterprise - not a set of rules catering to a certain set of schools.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


1. Early commits are not luck. They are clearly some of the best players of that age group.
2. If it is not good for your child, then don't let them commit but you should not be legislating or determining if mine or anyone else's kids commit.
3. Have not heard anyone here say 8th grade is a good idea- the discussion is primarily about the 2020 players who are already involved in unofficial visits and coach discussions and will be 16 and in tenth grade in 4 months and should be allowed to choose what is best for them. The rule should have been 2021 and younger to allow for things to settle down and not catch one year mid way.
4. The game has nothing to do with it. It works just fine for other sports and parity is achieved through free enterprise - not a set of rules catering to a certain set of schools.


Great post, spot on! The sad part is that the parents of kids with no interest think this will help them. For the vast majority, this new "rule" will make no difference. For that "late bloomer", they would have been noticed with or without this change.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


9th grade. Mature for his age. Big. Great Grades. That describes 99% of the commits for the 2020 class. That's about 100 kids out of what? Several thousand kids? Guess what. . .everyone has a spot. The Ivies and Duke/ND said, ENOUGH OF THIS, and made this happen. Why do you think Big Ten is so big this year? ER. It's called parity. But can't let that happen (except Hops. . .we'll do anything for Hops). US Lacrosse just won. . . not your kid.


ND recruits as early as anyone out there and they will probably be disappointed in many of the early 19's & 20's they already verbally committed
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Can kids still email college coaches or is it not allowed as part of the new rule?
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Hey violin whiner , do you have any older kid who had to get into college the "regular" way? Do you know how HARD that is and how stressful junior is? Plus senior year waiting to hear from your dream school?
My 9th grader already knows what major she wants to study and what type of school. A 15/16 year old can make this decision. The 8th graders NO. To pull the rug out form under the 2020's who were close to verbals or would be after this summer and fall circuit is ridiculous.[/quote]

You are the type of person they changed the rule for. Its about being a kid, growing up and picking a good fit in college. Its well documented that almost 50% of kids don't play for 4 years in college so get the right major at the right school. You're hanging on too tight its a freakin game its not ridiculous at all
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


9th grade. Mature for his age. Big. Great Grades. That describes 99% of the commits for the 2020 class. That's about 100 kids out of what? Several thousand kids? Guess what. . .everyone has a spot. The Ivies and Duke/ND said, ENOUGH OF THIS, and made this happen. Why do you think Big Ten is so big this year? ER. It's called parity. But can't let that happen (except Hops. . .we'll do anything for Hops). US Lacrosse just won. . . not your kid.


ND recruits as early as anyone out there and they will probably be disappointed in many of the early 19's & 20's they already verbally committed


Maybe or maybe not but that is their choice and the choice of the fAmilies that they are dealing with. Sorry if you are not one of them but it is their risk to take regardless of what anyone else thinks.
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Kids can email coaches but coaches are not allowed to read the emails.
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What? Not true at all...
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


We were told no contact until Junior year. Commitment still honored. Based upon this forum, seems like the enactment went as planned, i.e. SNAFU, as did the discussions on implementation, i.e. SNAFU. No skin in the game but NCAA clearly went with PR and optics over reality to appease the blue bloods/Ivies. Let Duke/ND/etc poach. . .never understood how a free market was not good. Oh yeah, Tradition! (yeah, right, US lacrosse wha wha wha. . .).


Some of us believe that recruiting 8th graders is a bad idea overall.

Just because you lucked out with your kid committing early doesn't mean it's a good thing for the game or for (the bulk of) those who play it.


9th grade. Mature for his age. Big. Great Grades. That describes 99% of the commits for the 2020 class. That's about 100 kids out of what? Several thousand kids? Guess what. . .everyone has a spot. The Ivies and Duke/ND said, ENOUGH OF THIS, and made this happen. Why do you think Big Ten is so big this year? ER. It's called parity. But can't let that happen (except Hops. . .we'll do anything for Hops). US Lacrosse just won. . . not your kid.


Yet US Lacrosse is not willing to step in and do anything meaningful to help with issues in youth lacrosse. Was sick of seeing their "PR" on the evils of early recruiting. Very transparent and not that they care, but no more of our $$.

As to 15-16 year olds kids knowing what they want...yes, many do. Perhaps not yours but quite a few do and the schools that most committed to had plenty of majors should they change their minds.



Great point- these are not tiny liberal arts schools these kids are committing to - they are large schools with TONS of majors.
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CLASS ACTION SUIT........
This change of policy should have been grandfathered in. There are at least three grade years, 2019-2021 that have invested heavily in camps, clinics, showcases, coaches visits, all with heavy camp fees, travel and lodging expenses. It is monies that are now ill taken, and many will need to start over in 1-3 years and spend all over again. Add up a typical one year recruit campaign. Attend 3-4 camps, clinics, a few coaches visits, several car rides, hotels and plane tickets. This is a $5000 - $10,000 expense easily if not more. Many players heavily invested in the process right now just got that thrown in the trash can without any warning. Three age groups of D1 and D2 boys and girls, you are talking about literally at least 5000 kids heavily invested in this process just had that money thrown in the garbage by NCAA. That's in the neighborhood of $25,000,000.00 to $50,000,000.00. Yes small peanuts to NCAA with all the basketball and football money laying around. And what makes it worse is they foretold of impending dates which was the correct way to do it, so people with time and money invested in the process thought they could wrap up their campaigns, also allow coaches to wrap it up. This dirty, sneaky lie and the way they shut it down is the big problem here.
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And yet this was coming down the pipeline for months, everyone knew about it, and not one of the complainers put up a fight. If it is affecting you and your family in a negative capacity you should have utilized your rights to hire an attorney and fought this great injustice. Since no one did, guess it wasn't that important to any of you.
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Yes we have 4 kids and let me tell you they know exactly what they want to do in 8th grade. Give me a break. This early recruiting BS was being driven by 1.lunatic parents, 2.lunatic coaches. 3. Thieving club directors and then 4.the players themselves.

This is a smart decision on many fronts. The best kids will still get theirs, but it gives everyone else time to fine tune their game, work on their grades and have a clue on where and what they want to study. Stop with the BS that 8th and 9th graders know what path they want. Plus it takes a lot more guess work out for coaches tying up bad money on a hot 9th grader who is passed by better players in HS. Money is actually going to go to the best players now.

Don't lose sight of the facts people- less than 2% of HS athletes get athletic scholarship money. Less than 50% play all 4 years. 37% of kids transfer once in college and of those 37%, 42% transfer a 2nd time. If you slow down the process you have a much better chance of getting it right on all counts
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
And yet this was coming down the pipeline for months, everyone knew about it, and not one of the complainers put up a fight. If it is affecting you and your family in a negative capacity you should have utilized your rights to hire an attorney and fought this great injustice. Since no one did, guess it wasn't that important to any of you.


Where is the ACLU??? Get the various Reverends in front of the press making their pronouncements about unfair and unequal treatment. Ring the Rainbow coalition alarm - start the protests and marches!


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Originally Posted by Anonymous
And yet this was coming down the pipeline for months, everyone knew about it, and not one of the complainers put up a fight. If it is affecting you and your family in a negative capacity you should have utilized your rights to hire an attorney and fought this great injustice. Since no one did, guess it wasn't that important to any of you.


What your are missing is that the published implementation date leads up to the vote was August 1st which those in the middle of the process and talking seriously with coaches were aware of and knew they would have those months to finalize matters once the D1 season was over. The coaches and the families had their plan in place and the NCAA chose to be deceptive and change that published date without warning that it was even a possibility. That is where much of the problem lies and is very much deceptive on their part knowing that the coaches were heading into their final campaigns of division play. Wrong on many levels. Again, simply because your child was not affected or you have issues that your child had minimal opportunities, does not make this right.
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Waiting for all the liberals to blame trump for this injustice. Let's start protesting
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yes we have 4 kids and let me tell you they know exactly what they want to do in 8th grade. Give me a break. This early recruiting BS was being driven by 1.lunatic parents, 2.lunatic coaches. 3. Thieving club directors and then 4.the players themselves.

This is a smart decision on many fronts. The best kids will still get theirs, but it gives everyone else time to fine tune their game, work on their grades and have a clue on where and what they want to study. Stop with the BS that 8th and 9th graders know what path they want. Plus it takes a lot more guess work out for coaches tying up bad money on a hot 9th grader who is passed by better players in HS. Money is actually going to go to the best players now.

Don't lose sight of the facts people- less than 2% of HS athletes get athletic scholarship money. Less than 50% play all 4 years. 37% of kids transfer once in college and of those 37%, 42% transfer a 2nd time. If you slow down the process you have a much better chance of getting it right on all counts


With all due respect, 4 kids does not make you an expert. I have one still undecided about his future at 20, two who dabble but my 15 going on 16 is fully aware of what he wants to do and should be afforded that opportunity. If yours are not there yet, then you keep them undecided/uncommitted and be the parent but if my 16 knows what he wants to do and it is a good plan approved by us as his parents, then he should be able to carry out that plan. This is not going to make kids who have their goals be kids anymore than it will force kids who are not sure, hit the books or the wall more. Each individual is different and no amount of legislation will change that-naive to think that NCAA did this for the kids. It was to benefit a group of college coaches who could not compete.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]And yet this was coming down the pipeline for months, everyone knew about it, and not one of the complainers put up a fight. If it is affecting you and your family in a negative capacity you should have utilized your rights to hire an attorney and fought this great injustice. Since no one did, guess it wasn't that important to any of you.


Where is the ACLU??? Get the various Reverends in front of the press making their pronouncements about unfair and unequal treatment. Ring the Rainbow coalition alarm - start the protests and marches!

Thank you for the value added insight.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


This is just a question and not meant as a dig.

If your son is committed, why is he going to prospect camps? Seems like a waste of time and distracts coaches from other non-committed players.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
CLASS ACTION SUIT........
This change of policy should have been grandfathered in. There are at least three grade years, 2019-2021 that have invested heavily in camps, clinics, showcases, coaches visits, all with heavy camp fees, travel and lodging expenses. It is monies that are now ill taken, and many will need to start over in 1-3 years and spend all over again. Add up a typical one year recruit campaign. Attend 3-4 camps, clinics, a few coaches visits, several car rides, hotels and plane tickets. This is a $5000 - $10,000 expense easily if not more. Many players heavily invested in the process right now just got that thrown in the trash can without any warning. Three age groups of D1 and D2 boys and girls, you are talking about literally at least 5000 kids heavily invested in this process just had that money thrown in the garbage by NCAA. That's in the neighborhood of $25,000,000.00 to $50,000,000.00. Yes small peanuts to NCAA with all the basketball and football money laying around. And what makes it worse is they foretold of impending dates which was the correct way to do it, so people with time and money invested in the process thought they could wrap up their campaigns, also allow coaches to wrap it up. This dirty, sneaky lie and the way they shut it down is the big problem here.


Any lawyers out there?
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the the college can still contact the club coach or club representative about a prospective player. they just cant contact the player and the player cant contact the coach. the way i read it verbals can still be given out, and accepted by the player before the junior year, but your going out on a limb having no contact with the coach and praying that they are the best for your daughter without actually talking to them.




The new legislation does not say that club coaches and college coaches cannot talk. College and Club/HS coaches have always been permitted to speak to each other - that has not changed. However, what most people don't realize is that it is already impermissible for college coaches to use the club or HS coach as a "go-between" to conduct recruiting conversations with a prospect before September 1 of their junior year. So a college coach can speak to the club/HS coach to evaluate a sophomore prospect, but they cannot say "Have Susie Superstar be in my office next Friday at 10 am so we can make her a scholarship offer." That would constitute a recruiting conversation and is not permissible under current NCAA rules (in any sport, as per a 1994 NCAA Interpretation regarding Bylaw 13.1.3 and 13.4.1).

As a follow up, the IWLCA Legal Counsel recently received verbal confirmation of this interpretation from the NCAA, and have requested an updated official interpretation. We expect to receive that later this week or early next week and will circulate as appropriate. Bottom line is that a college coach can have evaluative discussions with HS or club coaches, but recruiting conversations intended to circumvent NCAA rules are PROHIBITED. Please be patient as we work with the NCAA to clarify the rules and produce educational materials for the lacrosse community. It is in everyone's best interests for college coaches, prospects and their families, high school coaches, and club coaches to all be on the same page in their understanding of the new rules and how the recruiting process will change, so you can be certain we will share any information we have with the larger lacrosse community.

If you have specific questions about the new legislation, please email me so that we can add them to the FAQ we are preparing. I can be reached at dcaroiwlca@gmail.com

Thank you.


Perhaps they should have thought about the ramifications and had clarification with respect to the legislation ready PRIOR to approving it? Also the switch and bait with the implementation date was very dirty and breeds distrust. They have left the 2020s in a terrible position if they have already verbally committed or were in serious talks with coaches. As someone mentioned earlier...the genie was already out of the bottle for that class. Those kids will be in 10th grade and 16 years old in 4 1/2 months- certainly old enough to decide upon college preferences or they should be talking to coaches/visiting schools to try to narrow things down. The Ivy's who the rule was really created for would have had a year of high school grades to gauge things and the kids would have had a season of high school play which was the complaint all along - that the early commits had not played a season of high school yet. This does nothing but cause more issues and takes the parents out of much of the process.



<world's smallest violin . . .>


Hey violin whiner , do you have any older kid who had to get into college the "regular" way? Do you know how HARD that is and how stressful junior is? Plus senior year waiting to hear from your dream school?
My 9th grader already knows what major she wants to study and what type of school. A 15/16 year old can make this decision. The 8th graders NO. To pull the rug out form under the 2020's who were close to verbals or would be after this summer and fall circuit is ridiculous.


Why yes, I do have a son who is in his Junior year of college, and yes he got in the "regular way" . . . so, again, <world's smallest violin - encore!>
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Many coaches ask their committed players to attend. My daughters college coach does.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


This is just a question and not meant as a dig.

If your son is committed, why is he going to prospect camps? Seems like a waste of time and distracts coaches from other non-committed players.
that answer could be two fold...one the kid and parents just want to attend the camps to say that they already are committed to the school and feel super special.. the other is simply why not? Kids that are committed are excited about their school choice and any opportunity to get there and see the school, coaches and perhaps other committed players is exciting.
Personally, I think it's fine and other uncommitted kids should be ok with that, because they can see how they stack up..
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What was supposed to be "the" recruiting summer for rising sophomores has now just turned into 3 more years of BS showcase tournaments and college camps. So now the kids have basically the fall and summer before senior year to try and figure out where to go. And if the coaches can't even speak with a PSA at their own camp onsite then why bother going? If anyone thinks this will let kids be kids and not play in every club tournament they are fooling themselves. And for the ones who say " they haven't even played a high school game yet " get real most high school lacrosse teams suck and have coaches who are teachers who have no idea what they are doing. This rule if had to be put in should have started with the 2021 class. Changing the date to effective immediately instead of Aug 1st was very back-handed.
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Beside the 200 players this effects. This will be good for the players that play youth lacrosse and HS lacrosse.

Maybe some sanity will come to all these rising 8th, 9th and 10th grade prospect camps..elite camps..The epedemic of holding your child back ( not sure if that will stop)..Elite youth leagues starting at 4th grade.. And some sanity to some of the clubs and their influence on the youth under 9th grade. High School should become as important as your club now..maybe more for some players.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.


This is just a question and not meant as a dig.

If your son is committed, why is he going to prospect camps? Seems like a waste of time and distracts coaches from other non-committed players.
that answer could be two fold...one the kid and parents just want to attend the camps to say that they already are committed to the school and feel super special.. the other is simply why not? Kids that are committed are excited about their school choice and any opportunity to get there and see the school, coaches and perhaps other committed players is exciting.
Personally, I think it's fine and other uncommitted kids should be ok with that, because they can see how they stack up..



I would consult the NCAA prior to talking to a coach regardless if they are committed or not. Better to be safe than sorry.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yes we have 4 kids and let me tell you they know exactly what they want to do in 8th grade. Give me a break. This early recruiting BS was being driven by 1.lunatic parents, 2.lunatic coaches. 3. Thieving club directors and then 4.the players themselves.

This is a smart decision on many fronts. The best kids will still get theirs, but it gives everyone else time to fine tune their game, work on their grades and have a clue on where and what they want to study. Stop with the BS that 8th and 9th graders know what path they want. Plus it takes a lot more guess work out for coaches tying up bad money on a hot 9th grader who is passed by better players in HS. Money is actually going to go to the best players now.

Don't lose sight of the facts people- less than 2% of HS athletes get athletic scholarship money. Less than 50% play all 4 years. 37% of kids transfer once in college and of those 37%, 42% transfer a 2nd time. If you slow down the process you have a much better chance of getting it right on all counts


With all due respect, 4 kids does not make you an expert. I have one still undecided about his future at 20, two who dabble but my 15 going on 16 is fully aware of what he wants to do and should be afforded that opportunity. If yours are not there yet, then you keep them undecided/uncommitted and be the parent but if my 16 knows what he wants to do and it is a good plan approved by us as his parents, then he should be able to carry out that plan. This is not going to make kids who have their goals be kids anymore than it will force kids who are not sure, hit the books or the wall more. Each individual is different and no amount of legislation will change that-naive to think that NCAA did this for the kids. It was to benefit a group of college coaches who could not compete.


This post is 100% accurate!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question????? What about all the college coaches that are now coaching with club teams. Are they recruiting??? College Coaches whose kids that play on club teams. Conversations with parents/kids on sidelines OK???

This was a dumb, un-American rule that is supposed to be enforced by a corrupt NCAA. Lets see which teams get hurt by some NCAA sanction??? My guess....not any of the biggest early recruiting schools whose coaches talked out of both sides of their mouth.



Un-American? Really? It's lacrosse, not the degradation of the free world. Put it in perspective please. You knew this was coming, did you do anything? Consult a lawyer? File a class action lawsuit with all the others? Any attempt to use the American system to block what you call un-American, or just world class whining on BOTC?


Degradation of the free world ??? Your a jack-a$$. Class action suit....your a bigger Jack-a$$. This takes away the free market and is a non-enforceable rule. No whining, just my opinion. A parent/kid should be able to talk to a coach and decide whenever they want and decide on a college when they want to not when the NCAA decides they can. I don't get all the complaining about early recruiting. Some parents/kids commit early....some don't, So what. The NCAA, which is corrupt, is now deciding when your kid can talk/correspond with a coach etc. Tell me how they are going to enforce this rule??? Consequences are
now we will have more backdoor deals. Sorry Dumb rule.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Beside the 200 players this effects. This will be good for the players that play youth lacrosse and HS lacrosse.

Maybe some sanity will come to all these rising 8th, 9th and 10th grade prospect camps..elite camps..The epedemic of holding your child back ( not sure if that will stop)..Elite youth leagues starting at 4th grade.. And some sanity to some of the clubs and their influence on the youth under 9th grade. High School should become as important as your club now..maybe more for some players.


That will never happen in the real world. High school teams will never be as important now that there are clubs. With the exception of the private schools who gear themselves to lax and the high schools lucky enough to draw from areas not in the private school backyards with a concentration of good players, this thought is unrealistic. The majority of high school programs are community kids playing together with a teacher as the coach. The elite players play on their high school teams for various reasons but know their club is where they will be seen and will make them better players.
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It doesn't matter if your son has a verbal. Sept 1 Jr. year for contact.
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Kids can email coaches but coaches are not allowed to read the emails.


That's why I just told my daughter to put down, "Camp payment mailing address" as the subject in her e-mails to the coaches.



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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Waiting for all the liberals to blame trump for this injustice. Let's start protesting


What are they going to occupy?
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[quote=Anonymous]Kids can email coaches but coaches are not allowed to read the emails.


That's why I just told my daughter to put down, "Camp payment mailing address" as the subject in her e-mails to the coaches.

Coaches can read the emails-they just can not respond with anything recruiting specific which is no different than before.




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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Many coaches ask their committed players to attend. My daughters college coach does.


LOL. If your kid currently has a verbal and no NLI - you should be making plans to attend that prospect camp and plan on dominating.
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The tipping point with this passing was probably when clubs, parents and college coaches showed they did not have the good sense to stop early recruitment at 9th grade. No matter how talented a player is, there is no reason he/she needs to be deciding on college as a middle schooler, except that the club directors and parents are in a race for bragging rights. The insane actions of some have now resulted in restrictions for a larger group. Freshman year and even sophomore year is plenty early to begin the recruiting process. To the person who is about to comment that I'm just jealous my kid was not good enough to be recruited early - I have a 2020 who verbally committed a few months ago.
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Don't lose sight of the facts people- less than 2% of HS athletes get athletic scholarship money. Less than 50% play all 4 years. 37% of kids transfer once in college and of those 37%, 42% transfer a 2nd time. If you slow down the process you have a much better chance of getting it right on all counts[/quote]

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
2020s that are already committed are not affected by the rule change. They can still communicate with their coach by phone since the recruiting conversation has already taken place. They just can't visit until Jr year. This is what my committed sons coach told him. They also can talk at prospect camps held at the school.



This is completely wrong. Your 2020 verbal committment means nothing to the NCAA . Same rules apply to all 2020 kids .


THIS is true - rule means no further contact, comitted or not...you are still a PSA (prospective student athlete) in the eyes on the NCAA

If OP was correct, everyone would say "we've had a conversation (wink wink) so we can keep talking"...nope...
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question????? What about all the college coaches that are now coaching with club teams. Are they recruiting??? College Coaches whose kids that play on club teams. Conversations with parents/kids on sidelines OK???

This was a dumb, un-American rule that is supposed to be enforced by a corrupt NCAA. Lets see which teams get hurt by some NCAA sanction??? My guess....not any of the biggest early recruiting schools whose coaches talked out of both sides of their mouth.



Un-American? Really? It's lacrosse, not the degradation of the free world. Put it in perspective please. You knew this was coming, did you do anything? Consult a lawyer? File a class action lawsuit with all the others? Any attempt to use the American system to block what you call un-American, or just world class whining on BOTC?


Degradation of the free world ??? Your a jack-a$$. Class action suit....your a bigger Jack-a$$. This takes away the free market and is a non-enforceable rule. No whining, just my opinion. A parent/kid should be able to talk to a coach and decide whenever they want and decide on a college when they want to not when the NCAA decides they can. I don't get all the complaining about early recruiting. Some parents/kids commit early....some don't, So what. The NCAA, which is corrupt, is now deciding when your kid can talk/correspond with a coach etc. Tell me how they are going to enforce this rule??? Consequences are
now we will have more backdoor deals. Sorry Dumb rule.



Wow awfully hostile, didn't realize I called you names. Why don't you and your son go cry this out together! Freaking [lacrosse]
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous
Don't lose sight of the facts people- less than 2% of HS athletes get athletic scholarship money. Less than 50% play all 4 years. 37% of kids transfer once in college and of those 37%, 42% transfer a 2nd time. If you slow down the process you have a much better chance of getting it right on all counts


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While that sounds like common sense I would not be so sure . You are using statistics to try and make a point but you have no idea if the early recruits fair any better or not with those numbers. Obviously the 2% number is completely off with early recruits as most likely are the rest of the numbers.
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Many coaches ask their committed players to attend. My daughters college coach does.


LOL. If your kid currently has a verbal and no NLI - you should be making plans to attend that prospect camp and plan on dominating.

The jealousy of committed kids never ceases to amaze me. Coaches don't renege on verbal commitments unless a kid doesn't meet their end of the bargain with grades/test scores or does something really stupid where they get in trouble. Even in most situations where coaches leave the school or the committed kid gets injured, the verbal commitment has a very strong history of staying in tact. To say otherwise is B.S. otherwise show proof of several examples.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So does this new rule now lessen the importance of overpriced clubs that hype college contacts and early "looks" before high school?

No official direct recruiting contact September 1 or Junior year.

This rule promotes players (and parents) to mature prior to making a decision where they are going to spend the next 4 years. I guess it also stops overbearing parents from focusing on early "verbal" commitments rather then the correct commitment. Now they have to wait a little while to buy the sweatshirt.

Since this rule is applied to everyone why is it a bad thing?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question????? What about all the college coaches that are now coaching with club teams. Are they recruiting??? College Coaches whose kids that play on club teams. Conversations with parents/kids on sidelines OK???

This was a dumb, un-American rule that is supposed to be enforced by a corrupt NCAA. Lets see which teams get hurt by some NCAA sanction??? My guess....not any of the biggest early recruiting schools whose coaches talked out of both sides of their mouth.



Un-American? Really? It's lacrosse, not the degradation of the free world. Put it in perspective please. You knew this was coming, did you do anything? Consult a lawyer? File a class action lawsuit with all the others? Any attempt to use the American system to block what you call un-American, or just world class whining on BOTC?


Degradation of the free world ??? Your a jack-a$$. Class action suit....your a bigger Jack-a$$. This takes away the free market and is a non-enforceable rule. No whining, just my opinion. A parent/kid should be able to talk to a coach and decide whenever they want and decide on a college when they want to not when the NCAA decides they can. I don't get all the complaining about early recruiting. Some parents/kids commit early....some don't, So what. The NCAA, which is corrupt, is now deciding when your kid can talk/correspond with a coach etc. Tell me how they are going to enforce this rule??? Consequences are
now we will have more backdoor deals. Sorry Dumb rule.




Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So by your thinking it also would be alright to sign with an agent (other sports), receive $ while on scholarship, ect...because who is the NCAA to tell you what you can do. Your logic is moronic. Accept the rule and move on. It's not the end of the world. And it makes sense.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The tipping point with this passing was probably when clubs, parents and college coaches showed they did not have the good sense to stop early recruitment at 9th grade. No matter how talented a player is, there is no reason he/she needs to be deciding on college as a middle schooler, except that the club directors and parents are in a race for bragging rights. The insane actions of some have now resulted in restrictions for a larger group. Freshman year and even sophomore year is plenty early to begin the recruiting process. To the person who is about to comment that I'm just jealous my kid was not good enough to be recruited early - I have a 2020 who verbally committed a few months ago.


Sorry disagree. Don't understand why its anybodys business when a parent/student commits. Some commit early and some don't. The vast majority commit 10th-11th grade. But because some jealous/uninformed people extolled the negatives of early commits we have the NCAA determining when parents/kids can talk to coaches. So why the need for a rule that is virtually un-enforceable.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So by your thinking it also would be alright to sign with an agent (other sports), receive $ while on scholarship, ect...because who is the NCAA to tell you what you can do. Your logic is moronic. Accept the rule and move on. It's not the end of the world. And it makes sense.


That's the best analogy you can make. Jeez.....now I know why a lefty lemming like you would support the NCAA taking your rights away as a parent and/or student.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So does this new rule now lessen the importance of overpriced clubs that hype college contacts and early "looks" before high school?

No official direct recruiting contact September 1 or Junior year.

This rule promotes players (and parents) to mature prior to making a decision where they are going to spend the next 4 years. I guess it also stops overbearing parents from focusing on early "verbal" commitments rather then the correct commitment. Now they have to wait a little while to buy the sweatshirt.

Since this rule is applied to everyone why is it a bad thing?


The rule is not bad, the way they told everyone you will have to August to get your ducks in a row, then sucker punched everyone including all the college coaches is what is very wrong here.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So by your thinking it also would be alright to sign with an agent (other sports), receive $ while on scholarship, ect...because who is the NCAA to tell you what you can do. Your logic is moronic. Accept the rule and move on. It's not the end of the world. And it makes sense.

but... we need to charge parents excess club fees to "say" that we are in talks with colleges on their behalf.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
IMLCA just issued a statement confirmed by the NCAA that any third party used to circumvent the new rules on contacting PSAs before the new date is a violation. That includes to make a verbal commitment.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The tipping point with this passing was probably when clubs, parents and college coaches showed they did not have the good sense to stop early recruitment at 9th grade. No matter how talented a player is, there is no reason he/she needs to be deciding on college as a middle schooler, except that the club directors and parents are in a race for bragging rights. The insane actions of some have now resulted in restrictions for a larger group. Freshman year and even sophomore year is plenty early to begin the recruiting process. To the person who is about to comment that I'm just jealous my kid was not good enough to be recruited early - I have a 2020 who verbally committed a few months ago.


Sorry disagree. Don't understand why its anybodys business when a parent/student commits. Some commit early and some don't. The vast majority commit 10th-11th grade. But because some jealous/uninformed people extolled the negatives of early commits we have the NCAA determining when parents/kids can talk to coaches. So why the need for a rule that is virtually un-enforceable.


It is needed because extreme ER is not in the best interest of most kids or the culture of youth sports. What is the disadvantage of a super star 7th or 8th grader waiting until high school to begin recruiting? Are you afraid other kids will catch up to your early bloomer or reclassified kid and he will no longer stand out as much? Personally, I would have preferred that clubs, parents and college coaches showed some common sense so the NCAA didn't feel the need to step in to pass special rules for lacrosse - let parents and their high schoolers decide when they are ready to begin the recruiting process - but it was needed given the direction things were continuing to go.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Beside the 200 players this effects. This will be good for the players that play youth lacrosse and HS lacrosse.

Maybe some sanity will come to all these rising 8th, 9th and 10th grade prospect camps..elite camps..The epedemic of holding your child back ( not sure if that will stop)..Elite youth leagues starting at 4th grade.. And some sanity to some of the clubs and their influence on the youth under 9th grade. High School should become as important as your club now..maybe more for some players.


That will never happen in the real world. High school teams will never be as important now that there are clubs. With the exception of the private schools who gear themselves to lax and the high schools lucky enough to draw from areas not in the private school backyards with a concentration of good players, this thought is unrealistic. The majority of high school programs are community kids playing together with a teacher as the coach. The elite players play on their high school teams for various reasons but know their club is where they will be seen and will make them better players.


This is exactly how our girls high school team is. We have a few club players, one commit and then girls who only play lax during this season and a coach that never played in college. You can't compare this to our club team expereince, no way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Beside the 200 players this effects. This will be good for the players that play youth lacrosse and HS lacrosse.

Maybe some sanity will come to all these rising 8th, 9th and 10th grade prospect camps..elite camps..The epedemic of holding your child back ( not sure if that will stop)..Elite youth leagues starting at 4th grade.. And some sanity to some of the clubs and their influence on the youth under 9th grade. High School should become as important as your club now..maybe more for some players.


How is this good for youth and high school players? The players on our high school lacrosse team that aren't tying to play in college could care less when you commit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kids can email coaches but coaches are not allowed to read the emails.


That's why I just told my daughter to put down, "Camp payment mailing address" as the subject in her e-mails to the coaches.





HAHAHAH!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So by your thinking it also would be alright to sign with an agent (other sports), receive $ while on scholarship, ect...because who is the NCAA to tell you what you can do. Your logic is moronic. Accept the rule and move on. It's not the end of the world. And it makes sense.


That's the best analogy you can make. Jeez.....now I know why a lefty lemming like you would support the NCAA taking your rights away as a parent and/or student.


No rights were taken away - a limit has been placed on the 'age' when that right can be executed, and it is a restriction on both parties. If you want to criticize the NCAA, there are plenty of other examples where their rules truly do take away SA rights, but this is not one of them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The coaches wanted it. Stop making it a small percentage of parents, that's not the case. Coaches were tired of dealing with children and overbearing parents.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Put that money towards SAT and ACT prep classes now....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Oh No. Cancel Classes. Offer Quiet rooms. Maybe bring in dogs for the kids to pet and help cope with this ruling. Dopes. Nothing wrong with the new rule. Now maybe all you parents that held your kid back a grade so he can look like a stud at ages 11/12 playing against 8/9/10yr olds will now petition the school to let your son back in to his correct grade so he can have contact with a college sooner. Morons!!!!HaHaHa
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The tipping point with this passing was probably when clubs, parents and college coaches showed they did not have the good sense to stop early recruitment at 9th grade. No matter how talented a player is, there is no reason he/she needs to be deciding on college as a middle schooler, except that the club directors and parents are in a race for bragging rights. The insane actions of some have now resulted in restrictions for a larger group. Freshman year and even sophomore year is plenty early to begin the recruiting process. To the person who is about to comment that I'm just jealous my kid was not good enough to be recruited early - I have a 2020 who verbally committed a few months ago.


Sorry disagree. Don't understand why its anybodys business when a parent/student commits. Some commit early and some don't. The vast majority commit 10th-11th grade. But because some jealous/uninformed people extolled the negatives of early commits we have the NCAA determining when parents/kids can talk to coaches. So why the need for a rule that is virtually un-enforceable.


It is needed because extreme ER is not in the best interest of most kids or the culture of youth sports. What is the disadvantage of a super star 7th or 8th grader waiting until high school to begin recruiting? Are you afraid other kids will catch up to your early bloomer or reclassified kid and he will no longer stand out as much? Personally, I would have preferred that clubs, parents and college coaches showed some common sense so the NCAA didn't feel the need to step in to pass special rules for lacrosse - let parents and their high schoolers decide when they are ready to begin the recruiting process - but it was needed given the direction things were continuing to go.


Again...sorry disagree. You are Hoping that the NCAA takes care of the concerns YOU have. Why do you feel a parent/student of an 8th/9th grader cant decide where they want to go to school. Its Their decision. They can say no. If they say yes and if they make a bad decision ....so be it. Student athletes transfer etc all the time. Most D1 starting quarterbacks play at different schools than they originally committed to. I don't get how you think an agency (NCAA) or govt should regulate when the decision a parent/student/athlete can decide where to go to college. As far as reclass....again who cares. They will either prove to be a good player or not. Too many people looking over their shoulder at others and making judgements about other parents/students/athletes decisions. Finally it is un-enforceable.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The IWLCA has removed a statement from their twitter account and website where they stated (and I paraphrase) "we kept the immediate implementation plan quiet so that there would not be a stampede of commitments." Did anyone else see it before it was scrubbed or is this all just an insane dream?

I do not care for the way they handled the implementation.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Are 2020 showcases even relevant any more this year? Should I save my money and not enroll my son until next year? Any help is appreciated.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Oh No. Cancel Classes. Offer Quiet rooms. Maybe bring in dogs for the kids to pet and help cope with this ruling. Dopes. Nothing wrong with the new rule. Now maybe all you parents that held your kid back a grade so he can look like a stud at ages 11/12 playing against 8/9/10yr olds will now petition the school to let your son back in to his correct grade so he can have contact with a college sooner. Morons!!!!HaHaHa


Yeah, I was pissed about the agent rule. wth Who are you to say I cant!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
All 2020's and younger families--go on a relaxing vacation this summer as a family for a change and forget about early commitments.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The tipping point with this passing was probably when clubs, parents and college coaches showed they did not have the good sense to stop early recruitment at 9th grade. No matter how talented a player is, there is no reason he/she needs to be deciding on college as a middle schooler, except that the club directors and parents are in a race for bragging rights. The insane actions of some have now resulted in restrictions for a larger group. Freshman year and even sophomore year is plenty early to begin the recruiting process. To the person who is about to comment that I'm just jealous my kid was not good enough to be recruited early - I have a 2020 who verbally committed a few months ago.


Sorry disagree. Don't understand why its anybodys business when a parent/student commits. Some commit early and some don't. The vast majority commit 10th-11th grade. But because some jealous/uninformed people extolled the negatives of early commits we have the NCAA determining when parents/kids can talk to coaches. So why the need for a rule that is virtually un-enforceable.


It is needed because extreme ER is not in the best interest of most kids or the culture of youth sports. What is the disadvantage of a super star 7th or 8th grader waiting until high school to begin recruiting? Are you afraid other kids will catch up to your early bloomer or reclassified kid and he will no longer stand out as much? Personally, I would have preferred that clubs, parents and college coaches showed some common sense so the NCAA didn't feel the need to step in to pass special rules for lacrosse - let parents and their high schoolers decide when they are ready to begin the recruiting process - but it was needed given the direction things were continuing to go.


Again...sorry disagree. You are Hoping that the NCAA takes care of the concerns YOU have. Why do you feel a parent/student of an 8th/9th grader cant decide where they want to go to school. Its Their decision. They can say no. If they say yes and if they make a bad decision ....so be it. Student athletes transfer etc all the time. Most D1 starting quarterbacks play at different schools than they originally committed to. I don't get how you think an agency (NCAA) or govt should regulate when the decision a parent/student/athlete can decide where to go to college. As far as reclass....again who cares. They will either prove to be a good player or not. Too many people looking over their shoulder at others and making judgements about other parents/students/athletes decisions. Finally it is un-enforceable.



On the flip side your son or daughter is not entitled to early commitment to college just because he/she is a good lacrosse player any more the some 9th grader who gets straight As with AP classes buts sucks at sports. ER poisons the whole sport down to youth. Colleges have the right to regulate when and how student athletes are admitted.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
VULTURES!!!!!!!

fl$ Parent,

This month, the NCAA Division I Council passed a legislation that prohibits college coaches from communicating with prospective student-athletes until September 1st of their Junior year in High School. While the exact date is still unclear, the NCAA Council plans on making this legislation effective immediately. 

Now, how does this legislation impact your recruiting process? While Division I college coaches can't communicate with you about recruiting until September 1st of your Junior year, they can still coach you up at a camp.

*****In fact, camps, prospect days, showcases, and clinics will become great resources for players going through the recruiting process to get in front of college coaches. On the flip side, these camps will be great for college coaches to recruit, learn about specific players, and develop athletes who could potentially be contacted after September 1st of their junior years.

So, if you're a rising freshmen, sophomore, or junior, continue playing for your High School team, club team, attend prospect days, and check-out some of the great showcases that are out there. This will be your opportunity to build a relationship, learn from, and be seen by Division I college coaches this Spring & Summer! 

To learn more about the showcase camps that fl$ Lacrosse runs, be sure to click the Video Thumbnails below

Sincerely,

The fl$ Lacrosse Team who have absolutely no agenda or financial gain in writing this to you. We are just looking out for your kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Save the money on the show cases. Next year as a rising 11th grader, go to the prospect camps of your child's choice. Best bang for the buck.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
save your money. Go to the prospect camps . Bigger bang for the buck, if your kid is a stud it will show.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Beside the 200 players this effects. This will be good for the players that play youth lacrosse and HS lacrosse.

Maybe some sanity will come to all these rising 8th, 9th and 10th grade prospect camps..elite camps..The epedemic of holding your child back ( not sure if that will stop)..Elite youth leagues starting at 4th grade.. And some sanity to some of the clubs and their influence on the youth under 9th grade. High School should become as important as your club now..maybe more for some players.


How is this good for youth and high school players? The players on our high school lacrosse team that aren't tying to play in college could care less when you commit.



Really?? Someone needs to explain this to you??! This rule has nothing to do with NON-PSAs, nor should it!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All 2020's and younger families--go on a relaxing vacation this summer as a family for a change and forget about early commitments.


Still need to do the same thing that they are doing now. Coaches will still be evaluating 2020's at the best events this Summer and into next year, so that the players are lined up going into Sept. 1 Junior year. It's not like the coaching staffs are going to start looking at players that year for the first time. Going to be a bunch of winks all throughout the year, then a flurry of calls to lock in players as soon as the bell rings. Same thing for remaining 2019's this Summer, without the school year in between. If anything, kids are going to work even harder now. Kids that love the game will just do what they are supposed to do and leave all the bs to the obsessive parents.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All 2020's and younger families--go on a relaxing vacation this summer as a family for a change and forget about early commitments.


Still need to do the same thing that they are doing now. Coaches will still be evaluating 2020's at the best events this Summer and into next year, so that the players are lined up going into Sept. 1 Junior year. It's not like the coaching staffs are going to start looking at players that year for the first time. Going to be a bunch of winks all throughout the year, then a flurry of calls to lock in players as soon as the bell rings. Same thing for remaining 2019's this Summer, without the school year in between. If anything, kids are going to work even harder now. Kids that love the game will just do what they are supposed to do and leave all the bs to the obsessive parents.


1. This rule was implemented in a very unsavory and underhanded way that directly impacted the 2020/2021 classes most. That is a fact not an opinion.
2. This rule only applies to lacrosse. Other sports can continue with early recruiting, which really makes lacrosse look ridiculous IMO (just ask my non-lacrosse friends).
3. This will make club lacrosse extremely important for rising freshman and sophomores Club coaches can still give "evaluative" feedback to college coaches. In other words, "players X, Y, and Z are very strong players," i.e. I know these kids are interested in your program and they are my best players. No matter how much you police, certain words, phrases, and actions are going to indicate levels of interest on both sides. A recruiting shorthand/subtext will develop that is within the letter of the law, but outside its intent.
4. Prospect camps rising junior year will be where decisions are made for the next fall. Again, the letter of the law will be followed, but actions/feedback from coaches, either direct or through club coaches will develop a whole new vocabulary.
5. Calls will go out first day of junior year. The player has already visited the school and knows the personality of the coach. An unofficial visit will be made and a commitment secured and announcements made.

Will it go like that? I don't know but it's a very possible scenario that has really fixed nothing but early social media postings. Maybe I'm just cynical. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are 2020 showcases even relevant any more this year? Should I save my money and not enroll my son until next year? Any help is appreciated.


100 % college coaches will be evaluating 2020 ' s this summer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The IWLCA has removed a statement from their twitter account and website where they stated (and I paraphrase) "we kept the immediate implementation plan quiet so that there would not be a stampede of commitments." Did anyone else see it before it was scrubbed or is this all just an insane dream?

I do not care for the way they handled the implementation.


YES i saw that!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


No one says you have to go. If you couldn't see this coming from a mile away...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My son, 2020 spoke to his coach today. Commitments are in place and there are loopholes all over. A joke!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are 2020 showcases even relevant any more this year? Should I save my money and not enroll my son until next year? Any help is appreciated.


100 % college coaches will be evaluating 2020 ' s this summer.


Makes sense since they can watch and evaluate without feeling pressure to grab a kid before someone else does, that comes next year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


No one says you have to go. If you couldn't see this coming from a mile away...


OP. 2020 boys commit. My point is that the IWLCA and US Lacrosse messed this up big time, at the bequest of Duke's Women and Penn's Men's coaches. Good thing neither of them have recruited early. . .oh, wait. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
That is from Duke MEN'S Lacrosse....not women's....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That is from Duke MEN'S Lacrosse....not women's....


True, but Lars Kiel, Duke women's asst coach liked the tweet. They - meaning all lax coaches - are in it together. The only way to interact with coaches is by paying to play at camps. The money trail leads straight to the college coach's pocket. Nicely done IWLCA, IMLCA and NCAA. The rich get richer….

And they have audacity to say this was done for the kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Disgusting. Not too opportunistic. Predatory.

Wink wink
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


And coincidentally a new coaches accreditation program is being rolled out by IWLCA to coincide with the new rules. For the benefit of the kids? Nothing could be further from the truth. A small group of college coaches trying to influence recruiting with uS Lacrosse helping them beat the drum. Sad.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
That is from Duke MEN'S Lacrosse....not women's....


True, but Lars Kiel, Duke women's asst coach liked the tweet. They - meaning all lax coaches - are in it together. The only way to interact with coaches is by paying to play at camps. The money trail leads straight to the college coach's pocket. Nicely done IWLCA, IMLCA and NCAA. The rich get richer….

And they have audacity to say this was done for the kids.


Rather pay a few hundred to go see campus, get some training and looks and input from a college coach and his staff...Than pay thousands upon thousands to some club constantly. Play HS and go to college camp...Lot easier than the current garbage

You moaners club directors seeing your money pie go away???
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All 2020's and younger families--go on a relaxing vacation this summer as a family for a change and forget about early commitments.


Still need to do the same thing that they are doing now. Coaches will still be evaluating 2020's at the best events this Summer and into next year, so that the players are lined up going into Sept. 1 Junior year. It's not like the coaching staffs are going to start looking at players that year for the first time. Going to be a bunch of winks all throughout the year, then a flurry of calls to lock in players as soon as the bell rings. Same thing for remaining 2019's this Summer, without the school year in between. If anything, kids are going to work even harder now. Kids that love the game will just do what they are supposed to do and leave all the bs to the obsessive parents.


1. This rule was implemented in a very unsavory and underhanded way that directly impacted the 2020/2021 classes most. That is a fact not an opinion.
2. This rule only applies to lacrosse. Other sports can continue with early recruiting, which really makes lacrosse look ridiculous IMO (just ask my non-lacrosse friends).
3. This will make club lacrosse extremely important for rising freshman and sophomores Club coaches can still give "evaluative" feedback to college coaches. In other words, "players X, Y, and Z are very strong players," i.e. I know these kids are interested in your program and they are my best players. No matter how much you police, certain words, phrases, and actions are going to indicate levels of interest on both sides. A recruiting shorthand/subtext will develop that is within the letter of the law, but outside its intent.
4. Prospect camps rising junior year will be where decisions are made for the next fall. Again, the letter of the law will be followed, but actions/feedback from coaches, either direct or through club coaches will develop a whole new vocabulary.
5. Calls will go out first day of junior year. The player has already visited the school and knows the personality of the coach. An unofficial visit will be made and a commitment secured and announcements made.

Will it go like that? I don't know but it's a very possible scenario that has really fixed nothing but early social media postings. Maybe I'm just cynical. . .
Will be a massive Title IX Lawsuit coming. So much for equal opportunity. Calling it now
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What about a kid sending grades to coaches they can't take a peak. Come on now, who is governing and policing this. Stinks for 2019 that was close to committing, worked their tale off the last 3 qts to get that 3.5 3.7 or 4.0 now they can't finalize things. But 2019's just have 4/5 months.. 2020's bought into the hype the last 3/4 years and are now deflated.. 2021, really you are worried don't be your not even in HS. What you've spent thousands to get this point, if your child is that good you won't need to worry and I think you will be fine.

As coaches have been saying come to my camp, enjoy those days do 3/4 tournaments and 2 school camps. Or better yet the conferences will have camps,with the coaches there. Do those.

The only one really hurting are the schools who have big 2020 commits. ND Duke IVY's will be poaching hard. By 2020 Stanford UCONN Fordham Columbia Arizona and Arizona St FSU Bama Clemson will switch from club to D1 programs, more schools to poach players.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You really think all those schools are switching to D1. Is that wishful thinking or is it based on some facts?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All 2020's and younger families--go on a relaxing vacation this summer as a family for a change and forget about early commitments.


Still need to do the same thing that they are doing now. Coaches will still be evaluating 2020's at the best events this Summer and into next year, so that the players are lined up going into Sept. 1 Junior year. It's not like the coaching staffs are going to start looking at players that year for the first time. Going to be a bunch of winks all throughout the year, then a flurry of calls to lock in players as soon as the bell rings. Same thing for remaining 2019's this Summer, without the school year in between. If anything, kids are going to work even harder now. Kids that love the game will just do what they are supposed to do and leave all the bs to the obsessive parents.


1. This rule was implemented in a very unsavory and underhanded way that directly impacted the 2020/2021 classes most. That is a fact not an opinion.
2. This rule only applies to lacrosse. Other sports can continue with early recruiting, which really makes lacrosse look ridiculous IMO (just ask my non-lacrosse friends).
3. This will make club lacrosse extremely important for rising freshman and sophomores Club coaches can still give "evaluative" feedback to college coaches. In other words, "players X, Y, and Z are very strong players," i.e. I know these kids are interested in your program and they are my best players. No matter how much you police, certain words, phrases, and actions are going to indicate levels of interest on both sides. A recruiting shorthand/subtext will develop that is within the letter of the law, but outside its intent.
4. Prospect camps rising junior year will be where decisions are made for the next fall. Again, the letter of the law will be followed, but actions/feedback from coaches, either direct or through club coaches will develop a whole new vocabulary.
5. Calls will go out first day of junior year. The player has already visited the school and knows the personality of the coach. An unofficial visit will be made and a commitment secured and announcements made.

Will it go like that? I don't know but it's a very possible scenario that has really fixed nothing but early social media postings. Maybe I'm just cynical. . .
Will be a massive Title IX Lawsuit coming. So much for equal opportunity. Calling it now


Actually, I thought the Title IX angle was bogus, but it could have some merit (note, I'm not an attorney). It provides: Other benefits: Title IX requires the equal treatment of female and male student-athletes in the provisions of: (a) equipment and supplies; (b) scheduling of games and practice times; (c) travel and daily allowance/per diem; (d) access to tutoring; (e) coaching, (f) locker rooms, practice and competitive facilities; (g) medical and training facilities and services; (h) housing and dining facilities and services; (i) publicity and promotions; (j) support services and (k) recruitment of student-athletes.

And: Under Title IX there are no sport exclusions or exceptions. Individual participation opportunities (number of student-athletes participating rather than number of sports) in all men's and women's sports are counted in determining whether an institution meets Title IX participation standards. The basic philosophical underpinning of Title IX is that there cannot be an economic justification for discrimination. The institution cannot maintain that there are revenue productions or other considerations that mandate that certain sports receive better treatment or participation opportunities than other sports.

So recruitment of PSAs and mandate that all sports must be treated equally. . .anyone out there an attorney?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You really think all those schools are switching to D1. Is that wishful thinking or is it based on some facts?


After the top 10 teams the sport is unwatchable. Not nearly enough talent that's why a top D2 or D3 team would be ranked in the top 40 of D1 its brutal. Yes - more big schools are coming on board so it reinforces the fact that everyone that wants to find a place to play can in college. Watch some games on TV and except for the goal scorers most all of our kids are interchangeable on these teams. I watch and im shocked at how bad the product is and im also shocked that my daughter could hang with lots of the girls and as a realist I know my daughters game is quite flawed
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Did any see Duke's coach Kimel's video IWLCA posted about communication rules? It's on IWLCA twitter page...
If anyone watches it let me know what you think. Can the club coach relay to you what the college said if it's NOT about recruiting?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


And coincidentally a new coaches accreditation program is being rolled out by IWLCA to coincide with the new rules. For the benefit of the kids? Nothing could be further from the truth. A small group of college coaches trying to influence recruiting with uS Lacrosse helping them beat the drum. Sad.


RE: US Lacrosse......Tried registering my daughters for Lax for Cure Tournament. They require US Lacrosse membership. I sent an email to them explaining that I will not have daughters members of US Lacrosse since they are part and parcel of this dumb legislation. Still waiting for a reply. US Lacrosse is another org with its hand out taking money and providing ZERO for the players. Maybe we as consumers should do something about things and not just complain.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are 2020 showcases even relevant any more this year? Should I save my money and not enroll my son until next year? Any help is appreciated.



Not irrelevant. Coaches are still allowed to attend, just no communication. Trust me, they will still be on the sidelines because there will still be contact. It will all just be behind the scenes now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


And coincidentally a new coaches accreditation program is being rolled out by IWLCA to coincide with the new rules. For the benefit of the kids? Nothing could be further from the truth. A small group of college coaches trying to influence recruiting with uS Lacrosse helping them beat the drum. Sad.


RE: US Lacrosse......Tried registering my daughters for Lax for Cure Tournament. They require US Lacrosse membership. I sent an email to them explaining that I will not have daughters members of US Lacrosse since they are part and parcel of this dumb legislation. Still waiting for a reply. US Lacrosse is another org with its hand out taking money and providing ZERO for the players. Maybe we as consumers should do something about things and not just complain.


<eye roll>
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
If anyone has the contact us info for the Nike Elite 120 girl's event this summer, would you please reply with it?
Thank You
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Did any see Duke's coach Kimel's video IWLCA posted about communication rules? It's on IWLCA twitter page...
If anyone watches it let me know what you think. Can the club coach relay to you what the college said if it's NOT about recruiting?



NCAA can set rules that college coaches follow but they don't have any enforcement rights on what a club or HS coach communicates to a player right? Therefore one would think club coach can tell the player of the conversation. She said in video more clarification coming but it would seem that was is not OK is to communicate any type of offer - scholarship, admissions help, spot on team...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


And coincidentally a new coaches accreditation program is being rolled out by IWLCA to coincide with the new rules. For the benefit of the kids? Nothing could be further from the truth. A small group of college coaches trying to influence recruiting with uS Lacrosse helping them beat the drum. Sad.


RE: US Lacrosse......Tried registering my daughters for Lax for Cure Tournament. They require US Lacrosse membership. I sent an email to them explaining that I will not have daughters members of US Lacrosse since they are part and parcel of this dumb legislation. Still waiting for a reply. US Lacrosse is another org with its hand out taking money and providing ZERO for the players. Maybe we as consumers should do something about things and not just complain.


I stopped supporting US Lacrosse years ago, useless crooks. They only support their own very limited agenda. They should have required age verification years ago but basically ignored the issue. You can just make up a number when they require one.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
"New legislation means that a great way to have face-to-face contact with our coaches is by coming to Duke lax camp. dukelacrossecampforboys.com."

Leave it to entrepreneurial college coaches to immediately turn this change into something to drive more revenue in their direction.


To the IWLCA rep who's been on this site, explain to me how this is allowable? To advertise like this? Does the IWLCA condone this? Oh, wait, they do, BECAUSE IT ORIGINATED WITH DUKE'S WOMEN'S LACROSSE COACH!!! What a joke. Kudos to the IWLCA. . .job well done. . .not.


And coincidentally a new coaches accreditation program is being rolled out by IWLCA to coincide with the new rules. For the benefit of the kids? Nothing could be further from the truth. A small group of college coaches trying to influence recruiting with uS Lacrosse helping them beat the drum. Sad.


RE: US Lacrosse......Tried registering my daughters for Lax for Cure Tournament. They require US Lacrosse membership. I sent an email to them explaining that I will not have daughters members of US Lacrosse since they are part and parcel of this dumb legislation. Still waiting for a reply. US Lacrosse is another org with its hand out taking money and providing ZERO for the players. Maybe we as consumers should do something about things and not just complain.


I stopped supporting US Lacrosse years ago, useless crooks. They only support their own very limited agenda. They should have required age verification years ago but basically ignored the issue. You can just make up a number when they require one.


USL allows for some back end system integration to check valid (in force) numbers, so that may not always be true.
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Will it go like that? I don't know but it's a very possible scenario that has really fixed nothing but early social media postings. Maybe I'm just cynical. . .[/quote]Will be a massive Title IX Lawsuit coming. So much for equal opportunity. Calling it now
[/quote]

Actually, I thought the Title IX angle was bogus, but it could have some merit (note, I'm not an attorney). It provides: Other benefits: Title IX requires the equal treatment of female and male student-athletes in the provisions of: (a) equipment and supplies; (b) scheduling of games and practice times; (c) travel and daily allowance/per diem; (d) access to tutoring; (e) coaching, (f) locker rooms, practice and competitive facilities; (g) medical and training facilities and services; (h) housing and dining facilities and services; (i) publicity and promotions; (j) support services and (k) recruitment of student-athletes.

And: Under Title IX there are no sport exclusions or exceptions. Individual participation opportunities (number of student-athletes participating rather than number of sports) in all men's and women's sports are counted in determining whether an institution meets Title IX participation standards. The basic philosophical underpinning of Title IX is that there cannot be an economic justification for discrimination. The institution cannot maintain that there are revenue productions or other considerations that mandate that certain sports receive better treatment or participation opportunities than other sports.

So recruitment of PSAs and mandate that all sports must be treated equally. . .anyone out there an attorney? [/quote]

I'm an attorney but certainly don't specialize in Title IX. Regardless: the lacrosse rules apply equally to male and female recruits, so what complaint can there be about different treatment? There is none.

I think ambiguous wording in the new rule is to blame. The rule states that it applies to "Women's Basketball and Lacrosse", which could fairly be interpreted to mean "Women's basketball and Women's Lacrosse". However, I'm pretty sure they intended it to apply to "Women's Basketball and Men's and Women's Lacrosse". The multiple references to "his or her" support this (at least until the NCAA starts letting men who think they are women start playing women's basketball and women's lacrosse - how long until that happens is anyone's guess). Not sure why they didn't say "Lacrosse and Women's Basketball" - same number of words but without the ambiguity.

What about the difference between men's and women's basketball? Wrong forum, but it's not clear to me that women have a complaint. There is plenty of support for the proposition that the rules actually benefit women. It would be the men who might complain.
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Any end in sight for this wailing and crying over an NCAA rule that is signed and done?
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Title IX has been allowed to be exploited so beyond its original intent that it is anyone's guess as to how a party can use it to argue just about anything related to college in general, and college sports specifically!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Did any see Duke's coach Kimel's video IWLCA posted about communication rules? It's on IWLCA twitter page...
If anyone watches it let me know what you think. Can the club coach relay to you what the college said if it's NOT about recruiting?



NCAA can set rules that college coaches follow but they don't have any enforcement rights on what a club or HS coach communicates to a player right? Therefore one would think club coach can tell the player of the conversation. She said in video more clarification coming but it would seem that was is not OK is to communicate any type of offer - scholarship, admissions help, spot on team...


Yes, that's how i heard it. What needs clarification to me is CAN the club coach tell the PSA about their conversation? For example - susan is not what we're looking for, susan is at the top of our list ...etc so the parents and kids know if they should keep attending the same prospect days instead of throwing money away. You should know if you are on a coaches radar or not.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Any end in sight for this wailing and crying over an NCAA rule that is signed and done?

It seems to be the 2020/21 crowd doing most of the whining because mommy and daddy now have to wait a few extra months before they can start bragging on FB about
their little superstar committing to a school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Any end in sight for this wailing and crying over an NCAA rule that is signed and done?

It seems to be the 2020/21 crowd doing most of the whining because mommy and daddy now have to wait a few extra months before they can start bragging on FB about
their little superstar committing to a school.



Might be the truest post on this site! 8th an d9th graders cant even decide what clothes to wear let alone picking a college. Mom and Dad feel the need to boast about the verbal just like they boast about their trips to MD every weekend of the summer. The only one that got hurt in this process is parents egos!!

New rule levels the field for the schools and will ensure the most deserving kids get the most cash and the kids will actually know what a HS class and an SAT is and might even have an idea on a major or career as opposed to mom and dad who just want a pro lax player
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here



Reminds me of that Native American in the commercial with the tear running down his cheek because of the litter. Try accepting what you can't control and moving on to something different.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!


Um, better me careful there. My son actually IS committed, a 2020, and no contact is allowed. Everything's still in place as we knew ahead of time it would be. Our club coach confirmed immediately after the rule went into effect as he had spoken with the coach just prior to the vote on Friday (in which the NCAA screwed the pooch and made it immediate). If you're son is speaking with his coach, you're in violation of NCAA new regulations. But I have a feeling you're lying. So, which is it?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!


Um, better me careful there. My son actually IS committed, a 2020, and no contact is allowed. Everything's still in place as we knew ahead of time it would be. Our club coach confirmed immediately after the rule went into effect as he had spoken with the coach just prior to the vote on Friday (in which the NCAA screwed the pooch and made it immediate). If you're son is speaking with his coach, you're in violation of NCAA new regulations. But I have a feeling you're lying. So, which is it?


No lying here. Spoke to Coach today. It was agreed that there will be no further contact till Jr year, but an email schedule was set up where we will send grades etc. Maybe your sons coach didn't really want to solidify the commitment? No rule is official until it is adopted 4/26 in case you didn't know.
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I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!


Um, better me careful there. My son actually IS committed, a 2020, and no contact is allowed. Everything's still in place as we knew ahead of time it would be. Our club coach confirmed immediately after the rule went into effect as he had spoken with the coach just prior to the vote on Friday (in which the NCAA screwed the pooch and made it immediate). If you're son is speaking with his coach, you're in violation of NCAA new regulations. But I have a feeling you're lying. So, which is it?


No lying here. Spoke to Coach today. It was agreed that there will be no further contact till Jr year, but an email schedule was set up where we will send grades etc. Maybe your sons coach didn't really want to solidify the commitment? No rule is official until it is adopted 4/26 in case you didn't know.


I guess your son's future coach is really not interested in keeping his current job and therefore will not have to worry about honoring your verbal. This looks like it's going to be the first test of the rules enforcement.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!



^^^ Not very good at arguing a point - how does your comment contradict anything that was posted? Answer: It doesn't! Rather, you resorted to a vaguely disguised ad hominem attack, the typical MO of someone who can't make a real argument.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!


Um, better me careful there. My son actually IS committed, a 2020, and no contact is allowed. Everything's still in place as we knew ahead of time it would be. Our club coach confirmed immediately after the rule went into effect as he had spoken with the coach just prior to the vote on Friday (in which the NCAA screwed the pooch and made it immediate). If you're son is speaking with his coach, you're in violation of NCAA new regulations. But I have a feeling you're lying. So, which is it?


No lying here. Spoke to Coach today. It was agreed that there will be no further contact till Jr year, but an email schedule was set up where we will send grades etc. Maybe your sons coach didn't really want to solidify the commitment? No rule is official until it is adopted 4/26 in case you didn't know.

You are just flat out wrong about the rule being adopted as of 4/26. Do you read at all? Effective immediately after it was passed.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!


Um, better me careful there. My son actually IS committed, a 2020, and no contact is allowed. Everything's still in place as we knew ahead of time it would be. Our club coach confirmed immediately after the rule went into effect as he had spoken with the coach just prior to the vote on Friday (in which the NCAA screwed the pooch and made it immediate). If you're son is speaking with his coach, you're in violation of NCAA new regulations. But I have a feeling you're lying. So, which is it?


No lying here. Spoke to Coach today. It was agreed that there will be no further contact till Jr year, but an email schedule was set up where we will send grades etc. Maybe your sons coach didn't really want to solidify the commitment? No rule is official until it is adopted 4/26 in case you didn't know.

You are just flat out wrong about the rule being adopted as of 4/26. Do you read at all? Effective immediately after it was passed.



Well, I know of several 2020s that have spoken to their coaches this week. Guess this whole thing will be impossible to enforce!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The only thing that will change is the clubs and players won't announce the verbal anymore. Carry on.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
when are college football and basketball coaches men allowed to talk to PSA. i know the answer it it is way before their junior year of high school. so title ix might have some legs here. also college basketball men have long been known to talk to AAU coaches about PSA. AAU is like club coaches. does this have legs or am i just reaching here


Same attorney here: what's the harm to a 9th grade girl for having to wait to talk to a lacrosse coach, even if a 9th grade boy can freely talk to a football coach? The same number of women lacrosse players will eventually play on the team even if there is a delay in filling the spots. Same with a club coach as go between: it's just a delay, not a reduction in the number of female student athletes that will eventually play for the team.

I don't see any harm to any lacrosse player. No one promised you that if you sent your child to all of the ID camps and prospect camps that he or she would receive a verbal commitment. You were promised absolutely nothing anyway, and now you will receive absolutely nothing until Sept 1 of junior year.


You would love to believe that, wouldn't you dad who's son had no interest now, and still won't 2 years from now. My son already spoke with his coach, yes he answered the phone and said nothing will change. In addition, my son's phone will be ringing off the hook come the first day of Jr. year while yours......? This is all very dumb!


Um, better me careful there. My son actually IS committed, a 2020, and no contact is allowed. Everything's still in place as we knew ahead of time it would be. Our club coach confirmed immediately after the rule went into effect as he had spoken with the coach just prior to the vote on Friday (in which the NCAA screwed the pooch and made it immediate). If you're son is speaking with his coach, you're in violation of NCAA new regulations. But I have a feeling you're lying. So, which is it?


No lying here. Spoke to Coach today. It was agreed that there will be no further contact till Jr year, but an email schedule was set up where we will send grades etc. Maybe your sons coach didn't really want to solidify the commitment? No rule is official until it is adopted 4/26 in case you didn't know.

You are just flat out wrong about the rule being adopted as of 4/26. Do you read at all? Effective immediately after it was passed.



Too bad NCAA never posted anything about this. Only 3rd parties are saying what their interpretation is. How about something definitive directly from NCAA? Too much to ask?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!


Yep. US Lacrosse is so concerned about this while the age problem goes unchecked. Stenerson thinks this will somehow reenergize rec Lacrosse, I don't see that at all. As long as you have 14 year olds playing against 12 year olds youth Lacrosse is fundamentally broken at all levels.

Fixing the age problem will stop the holdback nonsense and level the playing field, potentially making early recruiting less useful.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Age enforcement would have been great! My 9th grade daughter is almost 2 years younger than some girls on our club team.
The IWLCA keeps posting , when will the NCAA put something out?!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Age enforcement would have been great! My 9th grade daughter is almost 2 years younger than some girls on our club team.
The IWLCA keeps posting , when will the NCAA put something out?!


NCAA? Never, not a problem for them. US Lacrosse claims to be the national governing body of Lacrosse. They say that they "primarily serve at the youth level" yet they look the other way on this one and keep collecting membership fees and donations.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!



While I fully agree that moving to an age-based governance is needed, the two issues are separate in that 'governance' is accomplished by different entities. The NCAA has no authority outside of membership institutions, which are all post-secondary. US lacrosse is where the age-based governance needs to happen. While the NCAA could have attempted to coordinate their rule change with a parallel age-based effort by USL, my guess is that they did not want to hitch their efforts to that wagon knowing full well that a failure on USL to implement that would have brought down their rule with it. the best that can be hoped for now, is that the NCAA rule pushes USL to more quickly move in the direction of an age-based system. Even then, organizations can buck that trend by not being dependent upon USL affiliation, but that will be determined by how what the masses choose to do in the face of such a USL change. If other more mature sports are the model (baseball, soccer, hockey), most will follow along.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Age enforcement would have been great! My 9th grade daughter is almost 2 years younger than some girls on our club team.
The IWLCA keeps posting , when will the NCAA put something out?!


I hear that my son plays with (and against) kids a grade lower and a year older
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!


Yep. US Lacrosse is so concerned about this while the age problem goes unchecked. Stenerson thinks this will somehow reenergize rec Lacrosse, I don't see that at all. As long as you have 14 year olds playing against 12 year olds youth Lacrosse is fundamentally broken at all levels.

Fixing the age problem will stop the holdback nonsense and level the playing field, potentially making early recruiting less useful.


My son is 12 and plays on a U13 rec team. There are kids on his team and other teams that are 14. Lacrosse everywhere had been set-up in U11, U13, U15 for decades in which kids competed in 2 year gaps. Prefirst, holdback,reclass whatever you want to call it was not invented in the past 4-5 years. Rich people who send their kids to private elementary have been doing this forever. In the past the holdback kids just got a second year of u15 while most were off to 9th grade. Having you been saying lacrosse is broken for 30 years?

What Stenerson is hoping for is that by pushing recruiting back to junior year it curtails the "need" to be on the "right" club in 6th grade so that you can be "seen" in 8th. And the to get on the right club in 6th you better get in the system in 3rd. This is the mentality that has killed rec/town. The whole youth game has shifted to club from rec/town and very few of the kids will ever benefit from the added cost and expense.

BTW - US Lacrosse does not dictate the age rules unless they are running the event. Teams, leagues, tournaments decide on their own rules. Not sure why but this whole grade thing started when Long Island teams went to grade. When the LI clubs started traveling to what were rec tournaments in MD - Lax Splash, Beach Lax etc with names like LI Express 2019, Crush 2020 and killing teams the tide turned here in MD. Club directors realized they would have an age advantage by going grade - just because of the different school cut-offs. Before then all MD clubs (even Crabs) were age based as where all the local tournaments. Then all the clubs changed to grade and the tournaments followed so they wouldn't lose revenue. NY has by far the most teams and are the most willing to travel far and wide. If they were to change back to age, the tournaments would change again and other regions would have to follow.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.


The huge economic blow to recruiting events is going to start with the younger ages. Right now, parents/kids/clubs are pushing for their kids to start attending "recruiting" events starting in 7th grade, because until last week, 8th graders were actually getting recruited. Now, with the changes, I doubt there will be many 7th grade parents out there shelling out tons of money to have their 7th grader attend a recruiting event. So, moving forward, the 7th/8th/9th grade recruiting events will become non existent (this is were the organizers of these events are going to lose oodles of money). Yes, there will still be 9th/10th/11th grade recruiting events, but it will not start until a lot later than it does now.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!



While I fully agree that moving to an age-based governance is needed, the two issues are separate in that 'governance' is accomplished by different entities. The NCAA has no authority outside of membership institutions, which are all post-secondary. US lacrosse is where the age-based governance needs to happen. While the NCAA could have attempted to coordinate their rule change with a parallel age-based effort by USL, my guess is that they did not want to hitch their efforts to that wagon knowing full well that a failure on USL to implement that would have brought down their rule with it. the best that can be hoped for now, is that the NCAA rule pushes USL to more quickly move in the direction of an age-based system. Even then, organizations can buck that trend by not being dependent upon USL affiliation, but that will be determined by how what the masses choose to do in the face of such a USL change. If other more mature sports are the model (baseball, soccer, hockey), most will follow along.


USL put out there guidelines over a year ago - which are age based, in single year increments, with Sept 1 cutoff.

http://www.uslacrosse.org/sites/def.../player-segmentation-task-force-recs.pdf

Unfortunately the club lacrosse industry does follow or need to follow these guidelines

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Broken for 30 years? Nope, only since going grade based.

What Stenerson is hoping for..."hope" sounds like a pretty weak justification for such a sweeping change.

WRT to being on the "right" club - we are never going back to the days of volunteer dads pitching in. Elite clubs, showcases and specialized coaching are here to stay. This is all part of the growth and evolution of the sport, something that USL talks about constantly, you can't have it both ways.

Club directors realized they would have an age advantage...apparently not since Crush still kills all the teams in MD.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!



While I fully agree that moving to an age-based governance is needed, the two issues are separate in that 'governance' is accomplished by different entities. The NCAA has no authority outside of membership institutions, which are all post-secondary. US lacrosse is where the age-based governance needs to happen. While the NCAA could have attempted to coordinate their rule change with a parallel age-based effort by USL, my guess is that they did not want to hitch their efforts to that wagon knowing full well that a failure on USL to implement that would have brought down their rule with it. the best that can be hoped for now, is that the NCAA rule pushes USL to more quickly move in the direction of an age-based system. Even then, organizations can buck that trend by not being dependent upon USL affiliation, but that will be determined by how what the masses choose to do in the face of such a USL change. If other more mature sports are the model (baseball, soccer, hockey), most will follow along.


USL put out there guidelines over a year ago - which are age based, in single year increments, with Sept 1 cutoff.

http://www.uslacrosse.org/sites/def.../player-segmentation-task-force-recs.pdf

Unfortunately the club lacrosse industry does follow or need to follow these guidelines



USL put out guidelines - they have no teeth. The reliance upon USL is usually insurance based - the question is will USL deny benefits for any claim where a game/tournament is not age-based? Or, more specifically, will the underwriting carrier be that critical? That is where the rubber would hit the road in terms of compliance.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!



While I fully agree that moving to an age-based governance is needed, the two issues are separate in that 'governance' is accomplished by different entities. The NCAA has no authority outside of membership institutions, which are all post-secondary. US lacrosse is where the age-based governance needs to happen. While the NCAA could have attempted to coordinate their rule change with a parallel age-based effort by USL, my guess is that they did not want to hitch their efforts to that wagon knowing full well that a failure on USL to implement that would have brought down their rule with it. the best that can be hoped for now, is that the NCAA rule pushes USL to more quickly move in the direction of an age-based system. Even then, organizations can buck that trend by not being dependent upon USL affiliation, but that will be determined by how what the masses choose to do in the face of such a USL change. If other more mature sports are the model (baseball, soccer, hockey), most will follow along.


USL put out there guidelines over a year ago - which are age based, in single year increments, with Sept 1 cutoff.

http://www.uslacrosse.org/sites/def.../player-segmentation-task-force-recs.pdf

Unfortunately the club lacrosse industry does follow or need to follow these guidelines




If US lacrosse actually cared to enforce these "guidelines" they would not provide insurance for violators. We should not be providing our US Lacrosse numbers to any tournament that does not enforce age based restrictions. They are a useless organization that does nothing for the sport.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Age enforcement would have been great! My 9th grade daughter is almost 2 years younger than some girls on our club team.
The IWLCA keeps posting , when will the NCAA put something out?!


I hear that my son plays with (and against) kids a grade lower and a year older


My son plays baseball with those kids too smile
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I find it rather amusing that the IWLCA who was pushing this are the ones who hold recruiting/ID tournaments all over. If they keep kids from committing early then they won't lose out on the $ for these kids who commit and say I'm done I'm only going to go to my college coaches camps. This way they can guarantee the $1,000+ a team pays to go to the tournaments and the kids will keep attending despite the fact now they will have no idea who is interested in them. This is just a win for club teams and the organizations that put on the tournaments. It's all about the Benjamin's!!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I tend to think that although there may be some coaches at events for 2021/2020 kid this summer, attendance will be down for sure. Because it just doesnt really matter if they see a kid that plays well this summer. (Because with no contact, unless your kid looks like a stud the summer before their junior year, it won't matter). This is a bitter pill for some to swallow, especially the directors of all of these "exclusive recruiting" events. Their cash cow is coming to an end very quickly.
My suggestion, take the money you would have spent on those events and use it to hire a tutor, get SAT prep halo and make sure you kid is taking as many Honors/AP courses as they can handle. With some of their free time, they can also do some type of community service, so leading into their Junior year they will be a complete package! Heck, with a little hard work they might even get into college on their own!!!
I really don't understand why anyone is upset about this, if a kid is really that great right now (as a 8th or 9th grader) they will still be great as a junior, why all the fuss?


2020 parent here.

Yes, there will be a few less coaches and players at 2020 events this summer but I doubt this will amount to the devastating economic blow to showcase organizers that everyone here hopes it will be.

Kids don't suddenly have oodles of free time just because they are skipping a showcase or two. If a kid is not already doing the other things that you mention I doubt that will start now because one weekend has freed up.

Why are people upset? Well for every 2020 kid who has committed there is another who is talking to coaches, doing vists and probably close to making a decision soon. With 80ish 2020s already committed, telling the rest of them that the door is now closed seems like a knee-jerk response and shows that this is not about the kids at all. The NCAA is punishing the kids who have not committed because of the ones who have.




Agreed, this should have started with the 2021 grad year. Lacrosse loves to make arbitrary rules, change rules, not make the rules they really should. A joke! If there was one good thing that should have been done for the sport, it should have been age enforcement. Who cares when a kid commits!



While I fully agree that moving to an age-based governance is needed, the two issues are separate in that 'governance' is accomplished by different entities. The NCAA has no authority outside of membership institutions, which are all post-secondary. US lacrosse is where the age-based governance needs to happen. While the NCAA could have attempted to coordinate their rule change with a parallel age-based effort by USL, my guess is that they did not want to hitch their efforts to that wagon knowing full well that a failure on USL to implement that would have brought down their rule with it. the best that can be hoped for now, is that the NCAA rule pushes USL to more quickly move in the direction of an age-based system. Even then, organizations can buck that trend by not being dependent upon USL affiliation, but that will be determined by how what the masses choose to do in the face of such a USL change. If other more mature sports are the model (baseball, soccer, hockey), most will follow along.


USL put out there guidelines over a year ago - which are age based, in single year increments, with Sept 1 cutoff.

http://www.uslacrosse.org/sites/def.../player-segmentation-task-force-recs.pdf

Unfortunately the club lacrosse industry does follow or need to follow these guidelines




If US lacrosse actually cared to enforce these "guidelines" they would not provide insurance for violators. We should not be providing our US Lacrosse numbers to any tournament that does not enforce age based restrictions. They are a useless organization that does nothing for the sport.


But at least they spent 50 million on a world class stadium/office/museum complex in the most expensive area of Baltimore County. Nothing says youth sports safety and advocacy like building a private ground up facility on a raw piece of land in Sparks, Maryland.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous

But at least they spent 50 million on a world class stadium/office/museum complex in the most expensive area of Baltimore County. Nothing says youth sports safety and advocacy like building a private ground up facility on a raw piece of land in Sparks, Maryland.


Priceless!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Oh Yeah! Elitest crooks! Love how they spend all the money they extort from families on the promise that they're growing the game.

1. They spend all the money they receive from donations, etc on their elite politically connected buddies. For example, Kylie Ohmiller was cut from team USA in favor of Kelly Rabil, who hasn't done [lacrosse] in years but knows Paul Rabil, give me a break. If someone's sucks, they should be cut.

2. They shower the politically connected with free flights hotel, equipment, meals, etc. How about use the money to sponsor FREE clinics to grow the sport.

3. Enforce some rules that matter. You know you can enforce age-based restrictions by implementing a birth certificate based card like soccer and baseball. Why do you refuse???

Fatheads are too busy designing their headquarters and funding cocktail parties,

Wake up people, this is what you are donating to.

STOP giving them money!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous


My son is 12 and plays on a U13 rec team. There are kids on his team and other teams that are 14. Lacrosse everywhere had been set-up in U11, U13, U15 for decades in which kids competed in 2 year gaps. Prefirst, holdback,reclass whatever you want to call it was not invented in the past 4-5 years. Rich people who send their kids to private elementary have been doing this forever. In the past the holdback kids just got a second year of u15 while most were off to 9th grade. Having you been saying lacrosse is broken for 30 years?

What Stenerson is hoping for is that by pushing recruiting back to junior year it curtails the "need" to be on the "right" club in 6th grade so that you can be "seen" in 8th. And the to get on the right club in 6th you better get in the system in 3rd. This is the mentality that has killed rec/town. The whole youth game has shifted to club from rec/town and very few of the kids will ever benefit from the added cost and expense.

BTW - US Lacrosse does not dictate the age rules unless they are running the event. Teams, leagues, tournaments decide on their own rules. Not sure why but this whole grade thing started when Long Island teams went to grade. When the LI clubs started traveling to what were rec tournaments in MD - Lax Splash, Beach Lax etc with names like LI Express 2019, Crush 2020 and killing teams the tide turned here in MD. Club directors realized they would have an age advantage by going grade - just because of the different school cut-offs. Before then all MD clubs (even Crabs) were age based as where all the local tournaments. Then all the clubs changed to grade and the tournaments followed so they wouldn't lose revenue. NY has by far the most teams and are the most willing to travel far and wide. If they were to change back to age, the tournaments would change again and other regions would have to follow.


While you are right about the NY teams coming down here with grade based teams. That wasnt the reason MD teams went grade base.
That may have helped , but a NY grade base team is still 2-3 months younger than MD age based team at that time due to NY (DEC) and MD (sept) start dates for school.

The biggest facilitator of Maryland going grade base was the Pubic League of Howard County Recreation going grade base instead of a simple U10.U11, U12,U14,etc. etc.

What jerk came up with this must have had his child in Private school. Every league in Howard County Recreation was age based at the time, probably still is. But somehow these jerks decided to ruin YOUTH lacrosse and start a grade based league. WHY??

Howard County Recreation should get a special award in the HALL OF SHAME for youth sports.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous


My son is 12 and plays on a U13 rec team. There are kids on his team and other teams that are 14. Lacrosse everywhere had been set-up in U11, U13, U15 for decades in which kids competed in 2 year gaps. Prefirst, holdback,reclass whatever you want to call it was not invented in the past 4-5 years. Rich people who send their kids to private elementary have been doing this forever. In the past the holdback kids just got a second year of u15 while most were off to 9th grade. Having you been saying lacrosse is broken for 30 years?

What Stenerson is hoping for is that by pushing recruiting back to junior year it curtails the "need" to be on the "right" club in 6th grade so that you can be "seen" in 8th. And the to get on the right club in 6th you better get in the system in 3rd. This is the mentality that has killed rec/town. The whole youth game has shifted to club from rec/town and very few of the kids will ever benefit from the added cost and expense.

BTW - US Lacrosse does not dictate the age rules unless they are running the event. Teams, leagues, tournaments decide on their own rules. Not sure why but this whole grade thing started when Long Island teams went to grade. When the LI clubs started traveling to what were rec tournaments in MD - Lax Splash, Beach Lax etc with names like LI Express 2019, Crush 2020 and killing teams the tide turned here in MD. Club directors realized they would have an age advantage by going grade - just because of the different school cut-offs. Before then all MD clubs (even Crabs) were age based as where all the local tournaments. Then all the clubs changed to grade and the tournaments followed so they wouldn't lose revenue. NY has by far the most teams and are the most willing to travel far and wide. If they were to change back to age, the tournaments would change again and other regions would have to follow.


While you are right about the NY teams coming down here with grade based teams. That wasnt the reason MD teams went grade base.
That may have helped , but a NY grade base team is still 2-3 months younger than MD age based team at that time due to NY (DEC) and MD (sept) start dates for school.

The biggest facilitator of Maryland going grade base was the Pubic League of Howard County Recreation going grade base instead of a simple U10.U11, U12,U14,etc. etc.

What jerk came up with this must have had his child in Private school. Every league in Howard County Recreation was age based at the time, probably still is. But somehow these jerks decided to ruin YOUTH lacrosse and start a grade based league. WHY??

Howard County Recreation should get a special award in the HALL OF SHAME for youth sports.




Well with powerhouse clubs like roughriders, hoco, and zingos, is anyone not surprised that Howard county could single-handedly reshape youth lacrosse?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I would think that anyone that has committed early, current 2020/2021 commits, are really not liking this new rule. Because, now they will not have any contact with their future coach until the start of
Their Junior year, and I bet they are going to really feel the pressure of "what are they thinking", because now they get that occasional validation of "we still want you". I do hope that none of them get that call on Sept 1 of their Junior year saying "sorry, we aren't interested anymore _______". not a good place to be in.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Age based won't replace grade until the larger Long Island Clubs make the switch. They have the power to end the hold back debate. From there LI PAL wil adopt and each adjacent state. One LI club director called it the "wild west" in a an interview. But I doubt things will change.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You're correct, those girls and also the girls that were in talks and maybe close to committing will feel MORE pressure and anxious now worrying if they still want them.
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I was asked by us lax for a copy of my kids birth certificate last year. I called and they said they are verifying ages that it would take a while but they were starting the process.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I was asked by us lax for a copy of my kids birth certificate last year. I called and they said they are verifying ages that it would take a while but they were starting the process.


Lol, maybe you'll hear back from them when you're kid is in college. The organization is inept.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Speaking as a 2020 commit parent whose family was perfectly happy with their choice. I feel much more for that kid who had offers on the table and was weighing options only for the NCAA to pass a rule affective 'immediately" right in the middle of most D1 coaches playoff run. How is that fair to the athlete, his family and the coaches. It's not the rule that isn't fair, its ridiculous implementation with no thought for those most involved is. Another shameful act by the NCAA for a sport that makes them no money and most likely influenced by those that most benefit and we all know who they are.
Also, its been mentioned numerous times that a "verbal commitment" is nothing more or nothing less. This rule is totally irrelevant to the concept that a coach would back out. Anybody that knows lacrosse, knows that the commitment has always been based on the integrity of the college which in a majority of cases has been honored by the school more that the athlete him or her self.
And just a little education : According to the NCAA a Prospective Student Athlete (PSA) isn't one till their Freshman year of high school and doesn't fall under the umbrella or sanction of the NCCA until one. Public scorn possibly but the passed legislation technically doesn't apply. So don't be surprised if this rule totally backfires and if a team feels fits will be committing more 8th graders. Just happened last week.
Some educated replies welcomed. A statement by the NCAA or US lacrosse even more.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think that is an excellent point on the definition of a PSA.....can you say loophole? For all those wanting to see a change for the kids sake, remember its the adults who are the ones behind it all. Pretty obvious US Lacrosse role behind it and the campaign to get everyone who's kid isn't a 10% blue chip to promote how great the proposal is for the sport. Wake up people and be prepared to reopen your wallets, an inept self declaring lead organization that does very little but as for survey input and your membership money. Now has the NCAA coaches reminding them of the dollars that are being left on the fields. The prospect camps and money grab continues....interesting how lacrosse is the fastest growing sport but years behind soccer and other sports in leadership direction and national governing policy. Congratulations....and sucker everyone into believing that you have data to support the negativity of a few committing to opportunity. You have to blame it on something, Snowflakes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
[quote=Anonymous]I think that is an excellent point on the definition of a PSA.....can you say loophole? For all those wanting to see a change for the kids sake, remember its the adults who are the ones behind it all. Pretty obvious US Lacrosse role behind it and the campaign to get everyone who's kid isn't a 10% blue chip to promote how great the proposal is for the sport. Wake up people and be prepared to reopen your wallets, an inept self declaring lead organization that does very little but as for survey input and your membership money. Now has the NCAA coaches reminding them of the dollars that are being left on the fields. The prospect camps and money grab continues....interesting how lacrosse is the fastest growing sport but years behind soccer and other sports in leadership direction and national governing policy. Congratulations....and sucker everyone into believing that you have data to support the negativity of a few committing to opportunity. You have to blame it on something, Snowflakes. [/quote
Help me understand why it is a bad thing that kids will have to wait to commit until their Junior year? No one is taking any opportunity away. I don't understand the problem
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Speaking as a 2020 commit parent whose family was perfectly happy with their choice. I feel much more for that kid who had offers on the table and was weighing options only for the NCAA to pass a rule affective 'immediately" right in the middle of most D1 coaches playoff run. How is that fair to the athlete, his family and the coaches. It's not the rule that isn't fair, its ridiculous implementation with no thought for those most involved is. Another shameful act by the NCAA for a sport that makes them no money and most likely influenced by those that most benefit and we all know who they are.
Also, its been mentioned numerous times that a "verbal commitment" is nothing more or nothing less. This rule is totally irrelevant to the concept that a coach would back out. Anybody that knows lacrosse, knows that the commitment has always been based on the integrity of the college which in a majority of cases has been honored by the school more that the athlete him or her self.
And just a little education : According to the NCAA a Prospective Student Athlete (PSA) isn't one till their Freshman year of high school and doesn't fall under the umbrella or sanction of the NCCA until one. Public scorn possibly but the passed legislation technically doesn't apply. So don't be surprised if this rule totally backfires and if a team feels fits will be committing more 8th graders. Just happened last week.
Some educated replies welcomed. A statement by the NCAA or US lacrosse even more.

This is a very good point about the definition of PSA, it will be interesting to see if some teams continue to recruit 8th graders. My bet is, if they do, that loophole will be closed soon.

And as far as verbals only being a "handshake" deal, everyone knows that too. But when a future coach can have constant contact with a kid I think is easier to be confident in that deal. I wouldn't think if I kid continues to perform very well and keeps their grades up they will have no problem. But, I also think that now, with the rule changes, coaches are going to be actively watching lot she of kids up to and including Junior year, they may end up finding lots of kids they like better. With the old rules, coaches weren't actively watching the older kids, they were too busy being camped out at 8th and 9tj grade games. Since their rosters were already "full" they didn't waste too much time watching the developed athletes. Now they will
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
An on age kid who is a good student benefits tremendously from these rule changes. Reclassed kids were the primary target of ER and the majority of them went to Big 10 and ACC schools. There are a whole lot of very good schools out there with excellent lacrosse programs that didn't play the ER game who are doing quite well. Their attractiveness to potential recruits just got a boost because the mad dash for a roster spot and a shout out from TY Xanders no longer exists.

This is good for the kids and the sport.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
An on age kid who is a good student benefits tremendously from these rule changes. Reclassed kids were the primary target of ER and the majority of them went to Big 10 and ACC schools. There are a whole lot of very good schools out there with excellent lacrosse programs that didn't play the ER game who are doing quite well. Their attractiveness to potential recruits just got a boost because the mad dash for a roster spot and a shout out from TY Xanders no longer exists.

This is good for the kids and the sport.

100% agree, which is why I am so baffled as to why people are complaining
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Agree, The 8th/9th graders with full beards are the ones who will lose out. By 9/1 of junior year their classmates will have caught up physically......
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So true!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This rule is going to be terrible for parity in college lacrosse. Especially on the girls' side. MD was offering 8th and 9th graders and filling their class up by the time they were done 9th grade. There were a lot of misses in those classes in terms of girls that didn't continue to develop for whatever reason. Now MD and other top schools get to wait until their junior year before offering these kids. By then, they will have a lot better idea of who is going to be the top players at the next level.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Schools offer about 10 1/4 scholarships a year.

Most schools were willing to gamble 2-4 of those scholarships on 8th or 9th graders.

Overall that is not much of a gamble if you get 6-8 legitimate safe kids when they are older and probably 1/2 of the early recruits do pan out.

Not that big a change for the schools other than no longer wasting resources on reviewing younger kids.

Big change for the kids since now they don't have to stress about recruiting until their sophomore year.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Schools will continue to recruit before the 11th grade. Communications are now through a non-coach of the athlete. Not all 3rd party contact has been or will be eliminated. It will be more complicated for all parties, but coaches are incentivized enough to identify and offer prospects as soon as they can. After the NCAA sessions ends in 4 days, and the conversation slows, business as usual.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Schools will continue to recruit before the 11th grade. Communications are now through a non-coach of the athlete. Not all 3rd party contact has been or will be eliminated. It will be more complicated for all parties, but coaches are incentivized enough to identify and offer prospects as soon as they can. After the NCAA sessions ends in 4 days, and the conversation slows, business as usual.

Completely wrong , a3rd party acting as a go between and discussing scholarship offers is already illegal. Will it still go on probably until some program gets caught and loses scholarships .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Curious to you old timers?? How did NCAA lacrosse survive prior to recruiting 9th graders?? Was it that bad??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Curious to you old timers?? How did NCAA lacrosse survive prior to recruiting 9th graders?? Was it that bad??


Worked just fine, will work just fine again.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Curious to you old timers?? How did NCAA lacrosse survive prior to recruiting 9th graders?? Was it that bad??


Worked just fine, will work just fine again.


Coaches have been recruiting 9th graders for a long long time.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Curious to you old timers?? How did NCAA lacrosse survive prior to recruiting 9th graders?? Was it that bad??


Worked just fine, will work just fine again.


Coaches have been recruiting 9th graders for a long long time.


Not in the 80's
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Who enforces the new rules?
Compliance officers?
Whistle blowers?

Inevitable that the rules will be violated, and probably pretty quickly.

And with social medial being what it is, these youngsters and their parents can't resist announcing the commitment.

Will the NCAA ignore the public announcements of commitments that fly in the face of the rules and their intent.
Or will they act on the knowledge?

When that happens, what then?

What are the possible penalties for violating the new recruiting rules?
Slap on the wrist?
Loss of eligibility to play in the post season?
Loss of scholarships?





Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Curious to you old timers?? How did NCAA lacrosse survive prior to recruiting 9th graders?? Was it that bad??


The best kids who were approaching college age (not approaching HS) got bigger and better awards. It took a lot of the guess work out of it for coaches and players. It also gave everyone a better look into what type of academic student the kids were going to be in college. Give some kids not all a chance to narrow their school target list based on a major of study. It is a huge win all around even though the same motivated parents pushing their kid to verbal in 8th grade will be the same motivated parent looking to bend the new rules.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Who enforces the new rules?
Compliance officers?
Whistle blowers?

Inevitable that the rules will be violated, and probably pretty quickly.

And with social medial being what it is, these youngsters and their parents can't resist announcing the commitment.

Will the NCAA ignore the public announcements of commitments that fly in the face of the rules and their intent.
Or will they act on the knowledge?

When that happens, what then?

What are the possible penalties for violating the new recruiting rules?
Slap on the wrist?
Loss of eligibility to play in the post season?
Loss of scholarships?







SMH
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I am pretty sure that if a PSA gets caught breaking the rules, the student can lose eligibility. So, I for one, will make sure that my kid is following the rules. Not to mention, if a college coach breaks the rules, they are just plain dumb, because they only need one disgruntled parent/kid/coach to report them and then they will be in trouble too. Not sure why this is such an problem, just wait until Junior year and fill your team. Why risk it?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I read (and just confirmed) that a player only becomes a PSA under NCAA rules once he begins 9th grade. Perhaps this explains the report 5 days ago of the 2021 that committed to Michigan. Will there be a feeding frenzy on 2021's before 9th grade begins in the Fall? I would certainly hope not, but considering too that it was supposedly Michigan that was the holdout when Starsia tried to get the ACC and B1G coaches to agree not to early recruit perhaps Michigan will try to land some top 2021's this Summer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I heard a 2020 girls committed to Duke for soccer today. Why doesn't soccer have the same legislation?!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Michigan might want to concentrate on winning a Big 10 game instead of recruiting young (even if a holdback) boys. That early (easy) part of the season is long since past.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I would think that anyone that has committed early, current 2020/2021 commits, are really not liking this new rule. Because, now they will not have any contact with their future coach until the start of
Their Junior year, and I bet they are going to really feel the pressure of "what are they thinking", because now they get that occasional validation of "we still want you". I do hope that none of them get that call on Sept 1 of their Junior year saying "sorry, we aren't interested anymore _______". not a good place to be in.


Yeah not wortoed, nice try though.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I would think that anyone that has committed early, current 2020/2021 commits, are really not liking this new rule. Because, now they will not have any contact with their future coach until the start of
Their Junior year, and I bet they are going to really feel the pressure of "what are they thinking", because now they get that occasional validation of "we still want you". I do hope that none of them get that call on Sept 1 of their Junior year saying "sorry, we aren't interested anymore _______". not a good place to be in.


Yeah not wortoed, nice try though.



Not too sure the committed kids are too worried. Some sure, they are the ones who weren't sure it was real in the first place. But the others, it is a great thing, and by Jr year the ball is in their court and decommitting will be a bigger issue for the colleges. Musical chairs anyone.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I would think that anyone that has committed early, current 2020/2021 commits, are really not liking this new rule. Because, now they will not have any contact with their future coach until the start of
Their Junior year, and I bet they are going to really feel the pressure of "what are they thinking", because now they get that occasional validation of "we still want you". I do hope that none of them get that call on Sept 1 of their Junior year saying "sorry, we aren't interested anymore _______". not a good place to be in.


Yeah not wortoed, nice try though.


Very few if any will get such a call. I expect the early recruits will work hard and finish what they started. But if they did, wouldn't that just show the college wasn't the right fit. In one way, it would show a system that lets the kids grow up will result in better matches for kids and coaches.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The PSA and club coach/HS coach can send as many emails as they want to the college coach.

The Club and HS coach can also talk to the College coach any time they want. Offers and specifics about a kid shouldn't be discussed but the HS/Club coach can say Johnny is interested in their school. The college coach can also give "general feedback" to the Club and HS coach like we like how Johnny is playing.

no serious recruiting conversations can happen until 9.1 junior year. ex. we are going to offer Johnny

this is how most are understanding the rule




Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.


Do you really think BOTC is the forum to get proper legal advice on your son's future? Maybe you consult an attorney, or call the NCAA. But BOTC is the last place I'm looking for answers to this. Come on, if you're serious, look in the right places.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.


"The concept is confusing"...apparently only for you. High school kids are not under the jurisdiction of the NCAA. Players can send whatever they want to the coaches. Coaches may not acknowledge or reply, or initiate any conversations until the student is in his jr year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Virginia just sent out a camp invite encouraging kids to come stating "with the new legislation in effect you can get your face to face contact with our coaches"
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Bravo US lacrosse and to the NCAA....Since the rule has passed two Eighth graders have now verbally committed to the University of Michigan....Way to open up the flood gates for the opposite of what you were trying to achieve. If it's not broke don't fix it. Your idealism went out the door along time ago !!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The PSA and club coach/HS coach can send as many emails as they want to the college coach.

The Club and HS coach can also talk to the College coach any time they want. Offers and specifics about a kid shouldn't be discussed but the HS/Club coach can say Johnny is interested in their school. The college coach can also give "general feedback" to the Club and HS coach like we like how Johnny is playing.

no serious recruiting conversations can happen until 9.1 junior year. ex. we are going to offer Johnny

this is how most are understanding the rule




Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.



Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The PSA and club coach/HS coach can send as many emails as they want to the college coach.

The Club and HS coach can also talk to the College coach any time they want. Offers and specifics about a kid shouldn't be discussed but the HS/Club coach can say Johnny is interested in their school. The college coach can also give "general feedback" to the Club and HS coach like we like how Johnny is playing.

no serious recruiting conversations can happen until 9.1 junior year. ex. we are going to offer Johnny

this is how most are understanding the rule




Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.



Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.



There will be no mad dash for 2019s because all the good kids are already committed and not much will change there. A bunch of good 2020s still remain, so there may be some dashing for those kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The PSA and club coach/HS coach can send as many emails as they want to the college coach.

The Club and HS coach can also talk to the College coach any time they want. Offers and specifics about a kid shouldn't be discussed but the HS/Club coach can say Johnny is interested in their school. The college coach can also give "general feedback" to the Club and HS coach like we like how Johnny is playing.

no serious recruiting conversations can happen until 9.1 junior year. ex. we are going to offer Johnny

this is how most are understanding the rule




Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.



Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.


What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


yes, Absolutley! Go for the original reason, to have fun and play with/against a group of boys that are just as talented. Everything isnt alwasy recruiting is it. That's what the problem is. Why isnt building your resume just as important.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.
[/quote]


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.[/quote]
[/quote]

Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such. [/quote]

What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.[/quote]

You'll want to be on a top club team the Summer going into 10th grade year, so best way to solidify spot is to stay on team now going into your 9th grade year, or try to get on a better team in the Fall. Your not getting recruited out of rising 9th grade prospect camps, unless you are literally unbelievable, in which case, they already know about you! Trust me, or just learn for yourself, do what you like. The recruiting boards are going to be formulated by top clubs and top schools, then the diamonds in the rough will have to work harder to get noticed. Be patient, do your Summer club events this year, then next year coaches will be back on the sidelines. If you ditch your club, very hard to get the correct exposure.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -


someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.[/quote]

No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???
[/quote]

Yes to UA, because the tryout is cheap, and the 21's are mixed in with 20's. So, even if you don't make the team, rare opportunity to get in front of coaches as a 21 this Summer.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -


someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.[/quote]
[/quote]

Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such. [/quote]


There will be no mad dash for 2019s because all the good kids are already committed and not much will change there. A bunch of good 2020s still remain, so there may be some dashing for those kids.[/quote]

Sure there will. Beyond the top 20 schools, there are abundant 2019 spots to fill. Not everyone can be on a team that is top 20 today, but there is a lot of good lacrosse out there, my friend.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
My kid is going to one of the top 3 D3 schools and is going to love playing at a high level, and I saved a ton of money on clinics, etc over the years.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
A good point about it being a mad dash for 2019's. Probably wont be a mad dash, but teams still need to fill the rosters with quality players. Teams wont be able to survive alone with 2018's and now wait for the 2020's and 2021's.

What I find interesting is the teams once thought of top 20 that are 25 - 40 and those schools that were 30-50 cracking the top 20.

Speaking of such what is goign on with Delaware?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
A good point about it being a mad dash for 2019's. Probably wont be a mad dash, but teams still need to fill the rosters with quality players. Teams wont be able to survive alone with 2018's and now wait for the 2020's and 2021's.

What I find interesting is the teams once thought of top 20 that are 25 - 40 and those schools that were 30-50 cracking the top 20.

Speaking of such what is goign on with Delaware?


UD coach is retiring after close to 40 years. Sleeping giant if they get the right guy. Word is there is a lot of interest among coaching ranks - both top assistants and head coaches
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
...A bunch of good 2020s still remain, so there may be some dashing for those kids.


And many top schools only have a handful of 2020s committed so there are many spots yet to be filled.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.


If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.


If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back??


No, he was born in Oct 2003, so he is the youngest kid on his team and has played against 2021's that have been 2 years older than him. Never thought of lacrosse eligibility when we put him into Kindergarten at 4 turning 5, and wouldn't hold him back hoping to get some money for a scholarship.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.o
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.


If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back??


Not if you live in NY. The school cutoff is 12/1. My son is late September and is one of the youngest in his grade due to hold backs
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
same, my daughter is october. our cutoff is 12/31. She is sometimes 16-18 months younger than girls on her club team, they go to private school and super hold back plus different cut offs.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.


If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back??


This comment is a perfect example of how "clueless" parents outside of NY are about the age differences. Yes our kids (NY-LI) born in October of 2003 are 2021s. Yes your kids born in June of 2003 are 2022s and your 2002 birthdates are 2021s while our 2002 birthdates are 2020s. One year makes a huge difference at the Middle School grades. Are you listening TC? You know, the team that thinks all 2002 birthdates are 2021s. LOL.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.o
You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.


the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules


Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.
What do you mean the kids should do the clubs events? F*** the club. Only go to the camps.


No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.


If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back??


Not if you live in NY. The school cutoff is 12/1. My son is late September and is one of the youngest in his grade due to hold backs


Does NY have the same issue of holdbacks as Baltimore/DC area. It is mainly a private school thing in MD/DC until 8th grade. Then it is both but you still see more holding back in private schools. I have talked to many parents recently who are holding their child back in public's in MD/DC. It seems to be growing?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The PSA and club coach/HS coach can send as many emails as they want to the college coach.

The Club and HS coach can also talk to the College coach any time they want. Offers and specifics about a kid shouldn't be discussed but the HS/Club coach can say Johnny is interested in their school. The college coach can also give "general feedback" to the Club and HS coach like we like how Johnny is playing.

no serious recruiting conversations can happen until 9.1 junior year. ex. we are going to offer Johnny

this is how most are understanding the rule




Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I see an issue, a current 2019's will want to send their grades (in June) to the coaches who've had their eye on them. Is the player wrong for sending the grades he is proud of, does the coach who opens the email have to worry about being in violation.

There has to be some things that are allowable.

Then again how about that 6'1" 2020 who has always worked hard to be accelerated in the STEM core courses and took HBio or HChem or HAlg2/Trig, Those classes are great barometers of a students future STEM achievements. A coach doesn't have to wait to see how that player will pan out That Freshman has the same core course as a Jr. That freshman knows where their future path lies.

Sure it is easy to say all or none, but I was taught the easy way isn't always the right way.


You can send away..The coach can look at anything he wants or recieves as long as it is not solicited prior to Sept Junior year...He just cant contact you or your coaches until Sept Junior year. Pretty simple. Look all u want....dont talk.


I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.



Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such.


You are mistaken if you think college coaches won't be on the sidelines this summer watching 2021. They will be there. They won't be talking, but they will be there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???
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My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.
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If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back?? [/quote]

Not if you live in NY. The school cutoff is 12/1. My son is late September and is one of the youngest in his grade due to hold backs
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Does NY have the same issue of holdbacks as Baltimore/DC area. It is mainly a private school thing in MD/DC until 8th grade. Then it is both but you still see more holding back in private schools. I have talked to many parents recently who are holding their child back in public's in MD/DC. It seems to be growing? [/quote]

Can't arbitrarily hold back in public school unless the school make you repeat, which they only do if you are a ding dong. Tax payers don't fund sports ambition, but do fund stupid kids that can't pass public school classes.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.
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the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.[/quote]
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Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such. [/quote]

You are mistaken if you think college coaches won't be on the sidelines this summer watching 2021. They will be there. They won't be talking, but they will be there.
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No need. The only reason they were looking at kids that hadn't stepped foot in HS hallway was to keep up with the other guy and try to pick off a few kids. The demand won't be there now, and the supply will be there the following year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I am pretty sure that all of the 9th and 10th graders that are already committed know their future coaches want to see their grades. The PSA will send them, but they will not get a response from the coach. Also, if you are a top student and you want college coaches to know that, you can feel free to send anything you want. That coach will put you on their "call ASAP Junior year list" if they are interested smile This concept should not be that difficult to understand.



the concept is confusing, the difficulty is; I thought the coaches weren't supposed to have or open any communication. So how would a coach know until Sept 1 Jr yr about a kid's grades. or Are you telling me you can send emails all you want and they just cant respond. I thought that is how it already was. (except they could contact your club or HS coach).

someone please clarify this. I was told no contact etal. If you send a coach a note, does he think you are smart and diligent or extremely stupid and dont care for the rules.[/quote]
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Students are allowed to email coaches as much as they want, for expressing interest, sending film, informing the coach of accolades/accomplishments, updating game schedules, etc. In turn, the coach could only previously respond by email to inform the student of camps, tell the student to fill out a questionairre, but not discuss recruiting specific to that player. However, if a student picked up the phone, and the coach answered the call, they could talk about recruiting. The coach could not return a message, but if he picked up the phone, they could talk. Alike, the coach could talk to school or club coaches as intermediaries. Now, the coach would not be able to talk on the phone or talk to school/club coaches at all. So, no more early commitments, the coaches will still scout 2020's and 2019's this Summer just as they would have already been doing, recruiting boards will be filled in their offices, and there will be a mad dash of calls and reaching out on Sept. 1 for 2019's this Fall. Then same will happen for 2020's next Sept. 1. 2020's and 2019's should really treat the whole thing as a non-issue. 2021 parents won't see coaches on the sidelines this Summer, but really need to do their events, as the clubs won't appreciate kids bailing on tourneys. HS coaches should look for some fall off of 2019 football and soccer players, as kids that treat lax as primary will think they need to keep Fall open to deal with lax recruiting visits and such. [/quote]

You are mistaken if you think college coaches won't be on the sidelines this summer watching 2021. They will be there. They won't be talking, but they will be there.
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No need. The only reason they were looking at kids that hadn't stepped foot in HS hallway was to keep up with the other guy and try to pick off a few kids. The demand won't be there now, and the supply will be there the following year. [/quote]

I think they may continue to watch a PSA they had their eye on already before the rule came down, but otherwise agree.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.
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If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back?? [/quote]

Not if you live in NY. The school cutoff is 12/1. My son is late September and is one of the youngest in his grade due to hold backs
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Does NY have the same issue of holdbacks as Baltimore/DC area. It is mainly a private school thing in MD/DC until 8th grade. Then it is both but you still see more holding back in private schools. I have talked to many parents recently who are holding their child back in public's in MD/DC. It seems to be growing? [/quote]

Can't arbitrarily hold back in public school unless the school make you repeat, which they only do if you are a ding dong. Tax payers don't fund sports ambition, but do fund stupid kids that can't pass public school classes.

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There are plenty of LI parents not starting their kids in K until they are 6, and although it is not for athletics reasons for the most part (!), it ends up being what it is when they get to athletics: one year older than all of the other kids that started K @ 5 yo. And then if any of those kids repeat for academic reasons, they are now two years older!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
No reason to go to any 2021 recruiting events this year..like Brine, Under Armour, etc...Is there???


My son is signed up for the Brine and his friends are going, so I'm there. I won't be busting my hump to make any of the prospect camps this summer. My Son is an October birthday, so he is already at a disadvantage. Several parents who I spoke to who are going D1 told me to wait until next summer to start that process. No reason to have an on age kid be the youngest at a camp and get labeled and knocked out early.
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If your child is a 2021 and born in Oct isnt he one of the oldest besides kids held back?? [/quote]

Not if you live in NY. The school cutoff is 12/1. My son is late September and is one of the youngest in his grade due to hold backs
[/quote]

Does NY have the same issue of holdbacks as Baltimore/DC area. It is mainly a private school thing in MD/DC until 8th grade. Then it is both but you still see more holding back in private schools. I have talked to many parents recently who are holding their child back in public's in MD/DC. It seems to be growing? [/quote]

Can't arbitrarily hold back in public school unless the school make you repeat, which they only do if you are a ding dong. Tax payers don't fund sports ambition, but do fund stupid kids that can't pass public school classes.

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It happened in my kid's school. A player did 8th grade in the two different middle schools, and started as an 8th grader on the varsity team in his 2nd round of 8th. Was an ok student, but not failing or forced to be held back. Got a D1 offer as a 9th grader, and really should be in 10th. H
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
[Does NY have the same issue of holdbacks as Baltimore/DC area. It is mainly a private school thing in MD/DC until 8th grade. Then it is both but you still see more holding back in private schools. I have talked to many parents recently who are holding their child back in public's in MD/DC. It seems to be growing? [/quote]

Can't arbitrarily hold back in public school unless the school make you repeat, which they only do if you are a ding dong. Tax payers don't fund sports ambition, but do fund stupid kids that can't pass public school classes.

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It happened in my kid's school. A player did 8th grade in the two different middle schools, and started as an 8th grader on the varsity team in his 2nd round of 8th. Was an ok student, but not failing or forced to be held back. Got a D1 offer as a 9th grader, and really should be in 10th. H[/quote]

Where there is a will, there is a way. Sounds like they used the transfer as an opportunity to make the case for repeating. But holding back within an individual public school is nearly impossible, unless you are a dumbbell.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -

All of the hold back girls in our area go to private school. They either started K at 6, repeated 6th grade, repeated 9th grade...The ones we know that are repeating 9th next year are doing it for LAX.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous

All of the hold back girls in our area go to private school. They either started K at 6, repeated 6th grade, repeated 9th grade...The ones we know that are repeating 9th next year are doing it for LAX.


Super duper, thanks for the info
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous

All of the hold back girls in our area go to private school. They either started K at 6, repeated 6th grade, repeated 9th grade...The ones we know that are repeating 9th next year are doing it for LAX.


SMH - parents are the root of this problem, first and foremost!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ever get the feeling there's a scheme going on? Not making any accusations, just creative observations....how's the money moving?


---------------------------------------------------------------------------THE PYRAMID
-----------------------------------------------------------NATIONAL LACROSSE FEDERATION
FOUNDING CLUB LEVEL-------------Crabs Big4HHH Laxachusetts Leading Edge Express 91
NEW ALLIANCE LEVEL----------Mesa Fresh, PA Eclipse, CT West Coast Starz Edge, CA
SIX NEW PARTNERS---Sweetlax LB3 Thunder Prime Time Denver Elite MADLAX Legends Lacrosse
LEVEL 4----------------
LEVEL 5---------
ETC.



Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ever get the feeling there's a scheme going on? Not making any accusations, just creative observations....how's the money moving?


---------------------------------------------------------------------------THE PYRAMID
-----------------------------------------------------------NATIONAL LACROSSE FEDERATION
FOUNDING CLUB LEVEL-------------Crabs Big4HHH Laxachusetts Leading Edge Express 91
NEW ALLIANCE LEVEL----------Mesa Fresh, PA Eclipse, CT West Coast Starz Edge, CA
SIX NEW PARTNERS---Sweetlax LB3 Thunder Prime Time Denver Elite MADLAX Legends Lacrosse
LEVEL 4----------------
LEVEL 5---------
ETC.



Methinks the tin foil is on too tight. The only scheme here is to consolidate top teams together so coaches know which tourneys to go to, which is beginning to include non-traditional hot beds like Colorado, Georgia, etc. Have you looked at the commits? Just bringing Sweetlax into the mix just up'ed the amount of NLF commits by 2 (or so. . .they have a pretty strong record)...I highly doubt that club is paying anything to say they're part of the NLF. This is more about dealing with the new regs. This puts the top players in traditional hotbeds, i.e. MD, LI, Upstate NY, NE, Canada, into bed with growing hotbeds, i.e. CA, GA, PA (though they might be a hotbed..no offense meant). It's a positive for kids on these teams, IMO.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Okay, now that's freaky! How did you know I was wearing tin foil?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
8th grader to Michigan......In your face new rules!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
NLF is more money for fat Crab and his minions. Here is a thought - maybe such a prestigious lacrosse organization should be the leader in following USL guidelines to move to age based classification for youth lacrosse. of course they won't - too much money to be made.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The money would still be there teams would just have to go through a re-org.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
8th grader to Michigan......In your face new rules!

??? How do you know the agreement wasn't made a few weeks ago. I know of 5 girls that are 2020 that committed over the past few months whose names don't show up on the Lacrosse recruits site. Are there other sites that have the recruits?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
NLF is more money for fat Crab and his minions. Here is a thought - maybe such a prestigious lacrosse organization should be the leader in following USL guidelines to move to age based classification for youth lacrosse. of course they won't - too much money to be made.


Let public school kids choose to play down a year. Everyone is tired of them complaining and diluting the talent anyway.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
8th grader to Michigan......In your face new rules!

??? How do you know the agreement wasn't made a few weeks ago. I know of 5 girls that are 2020 that committed over the past few months whose names don't show up on the Lacrosse recruits site. Are there other sites that have the recruits?



From what I understand, the verbal was made prior to the new rules. Michigan squeaked it in at the 11th hour.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
8th grader to Michigan......In your face new rules!

??? How do you know the agreement wasn't made a few weeks ago. I know of 5 girls that are 2020 that committed over the past few months whose names don't show up on the Lacrosse recruits site. Are there other sites that have the recruits?



From what I understand, the verbal was made prior to the new rules. Michigan squeaked it in at the 11th hour.


Michigan could use all the help they can get. They are going nowhere until they get rid of their coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ha! Michigan's coach wont even be there in 4 years. Joke of a program/coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ha! Michigan's coach wont even be there in 4 years. Joke of a program/coach.


Damn good school, could care less about the "program" as long as the kid gets the degree.
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ha! Michigan's coach wont even be there in 4 years. Joke of a program/coach.


Damn good school, could care less about the "program" as long as the kid gets the degree.


Be careful with that type of statement. Michigan is a big school. Not all degrees hold the same weight, Depends on what the student/athlete's degree is.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by baldbear
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ha! Michigan's coach wont even be there in 4 years. Joke of a program/coach.


Damn good school, could care less about the "program" as long as the kid gets the degree.


Be careful with that type of statement. Michigan is a big school. Not all degrees hold the same weight, Depends on what the student/athlete's degree is.


You got that right. Ross School of business? You're in great shape. Only issue is, you have to apply after sophomore year. You had better have a 3.95 gpa. Lacrosse will have zero weight.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Wasn't today the date that the NCAA voted to confirm the new recruiting rules?
Has anyone heard anything?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
can anyone explain what this means?
Off-campus contacts may not occur with a recruit or their relatives before September 1 of their junior year. These contacts may only occur at the home or school of the recruit. - NCAA
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
can anyone explain what this means?
Off-campus contacts may not occur with a recruit or their relatives before September 1 of their junior year. These contacts may only occur at the home or school of the recruit. - NCAA


If your player is at a camp or official event at the college (prospect camps), contact is allowed between the player/coach. They can't make offers or talk about specific commitments, but they can interact and generally discuss interest. I doubt the "home" part of quote is accurate. If the quote is accurate, the same criteria would apply as at the camps, no offers or commitments would be able to be made.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by baldbear
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ha! Michigan's coach wont even be there in 4 years. Joke of a program/coach.


Damn good school, could care less about the "program" as long as the kid gets the degree.


Be careful with that type of statement. Michigan is a big school. Not all degrees hold the same weight, Depends on what the student/athlete's degree is.


You got that right. Ross School of business? You're in great shape. Only issue is, you have to apply after sophomore year. You had better have a 3.95 gpa. Lacrosse will have zero weight.



You are 100% correct...all degrees are not created equal. Michigan has a good engineering school (for a public school), but athletes may be discouraged from those types of degrees if they want to play sports. Michigan is an example of what really good marketing and branding can do. School is over-hyped and overrated like most big box rah-rah schools. Your son will be better positioned graduating from a boutique or smaller DI school than Michigan.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by baldbear
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ha! Michigan's coach wont even be there in 4 years. Joke of a program/coach.


Damn good school, could care less about the "program" as long as the kid gets the degree.


Be careful with that type of statement. Michigan is a big school. Not all degrees hold the same weight, Depends on what the student/athlete's degree is.


You got that right. Ross School of business? You're in great shape. Only issue is, you have to apply after sophomore year. You had better have a 3.95 gpa. Lacrosse will have zero weight.



You are 100% correct...all degrees are not created equal. Michigan has a good engineering school (for a public school), but athletes may be discouraged from those types of degrees if they want to play sports. Michigan is an example of what really good marketing and branding can do. School is over-hyped and overrated like most big box rah-rah schools. Your son will be better positioned graduating from a boutique or smaller DI school than Michigan.


Flip side of that argument are the massive alumni bases that UM, PSU, ND, etc have EVERYWHERE to help in getting a job post college.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -


Be careful with that type of statement. Michigan is a big school. Not all degrees hold the same weight, Depends on what the student/athlete's degree is.[/quote]

You got that right. Ross School of business? You're in great shape. Only issue is, you have to apply after sophomore year. You had better have a 3.95 gpa. Lacrosse will have zero weight.
[/quote]


You are 100% correct...all degrees are not created equal. Michigan has a good engineering school (for a public school), but athletes may be discouraged from those types of degrees if they want to play sports. Michigan is an example of what really good marketing and branding can do. School is over-hyped and overrated like most big box rah-rah schools. Your son will be better positioned graduating from a boutique or smaller DI school than Michigan.[/quote]

Flip side of that argument are the massive alumni bases that UM, PSU, ND, etc have EVERYWHERE to help in getting a job post college.[/quote]

Exactly. Playing a sport like Lacrosse at ANY school, be it an Ivy, Big 10, ACC, Big East, Patriot, NESCAC, etc., puts you into a very select group. Regardless of conference, you're set. Big 10 and ACC and Ivy probably give you an edge due to size, but negligible. Sorry to break that to all you Ivy folks. . .but it's true. . .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
who gives a cracker about Michigan?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous


Be careful with that type of statement. Michigan is a big school. Not all degrees hold the same weight, Depends on what the student/athlete's degree is.


You got that right. Ross School of business? You're in great shape. Only issue is, you have to apply after sophomore year. You had better have a 3.95 gpa. Lacrosse will have zero weight.
[/quote]


You are 100% correct...all degrees are not created equal. Michigan has a good engineering school (for a public school), but athletes may be discouraged from those types of degrees if they want to play sports. Michigan is an example of what really good marketing and branding can do. School is over-hyped and overrated like most big box rah-rah schools. Your son will be better positioned graduating from a boutique or smaller DI school than Michigan.[/quote]

Flip side of that argument are the massive alumni bases that UM, PSU, ND, etc have EVERYWHERE to help in getting a job post college.[/quote]

Exactly. Playing a sport like Lacrosse at ANY school, be it an Ivy, Big 10, ACC, Big East, Patriot, NESCAC, etc., puts you into a very select group. Regardless of conference, you're set. Big 10 and ACC and Ivy probably give you an edge due to size, but negligible. Sorry to break that to all you Ivy folks. . .but it's true. . .[/quote]

Dumbest rant I've read in a while, sounds like you had a little too much to drink last night!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Better networking in the ACC and Big Ten than the Ivy League? Sorry pal - a kid that played lacrosse at Yale, Harvard, Princeton, etc. is a going to have a plum job lined up before your lax bro at UNC or JHU rolls out of bed.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Better networking in the ACC and Big Ten than the Ivy League? Sorry pal - a kid that played lacrosse at Yale, Harvard, Princeton, etc. is a going to have a plum job lined up before your lax bro at UNC or JHU rolls out of bed.

The comment was made the your son would be better off at a "boutique" school or smaller D1 - in terms of getting a job, I don't believe that to be true. The argument was not Big Ten vs Ivy
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This IS the current state of Lax:

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/open-letter-athlete-we-must-stop-recruiting-becky-carlson
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Bottom line, Michigan is a GREAT school with a LOUSY lacrosse program. Not much different than Colgate or Dartmouth
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
For The Love of the Game Poachers
FL$$$G

Sent out to all...


Every game will have 6 college coaches rotating players, coaching, and refereeing. When college coaches working our event aren't coaching or refereeing, they are on the sidelines recruiting.

With only 4 fields in play at a time and all fields right next to one another, you are guaranteed to get looks from dozens of college coaches.

fl$ will hire 48 college coaches to work the event. With no more than 100 players per grade at the event, the college coach to player ratio is second to none.


Yeah. OK
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I'm curious with the new rules if the 2019s will be heavily recruited this summer. I'm guessing they will. And with all the verbals at this grade, will we see many kids switching schools. They can't speak to their future coaches technically. And technically kids wouldn't know what schools are interested in them until sept. 1st.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm curious with the new rules if the 2019s will be heavily recruited this summer. I'm guessing they will. And with all the verbals at this grade, will we see many kids switching schools. They can't speak to their future coaches technically. And technically kids wouldn't know what schools are interested in them until sept. 1st.


They'll be heavily evaluated. The ones that were already down the path, having talked directly to coaches & made unofficial visits (some of whom have been made offers before change) will be the 1st to go. Probably flurry of poaching efforts sept 1 as well. Coaches will be scrambling to to get verbaled kids to sign NLI
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I just shared a sideline with another loony parent this weekend. His daughter "committed" to a D2 school with a $50k price tag, only 1500 kids AND you only need about an 800 2 part SAT. Our HS is more challenging than this top notch institution but hey, she's committed
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
They'll be heavily evaluated. The ones that were already down the path, having talked directly to coaches & made unofficial visits (some of whom have been made offers before change) will be the 1st to go. Probably flurry of poaching efforts sept 1 as well. Coaches will be scrambling to to get verbaled kids to sign NLI

a 2019 can not sign NLI until November of 2018
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just shared a sideline with another loony parent this weekend. His daughter "committed" to a D2 school with a $50k price tag, only 1500 kids AND you only need about an 800 2 part SAT. Our HS is more challenging than this top notch institution but hey, she's committed


maybe she's getting half scholly & she's an average student who seeks a small school. The world needs ditch diggers and office managers
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I'm curious with the new rules if the 2019s will be heavily recruited this summer. I'm guessing they will. And with all the verbals at this grade, will we see many kids switching schools. They can't speak to their future coaches technically. And technically kids wouldn't know what schools are interested in them until sept. 1st.


They'll be heavily evaluated. The ones that were already down the path, having talked directly to coaches & made unofficial visits (some of whom have been made offers before change) will be the 1st to go. Probably flurry of poaching efforts sept 1 as well. Coaches will be scrambling to to get verbaled kids to sign NLI


no scramble. can't sign nli until senior year of high school.
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There were a fair number of 2021 boys and girls being recruited as the door shut on recruiting. Of the other age groups 2019-2020s, most of the top prospects had been picked off, but still some solid players available when they hit junior year, especially in 2020.

But what is about to happen for this 2021 age group will be fun to watch. The early recruiting was cheating all these kids of exposure. The top kids were committing in eight grade before most colleges even had a toe in the mix, before many coaches even got to see them, and before the masses of coaches ever got a chance to get an offer in. With much of the recruiting already done for the top 2019 and 2020's, the 21's will get a massive amount of exposure over the next 2-1/2 years, like no age group ever prior to and more than any age group to follow. They have the lions share of the coaches attention for the next 2.5 yrs. It is setting up to be a all out frenzy for the top players in 2021. Watch and see these players get buried in offers starting on September 1st, 2019. These players will be fully recognized and sorted out, by nearly all the schools. The early recruiting days had only a handful of schools venturing out and willing to take a gamble on such young kids. I have already seen many examples of early commits get swallowed up by their peers even before they finish 9th-10th grade. That whole hit or miss and uncertainty should be gone for the college coaches, and they will have an "all in" attitude.
How does it go down on September 1st if your a college coach? You got an entire class to fill- 8-10 players. How many players do you need to show interest in in order to land 8-10? Do they just worry about landing a top player first? Offer 5 to hope and get one? because everyone is going hard after the same small handful of players? And it all starts the same day as 100 other coaches. The coaches wanted this this recruiting legislation in place, if you ask me, it seems like it would make the process a [lacrosse] of a lot more stressful for the coaches.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just shared a sideline with another loony parent this weekend. His daughter "committed" to a D2 school with a $50k price tag, only 1500 kids AND you only need about an 800 2 part SAT. Our HS is more challenging than this top notch institution but hey, she's committed


maybe she's getting half scholly & she's an average student who seeks a small school. The world needs ditch diggers and office managers


The world needs Ivy grads too.
I need my Ivy educated dentist to clean my choppers, and I need my Ivy educated Dr. to look up my arse once a year too... When he's finished, I get in my 6 figure $ car and my homemaker wife drives me back to my million dollar home. I then pack a cooler and we head down to my boat. On the way, I stop at my computer to donate to the D2 school I graduated from. When sitting out on the water, I think to myself, jeez if I had only gone to a better school... Maybe I could have gotten somewhere in life..... Then I just laugh and make the Mrs. a nice drink. Keep this mind, having the ability to reproduce drivel from a radical leftist professor will get you A's. It takes so much more to get somewhere in life. I'd hire that D2 kid over a Ivy left wing nut ball any day. Have you looked into what they "teach" at those schools lately? Most likely you haven't.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just shared a sideline with another loony parent this weekend. His daughter "committed" to a D2 school with a $50k price tag, only 1500 kids AND you only need about an 800 2 part SAT. Our HS is more challenging than this top notch institution but hey, she's committed


maybe she's getting half scholly & she's an average student who seeks a small school. The world needs ditch diggers and office managers


The world needs Ivy grads too.
I need my Ivy educated dentist to clean my choppers, and I need my Ivy educated Dr. to look up my arse once a year too... When he's finished, I get in my 6 figure $ car and my homemaker wife drives me back to my million dollar home. I then pack a cooler and we head down to my boat. On the way, I stop at my computer to donate to the D2 school I graduated from. When sitting out on the water, I think to myself, jeez if I had only gone to a better school... Maybe I could have gotten somewhere in life..... Then I just laugh and make the Mrs. a nice drink. Keep this mind, having the ability to reproduce drivel from a radical leftist professor will get you A's. It takes so much more to get somewhere in life. I'd hire that D2 kid over a Ivy left wing nut ball any day. Have you looked into what they "teach" at those schools lately? Most likely you haven't.



BFD you sound like a d*ck head.
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Guaranteed the Mrs. is getting tattooed and tag-teamed by the landscapers right about now...while he's off on LIE admiring his ride...so that drink he fixes her on the boat cleans her palate
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just shared a sideline with another loony parent this weekend. His daughter "committed" to a D2 school with a $50k price tag, only 1500 kids AND you only need about an 800 2 part SAT. Our HS is more challenging than this top notch institution but hey, she's committed


maybe she's getting half scholly & she's an average student who seeks a small school. The world needs ditch diggers and office managers


The world needs Ivy grads too.
I need my Ivy educated dentist to clean my choppers, and I need my Ivy educated Dr. to look up my arse once a year too... When he's finished, I get in my 6 figure $ car and my homemaker wife drives me back to my million dollar home. I then pack a cooler and we head down to my boat. On the way, I stop at my computer to donate to the D2 school I graduated from. When sitting out on the water, I think to myself, jeez if I had only gone to a better school... Maybe I could have gotten somewhere in life..... Then I just laugh and make the Mrs. a nice drink. Keep this mind, having the ability to reproduce drivel from a radical leftist professor will get you A's. It takes so much more to get somewhere in life. I'd hire that D2 kid over a Ivy left wing nut ball any day. Have you looked into what they "teach" at those schools lately? Most likely you haven't.


Interesting point of view. I see where you are coming from. What's even funnier is that most doctors and dentists I'm seeing didn't even go to undergrad in this country but went to med school here from one of the big state schools. As far as the "Ivy connections" are concerned - that's there - if you stay on this side of the country. From my experiences out on the left coast and Silicon Valley in particular - they could care less where you graduated from. In fact half the "geniuses" I had the pleasure of meeting did not even finish college.
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I think the point is that some parents still choose to send their kids to some terrible schools just to say they are playing lacrosse on scholarship. Use the sport to trade up or help you get in. If you are trading down just to brag, please know everyone is laughing at you for the decision because you aren't helping your kid if they come out with a degree from a school that is a joke.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Guaranteed the Mrs. is getting tattooed and tag-teamed by the landscapers right about now...while he's off on LIE admiring his ride...so that drink he fixes her on the boat cleans her palate

And the landscaper has six crews running on hundreds of accounts and makes more money than all of them combine!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Guaranteed the Mrs. is getting tattooed and tag-teamed by the landscapers right about now...while he's off on LIE admiring his ride...so that drink he fixes her on the boat cleans her palate

And the landscaper has six crews running on hundreds of accounts and makes more money than all of them combine!


Actually, already semi retired. You must be confused with your own painful situation. You know what I'm talking about... The one where your junk is inadequate and your ole lady invites some local basketball teams over for a shoot around at your house. You might want to invest in black light, so you'll know where to step when you get home, tiny.
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ole,ole,ole,ole....that's what landscapers chant when running the train on the missus
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okay back to Lacrosse.

think this is good for the 2021's also think any hoild is not at a loss, infact will be better (at least the better hold backs). Those that hit puberty early and try to game the system will be worse for the wear. but the true players will be better off. rememeber older is still older. dont care the age or grade.

2020 may be at a slight disadvantage, saw some good 2019' go between summer and christmas last fall. 2019's the ones goign now will be on target of where they belong. Some may have had an opportunity to commit over the summer, but what a month or two. Coul dbe an interesting summer for 20's and '19's should be a fun summer for 21's and below (21's and below play for the fun of it).

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I just shared a sideline with another loony parent this weekend. His daughter "committed" to a D2 school with a $50k price tag, only 1500 kids AND you only need about an 800 2 part SAT. Our HS is more challenging than this top notch institution but hey, she's committed


maybe she's getting half scholly & she's an average student who seeks a small school. The world needs ditch diggers and office managers


The world needs Ivy grads too.
I need my Ivy educated dentist to clean my choppers, and I need my Ivy educated Dr. to look up my arse once a year too... When he's finished, I get in my 6 figure $ car and my homemaker wife drives me back to my million dollar home. I then pack a cooler and we head down to my boat. On the way, I stop at my computer to donate to the D2 school I graduated from. When sitting out on the water, I think to myself, jeez if I had only gone to a better school... Maybe I could have gotten somewhere in life..... Then I just laugh and make the Mrs. a nice drink. Keep this mind, having the ability to reproduce drivel from a radical leftist professor will get you A's. It takes so much more to get somewhere in life. I'd hire that D2 kid over a Ivy left wing nut ball any day. Have you looked into what they "teach" at those schools lately? Most likely you haven't.


Unfortunately they teach the left wing drivel at just about all of the schools... including HS, JHS and grade school. The media just like to hype it when they have a chance to mention one of the top universities in the country.


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Down goes John Paul.....
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All you 2019s and 2020s committed to Michigan....what is your first move?!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Down goes John Paul.....

Now they can build a great program for the future.
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Checkbook is coming out. Michigan will go BIG to get a top 10 coach. I wouldn't be surprised if they tried in conference for a 1-2 punch...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Checkbook is coming out. Michigan will go BIG to get a top 10 coach. I wouldn't be surprised if they tried in conference for a 1-2 punch...



Spallina fro SB should be on their short list
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That's a joke right?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Checkbook is coming out. Michigan will go BIG to get a top 10 coach. I wouldn't be surprised if they tried in conference for a 1-2 punch...



Spallina fro SB should be on their short list


Not sure they're gonna lure any BIG coaches. Tillman aint' going anywhere. Petro? Doubt it. PSU. Tambroni moved there due to family. Brecht? Don't see it happening. Myers? No way. He's content. Someone somewhere mentioned Starsia? Could they pull up a BIG assistant? I know there are some that might be appealing. . .
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Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...
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Scott Marr.

I'd hate to see him go being an Albany alum. Don't know when his contract is up.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
All you 2019s and 2020s committed to Michigan....what is your first move?!

Don't forget the 2021 who "committed" there a few weeks ago. Well, their first move will happen September 1 of their Junior year, but I would suggest having a back up plan.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.


Why would Danowski want to leave Duke?

Or do you mean Matt?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Chemotti is the name that was near the top of coaching vacancy lists last year. This year he must be even hotter. Hope he stays at Richmond and continues to build their program and create his own legacy. You've got to love the new world order.
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Head Coach at SB is making $175k what would Michigan pay their new coaches? Harbaugh makes $9m
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A couple of names- Mike Pressler and Tierney from Hofstra.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Chemotti is the name that was near the top of coaching vacancy lists last year. This year he must be even hotter. Hope he stays at Richmond and continues to build their program and create his own legacy. You've got to love the new world order.

Love the parity that's building for our kids futures. Remember when it was only Hopkins as the powerhouse?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think the point is that some parents still choose to send their kids to some terrible schools just to say they are playing lacrosse on scholarship. Use the sport to trade up or help you get in. If you are trading down just to brag, please know everyone is laughing at you for the decision because you aren't helping your kid if they come out with a degree from a school that is a joke.


Please define what you mean by "a school that is a joke".
How would someone go about quantifying what is a joke? I know for a fact that I ended up at a fairly middle of the road small liberal arts school for my undergrad - which back then was not that impressive as far as it's academic reputation. But, then I liked the school and wanted small. Afterwards - I went to a top level school for grad school. And guess what, nobody seems to care that I went to one of those little schools now.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think the point is that some parents still choose to send their kids to some terrible schools just to say they are playing lacrosse on scholarship. Use the sport to trade up or help you get in. If you are trading down just to brag, please know everyone is laughing at you for the decision because you aren't helping your kid if they come out with a degree from a school that is a joke.


Please define what you mean by "a school that is a joke".
How would someone go about quantifying what is a joke? I know for a fact that I ended up at a fairly middle of the road small liberal arts school for my undergrad - which back then was not that impressive as far as it's academic reputation. But, then I liked the school and wanted small. Afterwards - I went to a top level school for grad school. And guess what, nobody seems to care that I went to one of those little schools now.



Exactly, so what Division 1 colleges are a joke ? If possible find a school that meets your son or daughters needs academically, athletically socially and financially, if its the right fit for your child its the right place to be . What arrogant a holes people are.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think the point is that some parents still choose to send their kids to some terrible schools just to say they are playing lacrosse on scholarship. Use the sport to trade up or help you get in. If you are trading down just to brag, please know everyone is laughing at you for the decision because you aren't helping your kid if they come out with a degree from a school that is a joke.


Please define what you mean by "a school that is a joke".
How would someone go about quantifying what is a joke? I know for a fact that I ended up at a fairly middle of the road small liberal arts school for my undergrad - which back then was not that impressive as far as it's academic reputation. But, then I liked the school and wanted small. Afterwards - I went to a top level school for grad school. And guess what, nobody seems to care that I went to one of those little schools now.



Exactly, so what Division 1 colleges are a joke ? If possible find a school that meets your son or daughters needs academically, athletically socially and financially, if its the right fit for your child its the right place to be . What arrogant a holes people are.


Lacrosse seems to bring out elitist attitudes towards all things - the 'prestige' of a club team, the quality of the school program, the perceived quality of subsequent colleges, both academically and lacrosse-wise. Putting aside the lacrosse side of this, it is all very indicative of ugly personal character traits. And it is not about being successful in life or not - elitism is not correlated with success!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
All you 2019s and 2020s committed to Michigan....what is your first move?!


First move should be to take a breath - new rules mean nobody can do anything now anyway - no poaching calls, no reaching out to other programs. Second move should be to think that your college lacrosse experience probably just got MUCH better. Michigan does nothing half way and will likely do what they need to hire a big name coach. Third, this does nothing but raise the profile of those already committed - guarantee you all the poachers out there made note of who the committed kids are and who they may take a run at when allowed.
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If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads


Spoken like a true Ivy League grad! I'll have to remember to use "meatheads" regularly and freely in my communications. . .is that a Yale thing?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads


Dude, you have to find a new more entertaining terminology, you've used the meathead line at least four previous times. Come on, it's BOTC, originality counts.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads


Spoken like a true Ivy League grad! I'll have to remember to use "meatheads" regularly and freely in my communications. . .is that a Yale thing?


Sorry but the gulf between 800 and ivy 1500-1600 is like from here to the moon. How about trying to produce just a sold "c" student which is around a 1000 sat. You people make me laugh talking about your kid getting recruited with a D average. very sad.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads


Dude, you have to find a new more entertaining terminology, you've used the meathead line at least four previous times. Come on, it's BOTC, originality counts.


Other than BOTC, the only other place regular use of the term "meathead" was All in the Family. . .seems strangely appropriate in this case, right?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads


Dude, you have to find a new more entertaining terminology, you've used the meathead line at least four previous times. Come on, it's BOTC, originality counts.


Other than BOTC, the only other place regular use of the term "meathead" was All in the Family. . .seems strangely appropriate in this case, right?


HAHAHA, are you calling this guy Archie Bunker? A great show by the way.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I will box my bet: Chemotti, DeLuca, and Petro. Pressler hasn't done anything recently. Tierney (Hofstra) not there yet. Dino too old. Michigan does nothing small. They will put the peddle down and go big, spend big. First million dollar signing bonus in D1 college lacrosse and $400 a year. EOS.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
If your kid is going to a school that wants a 400 math and 400 verbal sat maybe your kid should have spent less time on the wall and more time studying meatheads


Dude, you have to find a new more entertaining terminology, you've used the meathead line at least four previous times. Come on, it's BOTC, originality counts.


Other than BOTC, the only other place regular use of the term "meathead" was All in the Family. . .seems strangely appropriate in this case, right?


HAHAHA, are you calling this guy Archie Bunker? A great show by the way.


If the plaid coat fits. . .LOL. Yes, great show. This is what happens when you're priced out of Queens and have to move out on the Island.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I will box my bet: Chemotti, DeLuca, and Petro. Pressler hasn't done anything recently. Tierney (Hofstra) not there yet. Dino too old. Michigan does nothing small. They will put the peddle down and go big, spend big. First million dollar signing bonus in D1 college lacrosse and $400 a year. EOS.


Richmond locks down Chemotti with five year extension. Writing was on the wall!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I will box my bet: Chemotti, DeLuca, and Petro. Pressler hasn't done anything recently. Tierney (Hofstra) not there yet. Dino too old. Michigan does nothing small. They will put the peddle down and go big, spend big. First million dollar signing bonus in D1 college lacrosse and $400 a year. EOS.


What you been smoking? This isnt Basketball or Football. No big bonus or huge salary. Be comparable to other BIG TEN schools with lacrosse.
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How much do college D1 coaches make ??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How much do college D1 coaches make ??

John Paul's salary was 115K
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How much do college D1 coaches make ??


Outside of the top 25 many most make around $50-$70k, top assistant $20-40k all other assistants are volunteer or gas money

In NY
Stony Brook pays the HC $170, associate coach $15k, asst coach 11k
Albany HC $95 associate $55k
Binghampton HC $75k

Sport doesn't generate any money so unless you are the top of the top with results and longevity it doesn't pay very well. That's why they all do camps and clinics using the colleges facilities to supplement their pay. Same thing in Soccer. It also explains why they is so much coaching turnover because these coaches like everyone else aspire to more than $50k a year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I will box my bet: Chemotti, DeLuca, and Petro. Pressler hasn't done anything recently. Tierney (Hofstra) not there yet. Dino too old. Michigan does nothing small. They will put the peddle down and go big, spend big. First million dollar signing bonus in D1 college lacrosse and $400 a year. EOS.


This could be a new contender for the most moronic post on botc this year. No grasp on how unimportant lax is in the whole scheme of things. Lol, huge signing bonus and $400 k per. Awesome!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How much do college D1 coaches make ??


Outside of the top 25 many most make around $50-$70k, top assistant $20-40k all other assistants are volunteer or gas money

In NY
Stony Brook pays the HC $170, associate coach $15k, asst coach 11k
Albany HC $95 associate $55k
Binghampton HC $75k

Sport doesn't generate any money so unless you are the top of the top with results and longevity it doesn't pay very well. That's why they all do camps and clinics using the colleges facilities to supplement their pay. Same thing in Soccer. It also explains why they is so much coaching turnover because these coaches like everyone else aspire to more than $50k a year


Lack of qualified coaches in addition to players is tough on the women's sport. Colleges want Head Coaching experience, a master's degree, and every summer and weekend of the year. then they think that 35-45K is more than fair for all of that because its D1 you know. And then they want coaches to move halfway across the country and get $10k to hire 2 assistants. THATS why they cant get and retain good coaches because of the pay, relocation, pressure and lost weekends.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Any thoughts on who Michigan may be looking at on the women's side of coaching? Will the assistants be retained?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
How much do college D1 coaches make ??


Outside of the top 25 many most make around $50-$70k, top assistant $20-40k all other assistants are volunteer or gas money

In NY
Stony Brook pays the HC $170, associate coach $15k, asst coach 11k
Albany HC $95 associate $55k
Binghampton HC $75k

Sport doesn't generate any money so unless you are the top of the top with results and longevity it doesn't pay very well. That's why they all do camps and clinics using the colleges facilities to supplement their pay. Same thing in Soccer. It also explains why they is so much coaching turnover because these coaches like everyone else aspire to more than $50k a year


Lack of qualified coaches in addition to players is tough on the women's sport. Colleges want Head Coaching experience, a master's degree, and every summer and weekend of the year. then they think that 35-45K is more than fair for all of that because its D1 you know. And then they want coaches to move halfway across the country and get $10k to hire 2 assistants. THATS why they cant get and retain good coaches because of the pay, relocation, pressure and lost weekends.


Another reason why stopping early recruiting makes sense because outside of the top 10 coaches are moving like crazy
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.


Petro? Come on. Guy can't win at Hopkins. Has had the top recruiting classes with all those 20 yo freshmen for years and can't even beat OSU. They got their asses handed to them last night in every facet of the game. Last years excuse was injuries, what's this years? Party is way over at Hopkins. Just like UVA. Two of the biggest offenders in ER and holdback recruiting. Those two programs wont be winning anything for years to come. Hop lucky to get an at large bid to tourney, which they really won't deserve, just like last year.
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UM women's -Dowd and Tumulo
UM Men's-Tierney leaves Denver or Tierney leaves Hofstra-one will get it.

They are putting big money into this job to get a winner in both...Big names.

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What about Delaware Men's
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.


Petro? Come on. Guy can't win at Hopkins. Has had the top recruiting classes with all those 20 yo freshmen for years and can't even beat OSU. They got their asses handed to them last night in every facet of the game. Last years excuse was injuries, what's this years? Party is way over at Hopkins. Just like UVA. Two of the biggest offenders in ER and holdback recruiting. Those two programs wont be winning anything for years to come. Hop lucky to get an at large bid to tourney, which they really won't deserve, just like last year.


True, the look on his face during the beat down yesterday was priceless.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.


Petro? Come on. Guy can't win at Hopkins. Has had the top recruiting classes with all those 20 yo freshmen for years and can't even beat OSU. They got their asses handed to them last night in every facet of the game. Last years excuse was injuries, what's this years? Party is way over at Hopkins. Just like UVA. Two of the biggest offenders in ER and holdback recruiting. Those two programs wont be winning anything for years to come. Hop lucky to get an at large bid to tourney, which they really won't deserve, just like last year.


True, the look on his face during the beat down yesterday was priceless.


wasn't the score 15-13? wish it was a better game.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.


Petro? Come on. Guy can't win at Hopkins. Has had the top recruiting classes with all those 20 yo freshmen for years and can't even beat OSU. They got their asses handed to them last night in every facet of the game. Last years excuse was injuries, what's this years? Party is way over at Hopkins. Just like UVA. Two of the biggest offenders in ER and holdback recruiting. Those two programs wont be winning anything for years to come. Hop lucky to get an at large bid to tourney, which they really won't deserve, just like last year.


True, the look on his face during the beat down yesterday was priceless.


wasn't the score 15-13? wish it was a better game.


Was much worse for Hopkins than it looked. They were deer in headlights.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Tillman and Petro are great targets... why not? Two of the best in the biz. Petro and Danowski are in contract years btw... DeLuca to Duke n Danowski to Michigan? DeLuca to Michigan? Chemotti would be a good steal...


Petro's contract extended through 2020 back in 2015. I can see them going for an ACC coach like Danowski or pulling up an experienced assistant.


Petro? Come on. Guy can't win at Hopkins. Has had the top recruiting classes with all those 20 yo freshmen for years and can't even beat OSU. They got their asses handed to them last night in every facet of the game. Last years excuse was injuries, what's this years? Party is way over at Hopkins. Just like UVA. Two of the biggest offenders in ER and holdback recruiting. Those two programs wont be winning anything for years to come. Hop lucky to get an at large bid to tourney, which they really won't deserve, just like last year.


True, the look on his face during the beat down yesterday was priceless.


wasn't the score 15-13? wish it was a better game.


Hopkins was beat in first half. Made a little run at end. Wasnt ever in doubt
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is


there's also a certain womens college coach who owns a club, is that money train over with the new recruiting rules?
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Morning. My daughter saw on instagram that a 2020 posted yesterday that she committed to brown and another 2020 to notre dame. Do you think they were sitting on these offers? why post now?
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Both were CT girls...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is


there's also a certain womens college coach who owns a club, is that money train over with the new recruiting rules?


New recruiting rules help the Clubs.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is


there's also a certain womens college coach who owns a club, is that money train over with the new recruiting rules?


New recruiting rules help the Clubs.


keeps them on the hook longer
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What a year for St Johns U! Yikes!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is


there's also a certain womens college coach who owns a club, is that money train over with the new recruiting rules?


JS does not own a club. BS does.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is


CR
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
So a certain HS teacher, who also coaches and then owns a club is making many many many times more than these college coaches. Shows you where the power is


there's also a certain womens college coach who owns a club, is that money train over with the new recruiting rules?


JS does not own a club. BS does.


SS
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Don't know what the deal is for the 2020 Brown commit, but apparently the Notre Dame commit deal was sealed JUST before the new ruling was passed. . . . Posting has been out there for a few days, maybe Instagram is just making it more well known now that Brown commit is coming forward. . . .
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You do realize there is no "offer" from Brown right? No scholarships.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Talking about verbal offer, not scholarship.
These offers must have been made just before the new ruling
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
You do realize there is no "offer" from Brown right? No scholarships.


Yes, there is an offer. The offer is help with admission to the university and a roster spot.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Cornell and Head Coach Kerwick parting ways. What does that mean for the commit's?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Cornell and Head Coach Kerwick parting ways. What does that mean for the commit's?

Kerwick going to Michigan.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Cornell and Head Coach Kerwick parting ways. What does that mean for the commit's?

Kerwick going to Michigan.


um...no
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is perfect example of why early commits need to be careful. The commitments do not in anyway have to be honored by incoming coach.
In some cases AD will honor because Ivy they feel it is about the school not the sport. You don't hear about the kids getting the calls telling them sorry you are no longer wanted. Especially when a player tells a coach no not interested going somewhere else and then the head coach of where he thought he was going gets fired and the replacement is from a school he said no to.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is perfect example of why early commits need to be careful. The commitments do not in anyway have to be honored by incoming coach.
In some cases AD will honor because Ivy they feel it is about the school not the sport. You don't hear about the kids getting the calls telling them sorry you are no longer wanted. Especially when a player tells a coach no not interested going somewhere else and then the head coach of where he thought he was going gets fired and the replacement is from a school he said no to.



Outside of the top 25 many most make around $50-$70k, top assistant $20-40k all other assistants are volunteer or gas money. With so little money being made the coaches are always moving around outside the top 10

Sport doesn't generate any money so unless you are the top of the top with results and longevity it doesn't pay very well. That's why they all do camps and clinics using the colleges facilities to supplement their pay. Same thing in Soccer. It also explains why they is so much coaching turnover because these coaches like everyone else aspire to more than $50k a year

Lack of qualified coaches in addition to players is tough on the women's sport. Colleges want Head Coaching experience, a master's degree, and every summer and weekend of the year. then they think that 35-45K is more than fair for all of that because its D1 you know. And then they want coaches to move halfway across the country and get $10k to hire 2 assistants. THATS why they cant get and retain good coaches because of the pay, relocation, pressure and lost weekends
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
As for Cornell, All 17's commits will be honored, after that I'd consider yourself to be back in the general recruiting pool (which you were already anyway, you just knew that someone kind of wanted you). Back to the prospect days and showcases...
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Cornell and Head Coach Kerwick parting ways. What does that mean for the commit's?


What about Milliman take over permanently
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
As for Cornell, All 17's commits will be honored, after that I'd consider yourself to be back in the general recruiting pool (which you were already anyway, you just knew that someone kind of wanted you). Back to the prospect days and showcases...


Say's who? Whomever is selected to fill the Head Coach position will evaluate current commits. Cornell's record has not been great as of late. Recruiting may have something to do with that. Put yourself in the incoming coaches seat. Would you automatically honor all current commits?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The Ivies, the very competitive private schools (Duke...) and the very competitive public schools (UNC, UVa, Michigan...) can always use grades/test scores as the out. These schools are turning away thousands of well qualified applicants every year. If there is a coaching change and the new coach does not want a player, he can easily say that grades/board scores are not up to snuff as the reason not to honor a verbal. UNC for instance had over 40k applications for this year's incoming class. They take less than 5k and only 15% of the 5k are from out of state. They, like the rest of these schools, have an easy out if they want to use it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.



So in very rare occasions, which no one here can specifically pinpoint a commitment was not honored. Great, hey they saw Bigfoot once too.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.


On the women's side at Michigan the AD called the 2018's before the coach was fired to let them know they still have a secure spot..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I can absolutely give you an example. When Dartmouth made their coaching change they DE COMMITTED ALL BUT 3. Every player received a letter from the AD to set up a call. Some were told they were no longer going to honor the offer and some had to meet with new coach and then a decision was made. Brown not on that large a scale but they did not take everyone because the new coach was looking for a different type of player. Felt they needed more defense and last UVA. Not only did he de commit but he also cut players that were on the previous years roster. So no one is safe and to assume you are is dangerous unless you here it from the Coach or AD
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absolutely Hofstra recruits early, they are worst offenders in recruiting. 9th grade and they use high school team to bring other teams into the area so they can recruit under the radar. Ask most of their recruits how early Hofstra approached them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
absolutely Hofstra recruits early, they are worst offenders in recruiting. 9th grade and they use high school team to bring other teams into the area so they can recruit under the radar. Ask most of their recruits how early Hofstra approached them.


And the worst part is, the head coach is always the one quoted as putting down early recruiting and is regularly quoted stating how ridiculous it is to recruit a 9th grader. If that's your position fine, but don't be a hypocrite.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I can absolutely give you an example. When Dartmouth made their coaching change they DE COMMITTED ALL BUT 3. Every player received a letter from the AD to set up a call. Some were told they were no longer going to honor the offer and some had to meet with new coach and then a decision was made. Brown not on that large a scale but they did not take everyone because the new coach was looking for a different type of player. Felt they needed more defense and last UVA. Not only did he de commit but he also cut players that were on the previous years roster. So no one is safe and to assume you are is dangerous unless you here it from the Coach or AD


That DID NOT happen at Dartmouth. The coach did cut a bunch of players, but there were no rescinding of offers. That is an alternate fact. Not sure where you got that but not the case.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ok. Great. Your 19, 20 and 21 sons are all fine. just sit back and relax and ring the new coaches to introduce yourself in 2-3 years and let him know you are coming and your ready to sign your letter of intent. Nothing to worry about at all, nothing has changed. Sorry to introduce an alternative possible reality for you to consider.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ok. Great. Your 19, 20 and 21 sons are all fine. just sit back and relax and ring the new coaches to introduce yourself in 2-3 years and let him know you are coming and your ready to sign your letter of intent. Nothing to worry about at all, nothing has changed. Sorry to introduce an alternative possible reality for you to consider.


Huh?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.


On the women's side at Michigan the AD called the 2018's before the coach was fired to let them know they still have a secure spot..


I doubt that happened as it would have been against the new rules for recruiting.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
As for Cornell, All 17's commits will be honored, after that I'd consider yourself to be back in the general recruiting pool (which you were already anyway, you just knew that someone kind of wanted you). Back to the prospect days and showcases...


Say's who? Whomever is selected to fill the Head Coach position will evaluate current commits. Cornell's record has not been great as of late. Recruiting may have something to do with that. Put yourself in the incoming coaches seat. Would you automatically honor all current commits?


2 schools of thought here.

1). Hasnt Milliman been the point on recruiting, if the coach doesnt take the kid is he is looking elsewhere.
2). Milliman is interim HC so he recruited you so you should know where or how you stand.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.


On the women's side at Michigan the AD called the 2018's before the coach was fired to let them know they still have a secure spot..


I doubt that happened as it would have been against the new rules for recruiting.


2018s are well past Sept 1st of their junior year, so coaches can contact them freely without violating the new rules.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I stand corrected. It did not happen THAT WAY. Dartmouth AD told kids they can still come to school but can not guarantee a spot on the lacrosse team they would have to walk on unless they hear from Coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I can absolutely give you an example. When Dartmouth made their coaching change they DE COMMITTED ALL BUT 3. Every player received a letter from the AD to set up a call. Some were told they were no longer going to honor the offer and some had to meet with new coach and then a decision was made. Brown not on that large a scale but they did not take everyone because the new coach was looking for a different type of player. Felt they needed more defense and last UVA. Not only did he de commit but he also cut players that were on the previous years roster. So no one is safe and to assume you are is dangerous unless you here it from the Coach or AD


Names of these players or I don't believe a word of it. Otherwise a bunch of nonsense. What Brown kid got decommitted? UVA, never happened, making up tall tales. Falsehoods. Outright lying to make parents nervous if they happen to be on here, or to make yourself feel better if your child has not committed yet. Sorry dude, your story doesn't hold water.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.


No you're the jacka$$, take your GED and go smoke some more weed loser. Typical dope with no degree beyond his NYC public school education dictating life by sports. IDIOT!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.



Let me guess, your boss is an Ivy graduate from Cornell, the guy who owns the company is from Dartmouth, you................................. Online degree from Phoenix U!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.


On the women's side at Michigan the AD called the 2018's before the coach was fired to let them know they still have a secure spot..


I doubt that happened as it would have been against the new rules for recruiting.


Ahh what are you talking about??? They are juniors and can call, text, go out to dinner with the coaches if they want. Get up to speed on the rules not just the solo cup...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Armpit of the Ivies? Which still makes them better institutions than 99.9% of the non-Ivy league schools. You are an idiot.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.



Let me guess, your boss is an Ivy graduate from Cornell, the guy who owns the company is from Dartmouth, you................................. Online degree from Phoenix U!



Let me guess.....you and/or your son did't get in to Harvard, Yale, Princeton, or Penn? Seems I hit a nerve. Like I said, good school, not in the same level as the other Ivies, athletically or academically.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.



Let me guess, your boss is an Ivy graduate from Cornell, the guy who owns the company is from Dartmouth, you................................. Online degree from Phoenix U!



Let me guess.....you and/or your son did't get in to Harvard, Yale, Princeton, or Penn? Seems I hit a nerve. Like I said, good school, not in the same level as the other Ivies, athletically or academically.



No U of Phoenix I didn't, also didn't get into any other ivy. Certainly don't have the gall to insult an ivy. Make sure the floors look good at the office, I want to see my reflection, and stop smoking weed before work, you stink
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.



Let me guess, your boss is an Ivy graduate from Cornell, the guy who owns the company is from Dartmouth, you................................. Online degree from Phoenix U!



Let me guess.....you and/or your son did't get in to Harvard, Yale, Princeton, or Penn? Seems I hit a nerve. Like I said, good school, not in the same level as the other Ivies, athletically or academically.



Dude who struck a nerve? You seem mighty offended!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Dartmouth is not a good example of anything. The team is absolutely terrible. Who would even want to play lax there? Terrible facilities, losing record. If you have already gotten into the school, run for the hills, not like you have a scholarship to lose.


You're right, that Ivy education should be discounted immediately! Go to insert name here instead, you'll win at lax, then when you're working for a few years and knock on the bosses door and he invites you in you can get a quick peek at his Dartmouth Degree on the wall! What a jackass.


You're the Jackass, I said, if you are already admitted into the school, drop the lax like a bad habit, there is no scholarship to lose and they can't kick you out once you're already in. The school is good, although they are they armpit of the Ivies along with Cornell. At least Cornell Lax has some hope to be successful in the future.



Let me guess, your boss is an Ivy graduate from Cornell, the guy who owns the company is from Dartmouth, you................................. Online degree from Phoenix U!



Let me guess.....you and/or your son did't get in to Harvard, Yale, Princeton, or Penn? Seems I hit a nerve. Like I said, good school, not in the same level as the other Ivies, athletically or academically.



No U of Phoenix I didn't, also didn't get into any other ivy. Certainly don't have the gall to insult an ivy. Make sure the floors look good at the office, I want to see my reflection, and stop smoking weed before work, you stink


Interesting tactic, hurling insults not having any clue about who I am, where I went to school, or where my son is going to school. Trust me, I'm not mopping floors, and I know the differences between the the top 50 schools. There is a huge drop off after the top 10. Not that other schools aren't good choices, but they are not at the same level. You know it too, which is why you are getting so mad. That being said, the best we can hope for is that our kids wind up at the place that is right for them. I have one at a big 10, and one at a top Ivy. My brother went to Cornell and I went SUNY, I make 2X his salary. It's what you make of your choices. But, getting back to the point, Dartmouth and Cornell are no Harvard or Yale. And Dartmouth has a terrible Lax program.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
that was a waste of 5 mins of my time catching up with this thread. Agree with the uncertainty for any verballed underclassman at a school that lost his coach...

Cornell is mess. That interim tab is real confidence inspiring thing for any prospective recruit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Phoenix, you need to re read the posts, seems you threw out the insult to kids, me.....not so much. Maybe if you went to Dartmouth, that armpit of a school and not the online institution you did go to we wouldn't be going back and forth.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Correct, will evaluate and decide, meaning no commitment. No college coach can not dishonor a 17 commit, they are already accepted and have likely submitted their $$. Not sure about scholarships, but that is not in play in the Cornell case. '17's fine. younger its a new ballgame. Sorry to the early bloomers...


Nonsense, stop fear mongering. Just because your kid is not committed don't be a tool. My child is not old enough yet but I assure you the incoming coach will honor commits



It's not nonsense. Most of the time the incoming coach does but make no mistake it happens occasionally that they do not. Chances are your child will be finite, but a little concern is understandable. As far as Michigan goes, 2017 commits were by AD that all will go as planned for their year aside from the coaching Chayangkura.


On the women's side at Michigan the AD called the 2018's before the coach was fired to let them know they still have a secure spot..


I doubt that happened as it would have been against the new rules for recruiting.


Ahh what are you talking about??? They are juniors and can call, text, go out to dinner with the coaches if they want. Get up to speed on the rules not just the solo cup...






You arc corract , however a Coach or AD cannot initiate direct contact with a recruit until June after their junior year. That has been the rule for sometime now



Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Armpit of the Ivies? Which still makes them better institutions than 99.9% of the non-Ivy league schools. You are an idiot.


let's see your kid get in there without lax.... no shot you dope
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Armpit of the Ivies? Which still makes them better institutions than 99.9% of the non-Ivy league schools. You are an idiot.


let's see your kid get in there without lax.... no shot you dope


I think you just argued with yourself. The poster was complimenting Dartmouth and Cornell.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
i quoted the wrong dope OOPS !
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Armpit of the Ivies? Which still makes them better institutions than 99.9% of the non-Ivy league schools. You are an idiot.


let's see your kid get in there without lax.... no shot you dope


Still the Armpit, I'll take Yale thank you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I guess you haven't visited Yale yet...that campus is the armpit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.


Great school, campus was kind of a disappointment, Yale bowl is a concrete piece of crap! Hofstra has a much nicer facility
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
True story.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.


Great school, campus was kind of a disappointment, Yale bowl is a concrete piece of crap! Hofstra has a much nicer facility


Unfortunately the stadium at Hofstra is falling apart as they build the Med School and focus their Capital $ on that. Broken seats, not enough rest rooms.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think it is lucky Hofstra's stadium hasn't been torn down yet. It has been discussed.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.


Great school, campus was kind of a disappointment, Yale bowl is a concrete piece of crap! Hofstra has a much nicer facility


Unfortunately the stadium at Hofstra is falling apart as they build the Med School and focus their Capital $ on that. Broken seats, not enough rest rooms.

Hofstra is in Hempstead. I'll take Yale
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess you haven't visited Yale yet...that campus is the armpit.

No way he visited Yale, it's a DUMP compared to cornell of dartmouth. Bad neighborhood, homeless people on campus.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Agreed. Obviously a great, great school, but even Columbia is a nicer campus.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Totally agree
Does anyone have any insight into the Casey Powell LI tryouts this week to field a team for WSL in Denver ?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.


Great school, campus was kind of a disappointment, Yale bowl is a concrete piece of crap! Hofstra has a much nicer facility


Unfortunately the stadium at Hofstra is falling apart as they build the Med School and focus their Capital $ on that. Broken seats, not enough rest rooms.

Hofstra is in Hempstead. I'll take Yale


Guess you have never been to New Haven. Horrible and dangerous. Hofstra at least keeps tabs on campus. Liberal Yale lets homeless and others roam around campus even if they are intimidating and aggressive.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.


Great school, campus was kind of a disappointment, Yale bowl is a concrete piece of crap! Hofstra has a much nicer facility


Unfortunately the stadium at Hofstra is falling apart as they build the Med School and focus their Capital $ on that. Broken seats, not enough rest rooms.

Hofstra is in Hempstead. I'll take Yale
i

Guess you have never been to New Haven. Horrible and dangerous. Hofstra at least keeps tabs on campus. Liberal Yale lets homeless and others roam around campus even if they are intimidating and aggressive.


Liberal, hostile, nasty environment altogether with Yale. Even one of their university officials just got busted for calling the local citizens "white trash". The liberal Mean Team at work. Yikes.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess you haven't visited Yale yet...that campus is the armpit.

No way he visited Yale, it's a DUMP compared to cornell of dartmouth. Bad neighborhood, homeless people on campus.


The campus itself is very nice, though, especially architecturally.

Tough to beat Dartmouth though if you're looking for that quaint, small college town feel.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess you haven't visited Yale yet...that campus is the armpit.

No way he visited Yale, it's a DUMP compared to cornell of dartmouth. Bad neighborhood, homeless people on campus.


The campus itself is very nice, though, especially architecturally.

Tough to beat Dartmouth though if you're looking for that quaint, small college town feel.



...and don't mind the coaching merry go round.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess you haven't visited Yale yet...that campus is the armpit.

No way he visited Yale, it's a DUMP compared to cornell of dartmouth. Bad neighborhood, homeless people on campus.


The campus itself is very nice, though, especially architecturally.

Tough to beat Dartmouth though if you're looking for that quaint, small college town feel.



...and don't mind the coaching merry go round.


...says the guy who complains about a BJ
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess you haven't visited Yale yet...that campus is the armpit.

No way he visited Yale, it's a DUMP compared to cornell of dartmouth. Bad neighborhood, homeless people on campus.


The campus itself is very nice, though, especially architecturally.

Tough to beat Dartmouth though if you're looking for that quaint, small college town feel.



...and don't mind the coaching merry go round.


...says the guy who complains about a BJ

BJ is your Mothers initials......
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Yale Bowl has some history and is a a must see if you are into stadiums.


Great school, campus was kind of a disappointment, Yale bowl is a concrete piece of crap! Hofstra has a much nicer facility


Unfortunately the stadium at Hofstra is falling apart as they build the Med School and focus their Capital $ on that. Broken seats, not enough rest rooms.

Hofstra is in Hempstead. I'll take Yale
i

Guess you have never been to New Haven. Horrible and dangerous. Hofstra at least keeps tabs on campus. Liberal Yale lets homeless and others roam around campus even if they are intimidating and aggressive.


Liberal, hostile, nasty environment altogether with Yale. Even one of their university officials just got busted for calling the local citizens "white trash". The liberal Mean Team at work. Yikes.


Seriously though, if anyone has first hand experience with Yale, new haven etc.. I am sending my wife and 15 year old there and they ain't the most street smart, Is it actually a tough environment or is this over hyped?? Thanks for any tips..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Your wife and child will be fine in New Haven. It's a lot safer than Brooklyn/Queens.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Anyone know about Captain U? Seems like an expensive way to get in front of coaches.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
wast of time and money
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
captain u emails my girls everyday that a coach looked them up but to see which coach it is we have to pay.
I havent paid, our club said not to do it
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
captain u emails my girls everyday that a coach looked them up but to see which coach it is we have to pay.
I havent paid, our club said not to do it

That is what I thought too. Some of them are matches, but my son has no profile for them to match to.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Lacrosse Recruits (Sports Recruits) is a good site
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Agreed. Captain U is a total waste of money, and a "tell" for most coaches that there is not strong recruiting interest. Save your money
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Now should this thread just be recruiting? LOL
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Head over to IWLCA and see what they posted yesterday about recruiting loophole at camps and clinics. Didn't they think of that?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Head over to IWLCA and see what they posted yesterday about recruiting loophole at camps and clinics. Didn't they think of that?



I guess they didn't. The whole proposal makes no sense.

If a verbal commitment was always:

1-subject to change and truly non-binding till the athlete signs their NLI or better yet, actually steps foot on campus; and
2- always contingent on an athletes ability to make it through the admissions process for their university of choice

Isn't the whole verbal commitment thing like a brokered promise and way overblown - Player- "I want to come to your school and play for you". Coach - "I like the way you play so if you get thru admissions we'd love to have you".

Look at the recent de-commits from Hopkins as an example - de-commit there - commit elsewhere - who cares. Ty Zanders reports that stuff all day long, that's what makes him relevant. Maybe he should be posting the GPA of said STUD athlete as well when announcing this stuff. The players still needs to get through admissions. Coaches either evaluated right and it works out, or they didn't and the kid -doesn't make it into the school or on the field to help the coach win. Sometimes that affects their tenure as a coach at said school.

Lastly - why can Lane Kiffin announce a commitment to a grade school kid from Cali to come play football for him? Where is the NCAA protecting the student athlete here? NCAA is all about 2 things - MARCH MADNESS and BOWL GAMES ie $$$$$$$$. Legislating Common Sense is overkill.

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Lots of schools are very close to the wrong side of the tracks. For every safe one like William and Mary there are 5 like Hopkins or Yale. The campuses are fine but where our parental concern spiked is the off campus housing and night time social activities and parties. Walking around at midnight off campus isn't a good idea but it is going to happen so choose wisely
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Lots of schools are very close to the wrong side of the tracks. For every safe one like William and Mary there are 5 like Hopkins or Yale. The campuses are fine but where our parental concern spiked is the off campus housing and night time social activities and parties. Walking around at midnight off campus isn't a good idea but it is going to happen so choose wisely



Had a friend out if state loved Hofstra until the walked off campus
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Head over to IWLCA and see what they posted yesterday about recruiting loophole at camps and clinics. Didn't they think of that?



I guess they didn't. The whole proposal makes no sense.

If a verbal commitment was always:

1-subject to change and truly non-binding till the athlete signs their NLI or better yet, actually steps foot on campus; and
2- always contingent on an athletes ability to make it through the admissions process for their university of choice

Isn't the whole verbal commitment thing like a brokered promise and way overblown - Player- "I want to come to your school and play for you". Coach - "I like the way you play so if you get thru admissions we'd love to have you".

Look at the recent de-commits from Hopkins as an example - de-commit there - commit elsewhere - who cares. Ty Zanders reports that stuff all day long, that's what makes him relevant. Maybe he should be posting the GPA of said STUD athlete as well when announcing this stuff. The players still needs to get through admissions. Coaches either evaluated right and it works out, or they didn't and the kid -doesn't make it into the school or on the field to help the coach win. Sometimes that affects their tenure as a coach at said school.

Lastly - why can Lane Kiffin announce a commitment to a grade school kid from Cali to come play football for him? Where is the NCAA protecting the student athlete here? NCAA is all about 2 things - MARCH MADNESS and BOWL GAMES ie $$$$$$$$. Legislating Common Sense is overkill.



This whole thing is about three things:

1. Making sure that certain schools, i.e. Ivies, Duke (I mean, look who started this!?!), ND, etc., still have a chance to get some of the talent before it's "locked down" (which it totally isn't) by another school. It's couched under "keeping the game great" and "slowing things down for our kids" and was fully supported by US Lacrosse. You want a disconnect? Look at the kids they put on their cover of the "ER is stupid" issue v. the kids that really have been ER'ed. NO ONE LOOKS LIKE THAT!! They're mostly all well into adolescence and 6+ feet. Don't believe me? Go to any top tourney.
2. Appeasing the parents of kids who are "suffering" and "stressing out" because the others around them are committing and now they have no shot or they're "late bloomers". Seriously? It's the ultimate in helicopter parenting. I don't like the "rules" so I'll whine and moan and get the "rules" changed (and still watch as my kid isn't recruited....happening all the time in the upperclasses). But but but Ben Reeves was a late bloomer and he went to Yale! He was committed to Hobart as a sophomore and traded up to Yale after Shay came calling. That "no one wanted him" hagiography peddled by the ER detractors and US Lacrosse was ridiculous.
3. Lining the pockets of the coaches with $$$$ at their prospect camps. Have you been to one? There are 150+ kids there shelling out 165 bucks for the "chance" to be seen and now "the only way to interact with college coaches." So, you take away my ability to speak with a coach by shutting down the free (outside of travel expenses) loophole and open up a legitimate loophole with dollars attached? That's some Michael Corleone stuff right there. . .But but but you can't talk about recruiting!!! "Hey kid, you've got a great shot, great footwork, and are a top player" means "expect a phone call"

Whole thing is ridiculous.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


You were awful at lacrosse. That's all you had to say, you were awful at lacrosse. We got it from there..
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


LOL, are you sure you even enjoy the game? Some of us are actually quite rational. No one's pushing for pro lax players. In fact, most of the kids I know who are ER weren't even gunning for it. My kid still enjoys the game, has a social life, has luckily escaped injury (and trust me, it would end quickly if the injury caused any issues down the road), gets stellar marks (grades come first and if his grades start to slip, he's got a 96, buh bye lacrosse), and found himself in a very lucky for him situation. Life sucts that way sometimes. . .there are many other things that didn't work out for him without a governing body coming to his "defense." But let's make sure that Big Brother NCAA stops what at the end of the day was a very minor problem for a "sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about."
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


LOL, are you sure you even enjoy the game? Some of us are actually quite rational. No one's pushing for pro lax players. In fact, most of the kids I know who are ER weren't even gunning for it. My kid still enjoys the game, has a social life, has luckily escaped injury (and trust me, it would end quickly if the injury caused any issues down the road), gets stellar marks (grades come first and if his grades start to slip, he's got a 96, buh bye lacrosse), and found himself in a very lucky for him situation. Life sucts that way sometimes. . .there are many other things that didn't work out for him without a governing body coming to his "defense." But let's make sure that Big Brother NCAA stops what at the end of the day was a very minor problem for a "sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about."


You sound sane, your kid is smart, sounds like grades come first and you don't expect your kid to be a pro or better yet a fulltime summer coach so how does a well grounded school first dad think picking a college in 8th grade is good? We can argue about NCAA over reach and the fact that D1 players are at school for athletics 1st and school 2nd or that they spend 2x more time on sport than school work and why the athletes don't get paid to play etc etc but a verbal in 8th grade is too early and im glad they changed the rule
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


LOL, are you sure you even enjoy the game? Some of us are actually quite rational. No one's pushing for pro lax players. In fact, most of the kids I know who are ER weren't even gunning for it. My kid still enjoys the game, has a social life, has luckily escaped injury (and trust me, it would end quickly if the injury caused any issues down the road), gets stellar marks (grades come first and if his grades start to slip, he's got a 96, buh bye lacrosse), and found himself in a very lucky for him situation. Life sucts that way sometimes. . .there are many other things that didn't work out for him without a governing body coming to his "defense." But let's make sure that Big Brother NCAA stops what at the end of the day was a very minor problem for a "sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about."


This post is the perfect example of parents who only care about their own child and not the sport as a whole.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


We just took our 12 year old daughter out of her program after reading your advice. Thanks. Bullet dodged. God bless you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


LOL, are you sure you even enjoy the game? Some of us are actually quite rational. No one's pushing for pro lax players. In fact, most of the kids I know who are ER weren't even gunning for it. My kid still enjoys the game, has a social life, has luckily escaped injury (and trust me, it would end quickly if the injury caused any issues down the road), gets stellar marks (grades come first and if his grades start to slip, he's got a 96, buh bye lacrosse), and found himself in a very lucky for him situation. Life sucts that way sometimes. . .there are many other things that didn't work out for him without a governing body coming to his "defense." But let's make sure that Big Brother NCAA stops what at the end of the day was a very minor problem for a "sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about."


This post is the perfect example of parents who only care about their own child and not the sport as a whole.


He got his..What does he care about the sport in general. Who in their right mind thinks that recruiting 8th and 9th graders is better than recruiting 11th graders???

If you child is a good to great player than he is a good to great player at 11th grade too. Whats the problem if everyone is on the same recruiting page???
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


What you see in the mirror is why youth, HS, and college sports are good for everyone else.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??


You guys are great with hyperbole but not to great with making an actual argument....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??


You guys are great with hyperbole but not to great with making an actual argument....


If there was any validity to your original non-nonsensical statement and complete misinterpretation with what lacrosse people love about the game, than perhaps an argument could be stricken. However, that is not the case, and instead we are just making fun of you, at your expense, and at our pleasure. We can be given no credit at great hyperbole, rather, you just gave us what we call in the sports world, a softball.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??


You guys are great with hyperbole but not to great with making an actual argument....


Because there is zero argument to support the benefits of recruiting a 13 year old. Now there is an argument that the authorities should take away the kids from a parent like Todd Marinovich had. Some of you sound like that guy!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??


You guys are great with hyperbole but not to great with making an actual argument....


If there was any validity to your original non-nonsensical statement and complete misinterpretation with what lacrosse people love about the game, than perhaps an argument could be stricken. However, that is not the case, and instead we are just making fun of you, at your expense, and at our pleasure. We can be given no credit at great hyperbole, rather, you just gave us what we call in the sports world, a softball. [/quot

Wow did you just prove my point
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??


You guys are great with hyperbole but not to great with making an actual argument....


Because there is zero argument to support the benefits of recruiting a 13 year old. Now there is an argument that the authorities should take away the kids from a parent like Todd Marinovich had. Some of you sound like that guy!


https://www.si.com/vault/1988/02/22...om-infancy-to-be-a-top-notch-quarterback

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]no the joke was talking about an athletic offer with a 14 year old in a sport that doesn't generate any money and that no one cares about. Let the kids grow up concentrate on their grades and then make an informed college decision with a clue. You parents pushing for professional lacrosse players are INSANE. When your kid does play in college there will be 75 people watching the games 50 parents and 25 stragglers.

We know people 2 ACL injuries later that are still pushing their kids. For what? Atthis rate they wont even be able to walk to coach their own kids in 15 years


I know, right, really all youth sports should be cancelled. Fitness, health, sportsmanship, life lessons, better opportunities getting into schools, friendships, contacts, fun, are all trash. You could stump your toe and have it all go South. Good call, dude, what in the heck have all of us nuts been doing all of these years? Gym too, I mean tons of risk associated with gym, gotta stop the madness.


Shouldnt we all be wearing rubber helmets??


You guys are great with hyperbole but not to great with making an actual argument....


If there was any validity to your original non-nonsensical statement and complete misinterpretation with what lacrosse people love about the game, than perhaps an argument could be stricken. However, that is not the case, and instead we are just making fun of you, at your expense, and at our pleasure. We can be given no credit at great hyperbole, rather, you just gave us what we call in the sports world, a softball. [/quot

Wow did you just prove my point


Yeah he did, big time! An argument will be "stricken" hilarious!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
did anyone go to Summer genesis? were there college coaches watching the 2019 - 2020 age groups?? I hear all different things about the effects of this rule change- coaches giving no feedback or any info through the back channels (club directors) and some say its business as usual and coaches are still sending info through these proxies to recruits they are interested in.



Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
was at Genesis with 2020 team....saw a great # of college coaches in the reserved sideline seating set-up during 2019 games......so, yes, they were there in decent #'s...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
did anyone go to Summer genesis? were there college coaches watching the 2019 - 2020 age groups?? I hear all different things about the effects of this rule change- coaches giving no feedback or any info through the back channels (club directors) and some say its business as usual and coaches are still sending info through these proxies to recruits they are interested in.

Plenty of coaches were in attendance, that's the good news, the bad news is that all your LI 2020 teams lost to all the MD teams and one from FLA, in general a bad showing for LI.


Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Showcase donkey. Coaches don't care who won. Plus they don't stay for whole game
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Showcase donkey. Coaches don't care who won. Plus they don't stay for whole game


Hard to showcase much of anything when the other team has total control of the game...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
was at Genesis with 2020 team....saw a great # of college coaches in the reserved sideline seating set-up during 2019 games......so, yes, they were there in decent #'s...


fair enough. my daughter had a state finals game and couldn't play in the tourney. pleased to hear they are still watching this age group. not a ton of spots left. thanks for the info.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???



Doesn't matter if you are "committed" or not, no contact until September 1 or Junior year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???



Yes they are in the dark - no contact till Junior year
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???



Yes they are in the dark - no contact till Junior year


They can have contact - i.e. If they run into one another at tourneys/camps etc. but there can be no recruiting conversations. Small talk is not prohibited and this is what is happening which offers a bit of reassurance to those committed and those that were in the pipeline before the rule change.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The Cornell Coach spoke at the United Showcase on Friday. He said that the boys should focus on grades and enjoy lacrosse for 2 years. They can only speak to a player at a camp or showcase and only about their ability and what they can do to improve. No talk about the team, positions available, scholarships, campus life or anything else like that. They can also speak to a coach -HS or travel about you as a player and your ability. But not about your prospects about joining a team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The Cornell Coach spoke at the United Showcase on Friday. He said that the boys should focus on grades and enjoy lacrosse for 2 years. They can only speak to a player at a camp or showcase and only about their ability and what they can do to improve. No talk about the team, positions available, scholarships, campus life or anything else like that. They can also speak to a coach -HS or travel about you as a player and your ability. But not about your prospects about joining a team.


I've heard conflicting reports as to whether or not the new rules apply to DII and DIII. Clarification any one?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The Cornell Coach spoke at the United Showcase on Friday. He said that the boys should focus on grades and enjoy lacrosse for 2 years. They can only speak to a player at a camp or showcase and only about their ability and what they can do to improve. No talk about the team, positions available, scholarships, campus life or anything else like that. They can also speak to a coach -HS or travel about you as a player and your ability. But not about your prospects about joining a team.


I've heard conflicting reports as to whether or not the new rules apply to DII and DIII. Clarification any one?

According to the Showcase on Friday, it applies to all. Inside Lacrosse has the details according to them, and the coaches stressed that it is the players and the coaches responsibility to know the rules
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???



Doesn't matter if you are "committed" or not, no contact until September 1 or Junior year.



I saw a Coach openly conversing with his 2020 commit last weekend. So you are wrong sir.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???



Doesn't matter if you are "committed" or not, no contact until September 1 or Junior year.



I saw a Coach openly conversing with his 2020 commit last weekend. So you are wrong sir.


He's not wrong - coach can talk to the kid about the Yankees, but nothing about recruiting etc...so yes, the kid is in the dark about everything he really wants to talk to the coach about
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Question....If you have already committed to a college ( say MD ) . You were a Freshman last year prior to new rules.....Now raising Soph...

Are u allowed any contact with coach of MD college until Sept Junior year?? is this mean you are in limbo..but probably heard prior to new rule coach would honor or something like that.. Are the current recruits who are prior to Sept junior year basically in the dark until then???



Doesn't matter if you are "committed" or not, no contact until September 1 or Junior year.



I saw a Coach openly conversing with his 2020 commit last weekend. So you are wrong sir.


He's not wrong - coach can talk to the kid about the Yankees, but nothing about recruiting etc...so yes, the kid is in the dark about everything he really wants to talk to the coach about


Again, they can talk to them about their ability, and can recommend what they need to work on. They can talk about anything but the program, scholarships, availability of spots or likeliness of making the team or not.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ty says plenty of coaches at 2019 and fewer at 2020 games this past weekend. While the frenzy might be over, coaches are keeping an eye out.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Ty says plenty of coaches at 2019 and fewer at 2020 games this past weekend. While the frenzy might be over, coaches are keeping an eye out.


Keeping a eye out and having to make a commitment are two different things. College coaches can actually watch for a year or two of HS and then make a better informed decision now.

Of course Sept 1 the phone bills will spike at all colleges.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
UA 2020 Baltimore 44 game had a ton of college coaches on the sidelines. Crabfeast had a smattering at the 2020 games. Next summer for 2020s.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
what about the College Camps? will they be able to have the 10 minute in office meeting? anyone been to an on campus, one college camp yet this summer?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
What does it mean when a coach says that "Actively Recruit You"??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???



Relax
Seems he was only giving a opinion and a little fact that his son was recruited
I guess it is now not allowed to post your personal opinions
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


Easy there anger boy. Majority of people think it is a great hire for many reasons. Poster must know him thru his son..And thinks he is a great hire too?? What is you take ??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


Easy there anger boy. Majority of people think it is a great hire for many reasons. Poster must know him thru his son..And thinks he is a great hire too?? What is you take ??


Poster is you, ya jackass, and still nobody cares about who recruited your son. Coach is good, skip the personal take, it's irrelevant
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


Easy there anger boy. Majority of people think it is a great hire for many reasons. Poster must know him thru his son..And thinks he is a great hire too?? What is you take ??


Poster is you, ya jackass, and still nobody cares about who recruited your son. Coach is good, skip the personal take, it's irrelevant

There's always a jealous loser who posts anger. Don't let it bother you. Go BLUE!!!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


Easy there anger boy. Majority of people think it is a great hire for many reasons. Poster must know him thru his son..And thinks he is a great hire too?? What is you take ??


Poster is you, ya jackass, and still nobody cares about who recruited your son. Coach is good, skip the personal take, it's irrelevant


No , wasn't the original poster. Lotta anger over some observation of a coaching hire ?? Might want to lighten up there Francis!

The relevancy is that he may actually know him with some personal interaction ( majority of us know him thru TV and reading) . Struggle with reading comprehension in school??
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


Easy there anger boy. Majority of people think it is a great hire for many reasons. Poster must know him thru his son..And thinks he is a great hire too?? What is you take ??


Poster is you, ya jackass, and still nobody cares about who recruited your son. Coach is good, skip the personal take, it's irrelevant


You are the jackass, this entire site consists of "personal take".....in fact, "coach is good" is your personal take and irrelevant.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
[quote=Anonymous]Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


Easy there anger boy. Majority of people think it is a great hire for many reasons. Poster must know him thru his son..And thinks he is a great hire too?? What is you take ??


Poster is you, ya jackass, and still nobody cares about who recruited your son. Coach is good, skip the personal take, it's irrelevant


No , wasn't the original poster. Lotta anger over some observation of a coaching hire ?? Might want to lighten up there Francis!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IMtvnAmfuf8

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Sure dad. No anger, just don't see why it matters whether a new coach recruited some random persons son. Like I say, who cares
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure dad. No anger, just don't see why it matters whether a new coach recruited some random persons son. Like I say, who cares


I care.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Sure dad. No anger, just don't see why it matters whether a new coach recruited some random persons son. Like I say, who cares


I care.


I care too.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


What an ***… You're the type of guy at a family gathering were everyone rolls their eyes and walks out when you walk into a room.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


What an ***… You're the type of guy at a family gathering were everyone rolls their eyes and walks out when you walk into a room.


Sorry the truth hurts. Most recruits never see the field. Nobody cares. The difference is that I would never brag about my son at a family gathering, I let his performance speak for itself and it's others that brag that they know him.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


What an ***… You're the type of guy at a family gathering were everyone rolls their eyes and walks out when you walk into a room.


Sorry the truth hurts. Most recruits never see the field. Nobody cares. The difference is that I would never brag about my son at a family gathering, I let his performance speak for itself and it's others that brag that they know him.


Sure they do....Mr Ball....your kid quit playing after 7th grade req, but you keep coming on here pretending he is headed to UNC
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
is there a support group for all of those delusional parents who's kid doesn't make it like they bragged and believed when they were 7th and 8tth graders ? . time comes when you will face reality .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


What an ***… You're the type of guy at a family gathering were everyone rolls their eyes and walks out when you walk into a room.


Sorry the truth hurts. Most recruits never see the field. Nobody cares. The difference is that I would never brag about my son at a family gathering, I let his performance speak for itself and it's others that brag that they know him.


He wasn't bragging, you [lacrosse].

He was qualifying his statement by making it clear that he's actually interacted with this coach in the past.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Kevin Conroy new head coach at Michigan. Great choice. Wins start with a solid defense.


Great hire for Michigan, recruited my son at Maryland


No one cares about your son. Because he recruited your son that must make him a great hire???


What an ***… You're the type of guy at a family gathering were everyone rolls their eyes and walks out when you walk into a room.


Sorry the truth hurts. Most recruits never see the field. Nobody cares. The difference is that I would never brag about my son at a family gathering, I let his performance speak for itself and it's others that brag that they know him.


He wasn't bragging, you [lacrosse].

He was qualifying his statement by making it clear that he's actually interacted with this coach in the past.


Who the F cares? Dingus
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
who cares why they are getting money, it still goes towards their tuition and I would rather have a kid that gets athletic and academic money any day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
the guy is deluded. so he won't care how clearly its explained to him. the level of quality as a person is the use of calling someone the R word in an effort to insult someone who doubts his statement.
Sadly, one can never have a reasonable conversation with someone who finds calling it fitting to insult someone that way. saying that someone is mentally handicapped isn't really some sort of cool insult. you should thank God you aren't raising a child or have a sibling with any sort of serious health or mental challenge.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


Just got done reading back to the start of this particular thread and am wondering why someone who has a son who is an "all-American" is trolling the early recruiting forum.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


Just got done reading back to the start of this particular thread and am wondering why someone who has a son who is an "all-American" is trolling the early recruiting forum.



Got 2 more. Not too hard to figure out if you have half a brain. I like to read all I can about the sport, although this site is the bottom of the barrel, occasionally there is some good stuff on here. Glad I was able to clear that up for you. I've been around this sport long enough to know that it's extremely political, which my family is not. It is about getting out there, working hard, and staying humble. Prove yourself on the field, the rest will folllow. My two cents.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


If you read what I said, it was "nearly a full ride". My son pays room and board, that's it. I view that as close to a full ride. Why is everyone so argumentative on here. Seems like if you say something someone doesn't like, they assume you're lying. Believe what you want. My son was a top recruit, and that's what he gets.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


If you read what I said, it was "nearly a full ride". My son pays room and board, that's it. I view that as close to a full ride. Why is everyone so argumentative on here. Seems like if you say something someone doesn't like, they assume you're lying. Believe what you want. My son was a top recruit, and that's what he gets.


You get deeper and deeper into the web you have spun...A simple statement by a person whose son was recruited by Conry has you sinking deeper and deeper into the abyss!! Next you will be telling us he is on the Tewaaraton watch for next year! LOL
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


If you read what I said, it was "nearly a full ride". My son pays room and board, that's it. I view that as close to a full ride. Why is everyone so argumentative on here. Seems like if you say something someone doesn't like, they assume you're lying. Believe what you want. My son was a top recruit, and that's what he gets.


You get deeper and deeper into the web you have spun...A simple statement by a person whose son was recruited by Conry has you sinking deeper and deeper into the abyss!! Next you will be telling us he is on the Tewaaraton watch for next year! LOL


How am so sinking into the abyss. You are the example of exactly what is wrong with youth lacrosse. Sticking your sons irrelevant invitation to a prospect camp into a conversation about a new coaches appointment. My sons accomplishments, nor yours, if he actually has any, has no relevance to this. You truly have serious issues. Did someone run over your dog?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


If you read what I said, it was "nearly a full ride". My son pays room and board, that's it. I view that as close to a full ride. Why is everyone so argumentative on here. Seems like if you say something someone doesn't like, they assume you're lying. Believe what you want. My son was a top recruit, and that's what he gets.


You get deeper and deeper into the web you have spun...A simple statement by a person whose son was recruited by Conry has you sinking deeper and deeper into the abyss!! Next you will be telling us he is on the Tewaaraton watch for next year! LOL


How am so sinking into the abyss. You are the example of exactly what is wrong with youth lacrosse. Sticking your sons irrelevant invitation to a prospect camp into a conversation about a new coaches appointment. My sons accomplishments, nor yours, if he actually has any, has no relevance to this. You truly have serious issues. Did someone run over your dog?


Hilarious!! Still sinking! You are all over the place. Now anyone thinking that your over the top silly reaction to a simple statement has made everyone become " exactly what is wrong with youth lacrosse" ! Ok Socrates whatever you say.. LOL

" You truly have serious issues "......Might want to look in mirror.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The guy is a doosh.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Did everyone hear that Deluca is now the Deleware head coach? Great guy, he recruited my son, which makes him super qualified for this position.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Did everyone hear that Deluca is now the Deleware head coach? Great guy, he recruited my son, which makes him super qualified for this position.


Yes, he'll do well. Old news. Go BLUE.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Thoughts on UA Command and Uncommitted 2021 and 2020 as far as coaches go ? At least for the girls games the tents were packed with all the top programs ...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Thoughts on UA Command and Uncommitted 2021 and 2020 as far as coaches go ? At least for the girls games the tents were packed with all the top programs ...


The coach list is on the ualax website. Seems light compared to some of the recent bigger summer tournaments.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


If you read what I said, it was "nearly a full ride". My son pays room and board, that's it. I view that as close to a full ride. Why is everyone so argumentative on here. Seems like if you say something someone doesn't like, they assume you're lying. Believe what you want. My son was a top recruit, and that's what he gets.



You are saying that your son is receiving a full tuition athletic scholarship, IE, that funding is not comprised of any not athletic offering? If so, i am calling BS - that would basically be about a three-quarter athletic scholarship, and in the lax world they almost don't exist. Halves are rare enough, quarters or less are the norm.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
you are the same poster. by the way you should get your a$$ kicked for calling someone that name.


I think he's resorting to name calling and putting down the original poster because of him feeling slighted by Conry, since Maryland never even bothered going to his son's games.


You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. I would never put my sons name on here, but since you've inquired, I'm 100% sure he is at a level far above yours. He was recruited by every big time school and took a nearly full ride at the school of his choice. You read about him frequently in blogs. He is an All American and was also recruited by Conry. All of that has absolutely nothing to do with Conry's credentials to be the new Michigan coach. I'm pretty sure that he did not list that he recruited my son or yours on his resume. Get it?? I do like the and wish him much success with his new program.


Let's clarify something in the NCAA world: the term "full ride" is in reference to a 100% athletic scholarship - that's it! Yes, many SA will get additional monies to attend a school, and many SA may get non-athletic scholarship money because of their prospective SA status, but those monies DO NOT count towards the "full ride" statement, as it were. This is not just a matter of semantics - a SA who truly gets a "full ride" is more prestigious than an SA that may get a combination of athletic scholarship plus other funds that equal full tuition et al - a school choosing to allocate that much athletic scholarship money to one SA in all sports outside of football and basketball (a majority of their rosters can have full rides!) is significant. In men's lacrosse, there are very few, if any, 100% (or thereabouts!) athletic scholarships for any SA, so please stop using that term, because any lacrosse player that might actually get a full ride would be viewed as heads and shoulders above even the elite of the elite in the NCAA!


If you read what I said, it was "nearly a full ride". My son pays room and board, that's it. I view that as close to a full ride. Why is everyone so argumentative on here. Seems like if you say something someone doesn't like, they assume you're lying. Believe what you want. My son was a top recruit, and that's what he gets.



You are saying that your son is receiving a full tuition athletic scholarship, IE, that funding is not comprised of any not athletic offering? If so, i am calling BS - that would basically be about a three-quarter athletic scholarship, and in the lax world they almost don't exist. Halves are rare enough, quarters or less are the norm.


You just are not at the same level. Anytime I say on this site that my son receives 70% total cost athletic scholarship, I get called out for lying. The top kids get this kind of money. If you don't know, now you know. Work hard be great , and the $$$ will come
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I guess we'll be hearing about his son getting that full ride to Cornell. LMAO.
I've always been concerned about some of the ideas that the younger parents have about "full-rides" and packages. Now, I know where some of this originates.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess we'll be hearing about his son getting that full ride to Cornell. LMAO.
I've always been concerned about some of the ideas that the younger parents have about "full-rides" and packages. Now, I know where some of this originates.


News Flash= All the kids you saw playing in the senior Under Armour games last night are getting big time money in the range of 50-80%. Fact
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I guess we'll be hearing about his son getting that full ride to Cornell. LMAO.
I've always been concerned about some of the ideas that the younger parents have about "full-rides" and packages. Now, I know where some of this originates.


News Flash= All the kids you saw playing in the senior Under Armour games last night are getting big time money in the range of 50-80%. Fact


Fact: my niece played in the game last night and she is getting a lot less than 50% and there are more bodies on a men's roster. My daughter's offers were generally around the 30% range except for the Ivy.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Are you people delusional. A fully funded team has only 12.6 scholarships. No one is getting 50-80%. Unless and I mean unless you are financially broke or are the greatest players around. They very rarely give more than 30%. They have to divide that 12.6 scholarships amongst 40 players.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are you people delusional. A fully funded team has only 12.6 scholarships. No one is getting 50-80%. Unless and I mean unless you are financially broke or are the greatest players around. They very rarely give more than 30%. They have to divide that 12.6 scholarships amongst 40 players.


My son gets 70% One of his teammates gets 80% They are both top 20 recruits.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.


"secret grant money" - Sorry, BS flag is out and thrown. Those are the kinds of "secrets" that can get coaches fired. Plus, if you are so lose about it that you are willing to bring it up on a forum - it would have been mentioned at the wrong bar long ago.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.


"secret grant money" - Sorry, BS flag is out and thrown. Those are the kinds of "secrets" that can get coaches fired. Plus, if you are so lose about it that you are willing to bring it up on a forum - it would have been mentioned at the wrong bar long ago.



My kid doesn't get it but I know it's there at Cornell. A good friends kid goes there and does. My kid gets well over 40% athletic $ at an ACC
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.


"secret grant money" - Sorry, BS flag is out and thrown. Those are the kinds of "secrets" that can get coaches fired. Plus, if you are so lose about it that you are willing to bring it up on a forum - it would have been mentioned at the wrong bar long ago.



My kid doesn't get it but I know it's there at Cornell. A good friends kid goes there and does. My kid gets well over 40% athletic $ at an ACC


It is not "secret"- there is grant money and because a recruit needs to have a certain GPA/ ACT/SAT for the academic index- there is grant money that can be given to a student athlete that is wanted/needed for the institution and cannot afford a 70 grand tuition, which many cannot. Alum give lots of money to see "their" teams do well.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.


"secret grant money" - Sorry, BS flag is out and thrown. Those are the kinds of "secrets" that can get coaches fired. Plus, if you are so lose about it that you are willing to bring it up on a forum - it would have been mentioned at the wrong bar long ago.



My kid doesn't get it but I know it's there at Cornell. A good friends kid goes there and does. My kid gets well over 40% athletic $ at an ACC


It is not "secret"- there is grant money and because a recruit needs to have a certain GPA/ ACT/SAT for the academic index- there is grant money that can be given to a student athlete that is wanted/needed for the institution and cannot afford a 70 grand tuition, which many cannot. Alum give lots of money to see "their" teams do well.


That makes more sense now. There are certain requirements for receiving this grant money and it is therefore tracked and approved by the administration. It's not the "secret" wink wink - type money that would be illegal. Why was it referred to as "secret grant money" by the original poster? Is it because they did not know about it and thought that people just kept it a secret.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.


Complete garbage.." Secret grant money" . Is that the money that Big Foot and his family donate??

There is other money that is out there to pay for education besides the 12.6 money. Academic qualified money is out there everywhere as well as some other specific grant money from donors and state. No secret to it.. Just have to know where to look or be directed.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are you people delusional. A fully funded team has only 12.6 scholarships. No one is getting 50-80%. Unless and I mean unless you are financially broke or are the greatest players around. They very rarely give more than 30%. They have to divide that 12.6 scholarships amongst 40 players.


I know for a fact some D1 lacrosse kids get 50% (or more) athletic only money. I've been told that this is uncommon, but saying no one gets that much is false. You need to remember that some players commit with little to no money. Actually, I'm beginning to think a lot of players fall under the little to no money category, but parents don't like to share that information (it is, after all, no one else's business).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Are you people delusional. A fully funded team has only 12.6 scholarships. No one is getting 50-80%. Unless and I mean unless you are financially broke or are the greatest players around. They very rarely give more than 30%. They have to divide that 12.6 scholarships amongst 40 players.


I know for a fact some D1 lacrosse kids get 50% (or more) athletic only money. I've been told that this is uncommon, but saying no one gets that much is false. You need to remember that some players commit with little to no money. Actually, I'm beginning to think a lot of players fall under the little to no money category, but parents don't like to share that information (it is, after all, no one else's business).


What I have seen is people more than willing to tell everyone on here just how much they are getting from these colleges.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
The very elite kids in each age group (top 20) countrywide will get full tuition or 80 percent of full cost. True full rides are exceptionally rare but do exist. All that being said the average athletic scholarship is probably 10-20 percent.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
The very elite kids in each age group (top 20) countrywide will get full tuition or 80 percent of full cost. True full rides are exceptionally rare but do exist. All that being said the average athletic scholarship is probably 10-20 percent.


Some of them will, I know others getting about 50%. Depends on the school.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Full rides do exist but not at all schools. My kid has received offers ranging from 50% to Full ride and various offers in between. Even with various offers you still have to look at all the pro and cons of every school. Those partial offers may be more valuable than full ride when you take into account all the different factors.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
12.6 scholarships spread out over a 50 man roster makes me think a coach would have to be an absolute fool to give one player a 100% "full ride" with athletic money. There will be some other shiny penny in the next class and the class after that and the class after that....
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
12.6 scholarships spread out over a 50 man roster makes me think a coach would have to be an absolute fool to give one player a 100% "full ride" with athletic money. There will be some other shiny penny in the next class and the class after that and the class after that....


Exactly! Giving a "full ride" to one player out of every class of 8 to 10, does not add up. No matter how I try to work the numbers, even with the "new math" - I cannot do it. Even with round numbers of 40 players on the roster - the top player in each class getting the "full package" - leaves 8.6 packages to be divided up amongst 36 players per year. And to ensure a commitment from each of them (NLI) - you have to give a slice.
The numbers do not add up with the round number of 40 - how does it work with an average roster size of 50?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
12.6 scholarships spread out over a 50 man roster makes me think a coach would have to be an absolute fool to give one player a 100% "full ride" with athletic money. There will be some other shiny penny in the next class and the class after that and the class after that....


Exactly! Giving a "full ride" to one player out of every class of 8 to 10, does not add up. No matter how I try to work the numbers, even with the "new math" - I cannot do it. Even with round numbers of 40 players on the roster - the top player in each class getting the "full package" - leaves 8.6 packages to be divided up amongst 36 players per year. And to ensure a commitment from each of them (NLI) - you have to give a slice.
The numbers do not add up with the round number of 40 - how does it work with an average roster size of 50?


Not every program will do this, it will be a stretch for a program trying to land a top 25 kid in the nation, there are over 100 programs, so obviously it happens only for select few. Every school will approach this differently and you would be surprised to find out that many entering athletes will take very low offers just to be at a program or certain school, leaving larger sums for #1,2,3 key recruits each year. Recruit 10-12 per year, take care of your top three, the rest may never even see the field.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is all true but 100 percent full scholarships do happen but it may be 1 or 2 kids in the country. It all depends on the player and the needs of the program. For example a big time school with a new program may need a marque player to help build the image of a program and entice future recruits.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is all true but 100 percent full scholarships do happen but it may be 1 or 2 kids in the country. It all depends on the player and the needs of the program. For example a big time school with a new program may need a marque player to help build the image of a program and entice future recruits.


Um NO!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is all true but 100 percent full scholarships do happen but it may be 1 or 2 kids in the country. It all depends on the player and the needs of the program. For example a big time school with a new program may need a marque player to help build the image of a program and entice future recruits.


Um NO!


Says the Dad whose got offers for 10%. Be happy you're getting anything, kid will probably never see the field.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
This is all true but 100 percent full scholarships do happen but it may be 1 or 2 kids in the country. It all depends on the player and the needs of the program. For example a big time school with a new program may need a marque player to help build the image of a program and entice future recruits.


Um NO!


Says the Dad whose got offers for 10%. Be happy you're getting anything, kid will probably never see the field.


I never insulted your little princess, but since you went there I am comfortable saying YOU are full of sh*t. Your whiny punk got nothing, hence your statement about 100% rides. You have no clue about scholarships, because your son is not even being looked at because he sucks. Your statement proves your lack of knowledge on the subject. By the way brainiac, marque is spelled with two e's. Rip up your GED, it's worth as much as your lacrosse knowledge!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is more of a "general" recruiting question rather than an "early" recruiting question, but any advice from those who have insight would be much appreciated:

My son considers himself a two-way middie, but his defensive skills are far superior IMHO. I have heard that SSDM are an important position to college coaches BUT don't know whether they are specifically looking to recruit those players or whether they only will consider midfielders who can play both? In other words, would specializing in SSDM hurt or help from a recruiting standpoint?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
You need therapy ASAP
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Will there be a list of College Coaches at the U14 this year? Will they even be evalauating girls at the U14 anymore ?
To your question regarding SSDM's being a 'speciality' position, you are indeed correct, specifically at the Division 1 level. Very seldom will you find a two way midfielder as most coaches want to preserve their middies to either be an offensive middle or a defensive middle. Obviously when they are recruiting, they want to find a player who is capable of playing at both ends of the field in the event that they get caught in transition or another scenario but they will recruit players to serve on role. Also, because it is so competitive, even though a player may have been a stud on the offensive side of the ball, the coach may not think he is good enough to play and if he thinks he is better a defensive compared to the others, the coach will then make him strictly be a SSDM. Lastly, in 2008/2009, they made SSDM for the end of the year All-American honors for the Unterstein brothers at Hofstra. Good question.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Here's the facts. Full rides do not exist. Even IF your child got full athletics no offer covers room and boar. My daughter was the 2nd recruit in her class to a top 5 d1 school. She received 40% athletics and the same for academics. I paid the other 20% plus dorm which ranges from school to school but is around 13k


You should have asked for more. Every top recruit I know gets a lot except Ivies which give nothing, although some have secret grant money that they can be creative with.


THOSE are NOT athletic scholarships - how hard is it for you to comprehend that concept??!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
12.6 scholarships spread out over a 50 man roster makes me think a coach would have to be an absolute fool to give one player a 100% "full ride" with athletic money. There will be some other shiny penny in the next class and the class after that and the class after that....


Exactly! Giving a "full ride" to one player out of every class of 8 to 10, does not add up. No matter how I try to work the numbers, even with the "new math" - I cannot do it. Even with round numbers of 40 players on the roster - the top player in each class getting the "full package" - leaves 8.6 packages to be divided up amongst 36 players per year. And to ensure a commitment from each of them (NLI) - you have to give a slice.
The numbers do not add up with the round number of 40 - how does it work with an average roster size of 50?


I can't find it now, but there was a quote by the UVA coach a while back where he flat out said he wouldn't consider giving a full athletic scholarship or close to that to any player except maybe the highest rated player in the country provided that he was a position they were weak at.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I've had 3 go through the recruiting process. They were all at different levels. I can tell you that the highest amount of athletic money I have heard of is 80% of total cost. This amounts to about 5-10k out of pocket for the family depending on the school. As a previous poster suggested, these high amounts usually apply to specialists going to a program with need in this position (Goalie, FOGO, Left Attack). That said, a good scholarship is 25% or more, with most good players getting closer to the 25%. Ivy is a good way to go if you are a decent player with a low (under 200k) income. You can do as well as the higher athletic scholarships earners with the grants.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I think people need to ask which school is giving out the "full-ride".
Maybe we need to consider that maybe D's son is at the Naval Academy or West Point. Then we would need to apologize for jumping all over him and thank him for his son's service. If not at a service academy - then - as you were.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think people need to ask which school is giving out the "full-ride".
Maybe we need to consider that maybe D's son is at the Naval Academy or West Point. Then we would need to apologize for jumping all over him and thank him for his son's service. If not at a service academy - then - as you were.


Everyone who attends gets a "full ride". In fact, they are paid to attend.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think people need to ask which school is giving out the "full-ride".
Maybe we need to consider that maybe D's son is at the Naval Academy or West Point. Then we would need to apologize for jumping all over him and thank him for his son's service. If not at a service academy - then - as you were.


Except everyone at a service academy is going 100% cost free - most are not athletes, so equating a SA who goes to an academy as getting a "full ride" for athletics is really not accurate.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think people need to ask which school is giving out the "full-ride".
Maybe we need to consider that maybe D's son is at the Naval Academy or West Point. Then we would need to apologize for jumping all over him and thank him for his son's service. If not at a service academy - then - as you were.


Not Free. After graduation you owe them your time in service instead of money.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.


It happens. Just not often.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think people need to ask which school is giving out the "full-ride".
Maybe we need to consider that maybe D's son is at the Naval Academy or West Point. Then we would need to apologize for jumping all over him and thank him for his son's service. If not at a service academy - then - as you were.


Not Free. After graduation you owe them your time in service instead of money.


You mean you get a guaranteed competitive salary job with great benefits. That sounds more like a perk than something owed.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.


It happens. Just not often.


Speculation, can anyone name one current top collegiate player getting a full ride? I keep reading about how it happens without facts.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
back to a better topic. the concept of a true two way middie has faded in D1,2 or 3 . the bigger faster and stronger middies are invaluable as ssdm. watch a game and see the almost automatic opposing team goal when a small middie is stuck out there on defensive transition. high school different .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I can. I know of one female player. There might be a few others. Won't name them but know for sure. Was told directly by her coach. It is only second one coach has ever given in a long coaching career. The player is currently at the university playing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
As a non revenue (meaning does not bring + revenue to the school) each team is very limited in the number of lacrosse scholarships it can offer at 12.6. However, many schools have endowments, merit programs, specialty scholarships that are provided for a variety of reasons. I cannot speak for every D1 program but I have spoken to enough to know that it would be unwise for a program to offer one of the limited number of scholarships to one player. With current roster averages, I would think they would almost have to reduce a current players' scholarship to accomplish this. It would make far more sense to find money for a star athlete through one of the other programs at the school. Besides despite the MLL athletic scholarships are not the best type. Other scholarships are not tied to player performance and protect against injury. Speak to coaches early and they will assist in gaining preferential status in applying for other scholarships. In other words, good coaches will "find" money but a full ride bases solely on lacrosse not so much. There are household names in NCAA not getting full rides.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
12.6 scholarships spread out over a 50 man roster makes me think a coach would have to be an absolute fool to give one player a 100% "full ride" with athletic money. There will be some other shiny penny in the next class and the class after that and the class after that....


Exactly! Giving a "full ride" to one player out of every class of 8 to 10, does not add up. No matter how I try to work the numbers, even with the "new math" - I cannot do it. Even with round numbers of 40 players on the roster - the top player in each class getting the "full package" - leaves 8.6 packages to be divided up amongst 36 players per year. And to ensure a commitment from each of them (NLI) - you have to give a slice.
The numbers do not add up with the round number of 40 - how does it work with an average roster size of 50?


I can't find it now, but there was a quote by the UVA coach a while back where he flat out said he wouldn't consider giving a full athletic scholarship or close to that to any player except maybe the highest rated player in the country provided that he was a position they were weak at.


There you go - the UVA coach validated that full rides do exist. They are extremely rare but they do exist for the best of the best and even then it is very rare. I probably would not offer 100% to anyone, but they do exist. I know it for a fact but you are talking about maybe 1 in 1000 D1 players.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
12.6 scholarships spread out over a 50 man roster makes me think a coach would have to be an absolute fool to give one player a 100% "full ride" with athletic money. There will be some other shiny penny in the next class and the class after that and the class after that....


Exactly! Giving a "full ride" to one player out of every class of 8 to 10, does not add up. No matter how I try to work the numbers, even with the "new math" - I cannot do it. Even with round numbers of 40 players on the roster - the top player in each class getting the "full package" - leaves 8.6 packages to be divided up amongst 36 players per year. And to ensure a commitment from each of them (NLI) - you have to give a slice.
The numbers do not add up with the round number of 40 - how does it work with an average roster size of 50?


I can't find it now, but there was a quote by the UVA coach a while back where he flat out said he wouldn't consider giving a full athletic scholarship or close to that to any player except maybe the highest rated player in the country provided that he was a position they were weak at.


There you go - the UVA coach validated that full rides do exist. They are extremely rare but they do exist for the best of the best and even then it is very rare. I probably would not offer 100% to anyone, but they do exist. I know it for a fact but you are talking about maybe 1 in 1000 D1 players.


You're missing the point - the one-in-a-thousand scenario (which, BTW, is tantamount to "not existing") means that most, if not all, of the posters that make such claims about "full rides" here on BOTC are full of crap! This is absolutely the case because the number of claims of such made. One other clarification is that while the UVA coach said he would consider a full ride under those very rare occasions, he followed that statement up by basically saying that even then he probably wouldn't do it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I can. I know of one female player. There might be a few others. Won't name them but know for sure. Was told directly by her coach. It is only second one coach has ever given in a long coaching career. The player is currently at the university playing.

I know several womens players on full scholarship.Not going to give names. I haven't heard of any men's.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I think people need to ask which school is giving out the "full-ride".
Maybe we need to consider that maybe D's son is at the Naval Academy or West Point. Then we would need to apologize for jumping all over him and thank him for his son's service. If not at a service academy - then - as you were.


Not Free. After graduation you owe them your time in service instead of money.


You mean you get a guaranteed competitive salary job with great benefits. That sounds more like a perk than something owed.


You can look at it as a perk, but personally I don't want my kid possibly getting shot at. I do how we, appreciate that there are people out there that want to make that potential sacrifice!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.


It happens. Just not often.


Speculation, can anyone name one current top collegiate player getting a full ride? I keep reading about how it happens without facts.


I know of a few girls that are on full scholarship right now. Not going to name names as I'm sure they probably would prefer that their teammates not know who they are.

Don't know of any men that got full rides.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.


It happens. Just not often.


Speculation, can anyone name one current top collegiate player getting a full ride? I keep reading about how it happens without facts.


I know of a few girls that are on full scholarship right now. Not going to name names as I'm sure they probably would prefer that their teammates not know who they are.

Don't know of any men that got full rides.


I know of a couple boys. It is frowned upon to name the player and his scholarship. It is between the player and coach.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
We are talking Top 5 recruits - not Top 100.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I am not sure how this whole scholarship thing works but from what I can understand here is what I think.

The 12.6 is based on tuition not the cost of college like football and basketball where the student/athlete gets the full cost of college (tuition, room and board and books) . So even if a lax player got a "full Ride" it would be full tuition.

So a school with a $40,000 tuition and is fully funded would have $504,000 to spend for the entire team per year (based on a 5 year average) so they can go over one year but they have to go under another year to keep the rolling 5 year average at 12.6 x Tuition.

The three types of money available to most students are academic, athletic and need based (besides the various scholarships available) you can combine athletic and academic or need based and academic but you can not combine need based with athletic money.

Depending on the school you can have anywhere from 60 to 90% of all students receiving some money (need or academic or both) and I know of many D1 lacrosse players getting "Full Rides" and what I always took that to mean is that when you add the athletic money and the academic money you get close to equal the amount of tuition. They still have room and board and books that could be around $15,000 depending on the school.

If a lax kid was getting a full cost of college scholarship then it would count almost 1 1/2 of the 12.6 not 1 of the 12.6

The academies are not scholarship by any stretch of the imagination, the cost of going to West Point or Annapolis is far greater then the monetary cost of a non academy.

I would not be shocked if some of my points area off but I think I have the gist of it correct, please correct if I misspoke
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation


That kid lives on a reservation and has no gpa and is dirt poor. But what a baller! Of course, they found a way....its called life. Exceptions are made for the special people!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.


It happens. Just not often.


My son was ranked #1 at his position and got 60% athletic at an ACC
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not my kid but there are some who get "full rides" , or in other words athletic scholarships that cover the full cost of attendance .They are rare but it does happen . I know the girls side more so than the boys and scholarships that range from 50-70 percent of cost of attendance are reserved for top recruits but are not uncommon .


I have never heard of ONE single lacrosse recruit receiving Full ride, not one. And I know many kids who were top 100 recruits.



There have been people who have received a 'Full' Athletic Scholarship but those are very rare considering that IF a D1 program is fully funded with 12.6 scholarships (because not every D1 school like Villanova, Providence, etc.) they need to allocate those scholarships to a 4 year recruiting class with 8-12 recruits per year so in a perfect world, they would give quarter scholarships to 12 players per year which is equivalent to 3 full scholarships per year which would be almost the full 12.6 allowed in the 4 year period. But back to you saying that you NEVER heard of anyone receiving a full athletic scholarship including room and board, books, etc., you are incorrect. Contingent on a schools situation such as say Utah this year, they may very well need to offer a full scholarship to persuade a 2X All-American being recruited by every top 20 D1 school to attend Utah and that is precisely what happened to me when I was recruited by St John's in 2004. But I also have friends who went to Hopkins and Duke who received full scholarships and even paid for one of my friends, now a D1 Assistant Coach 5th year graduate degree because he was the best player in the country and helped Hopkins win a National Championship so they do exist but very rare so those out there, don't bet the house on your son getting a 'full boat' as they call it but anything is possible. Thought I would share that with you.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Again, no one can even name a school! I know a player who plays at a school who gets a full ride. What school? When I say too 100, there are Top 5 recruits in there. Again, not ONE got a full ride. These are players at UVA, PSU, and UNC. Not one of these players got close to a full ride. Closer to 30-40%
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I am not sure how this whole scholarship thing works but from what I can understand here is what I think.

The 12.6 is based on tuition not the cost of college like football and basketball where the student/athlete gets the full cost of college (tuition, room and board and books) . So even if a lax player got a "full Ride" it would be full tuition.

So a school with a $40,000 tuition and is fully funded would have $504,000 to spend for the entire team per year (based on a 5 year average) so they can go over one year but they have to go under another year to keep the rolling 5 year average at 12.6 x Tuition.

The three types of money available to most students are academic, athletic and need based (besides the various scholarships available) you can combine athletic and academic or need based and academic but you can not combine need based with athletic money.

Depending on the school you can have anywhere from 60 to 90% of all students receiving some money (need or academic or both) and I know of many D1 lacrosse players getting "Full Rides" and what I always took that to mean is that when you add the athletic money and the academic money you get close to equal the amount of tuition. They still have room and board and books that could be around $15,000 depending on the school.

If a lax kid was getting a full cost of college scholarship then it would count almost 1 1/2 of the 12.6 not 1 of the 12.6

The academies are not scholarship by any stretch of the imagination, the cost of going to West Point or Annapolis is far greater then the monetary cost of a non academy.

I would not be shocked if some of my points area off but I think I have the gist of it correct, please correct if I misspoke


Almost positive the 12.6 scholarships is full tuition plus books, room and board. Some colleges use "cost to attend" which is a little bit more than tuition/books/room&board. But, my kid's offers were always presented as a percentage of everything, not just a percentage of tuition. Merit money added on top of athletic money definitely can happen at some schools and can bring a player to getting a "full ride" or close to it. I suppose it's possible some parents say their kid has a full ride because the partial scholarship they get happens to cover all of tuition, leaving them with room and board. We all know that parent who likes to spin things to try to impress people. But, most consider a full ride to be 100% of tuition, book, room and board.

Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Ugh - the term "full ride" was meant to indicate a full athletic scholarship - whether it's football and basketball where it's 'soup to nuts' or lax and other non-revenue sports where it's tuition only, either way it was meant to be indicative of the level of athletic scholarship offered. If you start to conflate academic and other funds offered, you have watered down the term and disparaged every SA that actually got a "full ride", as you've now cheapened them. Words and phrases have meanings - stop changing those to suit your desired viewpoints!
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If someone gets a "full athletic scholarship" they also receive an annual "stipend" from the school to pay for incidental small living expenses. I believe this is the case at all NCAA Division 1 schools and it applies to all sports. The stipend varies per school and can be anywhere from 1,500 to 6,000. That is the easiest way to differentiate a full athletic scholarship from any other claim of full scholarship. Next time someone tells you they are getting a "full athletic scholarship" ask them how much the stipend is.
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Stipend??? What school is giving athletes additional money above and beyond tuition, room and board, books which is a full scholarship ?
Giving money for anything other than the above is against NCAA rules. Unless the athletes are working a job for the athletic department they can not receive any money directly written to them for any reason. Money can never go from the school directly to any athlete

Also all athletic scholarships are not guaranteed academic are. Do the work
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people just making things up...
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Before you put your foot in your mouth why don't you google "athletic scholarship stipend". Full scholarship kids actually get money above and beyond full costs (no work required). The rule went into effect a few years ago.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
This is all so subjective. Grades, cost of school, athletic ability, position, grad year. So much factors in. You shouldn't worry about or compare your child to their friend or teammate. My daughter stepped down an athletic tier to play for a school that's a great academic fit for her. It made her a top recruit rather than a middle or lower recruit at a top 10 school and it came with a very nice athletic offer (40%) plus a bit of academic dollars too. Freshman year went really well. She did well academically. She also played a lot and put up some really good numbers. We're all looking forward together upcoming year. Don't think about full rides, top recruits, status schools. Look outside the box too.you. At be pleasantly surprised.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Stipend??? What school is giving athletes additional money above and beyond tuition, room and board, books which is a full scholarship ?
Giving money for anything other than the above is against NCAA rules. Unless the athletes are working a job for the athletic department they can not receive any money directly written to them for any reason. Money can never go from the school directly to any athlete

Also all athletic scholarships are not guaranteed academic are. Do the work



The part about the stipend is true. My son has an athletic scholarship for a percentage of the total cost of the school. The total cost includes spending money, It's what they base the award on. Also, you are wrong about it not being guaranteed. My son's athletic scholarship is guaranteed for 4 years. This is in writing on his NLI.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation

Ok I will spell it out. I know for a fact that there are several women's players receiving Full ATHLETIC scholarships!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Stipend??? What school is giving athletes additional money above and beyond tuition, room and board, books which is a full scholarship ?
Giving money for anything other than the above is against NCAA rules. Unless the athletes are working a job for the athletic department they can not receive any money directly written to them for any reason. Money can never go from the school directly to any athlete

Also all athletic scholarships are not guaranteed academic are. Do the work



The part about the stipend is true. My son has an athletic scholarship for a percentage of the total cost of the school. The total cost includes spending money, It's what they base the award on. Also, you are wrong about it not being guaranteed. My son's athletic scholarship is guaranteed for 4 years. This is in writing on his NLI.


Correct on all accounts. And yes full rides, all inclusive do exist. I feel people who are going through or have been through the process believe they or their kids are the best and if anyone should have been offered it should be them, therefore because their experience they did not see that offer , how can it exist? Whatever you want or need to tell yourself to feel better.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation

Ok I will spell it out. I know for a fact that there are several women's players receiving Full ATHLETIC scholarships!


Okay, where? I can say I know the Easter Bunny and Santa! where do they go? You can put things in caps all you want, doesn't make it true! Need FACTS, I'm not calling you out, just have not seen anything that points to this anywhere.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Again, no one can even name a school! I know a player who plays at a school who gets a full ride. What school? When I say too 100, there are Top 5 recruits in there. Again, not ONE got a full ride. These are players at UVA, PSU, and UNC. Not one of these players got close to a full ride. Closer to 30-40%


What part of this don't you understand? People aren't going to out kids that get full rides. And naming the school may make it easy to guess in many cases.

They do exist. Even if you don't want to believe it. Absolutely very rare. But for the right player at the right school it happens. In most cases, it's not the power schools that are giving them out. The ones i know were to schools more in the 10-25 ranking range.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Again, no one can even name a school! I know a player who plays at a school who gets a full ride. What school? When I say too 100, there are Top 5 recruits in there. Again, not ONE got a full ride. These are players at UVA, PSU, and UNC. Not one of these players got close to a full ride. Closer to 30-40%


What part of this don't you understand? People aren't going to out kids that get full rides. And naming the school may make it easy to guess in many cases.

They do exist. Even if you don't want to believe it. Absolutely very rare. But for the right player at the right school it happens. In most cases, it's not the power schools that are giving them out. The ones i know were to schools more in the 10-25 ranking range.


Wrong, The ones I am referring are top 1-10 schools. I am not going to name schools or kids.I am just giving information that might be help someone with a kid who might warrant that type of scholarship. Coaches always start lower (why wouldn't they) . Most parents are afraid to push for more. If they really want you,money won't be an issue.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Again, no one can even name a school! I know a player who plays at a school who gets a full ride. What school? When I say too 100, there are Top 5 recruits in there. Again, not ONE got a full ride. These are players at UVA, PSU, and UNC. Not one of these players got close to a full ride. Closer to 30-40%


What part of this don't you understand? People aren't going to out kids that get full rides. And naming the school may make it easy to guess in many cases.

They do exist. Even if you don't want to believe it. Absolutely very rare. But for the right player at the right school it happens. In most cases, it's not the power schools that are giving them out. The ones i know were to schools more in the 10-25 ranking range.


Wrong, The ones I am referring are top 1-10 schools. I am not going to name schools or kids.I am just giving information that might be help someone with a kid who might warrant that type of scholarship. Coaches always start lower (why wouldn't they) . Most parents are afraid to push for more. If they really want you,money won't be an issue.


If it is a Public school file a FOIL and get the facts not just speculation
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I am a person who bases his opinions and statements on facts. Without them I have doubts. What part of that don't you understand?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
While a full ride may or may not exist, it does not apply to the masses. Tired of reading just a hand full of people trying to make a case for something that only applies to a small handful of student athletes. Time to move onto a new subject folks. Looking forward to the G8 tourney this weekend. All very good teams.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely
wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation

Ok I will spell it out. I know for a fact that there are several women's players receiving Full ATHLETIC scholarships!


Okay, where? I can say I know the Easter Bunny and Santa! where do they go? You can put things in caps all you want, doesn't make it true! Need FACTS, I'm not calling you out, just have not seen anything that points to this anywhere.


Let's see you do it in reverse . Please tell us the name of a player that was a top ten recruit in the country and what school they are at that is giving them less than 75 percent the cost of attendance .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
We have been around a long time and known some very good players going to big time girl schools like UNC Syracuse and MD and we don't know anybody that got more than 60%. We know a bunch great players that got 30-50%
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely
wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation

Ok I will spell it out. I know for a fact that there are several women's players receiving Full ATHLETIC scholarships!


Okay, where? I can say I know the Easter Bunny and Santa! where do they go? You can put things in caps all you want, doesn't make it true! Need FACTS, I'm not calling you out, just have not seen anything that points to this anywhere.


Let's see you do it in reverse . Please tell us the name of a player that was a top ten recruit in the country and what school they are at that is giving them less than 75 percent the cost of attendance .


and how about you give your name and what your salary was last year? Why does everyone think other people's personal business should be broadcast on the internet?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I highly doubt even the top 5 recruits were offered full scholarships it is just not the way it works currently. That does not mean that these players are not getting a full ride they must be able to find other ways to fund the education that do not come from the athletic department. It is true that the math makes full scholarships near impossible and hurt the team. Why would any coach do this? A school works around this with academic, financial, merit, alumni, endowment scholarships. Consider this year's top HS player based on the eye ball test from the UA game: Tehoka Nanticoke. He is currently at IMG. Either his parents are extremely
wealthy or they offer a scholarship. Albany has money set aside for a variety of reasons, his application is the first submitted and get's the first approval. This is not a violation in any way of NCAA rules. This is how it works. IVY league schools offer zero in Athletic scholarships yet always find the best Lacrosse Players. Good players use LAX to find the other money that is out there.


Finally someone who understands how it works! Coaches can find money in a variety of different places depending on each kids specific situation

Ok I will spell it out. I know for a fact that there are several women's players receiving Full ATHLETIC scholarships!


Okay, where? I can say I know the Easter Bunny and Santa! where do they go? You can put things in caps all you want, doesn't make it true! Need FACTS, I'm not calling you out, just have not seen anything that points to this anywhere.


Let's see you do it in reverse . Please tell us the name of a player that was a top ten recruit in the country and what school they are at that is giving them less than 75 percent the cost of attendance .


and how about you give your name and what your salary was last year? Why does everyone think other people's personal business should be broadcast on the internet?


I know of one getting 50% and another getting 75%, those are the highest I know of (top 10 recruits)
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
How about all of you grab a beer enjoy the ride your kid is on and shut up
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Even if everyone agrees that yes, in fact there are some sort of full ride or close to it for a very select few.
Ok? now, the reality remains the same. its for very, very few . The yapping that know nothings attach to this concept is the silly part. just because they may exist it doesn't mean that because your child may be on a top lacrosse club and / or highly ranked school program you one of those chosen. The type who gets the most money is quite exceptional and its readily apparent when they are on even a weak squad.... gently saying you will be paying. More reality.... even many of the best players on top h.s. programs very often have an extremely difficult time getting playing time in college. that goes for D1, 2, or 3.

if you dare....ask around...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Even if everyone agrees that yes, in fact there are some sort of full ride or close to it for a very select few.
Ok? now, the reality remains the same. its for very, very few . The yapping that know nothings attach to this concept is the silly part. just because they may exist it doesn't mean that because your child may be on a top lacrosse club and / or highly ranked school program you one of those chosen. The type who gets the most money is quite exceptional and its readily apparent when they are on even a weak squad.... gently saying you will be paying. More reality.... even many of the best players on top h.s. programs very often have an extremely difficult time getting playing time in college. that goes for D1, 2, or 3.

if you dare....ask around...


That's the point I made when this started days ago - the number getting a full athletic scholarship for lax is damn close to zero for all intents and purposes. And applied to the small population on this board, that means it woudl apply to almost no one here, yet there are numerous claims to the contrary, personal or knowledge thereof, which I why I call BS on most, if not all of them.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
"and how about you give your name and what your salary was last year? Why does everyone think other people's personal business should be broadcast on the internet?"

That's exactly the point , just because we know people who have a full athletic ride does not mean we are willing to name them . It's rare but on the girls side it does happen .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%
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I bet K Miller is getting a full ride or close to it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


So the second one you mentioned is the best offensive player in the country in his year, yes?

And he's only getting 80% to play for a so-so team, one that's only made the playoffs three times in its entire history. I imagine they guaranteed the money for all four years?
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


So the second one you mentioned is the best offensive player in the country in his year, yes?

And he's only getting 80% to play for a so-so team, one that's only made the playoffs three times in its entire history. I imagine they guaranteed the money for all four years?



Big Ten guarantees all scholarships for four years. I would not consider a top 10 team so-so team. You don't really seem like you have a good grasp on college lax or the recruiting process in general.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Great, unknown speculation for mystery players at mystery universities. Thanks for proving my point for me. Hold on, I hear sleigh bells, have to go outside to see if it's..................................
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I bet K Miller is getting a full ride or close to it.


A couple other girls are getting full rides from LI. from MC and Mt. Sinai
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


So the second one you mentioned is the best offensive player in the country in his year, yes?

And he's only getting 80% to play for a so-so team, one that's only made the playoffs three times in its entire history. I imagine they guaranteed the money for all four years?


Big Ten now guarantees all scholarships for 4 years, Part of the Northwestern football unionization negotiations.
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Big Ten guarantees 4 years "as long as athletes maintain good standing in school, within the athletic department and in the community."

You have a bad attitude, you are not putting the time in, etc.

There is nothing guaranteed about that...
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


You heard! Exactly, no basis in fact. Third party statement. No one has proven a single fact to prove these huge sums of supposed money. Most won't even offer a school.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


You heard! Exactly, no basis in fact. Third party statement. No one has proven a single fact to prove these huge sums of supposed money. Most won't even offer a school.


It sounds like the only proof that would be satisfactory for you would be the actual financial statement for the SA from the school - anything less than that is going to be a third party statement, unless the actual parent posts. Even then, this is an anonymous board, so how is that going to happen. You are essentially asking for the impossible in that regard. Even if someone were to post an SA's name and/or school, how can you validate that what they said is true or not. And, FTR, I think most if not all lax SAs are getting very little money relative to overall tuition costs - I am just pointing out your ridiculous standards for requested proof on an anonymous board.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
why not just call the A.D. at one of those colleges?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
There are no guarantees with Athletic scholarships. Been through it with my son and two nephews who all played D1.(Fairfield, OSU and Georgetown ) Kids who did not perform were cut in their third and second years and lost their athletic money. Told my last son to get great grades because if you stop playing lax in college academic money does not go away.

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


You heard! Exactly, no basis in fact. Third party statement. No one has proven a single fact to prove these huge sums of supposed money. Most won't even offer a school.


It sounds like the only proof that would be satisfactory for you would be the actual financial statement for the SA from the school - anything less than that is going to be a third party statement, unless the actual parent posts. Even then, this is an anonymous board, so how is that going to happen. You are essentially asking for the impossible in that regard. Even if someone were to post an SA's name and/or school, how can you validate that what they said is true or not. And, FTR, I think most if not all lax SAs are getting very little money relative to overall tuition costs - I am just pointing out your ridiculous standards for requested proof on an anonymous board.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Just my 2 cents if you are the top recruit at your position, not talking about top 20 recruits. Most schools will try too give u money that matches a state school. So my kid school was around 57,000 a year the cost for him was around 25,000 a year so more then half over 4 years. I know other kids got zero.
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So true. Even when the scholarship is lost, does the student stilll want o be at that school? I see a lot of transfers happen.
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My son is a pretty good player that plays D, but is not a great player and is getting $5,000 to attend a mid level D1 school that costs $46,000. HC told us some kids get nothing! I know of another kid that plays D and will be attending a comparable mid level D1 school. He was offered nothing from two schools of which the other school was a Big Ten school.
I also know a top 50 kid (middie) commited to a top 5 program and he was only offered 25%. With an average roster size of 45 kids, 12.6 scholarships would equate to .28 scholarships per kid. So for every kid that is getting 50% there is a kid that is getting little to nothing. For the elite kid that is a rarity and getting 75% - there are two kids getting little to nothing. In hindsight - spend the money on tutors! But it has been fun and enjoy the ride! Only a select few get to move on to play at the next level. 71 D1 teams x 45 kids = 3,195 D1 players approximately in this great land of ours!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I already said I knew a player from PSU and OSU. Both received far less than 75 %. Both received in the range of 30% or less. Both top 10 players from Long Island. As was said not naming kids, looking for a school, cant even get that.


One kid from LI is getting 70% there and the top superstar 10th grader I heard 80%


You heard! Exactly, no basis in fact. Third party statement. No one has proven a single fact to prove these huge sums of supposed money. Most won't even offer a school.


It sounds like the only proof that would be satisfactory for you would be the actual financial statement for the SA from the school - anything less than that is going to be a third party statement, unless the actual parent posts. Even then, this is an anonymous board, so how is that going to happen. You are essentially asking for the impossible in that regard. Even if someone were to post an SA's name and/or school, how can you validate that what they said is true or not. And, FTR, I think most if not all lax SAs are getting very little money relative to overall tuition costs - I am just pointing out your ridiculous standards for requested proof on an anonymous board.


Not true, I indicated that the name of a school would suffice, only to read that someone "heard" someone is getting 80%. As stated no facts, just rumors and third party statements! I stated that I know two very highly recruited students at PSU and OSU who received closer to 30%. Not naming them, but I personally know the dads and the young men. That's factual, I heard right from the guy paying the tuition.
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Not outing myself with club, college or any identifying details, I know this guy is looking for specific info so he won't be happy with this answer, who cares. My kid received 100%. Only kid in history to ever receive 100% ? Maybe, I don't know for sure, that would make us feel very special, but I doubt it. I have heard from others I know personally the same offers, true or not, I don't know, but based on my experience there definitely seems to be schools and coaches willing to do this and even some excellent academic and excellent lacrosse schools. The trick is getting that offer from the actual school your kid really wants to attend and play for, not always the case, that's when the coaches need to use the full ride leverage to land players.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I was talking to a women coach that has coached at fully funded programs 12.6 scholarships on the major D1 top 10, top 40, and top D2 program.

But a general rule, super star players 50% scholarship, top players 25% athletic money. She also mentioned that there is a lot academic money if you have the test numbers and grades. Once committed stop putting your money into training and instead put it in SAT prep. High score could mean more money than working on you that behind the back shot.

I know most people already know this.

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not outing myself with club, college or any identifying details, I know this guy is looking for specific info so he won't be happy with this answer, who cares. My kid received 100%. Only kid in history to ever receive 100% ? Maybe, I don't know for sure, that would make us feel very special, but I doubt it. I have heard from others I know personally the same offers, true or not, I don't know, but based on my experience there definitely seems to be schools and coaches willing to do this and even some excellent academic and excellent lacrosse schools. The trick is getting that offer from the actual school your kid really wants to attend and play for, not always the case, that's when the coaches need to use the full ride leverage to land players.


you must be in horrible financial straits. I get that your child got 100% but most money is need based. you think that a wealthy family gets that sort of deal? ask a garden city family with an all American.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not outing myself with club, college or any identifying details, I know this guy is looking for specific info so he won't be happy with this answer, who cares. My kid received 100%. Only kid in history to ever receive 100% ? Maybe, I don't know for sure, that would make us feel very special, but I doubt it. I have heard from others I know personally the same offers, true or not, I don't know, but based on my experience there definitely seems to be schools and coaches willing to do this and even some excellent academic and excellent lacrosse schools. The trick is getting that offer from the actual school your kid really wants to attend and play for, not always the case, that's when the coaches need to use the full ride leverage to land players.


Where is he going Albany? SUNY Schools are now all tuition free!!

Well done!

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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not outing myself with club, college or any identifying details, I know this guy is looking for specific info so he won't be happy with this answer, who cares. My kid received 100%. Only kid in history to ever receive 100% ? Maybe, I don't know for sure, that would make us feel very special, but I doubt it. I have heard from others I know personally the same offers, true or not, I don't know, but based on my experience there definitely seems to be schools and coaches willing to do this and even some excellent academic and excellent lacrosse schools. The trick is getting that offer from the actual school your kid really wants to attend and play for, not always the case, that's when the coaches need to use the full ride leverage to land players.


Where is he going Albany? SUNY Schools are now all tuition free!!

Well done!



Tuition free my [lacrosse]. If you can afford travel lacrosse for your kid with all the costs associated with it, chances are you're not eligible for the free tuition.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I was talking to a women coach that has coached at fully funded programs 12.6 scholarships on the major D1 top 10, top 40, and top D2 program.

But a general rule, super star players 50% scholarship, top players 25% athletic money. She also mentioned that there is a lot academic money if you have the test numbers and grades. Once committed stop putting your money into training and instead put it in SAT prep. High score could mean more money than working on you that behind the back shot.

I know most people already know this.

The scholarship range above - 50% for superstars, 25% for other top players or somewhere in between - is exactly what our club coach told me and our experience during our daughter's commitment process.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not outing myself with club, college or any identifying details, I know this guy is looking for specific info so he won't be happy with this answer, who cares. My kid received 100%. Only kid in history to ever receive 100% ? Maybe, I don't know for sure, that would make us feel very special, but I doubt it. I have heard from others I know personally the same offers, true or not, I don't know, but based on my experience there definitely seems to be schools and coaches willing to do this and even some excellent academic and excellent lacrosse schools. The trick is getting that offer from the actual school your kid really wants to attend and play for, not always the case, that's when the coaches need to use the full ride leverage to land players.

Originally Posted by Anonymous
Not outing myself with club, college or any identifying details, I know this guy is looking for specific info so he won't be happy with this answer, who cares. My kid received 100%. Only kid in history to ever receive 100% ? Maybe, I don't know for sure, that would make us feel very special, but I doubt it. I have heard from others I know personally the same offers, true or not, I don't know, but based on my experience there definitely seems to be schools and coaches willing to do this and even some excellent academic and excellent lacrosse schools. The trick is getting that offer from the actual school your kid really wants to attend and play for, not always the case, that's when the coaches need to use the full ride leverage to land players.


Again, IF (and that's a big "If"!) he is receiving 100%, is that referring to a "full ride" (100% athletic scholarship) or a mix of athletic scholarship and other funding from the school? If the latter, please stop because the whole original debate is about full rides and lax.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
plus no one gives a ratsass
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.


No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.


No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.

Full rides 100% exist. But due to the limited money its just not something coaches or families receiving them advertise
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.


No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.


No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .


1. Explain how my comment is obsessive??
2. The use of the word "essentially" is key - do full rides exist?? Yes, but they are so far and few between, they essentially don't exist - get it?? That's not ignorance - it's knowledge of the English language and the nuances thereof.
3. The number of posts on BOTC that claim firsthand or secondhand knowledge of full rides are sufficiently large enough that there is no way they are accurate given #2 and the sample size.
4. My oldest isn't even out of MS, so I've got no dog in the fight, so "NO", it's got zero to do with my kids.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.


No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .


1. Explain how my comment is obsessive??
2. The use of the word "essentially" is key - do full rides exist?? Yes, but they are so far and few between, they essentially don't exist - get it?? That's not ignorance - it's knowledge of the English language and the nuances thereof.
3. The number of posts on BOTC that claim firsthand or secondhand knowledge of full rides are sufficiently large enough that there is no way they are accurate given #2 and the sample size.
4. My oldest isn't even out of MS, so I've got no dog in the fight, so "NO", it's got zero to do with my kids.


IDK about LI but the Baltimore lacrosse community is very small and everyone knows everyone. So the fact that many people are saying they know girls that got 100% isn't that surprising. I personally know 2 girls that were offered 100%. One of which was offered 100% by two different schools. I will say that the one she turned down was Vanderbilt. Not saying where she is because it's no one's business who she is and what package she received.

The other posters may be referring to the same 2 girls that I know. I doubt it, so I think there are more occurrences of this than people want to believe. Are they rare? Sure.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.


No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .


1. Explain how my comment is obsessive??
2. The use of the word "essentially" is key - do full rides exist?? Yes, but they are so far and few between, they essentially don't exist - get it?? That's not ignorance - it's knowledge of the English language and the nuances thereof.
3. The number of posts on BOTC that claim firsthand or secondhand knowledge of full rides are sufficiently large enough that there is no way they are accurate given #2 and the sample size.
4. My oldest isn't even out of MS, so I've got no dog in the fight, so "NO", it's got zero to do with my kids.


IDK about LI but the Baltimore lacrosse community is very small and everyone knows everyone. So the fact that many people are saying they know girls that got 100% isn't that surprising. I personally know 2 girls that were offered 100%. One of which was offered 100% by two different schools. I will say that the one she turned down was Vanderbilt. Not saying where she is because it's no one's business who she is and what package she received.

The other posters may be referring to the same 2 girls that I know. I doubt it, so I think there are more occurrences of this than people want to believe. Are they rare? Sure.


Curious, what age group? Reason i ask, more kids playing now compared to even 5yrs ago...whole country playing.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.




No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .


1. Explain how my comment is obsessive??
2. The use of the word "essentially" is key - do full rides exist?? Yes, but they are so far and few between, they essentially don't exist - get it?? That's not ignorance - it's knowledge of the English language and the nuances thereof.
3. The number of posts on BOTC that claim firsthand or secondhand knowledge of full rides are sufficiently large enough that there is no way they are accurate given #2 and the sample size.
4. My oldest isn't even out of MS, so I've got no dog in the fight, so "NO", it's got zero to do with my kids.


Your comment is not obsessive it's your repeated comments that are. You just cannot let it go and have continually commented making you seem obsessive.

Actually your nonsense use of essentially just shows you come from a weak position. Full rides exist , many of us have first hand knowledge that they do exist .

The fact that your oldest is in MS tells me you have not been through the process and are thus just ignorant about the facts surrounding athletic scholarships.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Finally someone is trying to move to age base
NXT Sports
https://nxtsports.com/blog/entry/nx...to-adopt-us-lacrosse-age-segmentation-p/
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.




No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .


1. Explain how my comment is obsessive??
2. The use of the word "essentially" is key - do full rides exist?? Yes, but they are so far and few between, they essentially don't exist - get it?? That's not ignorance - it's knowledge of the English language and the nuances thereof.
3. The number of posts on BOTC that claim firsthand or secondhand knowledge of full rides are sufficiently large enough that there is no way they are accurate given #2 and the sample size.
4. My oldest isn't even out of MS, so I've got no dog in the fight, so "NO", it's got zero to do with my kids.


Your comment is not obsessive it's your repeated comments that are. You just cannot let it go and have continually commented making you seem obsessive.

Actually your nonsense use of essentially just shows you come from a weak position. Full rides exist , many of us have first hand knowledge that they do exist .

The fact that your oldest is in MS tells me you have not been through the process and are thus just ignorant about the facts surrounding athletic scholarships.


Well said! Why would a person w a kid in middle school act as if they have been through the process? This site can be helpful in the recruiting process. The most important thing is to evaluate your kid properly and know where they stand. Full rides DO exist! If your kid is a top 50 recruit and Not getting 75% on the girls side, you probably should be asking for more! on the boys side 50-60% for a top 50 recruit.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I played two years of college lacrosse with a small athletic scholarship offered the first year. I did not do the right things and did not keep it. However now as a parent, I would much rather have my son receive a 10% athletic scholarship and 90% merit scholarship (obtained with the assistance and recommendations of a lacrosse coach) that get a fully funded 100% athletic scholarship. This is a "no brainer." If your son or daughter is truly a top recruit and you have options, try to go for "other" sources as that is a much better deal.




No argument with your point, but it has nothing to do with the preponderance of claims of "full rides" that essentially do not exist.


Dude you really are an obsessive loser. Show me the post that says full rides are common.Have never met anyone that thinks it's a common occurrence. For you to say they don't exist is just as ignorant. Cannot speak to the boys side but on the girls side it's rare but it happens .People like you just can't believe that there are coaches out there who wanted other kids more than yours . A few schools who have given out a full ride covering the total cost of attendance , USC, Florida . There are others . Lower that number to 75 percent the cost of attendance and it's much more common .


1. Explain how my comment is obsessive??
2. The use of the word "essentially" is key - do full rides exist?? Yes, but they are so far and few between, they essentially don't exist - get it?? That's not ignorance - it's knowledge of the English language and the nuances thereof.
3. The number of posts on BOTC that claim firsthand or secondhand knowledge of full rides are sufficiently large enough that there is no way they are accurate given #2 and the sample size.
4. My oldest isn't even out of MS, so I've got no dog in the fight, so "NO", it's got zero to do with my kids.


Your comment is not obsessive it's your repeated comments that are. You just cannot let it go and have continually commented making you seem obsessive.

Actually your nonsense use of essentially just shows you come from a weak position. Full rides exist , many of us have first hand knowledge that they do exist .

The fact that your oldest is in MS tells me you have not been through the process and are thus just ignorant about the facts surrounding athletic scholarships.


I have only posted two times about this topic - you're arguing with multiple people!
Full rides existing at a fraction of percent is exactly why the use of "essentially" is completely appropriate - the numbers are 100% on my side of the argument.
I have a handful of friends whose sons all now play college lacrosse and what they went through when the recruiting process was happening - I am also directly involved with our local community lacrosse program, so exposed to more information about additional local lax SAs and their ongoing recruiting experiences, as well as being involved in a ongoing committee discussions with the school district on how to better involve the HS guidance department in the recruiting process for prospective SAs for all sports in our district.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
Wanted to know how the first year event Blatant Exposure did? Was going to send a kid there but didn't know how it would be. Anyone there that can give feedback?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: Early Recruiting -
it was great. my kid got about 15 D1 full ride offers.
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