No, only a narcissistic, immature person would think you only do things if there is a clearly defined rule telling you to do it. There's no rule demanding people be kind, charitable, brave, caring, sympathetic, charitable, fair, etc. Mature adults can recognize right from wrong without having to consult a rule book. Shallow, weak individuals like yourself just search for the most convenient excuse to defend your selfish decisions. Always looking for the loophole that benefits you. All the excuses won't change the simple fact that every holdback just couldn't cut it at their own age level. That has to be a painful admission for both parents and kids alike. There just has to be a cringe of embarrassment every time he steps on the field. There goes my "winner". What a joke!!