We did not buy my daughter her own gear until like 8th grade. Before that town club let her use gear the Stx girls like light blue is sized for girls. Goalies are a commodity, so not really tryouts just like where they are on a depth chart. Definitely agree about goalie gloves they are a MUST, if you need small size Stx makes size small(10 inch). The Unequal brand (bright green) chest protector is great for girls molds and is less restrictive than ones with plastic plates. Have Mr. Wanderful string a head makes all the difference in throwing!