I think this forum has turned into a shining example of what happens when parents get nuts over youth sports. Just let the kids play when they can and enjoy the sport...parents need to step back and make sure the conflict and debate that is supposed to be "about the kids" isn't spoiling the fun that the love of the game is supposed to be.
Youth lax has turned into a soap opera with over involved parents as the actors and sad to say, but too often the players and the sport become background static that is only there to produce more drama for the parents to quip about. Just let the kids play, play to win and enjoy the time they have with their teammates. Its not about you its about them.