Maybe take responsibility for your kid not making the team because she has been outworked by the other kids who have dads who dont make excuses such as coaches taking their players and tell their kids to work harder.[/quote]

Outworked? Nope. If you play for certain teams you have an advantage. That’s how it is here. It’s not the girls issue it’s the adults they need follow the rules and let the impartial chips fall where they may if it was done that way I doubt most people would have an issue