The girl you keep talking about was on the youngest level TG team .As stated previously she has sisters that play on older teams making the choice to play for a TG team easy.In your opinion she should just sit at those tournaments and watch her sisters play even thou she is talented enough to play .You seem to be the type of parent that gets jealous anytime a child of exceptional ability shows you your own childs limitations.Must make you angry when some kid starts ahead of your own child.Stop worrying about everyone else and worry about your own kids.